Please. stop humiliating shy guys. We are trying to make telepathy work.
@tooshietom8 жыл бұрын
lol
@thefireslime-mc10418 жыл бұрын
so far so good
@saalar36048 жыл бұрын
hahaha biIkuI sahih kaha he
@Dright11208 жыл бұрын
Rahul Kumar were 65% there boys, were getting somewhere
@falcongamer588 жыл бұрын
Telepatechnology in processing... Not done yet...
@petrajosh28 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy and, let me tell you: this girl have nailed it in every point. Believe her, she's not wrong aboug shy guys at all.
@falcongamer588 жыл бұрын
Shy guys? The mask guys in Super Mario games? Or us?!
@limcl8 жыл бұрын
+FalconGamer58 //FG58 us
@nas79107 жыл бұрын
Yosh Gar the first one girls do and I also so do and am a guy just won't to see if it's true
@nas79107 жыл бұрын
and am not shy I got a girl
@falcongamer587 жыл бұрын
+God son ...disease
@jaydeereveron61408 жыл бұрын
This is hard I'm a shy girl and I like a shy guy!! 😫😫
@Sparkonme20128 жыл бұрын
ohhhh too bad
@kennethf.42828 жыл бұрын
+Hin Tak Choi 😂
@salvulcano98758 жыл бұрын
Well, if you tell him you like him, he'll probably say yes, because us shy guys have pretty low self esteem. They'll think your the only girl that will ever like him, so he'll say yes. Even if he doesn't like you that much, you'll boost his self esteem, and he might like you in the future.
@jaydeereveron61408 жыл бұрын
+Crazymaniac626 thank you
@artsypoptart7218 жыл бұрын
omg same\(^~^)/
@remedy978 жыл бұрын
Boys... We've been exposed.
@redskanto13468 жыл бұрын
REMEDY Quick Hide!!!
@falcongamer588 жыл бұрын
+RedsKanto don't just hide,do something! Or else they'll find us,and when they do,our skins will become like tomatoes!
@eoincondon8488 жыл бұрын
SKETCH
@limcl8 жыл бұрын
yep we have been exposed are we all the shy types
@falcongamer588 жыл бұрын
+trolol lol lol lol lol lol yes I'm shy
@SuptricLucid1018 жыл бұрын
As a shy guy myself I approve of this. I mean come on, I can't count how many times I've blushed, looked away, and done every single thing when a really cute girl talked at me or barely looked at me. Seriously all shy guys do that lol.
@samsmaglick63898 жыл бұрын
that's so true
@colagames31648 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy. She was spot on with most of these facts XD
@MatthewPowell5098 жыл бұрын
I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me or not I've seen 13 signs a shy girl likes you and 13 signs a girl likes you
@SuptricLucid1018 жыл бұрын
NASCAR24Fan unfortunately shy girls are more complicated lol
@noahbeaver86538 жыл бұрын
Yep, I've done all of the things she said
@TotalDbag247 жыл бұрын
Oh shit.........They've figured us out. RUN!!!!!! HIDE!!!!!
@m.mt.75657 жыл бұрын
TotalDbag hahaha😂😂
@ShinyCharmander7 жыл бұрын
NO! THEY FOUND ME! HELP
@Jiggalohoeibit7 жыл бұрын
TotalDbag we're gonna die they found us nope
@lostspiritwolf7 жыл бұрын
Im coming
@lloyddoesgaming92806 жыл бұрын
RUN!!! TO THE INTROVERT CAVE
@SnoozeTheRecluse8 жыл бұрын
Shy guys just wanna be loved
@Magnai-cc4uu6 жыл бұрын
DareDog101 truu 😭
@chatpunz10115 жыл бұрын
I’m in love with a shy guy at my school. Well he’s only shy around me. And to the shy guys in this world I think are cute.
@benlindsay95668 жыл бұрын
talking from a shy guys experience I would rather a girl approach me when I am not with my friends as I then have less things to be shy about and I will open up like a beautiful flower. peace and love always :)
@chiefbeef24758 жыл бұрын
me too
@oskar9b6417 жыл бұрын
Ben Lindsay i Really feel you Im Really shy to and when your alone with your Crush you Can Really open up :3
@benlindsay95667 жыл бұрын
Thanks nice to find like minded people in this world ☺ I find the only way to get passed the shyness is to ignore the shyness and focus on the beauty in front of you, well it has helped me anyway 😆
@ethanp89027 жыл бұрын
but I'm a little bit shy to talk to my crush when I'm alone with her cause I start to blush and sweat and start messing up my wording and I start getting light headed
@benlindsay95667 жыл бұрын
Ethan the best as do I, well I use to anyway until I stopped focusing on what I was going to say and listen to what they say and then use the feeling of shyness to relax in front of someone who makes me feel that way but in its simplest term it is mind over matter if you don't mind then it doesn't matter, hope this helps peace and love always 😊
@Ghodum8 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy, and I didn't know it was this obvious... Well fuck...
@Michael-xr8qp8 жыл бұрын
Same
@mixedmusictrash70528 жыл бұрын
Your comment made my day. Thank you!!
@DC-xi3wj8 жыл бұрын
Same man I was just laughing at how obvious I made this for her lol
@thijsbeentjes40088 жыл бұрын
exactly this, lol
@thijsbeentjes40088 жыл бұрын
wouldnt know how to do 11 though
@Plutopluto948 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy, this video is 100% accurate
@agarrazor41098 жыл бұрын
yeaaah
@Zinqies8 жыл бұрын
Plutosquad yup lol
@abigailthesloth2486 жыл бұрын
I hope it is.
@TheOfficialPastry8 жыл бұрын
If you like a shy guy, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM. He will immediately feel more comfortable, and feel like he finally can't mess up
@영음수7 жыл бұрын
TheOfficialPastry I'm shy too
@ItssRaquell5 жыл бұрын
i'm not shy, but idk i'm scared he'll reject me or something. idk what to do.
@uppilioms92344 жыл бұрын
Surely, yes a relationship is FULL SECURE and gets strong. 😄
@user-dp3yb6qn5z8 жыл бұрын
hate that I'm in love with a guy who is super shy because I'm shy to so we never talk😐😑😕
@ilovemichaeljoejacksononin8248 жыл бұрын
DaKid same here
@billybobjoe84657 жыл бұрын
DaKid Yep.. opposite for me I'm the dood 😅
@c00kiesincreams567 жыл бұрын
DaKid lol same
@scarletdilone26166 жыл бұрын
SAMEEW
@kenziemarie3946 жыл бұрын
SAMEEE
@backroombasics35318 жыл бұрын
Is it this obvious? Well I'm screwed
@romanalexander85288 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same thing bruh
@hermergur8 жыл бұрын
DarthBonaparte 2025 XD
@falcongamer588 жыл бұрын
Well I'm screwed too,so...nothing left to do in order to defend my identity *looks at a car picture*
@yu.kilele7 жыл бұрын
DarthBonaparte 2025 Me too I guess... Idk now cause he told me he like someone else...
@theorignalmartian12617 жыл бұрын
Yeah I don't think I'm ever gonna talk to her
@tylerandjosh77328 жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert. I can only talk online with confidence, and I'm a guy. I can already tell this girl is telling the truth.
@himanshi05843 жыл бұрын
Same for me but i am a girl.
@foleyjack7 жыл бұрын
If you want a shy guy to like you, YOU have to approach him, he will never ever approach you. Another HUGE problem is pressuring him, for example asking if he likes anyone. This puts so much stress on him because he will be too shy to say yes or he will be afraid to say no because then he will be afraid that you won't talk to him again, even though he probably has a crush on you. Another massive problem is asking him out when he knows pretty much nothing about you. Most shy guys will want to get to know you first. I have been in countless situations where a girl asked me out and I was just too uncomfortable to answer and will had a bad impact on our relationship. So DO NOT DO THAT. You want to ease your way in and do not rush. Don't be freaked out if you catch him staring, you should be delighted! This means he is interested and wants to be with you but he will most likely not approach you, you have to do the approach! I hope this helps you girls out. All this information came from an extremely, extremely shy guy :)
@piqachuvbtsarmy92616 жыл бұрын
How about if i x get much time to talk to him and we just start talking. However, i cannot see him anymore to talk more to each other after two times as he is away and he might not be in the same workplace next year. I might made a wrong move. I asked for his permission to save his number and then 1 week later i try to text him. He do respond. The conversation is going well pretty okay but still through text i can't really figure out. After that, last week, we talked again when we saw each other. Before rest time runs out, i quickly asked him if he is okay if we (me and him) get together and watch movie sometime. He x make excuses like "oh, i usually busy, x have time" instead he said let him know when and he told me what he is usually free. Sunday last week, i am not someone who likes to go out suddenly so i text him and plan the watch movie thing on this Sunday. We planned the venue and time, also the movie but its not confirm yet, both of us need to reconfirm the plan as other things might get in the way. After that, the conversation don't really end there, we texted and replied each other (not every 5 minutes though) until well its time to sleep. We x texted or replied each other every 5 minutes but the communication is going pretty okay until its time to sleep. He is not much of a texter so we x text every single day. I think i made a wrong move when i asked him to get together and watch movie as u said its too much but at that time, i was thinking: "i only have the chance to talk to him for two times more at work and that is it. If i don't asked him to get together and watch movie or just eat and talk, i might missed my chance of getting to know more about him". Note: I do realize that it could be more than friends (dream come true though) or just friends but still at that time i thought "asked him to hang out or get together or u missed the chance to even be friends with him and he seems like a guy who have his own personality instead of repeatedly copying others". I might have made the wrong move to asked him out so that i don't missed the chance to know him more as friend or more (if more, then a dream come true) but i don't know either in this case where i only get to see and talk to him two times at work and then he would in different workplace.
@dailykimcore5 жыл бұрын
gloobi this actually helped me thx 😄
@navaehw.27505 жыл бұрын
yay, thank you!
@NaiKzOfficial5 жыл бұрын
Bro, you nailed it with this comment! I'm in the exact same boat as you bro! Either a girl I like doesn't talk to me because she thinks I don't pay attention to her or they strong arm it and actual ask some personal stuff without trying to just straight up talk.....
@chatpunz10115 жыл бұрын
gloobi but the thing is. I’m shy too.
@TheOstahaps8 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy and I like a shy girl. Goddamn.
@Jono999DERP8 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain
@billybobjoe84657 жыл бұрын
Pitsa Puma Omg...100% true
@caleb62487 жыл бұрын
Pitsa Puma well your stuck in a shit hole then
@brianaortiz52117 жыл бұрын
Then you need to be brave and go after what you want
@ethanchristobal90437 жыл бұрын
Pitsa Puma
@juliepearlferguson43677 жыл бұрын
HE's shy + I'm shy = DOOMED
@salmanehsan14893 жыл бұрын
im shy too
@bigguy1303 жыл бұрын
Sounds like the story of my life so far.
@silveriorebelo80453 жыл бұрын
friends or family often help in those cases
@Manon-sn1zs3 жыл бұрын
@@silveriorebelo8045 how ?
@sogeek7973 жыл бұрын
SAME
@Arek_R.8 жыл бұрын
Things gets really confusing when both are shy xD
@oliverb40078 жыл бұрын
My secrets have been revealed LOL
@zoemcguire87428 жыл бұрын
😂
@billybobjoe84657 жыл бұрын
DerpyDog G Ikr
@oliverb40077 жыл бұрын
My crush knows that I like her:(
@zoemcguire87427 жыл бұрын
DerpyDog G dang how'd she find out
@oliverb40077 жыл бұрын
My frikin friend told her:(
@guybubblefish24388 жыл бұрын
As a very "shy guy", I can tell you that this video is 99% truth. I could relate so much to this video because I live 12/13 of these signs. There's a STUNNING girl in my school (I'm a junior in HS btw) and she is indescribably gorgeous. Girls watching this: Do what Lizzie says here, smile at us, let us know that we're not awkward looking idiots so we can feel more comfortable around you and as a person in general. I was staring at this girl I mentioned earlier in class once and she smiled back somewhat and was flirting a bit and I was in a million times better mood and had much more confidence for the entire week.
@F1rstResponder7 жыл бұрын
bro I mean girls might be thinking the same thing. I'm in a weird spot with this one girl who p much drives me crazy (my friend told me she was interested but i still didn't feel confident and she pretty much knew), but i think were both shy of eachother. Im struggling with coping and at this point idk if shes over it or not. i just know im losing my shit sometimes over it. my point is like if we can't always do something like that, how can we expect them to?
@thecloutypotato_11267 жыл бұрын
Is it only me who is attracted to shy guys because they would treat a girl right 🤗💗
@imjustaturkey99136 жыл бұрын
TheCloutyPotato _ u gay bro?
@MarikaTheEmpress5 жыл бұрын
So True
@user-ty2fd5nu6u5 жыл бұрын
You can't be sure of that tho.
@kentku53958 жыл бұрын
Advice for everyone,this is a quote. "if you don't express your feelings,nothing will change"
@wokenonsense2569 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy and this is soo true lol. How do you even know this. It's like your in my mind 😂
@EF2000Typhoon7LWA9 жыл бұрын
She Knies everything... But i thougth the same:D
@EF2000Typhoon7LWA9 жыл бұрын
*knows
@joshuahart84819 жыл бұрын
Luke Dredge Ikr! Like literally everything in this video is true! How does she figure this stuff out? I thought us guys could be pretty slick ;)
@frosty93929 жыл бұрын
Luke Dredge SHE'S A WITCH!! Pretty impressive how accurate she is though. Like holy crap. And weirdly enough her knowing, makes me more nervous now lol
@yaelissuper_cootheloser2049 жыл бұрын
That what I thought.too
@Shadow98418 жыл бұрын
This....... This. Thank God someone understands. .-. I swear I CANNOT approach. I talk with other girls just fine but her? I can barely even stand close to her. Much less start a conversation.
@davidmccalla67998 жыл бұрын
Have the same problem bud.
@tooshietom8 жыл бұрын
+HearMeSoar I just avoid and go to drastic measures to avoid do anything she's said
@zoemcguire87428 жыл бұрын
😂 But why?
@Shadow98418 жыл бұрын
Cause why not? XD
@zoemcguire87428 жыл бұрын
+Shadow9841 lmao damn got me there
@alicebelle30428 жыл бұрын
Whenever he stares at me, I glared at him... Because I don't want him to know I like him. Damn it, he must think I'm a bitch LOL
@MyTimelord118 жыл бұрын
stoooooop. if he's staring he likes you! :) so act like you like him back!
@Sparkonme20128 жыл бұрын
ohhh, but thats the reason I left that girl, I reli thought she is a bitch, but her friends like her, idky
@Sparkonme20128 жыл бұрын
yeah, you probably need to explain yourself, otherwise he is seeing someone else
@scottyy19918 жыл бұрын
If you glared at me I would just call you cute and then blush because I'm a more shy person but I often say the things I think when I am around my crush and yes I am a guy
@issy42478 жыл бұрын
yup
@DavidrtyGame10 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy and this video is nearly 100% accurate. The only thing is I can't entirely trust a girl saying she likes me since one year a girl had her friends tell me she liked me, so I told them to tell her I liked her, but it turned out to be a joke that they made fun of me the rest of the year for.
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
I was in the same situation.
@DavidrtyGame10 жыл бұрын
RandomHelpingGuy Sorry to hear that man. I've been having it better now and I really like this girl, and she shows signs she likes me. But yeah I am sorry to hear that man. It was absolutely horrible back then for me.
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
HolyMolyArtichoke I'm glad it's working out for you :)
@DavidrtyGame10 жыл бұрын
RandomHelpingGuy Thank You very much. I appreciate that! I hope everything works out well for you too! :)
@DavidrtyGame10 жыл бұрын
***** Sorry to hear about all that. I've met a lot of different kinds of girls and sluts like that are definitely common, lol. I don't know what to say to help you because I really am not the one to ask but it can be difficult to deal with such things and the best bet I would say would to just have great actual friends to help you pull through along the way.
@hue67758 жыл бұрын
Is this girl a fucking wizard!?!?!?!?
@reeceoo8 жыл бұрын
hfdg gfhgth I think she is xD
@anahi.1i7 жыл бұрын
XD
@moanapooh97264 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@YdamAaj8 жыл бұрын
i hope no one at my school watches this video
@Dabeastboy-xu9ux7 жыл бұрын
Kotaku same
@davey58674 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that most girls don't know english at my school because it's a malay school so they won't search shit like this on youthbe
@benlindsay95668 жыл бұрын
As a shy guy I have been friend zoned so many times I have lost count it is not fun as I am a caring person and would just like someone to SEE me for me so I can be the lover I know I am. :) also the best video about shy guys I also like to to get to know someone before I make a comitment as I do not want to mess either one of us about. :)
@gracieragsdale89398 жыл бұрын
what school do you go to?
@sfappetrupavelandrei7 жыл бұрын
You realize he's probably 40 (as most of men who comment in this video are), right? :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))
@izzyd45609 жыл бұрын
How does a shy girl and a shy guy communicate if they're so shy to talk to eachother! help im a shy girl and i like this shy guy
@pastaranger8 жыл бұрын
+Izzy D They don't, unless one gets a random ass burst of bravery.
@sourlemon28428 жыл бұрын
Im also a shy girl who maybe has feelings for a shy boy im going like ur comet
@fnafToyChica8 жыл бұрын
same
@happynapkins81858 жыл бұрын
+Izzy D im a hockey basketball player hugely crushing on a shy basketball player. I'm gonna die so hard. but listen here, he's the most shy dude ever. just look at him. if he likes you, he will like, always stare at his face lol
@jessieb55728 жыл бұрын
same
@JDAM40k8 жыл бұрын
its fear of rejection mostly
@polbravo74408 жыл бұрын
+Give Your Meat a good ol' Rub! this video is a BIT special
@tobos89098 жыл бұрын
That and the feeling that you have more chance of witnessing the birth of a unicorn before your crush likes you... Struggles
@tchindadatchin71367 жыл бұрын
MISSION IS OVER!!! I REPEAT MISSION IS OVER!! WEVE BEEN EXPOSED!!!
@youstinktv7 жыл бұрын
Olympus has fallen, Olympus has fallen
@hazmaticx19946 жыл бұрын
+Young Pappy LOL! kill the douchbags!😂
@davey58674 жыл бұрын
ABANDON SHIP! ABANDON SHIP!!
@kingdiablo8413 жыл бұрын
Abandon all hope
@tomduke129710 жыл бұрын
also a shy guy here, yes that video pretty much tells it how it is. just the part about aproaching a shy guy: "while he is with his friends" is not what i would recommend. maybe its just me, but i allways had less trouble in a 1 on 1 situation, no other people looking or listening in. and of course text based communication. just ask to go see a movie or for a coffee, it doesnt matter he´ll say yes, just make sure its a 1on1 activity, no partys, bars or disco.(although alcohol might loosen up a shy guy, shy people arent party animals and therefore often cant handle it well) it might take some 1on1 talking to thaw him out and most likely he will not initiate any firsts: first touch, firts hug, first kiss and so on. all these steps are ... you could say "forbidden" until you do them first, give explicit permission or very strong(unmistakingly strong) signal.
@knightace200210 жыл бұрын
hahahaha one reason i was the first to kiss my ex gf lol :D she felt my heart and i felt hers (it was beating really fast) and she said to "kiss me" so i did, little did i know she wanted to make-out with me O.O she initiated that one first because i've only done the peck kisses beforehand. but yes for a shy guy it is a "forbidden" thing until you either tell him to countless times and he does it (he will not do anything he's unsure about unless he feels comfortable about it as well) or the girl initiates it first (this is most likely why girls are often confused by shy guys hahaha they never initiate the first of anything without hints or being told to lol).
@samguy720910 жыл бұрын
i agree with you. if he is introverted it is better for 1 on 1 conversation but if he is extroverted then with his friends is fine to him. :) ~from a shy guy
@exiledjew164210 жыл бұрын
Yes! This completely explains me!
@EagleGamingEvolved10 жыл бұрын
Indeed whe nim around a girl i like i mvery nervous and shy wich is why sometimes i cant look at her in the eye i get to nervouse and shy.and then our conversation ends when i get to nervouse.
@FearHaIv10 жыл бұрын
I never talk to girls that I like, and never like the girls that I talk to..... And this is killing me.....
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling bro. (insert meme here)
@deadraslayeeer10 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@akrupin495810 жыл бұрын
Damn right
@Psanii10 жыл бұрын
CAN I GET A FUCKING AMEN?
@cwazygirl943610 жыл бұрын
Why can't y'all guys just tell us u like us it's not that hard ok we'll maybe a lil but seriously :/ man up
@SIG44210 жыл бұрын
I am a shy guy, I am just terrible if love and ladies are involved. Mostly because of my heavy autism and terrible past of being bullied all the time (unfortunately, that turned into plain ignoring me mostly now). But I can confirm many of the things you mentioned before you started. 1. Yup, stare and look away is very much a thing for shy guys. Thinking about her is also a big part of that, in my case so much that I can't really do much at all for days to come. Speaking to her will be near impossible because I simply freeze up. And this number 1 point you are making is not only counting for class, but also for any time in his life. 2. No eye contact is indeed a good one going with number 1, although I try to teach myself to at least try. 3. Avoiding talking to you, well in my case that is more a matter of my autism. I know i often say things that I mean with the best of intentions yet fail because the other thinks I am saying something bad. So best to shut up and not try to mess up. Shy guys in general, well it still is likely he will try to avoid talking to you. 4. Super nervous talking to her is a no brainer really, it is basically freezing up and not knowing what to do. Only thing a shy guy wants is to represent himself properly, only to get scared he will mess up and ruin the attempt or the conversation. In my case so much that I can't even talk normally or not at all. Using the internet can get some training in though, you can learn easily then how to talk to girls. Although I do need to say, personally I am someone that does not open his mouth much. I'm pretty silent... lol 5. See point 4. However the 'wait until his friends are around him' part, well I do not have many friends at all and the ones I do hare are mostly either married or to busy with work. So I am usually all alone, which may make things very scary if the girl I like tries to talk to me. 6. As mentioned before, yes the internet is a place where a shy guy can actually come to life a lot better and quicker. So yes Facebook, text messaging etc. will be a excellent thing to watch for. Personally I do not use text messaging, only have that thing to call in emergencies. But eventually you will need to talk in real life, it may take a while for him to adjust and get comfortable with talking to you. This is not because he hates you or anything, it is just because he is a shy guy. Give him time, and yes it can take a long time. But if you really like him, just take that time and support him in that. 7. Accidentally touching him, yeah that can get him nervous alright. Basically the same idea as in cartoons when a hot girl touches a guy and he melts from the embarrassment. Actually to be more precise, it will be because he goes in his head 'yes! she touched me! Oh sh*t, what should I do now??'. He will simply try to figure out what to make of it, it can easily make him sweat, make him more shy, make him look away even more or get a lot more silent around you, make him run for the bathroom suddenly, etc. 8. the 'stalking' thing as you call it, well yeah that's true. Although it may seem creepy to some, it is actually a way for him to try to discover more about you while at a save distance and without having to talk to you. You do need to exclude the fact that you and him may be in the same team, club or such things. 9. Awkward & abrupt confrontations, yeah that's true. Best for that is indeed to act normal. 10. Yup, true. 11. Becoming friends with best friend, meh... Yeah tried that once but it backfired so hard that I lost a lot of friends thanks to that. Including the girl I liked. So personally I won't be trying that again. 12. Asking directly is very common to end up badly, a shy guy tries to avoid answering 'yes' to you. And indeed he will try to ask why or tries to dodge the question. Simply because he is scared of you making fun of him. If you like a shy guy, just tell him and it will turn out a lot better for both of you. 13. Also true. A shy guy usually has this idea that you are way out of his league, so you finding out that he likes you will basically be a door that closes and locks for him. This meaning that he thinks you are off limits and he will try to hide and shy away even further. If you are interested, then you should tell him. That's the only way for him to keep that door open and not shy away further. Not flirting with other guys if you like the shy guy, yes that's very true. A shy guy will only see doors closing if you do that and eventually not try at all, it will even hurt him badly if you do flirt with others. It may seem selfish that he does not want you to flirt with other men, but actually you WILL hurt his feelings badly if you do. Best try to avoid it as much as possible and stay loyal to him. Let me put it in another perspective, if you like a guy so badly and he likes you, but still flirts with other girls. Wouldn't you feel hurt? Making sure the shy guy knows you like him is a very valid point, he will need 100% before he asks you out. And you know that will likely never happen unless you ask him first. After that, with a positive date in his eyes, he may end up asking you out for the next date. Just make sure you let him know that the date was very positive for you, give him confidence and eventually he will try harder to get back to you. You do need to make sure you either call him or text him the next day and thank him for the positive date. Make sure he gets that extra confirmation that you liked being on that date with him. Even if the date did not go as well as hoped. A shy guy does not get as many girlfriend opportunities as any other guy, keep that well in mind. He will need you to encourage him and make him feel wanted in a good way. A shy guy is most likely a guy with a golden heart, meaning he will not date you for the sex but for the whole package. He wants to be with you because he actually does love you, not because he only wants sex. He will never try to hurt you in any way, he is more a caring person who tries to make sure you are all okay. This meaning both in safety as trying to make you happy. He does not flirt with other girls, it may seem sometimes that he does but actually just being friendly. A shy guy does not want to create enemies, there for tries to stay neutral or be friendly towards other people. He will try to help you out as much as he can, or offer support if he can not. He is the total opposite of a macho guy, he is usually rather lonely and often does not have as many friends as you do. He does not make friends with everyone just because they are friendly towards him, he makes friends only by long term interaction. Love between you both is save, he really is not flirting with any other girl. Also he is more likely to give you presents at random, flowers for example. It does not have to be from a store, a shy guy is actually pretty romantic and even is willing to go out and find you some pretty flowers. Love does not have a prize card, if you want expansive gifts you really should be with another guy. Shy guys often rather save up money for later stages of life, such as marriage and children (in case that ever happens). Also a shy guy will learn to do specific things just to make you happy, learn to cook or learn to fix the house for example. They even tent to help clean the house and care for the kids a lot more then other guys would do. Something missing from this video is that shy guys often hate the whole 'hints' game girls love to do. A shy guy really hates to get annoyed by your hinting and him not understanding what you mean. You need to be crystal clear and not try to hint him into something. He will just end up thinking the opposite more likely and it will turn out badly. If he wants to play 'hints' with you, he will ask for it ;)
@knightace200210 жыл бұрын
ahahahahahahaha tha-that was was really hard to to read with out stammering lmfao mostly because it des-described me pretty ummm.....pretty...........uhhh pretty accurately hahahahaha *nervously laughs* and yes i'm one of the shyest guys in the world because i have the same thing you do, I have ASD (Aspergers' Syndrome Disorder or, as it's basically called, High-functioning Autism) and was pick-picked on for it by other boys, but girls would always defend me and told me that the stuff they said isn't true, that eventually matured and became friends with me but it still had an affect on me and my relationships towards other girls. not to mention me and my mom always moved around when i was a kid, never staying in one place for too long (Nomadic-type moving of sorts heheh) and was to shy to make any more friends in school and the neighborhood where we lived at for at least 1 year. I've had a girlfriend before and she told me she loved being my girlfriend because she felt unconditional love with me (loyalty, loving, etc. even the kissing (i try to hide that because i don't want to just make-out with girls i want to be with them)) only thing i was missing was a job and money to buy her stuff and the like (i got her presents on christmas and she loved them to death heheheh). since then tho i have not had a girlfriend but i have been flirted with and never noticed it 'till i watched some videos on how to tell if a girl likes you and it dawned on me that i've been "hit on" 200 times in the past 4 years.......i hate mind games as well but girls don't seem to get the message that i'm completely oblivious to when a girl likes me. but if i do like them i will be incredibly nervous around her and be too scared to ask her out because i'm scared of getting rejected by the girl i like. #11 works if done right dude. i know i do that to every girl i like to great effect. in fact, that's how i got my first ever real-life girlfriend lol.
@Michael-rt2tl10 жыл бұрын
knightace2002 Holy shit did you guys really need to write your life story in the comment section?
@knightace200210 жыл бұрын
***** if it helps with a question or a point then yes, yes it does.
@USAJAZZFAN10 жыл бұрын
Wow! Pretty impressive... ;) i like the your explaining feelings!! all i can say to your answers is like "Amen".... btw i REALLY hate this hint-thing... be crystal clear... yes or no make it easy!
@mohawkangelgaming931310 жыл бұрын
My brother has autism and he has never had a girl like him. He is 18. I tell him to not give up and you shouldn't either. She'll come. Believe me, she will.
@abyzzwalker8 жыл бұрын
Fuck. I pretty much do all of these signs around her.
@ringosta.anajr.83788 жыл бұрын
start fixing it bro...be like me...shy but stealth
@berryallensson50198 жыл бұрын
Same
@31ias.8 жыл бұрын
Same
@piggytech12338 жыл бұрын
Same
@yeeticus5817 жыл бұрын
Same...
@gladius697 жыл бұрын
Shy guy here. This is 100% accurate. To my fellow shy guys; I find being upfront and honest with people about your shyness works wonders. I know personally I used to try and hide my shyness and attempt to "act normal" but it doesn't work. People can often interpret your shyness as you just being an antisocial jerk and therefore they don't make the effort to talk to you. Ever since I've been upfront with people about my shyness people have started making more of an effort to talk to me and I've developed more relationships with people around me very quickly. I also find social interaction easier now because I don't feel like I have to make the effort to hide my shyness whilst talking to people.
@bluemonster1599 жыл бұрын
I'm also a shy guy and every single thing you said, Is completely 100% spot on in the bulls eyes I was bashing myself because every SINGLE thing you said , I was actually doing, even when you mentioned the about watching the other video before I watched this one, I did it and had no clue about. I respect a girl who knows what she's talking about.
@comet93258 жыл бұрын
This was spot on. As a shy guy myself, she nailed down every point. Never knew it was so out there.
@snazzyy86198 жыл бұрын
I use to be a shy guy well I still am but at least I got the girl I liked :)
@silva66057 жыл бұрын
HOW DID YOU DO THT? Massive respect.
@wormy3338 жыл бұрын
Any shy guys that aprove of this video?
@calebcray7898 жыл бұрын
I was watching just to see how accurate, and so far it is 100% true
@wormy3338 жыл бұрын
Haha, thank you for replying, i needed help to see if it was accurate c:
@keaganhopper72518 жыл бұрын
It is extremely accurate. I am practically identical to her description.
@wormy3338 жыл бұрын
Great!
@NintendoFeverSuperSaiyanGodTm8 жыл бұрын
+WeirdlyStrange Yeeeeee
@monypinky169810 жыл бұрын
To be shy is the worst thing u can be! It s suffering in silence,always stepping back,no confidence and stress! Im very shy and I like shy guys 2 but it s so confusing....
@xXKunokuXx10 жыл бұрын
The touching thing you said is soooo spot on I swear. I cannot touch her no matter what I do, I think she may be taking it the wrong way but she stopped poking me and I think I blew it :( Why can't she understand D':
@Skydreamstudios10 жыл бұрын
I know that feel bro
@gingerb80108 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend will still do some of these things. Like, sometimes (not every time) when we make eye contact, it lasts for like four seconds, and he'll look down and jus smile and It's so CUTE and it just makes us both happy and we just laugh at each other because we both know why he does that. IT'S JUST AAAAAHHHHHHH I'm sorry but I love iiiiiitttttttt!!!!
@RandomCreationsChannel11 жыл бұрын
How about guys that are more quiet than shy? Like when they will not try to talk to you first. But if you talk to them they will be happy, extremely friendly, and will not break eye contact. They always seem to notice you but don't act nervous.
@joesmo20879 жыл бұрын
As a shy guy I am shocked how spot on you were with the signs. Excellent video :)
@billybobjoe84657 жыл бұрын
I've legit been exposed... too bad the girl I like didn't see this xD
@billybobjoe84657 жыл бұрын
Plz help meh
@DinKompis7 жыл бұрын
Billy Bob Joe No you help me.
@HamidNawaz3017 жыл бұрын
lol (confidenc__ error 404 file failed to load :( im having the same problem
@akashcommander59977 жыл бұрын
Billy Bob Joe Same 😑
@cakeface_033 жыл бұрын
Don't take everything solely to heart, some things work best as just advice. Think about it, but don't _only_ follow the advice.
@suburiboy10 жыл бұрын
Confirmed: If a shy guy thinks you're pretty, he'll just stare at you as much as possible, but will try to not let you notice, but let's be honest: you probably notice. It's kind of embarrassing that I still do this at age 21. I've never met her, but I stare, and I've written songs about her. I'm almost over how beautiful she is, but it's been over a year now, so that.
@rednunu52510 жыл бұрын
YES!!! My crush probibly likes me
@suburiboy10 жыл бұрын
rednunu525 Why? Does he write love songs about you? That would be a solid indication.
@rednunu52510 жыл бұрын
No I was being sarcastic
@suburiboy10 жыл бұрын
rednunu525 Not gonna lie, I'm a little disappointed. I was hoping a guy was writing love songs about you. Maybe next time. Just keep trying.
@rednunu52510 жыл бұрын
Dude I'm 11 no he doesn't
@bxrdbxtch10 жыл бұрын
Me and my crush are both shy. But on April 29th ❤️ he got the nerve to ask me out! Some of my friends thought he liked me, and at school if we walked past each other, he would poke me… and now we have a very happy relationship :) (Were going into the 7th grade in September btw)
@bxrdbxtch10 жыл бұрын
And a couple days before he asked me out, he would ask if I wanted to play "would you rather" or ask each other questions
@bxrdbxtch10 жыл бұрын
And I would also ask him who he likes and he would say "idk"… (I'm commenting as I watch)
@MacPlease10 жыл бұрын
That sounds lovely! Tried it once, but we only became friends :/ XD
@ohuh210110 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwww you're so lucky! And you're my age! Cx and the poking part I thought it was cute ^~^ also there are no shy guys in my school ._. I wish there were, but with long hair c:
@user-hr8es7gx8c10 жыл бұрын
i hope that would happen to me n my crush 💗 good luck on yiour relationship ^^
@rubym62588 жыл бұрын
He's only shy and awkward towards me though :((( I always see him talking to other girls..
@sophie-mp7hs8 жыл бұрын
eliza m. I feel you
@dyskocat8 жыл бұрын
eliza m. I hear you, try to become friends. Or ask the other girls why he doesn't talk to u.
@hackedbydongerlord.22798 жыл бұрын
eliza m. He probably acts normal around others because he isn't scared of messing up in front of them. He probably likes you. I'm a guy, I do the same thing
@TotalDbag247 жыл бұрын
Yep.....That's what we do. I'm sorry we're confusing. We can't help it. We find it much easier to become friends than to become something more. Because becoming friends doesn't require us to actually confront you about it. Confrontation is the hardest thing for us shy guys, and we make it worse for ourselves because we dread over it WAYYYY more than we should. The fear of denial also causes us to avoid asking someone out unless we know 100% that the response will be favorable. Though it's hard for us to be 100% sure when we are too afraid to talk to you in the first place. And this just ends up as a vicious cycle that usually ends in nothing happening. We're aware of this conundrum. We are just too afraid to do anything about it.
@Master-kt2ue7 жыл бұрын
eliza m. that is how I am
@Savingtoasty8 жыл бұрын
Im a shy guy and i approve this video! Story of my life.
@dilute69809 жыл бұрын
Just letting all you girls know, I'm a shy guy and this is pretty much alllll true
@medjouliette33679 жыл бұрын
CoolCreation 201 that's good to know :) being a shy guy, would you like if your crush asked you out on a date? let's pretend, you have hanged out once with friends:)
@iridious16099 жыл бұрын
medjouliette im shy he would be very happy and relieved you like him but he will be very scared as well on the date so try to make him feel comfortable so he can open to you if he hasn't already once he is comfortable he will open up just a little bit or a lot
@lelemarie4079 жыл бұрын
I don't mind guys staring....I don't think any of this.
@lelemarie4079 жыл бұрын
I mean I don't think any of these bad things like oh you're stupid
@KingAsianSanta9 жыл бұрын
ya thats very much true
@notforvideos10 жыл бұрын
We've been compromised - Shy guys retreat!
@billfred520610 жыл бұрын
I literally came here just to see if this was legit
@billfred520610 жыл бұрын
Well, shit. We have indeed been compromised.
@-spamy10110 жыл бұрын
Bill Fred me to lol
@zKobuhL10 жыл бұрын
Yep... Im staying in my basement now
@juliomaceira979910 жыл бұрын
Well we're fucked
@maccreamata62998 жыл бұрын
is this girl Jesus how does she know me so well 😂😂
@rajkumarmane74368 жыл бұрын
👍
@sky89line8 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same..!! How she knows so much about us XD
@rajkumarmane74368 жыл бұрын
every 1 in 3 is an introvert .. this is all about our brain chemistry .. but i must say its beautiful;)
@niconi78776 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: SHE is a shy guy
@niconi78776 жыл бұрын
@Tamarau A that's true
@zalto167 жыл бұрын
Well crap. Most of these things happen automatically when anyone talks to me. Not specifically someone I like. Now everyone will think I like them
@darkamagumo7166 жыл бұрын
Same
@swikarr45538 жыл бұрын
Here I thought ....I was the only akaward guy! Sooo Accurate video!
@CayneWatt8 жыл бұрын
+ToyDollsLegendz ikr
@jesustorres29458 жыл бұрын
Bruh, that's me up there. XD Crazy how accurate she is!
@cartermorrish81808 жыл бұрын
+Jesus Torres ik man its insane!
@arturovelez55088 жыл бұрын
Not being liked by anyone is like my number 1 personality trait
@cristinaparra62616 жыл бұрын
Arturo Velez I can relate
@wonphi11 жыл бұрын
Haha. Think of shy guys as like Magikarps, (if ur a pokemon fan or at least familiar with it.) a bitch to train/ get them to open themselves to you, but once that's done it's awesome and powerful.
@InstantG4mingTV11 жыл бұрын
You just solved all the love problems of our generation.
@NateHuller11 жыл бұрын
with a Pokemon reference
@TrollFac410 жыл бұрын
lol omg
@mrphilosopher484410 жыл бұрын
LOL, so true, can't stop laughing..
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
wonphi You just.... just..... what? HOW?
@eyadkatib84188 жыл бұрын
I hate myself for being a shy person;;;((((
@doliague25908 жыл бұрын
Aww dont hate your self,I am shy and I try my best to stay happy,but it is hard especially when people ask me "so why are not talking"
@eyadkatib84188 жыл бұрын
+Daniel Santana von Geltendorf idont hate HATE myself I just hate that part of me being shy I mean there is a girl that iam literally in LOVE with but i can't talk to or even looking at her because am to ugly for her (am sexy as hell btw :D) gosh ;)
@doliague25908 жыл бұрын
+Bob Kenday lol,but still.....
@TheCapo19708 жыл бұрын
Don't worry your not alone we have our own unique hidden talents that others wish they had.
@eyadkatib84188 жыл бұрын
Anthony Caporicci well that cheer me up thank you !😋
@nickboelhouwer83759 жыл бұрын
im a shy guy and this is all so true.........xD you can read my mind :O
@melmennings55629 жыл бұрын
jup helemaal waar
@GamingEmpire5209 жыл бұрын
Me too. I hate being so shy though. It works great for being a freshman in high school. I get to fly under the radar of upperclassmen. :) yay!
@delan_lan9 жыл бұрын
Feel your pain bro freshman year is like the baby year
@ParryHub9 жыл бұрын
im not yoo mutch
@delan_lan9 жыл бұрын
Ok
@gabesstarwarscollection9 жыл бұрын
At the beginning I thought this didn't apply to me, but then halfway through the video I'm like "damn it I'm shy!!" : /
@knightace20029 жыл бұрын
same thing here hahaha. Even if i did show signs without knowing it such as #11 in which I always end up doing somehow lol.
@antoniomiles3749 жыл бұрын
Same here
@beeferonican33429 жыл бұрын
Same lol, I'm like halfway between shy and confident but lots of these apply to me.
@goodguygandalf85919 жыл бұрын
This girl seems to understand it all. I also thought i changed after i was so damn shy in my early years, i thought i became way more confident lately but i somehow still do the things mentioned in the video ;D
@johantell2109 жыл бұрын
I saw that too I thought that I wasn't that shy but I really am.
@TheLun4tic11 жыл бұрын
you are the perfect girl for a shy guy. He can just lean back around you and let you do all the talking ;-P
@natelindley2710 жыл бұрын
IKR
@Tricto11 ай бұрын
It’s crazy how accurate this is compared to more recent videos about this topic, I swr u nail every single point spot on
@jokala98 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy, and I approve of this message
@beccaraye70938 жыл бұрын
welp... I'm shy, he's shy..this isnt gonna work XD
@roselover57356 жыл бұрын
Becca Raye same XD
@matthewmccafferty874510 жыл бұрын
all except #5, I am over-prepared with communication situations. But I never use them. forever alone
@nasibahjama23278 жыл бұрын
I am a shy girl and a like a shy guy 😍😍😍❤️
@sarahromilus28578 жыл бұрын
THANKS A LOT THIS VIDEO WAS SO HELPFUL
@LizziesAnswers8 жыл бұрын
+Sarah Romilus You're welcome! I'm so happy it helped you :)
@no9ah1038 жыл бұрын
+LizziesAnswers I have no clue how you got this info, I'm a shy guy and it's like you read my mind
@GriptheTopCommander8 жыл бұрын
+DeltaNoah you read mine
@ilijaaaaaaa8 жыл бұрын
i feel u m8. Everything she said is 100% true xd
@iiilillyiiimsp68938 жыл бұрын
Yes
@tsdeshon11 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy and WOW you just explained all 13 points of me! This girl I like I think she's the most beautiful girl I have ever saw and probably the most beautiful i'll ever see lol but I just couldn't talk to her because I think she is too good to go out with me and that she doesn't like me but I get signs from her that she likes me too but I want to be sure. Maybe ill be brave enough to take it to the next level ;)
@TheHotaru9311 жыл бұрын
Watch SimplePickUp
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
Miguel Perez NO NO NO NO NO NO
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
TreVon DeShon I hope it works out man.
@TheKlutchsletsplays10 жыл бұрын
everything she said is spot on.
@trevors52168 жыл бұрын
Not bad Lizzie.!! I know this video is pretty old but as a chronic Shy Dude ....I will stand by almost every one of your points. It's so annoying being shy , I don't have any problem getting girls to notice or stare/flirt with me , but as soon as they approach me or I approach them ...😨...this is where my ' Shyness ' really begins to strangle my words and just basically wreck everything.!! lol. What's annoying is I KNOW that once we get to know each other , I'll be completely different , confident and funny ...without any shyness ruining a moment. But Jesus , it's to get to that point that's killing me.?!? Great video tho , very helpful Lizzie
@Babyfacedblackjesus9 жыл бұрын
Does this work for seniors?I'm 68.
@adeliamohdyusof88489 жыл бұрын
+NathanKiwa lol umm i dont think soo
@Babyfacedblackjesus9 жыл бұрын
haha that was a joke
@adeliamohdyusof88489 жыл бұрын
lol haha
@devanhudson-rockwell9388 жыл бұрын
lol omg that's soo sweet
@Vicky-fi3yr8 жыл бұрын
My grandpa is 68 :)
@yatosjumpsuit68379 жыл бұрын
This is so true in so many ways. Me in a nutshell.
@jollyholly28519 жыл бұрын
+Your Neighborhood seagull Yup yup yup.
@marcohara61249 жыл бұрын
+Your Neighborhood seagull agree
@victorrangel38749 жыл бұрын
Same
@braedonflory83179 жыл бұрын
same
@popularsibstv12099 жыл бұрын
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@cavanwood30779 жыл бұрын
I HOPE SHE DONT SEE THIS.....
@rupenzelssister16139 жыл бұрын
Hehe
@bckcntryFP9 жыл бұрын
Me and you are in the same boat
@bckcntryFP9 жыл бұрын
+May Hood Spellcheck doesn't apply for hill Billy's, lol
@chrischimbay12268 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jackryan11436 жыл бұрын
Cavan Wood same brotha
@cakeface_033 жыл бұрын
6:15 - Not always true, though them acting different around you (possibly in the way she described) can have a high chance of them actually liking you. The personality of the one they are talking to affects how they will respond to that other person, unless of course the other person may be doing some acting in which they won't be responding in accordance with the other's personality. If currently, you are doing a little acting, that's fine. Just later down the road, in whatever type of relationship you may have with them, you may want to pull out your real personality, and that could mess with things in a way that might not be as positive. Though if you pull in your personality into the relationship over the course of that time (the time leading up to later down the road) it can work out better, or at least it may have a better chance of working out good, since they may have gotten comfortable with the personality you were acting with, and that personality may be really different than your actual personality. So I guess if you must act, don't act too differently from your actual personality. Of course, this is also just how it would be with me, this may not be the same entirely for everyone. * Also one tip for if you are acting a little, or planning to, try to add in a little of their personality, or add a little bit of their general level of enthusiasm to how you interact with them. Though, adding their level of general enthusiasm can be ify, since how they act with other people may not be how they actually feel inside. Try to free their actual personality, or at least try make them feel comfortable talking or interacting with you, and in time they will most likely open up to you. * Also Lol, all these other comments are 4-3 years ago. And I'm just now commenting this -now- .
@Skydreamstudios10 жыл бұрын
wish so many more girls saw this, most of the girls just think I am gay because I dont make a move on any girl
@colecapps378210 жыл бұрын
Ya I like girls and I get picked on for not liking a girl I just don't want to show it
@RandomHelpingGuy10 жыл бұрын
Skydreamstudios The girls just think I am heartless and cold-blooded.
@devondevon24549 жыл бұрын
As a really shy guy I must say this video is incredibly astute and in depth. the only thing I feel needs correction is the guys behavior outside of a girl he likes. some shy guys arnt necessarily reserved around people. infact they can be the life of the party but girls we like but don't know well will and do often terrify us. We're very strange people.
@BohrokKiller10 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy 17 year old guy and I love a girl in my class and she knows that I like her. Every time I see or talk to her in school my heart starts beating really fast and I'm getting really nervous. I cant stop thinking about her, I even sometimes can't sleep well because I keep thinking about her. What should I do?
@maddi391710 жыл бұрын
You should make a move! There is Nothing to worry about. The worst thing that could happen is she would reject you. Which really isn't that big of a deal.
@jaxflfreebird10 жыл бұрын
I knew I was starting to have a real problem on my job after I had been talking some to a girl at work. I started getting very restless, preoccupied. I came home a couple of nights and I couldn't even focus on watching tv. My mind kept going back to the girl. I'm 51, single, and always have been. The girl/woman, knows now that I like/liked her. She may like me some and she may not like me much at all. I think she also likes this other guy at work. I let her know that I had grown to like her, that I had been stressing, that it was making me sad and depressed. She's been married twice. Her first husband is dead and her second one has been her ex now for some time. I'm just happy to let a girl know that I liked her. I've tried to lift her up even if she doesn't like me. We had a bad history years ago when she went off on me and I then retaliated. We ended up in the office at work. She hated me for a good while. Anyway, she seems to accept me these days. I kind of made things awkward at work but it'll pass, I hope. I guess it may not pass so easily if she gets involved with this other guy. I wonder if I help her win the other guy because I liked her or if complicates things. I really don't know but I'm not some smooth player and I can't go around pretending some girl likes me and I feel better for having sent her messages via facebook. She might have quickly deleted the messages which would not make me feel too great or she may have read them and given them some thought. She might have liked some of what I said. The thing is though that I just hope against hope that she likes me. And with another guy possibly making a move she now has my feelings to consider and that's all I want. I don't even know if so much if I want to get caught by a female. Women turn us into their servants. And often when we fail to provide for them they get rid of us. I'd almost rather a girl knew that I liked her. She doesn't need to lead me on forever. I don't want to be her love and then to be dumped and crushed like a bug. Love can suck so bad. I almost don't like being in love because it's just an opportunity to be steamrolled. But it feels good knowing that I am still able to FEEL something about a girl, especially since I have never married. I mean being a single guy can feel quite GAY at times.
@chocolatechipcookies15779 жыл бұрын
O3O first ask her who she likes. If she likes a boy then shes not interested in you. If she said "not telling" but blushes or something, she might have the same feeling. Spend more time together and make a move. ^_^
@davidb39797 жыл бұрын
Good video... this guy was me as a teen, I was super shy and you have nailed it with this vid. One small point I have is at the end of #5. the "security net" comment saying he'll be more confident with his friends... I'd say it is the opposite... as a teen I was so much worse when trying to talk to a girl and having an audience. I'd feel like they were all judging me and I put so much pressure on myself that I'd just clam up. I was a lot less shy on a one to one, so catching him alone may get you a better response...
@ipr333610 жыл бұрын
Sounds about right, though if someone said "Are you going to date?" I would probably laugh and say "Are you joking?" I'm a pretty awkward person, highly intelligent, and maybe overly mature. These don't make good traits for dating, though I don't mind much. I'm fine with my books and theories.
@RonaldRegan31410 жыл бұрын
Like when i liked a girl like I just like told her straight up totally and like she called me like a creepy ass nigga then she kissed my ears like foreal tho
@Sreynocs10 жыл бұрын
Your picture is just awesome.
@danielap29510 жыл бұрын
This comment alone deserves an oscar
@witnessill320910 жыл бұрын
Dat too many like there tho
@dovydasmartonis85019 жыл бұрын
I'm a really shy guy and this video made me cry for real... i'm even that shy cuz i even made fake account, i have 0 selfconsidence at school i really liked one girl i was staring at her alot she was looking at me sometimes too, she was a popular girl in a class so i thought all cool guys can get her much easier then i can, so i never tried, then i changed the school after like 4years after i find out that i like her cuz i thought that will help me to forget her i knew she was way better then i was :/ and i still sometimes think about her... now i'm rly confused in what i like g or b... it's killing me from inside if you know what i mean... i hate this situation so much, and i hate myself for being so shy and selfconfidence :(
@dovydasmartonis85019 жыл бұрын
***** nah i'm at college atm
@shiselmecinas38579 жыл бұрын
Same but I mean they look similar and I like both. It's very hard I hate when this happens. I went out with one but then he broke up with me and It hurt, but I still like him. Ones a jerk the other one is a really close friend. I thought by going to a different high school as him would help but then he got into the same high school. And it was totally awkward to have classes with both, and more confused I was on which one I like.
@goodguygandalf85919 жыл бұрын
Bro, i think you should find out why do you lack that confidence, because confidence is one of the things that mostly attract girls. If you find out why do you feel down, you can try work on it, improve yourself in different aspects so that can boost your confidence. ( For example if you are fat/too slim, start working out, you will feel awesome and you will see results). So once you get confident it will be easier for you to talk to girls, you can even practice talking more to girls, that you don't like that much so you improve. And if you really really love her that much you should definetly confess your feelings soon or later. Cus imagine if she likes you back, you will be the happiest man in the world, in the worst case she can refuse but you will know that u've tried and maybe it isn't written for you two to be together. best of luck, keep me informed :D
@dovydasmartonis85019 жыл бұрын
Good Guy Gandalf the thing is i'm fit guy i don't workout but im not a fatty i rly dont know why i feel unsafe everywhere, why im so awkward and why i lack of confidence
@goodguygandalf85919 жыл бұрын
Dovydas Martonis Maybe you should ask her out, i don't know what is your current relationship with her atm, this is very important.
@jeuel91927 жыл бұрын
This guy just dm me on Instagram and told me "I had a crush on you last year and I still do, I wish we could see each other in the hall ways more" and I freaking said "oh really?" 😂
@rindy20035 жыл бұрын
Yes what happen?
@makeuplife0210 жыл бұрын
Oh my god so true! I was smiling the whole time watching this because most of the things you say in this video are so true!!! I like a shy guy a lot right now and this video really helps! Thank you for this amazing, helpful video! 😊😘😁😏
@ethanlyric10 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy guy can u make a vid about what a shy guy should do to get out of there shel
@likefulll10 жыл бұрын
Hey I'm a really shy girl and I know that some shy guy likes me, but best thing to do is just go and start to talking or find some common interests to approach other person. Maybe ask your friends, if they know your chrush friends number, so you can get her number. My friend did that :D and it worked :)
@tiyaelizabeth6588 жыл бұрын
I think my crush is half shy and half confident
@wyattstanley18567 жыл бұрын
This is so true, I'm a shy guy and I like a shy girl.
@AndrewStClair-gp6cg10 жыл бұрын
"We don't judge other guys' appearance, that much." So, I take it that all those girls that have looked at me like they thought I was so ugly that they didn't want to have anything to do with me, weren't judging me based on my appearance? What were they judging me on then? Because it was very clear that I was being judged.
@StriVision10 жыл бұрын
There is one very simple explanation for ya: none of them were the one for u... And when u meet the one something magical happens the experience is indescribable, magical... and she will think u r the most charming guy in the whole world and the hottest guy alive, so save it for the one And only God can rightfully judge, those who judge shall be judged.
@samobad71328 жыл бұрын
im so shy when it comes to gals i didnt even kiss a gal before
@edu11558 жыл бұрын
the shy guy just kept killing me oh wait I thought she was talking about mario
@ryanweintraub94487 жыл бұрын
Guy, our secrets have been discovered! FALL BACK!
@Losty125010 жыл бұрын
You just described me I'm literaly crying
@Anonymous-dp6ig10 жыл бұрын
Everything she said is what I do but I'm bout to just grow some balls and tell her I like her
@mvris0I8 жыл бұрын
my crush is always nervous around me...he always stutters & stares at me. his friends tell me he likes me & there will be times when he turns red & i find it so cute xD
@trinkazmc39559 жыл бұрын
Oh mah gawd, I'm a shy guy and this describes me perfectly, one problem, I have a crush on a SHY GIRL. Yeah. :P
@NewscasterNews49 жыл бұрын
Same here lol it's like I'm trying to date myself 😂
@Aboutoslapahoe9 жыл бұрын
+NewscasterNews4 fo serious!! lol
@NewscasterNews49 жыл бұрын
Soooo I finally stopped being a pussy and asked the girl I liked for her number on Wednesday and she gave it to me. However, it's so hard to talk to her in person! On Thursday, I tapped her on the shoulder, and said Hi and she says Hey and puts her head down. She never makes eye contact with me also. Then, that night we were texting and she no replies me in the middle of our conversation. Well, as payback for that I ignored her all day yesterday and won't text her until tonight, possibly tomorrow if I get busy. Idk what to do lol, I'm trying to ask her to homecoming by next Wednesday (the dance is next Saturday) and I have no idea what my next move should be.
@coolbean75899 жыл бұрын
+NewscasterNews4 something might have suddenly popped up so she was busy and couldn't message you back! start the convo or continue it to show that you're interested. try to keep it going unless she is clearly not willing to talk. if you get more comfortable with her on text then it'll be easier to ask her to homecoming in real life. good luck!
@ThePokemonPizza9 жыл бұрын
+NewscasterNews4 never do that payback or revenge shit. its horrible, just stop
@calebwarren58418 жыл бұрын
You have a potential career as an FBI profiler.
@malthenielsen93897 жыл бұрын
2:10-2:16 My life summed up in 6 seconds. Actually crazy how a girl can like a shy guy, when that's what the girl is dealing with, hahahah.
@smashbrossniper23669 жыл бұрын
I am a shy guy and a lot of these signs are true for me. I'm in 8th grade and there's a girl I really like, but I am really shy around her. I stare at her a lot, and today I looked at her for a second in 3rd period and she looked at me during that second, then I looked away fast. Also if I'm sitting near her at lunch I get nervous about eating because I get afraid that I'll mess up while eating (It's kinda hard to explain)
@EPICbaconSTRIPS129 жыл бұрын
I understand young grasshopper.
@daiznaurts10469 жыл бұрын
I understand
@huge_balls9 жыл бұрын
SmashBrosSniper23 Dude you're in 8th grade focus on other things ffs
@Asaleah01b10 жыл бұрын
wow Thank you this helps and explains alot.ehm if you don't mind can you give me some advice please? I suspect their is a boy in my class that might be interested in me he shows most of the signs u mentioned which was an eye opener but its just that I think he worries that it wont work out due to cultural differences because hes asian and im not, and instead of approaching him with his freinds to talk hes the sort of person thatll get embarrased and would prefer to talk just the two of us. someone blurted out one time that he had a crush on me before that comment we used to talk fairly alot and would hang about and smile but since that comment he ignores me now and I barely see him round now when I walk past him now he either looks the other direction or just at the floor and pretends to play with his hair. at break time or lunch he would hide behind his freinds or he'd be in a big huddle where he cant be spotted easily but I still sometimes catch him looking at me. nevertheless on the last day of term last week we got to wear non uniform so whatever we wanted and that day he kept staring me when ever he saw me I could tell because I can see him at the corner of my eye and when I look at him he reflexes his head away like he wasnt looking prior to this its going to be hard to smile at him if he doesnt look at me. then later down at the end of the day I was preparing to leave the building and I was in a corridor going to my locker ever one had already left amd there wasnt really anyone there besides a teacher, anyway I saw him on my way I was sure he was going to look away and walk fast but instead he looked at me approached me opened his arms wide as if to hug me (in my school when boys do that they tend to pull their arms back and say im only kidding and smile but..) he didnt, I was sure he was going to say "just joking" and pull back his hands but then all of a sudden it took a while to realise his arms was around my upper shoulder area and his head near mines I could feel his warmth but I could tell it wasn't a like touchy feely close sort of hug but just a gentle hug. it was for like 30 secs I dunno I was shocked but it wasnt long. I couldnt believe that he was actually hugging me he said nothing but a sigh when he hugged me, I was shocked and didn't know what to do so I just stood there and didn't move I couldn't move my hands to hug him back cuz my brain just froze. When he let go I think he relised what he done and became all awkward at quiet again and he just procedeed to go in the classroom I smiled at him and for some reason said "thanks" cause I didn't know what to say he just smiled awkwardly and wished me a good holiday I wished him one back still smiling and we said bye. school is closed right now but I'm worried that when it reopens things might be more awkward and worse more between us. I'm so confused does he even like me or is it just me? I don't know what to do or say, help me please😫😔😓 Thanks:). p.s sorry for the big Bible:) xx
@Irishman190010 жыл бұрын
Listen he is probably embarrassed about the comment and he thinks you don't like him so he needs his friends to hide behind so he doesn't have to confront you just try and catch him when he is on the way home from school or college and tell him how you feel and if it doesn't work out fine move on that might be a bit tricky but it's the only way to know and it's better than being stuck in that kind of weird place of uncertainty also I don't know where you live but the race of a person shouldn't affect his feelings hope the advice helps good luck
@Asaleah01b10 жыл бұрын
major irishman Thank you
@Asaleah01b10 жыл бұрын
abeba gebre excuse me?What? Ehm...I was talking about something that actually happened? If I was speaking to someone obviously it'll be different.jeez I didn't make boys shy because I write too much what kind of comment is that. It's something that happened I was typing everything that exactly happened on that day so the reader can see my situation. If youre gonna be mean please keep your comments and thoughts to yourself that was no help at all just made me more depressed than anything honestly thoughtless people that don't have any thing good to say these days.
@Asaleah01b10 жыл бұрын
abeba gebre alright, it's ok
@Elisa-ub9nl5 жыл бұрын
He stares at me and sneaks glances. When I catch him looking we lock eyes for a split second before he looks away. When we sit together for class he is super nervous and fiddles with his shirt and hair, always fiddling with his hands too. When I directly talk to him, he looks everywhere but at me. He also makes funny noises in class to get my attention so when I look at him, he stares at the teacher as if he didn’t do it. He also is super confident around other girls but is always quiet and nervous around me. He doesn’t do “favors” like this video mentioned and hasn’t talked to me online. Does he like me or should I move on?
@remington00113 жыл бұрын
He probably does. If you're interested make a move, it will probably scare him, though.