Losing Friends - Real Talk Season 2 Episode 17

[@pinzhengzhang3776]

I appreciate that Real Talk season 2 is now shifting into much more relatable and life topics, not simply the popular sensual topics etc. That variety and maturity is great! But I miss Eric's entertainment and his alternative viewpoints too!

[@Iendleasereit]

YES!!!!!!!!

[@athimahan]

i wish they talk about real life ghost stories 👻

[@madhudeivakumar6349]

I have always been a drifter and the outsider. The expendable one, the one that everyone talks over and forgets about. I always felt like that those around me never have valued me to the same extent that i valued them. I was also always kinda sad over the fact that i never had a proper "best friend" or even a group of friends. But as i get older, i have realized that for if you keep looking for friendship and setting unrealistic expectations, you're only setting yourself up for disappointment. Be yourself, be kind and be open. Dont let anyone take advantage of you, and stray away from the toxic ones. Learn to love yourself and find out what you like and dont like in people. True friendship will find it's way to you, and it might take a while to get to you, or it could have been under your nose this whole time.

[@enjoyinglifeish]

So sad sia when John was talking about being scarred. I also wanna say I really appreciate Real Talk. I realised that it's much easier and soothing for the ears as compared to Just Saying. Like they respect one another by giving the speaker airtime to talk and not interrupt. Really appreciate it. And still hoping the videos can be longer!

[@siewwen5430]

yess, i feel so too. it seems like in just saying, everyone is fighting to talk about their story and sometimes they conclude the episode too abruptly

[@Endolu]

@@siewwen5430 both is good. sometimes i like to sit down in solidarity and listen about the more serious side of things, while at times, i like the chaotic energy/vibes. Not that one is better than the other, but it's more of a personal taste kinda thing

[@flightsimulater12]

I like this. And the editing has been getting better. Also, John, you a real mvp to be a foundation in this show since season 1.

[@Iendleasereit]

Ya ... Love his contributions in subtle (like his qns to others) and substantive ways

[@irockmore1000]

Omg this episode was so good, the cast was so real and the chemistry was really good. Truly lives up to the name of "Real Talk", sincere and genuine conversations instead of the cringefest. Seems like in this episode you guys found your footing again. Am excited to watch more episodes with this cast and their opinions

[@kagebunshin4380]

I prefer real talk to just saying tbh. I like how they deal with more general and relatable topics and not just sex/relationship stuff, many of which I cannot relate to in the first place given that some of the cast of just saying just seem to be a very different group of people that I usually associate with. This friendship episode really resonated with me a lot and helped me to understand that I am not alone in losing friends as I move from one stage of my life to another.

[@TheIllusionCulpritMC]

I love Kishan please keep him! He's so eloquent and well-versed, reinforcing his points with substantial explainations.

[@herocreature]

Honesty is key for a quality friendship, but not necessarily good if you want quantity. So true!

[@jidewoaini9582]

"i know how to give, that's my nature. you don't have to give me back but there will be times where i will need to take" SO TRUEEEEE

[@user-to1kp7oj2w]

I used to have a lot friends and spent quality time with them when I was young. Eventually all drifted apart as I grow older. Now I don't need friend anymore, i just want to spend quality time with my family. Nevertheless, I'm still thankful for those friends in the past, who had accompanied me when I was at my most vulnerable.

[@lokekennee8850]

It would be even better if you keep in contact occasionally, assuming you don’t anymore. Just seeing how lonely when someone lost their partner at an old age and there’s no companionship to spend time after retirement, and those that do stay in contact had a happier life especially after retirement and as cliche as it sounds, they are happier and healthier.

[@izzaamazing9277]

When you ask yourself what you want from a best friend, you also need to ask yourself what you're willing to give to your best friend

[@ReboundwithResilience]

People are not loyal to you; they are loyal to their need of you. Might sound a little sad, but accepting it allows us not to have false expectations nor take relationships for granted- It might help prevent us from being overly emotional when people "leave", and also to constantly meet the other person's needs, esp in a relationship you value.

[@Itspavi98]

I love the chemistry between these people! Maybe they should be the permanent cast!

[@saiba687]

It would be great to see John have a Real Talk with the colleagues he was talking about

[@jouriek6336]

i completely understand John's positions. in my case, my bestfriends abandoned me after a long time. they hated my partner at that time and they left me, alone. nothing left. i miss them so much, sometimes i hate them too but at the end of the day i feel like i deserves this situation. idk. i just feel so empty inside.

[@ryanrancel9693]

John talking about Dew ?

[@lyly-ix9mb]

everyone is asking did john talk about dew...it doesn't matter. I feel that the takeaway is that you cannot combine friendship with business...it usually, Never..ever works out.

[@NRSBRNND]

My favourite episode thus far because they discussed the most relatable things!! Loved Farah and Kishan's input about friendships the most ❤

[@maaaaarvyn]

I think this episode really resonated with a lot of people and the experiences shared could definitely be relatable to anyone. Just know you’re not alone.

[@madzbenito878]

Did John just talk about Dew? :O

[@jessonsetyadi9961]

Maybe

[@gnimnuh6570]

Did like smthg happened between them two? Sorry i haven't been keeping up in a while

[@kenho8942]

Is Jonathan talking about dew?

[@tammmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

I really enjoy this. Wish you all could do podcasts so that we can have longer sharing sessions!

[@xxxxxx-sf6dh]

Thank you Nicole for summoning John in 😂😂😂

[@eleonoraangelaleticia7237]

people come and go is deeper than what we think it is, goodbyes are hard but it can't be helped when we went separate ways, maybe one day we'll come to a path together again but we never know. i'm tired of trying to find this bestfriend, i just wanna keep it less expecting

[@xiaohaha2843]

was john talking about dew

[@imweitinqmooo]

It took me 2 weeks to click in and start watching this episode because it's not too long ago I lose someone I thought was a friend that scars me till today. This episode is very relatable

[@f.p1758]

👏👏👏nice advice N thank you john for being the special guest of this episode we hope to see you again soon

[@muhdamirrul9858]

5:41 That expression clearly he knows who is Jon referring to..

[@MrBoliao98]

This new batch of real talk I wan hear horoscope eh. So I can catch the dynamic better.

[@nicholasp1872]

Where's Eric? I miss him!

[@xxuenii]

Im the kind that I will not talk to you or hang out w for 1 or more years, but if u need a listening ear, im thr. Quality over quantity definitely

[@pepethefrog3651]

Ooooo we all know who Jonathan is referring to👀🍵

[@laksanapranata7835]

who ? XD

[@j.lifology]

This episode is so relatable!

[@raydontan1301]

Is it the name that starts with a D? 🤔🤔

[@ZionetteEsther]

This episode is so relatable.. ❤

[@SKYBLU644]

Real talk john really real talk damn

[@neoneoneo3503]

I only loose 1 friend n I no best friend. I don't understand y need a best friend. I treat all friend equal so there no best in my friend

[@toestud3791]

how do y'all know john is talking about dew 😭

[@farhandecember]

In all honesty, given the situation I'm in, I really needed to hear some of the things that were said here.

[@finding_aether]

If they don't want the best for you. They are not your friends. Best to cut them off.

[@kkotsungjin]

thank you for this

[@shuchew6458]

Thanks for giving me a wake up call MOSG

[@suhaimibull9629]

What about friend mean! Friend or best friend is just make you happy and also not to been alone but if... you say wrong or do wrong thing to your friend that is. no more friend

[@masyitahc196]

Great content, good advices . Keep it up Jonathan. Love the crew as well. ✅ jiayou.

[@ChindianKing888]

Handsome la Kishan!

[@shielatee302]

Find someone who just makes you comfortable in your own skin... The rest...cross each bridge 🌉 when you get there 😉

[@barbecquerel]

Actually can I ask, what happens if a person of a different horoscope happens to b a good friend? Would u still b friends with that person?

[@retrofictions9661]

fuck the horoscope bullshit??

[@Nahduge]

Yo Jon. Saw u at ubi carmart there last week. Lol.

[@wildpasta]

Eriiiic where are you Eriiiic

[@lol26gal]

thank you for this video (: I'm a gemini btw xD

[@jmin4951]

oof but then again this is partly why i prefer watching your channel stuff :)

[@nicoleascelina2419]

Its reciprocate not reciprocrate....

[@oliviaatthesea]

This episode was just #deep

[@kaykay-sf4os]

keep making videos. i enjoy real talk more. Eric off day ar

[@thequirks4584]

i would like to contribute from witnessing deaths in friends or other topics points of view.

[@enrara]

Hi I'm here to sign up to be Nicole's best friend HAHAHAHA

[@catherinelaw9082]

I’d be your friend Nicole 😂

[@izoningminjuuu5890]

Haahha wah finally smth not sensual. Kidding. Good video!!

[@bahutmut]

lighting so much btr now

[@lynzichua1810]

Can do one about conspiracy theories or not

[@Toffeeukeeeeee]

I want to be your friend, I’m a Libra!!!! Hiiiiii Nicole!!!

[@edison4eva]

Not bro sia the guy with the cap. Jon needed you! And you betrayed him. Shame!

[@frostbitepokin9520]

JoHn TaLkInG aBoUt DeW?

[@monicarai1497]

Life has a way of getting out the trash.

[@jenniferlee26]

Bring Eric back!! More humor and more relatable haha

[@ButterPrata]

How uh my great friends and me insult each other every other day 😂😂 Beens friends for more than 15 years and counting. Judgement to the face is important lol

[@StorybookProduction]

F for Jonathan Chua...

[@calista5811]

Well I’m an Aquarius 😂😂 air signs best signs!!

[@Saida___]

:residentsleeper:

[@frostbitepokin9520]

Aye yo, Kishan said he was Aquarius then later said he was Leo 👀👀

[@Madillusionist]

He said he is Sun sign Leo, Moon sign Aquarius

[@TheAmandalimls]

Moon in Aquarius, sun in leo

[@yanngie]

Moon and Sun sign is different 😆

[@thatdollarcoke]

To clarify a person does not only have one horoscope. There are horoscope categories such as Sun, Moon, rising etc. He mentioned his moon was in Aquarius so his sun is prb Leo. Hope this helps!

[@machine_yearning_]

aquarius MOON

[@irdinasabri6482]

Wow

[@Petitexll]

Hi Nicole, Imma VIRGO 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ hahaha, let’s be friends

[@alvinterence]

I'm a Virgo #FYI haha.

[@jai71_]

T

[@toomuchppl]

oof

[@vincentyoe4499]

I’m first?

[@cantstopthemusicable]

First commentttt

[@chris_6787]

first ah