MumLife Update on Trauma, Family and Forgiveness | LOUISE PENTLAND

[@claireisacamel]

There’s never a “too late” for telling your story.

[@mummyto3stevenson371]

Love this sontrue 💖

[@martynpayne6077]

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[@mandieward8777]

Morning Louise! I too was abused and at 44yrs old I still don't feel ready to talk about it, so, in short, I'm congratulating you in a weird, non patronising way. It seems writing this book has been the best therapy for you. I have preordered a copy which I'm not currently in the right frame of mind to read, single parent, in full time nursing, caring for elderly parents blah blah blah 2020 is HARD! I WILL read it when I'm feeling less vulnerable. Im so so humbled that you've donated 100% to the NSPCC. Thank you!!! I think I can speak for both of us when I say they could have helped us massively! Well done, you're a good egg. Much love 😘 xxxx

[@linastrindlund2830]

I think Louise is the right youtuber for you to watch!

[@mandieward8777]

@@linastrindlund2830 I'm an Oldie but Goldie.....I've watched Louise for many years and yes...she is exactly the right medicine for me! Bloody wonderful human being she is! xxx

[@anchorheartlacquer]

Love to you Mandie...one day at a time; and remember, YOU and you alone (exactly as you are) is everything your child needs. Just a bit of something I wish someone had said to me when I was a single mother. Hugs!!

[@mandieward8777]

@@anchorheartlacquer Bless you Taryn! Thank you. I'll be fine, we have to be dont we? You stay safe lovely and thank you for taking the time to write a comment. Much love to you and your family xx

[@luce_berries]

Sending love your way you beautiful stranger! I don't have kids, but I've cared for my very old grandma before she passed away and I can feel at least a little bit of your everyday struggle. Stay strong and don't let anyone tell you how you should feel and what you should do for your kid, you are perfect for them! And remember, it's okay to not feel okay or ready to talk about something. Time and the right company will let you heal. Sorry for the big comment, I just want to spread a bit of positivity and kindness in these difficult times ❤️

[@ellieengland4220]

I can remember you saying a few years ago that you'd filmed a video telling the story of your childhood but you were getting too upset whenever you tried to edit it. You said then that you were determined to tell that story one day, and - it sounds a bit weird because obviously I don't know you, but I've been following you for so long that I feel like I DO know you - I'm so proud of how far you've come and that you have been able to tell this story. You are strong, courageous, and the royalties going to the NSPCC and the book itself are going to help so many people xxxxx

[@emilykate8739]

Agreed!

[@anniesmith5739]

*(Trigger Warning)* I was sexually and emotionally abused from ages 4-12 (I think, details are fuzzy). I couldn't even talk about it until I was in my 20s. I only say this so anyone reading knows that things can and will get better. Recognizing what has happened to you, naming it, and processing it is the first step toward healing. Glad you've written this, Louise. I'm sure it will help a lot of people.

[@katie8836]

so similair to me. from the age of 4-16. i only reported it to the police when i was 20 ❤

[@liz4387]

My partner was a bit worried when he saw a 'mumlife' book arrive as we don't have kids 😂

[@catherineadamson6718]

🤣🤣 my hubby was the same

[@theeverydayorganiser]

Hahaha. Ditto when hubby peered over to see what book I was listening to 🤣

[@Friftymumaof1]

Your mum would of been so so proud of you louise 😍😍😍😍😍

[@JessikaBean]

The contrast of your childhood to how gentle and nurturing you are to your girls is just a different kind of beauty. Nothing comes close. ❤️

[@Zara-so6xc]

I love these unedited videos, feels like I am having a good chat with a friend ❤️

[@Louisepentland]

Yasss! I'm so happy about that Zara xxx

[@GilmorePotterGleek]

I’ll be honest, this made me cry. I remember when you originally mentioning that you film that video and how you just couldn’t edit it. I’m so happy you’re healing and wish you the best with all the family things. Happy to know I can get a copy, even though I’m in the states, going to order it today!

[@cheyenneysewijn7343]

I remember that video too and have been waiting for it

[@sheannep1]

Me too!!!

[@lornatw]

You sharing this helps others to understand their own past too. When you struggled to say the word, my heart squeezed so hard because it's so real that innability to comprehend or even verbalise a responsible adult you're supposed to look up to has hurt you in some way. So many children grow up in emotionally *absv* households and don't even know that they have a right to claim they were negatively effected. It feels like such a grey line when it comes to family with fear of them hating you 💗💗💗

[@AL-uf2ln]

I’m about to qualify as a social worker and I’m going to get your book and read your story and I’m sure it will help me to further understand the perspectives of children like little Louise and how she was feeling and how best to have those conversations that help. I’ve watched your videos for years and I think you’re fab. I feel like we’re friends even though you have absolutely no idea who i am. Which is weird. 😂❤️

[@VelvetVolcano]

My mum has a very similar story, her mum died when she was 6 and then her step mum was very abusive. Thank you for sharing your story Louise 💖

[@martha7157]

Wow! Your 100% donation is amazing, and you're amazing too! 😊💕

[@myliebarker5966]

It's so wonderful you're in a place where you feel strong enough to share your story - it will help so many people. Your girls are a credit to you and you should be so proud of what you have achieved. What a mummy to look up to! Your girls are so lucky. Lots of love x

[@intotheunknown1991]

I was emotionally abused by someone who I thought was my best friend, I talk about it because it makes me feel better , I've learnt not to stay silent, she would make me feel worthless , seeing her at times brings it all back , but I'm a better person now and have the most amazing best friend now I could ever ask for I will get the book eventually 💜

[@bethann4839]

I finished the book Louise! It came on my kindle at 12:03 at midnight, and I stayed up most of the night reading it! I just couldn’t put it down! What an amazing, heartfelt, soul touching book! You should be so so proud 💙

[@Louisepentland]

Wow thank you Bethan, that's amazing! I hope you get some sleep now xxx

[@emmie3437]

i honestly just want to jump through the screen and give louise a hug, no one should have to go through such horrible things at such a young age and she's so brave for talking about it with us. thank you, louise x

[@sarahparker1260]

Congratulations on your new book. I am sorry you had to experience what happened to you but you should be so proud of yourself for how far you have come. I was never lucky enough to become a mum but I am still looking forward to reading your book. 💖

[@francescahughes1024]

Hi Louise as someone that was emotionally abused and neglected as a child I can't thank you enough for breaking the taboo.

[@lillystamp2840]

Last time I watched one of your videos you were “a sprinkle of glitter” I can’t believe how much you’ve grown. You’re an amazing woman and mother. I’m coming to terms with being abused during my early teenage years and seeing how you’re able to talk about what happened and publish it in a book gives me hope. Thank you 💜

[@abby6697]

I've only recently learned (embarrassingly at 40) how healing it can be to forgive. I'm so glad this has helped you forgive and heal and move forward. Can't wait to read it. XOXOXO

[@marmitetoastfanatic]

Just bought this, as a mum who suffered abuse from both parents. I think it'll be a difficult read, but perhaps this will help with my healing. Wishing you love and success with this book 💕✨

[@chloestpier7142]

I’ve been watching you for many years now, have seen you go through heart breaks and super highs and watched to develop into a wonderful, caring, confident mother. It is so good to see you stable and happy now Louise. It’s impossible not to smile with you. My heart breaks for what you’ve been through, but to see your strength, putting yourself out there to turn an awful situation good, and to help people who are suffering just shows who you really are. You should be very proud xxx

[@AliP23236]

Just watched you on TV with the lovely Christine and I have to say that you come across so beautifully ! An absolute natural at TV interviews , funny , honest, relatable , eloquent, inspirational, beautiful inside and out ! Looking forward to your book arriving today ! Well done Louise, you deserve the very best , lots of love and best wishes to you and your family xxx😘💕

[@eileenmiles2368]

I really hope she has been held accountable 😢 Hoping my copy arrives today. Happy publication day! Thank you for doing such good with this book xx

[@nuttyfroot]

As a therapist, I just want to say that I'm really proud of you ❤

[@emmamarkwell9130]

I sure hope this women has been charged with these crimes.Child abuse is so horrific .You are a beautiful woman inside and out.

[@jessiikamorr]

My god, I actually adore you. You bring me so much light, I can’t thank you enough for being THIS honest and true to yourself. I’ve been watching you from the VERY beginning and you’re the only youtuber I’ve truly stuck with after all these years, because you’re just so down to earth and just the bested egg

[@melissabrooks2375]

You have me crying again 😭! Love how raw and honest this is, can’t wait to read the book. I hope it brings you some healing ♥️

[@debbierees2789]

Hi Louise, I'm a mum of two children around your age, as a mum oh my goodness I just want to hug you , I like you was abused as a child and it really does affect us in so many ways, you are the most wonderful Mother and your two little ones are adorable, proud of you my Lovely 💕😘😘😘😘 XXXXXXXX

[@MsMimi127]

It may not seem like it most of the time Louise but you are a powerhouse of strength. God is using and will continue to use your life to shed light love and awareness to so many lives. Thank you for being my internet aunty all these years

[@abcminnie2010]

Hey, Thank-you for writing this book, I have watched you since i was 14ish and am now 23. I went through a very similar life to you and now seeing you flourish is making me realise there is a light out there and life will slow down eventually. Maybe even one day I will have some real stability. I pre ordered your book and I cannot wait to read it. You have inspired me to write my own book about my personal story as I too believe it will help

[@emilykate8739]

This was such a surreal video to watch. As someone who has watched for a while, it was quite emotional. There were so many moments I wanted to say something to you! Following your journey has been an incredible experience. I feel your certainty and strength now more than ever before. Here you are, 100% fearlessly standing in your truth and telling a story that I think is going to help so many. I look to you as a role model, someone who is honest and so smart and just wonderful. As a woman, a mother, and a business owner. I am so excited to hear you are writing another book. I can’t wait to read mumlife. I can’t wait to hear about your first date with Liam and some more intimate details about your life. THANK YOU for being so open. You’re a brilliant woman and I hope I can meet you and the girls one day. I think your mum is looking down and her heart is glowing. I don’t know how it could not. Love you forever Louise! Xx Emily

[@zoeboomerang]

Louise, you are an absolute superstar. I've been watching your videos for years and I remember when you first told your story online and feeling very inspired. I had a very similar childhood and unfortunately my absuer is still in my life, I am still expected to spend christmas' and birthdays with him which makes talking about it even harder. When I was still living at home wiht my parents your videos would such a wonderful escape from reality so just know, that even without the royalities, you've already made a positive change to abused children's lives. To this day I've never told anyone the details of my childhood and now work as a teacher in a specialist provision and I think, like you, that even if I can make the smallest change to one child's life then its been worth it. Thank you for being so open and honest about your childhood, I know how difficult that must be. Your daughters are so lucky to have you

[@amybenham1796]

I’m 26 I started watching you when I was 16/17. I feel like I’ve grown up with you. I’m not a mother. We are very different people with different tastes and interests but there something about you. Something about you that allows me to watch an half an hour video of you talking. I don’t know what that something is but it makes me feel safe and comfortable. Thank you for continuing to make videos. I adore you.

[@emblasdale]

Started reading the book already, it’s brilliant Louise! So well written, I can hear your voice reading every word :) the section where you talk about the abuse and knowing which floorboard creaked in your room hit me SO hard, I fully sobbed. I experienced wanting to be invisible in my last relationship for similar reasons, glad to be out of that now. So amazing to hear that you finally feel strong and stable ❤️ congratulations on the book and a massive cheer to you for putting 100% of the royalties to the NSPCC xxx

[@irishfrenchgirl1]

I love how you share your life so honestly. Even though your childhood was abusive, you tell that tale with love. You can see how you think on it and talk about it and then your mind goes right to your girls and the pure and utter joy and love you have for them. You are incredibly strong and inspiring. We love you ❤️

[@smellso6356]

Hey Louise, congratulations on the book. I think it is great you are letting it all out. The truth sets you free. I was abused, but not by family. I had abusive relationships, boyfriends, there were two relationships. I am now 50 and free from those thoughts, nightmares and worries and have been for some many years now. It takes time that’s for sure. Glad you are in a good place. You and your family are beautiful xxx

[@anneh6342]

Why Not Now? No one should carry those burdens...and "standing in your truth" is the way to drop them by the wayside. Wishing you peace, blessings and love. You Go Girl!

[@hannahmiall]

Wow, Louise, your strength blows my mind, I'm sure your story will touch thousands of hearts and will also raise awareness for such an incredible cause! I really pray that the strength you are feeling remains and grows as you continue to share your story

[@rose1356]

Firstly, I'm so sorry to hear about the abuse. I'm happy to hear you are healing. Secondly, thank you for sharing your story. I have only recently recognised that I was abused as a child and I'm having therapy. Your story gives me hope that, in time, I can heal too xxx

[@georginawilkinson9094]

Oldie but Goldie here! I am so proud of you! The signed copy arrived today and between working (Wax melt business & Teacher but it's the school holidays) I read the first three chapters. It is a wonderful book, so well written. As a non mother I am enjoyed every page! My grandad and Grandma have both passed away in the past 3 weeks, it is lovely to hear your Grandma is doing well at the ripe age of 97! Huge Congratulations to you! I hope you have some time to celebrate with your gorgeous family xxx

[@Lisa-yj2hd]

You should never feel.guilty or unable to have a voice or live in fright. She doesnt have that right. Well.done Louise. I'm so sorry for what you have been through. I'm waiting patiently for the postman to arrive x

[@clairethemamabear]

I'm so incredibly proud of you Lou. I know that talking about the abuse was such a hard topic to talk about, but you have done it now, and the real healing can begin. Congratulations on another wonderful book, I'm looking forward to reading more today - though I have already cried reading the first few chapters, so I'm going to make sure I have plenty of tissues for the rest xD sending you so much love, and hooray for Gma Peggy!

[@imogenmckenzie2368]

You have such a huge heart and such a pure soul and that shines through in everything you do 💗

[@toniallen4786]

I feel you! I've experienced this type of abuse too. It's so hard to talk about. Thank you for putting it all out there. You are bloody amazing! Xxxx

[@merrymunky]

Utter pride in how well you spoke about the abuse in the book. 💗

[@hannahjc97]

I'm typically a watcher and not a commenter but after watching you for upwards of 7 years I am now and 23 and just as in awe of you. You are so genuine, kind and your content is so warming and comforting. It really epitomises the greatest of KZbin whereby us viewers feel like we are a part of your life. I am so incredibly happy for you being at a content and happy place in your life and cannot wait to read this book despite not being close to being a mother myself. Thank you for all you do, you're a true joy!

[@kate7472]

Louise, thank you for doing this. This book will bring so many people hope, be it the words or the funds from the book. The old school chatty videos are my absolute fave, the chatty sections of blogs are the best. Why they don't perform the best, I don't know, because any chatty video is do comforting and feels like a conversation with a friend for me too xx

[@ktswing88]

I remember you talking about filming a video about the abuse but not wanting to edit it or upload it because it was too painful. I’m glad you feel in a better place now. As my Granny used to say, ‘You’re alright now, aren’t you?’. We always joke at home that it was a bit dismissive of our problems but I guess she was kind of right that there is light at the end of the tunnel and this too shall pass. So proud of you for donating all the royalties. You’re a good egg. 🍳 xxx

[@herineherine]

Thank you Louise. You are being such a strong, brave and kind example of a human. More than a good egg.

[@teresaisaacson977]

Oh my darling. This is such a wonderfully honest video. Thank you for opening up and sharing. You are an inspiration and hearing that you are stable and so happy makes me smile so much. I love your videos, I think you are one of the most real youtubers out there and this just makes me have even more admiration for you xx

[@natalieajax-lewis4752]

If it was ever in doubt (which it's not) Louise Pentland you are a good egg. Thank you for telling your story and thank you so much for donating 100% of the royalties

[@jessfilou7790]

Wow, Louise! I've watched you for years and love you. And I've never commented on any of your videos...I always like but then quietly leave again. I don't know why...?! But I watched this and cried. I cried with such happiness at your strength in dealing with such a horrific thing...you always have an edge of vulnerability in your videos, which is one of the things I love about you, but today all I heard was your roar! And it was loud! Go get them...you deserve such peace and happiness xxxxx

[@molly6085]

I’m an 18 year old student and i have always answered the question ‘what do you want to be when you’re older’ with being a mum. I have always wanted a baby and a family despite my very career driven beliefs, the end goal is a family!

[@darcyay]

You’re so brave to share your story, and to have been brave enough to create the life you have despite all that happened! I’m not a mother but I’m loving reading this book, despite the more difficult chapters of course xx

[@riannabooth3400]

So much admiration for Louise! The hardest thing is telling someone your story, but to share it with millions now that takes guts! Unbelievable woman!

[@motaylor8515]

Hi Louise,watched your video today and my heart went out to you. I have in the past seen you touch on the abuse subject and I had tears in my eyes. So sorry. I've always wanted to be a mummy from very young and I had 3 boys. From age 18 to 31. I am now 63. I lost one of my sons age 33,he was murdered. It almost broke me. I will be looking to get your book. I think you are an amazing mum and love watching your videos. You have the most cute girls. You deserve everything wonderful in your life xx

[@jessicabeshay]

i am so sorry Louise. nobody deserves to go through that. i’ve just watched this video and cried with you. i wish i could give you a hug. but at least you can know that you are loved by so many of us now. and we know that your children are in wonderful hands and they are and will be so loved bu you

[@ellieellieellie101]

This video made me cry, you are such a strong and beautiful woman. I love to see all of the growth that is possible for us all. Thank you! I will be buying a copy for me in America!!

[@shannonmurray]

Congratulations Louise!! I have been a viewer of yours for years, or an oldie but goldie, and its so lovely to see someone be still so genuine and real throughout all your years on youtube. I'm so proud of you for writing this book and I can't wait to read it! Thank you for sharing your story xxx

[@jemmah4723]

You're an incredible lady Louise. To not only survive abuse but to come out of it so kind, level headed and reasonable is no mean feat. Donating all the royalties is so generous and I think you're incredibly brave sharing such a painful part of your life. I wish you every success with this book. I look forward to reading it.

[@MissCamiMuller]

I’ve literally just shut the book. I’ve read it in one sitting, and I’m still crying! It’s such a beautiful book 😍 I’ve both cried and laughed reading it!

[@ellieingorleston]

Can’t wait for the postman to deliver this today! congratulations Louise x

[@kokasjudit]

I think real healing comes from talking about things... unearthing memories people try to bury as a coping mechanism! There will come a day, when you will be able to talk about it without really strong emotions, because it will be just a distant memory that made you who you are today.. Congratulations on this huge stepping stone, it is exciting to see your journey and how far you've come! :)

[@rosiespencer5572]

Hi Louise, thank you as always for your honest, down to earth videos! I feel like I’m listening to an older sister. I can relate to some bits of your story and it brings me such comfort to hear you talk so honestly, not just about ‘recovering’ but the effects that remain. Massive congratulations on the book; I cannot wait to read it. Lots of love xxx

[@emmafrankly]

Louise, I am absolutely floored by your decision to donate 100% of the royalties from this book to the NSPCC. Even doing something like 80% would be MORE than impressive, and I could picture myself being in your shoes thinking, "Oh yeah, 80% is more than enough." But no. You did 100%. That's incredible and so, so inspiring. Just purchased! :) Look forward to hearing your story.

[@jenniepeace5380]

Just ordered the book, thank you for your bravery Louise. I cut my mother out of my life years ago as she was toxic but I honestly feel that the mother she was made me the mother I am and I’m very proud of that. Darcey and Pearl are an absolute credit to the strong and inspiring woman that you are xxx

[@itomama307]

Hi Louise, I lost my mother to cancer at the age of 9 and completely relate to your feelings on how that has in part influenced the way you mother your children. I’m now 43 and still feel the pain of that loss, grieving continues and even changes at the different stages we reach in our own lives, don’t you agree? I now have a two year old darling daughter and am in awe of this beautiful little soul that calls me Mummy- completely warms my heart to hear her say it and feels surreal at times. I absolutely love your content of videos etc and very much look forward to reading your book Mum Life- a big congratulations to you! 💗🥳

[@beckyelizabeth9605]

Congratulations Louise on the new book! I was physically and mentally abused as a child and because of the way you explained about forgiving, I am ready to forgive my abuser and move on! I have achieved so much and had to deal with so much in my life that I cannot spend the rest of my life in their shadow! Well done Louise and I can’t wait to read the book xxx

[@LL-mo1dg]

Currently waiting on my amazon delivery! 💗 You're an inspiration, sorry you went through such hard times, sometimes when we feel we've been buried we've actually been planted and getting ready to bloom. Many happy times ahead for you, lots of love from an oldie but Goldie!xx

[@Louisepentland]

That is such a beautiful way of looking at it, thank you xxx

[@YupIknowthatfeeling]

L L thank you for saying that, it's given me hope, lots of love

[@nighthawkdragonfly8339]

It's so nice to have a chat or listen to you. I love hearing you talk as I am from Canada and we dont always use the same words. You are fab for sharing and I wish you well.

[@siancross8675]

Oh Louise, I just wanted to say I've been watching your videos for years and echoing the many other commenters below, I feel really proud of you for being so open and honest in sharing your story. It's a brave and strong thing to do and I wish you all the very best-selling with it. You absolutely deserve it and, at the risk of sounding a little cheesy but know that I truly mean it, I hope it helps you progress even further with healing and owning your story. 💕🌈

[@sassyjones8879]

You are so sweet and so special... I had an adusive mother also. so I know that pain, and you have risen above! you have a beautiful spirit and it just shines through. You have touched my life and your joy has spilled over in to my life reminding me that those days are gone.. and now we are mom`s ourselves making new choices and breaking abusive cycles...

[@julieparker9581]

I have nothing but love and admiration for you. Not just for this book and your story, but how you have always conducted yourself with such love and grace. Know that this book will help so many others out there - a quick peek of the comments tells me as much - and whilst I’m no therapist and don’t want to patronise when I know nothing of abuse, hopefully this will be the next step in your recovery journey. The pre and post book Louise if you will! Big love ❤️❤️❤️

[@MissyGibson]

Telling your story is going to help a lot of people. It will prevent other children being abused but it will also actually help the other grown ups who are processing their abuse and trauma.

[@claireisacamel]

Ahhh can we all just appreciate that she’s just said she’s already writing another! You’re simply amazing!

[@kierabelle9536]

Hello Louise🧡 Thank you for this video and your amazing and special book x I was physically and emotionally abused over 10 years ago now when I lived in France at the high school I went to x I am 22 now at at the time it was happening I was 12 and even now I struggle to talk about it, it will haunt me forever and has very much changed me as a person but I have tried to learn from it as much as I can x I am so glad I opened up about it too as it really really made it feel so much easier to cope with mentally and a massive weight was lifted off my shoulders x thank you for being so open and honest about your awful experience xxx

[@filmbroedits]

I'm 21 with no plans to be a mum but I've been following you since probably 2013, I can't pinpoint why I adore your videos or why this particular one is so fantastic to watch, but you are so empowering and inspiring, thank you so much!!

[@Stockiing69]

I love how open you are about things :) x

[@catherineharwood7523]

Being an oldie but goldie I understand somewhat of your childhood. And I am so so proud of you for confronting the issues you had thrown at you and standing up to it and not fearing from it anymore!! You are an amazing person for donating 100% of your profits to the NSPCC and you deserve nothing but love and happiness. ❤️

[@fivebyfivewhat]

I am always just really impressed by how you manage to talk about your past in an incredibly dignified and classy way. You don't shy from the truth, but you don't 'tabloid' it, if that makes sense. You're amazing!

[@vickiwest9791]

Youre amazing and i cant wait to read your book. My sister was abused by a family member and her integrity has always been questioned by other members of the family. Safe to say none of them are family anymore. Lots of love xxx

[@M4d1s0n]

Louise I’ve been watching for for so many years and hearing your story of abuse is heart breaking ❤️ my love goes to you

[@cathbooth1980]

Sadly, I can totally relate to your story...and like you say, there comes a time in your life when you have to forgive people (parents) and try and move on. I think I realised when I became a mother that actually, our parents aren’t perfect...they make mistakes and are only human. Obviously abuse is awful and traumatic and healing from that is a long, emotional journey...thank you for sharing Louise ❤️xx

[@Sweetirishwhispers]

Thank you for speaking out about your abuse. I know how difficult it is. I know the vulnerability involved especially when it comes to backlash from family. You are amazing for donating the royalties of your book to the NSPCC❤️ you are going to help so many people in so many ways, you have no idea! Big congrats on your book & wishing you continued success in life xx ❤️

[@Samjaynerouse]

Louise your amazing. I had tears throughout this. I am very much looking forward to reading your book. Thank you for speaking out xxx

[@jessicagreenwood7851]

Your book got delivered yesterday afternoon and I’ve nearly finished it already! I’ve literally cried from the first page. I can’t imagine how proud your mum must be. 💗

[@susanreynard1871]

I am so sorry you were abused as a child and applaud your bravery putting your creative skills to use to help others feel less alone and better understand this painful topic. Wishing you very well on your journey and with the book. I think you and your girls are lovely, and lift all of our spirits by sharing glimpses into your life. xxxx

[@afaw130495]

Argh Louise, I can't relate exactly to your situation but seeing you share your story and own it and be strong in the face of it just feels so empowering to watch. So proud of you and all your growth and evolving!

[@kileypowers785]

Oh how I wish we could all hug you! I pre-ordered the book and am looking forward to reading it. I had a similar childhood and I can express how proud I am of you for telling your story.

[@helendukes2638]

Just read the book Louise. I cried and I laughed and I just loved it 😘. Also wanted to comment on how incredibly generous it is of you to give all proceeds to the NSPCC. Amazing!!! Lots of love xxx

[@yummymummy2468]

I bought your book after watching this video and I’m absolutely loving it and relate to many of the things you wrote about. Well done!!! I feel like I’m “watching” one of your videos whilst reading it and can’t put it down!

[@joeups72]

I hope those close to you remember this is your story, your pain, and your life before they act. I'm sure those who love you will wish things hadn't happened, and you will have braced yourself for nothing. You are so brave to follow the direction this book took you and I'm sending you a massive hug filled with pride xx 100% royalties to the nspcc is just perfect xx

[@TheSiobhan12]

Well done on the video, and the book. It will be what so many people need to help them heal from whatever situation they are dealing with. So proud. Well done love!!! 😉👍🏻

[@63Littlemouse]

Wow just finished it, feel emotionally exhausted, a book full of love & sadness with a sprinkle of laughter xx

[@sandrav.7598]

Congratulations to your book! I was abused too from my mom, not in a physical way but in an emotional one so I feel your pain! I'm really happy that you worked your way through it! Lots of love 💕

[@whatlyddid]

I feel like I could write a whole novel back to you! Suffice to say, this is one of the best uses of platform/privilege I have ever seen. My thoughts are with you and your family as they learn more from reading, I hope you all come through it stronger as a unit.

[@annaswift7348]

Your book arrived today and I’ve already finished it. I cried, laughed and everything in between. It was so heartwarming and honest and I feel like I have sat down for a chat with a friend. You are amazing!

[@susanhull1098]

You are so very brave. I had childhood abuse, but I am also dealing with CEN - childhood emotional neglect. Thank you for sharing your story, your pain and your love. It means a lot to those of us who survive and go on and try to raise happy, healthy children. I wish you and your adorable girls such peace and happiness. ❤️