Losing Friends - Real Talk Season 2 Episode 17

[@pinzhengzhang3776]

I appreciate that Real Talk season 2 is now shifting into much more relatable and life topics, not simply the popular sensual topics etc. That variety and maturity is great! But I miss Eric's entertainment and his alternative viewpoints too!

[@Iendleasereit]

YES!!!!!!!!

[@athimahan]

i wish they talk about real life ghost stories 👻

[@madhudeivakumar6349]

I have always been a drifter and the outsider. The expendable one, the one that everyone talks over and forgets about. I always felt like that those around me never have valued me to the same extent that i valued them. I was also always kinda sad over the fact that i never had a proper "best friend" or even a group of friends. But as i get older, i have realized that for if you keep looking for friendship and setting unrealistic expectations, you're only setting yourself up for disappointment. Be yourself, be kind and be open. Dont let anyone take advantage of you, and stray away from the toxic ones. Learn to love yourself and find out what you like and dont like in people. True friendship will find it's way to you, and it might take a while to get to you, or it could have been under your nose this whole time.

[@enjoyinglifeish]

So sad sia when John was talking about being scarred. I also wanna say I really appreciate Real Talk. I realised that it's much easier and soothing for the ears as compared to Just Saying. Like they respect one another by giving the speaker airtime to talk and not interrupt. Really appreciate it. And still hoping the videos can be longer!

[@siewwen5430]

yess, i feel so too. it seems like in just saying, everyone is fighting to talk about their story and sometimes they conclude the episode too abruptly

[@Endolu]

@@siewwen5430 both is good. sometimes i like to sit down in solidarity and listen about the more serious side of things, while at times, i like the chaotic energy/vibes. Not that one is better than the other, but it's more of a personal taste kinda thing

[@flightsimulater12]

I like this. And the editing has been getting better. Also, John, you a real mvp to be a foundation in this show since season 1.

[@Iendleasereit]

Ya ... Love his contributions in subtle (like his qns to others) and substantive ways

[@ReboundwithResilience]

People are not loyal to you; they are loyal to their need of you. Might sound a little sad, but accepting it allows us not to have false expectations nor take relationships for granted- It might help prevent us from being overly emotional when people "leave", and also to constantly meet the other person's needs, esp in a relationship you value.

[@kagebunshin4380]

I prefer real talk to just saying tbh. I like how they deal with more general and relatable topics and not just sex/relationship stuff, many of which I cannot relate to in the first place given that some of the cast of just saying just seem to be a very different group of people that I usually associate with. This friendship episode really resonated with me a lot and helped me to understand that I am not alone in losing friends as I move from one stage of my life to another.

[@herocreature]

Honesty is key for a quality friendship, but not necessarily good if you want quantity. So true!

[@jidewoaini9582]

"i know how to give, that's my nature. you don't have to give me back but there will be times where i will need to take" SO TRUEEEEE

[@irockmore1000]

Omg this episode was so good, the cast was so real and the chemistry was really good. Truly lives up to the name of "Real Talk", sincere and genuine conversations instead of the cringefest. Seems like in this episode you guys found your footing again. Am excited to watch more episodes with this cast and their opinions

[@izzaamazing9277]

When you ask yourself what you want from a best friend, you also need to ask yourself what you're willing to give to your best friend

[@TheIllusionCulpritMC]

I love Kishan please keep him! He's so eloquent and well-versed, reinforcing his points with substantial explainations.

[@user-to1kp7oj2w]

I used to have a lot friends and spent quality time with them when I was young. Eventually all drifted apart as I grow older. Now I don't need friend anymore, i just want to spend quality time with my family. Nevertheless, I'm still thankful for those friends in the past, who had accompanied me when I was at my most vulnerable.

[@lokekennee8850]

It would be even better if you keep in contact occasionally, assuming you don’t anymore. Just seeing how lonely when someone lost their partner at an old age and there’s no companionship to spend time after retirement, and those that do stay in contact had a happier life especially after retirement and as cliche as it sounds, they are happier and healthier.

[@Itspavi98]

I love the chemistry between these people! Maybe they should be the permanent cast!

[@lyly-ix9mb]

everyone is asking did john talk about dew...it doesn't matter. I feel that the takeaway is that you cannot combine friendship with business...it usually, Never..ever works out.

[@saiba687]

It would be great to see John have a Real Talk with the colleagues he was talking about

[@jouriek6336]

i completely understand John's positions. in my case, my bestfriends abandoned me after a long time. they hated my partner at that time and they left me, alone. nothing left. i miss them so much, sometimes i hate them too but at the end of the day i feel like i deserves this situation. idk. i just feel so empty inside.

[@ryanrancel9693]

John talking about Dew ?

[@eleonoraangelaleticia7237]

people come and go is deeper than what we think it is, goodbyes are hard but it can't be helped when we went separate ways, maybe one day we'll come to a path together again but we never know. i'm tired of trying to find this bestfriend, i just wanna keep it less expecting

[@NRSBRNND]

My favourite episode thus far because they discussed the most relatable things!! Loved Farah and Kishan's input about friendships the most ❤

[@maaaaarvyn]

I think this episode really resonated with a lot of people and the experiences shared could definitely be relatable to anyone. Just know you’re not alone.

[@xxxxxx-sf6dh]

Thank you Nicole for summoning John in 😂😂😂

[@weitingto5290]

It took me 2 weeks to click in and start watching this episode because it's not too long ago I lose someone I thought was a friend that scars me till today. This episode is very relatable

[@kenho8942]

Is Jonathan talking about dew?

[@madzbenito878]

Did John just talk about Dew? :O

[@jessonsetyadi9961]

Maybe

[@gnimnuh6570]

Did like smthg happened between them two? Sorry i haven't been keeping up in a while

[@tammmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy]

I really enjoy this. Wish you all could do podcasts so that we can have longer sharing sessions!

[@f.p1758]

👏👏👏nice advice N thank you john for being the special guest of this episode we hope to see you again soon

[@MrBoliao98]

This new batch of real talk I wan hear horoscope eh. So I can catch the dynamic better.

[@pepethefrog3651]

Ooooo we all know who Jonathan is referring to👀🍵

[@laksanapranata7835]

who ? XD

[@xxuenii]

Im the kind that I will not talk to you or hang out w for 1 or more years, but if u need a listening ear, im thr. Quality over quantity definitely

[@xiaohaha2843]

was john talking about dew

[@muhdamirrul9858]

5:41 That expression clearly he knows who is Jon referring to..

[@nicholasp1872]

Where's Eric? I miss him!

[@j.lifology]

This episode is so relatable!

[@neoneoneo3503]

I only loose 1 friend n I no best friend. I don't understand y need a best friend. I treat all friend equal so there no best in my friend

[@SKYBLU644]

Real talk john really real talk damn

[@raydontan1301]

Is it the name that starts with a D? 🤔🤔

[@shuchew6458]

Thanks for giving me a wake up call MOSG

[@farhandecember]

In all honesty, given the situation I'm in, I really needed to hear some of the things that were said here.

[@ZionetteEsther]

This episode is so relatable.. ❤

[@finding_aether]

If they don't want the best for you. They are not your friends. Best to cut them off.

[@toestud3791]

how do y'all know john is talking about dew 😭

[@suhaimibull9629]

What about friend mean! Friend or best friend is just make you happy and also not to been alone but if... you say wrong or do wrong thing to your friend that is. no more friend

[@kkotsungjin]

thank you for this

[@masyitahc196]

Great content, good advices . Keep it up Jonathan. Love the crew as well. ✅ jiayou.

[@shielatee302]

Find someone who just makes you comfortable in your own skin... The rest...cross each bridge 🌉 when you get there 😉

[@ChindianKing888]

Handsome la Kishan!

[@wildpasta]

Eriiiic where are you Eriiiic

[@jmin4951]

oof but then again this is partly why i prefer watching your channel stuff :)

[@barbecquerel]

Actually can I ask, what happens if a person of a different horoscope happens to b a good friend? Would u still b friends with that person?

[@retrofictions9661]

fuck the horoscope bullshit??

[@lol26gal]

thank you for this video (: I'm a gemini btw xD

[@Nahduge]

Yo Jon. Saw u at ubi carmart there last week. Lol.

[@nicoleascelina2419]

Its reciprocate not reciprocrate....

[@kaykay-sf4os]

keep making videos. i enjoy real talk more. Eric off day ar

[@enrara]

Hi I'm here to sign up to be Nicole's best friend HAHAHAHA

[@oliviaatthesea]

This episode was just #deep

[@catherinelaw9082]

I’d be your friend Nicole 😂

[@Toffeeukeeeeee]

I want to be your friend, I’m a Libra!!!! Hiiiiii Nicole!!!

[@izoningminjuuu5890]

Haahha wah finally smth not sensual. Kidding. Good video!!

[@thequirks4584]

i would like to contribute from witnessing deaths in friends or other topics points of view.

[@lynzichua1810]

Can do one about conspiracy theories or not

[@edison4eva]

Not bro sia the guy with the cap. Jon needed you! And you betrayed him. Shame!

[@frostbitepokin9520]

JoHn TaLkInG aBoUt DeW?

[@jenniferlee26]

Bring Eric back!! More humor and more relatable haha

[@ButterPrata]

How uh my great friends and me insult each other every other day 😂😂 Beens friends for more than 15 years and counting. Judgement to the face is important lol

[@bahutmut]

lighting so much btr now

[@StorybookProduction]

F for Jonathan Chua...

[@Petitexll]

Hi Nicole, Imma VIRGO 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ hahaha, let’s be friends

[@calista5811]

Well I’m an Aquarius 😂😂 air signs best signs!!

[@monicarai1497]

Life has a way of getting out the trash.

[@alvinterence]

I'm a Virgo #FYI haha.

[@irdinasabri6482]

Wow

[@frostbitepokin9520]

Aye yo, Kishan said he was Aquarius then later said he was Leo 👀👀

[@Madillusionist]

He said he is Sun sign Leo, Moon sign Aquarius

[@TheAmandalimls]

Moon in Aquarius, sun in leo

[@yanngie]

Moon and Sun sign is different 😆

[@thatdollarcoke]

To clarify a person does not only have one horoscope. There are horoscope categories such as Sun, Moon, rising etc. He mentioned his moon was in Aquarius so his sun is prb Leo. Hope this helps!

[@machine_yearning_]

aquarius MOON

[@Saida___]

:residentsleeper:

[@jai71_]

T

[@toomuchppl]

oof

[@vincentyoe4499]

I’m first?

[@chris_6787]

first ah

[@cantstopthemusicable]

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