Bro I needed this video so much. I’ve been so insecure about myself and I hated myself because I thought I never looked good enough. Especially after I got a bad hair cut yesterday made me feel worse. But this video gave me a reality check and I realized I was living in a fantasy world created in my mind. Thanks chi ❤
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
You’re amazing bro
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
You will become insecure again when you get into society. It's easy to be confident by watching a motivational video on KZbin. Have a good day
@themelonman75877 ай бұрын
@@chiyinde Thank you brother
@themelonman75877 ай бұрын
@@chiyinde and a girl actually liked me at my work and i am going on a date with her
@avalon_05817 ай бұрын
@chiyinde bro I'm so happy I found your channel, that is what people should watch nowadays, and not these popular influencers garbage
@mahir57357 ай бұрын
blackpill ruined my mental health too. i care about my looks too much. my current girlfriend hit on me for 7 months before we were together and then after getting hitted on for a long time i was finally sure that she loved me and asked her out, she immediately accepted. she really loves me a lot but i cant love myself, i hate the way i look. i feel very uncomfartable everywhere because of my looks. and the thing is my looks arent bad at all but im not satisfied and feeling bad all the time. because of this reason i dont want to have kids right now. i dont know if i will change my mind in the future but right now i dont want to. having a girlfriend has nothing to do with your looks. yes you have more options if youre good looking but the thing is at the end of the day everyone has just one girlfriend :D. so it means there are always enough people for each other. i have a lot not good looking friends but they all have a girlfriend.
@limelightff7 ай бұрын
There's alot of better things to do other than lookmaxing.
@mahir57354 ай бұрын
Turns out she didn’t love me and manipulated me. She left me without a reason
@Luffy5i84 ай бұрын
Bro good heart good personality matters but also good aesthetic matters.But don't let it consume you and your life.Just think yourself you'll level up your attractiveness.I think myself I'm average today I love myself and if luckily I got changed it is good for me.
@Luffy5i84 ай бұрын
Their girlfriend may be looking average and it is common for average and not so looking guys to still get gf but they will be mirror to themselves and date accordingly.Believe me even girls are scared to date out of league if one brave girl do dating handsome guy she maybe dating Nice guy or too good guy.Be a real man handle your life and reject below your rate unless they provide value for you.
@dualshock32 ай бұрын
@@mahir5735 "it began for you.. but then it was ovER"
@Sumsayy7 ай бұрын
So underated Chi i hope you get the recognition you deserve bro
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Thank you bro
@TrueSenseForever7 ай бұрын
I used to tell those people that's it's feminine to care so much about how you look. Sure we can take care it ourselves but trying to maximize everything is like being a women
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Yeah exactly. Some people take it wayyyyy too far
@fabiangrandez29577 ай бұрын
I think theres nothing wrong about being femenine
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
Sorry dude, not all of us 8+ gigachads, that can dont worry about theirs looks and steel look awesome. And if u rnt 8+ gigachad... Well, u r underestimating how much great life experience u loose
@jaykay35126 ай бұрын
@@fabiangrandez2957 nothing wrong with being feminine but the difference is such vanity leads to plain body image dysmorphia. It's all balance.
@fabiangrandez29576 ай бұрын
@@jaykay3512 thats true
@fragex7257 ай бұрын
7:41 damn, shit nearly made me shed a tear
@sromondo26817 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, internet is full of shit that can ruin a mind of young men. Please dont stop doing what you do because you give me hope that there is future for me out there
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Will never stop brother
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
Yeah. Young minds must live by the rules and experiences of older generations. After all, in 30, and even 20... EVEN 10 years, nothing has changed. If relationships look like this in Disney movies, that's what they are. Good morning
@luisparejo254 ай бұрын
@@chiyindecan’t stop won’t stop
@ryan2k8147 ай бұрын
The big brother we all need 💯
@limelightff7 ай бұрын
Real.
@detachedduck60227 ай бұрын
Your actually the best your like the guy everyone needs I was here before you were famous
@mufmager7 ай бұрын
Problem with me is that it's not like I look ugly, it's the fact I suffer from autism and I always struggled to socialize with people.
@theBenStrothmann7 ай бұрын
My friend, as a massive autist, let me tell you: this problem can be overcome. Socializing is a skill like any other. Put your mind to learning it the same way you would with any other skill, and you will succeed. There are lots of tutorials regarding charisma right here on KZbin, and after doing some research, you just go out there and force yourself. I believe in you.
@mufmager2 ай бұрын
@@theBenStrothmann I just found out about the whole mewing thing and its has just gotten worse. I've just watched this video again and I almost ended up crying. Honestly I am done with the internet, Just want to live carefree like it used to be I can't stand this anymore.
@BaronCell7 ай бұрын
Hope is double edge knife. What you have to realize in life is that nobody is coming to save you from anything. You are on your own. Hope alone does nothing. So instead of hoping for a savior go out and grind. Be consistent. And good things will come. Bad things will come as well. That's life.
@Sdb99887 ай бұрын
You’re a real one brother
@user-wl5ec7ly8n7 ай бұрын
G ur so underrated
@davidjr97 ай бұрын
Fucking love this guy uk why bro is real ASF...😂 no beating around the bush glad I found this channel ngl
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Hahah thanks my brother
@jaykay35126 ай бұрын
Facts bro. People trying to fit the 'golden mask' perfectly to look like... I dunno some fkn anime protagonist is just completely unnatural and simply wrong. We need to defend our minds from such toxic poisonous ideologies because in its own way this mindset is destroying lives for both men and woman. Keep spreading positive words brother.
@mathiasmutuku5866Ай бұрын
Told my self will be watching ur videos everyday in the morning to boost my confidence 😢
@benmealey26316 ай бұрын
You're really good at speaking bro. Was an easy subscribe for me. Easy to relate and listen to.
@Abdulmajidib14 ай бұрын
What a guy❤
@Mr.SungJinWoo276 ай бұрын
Broo i freaking need this, i fall deep in looksmaxxing rabbithole and Began questioning my existence. I lost confidence i feel like i look like shit. I already have body dysmorphia from working out and all this looksmaxxing trend really drained my mental health. Broo like wtf im only 17
@Vxruxxss6 ай бұрын
Take his advice! You will look and feel good
@abdellah24c7 ай бұрын
Thank you very much sir, just finished the video to the end and I think every young man needs to watch it , huge respect
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Respect brother
@abdellah24c7 ай бұрын
True af mann, u know this GenZ is fuckedd
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
For real
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
Yeah, it is... So, we will just pretend like nothing changed?... Or we can play by the rules of this damn world... Let's see who will end up
@Moritz.CFM.7 ай бұрын
I have been following your content since January 2023 and holly moly I‘m amazed of how you developed. But also deeply greatful to have found your channel. You genuinely provide such great wisdom and hope for that is desperately needed in this hope deprived generation. Thank you 🙏
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
That’s actually crazy brother. Thanks for being around for so long 👊🏾
@J_0597 ай бұрын
I used to be just like this bro, mainly in late middle to early high (senior year now) where i was the most insecure. Although i eventually grew out of that mindset i still feel like i dont got a developed personality, even though i might. I think this is mainly due to the fact that im not 100% connected to people at school because i cant relate to them, as I'm on self improvement and away from the norm. Unsurprisingly this causes some anxiety, so everytime i talk to someone it feels like I kinda fake myself and restrict who i am just to look a certain way. For me this is one of the only long-lasting issues I've had.
@Vxruxxss6 ай бұрын
I’m a girl and struggled with this. I didn’t understand the impact body dysmorphia had on men
@Jasino4587 ай бұрын
Your a big inspiration for me. Thank you 🙏
@alexslaven30717 ай бұрын
thanks for this man, all ive been worrying about is my hair for the past however the fuck knows long, it is time to accept what it is and work on myself from within.
@tomwell92387 ай бұрын
I appreciate this video so much,and from your words i feel some viewpoints are similar to the stoicism which saved me from fire.And it's now to start stoicism again.Good for you .
@sensei07803 ай бұрын
thanks alot for making this video man it helped alot since i have been struggling alot with the way i look this past year and this video opened my eyes and changed that naivive mindset that i had . god bless you man 🤝
@yzyu41514 ай бұрын
I just stumbled upon your channel and I absolutely love watching the videos you produce, your're so down to earth and actually help people, making them feel better and carrying themselves with more confidence
@FeyTalo7 ай бұрын
Not many people touching on this subject, well done bro. I am very appreciative of this video.
@abiemawahib6 ай бұрын
I can't disagree but appreciate your explanation, kudos to your efforts
@_PrinceBaBa7 ай бұрын
Bro I didn’t even finish watching the video and I died laughing @ 1:12 😂 fr chi these ppl need to wake up
@KobbyKobby7777 ай бұрын
Chi ! On point bro !
@user-gi3iu7uq2c7 ай бұрын
I can confirm that going to the gym, eating better and drinking more water will make you look better. you don't need to do the other things like that. I used to be cubby and simply loosing a bit of weight i made myself look just a bit better. so my moral is, clean up your diet and go to the gym.
@galactick1ng7 ай бұрын
Started working out again thanks to your vids. Keep up the great work
@LofiBeings7 ай бұрын
You are doing a really great job sir, you deserve views in millions ❤... Keep going 👏 👏👏
@lightyagami5707 ай бұрын
So much wisdom😌
@CrowPidgeon5 ай бұрын
I honestly needed this.
@amitkraj29112 ай бұрын
Spot on..very well explained
@rakinahamed73997 ай бұрын
Thank you bro 🙏🏼
@LIANO7HD2 ай бұрын
Thank you...
@limelightff7 ай бұрын
Love you brother I needed this video.
@fastfenrir7 ай бұрын
Chi you are the best explainer ever I love your video's mate you give me so much hints and tips that are really important Your the best
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Glad I could help man
@_PrinceBaBa7 ай бұрын
Just finished watching the vid! Another amazing topic brother I appreciate what you do. Keep up spreading knowledge 💯💪🏽❤️
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Thank you brother
@Pook235353 ай бұрын
I needed this
@elaichuk23994 ай бұрын
love you man i needed that video keep it up❤❤
@MegatronBW3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@wumpadinos3 ай бұрын
4:28 - 4:30 🤣 "Just mew"
@Cosmicmorales7 ай бұрын
1:11 fax cardio worked wayy more for me than “mewing” yet these red pill guys try to gaslight me into thinking otherwise. “You just didn’t do it long enough”😐
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Ahhhh mewing is so silly I'll be honest haha. I just try to avoid offending people.
@ProllyNotOne7 ай бұрын
This really helped me. My face is round so i cant have a decent jawline even if i got jacked and i also dont have hunter eyes, but im working out to at least change what i can change and im starting to accept myself the way i am.
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
This is the way brother
@mbob077 ай бұрын
I loved this video and decided to sub. Keep up the good work bro ✊🏾
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Respect
@AGFC26536 ай бұрын
The 5 most important things you need to improve to make a better life is gym, healthy eating, reading, meditation and a martial art. Looksmaxxing is just some bs to make you more insecure about your looks. All this face hammering and other crap just to get 0.001% closer to the perfect face isn't worth it.
@SashaDintwa7 ай бұрын
You prolly wont reply but bro u are amazing and inspirational 👏🔥
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
I always reply. Thanks bro ❤️
@Samztvuk7 ай бұрын
On point!
@user-pm6ld1gq3f7 ай бұрын
Bro you are the real chad
@txmic.80943 ай бұрын
bro knows he's talking about k shami
@Mp-lw8tw2 ай бұрын
people who live in the real world are not living in the internet. this is simple
@teamh2o256 ай бұрын
Where is this guy from ? I need to meet him and give him a big hug
@Lajix6 ай бұрын
james sapphire is the biggest refrence
@nidal59427 ай бұрын
i love the way the nigeran accent slips just a lil each time lol
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
I have a British accent. I’m not even Nigerian haha
@matteotosi267 ай бұрын
thank u.... this generation is hopelesss
@p0lo.5 ай бұрын
type shi
@_youmadbrah7 ай бұрын
Blackpill ruined my life
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
No, it was u yourself❤
@dualshock32 ай бұрын
Not me.. it showed me how humans in this world actually work.. 🤔
@jeffreybonsu44106 ай бұрын
Wideeeee 😩😩😩 like rashford
@common_suprise87 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Danirai_7 ай бұрын
preach
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
Yes, oh this Internet I wish everyone could just go outside and touch the grass. The people around you will love you. Well, of course, if you are 185cm+, not going bald, with perfect skin and a smile and other facial features, u r welcome
@Eliass-47 ай бұрын
Troll?
@pinguisgod5587 ай бұрын
@Fightinc yeah probably, or there is a small chance he is an incel
@andi90d7 ай бұрын
Bro I like the tee you are wearing. Where do you got this? 💪 Btw nice vid
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
It’s from a store called Zara in the UK. Thanks bro
@andi90d7 ай бұрын
@@chiyinde okay thanks
@seantheansea57926 ай бұрын
Have u been cheated on or betrayed by someone u rly loved before?
@meta671games7 ай бұрын
0:10 Nobody convinces anyone. All people understand that person B is unattractive/ugly/handsome, is it bad to point out why this is?
@user-qv7ty5xc2e7 ай бұрын
Idc if im ugly to everyone i just want to be 6 foot 🤧🤧
@amkoli74677 ай бұрын
I thought that it was just a meme
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
Unfortunately it’s serious
@gnahore58107 ай бұрын
Seriously this trend makes people into that stuff impossible to appreciate themselves
@user-lx1jd4wt5s7 ай бұрын
looks are so overrated.....better behaviour can gain you more than better looks.....how you look doesnt matter much....how you behave matters much more.
@archiver227 ай бұрын
no..
@kaiuskuikka29327 ай бұрын
how people react to your behaviour is based largely on your looks
@fastfenrir7 ай бұрын
I am 21 bro
@LL-rc2ol7 ай бұрын
yeah i dont get it man like look at michael b jordans face to me its honestly get in the gym for health and when your healthy youll look your best and your best is amazing.
@LL-rc2ol7 ай бұрын
because everything is subjective and as long as your healthy youll be good.
@user-ce1zb9vb9b7 ай бұрын
WW
@Parzival_-ff7iq7 ай бұрын
Bro thank you for this video.. Just like so many other guys that stumbled upon this video, I really needed this. All I have wanted is a girlfriend and I can't even interact with one without turning into a damn tomato because "I'm not good enough" or "I'm ugly AF". This is why social media isn't all its cracked up to be. It's evil. It's the goddamn devil manipulating you into believing your not worthy or your ugly or giving into your unwanted desire. Keep doing what you do. I believe you can help uplift so many people with your content! ☺❤🩹
@hess8147 ай бұрын
I think this is the only video I don't agree with. Appearance is clearly the most important thing, even if a person exists to "like what I am" if I'm ugly they won't even want to know and know what I'm like. Another thing is, I've always been ugly, I've always tried to gain confidence and talk to people, improve my clothes and go to the gym and indeed things change, but only personally, the way I see myself. I've always been made and in my 20 years of life I've always been ignored and placed in the friendzone because of my looks. I don't have many friends, And I could go on and on, but I think that's enough to prove my point.
@souuuhaib__7 ай бұрын
man I'm just 18 years old and i was ugly , i remember everyday i was telling my mom that I'm ugly and like you i was always friend zoned , i wished just a gf , but one day i realise that a lot of good looking girl are with ugly boy , even uglier than me, so man if u think u are ugly everybody will se u like this even if not but u will think that they see u as an ugly man , u just have to gain confidence i'm not saying that looks dont matter , but your personality your humour to matter ( i don't how to express my self cause i don't know how to speak english very well i'm morrocan) dont give up man ❤️
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
You don’t agree with me because of your own limiting beliefs. You’ve completely given up because the limited sample size of girls that you’ve met have friendzoned you - and you’re extending this to “every woman in the world thinks I am ugly”. Can you see how flawed this pattern of thinking is? Also, you’ve tried to go the gym and improve yourself, but it didn’t work? It sounds to me like you gave up. Did you build the best physique you possibly could? Have you done everything in your power to become a more powerful, attractive person? You haven’t. The only reason why you’ve given up is because you’re not willing to go through the pain of working on yourself. At 20 years old, you haven’t even completed your development as a man. What you do over the next 5 years: training, work ethic, introspection, self-improvement - will determine the person you will be at 25 years old. Do you want to sit around and complain that you’re ugly for the next 5 years? Or do you want to accept who you are and start working on yourself to give yourself the highest possible probability of finding someone who will love you? It’s too early to give up. You literally haven’t even tried. You’ve been friendzoned by a few girls and gave up. I’ve been friendzoned more times than you can imagine - those girls just weren’t the right ones for me. Every time you get friendzoned, think of it as a filtering process. You’re discarding all the wrong women and one day you’ll stumble upon the one for you. Getting friendzoned should be motivation for you to train harder, to become a better man. Not to sit around and complain. I promise you, complaining and giving up will not help your situation. If you want your outcomes to change, you must change.
@hess8147 ай бұрын
@@chiyinde thanks for the text indeed and the suport you give to your subs. I've never given up, it's been more than a year that I've been going to the gym and I have a balanced diet, giving up has never been an option and of course I want to reach my maximum potential. I did talk about what my life was like as a 20-year-old person who was always ugly, I have no idea how things will happen in the future. But yes, your text was enlightening in some points, such as being placed in the friendzone. Thank you.❤️
@hess8147 ай бұрын
@@souuuhaib__ Thank you for the text and for the testimony friend, may God bless you a strong hug. (Your English is perfect, don't worry ❤️)
@Josh372717 ай бұрын
Hey, recently saw your No-fap Video and that has convinced me to completely quit my addiction with masturbation and 🌽🌽. Every time I get an urge, I remember your words I say to myself "I don't masturbate no more. I don't watch corn no more." Thank you for saving my life.
@Cosmicmorales7 ай бұрын
4:57 not even a small percentage, literally no scientific evidence to back up mewing.
@kaiuskuikka29327 ай бұрын
mewing works tho, mouth breathers have underdeveloped jaws. my friend has small nostrils and are always clogged so he has always breathed through his mouth and he has a underdeveloped jaw. and the mewing tongue placement is where it should be normally anyway. its not like this superpower but its just the normal way of doing it
@kaiuskuikka29327 ай бұрын
blackpill is cowardly but mewing works tho
@chiyinde7 ай бұрын
It worked for you?
@derpscared1141Ай бұрын
Cope
@user-pm6ld1gq3f7 ай бұрын
Also if you want to be a real man you need to read the bible god will change you to your best version❤
@user-wn5dm6ku5i7 ай бұрын
but looksmaxing is red pill tho, black pill accepts that they can't change their appearence.
@Cosmicmorales7 ай бұрын
Looksmaxing is feminine energy.. it can’t be red pill. Maybe it’s presented that way but it’s not.
@lunistylz5876 ай бұрын
@@Cosmicmoralesthe blackpill is the real redpill, just as you’ve stated redpillers live in “masculinity” fantasy, the reality in life is women very much care about looks.
@truthseekingwisdom17 күн бұрын
This video is cope
@DeltaWave6613 күн бұрын
man has a girlfriend. How is this cope if he achieved a mate?