Lolita Horror Stories - The Shop of 1,000 Refunds

[@LovelyLor]

Seeing a lot of comments angry that I didn't disclose the shop and also some who found my hidden messages but have had different experiences with the shop so I'm going to cover a few things. If you rewatch the ending, the part I filmed in daylight you have all the answers you need but I'll explain again. I originally was going to name the shop but they recently reached out to me and I don't want to risk dealing with all of this again. I also don't want to have ANY risk for defamation claims because even though I have evidence sometimes an individual (please remember I'm just one person) going thru charges like this from a larger company can be insanely complicated,costly,stressful and I've seen some people be nearly ruined by just the process alone. I also mentioned that I ordered something from them recently and it did come so it is possible they've fixed their issues. I'm also not sure if the people who were communicating with me are still with the company. No company should behave this way but it's not going to end with this one shop. Other companies may do this and I want people to be aware not to tolerate it because no one told me this in 2015. I wanted to make this video to share my story and arm consumers and influencers with knowledge not to tolerate this sort of behaviour. This is not an advice, review or drama series. It's about sharing unfortunate events for entertainment and hopefully for viewers not to make the same mistakes or be prepared for certain situations. I hope that makes sense. There's a lot more coming to this series that may not be expressly disclosed or hidden for different reasons. I hope you enjoy and keep your eyes and ears open

[@LunaMondhexe]

I suffer under depression and anxiety (and other stuff) a lot so I can totally understand why you don't want to confront them again. You made an awful experience with them and it wasn't just a misunderstanding or "the employee was rude" situation. Thanks for sharing your story I absolutely love the lolita horror series.

[@LilyLovecraftian]

I shouldn't have to go on an Easter egg hunt to not get scammed, I'm not angry though just mildy annoyed.

[@loli_cvnt5622]

You shouldn't feel so entitled y'know

[@nelvee]

@@loli_cvnt5622 how the hell was anything she said entitled? Go on. Elaborate.

[@elizabetha3936]

Thanks for sharing. Kinda sounds like you had a run in with a person who had their own head up their own booty. Sometimes people forget that someone else's expierences are not shared for their opinion input. When someone tells a personal story, we're suppose to listen. We love ya Lor.

[@Mi8573]

The real Lolita Horror Story here is that your legal name isnt Lovely Lor.....It's allllll beeeeen a lieeeeeee....

[@cupoftae7170]

Caught in a lieeeee

[@blueskysandbutterflys]

XD Sooo true!

[@xxxCreepyFangirlxxx]

The production value of this video tho *chef kiss*

[@ASHERUISE]

So spooky! o_o

[@reginawarburton3255]

my-lolita-dress is the store in question but i've made multiple orders with them in the past and have had no issues refarding out of stock items, refunds etc. 3 years has made the difference guys.

[@milkteamachine]

Receiving an item you ordered and paid for is the absolute bare minimum from a shop, I think everything you described is absolutely unacceptable.

[@Chibz]

Reviews don't have to be positive. It's better to give a negative review than to ignore doing a review at all, I think.

[@Melliona]

But i get that you don't want to to that with such a penetrant company

[@chrystia5462]

If you have a negative review for a company that sent you something. It can be just as bad if not worse when they find out. It's a big issue on Amazon. Companies will offer you a refund if you leave a positive review on a bad product. It's really sad

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

@Kai The_Magical.Lizard Same.

[@chrystia5462]

@Thora Friganza it's not Amazon its the seller buying reviews

[@catmadderfact5215]

I mean she acts like she has no idea why they could have possibly not stopped asking her for a review like they didn't specifically tell her we are giving you free merchandise in exchange for a review. That review could have been a suggestion from an employee who saw her videos and really liked them and decided convincing the higher ups to let her have something for free or even possibly out of their own pocket could get help boost company sales. The smart thing to do would have been to instantly ask if she could return their merchandise back to them since she clearly didn't feel comfortable even doing the review anymore but instead she just kept stringing them along lol.

[@EM-mc8pd]

Shop was my Lolita dress. Says it around 6 min in code.

[@fondantswirl2019]

Erin Elisabeth Creates that’s what I thought. So disappointed...

[@Satchun]

I bought many times in there and had no problems, maybe they actually changed, obviously didnt know about this

[@ellentaylor-king6723]

The gur fubc jnf zl ybyvgnv querff???

[@BohemianScandalous]

Krista Star rot-13

[@BohemianScandalous]

Ellen Taylor-King that’s right. Google rot-13

[@natalyrausch]

It really would do us a huge service to know who the shop is. Lolita clothing is already so expensive, confusing, and frustrating to order, so having a shop like this be the first introduction for a new lolita is troublesome. It seems they are still unreliable to this day.

[@pone4734]

gur fubc jnf zl ybyvgn qerff (Caesar)

[@juliam8134]

V sbhaq vg ol purpxvat ure gjragl svsgrra vafgntenz cvpf

[@kayrosi1805]

zyq:8+5

[@izevrente]

I would like to know!!

[@astoriadollface]

Po Ne V nyjnlf xarj gung fubc jnf fuvsgl, V arire beqrerq ohg V nyjnlf tbg n onq srryvat fvapr gur erivrjf jrer rvgure ernyyl onq be ernyyl tbbq. Nyfb, jul vf pnrfne arrqrq?

[@willgellings3697]

Super scary 😱 never thought of a company stalking a influencer. Hopefully they get the message and stay away from lor.

[@chelsiemalfoy]

The reverse audio says something like: "The next episode is about boundaries. It includes two stories, one of the lolitas...." I couldn't really tell the end part 'cause it was said so quickly and jumbled.

[@whitematterartist]

"The next episode talks about boundaries. It includes 2 stories. One, of lolitas crossing boundaries. The other, about the mummies/mommies". That's what I figured out. I think the next episode is about people crossing personal boundaries of other people and moms interfering with their kids. (Unless there is an actual horror story involving a real Egyptian mummy.....)

[@vivianc.c.3379]

Wtf you guys are ninjas or something

[@whitematterartist]

@@vivianc.c.3379 nope. Just too much free time for our own good. Also, Lor told me that the last word is not "mommies"...so...still working on that. Maybe "memories"?

[@bunnsberry3236]

Kiliost what shop is it

[@mx_machine]

God I love your more creative filming and editing styles so so much

[@RukoHanaji]

It's hardly defamation if you have the receipts.

[@lilyoftheveil666]

But then it also becomes a long, drawn-out, expensive legal process

[@creamcheesecos7587]

I love lor so much an has anyone else noticed how well her wing eyeliner have gotten like go LOR LOOKIN LOVELY

[@whitematterartist]

If anybody is wondering, the cipher at 18:58 says "If you can read this maybe you can find the shop in this video" and the cipher at 19:00 says "IN THE NEXT EPOSODE". The audio starting at 19:00 played in reverse and slowed down says "The next episode talks about boundaries. It includes 2 stories. One, of the lolitas crossing boundaries. The other, about the mommies".

[@LovelyLor]

Great work! Mostly correct hahaha the next episode has nothing to do with mommies

[@whitematterartist]

@@LovelyLor welp. Back to work then...

[@whitematterartist]

@@LovelyLor "memories" maybe?

[@Some_queer_kid]

Underrated comment

[@mortifera123]

I think I know which website you're talking about, and I had a very similar experience with out of stock items. Everything I ordered was out of stock. Then instead of a refund they offered to have me exchange for something else. It was a total bait and switch. They lure you in with cool items, take your money, and want you to walk away with something you never intended to buy in the first place. They were also extremely aggressive with emails about getting me to find something else in the shop when I just wanted a refund. Even months after I got my refund they contacted me asking if I was still interested in their shop. Honey, no.

[@the.dance.of.crippling.shadows]

That has happened to me in a lot of shops actually,but they informed me quicly and I chose another item,because my style is a weirdo mix of classic-hime-gothic-kuro lolita,so as long as it is dark with beautiful print and EXTREMELY much lace and ruffles I will get another item

[@four1629]

@@the.dance.of.crippling.shadows do you have an insta or any page where i can see your coords bcs that sounds stunning

[@the.dance.of.crippling.shadows]

@@four1629 aw! Hello there! Well, I have long quit lolita and I just kept on with my gothic style, because lolita shape is not quite my style 😊😊 but yeah, it would be great tho mix elements more and more if I continued to wear it, and I enjoy watching others wearing their style in lolita

[@epictetushasepictiddiez2615]

I've seen similar behavior with every j fashion shop with an online presence!

[@puvithel]

Jesus, it's ridiculous what some people think you owe them because they give you one free thing. If a sponsor gives an influencer things but no $$ the influencer doesn't actually owe the sponsor anything at all imo. It feels like to me this shop is one of those that doesn't really sell things, and just scams people by getting trusting influencers to promote them. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a shitty company >:

[@sailorsappho]

your filmography is giving me goosebumps. the attention to detail, the audio, the editing, the sfx, the opening...UGH

[@FattyChan]

oh man i remember u vaguely speaking about this store on some other social media but i did not realize the crazy extent that this went to

[@lestatangel]

Rumor has it that this little Horror Story will be told at Gothic Lolita summer camps for the next decade. Minimum. 🖤💖🖤

[@CupcakeKamisama]

Bloody hell, the fact that even when dealing with depression you had this seemingly unending supply of optimism to keep giving the company second chances is astounding. (I won't lie, I'm very curious as to what the company is or at least what's the dress that you got from them just now, but I understand why you won't disclose that.)

[@amirae.7295]

I LIVE FOR THE INTRO

[@lestatangel]

Amira E. - That comment made me smile 🖤

[@oliverclimbsV3]

It reminds me of American Horror Story and I love it

[@ernestborunda4730]

Amita call me 4087707575 Ernie

[@MaoUtau]

Found the shop's name, I'm really bummed out bc I was gonna buy my third dress from there...idk if I'm still going to tbh

[@lamibonxd]

omg who

[@MaoUtau]

it's a taobao reseller, and it isn't glitzy wonderland, lolitawardrobe, or clobbaonline. Starts with an m

[@TippyTeapots]

@@MaoUtau Thank you. 💗

[@triplehearts914]

i think i know the shop youre talking about, and if its them, im really sad. Im glad i watched this before ordering :(

[@chelsiemalfoy]

is there a couple hyphens in the url?

[@lindsay9181]

I understand you want to be nice to them but never sending confirmations or updates about late shipments is really not okay.

[@tehrinny7031]

It's not really about being nice. It's more about not getting involved in a whole debacle like this again, defamation, harassment and possibly legal actions. Not naming the shop is a careful and wise move on her part. I know we're all so into cancel culture, but there are times where it's not a good move to make.

[@lindsay9181]

Bobbi Shaw yeah, I understand. I would still be frustrated if I ordered from a shop with a horrendous track record but no one ever spoke up about it, but I also definitely don’t blame Lor.

[@nene2328]

My lolita dress, more like no lolita dress.

[@JinxDagger]

Those ciphers at the end made me feel like it was 2013/2014 and I was back in my Marble Hornets decoding days. I'm sorry you had such an awful experience with [redacted] company but at least on your final ditch attempt you actually received a product! [redacted] company is setting the bar so low you could trip over it.

[@elvingearmasterirma7241]

Hon. That bar was digging for oil.

[@quixoticsonnet]

Not related to Lolita fashion, but one time I wanted to buy an item (a seal pillow) from a small website called Ikiha. I was very close to buying it until I did a background check on the website only to discover that it was a scam storefront. There were hundreds of reviews written by people who had all been scammed the same way. Ikiha's method of scamming was to accept the money for your "purchase" and then not send you anything in the mail. Some people were messaged fake "tracking numbers" but most people didn't receive any responses from the company requesting tracking numbers, order confirmations, or refunds. Once they had your money, they were gone. Checking back on it a year later, it looks like they actually send items out now, but the items are of extremely low quality. I guess that's a step up for them? Case in point, if you ever decide to buy from an online store that you've never purchased from before then make sure to do your research.

[@Lady_dromeda]

I like the idea that you bought a dress without “saying who you were” it kind of makes you think about how certain sites treat people differently, like the thing with vpfashion hair extensions, how the “famous people” got good ones and everyone else got bad ones

[@dimi.33]

Yay another horror story! This is starting to be one of my favorite series :)

[@peachtea953]

I knew the store once you mentioned about items “ suddenly “ being out of stock. I bought the same Diamond Honey Gingham dress you have but in blue, no confirmation, then received an email almost two weeks later that the wrist cuffs were “ out of stock “ when online it was fully in stock. Not only did my items take 4 months to arrive, with express shipping. The second dress I ordered was the wrong size, the wrong colour way, and the wrong cut. I reached out to them and said this is not what i ordered. They refused a refund and I only got store credits. THEN MY FRIEND ordered from this site and the same thing happened to her!! I wont be ordering from them anymore and i used those store credits to get a classical puppets petticoat, which came fine and in a week. Sorry this happened to you Lor, its definitely a situation that would suck to be in especially when youre facing a hard time.

[@bdluejay]

your editing is superb. this story isnt really scary to me (other than the /horrifying/ unprofessional communication) but the bg music and the way you cut to words and blurred your face kinda sent chills down my spine. fantastic work as always lor!

[@juliam8134]

Seriously loving your makeup and editing.

[@chocomental]

Bless you Lor. It's 23:30 here and I can't function at work if I don't get enough sleep, but I just love that you included cipher puzzles so of course I had to solve them right now. I'm really sorry for your experience though, that's shady as heck.

[@shycherrygirl]

Thank you for sharing your story! Even if you don't say the shop name, it is very helpful for people to know about situations like this. I'm sorry that you dealt with this, especially during a hard time. You look lovely in black and, again, thank you for sharing all your stories and advice

[@Normajeane107]

I remember buying a dress from them and I purchased it in cream it took forever for them to contact me with and then they told me they sold the last cream color way to another girl (it was in stock in cream when i ordered it??) and that I'd have to pick another. I picked the pink colorway and when i got it it had a defect with the print. I asked for a partial refund because it was a pretty big defect and I didn't think it was worth the full price anymore. They offered to take ten bucks off of a 200+ $ dress and I had to argue with them again to exchange the dress for another dress without the defect. They offered to refund me shipping if i sent it to someone who was their proxy who lived in the us. I eventually got a new dress without the defect but they never refunded the shipping and at that point I didn't want to argue anymore so I just let it go. It left the worst taste in my mouth and I've never bothered to try and order anything else from them again. It makes me feel better that I wasn't the only person who got dicked around by them, because at the time I had only heard good things about them from other lolitas.

[@Ninjozata]

The aesthetic of these videos is my everything

[@newtingAround]

Wow, i'm actually shocked! That shop is actually where i bought my first "new" dress and petticoat also back in 2015! They also told me that my choice was out of stock and i could choose a different dress, so i chose one that was a little more expensice and everything went fine. I also bought a petticoat on there and everything was going fine, i liked customer service.. thanks for warning us!

[@rubymarkoski3637]

does this website still exsist so that i can know to avoid it

[@otaple]

Never would of guessed the shop. I had a positive experience ordering from them a few years ago but jeez not sure if I'd try my luck again.

[@lostchild06]

I wonder what that company was.

[@lickmyballs420]

My Lolita dress

[@Ilsezwarts]

@@lickmyballs420 really? I've never had a problem with them before and I've ordered a couple of times from them,

[@Melliona]

@@Ilsezwarts I've heard thay they restructured some time ago

[@Ilsezwarts]

@@Melliona yea but the first time I ordered from them was a long time ago, all in all I'm just confused i guess

[@LunaMondhexe]

@@lickmyballs420 F*ck really? They stole my money once, I never get a refund or my order. -.-

[@beatricemendoza2932]

When they asked you to pick something else, you should have asked for something that you order previously that was "out of stock" to see if they really didnt have it or of they were trying to scam you out of money.

[@uniquelyholden]

Oh, gosh, so sorry you had to go through that. All the stalking and outright harassment they did is sickening. Sincerely hope you don't find yourself subjected to any more of their messages. On a more positive note...that opening is AMAZING. So perfectly eerie!

[@BelleLunaGoccia]

The shop she's talking about is *My Lolita dress*

[@mittfh]

Is their business model predominantly collecting interest on payments while waiting for customers to demand a refund (and/or hoping some customers give up badgering them and forget about their purchase)?! I assume some customers must occasionally get their purchases without extensive badgering, otherwise how the heck are they still in business?!

[@damnbro_idc]

Holy moly, how can a company do this? Like go publicly on the internet and harass someone who wanted to represent them in a good way. That's just embarrassing and supreme unprofessional. Extra points for unprofessionalism for not updating the site to say that stuff is out of stock.

[@mariamigorena6439]

Had the same experience with Uniqso, the circle lenses online shop. Their website has hundreds of listings, but they actually have next to nothing in stock, and I ended up having the longest conversation with them via email, where they asked me over and over again to chose another pair of lenses from them. It was ridiculous, and after they told me for the 5th time they didn't have stock for lenses I was trying to buy that were listed as available on their website, I decided to never deal with them again, and I found a new supplier.

[@ladylibrum7145]

Thanks. I'll be sewing all my clothes instead of ordering from these companies (Most of their stuff is too small, anyway.) And I'm flabbergasted that they would stalk you like that. Appalling.

[@callieota-q6805]

new fav video series tbh

[@PrincessDraculaura]

I have so many items from this store on my wishlist, I can’t believe this happened to u! I will not be ordering from them ever. For anyone wondering, the code is very simple to figure out by reading the comments

[@Spatiumdei]

I had the same issue with that shop when I first started into lolita and they refused multiple times to give me a refund. We had to threaten them with legal action to get my money back. Not fun.

[@nerfninja6]

I love the aesthetic on this video. I would love to see more that look like this in the future!

[@XevilblondeX]

I'm really glad you made this video. I'm dealing with this right now... Others had told me they had issues but I ordered from them once before and it was fine and decided to order from them again. I ordered 3 "ready to ship" items with an 8-12 day processing time with the fastest shipping. It was over a month with no update from them. I contacted them and they told me some of the items were out of stock (same as you, the items were in stock on their site). Offered to ship the items separate once some was done. I told them no just ship everything when it's done and I will never trust their processing times again. A week later I get half my order.... No shipping notification, nothing. So now I'm not sure if I'll get the other half of my order, if they're going to try to charge me or what... They just said sorry :( we give you small gift. Not really worth the over 2 month wait time with zero updates and terrible communication. Definitely avoiding them from now on.

[@vimerveilles]

I actually ordered from this shop BEFORE this video but I'm not ordering again bc honestly I ended up getting told my dress was out of stock, so I asked if I could get a different colorway that was in stock. I didn't like the other as much but I loved the unique cut. I waited 3 months!!! But I ended up getting the dress in my 1st colorway choice... not the one I settled for??? Wtf.

[@lifesparody]

Love love love the opening , so creepy. Great video . I’m so happy when I see a new video from you, even though I’m not a part of the lolita community and very likely am old enough to be your mother lol. Thanks for being you.

[@HaldjasHelina]

This series is amazing. The editing is cool the premise is amazing and the story was fascinating. I love content like that that has bits of investigation and that goes really quite in depth. This shop seems like pure scam to me.

[@IonIsFalling7217]

Okay but that INTRO!

[@isobelrobson2228]

I love your makeup look, it's like a beautiful gothic raven 🖤🦋

[@ceara841]

Can I just say I’m impressed how people can know about cyphers and stuff it’s something that I find so interesting but like how do you get good at noticing different kinds where do they come from like you never hear about cyphers anymore. Maybe that’s just in England but the first I heard of cyphers was from gravity falls and I just think it’s so cool and don’t know how to get into it

[@LovelyLor]

I watch a lot of horror content and from that I've learned about ciphers haha I think once you take a lot of it in you start to notice them or look for them more. If you are interested in more stuff like this I suggest the youtubers Reignbot and Nexpo ! They cover internet horror a lot and it's great because it's summarized and explained so if you can still get the stories and such without having to go through them all and narrated which makes it less scary ! They also go into hidden messages and stuff like that more and explain it!

[@ceara841]

Lovely Lor thank you so much!!!

[@megandrover340]

love the spooky vibes in july. exited for halloween time.

[@JennyInTokyo]

There was no written contract between you and the store to do a review so you weren't legally obligated to do the review. I know you haven't revealed the shop name but at the end of the day with how bad they are, other people will know who they are and their business end will happen.

[@ribbonfox3923]

Oh, I had a quite similar experience with lolitawardrobe. I ordered a dress like in the end of 2018, and did not hear from the website for a couple of months. When I emailed them, they told that it is not available in the required size and suggested to choose another dress. I tried to choose, but the dresses I liked and within desired price range were not available in required size either. Just for mentioning, it was my first dress order from any lolita store. So, I asked them to refund me money. To be fair, I ordered 2 blouses from the same site before and received it in time all perfect and pretty. But after the dress story I don't feel comfortable to order again.

[@ElfriedeKlien]

So excited!! After viewing I’m slightly worried but still thrilled about new content

[@korilakkuma2190]

i love these kind of videos so much, they really creep me out ! good job Lor, your filmography is really great

[@blueberrybunnie1997]

I actually had a similar experience with that shop a few years back! I tried to buy the Milu Forest Swan Lake jsk in white (I still love that dress to this day but haven't been able to get my hands on it). They told me it was out of stock and to pick a different one and I almost cried, as I thought I was gonna get what had become my dream dress. I ended up getting something similar in price but that I didn't love. It was upsetting lol

[@MrDrSadie]

This actually made my hands sweaty tbh. I'm sorry you had to go through all of that, omg! Makes you wonder how they stay open, are they like... investing that money somewhere while those weeks/months go by? So strange.

[@callieota-q6805]

"if you can read this maybe you can find the shop in this video" (ceasar cypher +13) but i can't figure out what the second part is RIP

[@callieota-q6805]

"IN THE NEXT EPISODE" it was atbash omg (tbh i thought it was gonna say "stay loveley" or something along those lines so im not too upset haha)

[@MaoUtau]

it's atbash cipher! the message's just "in the next episode" thank you lor for making this Edit: oops you found out right before I commented dfjklfd

[@kristieanna858]

Second but says in the next episode

[@jetsninja]

oooh I see GUR FUBC JNF ZL YBYVGN QERFF at 5:59. I bet that's MLD.

[@jetsninja]

Especially if the first words are "the shop was"

[@rainwater_05]

that is so awful....thats so creept and disgusting....:/...I know im years late to this video but that's so messed up, I'm so sorry that happened ot you :/

[@kaleidosplode5306]

I need more spooky Lor! I love your story times especially the spooky ones. You are so talented you can tell how much love you put into your work with your attention to detail

[@MaoUtau]

has anyone figured out what those codes are?? I first assumed they were rot13 bc that's the most well known one, but it isn't that edit: figured it out: rot13 and atbash cipher (different messages, some are rot13 and others are atbash)

[@isabelperry4097]

Thanks for figuring that out! I remembered the rot13, but I could not for the life of me remember the second one.

[@alexanderguard1941]

If i remember correctly the store you’re talking about actually has been through some BIG improvements especially with communication and stuff, the owner has been really good with me so far about refunds/what dresses r in stock etc so i think the store has changed for the better!

[@bkid8626]

I know I'm replying to this late, and it'll probably get buried, but this sounds awfully familiar. I'm a guy and don't follow lolita fashion, however I do know that companies from a certain country (as listed on their Twitter) have a habit of poor customer service, cheaply made products, and *especially* hounding reviews for their review videos. A guy I follow on YT whose main focus is retro computers was asked to review a product, and *even though he told them when*, they would hound him every few days asking when the video would be posted. It seems to be a common theme with companies from there.

[@sol_sunnyy5472]

So I barely get notifications for you're channel anymore, but! I did saw this notification like yesterday, and I'm so happy I did because I LOVED this video. I love you doing more creative filming styles

[@LoveMyAnime1218]

Is the store mylolitadress??

[@punklolitadoll7939]

I had the same experience with them. But i thought it was something personal. So it's good to know that other people had the same experience. Its horrible!! But i still buy from them once in a while...🙄

[@milkmmd4405]

no, i dont think so, her shopping list on tumblr has mylolitashop listed

[@CrazyPocky355]

They used to be my favourite reseller when I was a wee beginner (2014), and then one day they made a preorder for a Little Dipper dress with which I fell in love ♥ So i preordered it, only to be told weeks later that the preorder was cancelled. They then told me to choose another dress (they said that since I had used a prepaid card, they could not refund me /which was a lie but I didn't know at the time) so I chose another one, they made me pay 50 USD for the difference, and they shipped the parcel with DHL (even though I had asked them not to use DHL since in Canada, their custom fees are HIGH). I ended up getting 81$ in custom fees, and it's not even a dress I liked. but I did get the parcel, though. I guess there's that.

[@katherinag.]

I'm sorry for this terrible experience.

[@asuko-san7440]

The disclaimer at the start is what makes it truly horror-like

[@elenafort8231]

This series is everything my little spoopey heart desires! I can’t wait to see what the episode is about!

[@xXNekou]

Could you review some online shops with japanese inspired clothing? There are lots of scam stores and I'm afraid to risk it, I bought one item from Youvimi so far and am super anxious about it xD

[@LovelyLor]

Nox Nekori yes! It’s actually one of my current patron goals which I’ve almost reached! Once I have I will start a series on this !

[@xXNekou]

@@LovelyLor thank you, can't wait!!

[@Marlicool]

I love watching these videos. I've only recently decided I want to get into this fashion style and ordered my first pieces. It makes me a bit nervous, but I'll see in about 2 months if everything arrives XD

[@redonyx5428]

With this same reseller, a few years ago I did a preorder with them for this JSK I really wanted. I missed the deadline on the brand's Taobao shop but the reseller's preorder period was longer as they had an agreement (I think?). I placed the order, no communication at all. Not even an update email. When I emailed them inquiring about the order, again no communication but my package suddenly showed up days later. Like, am I supposed to read y'all minds lol. At least I got lucky.

[@purikiss9912]

Got to the end of this video and suddenly started breaking out in hives? I'm sure it's unrelated... but damn this whole thing is so cursed lmao

[@LovelyLor]

I hope your hives went away!!! maybe you had an allergic reaction?

[@emiwy_]

placed and order from them before christmas and my product immediately showed out of stock after my purchase but also i haven't gotten a confirmation email or tracking number so i hope that it's not still going on..

[@starpowerz]

i ordered a lolita coat from that same store during 2015 but i didn't have many problems as far as i remember. the shipping took a while though but i did get my item. apparently i just got really lucky. except!! however!! they made me pay an extra $20 after my order was confirmed for no apparent reason. (i ordered a custom sized coat which already costed extra so i should've been more suspicious of them now that i think about it) first the person said the measurements were wrong and i was like no. those are my actual measurements. but they told me to send the $20 anyway and my naive teenage self agreed promptly... anyway this video changed my whole perspective on the company now i'm not sure if i'll ever order from them again. i might just try lolitawardrobe next time or something

[@fe179]

oh man, so if this the place I'm thinking of, I ordered my first OP from them in 2014 or 2015. I also got the extra 20 for the plus size, a hidden fee for "more material". They also sent me the wrong color dress and offered me a pair of socks to make up for it. I never thought anything of this because I ended up loving the dress anyway, but it's all coming together now

[@leelikesdick9017]

What company is it? I’m about to order from mylolitadress for my first dresses ever.

[@annaclement9858]

@@leelikesdick9017 that’s the store Lor is talking about!!!

[@gloomyghosty]

the song at the start actually scares me idk why but heeeey i am glad to be early !!!

[@SayuKobayashi]

It might just be me, loving Gothic fashion, but you look so stunning in this dark lolita outfit, I hope you'll do more like this in the future!

[@samanthaindalecio7686]

I am really sad now. I ordered a head piece from them once and had no issues, so I suggested it to someone as a taobao reseller. I hope they did not have the same issues you did.

[@amirae.7295]

The editing is awesome ! The music is everything ❤❤❤❤ love you and yes, don't stand for their bullshit. AND FUCK YEAH OLD SCHOOL GOTHIC LOLITA

[@TheStitchess]

The intro tho 😍

[@idontevenknow9758]

Constant out of stock issues and continued refunds with an unprofessional media/marketing team are the hallmarks of a badly run company. Its also possible that maybe its just a few people working behind the scenes and its totally possible you may have been getting these from the owner. In my own world where I worked for companies both big and small, I have run into very vindictive owners and CEOs. People that have no filter and just cannot talk to perspective clients and influencers. That's why you have a marketing team who know how to manage it all and be professional. I have worked for owners who took things WAY too personally. Just a bad environment. Any managers or owners out there reading this, NEVER EVER get personal and always have an experienced marketing and PR manager handling the communication with influencers, spokespeople, etc. Out of stock issues could be a sign of drop shipping maybe? Drop shippers usually have low or stock that takes way too long to show up. If you got once piece immediately it may have been sitting in their office for all we know and everything else was never actually in a warehouse they own, just something they have to purchase from elsewhere. The second possibility is just a poorly run website and inventory management which could be the management and owner screwing up. I am sorry you had to deal with these people, it seems like a company that I hope got their act together and fixed their issues. Firing and rehiring people that are experienced in running a brand and company. I do mean actually firing because this stuff where I work would NEVER be tolerated by the heads. If our PR team pulled this on a client or a reviewer that they spoke too they would be out, no questions asked.

[@farrahhawkes6551]

Pet cemetery,it,Annabelle,Lolita horror stories,conjuring (Very scary films)

[@milesmc7946]

i could've sworn it was lolita dresses shop, had an exact sold out experience with them years ago.....

[@jennifertimmons215]

I just went through some like this. The shop only gave 90$ back so I was out 10$ but I'm just glad I got something back.

[@Foxtail529withluck]

I thought everyone knew that mylolitadress was a Milano front lol

[@IonIsFalling7217]

Foxtail Thank you for just saying if for all of those who are spies in training.

[@Foxtail529withluck]

@@IonIsFalling7217 yeah man, I can understand why Lor doesn't want to say the name but this is still something people need to know. Going through these other comments it looks like they are just kinda wishy-washy on who actually gets their stuff or not. But I swear I read something a while ago saying that their front.

[@TheDevilChrno]

There are two with similar names. mylolitadress is the milanoo front. my-lolita-dress is the reseller.

[@AnimeLuver3231]

If its the company im thinking about (three word name) ive had a weird time with them. Stuff ordered in july didn't arrive until October, even with the fastest shipping.

[@fairytopia]

BIG BIG YIKES thats absolutely unacceptable about the things they put you through. I ordered from [REDACTED] before with a guarantee my stuff would be shipped out in 2 weeks, and my stuff actually took about 6 months to actually be shipped out. Only after my stuff had been shipped they emailed me to say that the paticular colorway for the JSK i'd ordered was "out of stock" so instead theyd automatically shipped it out in a black colorway?? And also emailed to say the paticular socks I'd ordered were also out of stock, which luckily I did get a refund for but I would have liked to had some sort of message about that before like yknow...6 months had passed.

[@kimberlyabbott2767]

lor i love your makeup in this video!

[@snowfox3504]

When is the review coming? Sounds like the movie IT where it’s trying to drag you insane

[@Sereniea]

I am sorry you had to go through all that, it's so unprofessional!! Not only that it's manipulative and gross

[@vivianc.c.3379]

G-zuz Crist that was really scary. Also, you are amazing in old school gothic lolita I was super not expecting to see you like that!!! I want a new video of this series everyday and watch until the day I die hahah

[@peanutbutterfiend]

I REALLY want to know who this shop is!! We would love to not be scammed LOL. This shop can't sue you for defamation if it's the truth, you can't sue over the truth by the way (if they ever tried). Like someone commented earlier, if you've got receipts, then they can't do anything.

[@kobikob2179]

My lolita dress

[@princeoftheazuresky]

I had this problem with this shop once. I was a newbie lolita and picked out what turned out to be an AP replica from them as an exchange instead of just asking for a refund like I should have. I don't know where the replica is today; it appears that I lost it when I moved and I don't miss it.

[@AnyaPanda]

That is such horrific conduct, oh my goodness. I am so sorry that this happened to you, I can't even imagine having to deal with that. 😵 Also your intro for this and your choice of editing were brilliant; gave me such ARG vibes and I am HERE FOR IT. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@loljadloll]

I’m so sorry that such an unprofessional and unpleasant thing happened to you!!❤️❤️❤️