lost in the sauce of these messy tiktoks - REACTION

[@crystalaltman4958]

Yeah I found out my husband of 15 years was bisexual in the most heartbreaking ways as well. He was also “homophobic”. I’ve heard this is happening more that we realize. It’s not the bisexual part that’s the issue…it’s the lying, cheating, betrayal and how they really don’t care about devastating their families.

[@NemeNoms]

I hope you have found/are finding self peace now.❤

[@xXOFrannieOXx]

Thats what always breaks me, they just dont seem to care one tiny little bit.

[@mpazinambao2938]

Why'd you marry a homophob???

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

That would have grossed me out in the worse possible way.

[@alice989]

so the bigotry wasn't a deal breaker huh?

[@dunementat2191]

First story is heartbreaking and the coincidence that both suspicious wives met at the same time in motel parking lot is incredible.

[@vannahkeeb]

Women's intuition ain't nothin to mess with

[@beelowe3474]

I'm very suspicious. I saw this woman in a different video talking about her husband crashing and dying in front of her house and when she went to claim his body his wife had already claimed it. So this guy had two wives. I think she's just a storyteller.

[@vannahkeeb]

@@beelowe3474 the tea is piping hot. I hope you're wrong though.. lying about a loved one dying is just... awful.

[@sandrakilday3551]

@@beelowe3474 yeah too much exaggeration and the other girl grabbing keys when the receptionist left the desk.someones been watching too many movies lol

[@haleyrose1275]

It sounds and looks like she’s reading from a script

[@mimirose113]

In that first story, I was suspicious that the two guys were up to something together, but I was really just hoping the wives would burst in to find them secretly playing D&D

[@CynAnne1]

Michelle - The entire group, for that matter... *all* wearing wizard hats or viking helmets, knee-deep in multi-sided dice, hand-painted figures and three-page maps...! 😂

[@sunrisecenter4586]

Yeah me too. It sounded like it was a headed for a cheating breakup story but I was hoping for something innocent

[@alexn5743]

What have you been hunting? Orc!

[@haileyranson8255]

SAMEEEEE 😂

[@fightgarr]

That would be me and my friends. Only we would be playing computer games on a Lan line

[@spiritdetective468]

As a gay man, when gay people say tell you their bullies usually end up in their DM’s later on they’re usually not lying. It’s sad that some people hate themselves so much they would rather hurt people who cared about them then be their authentic selves. So glad I figured out who I was without making a family and putting a woman through something like the first video. Hope all the other men out there struggling with sexuality can win the battle. Glad she ended up finding someone she can be happy with.

[@AbigaleKirsten]

It’s not even about the fact that he’s gay and slept with a man, it’s the fact that it’s a while damn 0rgy, he is lying, and then coming back home and probably also sleeping with her. It’s disturbing to know your spouse, the parent of your children, a married person, supposed to be ur best friend, is doing this, and that all the neighbours are joining in with probably their own spouses in the dark.

[@spiritdetective468]

@@AbigaleKirsten oh trust me ! I 100% get that. If being gay didn’t have the stimga’s around it then he would have just done the orgies without having to cheat on his wife. He’s still disgusting for putting her through that. But if he was able to come to terms with him being gay and not hiding behind fake homophobia then he would probably never gotten married in the first place. It’s a sucking situation, but he was still fully in the wrong for what he did to his wife.

[@anakelly76512]

​@@spiritdetective468 I agree 100%. Being straight or gay wasn't the problem. It was the fact that he cheated. And the other husband cheated, too. They totally messed up and hurt their wives. You did the right thing by knowing you're gay and not putting a woman through hell by marrying her to cover up that fact.

[@100samanthamarie]

YOU. ARE. THE BEST!!!! 👌🏽

[@thepopculturedilettante1194]

Yeah religion and family pressure can be so unnatural and toxic

[@LukeLane1984]

The first story is told by an actress. She tells a lot of these stories. She does it very well, with a lot of emotion. I guess they do it like this to make it more engaging and of course protect the people who went through this kind of stuff.

[@Mo-vo4vo]

Yea am familiar with her. She did one where her husband had multiple lives and families across the globe

[@Feliciabazooka]

@lukelane1984 @mo-vo4vo do either of you know where I can find some of that actresses other story telling videos?

[@Mo-vo4vo]

@@Feliciabazooka no I don't. Someone had sent me the one about her husband with multiple identities/lives.

[@Ciborium]

Yeah, I had a feeling it was a load of fiction. NGL, it had my attention. It was a well written and delivered narrative. However, it was all just a little too convenient to be real. Also, the whole thing was delivered straight to someone off camera with the camera on a tripod. This was not a casual conversation that happened organically. This was planned and scripted.

[@peekaboots01]

So not a true story? Thx for letting us know.

[@Sar-ahG]

Had a similar experience with an ex- super loud about hating gays-- he’s been living alone with a gay man for the past 12 years, no girlfriend. It makes sense why we didn’t work out.

[@faithgoga3983]

Talk about running from yourself

[@mixedmediaartgirl300]

dude, mine too. except my story was more like this lady's

[@readaholicgirl_5]

Society says it's not okay to be a gay man and that gets internalized to the extreme. The mentality of if I come out as super homophobic it might trick people into thinking I'm not gay? Or self hatred as well.

[@deannahowell7823]

I had an ex just like that but the gay guy he was living with use to be his grandfathers childhood friend 🫢

[@trish8964]

@@readaholicgirl_5 Perhaps .... BUT nobody wants to be a bread.

[@hiimakearthi3717]

Update for the client who blocked: tiktok community helped her and the client finally made the payment 👏👏👏

[@TheMultiverseJumper]

how mad was she that she had to pay lol

[@neliaferreira9983]

Helped her how?

[@miiim]

​@@neliaferreira9983 bullying her I guess..

[@inkling457]

​@Green Tea&mint Woman SCAMMED a hard working person who does gorgeous work, and used the stolen goods for clout and to make her look rich and having the good life. Telling someone like that repeatedly to do what she should've done in the first place and pay the dress is what she deserves. That person is just absolute scum.

[@hellowendy1029]

Yesssss we love a happy ending!

[@alphawolf2157]

The way her MIL said, "Hi Kendra." 🤣 She is going to use that to embarrass for the rest of her life 😂

[@Midorikonokami]

My son is getting taken care of. Good. But my DIL is now never living it down.

[@santolify]

That first story deserves a standing ovation! For the two women who first discovered the secret! 👏👏👏👏👏

[@fdm2155]

Yes that best friends wife is a mad genius.

[@lacsuttle]

That was clearly fake- hotel keys are programmed and you don’t just go grab a key

[@elizabethfortes2007]

@@lacsuttle it was a motel, maybe a cheap one. I believe them.

[@SMJSelena]

​@@lacsuttle it's not like this happened yesterday. Her going to church happened a few years ago, and the cheating scandal happened a few years before that. I'm pretty sure some motels still use keys today, and definitely 4 or 5 years ago

[@Empress58]

@@lacsuttle the way she was talking reminded me of the way my classmates would perform their monologues for their finals in a college acting class that I took for “easy” credit Spoiler alert: it was not easy and I formally apologize to actors everywhere Also…lady, why are you married to the most homophobic man you know?

[@Rikrobat]

People often express hatred towards things in order to hide something about themselves… Man, I feel so bad for the woman in that first TikTok.

[@phoenixgarcia-martin8203]

Me thinking “this is why I don’t stay at hotels.” I feel bad for the housekeepers 😳 but I’m glad she walked away and received everything. I feel bad for their kids.

[@shaybribri]

I felt so bad just at the way her voice was shaking throughout

[@loosilu]

I felt like she was reading from a script. anyone else?

[@user-ph4mg1mh9c]

This is Broke Back Mountain

[@Emeraldwitch30]

One of my first grade teachers told me that exact thing. That the girl who bullied me hated the same thing in me that she hated in herself and that I was a great little person. She hated my long hair. Well she had long hair too but wanted it cut. She tried to cut mine but was caught. Her mother finally took her for a hair cut and she chilled out and heck by the time we were in 5th grade we were friends lol

[@kristiriley]

Even though homegirl said it's been 2 years, since finding out her ex-husband was in that man ringy dingy thingy, & she's met someone new, & is happier now! She still sounds legit traumatized & shook from it all. Her voice is still shakey. I mean - 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@aliciatorres2794]

I think I would too

[@kristiriley]

@@aliciatorres2794 Oh yeah. Most definitely! Same! Shookith to the tenth degree!

[@iriegirl5517]

Fr and then she probably got tested for everything because he was having multiple partners. So disturbing 😫

[@bethmahadocon1887]

My voice gets shaky when being recorded. But yeah, finding out your whole marriage is a lie seems traumatic.

[@WhiteOleander730]

@@bethmahadocon1887 It wasn't just her shaky voice. Look at her eyes. They're so sad.

[@merlind.wizzard3558]

About the kid doing body work on dad's car. He clearly paid attention and wore the proper safety equipment. Aside from a little skinned paint, this actually looks like a win to me. Keep it up Dad. You are doing it right.🙂

[@cbpd89]

The protective headphones is what made it for me 😂 Dad has now learned the tough lesson of cleaning up his toys when he's done with them (or if you have little kids, when you are looking away from them for even a second cuz that's how long it takes a toddler to find and break anything fragile).

[@katswan1]

This one seemed like a skitt to me. The child wearing all the proper safety equipment 🙄. We have a friend that turned his back for literally 5 seconds and his daughter had her hair and scalp wrapped up in a drill! Pulled part of her scalp off!😢

[@allisoncastle]

@@katswan1Damnit unfortunately that makes way more worse 😢 (the skit part, to be clear)

[@skeletalremains3860]

​@@katswan1 no, some kids are more aware than others. If the little boy regularly goes to his dad's shop and the first thing they do is put on ear protection, which would make sense in a commercial shop then it's a habit. Not a stretch that he'd do it at home also. Obviously he's spending time with his dad! My grandson goes to work with my husband several times a week. He's a landscaper. Our grandson knows what tools he has to put ear protection on for and what each tool is used for. Our grandson actually has his own landscaping tools including a toddler size wheelbarrow, rake, shovel, and hand tools.

[@the_epicfangirl]

That first story was absolutely crazy! The fact that it wasn’t just the two guys, but a entire baseball starting line up, even factoring in the pinch hitter for the pitcher, is the craziest part.

[@UsandEveryoneWeKnow]

She didn't seem genuine at all. Not saying that hasn't happened to people, but it's almost like someone badly acting out someone else's story.

[@SH-sq6pz]

The story may be true, but it felt like a skit

[@litebrite8993]

@@SH-sq6pz odd, she seemed totally genuine to me. In fact, she seemed like 'this story is so crazy you're probably not even going to believe me but I swear it's the truth' kind of vibe

[@olympiaelda1121]

@@UsandEveryoneWeKnow To me she seemed genuinely agitated remembering all that transpired and still kinda traumatized.

[@UsandEveryoneWeKnow]

@@olympiaelda1121 Maybe she was just awkward being filmed, it didn't seem that authentic in terms of her reliving it.

[@Ruby4233]

That prolapsed uterus story had me immediately doing kegels to strengthen my pelvic floor.

[@draconicfeline6177]

Yeah i hear you.

[@LothlorienOH]

Instead of straining to poop, try humming and mooing. It relaxes your muscles and the vibration helps you go more easily.🥔💜

[@cursetea49]

​@@LothlorienOH i find breathing through my stomach helps get things moving too (i got ibs c, so like fully extend your belly on inhale and when exhale bring it in slowly)

[@tracycameron2580]

Lol...me too!!!

[@saramarzoli9647]

Yup, I'm just here clenching and releasing, that story gave me a new phobia

[@rebeccahopkins9522]

My 91 year old mother in law has a rectal prolapse and her rectum regularly falls out. Because of her age and unrelated health problems, she’s not a candidate for surgery. But the first time it happened we rushed her to the ER. The fix? They poured sugar on it…AND IT SLOWLY RETRACTED AND WENT BACK IN. 😳 the first time seeing that was CRAZY 😂 now when we pick her up and take her to lunch or dinner or out in public we always have a container of sugar in her “walker cart”; we’ve developed this public code speak that if she’s having a “drop”, she says to one or both of us, “PASS THE SUGAR” And we know to go to the bathroom with her, find a stall, and whip out the sugar. Because she’s the incredible woman I know and love she finds it all hysterical and we always have a good laugh about it while “passing the sugar”. 😂🤣😂I love her so much. ♥️

[@wtfan8610]

I feel bad laughing but I'm glad granny found a solution. Poor woman!

[@charadreemurr4839]

I've had several prolapses surgery didn't work the first two times.

[@tinahickman6300]

​@@charadreemurr4839I am so sorry!!

[@charadreemurr4839]

@@tinahickman6300 It's fine.

[@roowyrm9576]

I once worked with a theatre company. One of the performers was incredibly homophobic, which was difficult to deal with since all of the other men were gay. This was a long run in a London theatre, so we dealt with it and continued for a few months.... Until we discover that it was a big cover-up, he was now in a relationship with one of the other guys, but couldn't face the comments. It took a couple of weeks, but eventually things settled down. But it was such a clear example of "methinks he doth protest too much".

[@lollyann7630]

I uttered that exact phrase, Shakespeare was definitely on to something and more often than not it absolutely is a poor attempt at covering the shameful (only to them though) truth, I'm weary of anyone "that doth protest too much", suspicious as h*ll🤦🏼‍♀️

[@srhozrgl]

Aaaaaaah LondonTheatre Dramas, I miss it...DMT?

[@ST-cv4fc]

@@thomasjoseph5876 Please let us know your wife’s name. I’m highly intrigued & curious. Would love to watch her’s & your father in law’s movies. :)

[@kerrimillin3651]

Hearing “my uterus fell out”, just unlocked a new fear. Started Kegel immediately.

[@laughingcorrpseholly4136]

For real!!!! Like I am legit scared to fart or poop now 😱😱 yikes that story made me scared for the rest of my life wtf 😅

[@wendyg.2664]

Me too!!! 😱

[@KeriBlank]

Saaaaame!!!

[@eringann3162]

I was looking for this comment while doing kegals!!😂 😭

[@ZomBeeQueeen]

That kiddo with the sander… I love that he even wore his PPE to protect his lol ears 🥰😂 atleast he believes in safety 🤣😂🤣

[@jacqweee]

char: let’s lighten the mood also char: wow i had no idea your uterus could fall out, wild!

[@BabetteDaniels]

I legit screamed.

[@mrs.h2725]

Me sitting here traumatized and doing kegels 😩😭😬

[@CrazyHLady]

I didn't know either 😮

[@elizabethfortes2007]

Mind your farts girls. That's scary 😵😳

[@queserasera1540]

This is why cashiers stand on rubber mats, Stop standing on hard floors. Save your uterus!

[@PhoenixHinds]

The gold dress was so stunning, the designer should have been paid extra, not be ripped off.

[@cherrybombsundae263]

There is a comment here with an update, tiktok got her to pay.

[@riamichaelis7526]

The dress was STUNNNNNNNNNING

[@PhoenixHinds]

@@cherrybombsundae263 I certainly hope that that is true.

[@grudge0132]

Yagirlyana_ I think was her name tried looking it up to see if she got paid , no update

[@mayleenebreiska]

She got paid, I found the account on Tiktok. She is thanking people for the help

[@christinesinclair6938]

I love that the ex's best-friend's ex-wife embraced "Don't get mad, get everything!"

[@celestedemure9800]

6:02 I was fully expecting that the to husbands were lovers, but I didn’t expect the whole neighborhood 😮😂

[@michaelgillis9420]

I’m confident I’ve seen that movie 😈

[@Beatlesfanish]

Same

[@11achaff]

SAME! Lmao 😂

[@areneesouder]

I've been saying for many years, that the guys who act the most homophobic are the ones that are actually doing it. Straight men are confident in their sexuality.

[@fallenbee]

The first one sounds fake ngl lol

[@loosilu]

@@fallenbee Super fake. Like she's reading off a script. People don't tell stories like that.

[@ruesurnameunimportant4816]

The closeted dudes who internalize homophobia get it from somewhere. Gay dudes aren't in a vacuum hating on themselves; the homophobia absolutely originates from str8 people... and sadly many gay folx internalize that hate from the str8 community and live in that hatred 24/7 'til it spills out. It's really sad. But never mistake where it really comes from. Extremely homophobic people are more often straight simply due to the number of straight people in the world.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

​@@Cynophileandavianenthusiast I think it's fake as well. And I hope it's not true for her kids sake bc their community, family and ALL their friends get personal details those kids didn't need exposed about their private life. Why can't people stop telling all their personal business online? It's so weird to me. Remember the good old days when we didn't have to know that our neighbors butthole fell out in a toilet?🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MalcolmReynoldsQuotes]

@@loosilu people in shock and protecting their emotions speak that way. Not saying it’s true, but that’s a totally normal way to tell that kind of story.

[@deshaebraun3962]

The whole neighborhood!!! That was a whole movie! WOW!

[@Sar-ahG]

Sometimes is a good thing when a friend screws your over - $50 bucks is a good price to save yourself from a toxic person that’s going to keep treating you like second class

[@MrNorker77]

Yep, been there and while it took me a while to accept it in hindsight it is money well spent

[@neliaferreira9983]

30$ rather.

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

Yes, don’t wait until it’s 100’s like me lol. I am too nice I was too nice

[@dianawilcox2364]

Exactly what I was thinking. It seems petty, but these things nearly always escalate. This gal seems young, and it often takes people years of dealing with toxic friends to learn this sad lesson. She has a brighter future for figuring this out now!

[@Sar-ahG]

I used to be… Now I will never give cash but if you need anything else and will actually use it I’m probably going to help you out…. Also at the same time I don’t have too many true friends anymore and it’s better this way

[@shania991]

13:40 DRESS UPDATE: after the girl was called out she turned her comment off and posted “receipts” of her sending the money but it wasn’t until a day after the video went up 😂 and it said POS as in she swiped her card not a transfer she eventually sent the money rest of the money DESIGNER GOT PAID 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Amber-lb1pt]

Thank you for this update

[@Tttt28882]

Y’all… From what I heard, the first lady is a story teller/ actress. She re-tells real life situations that people went through (and, I assume, send to her)!

[@Pressity1]

I was wondering why this was word for word what I read on Reddit last year!

[@jppurves7837]

Vanessa has outdone herself today! That first story was on fire. I've never watched anything with such an unexpected ending.

[@MrNorker77]

The pizza was awesome too

[@jessam4875]

It’s strange though because I know an old joke with the same storyline. The only difference is the husband is going fishing every weekend with his buddy and the wife hides his tackle box.

[@neliaferreira9983]

Who is Vanessa?

[@itsjustme4848]

Apparently you never saw Brokeback Mountain.

[@Elisabethamanya]

@@neliaferreira9983 charlotte’s assistant, she’s the one who collects the videos for her to review.

[@andaanton8357]

Me and a couple of friends used to go out on almost a daily basis for a couple of months. After going to the same place for a while we befriended the waiters that complained to us that we are nice and all but we are poor tippers. We were all confused then we found out that the guy that was collecting the money to pay the full bill didn't chip in for his part and just covered his part of the bill with our tips for the waiters. He was so kicked out of our group with everyone calling him a thief to this day.

[@thechosenone9692]

Wow! Messed up!

[@andreabradley5837]

Heinous! My parents used to go to dinner with a couple and Dennis always had to stick around to use the bathroom or he forgot something or whatever. Dad got suspicious and sure enough caught him stealing the tip off of the table.

[@elnapinto9936]

Happens more often than you think 😮

[@FlissFloss2906]

😮😮😮

[@fleurelise997]

Just when you thought you knew where that first story was going....KABLAMMM! I'm still flabbergasted! I'm really happy to hear that the woman is moving on with her life and that her faith is helping her recover from the shock of this experience. Deception on that scale can just completely destroy anyone.

[@DS-us1vi]

If you ever have gay friends telling you about straight guys hitting on them and you dismissed them or thought they are exaggerating or they are making stuff up. They are usually telling the truth. The amount of women that are surprised makes me realise the problem with society. We gay people are still constantly dismissed and I don't know how many times I've had straight women, or even colleagues at work when I tell them about being sexually harassed by married guys on overnight shifts, they always dismiss our stories or think we are making up stuff. It is common and there are straight guys on grindr who are usually after some of the things socially deems most unacceptable. My advice is, if a gay person tells you someone they think is gay maybe be hesitant to believe them, but if they tell you about straight guys on grindr and you think that these are just gay guys pretending to straight guys or your friend is making stuff up- you are wrong. There are men married to women very commonly seeking gay sex all over the internet and it isn't even remotely new or unusual.

[@prenimystic]

That first story was WILD I'm so proud of her for trying to figure out what's going on without going into a rampage, for making a deal with them in order to completely separate herself and get a divorce, and then heal later on. I hope her and the other woman who teamed up with her are friends for life now All the strength to those ladies, and all the other ones that were also hurt ❤️

[@slee2695]

It's fake..what hotel still uses keys?

[@prenimystic]

@slee2695 please tell me you're tying to make a joke rn 💀

[@slee2695]

@@prenimystic im pretty sure 99% of hotels/motels use key cards that are blank unless you input the room number when you check in...but some rural country place might still use keys i guess

[@loosilu]

@@prenimystic the video has been proven a fake. There are other videos wjhere she tells a totally different story.

[@aghasearmyshawolblinkonce8039]

"if someone is super homophobic, maybe just be a little more than suspicious" she's absolutely right 🫖🍵

[@ontxtteredwxngs]

SHES also homophobic and the way she talks about that woman she thought she was being cheated on for was very WLW. Super gay self report.

[@ethannn4067]

@@ontxtteredwxngs i'm confused because that woman didn't say anything homophobic.

[@autigaming1376]

No such thing as homophobic. there are people who like gays and the ones who pretend to hate them cause they secretly are gay.

[@purplepigeon9680]

@@ontxtteredwxngs Because she didn't like her husband cheating on her she's homophobic?

[@Stepharoni_and_Clean]

​@ontxtteredwxngs so if your husband or wife turned gay you wouldn't be pissed? Lmao yeah right

[@eluvblack380]

That last one killed me! Mom said, "Hi Kendra" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hannahwilliams2143]

Damn my heart was breaking for the first girl. You can hear the trauma in her voice 🫣 the poor wives of these men, being lied to and strung along. 🥺

[@DragonQueenDrago]

It’s the neighborhood, men only, sex cult! Gays and bisexual men in the neighborhood only! I NEVER expected that…..

[@CupRiri]

The first video actually made me emotional, because the way she tells the story, I felt like I was there, I felt as if I got betrayed too. I am glad she was able to heal and got to keep everything though, good for her and the kids

[@allisoncastle]

She’s actually an actress so it makes sense. I believe she re-tells real stories though

[@embo2916]

5:46 I came to the comment section hoping to find out where she sources her stories. I could tell it was a story teller vibe but my ex was like this… he was doing things with other men when he should have been working overtime and in person he was so homophobic… like way beyond run of the mill… scary things and I would reprimand him about saying such awful things about souls. He was getting reassurance from me maybe. so yeah… the the take away is still true!

[@MaineWitch09]

I had heard about the uterus falling out when I was in the 7th grade. I learned that you have a lesser chance of that happening if you strengthen your pelvic floor by squeezing the muscles, similar to holding in a pee, for about 15 to 30 seconds at a time. Been doing that ever since.

[@dragonprincess8205]

They are called kegels or kegals and yeah they strengthen the pelvic floor so this doesnt happen. Awesome job taking preventative steps so early. If you give birth it is easier on you with a strong pelvic floor and less likely to be incontinent while pregnant and in old age

[@HighAsHeckPriestess]

We all know motels don't be having no damn standards 😂😂 I'm glad she was able to find peace❤this made my birthday!

[@oliviaburke4299]

Happy Birthdayyyy!!!!🥳🥳

[@loosilu]

It struck me as scripted.

[@Darth_H8er]

That first one was wild. 😬Happy birthday, beautiful! Mine is tomorrow so I am right behind ya! 🥳🥳🖤🖤

[@Dobviews]

🎉🎉🎉HBD!🎉🎉🎉

[@chantrellebrown8313]

Happy birthday!

[@joysgirl]

Since everyone else has thoroughly and appropriately chastised the cheating now ex-husbands, I'm going to question the pickle topping choice on that pizza.

[@shellythecab7417]

Seriously, though! I love pickles, but on a pizza? Nope.

[@pamhuffman4529]

That's what I was thinking!

[@chiarra644]

it was a cheeseburger pizza, not a traditional pizza.

[@dhf161]

@@chiarra644 that makes more sense

[@jbooots8691]

This is the comment I was looking for! Pickles on pizza?!

[@shadowcollins4589]

The minute I heard about the uterus falling out and then the pelvic floor being weakened from pushing, I immediately started doing kegels😂😂 Almost totally involuntarily Did this happen to anybody else?

[@wtfan8610]

I'm doing regals reading your commet 😂

[@nopenope9118]

I used to be the manager of a grocery store deli and I had an older woman who worked with me and she told me ALL about her uterine prolapse. She had to take time off work for the surgery so she filled me in on all the details. Terrified the fuck out of me.

[@jenbobcat387]

Do them kegels!

[@grimmandtonics]

A prolapse as bad as in the video us rarer. It usually takes time for it to progress that bad and trust me most people will notice way before then. I'm 35 and had one complete with a hysterectomy last month and mine came after 7 years of stomach/bowel issues. We noticed it and handled the issue but there are multiple choices you can take.

[@cait8480]

@@grimmandtonics okay but what are the symptoms leading up to it, i’m terrified for my life here

[@mjb6442]

I have a mild one at 35. I'm waiting for surgery to pin it back up

[@karkajouautomaton4882]

Name checks out.

[@mickeys3220]

Obvious props to Charlotte for well, EVERYTHING!! But shout out to Vanessa for setting her girl up with great content!

[@Strictlysmiler]

7:25 I thought we was gonna lighten things up this shocked me more than the last one😭😭😭

[@shaybribri]

That gold dress is so beautiful, I hope she gets the money she’s owed

[@karenglenn6707]

I agree. How could you be that way in your life, trying to rip people off. That’s either a theft charge or obtaining property by deception, and I bet not the first time that nasty B***h has done it. I’d be letting everyone know too what she did, disgusting nasty slag.

[@angelamfield]

She did, I read it somewhere in the comments

[@tanyaborden2621]

That first girl is an incredible story teller. I was invested!

[@natalieleske8382]

God bless that 1st woman. She has been through and handled a lot on her own. ❤

[@kauaichan]

I can’t express my sympathy, EMPATHY for that first story with the wife. Honestly at that point I would’ve married the other wife who was with her lmao-as fkd up as all that was, if it were me, I would’ve felt I owed HER everything in that situation…I’d be just as if not more shocked-and the fact she had SOMEONE in her corner at that moment-omg I don’t think I could go thru that alone…but the Shakira wife had her back and quick thinking 🤯👏 You quickly learn who your friends are in the worst situations💯

[@AbigaleKirsten]

Shakira lady thinks through her panic, that is applaud worthy. She brilliantly thought her way through

[@kauaichan]

@@AbigaleKirsten Right!? Can we give Shakira wifey a 🏅 or 🏆? 💯💕

[@a.s4587]

Yes she is a hero ❤

[@ItsNaeBihhh.Daaah6]

They deserve the world 🫶🏿🫶🏿

[@heatherva]

How did the friends wife drive to the motel if she let her husband drive her car though?

[@anisadlamini6385]

We love a good messy tiktok as long as it's not our mess🤧💀

[@savannamariee]

Or our uterus. Jesus

[@elizabethfortes2007]

@@savannamariee true!!!

[@l1k1v1]

@@savannamariee or our checks 💀

[@andraes9684]

13:52 Tiktok gave that girl heck and she had to turn off all the comments in all her videos... and she eventually sent her payment..

[@nicoleortiz9884]

I used to work with someone who would never send enough for our joint door dash orders. we worked at a busy hospital and many times had to get food delivered and we would all just order one ticket and give whoever ordered their portion of the bill. this girl always only gave exactly what the price was rounded down without taxes or a tip included. So if the menu said the meal was $26.99 she would only give me $25. there is a tax and a tip I paid for her 3 times and then I purposely left her out of the order from then on.

[@yellowair0784]

Congratulations...you managed to traumatize both me and my husband at different points in this video. 🤣

[@thehealingqueensv]

At least now the hubby's mom knows Kendra is a great wife 😂 ❤ it!

[@heatherlewis338]

That fart launched her first across the driveway and into the garage door... That's some serious power LMAO. 😂

[@roll3886]

I slept through my sister's graduation but in my defense, we were graduating the same year (her from college, me from high school). Mine was on Friday night, hers was Saturday morning. I got a ticket for the sober grad night event, so had to stay at the school until like 5 or 6am. My brother picked me up, got donuts, then took me home. I fell asleep. Her graduation was at 9am. I woke up close to noon. I set an alarm and everything but my body said nope, to where I didn't even hear it.

[@Veeeegan95]

Was she mad?

[@roll3886]

@@Veeeegan95 Thankfully not. I think everyone understood since I was up until 6

[@AA-qt1hi]

That first one was wild. Dude was "homophobic" but was cheating on his wife in all male gang bang parties. The audacity of these men, lying and bsing. Exposing themselves to who knows WHAT kind of STDs only to come back to their wives like nothing is going on. It's beyond selfish. It's criminal.

[@cmthomas07]

I’m a retired hairdresser, in 30 years behind a chair, I only had one customer tell me about her uterus failing out. Her sister was my client also, and she confirmed the story.

[@deemariedubois4916]

I had to look this up. The info about it made it sound like this was no big deal. Mayo Clinic: “Mild uterine prolapse usually doesn't require treatment. But uterine prolapse that causes discomfort or disrupts daily life might benefit from treatment.” DOESN’T REQUIRE TREATMENT…MIGHT BENEFIT FROM TREATMENT…WHAT THE ACTUAL F. MY UTERUS HAS FALLEN OUT. YOU DAMN RIGHT I’M GETTING TREATMENT.

[@katiesalvadore7306]

@@deemariedubois4916seriously WHAT😂😂

[@annecreek8934]

Pelvic floor problems are so normalized when they shouldn't be. It's (typically) a women's healthcare issue, therefore it is minimized. People who bear children should always do pelvic floor PT after birth(not just kegels). I wish PT was available to more people. ❤

[@lpsstacy]

​@@annecreek8934 What pt can be done to help?? Sucks women have to go through so many issues let alone a monthly visitor!! Ugh!!

[@LaShumbraBatesAuDHD]

Trust me, PT does exist for this. I went through it. Didn't almost lose my uterus, but had a weak pelvic floor that caused many other medical issues. The PT kept me from needing surgery, but I think I actually need it. 😬 That type of PT is more uncomfortable than a papsmear.

[@U.S.A..]

Charlotte is right. If you have to push it's not done baking let it cook a little longer

[@aine120406]

Charlotte: If you have to push... Charlotte and I in unison: It's not ready!

[@khushiraj3566]

1st women's voice was shaking when she was sharing her story gave me chills...we can't wonder what some people can do to maintain their image.

[@robinsparkles93]

Just wanted to say Charlotte, I love you and this community and am so grateful for it!! I discovered your channel about 1 1/2 years ago when I was bedridden due to my terrible health. It has helped me in my darkest, sickest times and I just wanted to tell you this and everyone else in the comments - because it is not only the videos, but also the comments that light up my day 🥰❤️ P.S.: luckily my health has been improving for a couple of months now, but watching your videos has become a tradition

[@janetcallanan7020]

Same hope your recovery continues to go well

[@Dobviews]

Same. Right here with ya. Some days Charlotte is the only reason I can crack a smile. Everyone needs a Charlotte!

[@hollyshaw-elliemae]

can i recommend 2 other channels that may also lift your spirits? both, as well as charlotte are my daily vitamins. without them, im in a foul mood all day @kallmekris & @celinaspookyboo ive suffered through alot of bedridden illness the last few years and let me tell you, these 3 are like life blood when im down

[@moonhunter9993]

I'm also pretty sick for a couple of months now... I hope you are recovering well. Lots of hugs

[@bettyveronica9880]

Glad you’re better! 😊💜 Charlotte sure helps us laugh more, and it helps.

[@Meldela13]

14:40 i like that he made sure the ear muffs where on tight. Lol like yepim protected lol

[@Bree128]

Split bills are actually the worst. I went out for my friends birthday and after dinner (we all paid for her meal/drinks, totally fine with that) we went to a fancy restaurant for their specialty drinks. I was DD so I only had one. Everyone else had 3/4 of these $20 drinks along with appetizers that I did not eat any of because I just spent $100 at dinner and was full. They wanted me to pitch $120. I gave them $60, and I don’t care they were annoyed.

[@professionalinsomniac8338]

Shit, I’d have only given money explicitly for what I ate/drank lmao 🤣

[@angelamfield]

We always pay for the DD no matter if it's just a soda or a full meal. It's a thank you for making sure we all get home safely kind of thing. And for staying and putting up with everyone! 😁

[@queenjohnson5097]

Yeah idk this split bill situation was weird. I disagree with Charlotte here lol 😂 It's annoying when your friends have WAY more expensive taste. $30 is enough to supplement if she really didn't drink as much. The girl shouldn't have been giving attitude though. But split bills are not always the way. Only with my close friends I would split the bill. Obviously they weren't that close if $30 was all it took for their friendship to end 💀😂 If my friend said they were struggling $30 would be more than enough. I would rather the friend come out and not be pinching pennies. Now that friend knows to get a separate check ahead of time. 😂🤑

[@annied1827]

I hate the lets split the bill thing, actually i refuse to do it and just pay for what i have and i pay separately so there is two bills mine and the joint one. The reason i do this is mainly because i dont really eat so i usually have a childs portion and i dont drink except for a cup of tea so my bill usually comes to less than £10 and i refuse to pay for everyone elses drink and food. Once someone suggested split the bill and i said nope im not paying towards your 2 bottles of wine , other drinks you had and four course meal !! They didnt like it but at the end of the night my bill came to £12 and they wanted me to split the bill which would have cost me over £40 nope not going to do it !! However i do say this at the start even before we go out and i make sure the staff knows as well so they know from the start i will only be paying for what i have and i wont be paying for everyone elses too so i get a separate bill. Ive never had anyine complajn about it or fall out with me over it because they understand that i eat far less that everyone else and i wont be drinking anything but tea as i cant drink alcohol so why should pay for stuff that im not eating or drinking !!

[@jenniferwinterrose3171]

I had a uterine prolapse because of a terrible pelvic floor as well. I had a hysterectomy and yeeted that puppy out but yeah, I also have had to learn not to push. I start pelvic floor PT next week, my second go round. Seriously, keep your pelvic floor strong, ladies. Seeing your cervix outside your body is never a good time.

[@Sabine_Kienast]

These were a few of the greatest stories I heard for a long time

[@furygeist]

The minute she said the bestie's wife gave her husband her car, I knew. Oh dear. 😅 It's sad they couldn't be true to themselves, but hurting their family like that... Not okay. Why use the pizza peel if it's already on parchment paper. 🤦‍♀️ Jeez. The gold dress was gorgeous. That designer is talented. I hope she gets more recognition.

[@dinasilva9263]

Charlotte saying that she is the queen of caca is probably the most funny thing i ever saw. 😂😂😂 that's why Charlotte sense of humour is the best.👑

[@ktkilntime1586]

Vanessa coming up with that graphic was also awesome!

[@crichtonbruce4329]

I thought Charlotte was the Queen of both Tea and Potatoes... Well, the British Royals can have multiple titles (Duke of this, Earl of that). Why should our Charlotte not also have yet another title: Princess of CaCa!

[@Bennifm]

10:50 or so - the dogs barkin took me out! ROFLMAO!

[@AliceNsWonderland]

I honestly HATE the 'let's split the check evenly btwn all 15 of us" thing! I have a SUPER SLOW metabolism, so I eat VERY LITTLE (per my Dr) i.e. 1 appetizer for dinner, & I only eat once a day. Went to Vegas, (I had an ulcer erupt later that nite) so i got H2O & 1 app. My friends ordered apps, salad, dinner, desserts, drinks, drinks & more drinks. I had to pay close to $150 for 1 app! One bit€h "forgot" her wallet so we had to eat HER portion (she ate REAL WELL that nite too) as well as the Bride-to-be's. I refuse to split the check now. Sorry y'all, I'll not buying you lobster and prime rib while I eat 2 spring rolls.

[@truecrimefan1433]

Same babe I think we live the same life 😂 I only eat one small meal a day and I don't drink . Had a stomach ulcer so can't even drink fizzy so its mainly water. Sod off am I paying for Ur steak and Vodkas 😂

[@AliceNsWonderland]

@@truecrimefan1433 I'm sorry you know EXACTLY what I deal with! I might wish it on my enemies but... That's about it! The same girl who "forgot" her wallet, moved in on the guy I'd been flirting w all nite then had the nerve to ask ME how he was doing... "IDK! He told me he found a skank-ass-ho to spend the night with, maybe you should ask her! I heard she needed the money, so hopefully he paid well!" It was hilarious watching her pick her jaw up off the floor!

[@AliceNsWonderland]

@@SidereusOfTheFallen I never said "I've been in this exact same situation..." Just stated how irritating it is for some of us. I TOTALLY get why some ppl love it, they get to eat on our dime

[@NiniRenz]

no bc same. let's pay for what we ordered EACH.

[@cbpd89]

Fuh reals! I don't drink, so if people are going out and ordering drinks and stuff and then like "we just split the bill evenly?" NO! I spent $15 making sure I ordered something I could afford, you drank twice that much!

[@Aralyn187]

To add to Charlotte's uterus fun facts; some women, like me, can be born with half a uterus or even a double uterus. It's wild.

[@2late4date]

The human body is amazing!

[@cheeling794]

so would both of them have the ability to fall out? like would the chance of it happening double?🤔

[@rebeccap1441]

Some women can be born with no uterus or cervix or internals like me 🫠

[@KlearlyIMme]

@@rebeccap1441I wish you could take mine mine the hormonal depression ain’t it

[@Freya778]

You could even be born with 2 uteri and 2 vaginal canals as well.

[@minniebluebell6388]

Pottery class in school in the 80s and our female teacher suddenly left the room, turned out her womb had fallen out while she was walking around, I can assure you pelvic floor exercises have always been a must for me 😂

[@OklaCrazyChick]

That "Hi, Kendra...." was hilarious!!😅

[@Mellz77]

I found it funny the way Kendra just said what she was gonna do to him like it was something on her to do list for the day..lol she didn't even try to sound saucy..omg

[@LothlorienOH]

Bye Kendra!😂🥔💜

[@mbourque]

7:16 just FYI, this doesn't ONLY occur because of old age... there are MANY reasons that you uterus or rectum can Prolapse (the actual word for what happened). this can because of childbirth (my ex and daughter had this problem, it's hereditary) or because of a lower abdominal surgery, or many others... you can also help prevent this by kegel exercises to strengthen your pelvic muscles or if needed, surgery to put in a pelvic mesh to hold stuff in... the surgery is for 'repairing' it so try to prevent it first because the mesh is very invasive and not always helpful...

[@Sar-ahG]

I was just wondering this same thing… Not to be weird but I started flexing her after watching that section 😅 Your man will thank you as well if you just take 60 seconds out of every day right?? I don’t know I’m just hoping and praying…

[@Sar-ahG]

(Keegle)

[@hectorsmommy1717]

Those potty stools that raise your knees higher than your waist also help when you do need to push a bit. I remember when they first were invented (a Shark Tank idea IIRC) people laughed and thought they were the craziest weird gadget ever, but it turns out that squatting position is best when pooping and gastroenterologists are now on board. I borrowed one when I had a knee replacement and was on painkillers. Even with stool softeners I was constipated and changing the angle helped, especially because I had a riser on the toilet seat so I was even straighter than normal when sitting.

[@grimmandtonics]

Hey just chiming in as someone who had one with a hysterectomy last month. Depending on your doctor there's way more options than mesh which I agree to be more wary of. Personally I just went with the hysterectomy option which was less scary than I thought but I was pleased they had other choices should I ha e wanted them.

[@grimmandtonics]

Also wanna point out that sadly Kegal doesn't do as much as they say for everyone as I had been doing it for a long time but it had no effect. Again, depends on the person but man that one was a bummer.

[@allenfitzpatrick8485]

Wasn't expecting the Broke Back Mountain edition. Full of surprises today.

[@madmizu]

11:13 right after you said ‘imagine I fart right now, ready?’ multiple ads started to play for me 😂 the irony

[@toscatattertail9813]

Neither of my kids walked graduation, they said they would rather spend the day with their internet friends than the pretentious, entitled, "fools" that they went to school with.

[@mariamariafujoshiinurarea2524]

I didn't go to my graduation , I spent the day with my best friend ( that also missed that graduation) and we had more fun than what we would be having with people we hated for 6 years 😂😂 To be fair , they also all hated each other 😂

[@0daadaadaa0]

I don't understand.... at that point, one of them could OD and die beside me and I still would've went through with the graduation ceremony, as it was never about them. But maybe that's just me.

[@2Btoobee]

I also don't want to go but the parents, you know.. and i have a bad period that day, what a nightmare.

[@GallardoFreak888]

That first story... gripping!!!!! and hoping they both heal from that completely

[@Sar-ahG]

She’s a good story teller - I’m glad she had some friends to go through it with her even though it’s horrible

[@speedracer1177]

Lesson in life I learned in my 20's: When you cover or loan out money to friends, consider the money gone. After being burned several times I just stopped paying unless I could absolutely afford it. If they payed me back, great! If not, I was okay.

[@Ecclectic_citcelccE]

"YEAH NO SHIT CHRIS!!"😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ Graduation was probably missed due to his heavy party schedule.

[@sandycorbitt2817]

The lady had some serious power behind her to fall and hit the garage door 🚪 😂 I'm still laughing at that one. I had to watch it again and still laughing. Your videos put the icing on the cake 😗🤌👏

[@WhiteOleander730]

My heart breaks for that first girl. I know she wound up better in the end without him, but he BROKE her heart. You can still tell how much it hurts. Trauma like that will almost always make her and the other wives forever question everyone as to whether they're telling the truth. How fucking dare they do this to the people who love them.

[@DiLeMaSa]

The actress is so bad. You can clearly tell is a fake story

[@WhiteOleander730]

@@DiLeMaSa If you say so

[@izzyt1626]

5:30 it's giving Grace and Franki *cue theme song*

[@Kimomo115]

What she saying about people being a homophobic and to be a little more suspicious that is definitely facts. My ex cursed me clean smooth out when I asked him one time if he was gay or bisexual. Come to find out at the end of our 2 year relationship he got caught in a gay group chat soliciting sex from other men. 💀

[@Aluzard]

That first story I thought the punchline would be that they were sitting there gaming or something :P

[@crdlovestea9538]

There was definitely games being played. 😈

[@Monique-xz3jp]

She laughed so hard when she fell she didn't even bother getting up 😂😂😂😂

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤

[@mbourque]

9:50 either everyone gets separate bills, OR make a 'Money Pool' BEFORE going out and agree on how much each person is to put into the pool or how large the pool should be for the night and everyone has to put in their share BEFORE going out, or they don't go with you... AND don't let 1 or 2 'friends' drain the pool buying everything they want. Designate the pool for something specific like 'drinks' or 'apps' or whatever and ONLY those can be bought through the pool. AND if they want something else or an EXCESSIVE amount of that item/stuff, then they are cut off or pay for it themselves... AND once the Pool runs out, the night is over. that's it... once they start getting called out by the group, they'll either throw a shit fit, and then you know to not be friends with them anymore, OR they realize what they're doing and play by the rules and this usually causes them to reign in their spending behavior. Either way, you find out really quick who to leave behind next time and who to bring again...

[@deezn-]

Im so glad girl 1 had that other girl jeez she needed that level headedness. And the fact they were both there at the same time!! Crazy

[@Shmurph]

The first story is wiiiild, glad she's doing better now and found someone new. Although I always wonder how someone who isn't homophobic can possibly date/marry someone that's homophobic. She describes him as "one of the most homophobic men I've ever met" and yet that wasn't a dealbreaker early on lmao

[@a_singular_heebie_jeebie3727]

I was waiting for someone to say this, especially since her lesson at the end was “maybe just be a little more than suspicious” instead of “don’t date a homophobe”

[@cyrillechristophe9731]

At leats some people did notice it, I was beginning to ask myself if I was the one missing something here.

[@r.brooks5287]

This, absolutely.

[@DS-us1vi]

I wasn't surprised. Many women don't actually care if their husband is homophobic. They also treat us gay men like accessories and laugh off our stories about what straight men get up to. It wasn't remotely surprised and it was quite obvious.

[@janelbbuck]

Yeah that was perplexing me as well. She’s probably a bit against homosexuality herself but I guess not to the super aggressive/yelly point like I’m assuming her ex husband was.

[@dinasilva9263]

Thank you for being amazing Charlotte! For always posting vídeos everyday, for all your effort and hard work. We appreciate that so much. No one is like you Charlotte🤗✨✨

[@MrsWellner]

That last one, though!!!!! New fear unlocked!!!!!

[@-DeMoN_bAbY-]

6:59 NOOOOOOOOOOOO😭😭😭 I was taking a crap when I watched this and now I’m scared

[@crazymissdaisy]

As someone who seen a stalkingcase up close, I have to say Im appalled by that hotel clerk sharing the guests room number

[@jefferyschic]

It's a motel that still uses keys so....

[@crazymissdaisy]

That changes nothing

[@mandy6190]

@@crazymissdaisy so like you get what you pay for. It’s illegal and wrong but it is what it is.

[@megatronk666]

it’s his wife. not a stranger. not the same.

[@elizabethfortes2007]

@@crazymissdaisy I get your point, but at the same time I kind of think that as those guys were regulars the clerk might have wanted them to be busted (I would)

[@arzusahin7921]

The pain in her voice... I am so heartbroken for the woman in the first video

[@Bayloy]

Charlotte you should just call this series of these messy tiktoks "lost in the sauce". Love your videos 💗

[@sheathehippie4086]

Idk why but I just love the way you say "Subscribe!" at the end of each video 😂 you sound so happy when you say it so i guess thats it

[@ambizness]

Same

[@itschelsey]

THE LEVEL OF ENJOYMENT I GET OUT OF CHARLOTTES FACE ON THE PICTURES FLYING ACROSS THE SCREEN IS MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT LEVELS 🤣🤣

[@atsumumiya9204]

We all love a great messy TikTok...a lot of teas for us petty people 😌💅🏻✨

[@samuraicrunchbird]

8:31 What is really, Really, REALLY irritating are those 'percussion fingers'!!

[@chynaanderson494]

Yeah, reminds me of those annoying ASMR videos

[@FAABulousRJ]

If I was Kendra's partners mom, I would be so happy for my kid. "That one is a keeper." "So when's the wedding?" Ask if they did anything special over the holidays 👀 My mom would do the same to me 😂😂😂

[@hadiqasaqib8533]

I love watching your videos with my sis, we really enjoy the teaa☕☕just gonna say thank you for your videos and making me and my sis laugh, gasp and making shocking faces together! Love ya baby girl❤

[@qtm2121]

Decided to take a study break and like magic i notice Charlotte just uploaded a new video. Amazing timing!! 😃