LMAO Woman Calls Out The Manosphere For Taking Women On Coffee Dates | Ya Dayum Right We Do

The message of this channel is to protect yourself at all times and in order to protect yourself you need to know the dangers that are out there. You need to know who and what to protect yourself from. This video gives an indication of some of the dangers associated with female nature in combination with modern western society. This video highlights modern women and modern dating.
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• BUT WHAT IF HE FALLS OFF?

[@jodycwilliams]

If she says “no” to the coffee date, you know all you need to know about her. Move along Man.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

After she says "no," say to her, "I own the coffee shop franchise" and if she changes her mind, then cut her loose. Fuck with her before rejecting her.

[@pemithmithsara7632]

Thank you ! Next!

[@josephtorres3229]

True, she is not attracted enough to the person if the woman says no

[@tobias6013]

Or better yet insist on going dutch.. If it's a cup of coffee a meal or your house and children if you are providing and provisioning your simping.

[@tiefblau2780]

VV are worth cofee date STENCH!!

[@anonymousreaper2186]

"Ugly woman tells other ugly women to stop dating ugly men."

[@jimjohnson394]

I don't think average women understand what average means.

[@juniorleslie4804]

It is called irony. Lol

[@brandoncass8810]

@Lpwns It shows just how delusional these chicks are and why we need to stay clear of them

[@jimjohnson394]

@Lpwns I actually did wrote an article once about that, I took this picture of 53 women, all ages 19-24 (church choir), ordered them from prettiest to ugliest, and set it to the normal curve. From that, I would take a 3 out for a casual date, and a 4 was actually quite attractive. I hate it that you can't post links.

[@Santor-]

​​@@jimjohnson394 Your totally correct. I had a woman tell me the average IQ level had now gone up to 110-115. I tried to nicely explain that by nature of the scale, 100 would always be the average....she still didnt get it.

[@marknificent0117]

She thinks it's okay to leave a man when he loses his job, but this same woman will shame a man if he leaves because she gained 200 lbs.

[@WatanabeFred]

They are insane.

[@EdwinBetancourtJr]

A Woman who is into you, isn’t going to consider a coffee date a deal breaker. A Woman who isn’t interested in you will want more for her time. So if a Woman says No to a coffee date or something simpler, keep it moving. She is not the one!

[@parisfitzgerald3577]

I always find it utterly ridiculous seeing a black woman wearing a blonde weave on her head.

[@navytanutrof1823]

Amen!!!! As a black man why go with a fake blond when I can go get a real blond. Oh wait they will say you hate your mom, while in a blond fake hair, with their skin bleach. The worst part is they can't even see the irony. Lol.

[@jimjohnson394]

Cultural appropriation. tsk tsk tsk

[@tupactargaryen]

Lol, I just posted the same thing. I can't any Bw serious with a blonde weave on their head.

[@terrealexander4442]

I was looking for this comment, before I posted it myself.

[@franciscor390]

And notice how she uses whitish makeup on her face and then you see her hands being darker brown plop what a joke.

[@MrWilson812]

The first date I had with the woman I'm seeing now was a coffee date. The whole date was $13 at most. I even payed for her, just because she insisted on paying for her own stuff. The second date was more substantial. If a woman thinks she's too good to have coffee for a date, just leave her alone; she's not worth the trouble.

[@eloquentsarcasm]

The woman I'm talking to lately is the cheapest I've ever encountered. Most times we find a quiet spot and watch the sunset, talk, and have an enjoyable time with each other. Sometimes I'll spring for drinks and snacks, other times she shows up with goodies. The place and fancy food isn't why we spend time together, it's simply being together that we enjoy. Funny side note about the "expensive purse" comment one of those women said, my girl has a purse that maybe cost 20 bucks, it holds her stuff and that's all she cares about, lol.

[@TascamTascam]

YOU SHOULDNT BE PAYING FOR ANYTHING FOR THIS CVNT YOU ARE SEEING. She should pay her own way

[@vlogcity1111]

@@eloquentsarcasm legend bro that’s awesome

[@johnnysilvercloud4470]

It’s kinda like the “missing the forest for the trees” thing. Missing getting a second, more substantial date for the coffee.

[@flashbang5075]

@@eloquentsarcasm your date reminds me of my wife. When I did spend money it was because I wanted to do something nice for her. She had already given me everything I could have ask for without my dropping much money at all.

[@pcliftonjr]

A coffee date is the vetting process. She already failed.

[@cookieenthusiast6213]

We seem to have lost the whole point of a date. We set up a date so that two people can meet and begin to know each other. The place and activity is designed to make both more comfortable and therefore more open in a conversation. The idea of a coffee date started in the late 90s, as far as I know. There are three major reasons. 1) a coffee date is a safer social encounter for the woman. It is often earlier so it might not be dark at the end of the date. It also removes the idea that this could turn into an overnight adventure. 2) It removes the stress of a first date by purposely making it casual. You don't need to spend three hours getting ready. It also removes concern about what type of food and atmosphere the date will like or dislike. We all know what a coffee shop is and it is delightful bland. 3) It removes alcohol from the encounter. While alcohol may ease people the purpose is to have an "adult" conversation and then remember it the next day.

[@ocho8172]

Excellent. Thank you!

[@steppaboss]

Women used to want to do lunch for those same reasons

[@rgm4646]

@@steppaboss Your right! I had forgotten that.

[@SirYeetus]

Woman: "I don't need a man!" Also woman: "Coffee date?! You're supposed to take me somewhere nice! If you're broke, just say it!"

[@creeperkingdom3190]

@Devils' Advocate mans did even use logic he just showed the hypocrisy for what it is.

[@garybentlage7225]

Yeah right just say it lmao

[@jimjohnson394]

Technically, the woman is right, she doesn't need a man. She wants the bragging rights to her friends. "See how much this chump spent on me?". She can buy a dog and die alone, and probably will.

[@thesmithlord1813]

Actually, it’s these wahmen who are broke. They’re the ones begging Men to ask them out to feed them just like bums. 😆

[@creeperkingdom3190]

@Devils' Advocate I'm just saying that ladies are so delusional you don't even need data a statistics to show how stupid their beliefs are you just use their exact words back at them. but yes I also understand what you ment.

[@latt.qcd9221]

She's right that coffee dates are low effort dates. However, the reason they're low effort is to see if the woman is willing to put in at *_least_* the minimum level of effort. If she can't even be bothered to do that, you run.

[@m3cinco452]

Facts!

[@Dreweybaby]

Exactly we dont even know if the b*tch like us yet but she want a 3 star meal 😂💀😂

[@vennyi]

Straight facts!

[@brianwaller7383]

These women ruined it. I walked away after the last date last year ghosted me. I’m done with these unrealistic morons. And that woman was an overweight 4 at best.

[@Sasquatch-ff1pj]

Correct. Coffee date is a test of HER. Will she show up. Be on time. Leave her phone in her purse. Hold a conversation. Be pleasant. If she pass this. Then she can have a date...at Applebee's. Then a "proper" date. She has to earn it.

Your Financial Losses will always test the woman's Loyalty, ....Your Financial Success will test the man's Loyalty.

[@CdrChaos]

If she finds a coffee date offensive, that tells you everything you need to know about her and what a relationship with her would be like.

[@ubermensch6669]

As a 51 yr old man I wished the manosphere was around 30 years ago .You guys are saving lives I thank you so much 👍

[@TheJaybass32]

As a 42 year old Man I understand what you mean

[@tomalphonso]

As a 45 year old man, I fully agree with your statement here. Literally saving lives. The amount of men who have offed themselves because of some cheating 304, then even after they've cheated they're up for spousal support due to no fault dicorce. Stay strong and vet the ladies fully gents

[@sunn209]

Thats not an exaggerated hype statement, its fact. Talk to divorced men, you'll find you better off in military combat than financial ruin , sanity ruin & health thru divorce.

[@Dan.50]

As a 50 year old man, I concur!

[@sunn209]

@@tomalphonso Better yet, get on the passport game bus. Visit multiple countries, have to beat women off with a stick, old school values, damn near worship you. Get vetted ex-pat travel guide so you don't get gamed or in trouble. Far cheaper, almost all don't look back or come back, 100% amnesia to westernized women. Just don't bring them back to westernized country. You'll kick yourself on why this was not done years ago. A lot just save money and grind , then reward themselves with a 2-day to few days trip out the country, NEVER dealing with westernized women again.

[@louisax4058]

The hard truth is that when a woman is genuinely interested in you, she won't mind a coffee date. If she wants to eat at a fancy restaurant, then she can pay it herself­. The worst thing a man can do is buying attention.

[@M0viLover]

aka *never* lead with your wallet!

[@MrShonH]

EXACTLY - you ain't never seen Chad or Tyrone taking a woman on a formal date or coffee date or a walk in the park or anything...when they come around women like to get STRAIGHT TO THE POINT. I've got a couple Tyrone friends and these dudes N E V E R take a woman anywhere...ever! And they are getting hit up constantly from women. Oh well. It's to the point now if a woman is demanding you take her to a fancy restaurant I just assume she's not feeling you that much.

[@ordinaryhuman5645]

Nah, the worst thing he can do is fail to buy her attention, such as taking her out on a foodie call while she just plays with her phone the entire time.

[@davidwhite206]

@Brandon Letzco Great rule of thumb. I don't mind the drinks so much though.

[@treasurethetime2463]

Dude, when a chick is in into you, none of this nonsense will ever be an issue. I won't run down the list, but let's just say conversation and a walk somewhere will seal the deal if you don't mess it up by saying something. Dates are for dorks, Stanleys, and Monroes. Mfer who move fridges and couches and bs while she is giving the lovin' to a dude who would laugh at the request for either.

[@Herrera_70]

I am a woman and I call this BULL*****!! this lady is delirious! She's must be talking about sugar daddies, definitely not boyfriends, no husbands. She seems insufferable and entitled! hell nah!

[@thatonkgau5221]

There's a reason why in a wedding the priest asks "do you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband for RICHER OR POOER, for better or WORSE". Being in a committed relationship with someone is about Loyalty. It's about taking care of and supporting each other in good times and bad. If a man is willing to work 9 to 5 to take care of his women why isn't she willing to do the same?! What happened to loyalty and devotion?

[@DrasserC]

Translation: They aren't looking for a husband, they are looking for a sugar daddy. And giving money and gifts to a woman in exchange for company or bedroom fun has a name... and it's the oldest profession of the world.

[@williamhickock1203]

A hooker is much much cheaper.

[@praetorianblade6490]

Second oldest, but all else is dead on correct

[@davidwhite206]

@@praetorianblade6490 Last time I looked it up it's listed as the oldest, so I say he's right on all points.

[@praetorianblade6490]

@@davidwhite206 Gardening is the oldest.

[@davidwhite206]

@@praetorianblade6490 Hmm... Ok.

[@Gunsight-One]

Ha, Ha, Ha, that's right ladies, it is coffee dates from now on. Men are getting tired of foodie calls and being finessed for a free dinner.

[@ronaldrandall7425]

Amen brother

[@TheChocolateChamp]

Lol true. I tells women straight up I don't blow money on chick's I'm not sleeping with.

[@m3cinco452]

All she wants is a beta slave. No thanks.

[@patrickjordan2233]

@@TheChocolateChamp 🎯

[@garybentlage7225]

That's right!

[@Roccofan]

When someone has this OBVIOUS level of self hate, they should simply be ignored.

[@Tony_Ryders]

My first date with my current LTR (2+ years) has been a picknick date. I came up with a list of important topics that would tell me more about her life, character, ambitions and dreams and we talked about all of them. Then I took her for a ride on my super-sport motorcycle. I did her on our second date and we're still together to this day. Her family, friends and childhood situation(s) all checked out and made her eligible for a relationship. Her body-count was(/is) still low (less than 5 partners) and she openly admitted to being in the early stages of her hoe phase after years of an abusive relationship when we just met. It did make me sick to my stomach and I almost left her because of that alone. She understood my reasoning, feels shame and guilt for it (or maybe it's because it almost caused her to lose me, I'll never know), has always been truthful towards me from the very beginning and always takes accountability. (Yes, she's still a woman so sometimes I still have to push a little for her to take that accountability, but she always does). She cooks every day, cleans, helps take care of the household, is nurturing, understanding and submissive... and she's not a bad sex partner either. Wanna hear the secrets to obtaining such a relationship? Better pay attention now. *Always hold your partner accountable. Always be prepared to step out when a situation calls for it, just as I almost have once or twice. Don't think of it as just a threat - truly be, to your inner core, prepared to walk away, regardless of whatever emotions you feel at that moment. *As a man, you always need to be in a position of power in your relationship because a woman cannot handle this type of responsibility. Always take your masculine role, both inside and outside of the house, regardless of what society is trying to shame you for. You need to stop fucking listening to others and start thinking for yourself. Never allow your relationship to become a fight for your masculinity. You don't want to deal with a grown, yet mentally confused child that wants to take your masculine role. It's better to walk away from her. And then continue to walk just a little further. *Communication is key and even though everyone has probably told you this a million times already, I still cannot stress this enough. Be open about your thoughts and feelings, truthful in what you tell her and righteous in the way you treat her but also keep in mind that it's not much different from the way you would raise a child. You reward her good behavior and punish her bad behavior. And it's extremely important to root out problematic behavior before it gets the chance to escalate into a serious problem or cause relationship-breaking situations. Do not be afraid to get into fights with your partner, especially when it's for the long-term health and stability of your relationship. If she can't or doesn't want to understand that, take a guess on what you should do. *Feeling deep emotions doesn't make you weak - it makes you human. But being over emotional is definitely weak and pathetic. I like the saying "you can tell a man's worth by what makes him angry". This applies to all manner of emotions, and I believe women can sense this out very well. What makes you angry, sad or hurt? We all have our problems and our struggles. Are yours caused by the true difficulties of life? Or are they caused by your own stupid choices and you not being man enough to deal with your emotions and problems? *Don't you ever let anyone disrespect you and especially not a woman. You don't negotiate with her threatening you. If she so much as dares to screams at you, you either put her back in her place by turning her into a scared little puppy or you simply walk away. Depending on the gravity of the situation, you may not even want to return to her at all. Always let her feel the consequences of her actions, just as a child needs to know what lines they can and cannot cross. *Don't be lazy and go hit the gym, even after a hard day at work. Eat and drink healthy. Grow a beard, shower and shave properly and get in the habit of applying cologne every day. And of course, dress better. Looks matter. You'll look better, smell better and feel better. Motivate her to stay in shape or to get back in shape if for any reason she's not. You need to make yourself very desirable to other women as well, even if you don't plan on cheating. A little jealousy on her part is always a good thing. She knows how easily I can replace her with someone younger and hotter than her and she knows not to get out of line because of that, among many other things. *For the love of god, be a good and experienced sex partner. Or go fuck up a few times until you learn how to be just that. No women will respect you if you can't perform in the bedroom and blow her mind. You can make a women addicted to you if you know how to fuck her right. That's a scientific fact, go look it up. *And last but not least, be everything that a masculine man is supposed to be; have humor, be confident, trust yourself and know when to call people out on their bullshit, stand strong in the face of difficulties and danger, focus on your goals and stay on your path. She follows you, not the other way around. And never and I mean... NEVER... allow emotions to be the leading factor in any of your decision making. Take them into consideration at best, remain cold-hearted at worst. Despite the awful things that weak men and pathetic "modern women" may have to say about how I treat my girlfriend, I can guarantee you that she will proclaim that she has never been happier in her entire life. She stands behind me and I stand behind her. I've helped lift her up from rock bottom, only because I truly believe that this particular woman deserves it. And that is what a real man does. PS: My girlfriend hates the "modern woman" as much as I do, and she cannot for the life of her understand why any woman would want to give up a good relationship in the name of this delusional modern day "empowerment". I hope this will help some of you fellas out. At least it's a good thing that I'm not some divorced single mother giving you relationship advice over the internet.

[@tastu1]

🙏

[@ElePranaityte]

Wow, toxic much.

[@warrenbfeagins]

"That's HIS problem." "You don't owe him anything." Don't forget that fellas.

[@lordmbemba2709]

I can't believe she is snitching on herself

[@warrenbfeagins]

@@lordmbemba2709 They ALL do. Just shut up and let THEM talk.

[@quinty26]

That's why you don't feel sympathy for these selfish Jezebels.

[@warrenbfeagins]

@@quinty26 Well, I feel sympathy for that being the way they think, BUT not enough to not act in MY best interest.

[@tonyjones1560]

Gotta say, I hope the simpiest simp in all of simpdom isn’t buying Ferraris and giving them to a girlfriend. F*CK THAT!

[@impudentdomain]

"I have left dates in the middle of dinner" That right there ms. entitled is why we don't take you out anymore LOL

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

Literally admitted she's willing to waste men's time, money and effort and still expects it. The foolishness.

[@1230mkelly]

@@sardonically-inclined7645 And that's how we have determined how these 304s end up making the 6:00 news.

[@firstlast-er9jq]

Bless you keep doing the lords work 🙏

[@EDME86]

I kinda agree, this right here changes from "to get a non-self serving man, screen to see if he buys you dinner" to "you are the important one and you are the only important one, on a whim you may be terrible."

[@samk3088]

But she said thank you 😂

[@sae4493]

If that makes coffee dates expensive for women, why don’t they just show up like they actually look, but they don’t want to hear that.

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Because, if they showed up as they actually are, there may be no second "date".

[@hamadul-shattan8899]

She said: "I don't go on coffee dates." She also said: "I have left dates in the middle of dinner in a five star Michelin restaurants ... I don't owe you anything...". If any woman shows 1% of blonde-wigged black lady's energy or perspective, run. To her, any talk of a date is a chance to show her bad attitude; not a chance to connect; not a chance to relate; and not a chance to build. MHD - you are saving single men everywhere.

[@sunn209]

The dude she married gets no sympathy, her acting and wig is so bad, you have to have a congenital misunderstanding of the definition of the words fake & shallow .

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

"You want to jump to something as intimate as sharing a meal together?" "Yes" "Without knowing if there's any chemistry between us? And you want me to pay for it?" "Yes" "And you have no intention of reciprocating anything I do that night?" "No!" "Do you see the problem?" "No!" "That's the problem"

[@jimjohnson394]

So many con artists out there. I say "con artist" because if she is faking attraction to you to get money, free food, or attention. she is scamming men for personal gain.

[@randomdude2263]

🍺🍻🍻🍻🍻 for you sir

[@m2goofy760]

Fukn GOLD level...they won't never understand

[@davidwhite206]

Can't live with them... Can't live without them as the old saying goes.

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

@@Doberman_6773 As opposed to just walking away

[@DrB_84]

WHY is a 40+ year old woman even talking about dating???

[@joshuabritt5677]

Be it wants to FEEL important.

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

Observe that number... Now ask, how relevant do you think she feels?

[@brolysadvocate]

she's a hofessional now. dating is all she can or will ever do.

[@tupactargaryen]

💰💰💰

[@Blackpill149]

Agree.Its not her age to date.Her age is to play with cats and if she have childrens,i hope they stay away from this women because she is terrible

[@SA-vz7qi]

"Don't go on coffee dates, it costs too much money" If that suggests she needs to be getting a job.

[@Fanny-ge6ge]

As a woman, I'm more comfortable with coffee dates than dinner dates... Actually because it doesn't cost a lot to any of the two, and it allows them to get to know each other without waiting for something in return.

[@nerychristian]

But many women are superficial. They expect to be treated like queens, even though the guy knows nothing about her. If a woman doesn't want to go out with me, unless it's a place she approves of, then I know that she isn't really interested in me. She is just looking for a free meal.

[@eugeneng9999]

You know what. As men, we need to raise our standards. It's water dates from now on. That, and walks in the park or beaches.

[@soydansogukcesme470]

i always doing only walks .. if a woman is okey with that.. you have her on the second meeting anyway in your bed. sometimes even after the walk ..

[@ndub4014]

@Eugene Ng If I'm really feeling her I might even upgrade from tap to sparkling water. lol

[@dortcharmy11]

Also to see if she's active might be saving yourself from a future fatty

[@andoverb1307]

and I say bring your own water ROLF. I am not even buying you a penny worth anything unless you prove you are worthy of dating me.

[@TheJaybass32]

I endorse this message

[@JamesDeanStudiesLanguage]

I have to thank this woman for pushing more men away from golddiggers.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If you don't want to pay for a "golddigger's" dinner, ask her over the phone what time she's having dinner. If she says, 7, say, "Great! I'll meet you after dinner (at bar/café) at 8.30." She then can't say that you're cheap, as she had made her own dinner plans.

[@charlotteschnook1351]

@@PhantomFilmAustralia Nah - she will just say no thanks. The idea of getting plied with alcohol by a stranger doesn't appeal to self respecting women of quality.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

@@charlotteschnook1351 What makes you think we're talking about self-respecting women of quality here?

[@richk2793]

The coffee date for a first date is great; it allows you to talk and get to know each other and allows you to easily end the date if you need to.

[@1SirAnthony]

A coffee date is more than they deserve.

[@marcineren112]

It finally happened to me after so many years , post wall woman ask me for a date and I refuse, what a great feeling to finally have power to reject after so many years of constant rejections from women when they were in their prime. Now it's like people on manosphere say ,,if she reject me in her prime, why would I accept her in her decline?,,.

[@m3cinco452]

They are desperate. At this point the only thing they care is to get some insurance/retirement benefits. They never cared about the men

[@marcineren112]

@@m3cinco452 After experience with women that only want more and are never satisfied and many videos of women exposing themselves I too am sure that all their life the only thing that they care is them.

[@Al-Ghaibb]

I've never understood why men take women out on dates anyway, Tyrone and Pookie never spent a dime and keep blowing their backs out while eating the leftovers she brought him after the “foodie” date with you. 🤣

[@marcineren112]

@@Al-Ghaibb I was taught that you should treat her like queen and that was my downfall , I was meeting with a girl and I wine and dine her ,just dance around her like a stupid monkey and then learned that before coming to me she had sex with Chad in his car and all I've had is just spent time with her , that was my lesson that alpha fvcks beta bucks.

[@ZoltarSoulFunk]

If they're asking you out on a date, you should ask if they're paying.

[@shagans6701]

That blonde wig looks quite silly on her

[@55cleon]

INDEED 👊🏿!!

[@Gunsight-One]

What are you talking about? Her hair is completely natural. 🤭

[@Rey-Nolds]

Eeewww, Trash

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If that's not her real hair, it shows she's definitely a cheapskate when it comes to choosing her own wigs.

[@unknowninfinium4353]

Its insecurity. She is trying hard to look more "Fair". Me being from Asian community, once Asian W@hm3n goes to western country they become "Western" and no linger Asian.

[@j-man5902]

When a woman brings up how “expensive” it is to “look this good”, here’s a good rule of thumb. Naturally beautiful women don’t gotta spend much……Naturally CONFIDENT women don’t feel the need to over-accessorize. And yes, a coffee date is the bare minimum. But that’s STILL a lot compared to how much she’s done and spent on YOU at that point. 👀👀 Big fat ZERO.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

Have you ever seen what women turn into when the club closes and fluorescent lights turn on? It's like when Roddy Piper from _The Live_ first puts those glasses on.

[@hatemadness]

I like that point about natural beauty. I'm not into the extra extra makeup

[@thystaff742]

If a woman is spending $100+ to "look good" then you know she's not worth having. You want a partner who's going to help you, not someone who's wasting money for superficial reasons and thinks she's too good to fulfill the role of a wife.

[@tikifreaky5204]

Unless a woman is making her own beauty products , even natural beauty products cost alot of money - even more if they’re using organic products

[@The.S.M.Evans.91]

She literally said 'If a man loses his job, it's his problem." If you're in a committed relationship, this perspective is the real problem. I would never accept a woman who couldn't put their pride aside and show up for me when it's necessary. Most men aren't standing by looking to lose their job on purpose.

[@TheGr80ne]

Just this year, I've had women ask me out on coffee dates. Using her logic I should have said, "Hell no! Three-star dinner or nothing!" The buffoonery is at an all-time high fellas. #TheFoolishness

[@1230mkelly]

Goes to show you how desperate they have become; as Pookie & Ray-Ray are not even doing that.

[@kenwilliams5048]

LMAO...That's Right. Just like she said 🤣

[@kemuan01]

Thats right King ! 👑 You deserve nothing but the best 😤 And if she starts pressuring you for a sex, get up and walk away, make her pay the bill, you owe her nothing. 🙌

[@bangryman100]

I had a female call me broke, then my homegirl said," he ain't broke, he just dont spend money on your ass" Lol

[@kenwilliams5048]

@@bangryman100 LMAO 🤣She didn't turn you on financially 🤑

[@TGCid01]

The sense of entitlement and the apathy for the male dating experience from these women is astonishing.

[@1230mkelly]

Answer: Stop dating.

[@Al-Ghaibb]

@@1230mkelly Exactly! Why do you guys even date, Tyrone and Pookie are blowing their backs out without meeting in a formal setting or paying for anything.

[@johnnaranjo1668]

Exactly! Women like these doesn’t care about equal exchange of value. They just take, take, take, and take while giving unsuspecting men false hopes. Wise men know when to cut their loses and run.

[@timfisher1588]

They dont care. Remember its not about you, its about them.

[@anthonywheeler7599]

They ought to be lucky someone even looks at them

[@SA-vz7qi]

Ha ha ha! She thinks a "three star restaurant" is defined by fabric napkins! She thinks she is projecting an image of class but actually comes across as really low class. A nice tea/coffee shop is a lot classier than lots of places she considers a restaurant. A woman who thinks she is too good for a coffee/tea date is not good enough for anything.

[@whoathatsalotofdamage3718]

As a coffee nerd my first few dates are normally in coffee shops and cheaper eateries. Found a nice coffee nerd and our dates were mostly finding new coffee shops in the area and drinking 5 dollar drinks happily

[@HKST51R]

I'm surprised a coffee date is an option. A dog walk is free. That's about the appropriate value for these entitled women

[@blunt2416]

Bingo. Especially since the majority of them have AT LEAST 1 side dude that is banging them for free. These days there are NO single women that are not experiencing temporary companionship when they feel lonely.

[@m2goofy760]

It isnt easy to get them to wear a leash though...

[@etaxalo]

You won the comment section lmfao

[@alcasey3551]

@@m2goofy760 LMAO

[@randypoole9491]

I say it all the time. Find a good park or aesthetically pleasing location and go for a walk. Depending on the mood escalate to coffee/tea/smoothie/shake or grab food if your hungry, but only if your hungry. If she says she is hungry ask her where she wants to eat and that you'll accompany her, but your not hungry so coffee and maybe a crepe is fine for you.

[@toonami99]

pro tip, dont listen to a female dating coach or do the opposite. The lady doesn't have to get her hair, nails, makeup done for an initial meeting. If she wants an event date, well shes going to have to earn it or prove your not waiting his time.

[@orihellcon]

Typical, females hold on to the first thing they hear they do not like and everything else cannot penetrate their ego.

[@georgejones3526]

And they constantly claim that they’re not dressing up for the man, they’re doing it for themselves.

[@armandoortiz9114]

She's a date coach. More like a p.o.s!

[@armandoortiz9114]

@Blaster she's asking Regular Joe Blows to be foodie dates where men pay and get nothing! Fake hair, fake nails, fake up and fake advice.

[@dipanshu.__]

@Blaster Fax

[@angelosliotscos8405]

They won't let me post that feminism is socialism by another name.

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Hahaha

[@kcooke00]

“In order for a woman to get the validation from the sisterhood…” You statement was pure gold!

[@imitatorofJesusChrist]

If you ask a woman out for coffee, and she makes a fuss like miss fake blonde hair and tons of makeup, then disqualify her immediately. A woman who’s interested in getting to know you doesn’t care about how much you spend on a date. She’s interested in YOU. Remove the women who think otherwise. 🙅‍♂️

[@libraalibaba]

I'm so sorry for her husband right now. He better never fall on hard times.

[@imitatorofJesusChrist]

@@libraalibaba She’s married??? That’s scary. Probably to a weak guy. You can tell a lot about a guy by the woman he’s with.

[@shogun8807]

This is just as important men. The first 2 women in this video are the SAME woman!!! She is bleaching her skin! BIG red flag.

Yeah, last time I was out to get to know a woman we had pizza… and she paid! Of course, we agreed that I'd pay the next time (which I did) but the point is that it doesn't have to cost a lot of money to get to know someone.

[@imitatorofJesusChrist]

@ Agreed.

[@INC823]

Coffee dates coffee dates yeah that’s me!! 🙋🏾‍♂️☕️

[@itsruffoutchea6636]

😂

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

😂😂😂 The emojis at the end made me lose it!!

[@michaelherring7210]

Just flip around everything she’s saying and act like men should do the things she’s telling women to do! There would be rioting in streets 😂

[@Alexdad84]

She lightens her skin, wears a blonde wig and talks about what she deserves instead of what she's earned. If she's married I feel sorry for him. She hates herself, hates most men and is narcissistic.

[@Ghost-vw3xj]

Women: I don’t owe you anything Also women: I DESERVE more than coffee, I know my worth. 3 stars or better but I still don’t owe you anything These women are giving the lowest amount of effort possible.

[@jaydenandrews02]

What do you mean lowest amount of effort. They are giving zero effort. They think showing up is giving you everything.

[@andoverb1307]

I really wonder how we as a society came to this point where men are not valued at all in spite of being the main contributor to every single human development through out the history of the world. How come sperm became so cheap when it delivers so much value. Men really need to stand up for themselves end this nonsensical entitlement that modern women have. I personally have in on my dating profile that until there is a relationship we will be paying ourselves and its a turn off for you, then I say good riddance. I am tired of entitled women who wants everything without giving anything back.

[@TheJaywoodcode]

God forbid you try to have deep philosophical conversations.💀☠️

@@andoverb1307 *_"How come sperm became so cheap..[?]"_* Because there's a lot of it. Eggs, not so much. This gives women a higher biological worth than men... lately, feminism came along and convinced people that it's the other way around and that it's unfair _to women,_ which, in turn, propelled women's entitlement through the roof. The rest, as they say, is history.

[@jetsnitram7188]

I used to be an advocate for a coffee date but having. Iistening to this woman I am 100% anti-dating. Saving my money. The unmitigated gall of this woman is systematic of the thought process of modern women.

[@m3cinco452]

Well she is talking to post wall single women who thinks they deserve the Kardashian lifestyle

[@leifcatt]

Each paycheck, put your "date" money into a vacation jar and then visit Thailand, Vietnam or the Philippines for lovely women and walking streets or go to Spain, Greece, France or Italy for great food and fantastic sightseeing. It's up to you and you alone.

[@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__]

Better than a Coffee Date... Walk in the park!

[@JOESUBA122]

I am saving my money and going back out the country lol! I will leave these women here alone

[@solomongrundy1467]

@@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__ 💯You're getting exercise and its free, can't beat it.

[@jtorres5381]

Their logic: You prefer at least ☕ coffee dates?"No!" So you prefer to be alone? "Yes!"🤔

[@paulanderson771]

Nothing more romantic than taking someone you don't know out to a restaurant you didn't even want to go to and watching them spend money on food you can make better at the house all the while knowing this person is on the fence about whether they even want to get to know you. So romantic.

[@Ya39oub_G]

"Invest in me so I can leave you if you have a hard time" Sounds like a good investment don't you think guys ?!

[@jimjohnson394]

"I have walked out in the middle of dinner dates"

[@TheJaybass32]

No more coffee dates... Its either water dates or walk in the park. Not both

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If she's not there during your struggles, she shouldn't be there for your success.

[@seventhz777z]

"...if he asks me where I want to go it means hes incapable of planning a life..." Ridiculous. Men ask where you want to go because he wants to take you somewhere that you enjoy and will have a good time. We as men have had countless experiences of saying "we're going here" and her responding she doesn't want to go there, or worse yet, response that he's being controling making all the decisions. By asking we're trying to be considerate of you and your preferences and avoid your drama.

[@creeperkingdom3190]

a plan requires communication and if you are not willing to communicate on something as basic as planing a date how am I supposed to lead you in the relationship

[@dinsel9691]

Typical female logic.. she wants you to "know" what she likes without any evidence.

[@b.calvinsaul1909]

In my experience, I inform her of where we are going and at what level she should dress. With no exceptions, they love that. Because they suffer from decision paralysis, I give them three choices from the menu that I hold. I don't even let them see the menu. They describe the situation as "relaxing and freeing". They hate making decisions.

[@jimjohnson394]

@@b.calvinsaul1909 That decision paralysis is a big reason they end up dying alone. They keep monkey branching until they are out of options.

[@GOLIATHdominates]

Bad approach. Go where you want to go, and if there's drama that woman is filtering herself out.

[@oacevedo81]

If the location matters then she's not there to get to know you; she's there for the experience and possibly a story to be able to tell her friends. If a coffee date isn't appealing to her, she's obviously not interested in getting to know you. Leave her be and move on.

[@aplan4u328]

There was a time when a lady would invite you over to a home cooked meal. Now all these women talk about is what they deserve, but can't boil a pot of water.

[@KH-mf1sq]

Bingo✅

[@philthyrich1433]

THATS JUST MEANS WE'RE BEING HEARD ✊😎

[@shiiteposter1396]

🥇

[@blackwolf3488]

Heard not listened to. They're going around whatever they can.

[@Kumari_44]

@@blackwolf3488 pay attention to the next 5-10 years carefully. Theyre going to listen extremely well, fix up and change their tune… or die alone with their bush animals and antidepressants.

[@hefestos002]

CLICKING FASTER THAN A SIMP PAYING FOR HER BILLS

[@fucksystem13]

Lol

[@cestlavie5713]

If she's into to you, she wouldn't care about a coffee date .

[@forthelulz8085]

She is vile and I feel bad for any guy who has had the displeasure of her company.

[@whatisantilogic138]

I don't believe she has a husband. Why would a married woman care about what men do on dates? She's too angry about this when it shouldn't even apply to her life.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

Her husband is a simp or much older.

[@bababamooo906]

Yes, she is angry and dumb.

[@mackreb]

Guys DO NOT do coffee dates! It is seriously a possible to it cheaper. Go for a walk in the park and if you must have coffee then prepare coffee at home, put in a thermos and take it with you. Optional take 2 cups with you. The purpose of the date is not to show off your wealth, but to know whether or not she will follow your program

[@lionelk.1739]

Dude 😎 that is so funny. There's nothing wrong with being practical.

[@divisionbyzero313]

I love the optional part 👍

[@zippo5294]

This is efficiency at its finest

[@allinterhigh3118]

Genius 🤣

[@mikeheaton8424]

Good one , tap water and two paper cups.

[@soloman_am]

I have a much better understanding of the phrase "if you chase something it'll run away from you" the more she talks about "expensive" dates the less I want to take any woman on one

[@peppep1569]

Any man who is not a millionaire, does not want a woman who is so cavalier and reckless with spending money. "Makeup, expensive purses, fine clothes, etc" This type of woman will drain your finances and then, when there is nothing left to drain from you, she will give you the "we've drifted apart. You're not the same man I fell in love with" speech. Save your time, money and mental health, fellas. Travel the world. Foreign women will treat you like a king...and you do NOT have to commit. Never commit.

[@tumisang7506]

So essentially its only productive to date a woman as long as the man is providing at his own expense, but if the roles become reversed then the man becomes a liability and isnt worth the womans time or effort. And this makes sense to some woman? 😐

[@creeperkingdom3190]

and they then talk about how they want "equality"

[@davidwhite206]

@@creeperkingdom3190 No, they want to cherry pick when it comes to equality.

[@furyberserk]

But I thought men made more money. Why wouldn't they be worth the effort. *Remembers woman turns down nuclear engineer.

[@davidwhite206]

@@furyberserk You know she's going to feel dumb as hell about a decade down there line, not that she'd have had a chance with a guy of that caliber in the first place.

[@brainofireland]

Agreed. They either don't recognize (usually) or care about the double standards

[@bruceellison9269]

I personally don’t think people should listen to the opinions of women who aren’t even secure in themselves to wear their own hair lmao

[@alcasey3551]

She doesn't even have a man! She's teaching others what to accept and no to accerpt & yet, It obviously didn't work for her.

[@TheJaybass32]

...or wear their own skin complexion

[@MrPokemon248]

If a woman liked you. Sitting down to hang out and get to know one another over a cup of coffee would be no big deal.

[@patrickpowers8912]

Coffee dates should be standard for a first date. Why would you waste your hard earned money on a female that will probably just use you for a foodie call? Be smart gentleman and don’t fall for their games.

[@julianblack3390]

Men repeat " l do not waste my time, money or energy on anyone or anything that does not benefit me." Because we Men ain't we??? SHEEED!

[@praetorianblade6490]

I profit from EVERY endeavor, or I don't engage in it. Relationships included

[@TheJaybass32]

No more coffee dates...walks in the park only

[@julianblack3390]

@@TheJaybass32 What's so fuct up is the park is beautiful and serene. Their minds are so twisted that they can't appreciate the scenery and good company. So as men save yourselves and do less. Pay for play and enjoy your day!

[@TheJaybass32]

@@julianblack3390 welcome to true Female Nature... Thank the social media gods for revealing Female Nature to us all. They suffer from so much Cognitive Dissonance that they don't even know they are telling on themselves...

[@julianblack3390]

@@TheJaybass32 For people that have come to this understanding it's the cure! we've experienced and seen so much of this behavior, and they seem to have no limits. I have to be honest, It still shocks me sometimes.

[@bmanske1]

I like the way she's thinking coffee dates are low effort so... The first date should be a low effort coffee date so women should show up with no make-up and wearing clothes from Walmart. If they look good enough that way, then maybe I'll ask for a second higher value date. If they can't show up looking naturally then I don't want her. Remember, what shows up at the coffee date is what you would wake up with every morning.

[@toonami99]

Amen

[@samuelgates5935]

Print a tee shirt.. I'll buy it😎😎

[@Jcg2nd]

I concur.

[@wizrom3046]

Yeah I want the tshirt; First date = Coffee No Makeup

[@thejubileesproject9101]

What does she look like without makeup? 😱

[@LordHollow]

Janice is so cooperative. Yes, first date should be easy in every sense of the word: Easy destination, easy on the pockets, etc.

[@ernoristola9346]

Coffee date: I want to know WHO YOU ARE, not to see how well you can act to get the most out of me.

[@tallbrian100]

Women are carful which man they choose, when men are carful with picking women they get shamed.

[@RobB678-x7k]

That first woman bleached her skin wow

[@bumbatumba1251]

Invite girls to dinner and leave before order is made, or offer to go to your place.

[@Garian9]

The fact that these types of women put their behavior out on the internet for everyone to see, makes avoiding them so much easier. No guy with self respect would commit to this gold digger after watching one of her videos.

[@georgemilliner3812]

"You don't build equity with women..." Man, truer words were never spoken. I wish I had known that 30 years ago. I would have had a completely different life.

[@TheJaybass32]

Your last sentence cut me deep...I'm 42 divorced and having to try and rebuild... I would have been so far if I had known all this in my teens

[@dennisbell5251]

amen

[@sunn209]

Don't beat yourself up, better learning late than never, like Robin Williams. Men stop passing on legacy about how to be a man thousand years ago. Masculinity/Manhood, leadership, is a serious technology , like nuclear engineering , military combat training or underwater welding.

[@bhart3321]

I'd amend that with you don't build equity with 304s. There are still good women out there. Beautiful, intelligent, engaging, & with actual maturity & grace that understand a good man's worth. They're harder to find nowadays sure but they're out there. Those women appreciate your efforts even when they're low on occasion. Those are women that will gladly take your equity & reciprocate in kind.

[@georgemilliner3812]

@@bhart3321 Do you actually know one? There were times that I thought I did too. But over time I was proved wrong - catastrophically so.

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

"I don't even know if I like you like that yet. So why drop a bunch of money before I know?" If the flurry of sign language begins, I am then absolutely certain that I don't, in any way.

[@paulb5293]

She won't go on a coffee dates - how will mankind cope!

[@KH-mf1sq]

😄

[@Tubeman777]

Look at videos of women from the 90s going on dates..... These modern "women" have become robotic wallet drainers. Us men might as well get sex dolls.

[@Cyber-Rain]

It's simple. I don't know you like that. Dating modern women and expecting to fork over $70 - $200 dinner dates is like jumping all in a body of water and you don't know the temperature or what's in it. Excuse men for dipping their foot in to see if the water is okay.

[@MF_DOOMer]

Perfect Analogy

[@bobbybrooks5496]

Xactly

[@yomismo9495]

If you spend money to attract a woman, you will attract hoes. My first date with my girlfriend was a walk on the beach with my dogs. At one point she said to me: wait a minute, how do you like your coffee? He ran to a small cafe just off the beach and brought two coffees to go which she paid for. We walked and chatted for over two hours. She played and laughed with my dogs. Enjoying the simple things. It was a nice first date and we clicked. She's a great girl, we have a fantastic relationship.

[@iamaronman]

More like jumping in to discover it's hydrochloric acid afterwards at this point

[@furyberserk]

Unless you are having sex, you could buy a videogame and be entertained just as much or more for the same price.

[@zeus014]

Hypergamy and high maintenance: Just like prostitution, but not as honest or ethical.

[@fernandoamy8278]

It's pretty much the same thing. If you don't pay, you ain't getting any. Except, sometimes they make you pay ...and you still don't get any.

[@zeus014]

@@fernandoamy8278 Agreed. Only difference is the ROI. Straight-up prostitution provides a guaranteed return. Hypergamy and high maintenance dates do not.

[@newnewfolk21]

I tell my guys these females charging Cat house brothel prices. I may as well head there

[@zeus014]

@@newnewfolk21 in today's society those brothel girls likely have a lower body count - not to mention more strict adherence to STD prevention protocols.

[@thejubileesproject9101]

As I watched this video, I had a look of utter disgust on my face. This thing had the audacity that no matter what a man does or give a woman he should have no expectations? The guy she’s married to has to be a simp. Wow!

[@shogun8807]

A world class SIMP.

[@jamarr27]

I hope her husband is paying attention because she's saying the second he hits hard times, his problems are his 👋 she's only loyal as long as the money and the good times are rolling. Her husband should think long and hard about their future because she won't. I reeeeally hope her husband sees this video and puts a plan in place because she has her game plan and shes waiting to hatch it.

[@blahblahblah6]

"Ain't it awful that we're having a harder time freeloading?"

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

"Coffee dates!? Next they'll want us to be polite and respectful when they are! How does that benefit MEEEEEE!?"

[@Tyk3l55]

Until women start taking men on date their opinions on where the dates go is not up to them.

[@jimjohnson394]

Yup, who asks, pays. But who pays, decides. If she doesn't like it, she doesn't have to go.

[@Blackpill149]

I don't want them to ask me out in date.I just want them to give me gurantee that after spending all the money,they will go on my bed

[@Tyk3l55]

@@Blackpill149 since we are dealing with women that will never be a guarantee 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Blackpill149]

@@Tyk3l55 Then i don't give a fuck.I will never love a women and i don't believe in marriage.I will pay women for sex because i am average guy.And if childrens are born,i will try to get custody of them and raise them alone.

[@Blackpill149]

@@Tyk3l55 And a women who complains for having a coffee date belongs to the streets

[@jamesmorton5017]

Don't want coffee for a chance to walk away with half my assets. Marriage and dating will continue to decline in the first world. Nobody is trying to make them feel special anymore. SYSBM

[@idesel]

A woman who is intereted in you or who is serious about having a good man in her life won't mind a coffee date. A woman who wants to be wine and dined on a first date is a huge red flag for a man who she wants that from, she doesn't care about you. Men simply don't want to waste money on an "unproven" potential partner.

[@nerychristian]

Very true. Most modern women are insufferable. They think they are queens who must be worshipped just because they have vaginas.

[@tuffgong5162]

She's going hard on that skin lightening cream...

[@ELcoyote576]

Give more to get more babe. The game has changed, All we did was adapt to the rules and we are thriving. That Is what winners do. Loser's complain It's not fair, Baby cakes, Who keeps lying to you that life Is fair???

[@starcader2663]

"if a guy loses his job (money, MONEY!!!) IT´S NOT YOUR PROBLEM, IT´S HIS PROBLEM" not even a shred of humanity or mercy. NEVER. AGAIN.

[@kingsargonii6939]

I went out with a woman last weekend. She made it very clear she wanted to pay for the whole date because I paid last time. I told her invited you so I'll pay. She looked me dead in the eyes and said I'm paying next time to be with you. I think I hit the 1% of women.

[@JaydenHolland-wo4fd]

How did it go?

[@blessedone5712]

If she's not happy with a coffee or similar type of date then she had very little interest anyway and you saved a lot of money

[@kuunami]

Women destroyed courtship. They've got women on the internet teaching each other how to abuse the time and effort of men and didn't expect men to adjust?

[@brianwaller7383]

Men are walking away as we are tired of being finessed by these 304’s

[@praetorianblade6490]

Men are realizing that they are the prize, as we have always been. We are God commanded rulers, and the woman is our helper. Period.

[@TheJaybass32]

Here is some more adjustment: No more coffee dates... Its either water dates or walk in the park. Not both

[@dcoldestjenkins5868]

If you are really into a guy, he won't have to spend a dime. Why take you on an expensive dinner date only to get nothing out of it when as soon as you get home, Pookie and Ray Ray nem get to come over, fold you in half, break your back then eat the leftovers from the meal I paid for afterwards? Sounds like a bad deal to me. I'm not interested in being a foodie call. 🤷🏿‍♂️ #SYSBM

[@hadiakmal9281]

If w0men dont owe men anything after a date, men also dont owe w0men a dinner date. Its that simple. There is no oweing. Anybody can leave and anybody can ask.

[@ApolloTheLeader]

What's it going to take for women to understand that they have priced themselves out of the market?

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

The reality of the wall taking hold

[@praetorianblade6490]

They are seeing it now, but it'll get massively worse when economy is hurting

[@theshipper5797]

Ok, I understand. We won't take you on coffee dates, because we're just gonna straight up not ask you out in the first place. Why take a whiny brat someplace where you just wanna enjoy your own cup of coffee? Not worth it.

[@TheJaywoodcode]

she made it so transactional.

[@chrisphillip253]

I will never in my life take the check to a restaurant that’s gonna cost me anything over 50 bucks on the first date. They’ve gotta earn that. If a chick isn’t willing to go on a coffee date with me then I’m not willing to dater. Too many foodie calls.

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If you don't want to pay for a woman's dinner, ask her over the phone what time she's having dinner. If she says, 7, say, "Great! I'll meet you after dinner (at bar/café) at 8.30." She then can't say that you're cheap, as she had made her own dinner plans.

[@quoniam426]

The 3 star restaurant as a bare minimum is for gold diggers hitting on billionaires, not for the common people.