Lost Lover: Tichana Birt v Mario Harris

Tichana says Mario's alcoholism has ruined almost every holiday they’ve spent together and she's over it. Mario says Tichana is constantly blowing things out of proportion!
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[@Tashethealter]

Judge Toler would have told her that you don’t marry someone for their potential, but who they have shown you they are before marriage. Wise words.

[@karkar2u997]

She would have told her she is the one Potential; not this man.

[@justIvy98]

She’s the prime example of a ride or die. So sad. Please love on your daughters! Tell them that you love them, compliment them, teach them self love, show them how they should be treated and how to protect themselves in this world. Let them have a voice as well. With proper guidance and support they will be able to see through people bs. Ladies, develop spiritual and emotional intelligence

[@montswagghard]

This is the very reason why I stay in my daughter's ear.

[@erinjohnson4273]

​@@montswagghardMe too

[@matty7757]

Women be wanting to get married so bad they’ll put up with anything and that’s sad

[@jackiwilliams9297]

True indeed 🎉

[@stopit41]

I am a female and just said this the other day. Some women just want that title. Sick

[@novembrluv]

Bars!

[@kattiethomas4687]

Sad

[@ntermilien]

I’m single and life has been blissful, that relationship is toxic and chaotic 🤢

[@lovegodschild1430]

he fine tho

[@nikkif9873]

@@lovegodschild1430😂😂😂😂

[@novembrluv]

​@@lovegodschild1430eww, fine where?

[@HAZELLWASHINGTONDA-MAGIC]

I feel you on that I've been single since 2006 relationships can be dangerous to I don't do them too much drama and chaos

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

She said this relationship is not toxic….Slashed tires, stuff thrown over a balcony, fights, alcoholic outbursts, fights over FaceTime. How much more does she need to see?

[@valpooh7532]

She’s blind to it.

[@radrew684]

If it's not toxic, what does she think it is?

[@leeleegrace9015]

​@@radrew684 normal apparently. Which is very sad

[@evonjohnson4078]

Some physical abuse!!!

[@sweetsweet81]

When you're used to toxicity, it becomes the norm. I personally think she's his co-dependent. He really expected her to stop dealing with a medical emergency to answer his face time, and accused her of cheating when she didn't. How narcissistic can one get?

[@westsidetommie]

It’s amazing to see how much awful horrible horrendous treatment a person or woman can put up with and still not leave that mate. Damn shame

[@erinjohnson4273]

There is no way I'm still going to be involved with anyone who slashes my tires, disrespects me in public, oh hell no! Girl run away before it is too late

[@Cassa.blancca]

This couple had one of the most pathetic cases ever. I have never had to skip through a case like this. I know age doesn’t mean anything but you’d hope with a ten year age gap he’d be a little mature. Next.

[@jackiwilliams9297]

😅

[@MomsSelfReliance]

"A great man don't sleep with the tee-shirt lady ",😮💫Judy Star💫 got me again with this one🤦‍♀️😃😅

[@YACKYSNACKY]

That stroke can wait! Judge Star 💫💫💫

[@CT-mw7yu]

You can tell she is telling the truth because he is denying every story even before she has finished it.

[@gailsmith836]

The woman that calls to say “ your man is over here” gets to keep him.

[@keishasmith379]

This is too common and no one seems to leave but they will complain. This is another reason why some kids are messed up. If ur parents are busy doing all these crazy things around u why wouldn't u be crazy too. Whatever happened to a person just leaving the relationship? Ur not happy u leave, not stay and hope it works out. And no one should deal with someone who cannot handle alcohol. Why keep dealing with chaos. It's too much!

[@janicescott-pair97]

They need to be apart. This is too toxic 😮😮

[@tonyaharper2468]

A great man? Y'all so naive and desperate

[@TheadoreCurry-t3v]

Did you notice how Judge star switched the subject when the guy said she received a call from another man and ran downstairs. This lady ain't fair at all.

[@JoeSeetahal]

So sad after all of that she said they are not toxic the joke is really on her

[@grassh0pper]

No, the judge was too easy on this man. That woman should not leave the relationship she should run from the relationship. This situation will get dangerous.

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

He would STULL be Locked Up! 🤔

[@rinchan1234]

Mannnn if she wanna “pop her booty” let her! You don’t throw stuff over the balcony! That could hurt someone!

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Embarrassing as all hell. Just so damn embarrassing I just can’t.

[@yung1717]

What’s the big issue with twerking on ig? If he doesn’t like it he can leave. He doesn’t get to disrespect her in response

[@kattiethomas4687]

Hes doing all this and she got Engaged

[@ebonysweetnesssweetness5153]

He's immature and I'm not sure why she's with him - Judge Star dealt with this case well, I would not have had the patience.

[@jackierumph9979]

She doesn't love herself yet!

[@ladytnynj8284]

Here we go with I see potential! Why do women keep settling??!!

[@Mizzjlady]

Maybe...................

[@arlenedixon2547]

Wow

[@lawandajohnson4404]

Don’t marry or even date someone for potential. You deserve a whole, complete person. Giiirrrrrllll don’t you marry him.

[@Saved7]

These ppl are so hood and trifling and they both need to grow up. She needs to stop that mess on social media because she is too big for that. Drunks and low self-esteem ( he talks to her like a dog). Why is he living with her ( he is very sad and so is she) she is pitiful and desperate.

[@sexymama1966]

If one looking for an example of gaslighting, he is demonstrating just that. He's is messing with her coins on top of that.

[@justbusiness01]

The most disrespected person in America is the black woman - Malcolm X. This is a prime example when society doesn’t respect you how do you learn to respect yourself and know your own worth.

[@valpooh7532]

I wouldn’t even be on divorce court trying to talk or work out anything with someone like this. He has a problem. He’s toxic and she’s stupid to deal with it.

[@nikkitrice5808]

True True True

[@melriquajackson8480]

Some people don't wanna be alone

[@minkki5656]

Only thing I have to say, Judge Star is gorgeous every single day!!! From her hair, makeup, to her beautiful outfits!!!!❤

[@pattiamoh1136]

Star outfits or the bomb😂

[@reyjenetapia2957]

exactly

[@queenyanniesuniverse5021]

Truest Story Ever!!

[@annabellemascarenas6053]

YES I agree 100% ..Judge STAR⭐️is Beautiful.. Love❤️her outfits. Hair… makeup .Everything is Perfect 😍

[@melaninandaura9713]

She said yes to the proposal because deep down on the inside she feels she can not get anyone else. Having someone to go crazy for is better than not having anyone at all to SOME people. She also went through how bad of a nasty cheater, mean snake, sloppy drunk that destroys her property and then turned around and said “I wouldn’t say it’s toxic”. Because SHE hates her self. Ik that sounds harsh but it’s true. The journey to loving yourself is a long one so I send her sm love. ❤

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

That’s her fault if she loose some weight she will feel a lot better.

[@Apricityville]

​@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare*Lose .. at least spell it correctly 🙄

[@sandramartez6472]

@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare she can be whatever size that she wants.

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

@@Apricityvilleoh wow thank you teacher on KZbin comments wow you saved my life

[@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare]

@@sandramartez6472that’s wat wrong with the world y’all think being obese is cute. It’s not but whatever go off

[@Kendallslovejoy]

He’s pathetic and she’s delusional. Girl it’s toxic!!!!!!!!! Smh

[@A_-js8gm]

Potential? Girl bye. You propose and accept a proposal when you are ready for marriage. Not just having potential.

[@jackiwilliams9297]

😅😂

[@SB-tc2jr]

If I hear "potential" one more time in one of these cases, Imma scream! What bill does potential pay!!!

[@erinjohnson4273]

@@SB-tc2jr I'll scream right with you

[@SB-tc2jr]

@@erinjohnson4273 (fist bump) Yaaaassss!!!!

[@VashtiPerry]

He is working up to physical abuse

[@theresabeard5733]

I agree.He may end up beating her up or worse.

[@mikellehicks6199]

He’s already caught a couple of those.. and more then likely they were involving her….

[@lelandabutler350]

Please don't settle for toxic behavior. It only gets worst, especially if he is a drunk. Potential is a tricky word in this case. He has the potential to hurt you more. SMH

[@ybshadyii4375]

THIS WHOLE RELATIONSHIP IS TOXIC AND TRIFLING - PLEASE END THIS ENDLESS CYCLE OF HOTT GHETTO DRAMA AND MESS IMMEDIATELY!!! NEXT!!!

[@flygirlvenus1990]

This is NOT love!!

[@kattiethomas4687]

Stupidity

[@MrMusickid23]

Folks will complain about their relationship, will no real intention of going anywhere.

[@quantaydagoat5795]

I hate when folks say their partners are lying when there’s evidence

[@northphillyp]

All I had to hear was he disrespected his woman in public,its usually a wrap right there for most females..dude got issues

[@VashtiPerry]

Mad issues.

[@dbafutu]

Baby run! This controlling and aggressive behavior will lead to physical violence (if it hasn't already)

[@monaeeuniquee2534]

He’s very much immature she needs to RUN

[@keyeviondavis9647]

"" Ghetto Krazy"" as it get's, and the T-shirt Lady is dead wrong, as they come 😡😡

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

That man is in denial...alcoholic. I would dump him....I mean controlling and jealous...toxic. she thinks she is in love. That's not love. He is VERY VERY I INSECURE...ALCOHOL DOES NOT HELP. It's putting gasoline in fire.

[@tyraw1005]

I can’t figure out why she’s with him.🤷🏽‍♀️🙄😖

[@robbbietheim2096]

Weight Issue vs Alcohol Issue = Stop trying to change one another, if when it's all said and done, no one's going anywhere, SMH 💯

[@angielyons980]

Can we talk abut how he constantly calls her out her name when he is drunk? Is that a new love language. I was told that alcohol gives you the courage to say things that you really feel. Ms. Birt does not deserve to disrespected like that. Goodness, if this is a "great" man, I will pass.

[@jaydee4646]

Most used WRONG answer- I see potential...

[@whatsthetruth_review]

And she definitely does NOT love herself nor does she respect herself giving the fact that she's settling for this s.o.s. man that has no self control and anger issues. I could never.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

I’m going to be honest you said she settling he is the man on her level she is almost 300 pounds any man get with her he settling also she weighs what 2 people weigh she need to improve her self also

[@greatmind3842]

Why do most people who come to divorce courts are so desperate and are of little self-esteem? Makes me wonder if they didn't have a father figure in their lives. She excuses all the toxicity in their relationship, and calls him a "great guy.". Does she misinterpret this as love, and enjoy it?

[@missjackie7983]

She looks in the mirror daily and society is her mirror as well

[@HAZELLWASHINGTONDA-MAGIC]

She likes Mediocrity and chaos and potentially aiming to be a contestant on fatal Attraction

[@reginajackson459]

I don't see why these women are willing to deal with so much 'Stupid Stuff' like 'Slashing your Tires and Cheating you, on Top of Cheating' on you and plus 'Alcohol Too', boy bye.

[@velettadaviswilliams5517]

Unless he does some intense AA; he's not going to change and she knows it in her heart. This poor lady has put herself in a miserable position maybe from low self esterm issues. Queen, you are beautiful and hard working and deserve someone that can see and appreciate that. You went to the wrong court too. Should've been Judge Greg; you had evidence and at least would gotten some of your money back for his destructive behavior. I hope you get out of that before it escalates to physical....it always does.

[@mayraonate8088]

Wowwwww...They are both not right for each other. Both have no respect for each other and are not mentally ready for a relationship. They need to split up and call it a day.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

This is the best comment she and him have things they need to work on

[@gab19guerin72]

She thinks his antics are cute. She is gonna go right home and continue to engage and take care of him. The toxicity is attractive to her.

[@brittanyb7568]

Why would you stay with him after he slashed your tires?

[@SB-tc2jr]

Hold Up! Did she say she wouldn't call their relationship toxic? Yet, every scenario was centered around "in-tox-i-cation"! He needs rehab + counseling + some meetings before they think about a life time commitment! Otherwise, she is signing up for a lifetime of hell! If she thinks things are a trip now - wait on she becomes Mrs! She'll really be bees and hish then! Geez!

[@whatsthetruth_review]

I thought being a ride or die chick died out years ago. Like why tf be a ride or die when it comes with no benefits. They both need a psychological evaluation , therapy, and to be separate.

[@2400md]

The Judge was wrong with this decision. They should not be together. If she thinks there’s potential she ought to require and witness a major change in his behavior and he needs to be in rehab. 👎🏽

[@ninadavis5517]

She has esteem issues; she feels the need to be on the gram and she's with a disrespectful violent man and doesn't see the problems and toxicity of it.

[@terrywilliams8571]

Ms.Birt , RUN,RUN ask your mom if you can move in with her for a litte while and tell beat it. YOU Deserve much better.

[@danelladecoteau4841]

I dont tell women like her to run, I tell them stay because if after listing all the dysfunctions you can still come back and say the relationship isn't toxic and he's a great guy I tell them "Sis you do you because clearly you like it that way". I no longer feel empathy for women seeing a big whole sign saying "Danger" and still run towards it.....and with excuses to boot. Whatever she gets, that's what she deserves.

[@WakeupMs.McBride]

He a trifflin man. She needs to leave him!

[@leeleegrace9015]

This whole thing is just ghetto. Like seriously. She thinking to ring going to change him like a lot of women think. No boo boo you're going to get the same cheating, alcoholic, disrespectful and emotionally unstable ass man you have now 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@johnadams8997]

NAW, it will get worst, before it gets better cos, in their mind they're thinking "GOTCHA"

[@kattiethomas4687]

Sad sad 😔

[@sonyahall5080]

Just say NO…. Where is the common sense?? Once he called me out my name, that’s it!! He gets drunk and then becomes a belligerent drunk! He has issues all the way around..

[@kerrywhite5253]

Judge " you better pick up my face time,that stroke can wait". 😂😂

[@ellensinclair3994]

Girl leave that punk and move on

[@paradise1eleventv9]

It sounded like straight made up stories and she didn’t understand just how they made her look 🥴

[@mikellehicks6199]

Nah.. most of it’s true.. I know them.. and they both crazy as hell..

[@killerhit00]

Love isn't making me do sht I don't wanna do!!!!

[@ronnimartin7033]

If anyone stays in a relationship, like this one, and thinks that this is ok or normal...yeah, ok. Judge... you didn't help this one!!

[@opheliagoode3149]

He is a straight up girl

[@keishasmith379]

This is too common and no one seems to leave but they will complain. This is another reason why some kids are messed up. If ur parents are busy doing all these crazy things around u why wouldn't u be crazy too. Whatever happened to a person just leaving the relationship? Ur not happy u leave, not stay and hope it works out. And no one should deal with someone who cannot handle alcohol. Why keep dealing with chaos. It's too much!

[@thedigitaldignitary]

Old dude finessed her…. Just another old dude scooping up some young tenderoni then playing mind games to try to keep her mentally checked and confused.

[@mikellehicks6199]

He’s not old.. they are almost the same age… she thought she had something and ended up with nothing…

[@cyndedawson3129]

She needs help asap don't know what toxic is she just don't believe anything you tell her about this madness!!!!

[@angielyons980]

Judge Star Jones you look good! Go ahead girl. I had to stop the video just to comment. She is really rocking it today!

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

He wants to "save the relationship"!! What relationship?? You cheat, drink and act the fool, and you call that a relationship? The alcohol has gone to your brain boy!! You act the fool, and expect her to jusy say "Oh, I forgive you"!! Although the twerking on Instagram was dumb - why show that crap to the world - because most of us really don't want to see that!!

[@yasahmeal-satiif1841]

I'm so sick of women dealing with these triffling human-forms and then whining about them. When a man cheats on you, makes you miserable 90 percent of the time, and contributes nothing to the relationship or to your growth, you need to let it go. Stop trying to fix these men. Women really need to get their lives together and find their self-respect. It's a man NOT the Hope Diamond.

[@redeemfaith]

Star” That’s smart of you”.... What would have been smart is her leaving a man that she can’t trust. At the start of their relationship and he’s been cheating meaning she’s been playing Russian roulette with her health. If you have children and a man is slashing your tires that man needs to be left and charges pressed. He is costing you money and possibly endearing your life by leaving you stranded. He needs has a lot of spiritual things going on with him and she must not feel good about herself cause no one should be willing to endure erratic behavior from a man.

[@ManiAnger]

You can’t convince me that they don’t be physically fighting. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mikellehicks6199]

They have…

[@couples_cleanse]

I’m a couples counselor & let me tell you , these 2 need individual therapy.

[@darianthomas849]

Just leave this dude simple not even at half way of the video

[@cadillacdeville5828]

Introspection is a wonderful thing, he does not have it. .. neither does she.

[@rubyschild9055]

Love the dress Judge

[@sharondriastradford2907]

He will NEVER CHANGE! She can do wayyyyy better!!

[@gab19guerin72]

Great man?👀👀 Where???? Girl that’s a whole scrub!

[@jaxpax2566]

This is sorry desperation...

[@sybilwhite1259]

Why did she bring him to court in the first place?

[@ritachip5759]

She needs to run!!! FAST!!!!!! SIS HE IS SCARY ABUSIVE AND TOXIC!!! ID CHANNEL TYPE STUFF!!! THAT MAN NEEDS THERAPY!!! SIS YOU CAN'T FIX HIM!!! ONLY JESUS CAN FIX THAT MAN!!!

[@ItsUrGirlAR]

Never get with anyone based on potential....never

[@mrsbook5206]

This is a prime example of self-esteem being in the ditch! If the man I love were to ever FaceTime me and show me another woman in the background...ba-by..it's a wrap! Not to mention the slashing tires and verbal abuse! But he's not toxic‼️ TF‼️🤦🏾‍♀️🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🗣📢NO‼️‼️I DON'T WANT IT ‼️‼️

[@johnadams8997]

I watch some of these episodes, and they prove that love is blind, if it is considered love smfh

[@queenb2713]

He's crazy run for the hills and don't look back...I hate to say this but if this girl lose weight he's going to go crazy..I think bcuz she's heavy set he feels that he has some kind of control over her or she might be insecure...girl you can do WAY BETTER THAN THAT....

[@keishasmith379]

Anytime someone needs u to facetime them to see where u are or who may b around is someone who wants to control u. I had a boyfriend like that and i told him if u think i need to do that we dont need to b together. I never cheated on him but he has his own issues but thats not for me to help him with. If u are an adult u must figure it out. A part of having someone face timing all the time has to with u not that person. He needs to get his self together mentally and grow up, so does she since she deals with this and shouldn't.

[@feliciawright7479]

CLEARLY we do not share the same definition of a “good man”. How is this situationship not toxic?

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

He sounds SO unintelligent! 😳

[@WakeupMs.McBride]

An ignorant drunk.

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

Ladies, GROWN Men don't Carry On all that Foolishness! 🙄

[@gw5847]

For her to compare herself to Beyonce absolutely not in her dreams.

[@johnadams8997]

Stop insulting us real men by referring to these resemblance of men as men, theyre not