THE NARCISSIST'S NEW SUPPLY

[@martindiva]

It's a blessing, the new supply took out your garbage for you.

[@doranvee5944]

Another channel says, "the trash took out the trash."

[@kikataye6293]

They also move on quickly because the chances of you taking them back is zero…

[@KontheWayNurse]

Oh good point !

[@Sheik2791]

Abusers don't change their behaviour because they have an inability to challenge the thought behind their actions. No empathy means no ability to learn and grow. You can grow and be happy without this mess ❤

[@Jeanninecomeau]

You can't heal unless you stop looking at their social media.

[@ezdeezytube]

I think on another level, we cant heal from the toxic nature of society until we get off social media permanently

[@rhondawelliver6174]

So true.. I'll go a good month without looking at her or her new bfs Facebook page. I'll almost be at the point where I'm going days not even thinking about her, I'll think I'm healed enough to look her page to see what she's been up to and it not bother me but when I do look through her page it always rips those scabs off the wounds. She constantly posts how much she's in love with the new supply, how happy she is now that she found the man of her dreams, how miserable she was last year when we were dating and how now she loves herself and how disgusted she is that she ever allowed me in her life at some point lol. She got sober and quit drinking alcohol so now she posts addiction related stuff and pretty much her entire personality is now "recovering addict".. it's literally just for attention I think she loves the validation from everyone and all the pats on the back for being sober. She's extracting supply from the "recovering addict" community. She blames me for her addiction and constantly posts snide remarks pretty much making fun of me for being in active addiction or how I ruined her life for the year we were together, Oct. I'm rambling but basically going and checking out her social media drags me right back to day one of feeling hurt, bitter, betrayed and strangely makes me obsess and long for her to come back to me.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Please don’t speak to anyone that hasn’t been through this! It is NOTHING like a normal break up. They want to inflict maximum damage. Yes. MAXIMUM. It’s shaddenfreude

[@Girlwithapurse03]

Exactly I would cry to my friend and she would say “get over it, next!” …. After many years of my friend not being supportive in different accomplishments and a narc breakup.. I said next! To her.. and of course I’ve been no contact for a year and half now with my narc

[@flightydancer]

Yes, you just end up feeling worse. Don't take any advice from them as well.

[@oisinroche4290]

Thank you, i was triangulated after i broke up with my ex, it was like a knife going through my heart, she called me on facebook and showed me her new supply, the sadism and cruelty of this is beyond words.

[@jillfoley6834]

I just found out my female friend of fifty years can do this to you too! I called her out on her bad behavior towards me, she had time for her male,on and off again friend of eight years but no time or energy to meet me for dinner or lunch but she would confuse me with cards and texts. I told her I had enough and she posted her and “Bryan” on FB. Then blocked me. Now, she had never posted any photos of them together before. She is using him too. I won’t go into details, but this demonic. A demonic entity jumping from one person to another. My ex quit calling/spoofing from random phone numbers and texts once he read about my friendship with my friend ending, he cloned my phone. Then those random calls started from HER! It’s chilling. She said I had left her to chase after a stranger and she was traumatized.. this supposedly happened 45 years ago. You cannot make this stuff up. When they start acting in ways that hurt and confuse you, you know they were or are a NARCISSIST. Cut them off and don’t look back. ❤❤❤

[@bxo99999]

Same I can feel I don't even know when I get doubt I got my friend and he do conversation then I know that

[@sadboi7537]

My ex narc hung up on me because I was making fun of her new “friends with benefits” at the time on the phone after we called it quits. I shouldn’t have been talking to her in the first place, but she felt the need to triangulate me and stick the knife in. I agree. It’s one if the cruelest things a Narc does, easily one of the worst tactics in a Narc playbook.

[@doranvee5944]

I certainly understand. We were married 20 years. After I found out about her lover, she wanted me to compete and chase her like she was some prize. Sickening! Crazy!

[@williampadin537]

She did you a favor know you know they are the devil👹

[@jerry-mj8th]

I felt like I'd been disemboweled. I was drowning in a sea of acid. I arose. A skeleton, screaming in agonizing pain. You Soo get this. I was shocked when my therapist explained to me that it wasn't my fault. I was entirely brainwashed and gaslighted.

[@r2023rr]

That’s why once we really see it for what it is we can’t unsee it

[@KeishaWoodbridge]

So ELOQUENTLY put! 💯

[@doranvee5944]

Disemboweled is exactly right. I still feel it 2 years later.

[@KeishaWoodbridge]

He rubbed it in my face. Literally. It almost killed me. I almost took my life. Hes done it before too. I choose life now, rather than death by a thousand cuts.

[@KeishaMs]

I hope you are doing better.❤

[@Wench1888]

🙏 ❤

[@TrustintheLord860]

Hope you are improving. Same happened to me. I was with her for eight years, gave her 100’s of thousands, married her, and she found new supply within three months and left and posted it all over FB.

[@vkrgfan]

On a positive note, it's through emotional heartbreak we learn that narcissists teach you a lot about yourself. They teach you not to be a people pleaser and not to give up your own identity to create a facade for someone else. They teach you that you need strong boundaries. It hurts because you see them not treat everyone with contempt and disrespect but you, they put on a facade of a loving individual then turn around and put you through hell behind closed doors, peeling off your self-esteem with disrespect and humiliation. That happens because they know those people won't put up with their BS, they will simply throw them out of their lives. All in all, you will come out of the fire a stronger individual, think of them as mentally impaired have pity for them instead of seeking validation of your pain from them because they will never acknowledge it, they don't have empathy.

[@madisonstarr4925]

She hit this spot on! (After a 4 year relationship and being dumped for someone 25 years younger). I finally looked in the mirror and said, "It's time to love myself first!" Mr. Narcissist, you will no longer cause me pain! (I've turned my back to him, with no contact).

[@LeeDawson-sm2bh]

Yeah i got discarded for a guy 20 years her junior. At least he will get the same treatment as me in time.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

12:01 they don’t see ANYONE as a real human being. People are tools and appliances used to manipulate and regulate their emotions. This is a sick person

[@marytaylor9504]

Yes they just need people to use and take steal from them!!!

[@joannerodriguez2088]

I knew somehow he had someone else and no one believed me, he was with her for at least six months before he discarded me and my two young children, he did all you said and more to me, to cut a long story short he has found a malignant narcissist and is suffering now and from all accounts is trying to get out of, they are both narcissists but my ex is more of a covert and thought he met his soul mate when he met her, but her true colours emerged not long after, so karma does exist and he is stuck with a witch. I don’t care less now, I just feel for my kids now and how the witch has turned my ex husband against them, narcs are evil to the core, Thankyou x

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

The average person has no idea the level of this abuse, let alone the courts. Seek refuge in the Lord Psalm 147:3

[@WinfredHopson-ho7nv]

The same thing happened to me

[@noormohamed2991]

Nothing was ever enough. The goal posts kept on changing! Exhausting and confusing 😢

[@MegaRockstar48]

I knew my girlfriend was a narcissist but the final giveaway was that she got a new supply after about one week after I left her. We had been together for two years, but discarding is what they do.

[@ljOB510]

Same exact situation as me. They still together after 3 months 😢

[@Justforfun-wq7mr]

First off, I hope you are healing and slowly finding peace. Did she ever ever Hoover you?

[@georginaaltmann7292]

One week ! That's insanely quick, I'm sorry ,that sucks

[@specialk6434]

Same, two years with her. It was a coworker who had a crush on her before too, he isn’t anything like me. Not in a good way. Still just an awful feeling.

[@jasminedonalds5398]

She had that man from a long time .

[@smarternow]

It’s been a couple years now and I am STILL trying to recover

[@JesseFox-ke2xt]

Why are they so hard to get out of our heads?

[@debbier9555]

Professionals call it trauma bonding. Look it up. Sam Vaknin is an expert with personal and 30+ years experience. You'll learn fascinating info. that can really help you heal.

[@markallen5764]

In my eyes you haven't done nothing and it's hard to accept... they get bored and want to move on TOTALLY PATHETIC THEY ARE...BIG BIG PROBLEM THEY HAVE IS THEMSELVES ...FEEL SORRY FOR THE LONERS AND DESPERATE IDIOTS...THEY TAG AND HAVE TO MOVE ON WITH EVERY RELATIONSHIP THIS PRICK IM WITH HAS EVEN SAYED IVE DONE NOTHING WRONG...IM NORMAL AND OMG HE ABSOLUTELY HATES HATES AND HATES ME... THATS HIS PROBLEM.. FEEL SORRY FOR THE PRICKS...THEY CAN NEVER BE MENDED IN THAT LITTLE SMALL HEAD.. DONT BE MAD AT THE NEW PARTNER BE MAD AT YOURSELF FOR GETTING INVOLVED WITH THE NARRCCIST AND FEEL SORRY FOR THIS PARTNER THEY WILL FOLLOW YOU AND BE BLAMED SLAGGED OFF BLA BLA BLA BECKY 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

[@marytaylor9504]

Pray and ask God to remove them from your mind and thoughts!!! Read your Bible and books that are helps to heal!!!

[@kay_gold]

I just came across this video randomly on my feed a year after I left the narcissist. The fact that this video was posted exactly when I first was experiencing the turmoil is ironic. Everything you said in this video is true! It took some time (almost a year) but I’m healed and happy and so proud of myself for making such a hard decision February of 2023 to leave and go no contact.

[@ariv3049]

The same

[@AuntTassid]

God works in mysterious ways😊.

[@donnas.1576]

Another insightful video. That he moved in with the new supply immediately after he met her, just added to the pain of rejection. We had been married for 35 years and were preparing for our retirement. To say it was a shock is an understatement. Of course, I was blamed for everything, including him telling me he regretted the day he married me. He told me that he was happy only three times during the 35 years. His final dismissive words to me were, "don't look to me for your happiness". Yet he blamed me for his unhappiness.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Everyone’s happiness is their own responsibility

[@HealWithJess32]

Crazy this is they look for the new supply for their happiness it’s all just wrong and backwards

[@gabisilekubeka5503]

Love yourself stop expecting man to love you they love sex with young girl

[@DaughterOfGod247]

Don’t worry one he’s suffering from Frontotemporal Dementia he’ll me begging for your forgiveness as no one will want to be around him not even carers. You won, now you can have some time to enjoy your retirement without being dragged down to filth

[@mrwillwgp]

"You never loved me!" She told me after 13 years of giving her EVERYTHING. Yeah ... Ok 🎉

[@noormohamed2991]

Yes we must stop shopping for pain ...!❤

[@blondy650]

Thank you. I was also triangulated. Came home one day from shopping with my friend and he was in my driveway kissing some girl. I thought it was his ex wife but it wasn’t. A few days later I went to a funeral for one of his family member and he comes in with this sam girl/supply. I was humiliated in front of my friend and his family at the funeral. I didn’t see this coming. I helped his elderly mother get to the funeral and was just humiliated. Just the way he did both in front of friends and family.

[@AwakenedOne-qu]

No cluster B can not be treated, you learned your lesson, they will try to destroy you even after they're gone. Running across a narcissist is a horrible experience, it destroys most people, it almost destroyed me.

[@lorraineamaker9416]

I’m thankful it’s over. GOD Bless him and the side piece

[@HandsomeH.U.N.K.]

The new supply is gonna get dragged down through the woods hitting every tree 🌳 and tree stump🪵or in best case scenario the new supply will be the one doing the dragging when karma kicks in. Then they have the audacity to say they hate fake people cheaters and liars when they are all of those you can't make this stuff up!😂

[@bradmcewen]

An excellent chronology of events. From someone's first experience understanding the conundrum to the relief being out. The lack of object constancy before you, during you & after you. Well done. You got the narc facts.

[@doranvee5944]

Married 20 years and suddenly surprise discarded and she has "moved on." It's okay to destroy a person and never look back? Sick people. I put up with all her anger and constant criticisms, only to get put in the trash w/o lifting a pinky to improve her marriage.

[@alwaysblessed2794]

The new supply was my friend of 20 years! We were engaged !

[@MySweetLovee]

Thankyou. He did EVERYTHING you said he did .. he rubbed it in ny face while i was at home recovering from c section with his child

[@cherri_p]

I love the "super human with magic powers" I often thought, I am not superwoman. I cannot do it all, be it all, fix it all, etc. That is really what you would have to make life perfect for them. All you can do is pray for the next one.

[@sreach93]

It's refreshing to hear someone say " I'm not a professional ". Your opinions, experiences and honesty are valued. So many giving advice would have us believe they're professionals.

[@angiehayes7397]

I only found you about a month ago & I'm sooo glad I did!!

[@ejm922]

you are soooo brilliant at saying so much truth! keep going, your the best on youtube at explaining NPD !

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

You need to realize you were dealing with a psychopath with no empathy. Thank God that he set you free now. The person you thought you loved was a character, a fiction. Read: “power” by shaida arabi , “psychopath free” -Jackson Mackenzie

[@noormohamed2991]

Painful indeed! 😢😢😢😢

[@DeeCee1878]

I’ve watched many videos about this topic but I really have to say, YOURS was really wonderful! You hit some very basic but strong points that spoke to me clearly. Thank you!

[@angiehayes7397]

Oh God....the aftermath is soul crushing!

[@m.o.s.h.1836]

I was a target supply and my discerment told me not to bite their bait. I'm so grateful to God because of his wisdom and protections. 🙏🙏🙏

[@graymoon3000]

lol you nailed it with the if you had done this …. My narc was obsessed with complaining about all those things you mentioned truly unreal.

[@martyc2637]

One the most helpful videos on narc discard . You just nailed it and have been a great help.

[@mrwillwgp]

If they can walk away so easily then we have to walk away just as easily. Don't try to understand. Don't try to explain. Just walk away. That was not love. You learned how to survive. It's time to live, now. Don't worry about them, they are suffering more than you know, that's more than enough validation. Don't look over at that dumpster fire. Find you again. Find your friends again.

[@bubbles1366]

When I broke up with someone toxic, It hurt so bad...there are these song lyrics that described the pain so well, " It's like there's cancer in my blood It's like there's water in my lungs And I can't take another step Please tell me I am not undone It's like there's fire in my skin And I'm drowning from within I can't take another breath Please tell me I am not undone" ~ Pittsburgh, Amity Affliction.

[@angiehayes7397]

😕 sums it up, huh? 😕 Azzzz wholes lol

[@Natali3-Al3xand3r]

Pittsburg..good song

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

It’s really a blessing in disguise. Trust me. You will find a better person

[@bxo99999]

Now i am not interested in making relationship when i give love i get Hurt every time and i shocked still i am in shock its was so sudden without knowing and now i am in doubt i am bad its just resend happened i have blocked him now and i am young

[@flightydancer]

Thank you so much. Your message is a balm to my wounded soul.

[@SigmaFeminine]

this is word for word so true. ❤

[@sharonshepard2628]

They are Demons that's why they don't care

[@charlesjohnson9149]

This video is so spot on. Really spoke to me. Great video

[@SigmaFeminine]

thankfully i dont have the heartbreak part as i was beginning to question the nonsense from the past 10yrs and see through it all. But this does clear up some lingering questions for me and highlights all the disrespect

[@donnas.1576]

Can you do a video on new supply triangulation. She most likely is being compared to me, in that if she does something that he identifies that I did that he didn't like, that puts enormous pressure on her on being perfect. He's setting her up for failure.

[@Beth0962]

All the questions and pain!! Thank you for explaining 😢

[@Beth0962]

No one understands why I’m not over my ex husband. It’s heartbreaking he still wants to hurt me. He quickly found his new supply and is on a smear campaign 10:11 about me!! It bothers me that people believe his lies. It’s been a year and very painful. Thank you for explaining this so well! I want to heal so bad and NOT care what he is doing.

[@MichaelDenham-n6k]

Thank you soooo much!!! Been recovering for years and this was spot on ❤

[@terrycomrie5533]

Excellent content

[@MySweetLovee]

He did everything you said while i gave birth to our son...😢... And healing after c section..

[@angetorres8269]

Very excellent video thank you ❤

[@alicetaylor8476]

Thanks you so much, your analogies are spot on! This videos was very helpful!

[@KimFuller-fh5bw]

Everyone my ex bragged about still wanting him were his victims.

[@DaughterOfGod247]

This is me right now. I left in March and I found out last week. It did hurt, but it’s ok. I’m still going on, hope they’re happy, she wanted me nex now she has him, despite him saying she’s not his type and not attracted to her.

[@jeanette-and-ernie-atthe-a3271]

Very well done presentation.

[@LookingBehindtheMirror]

Thank you!

[@supervincemus]

This video has helped me so much thank you.

[@ninath13]

Old supply they cheated on me with his kind of woman just like him

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

No I appreciate you so much yes I've been already 2 years with the ex narc I just on good luck with life with him wherever he's with yeah I was hurting in the beginning but I'm over it and I'm good thank God and thank you for all this videos that you've been doing can you please press more videos I appreciate you cuz I see other videos as well about narcissism thank you again

[@raforbis1]

His favorite thing to say was I’m not trying to be an asshole, but I’m going to be an asshole. I still have the sunglasses he wore the day he did the discard and was told I can’t talk to anybody about it cuz he will screw me over. So, I’m just here.

[@belizejuliette7223]

So painful 💔😓

[@nickf2170]

Please stop caring about the narcissist and WHATEVER they do. If they are gone, that is all you need to concern yourself with. Develop some discipline, and move on, they are dead to you.

[@stevenstanley74]

A new life is freedom

[@flyingsaucer1268]

I lost 2,2 lbs in a month.....that's true happiness ;-)

[@TheMrAlgoh]

Is Amber Heard an example of a malignant narcissist? She really tried to harm Johnny Depp both mentally and physically, including attempting to end his career.

[@stillhuman4662]

Amber is Borderline I am told. My ex partner was BPD and oh boy can they do real damage, both mentally and physically. I have never seen such deception and pure rage in a person, not even close to this woman.

[@TheSnedmeister]

dark tetrad

[@noormohamed2991]

Thank YOU ❤!

[@Barbara-ec9ox]

It’s crazy cause my nickname for him in the very beginning of relationship was angry Bird………

[@ariv3049]

Дякую вам велике за цей чудовий виступ 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦!

[@2008LadyLaura]

At the core they are still the same they have only changed surface level behavior once living day to day is not healthy living with this person

[@jacquelineharris9724]

I helped him rebound from a divorce who had no where to live after he bought his home and wanted me to pay half of every bill and repairs to the home and I didn’t. He said he can’t manage me he was always on his phone texting went to visit his country for his birthday came back wanted to be intimate I said I am no longer playing your games he started to FaceTime the new supply I wasn’t going to have it I pretended I was talking to my friends on the phone and exposed him he started behaving in rage I ignored him he gave me the silent treatment I gave it back he text and called with drama I continued to ignore him he told my friends I treated him like dog

[@dusanpalkovic4460]

you are right but if I will accept her exit from our relationship it can be the same like abandonment from my side - I mean he will need some help and who will be able to do better .... ?

[@LookingBehindtheMirror]

You are the least equipped to help if this is someone who has abused you. You are the last person that could or should help. It’s okay to “abandon” something that does nothing but harm you.

[@dusanpalkovic4460]

@@LookingBehindtheMirror thank you for your reaction. But the price is too high I know she cheated with many but I'm still thinking about her security and health :(

[@Em-im1yz]

6 weeks took him 6 weeks

[@sharonshepard2628]

The Devil do not care about u

[@BNyaB]

👍👍👍

[@laylabrashear3118]

I asked him if he ever loved me and he said he was with me for 6 years that should say something he was in a new relationship and moved her in to my house after beating my up and threw me out. Then he said I was useless and worthless. I was stupid I was a dumb c*** and a dumb w****. He said he never thought I was a threat to his son until 2 years. The last two years I found out I had cancer and I was possibly terminal. I found out the news then all the offices had shut down due to covid. At the time Medicaid patients was not a priority so to take about 3 to 6 months to get an appointment. Covid really slowed down in the process. When I was going to go to Texas to do chemo cuz my doctor found a place. He said I want all my things back and I'm going to the next chapter by myself. Because he was going to move in his new girlfriend. He said that I could take my cancer treatment and go to hell. I confess kind of lost my mind a little bit and I started focusing on myself and not him. He said I was selfish for thinking of only of myself and not thinking about how he felt. Which believe it or not I did put him in consideration of how he felt but I didn't know what to do. He told me to do whatever it takes to get better if I didn't get better he was going to break my neck and bury me in the backyard with our dead cat. Did he ever actually love me? Every time things got hard he ran. Or he would pick a fight just to go cheat on me. Or he would tell people I was cheating on him so it was okay for him to do it. But I can honestly say I never cheated on him. He encouraged me to talk to people about an open relationship but I couldn't get past talking I could never meet up with them because that's not who I am. I know sometimes I didn't respond well when he lost his temper and being mean to me because sometimes I even had a point where I said enough just tell me why are you mad? What can we do to fix this? He always responded, if you have to change it's not worth it. You're nothing but a b**** and a w****. Drink Smart water you're too stupid to live. Cancer is your karma for all the bad things you've done. And you deserve a terrible horrible death and that's the only way you can give me pleasure. You always forget about your husband you're selfish and useless and worthless. Use your common sense to figure out what's wrong. If you're too stupid to figure it out then I don't need to tell you? Why is it my responsibility to tell you what's wrong? He told everybody I was lying about cancer. I have multiple times offered to show him my paperwork, and when the doctor calls I put it on speaker and he would magically run out of the room or leave the car depending on where I was at the time. For Two years he couldn't wait to replace me with someone better.

[@madisonstarr4925]

I'm so sorry for your terrible pain ! Just love yourself first!

[@hindwidad2723]

We should pray for the new supply because they have no idea about the hell they signed up for with the narcissist 😅

[@garrimic3]

When a narcissist moves on they will treat their new supply better than they did you because they have to. Just as they treated you better in the beginning. You will have to accept that or you won’t be successful in moving forward with your life. What you won’t see is that they’re not going to keep it up long. Soon the new supply will say something or do something that will upset the narcissist as you did and will start treating the new supply as they did you.

[@jag5798]

The sad thing you have to realize, that your ex will treat the next person better - because they got smarter being with you. They know what not to do to get more out of their supply. Really, they were smarter with you than their previous. Yes, it sucks that someone gets to benefit from any lesson you taught the ex. It’s just the way it is. I wish my soon-2-b ex husband would have waited more than 2 days after declaring he wanted a divorce, before he sent a stranger flowers asking for a date. If you can afford it, take a trip immediately. Get away from it all. As for me, my soon-2-b ex will have to repay me for a loan - so his new gf… yes, he has one that he is in love with just 6 months after he moved out… that at least, she will get him broke. 😂

[@NarrelleChain]

My sisters are empty vessels of nothingness and emptiness andthey fill up on the pain and ,isery they cause to their unwitting victims ans my mother too, I'd rather have no one ever be a friend than expose myself to their nothingness , they really are evil beings, they have no soul, they thrive on the misery they bring to their chosen victims. I am rid of my mother, dead, youngest sister but the most deadly of the 3 i cannot break the tie, she is the most most deadly, I think, I am afraid 💔 fearful, also afraid for her, I remember how fragile she was as a young child, i was o oldest!

[@2008LadyLaura]

Read the book snakes in suits 🤪👊🏼 And also read the book church of TOV for the communal spiritual narcissist

[@MikeTaylor-kj9uu]

Never run back to your x woman let her go and focus on your gold

[@MaryStirland-zg6cq]

😢😢😢😢

[@MySweetLovee]

Ur smart

[@MaryStirland-zg6cq]

😢

[@MikeTaylor-kj9uu]

She had two relationships she chose her new spouse over you

[@MaryStirland-zg6cq]

😮

[@JessicaTorok-i5g]

100%

[@miranndavky]

all your talks have helped me grow and you have opened my eyes. thank you, but you repeat the same thing a lot. I imagine to lengthen the video, but if you went directly to the Point only 1 time, everything would be super extraordinary. Thank you again

[@PhilipShawn]

Gth