Love After Betrayal | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

How Do You Use The Same Heart That Was Broken, To Love Again?
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[@daniellemcdonald150]

"Missing them is not a permission slip to return." Needed that...

[@Pee-t4j]

I’m 29 I’m just finding your channel please don’t ever stop your speaking to so many of us ❤

[@nandiphaqekeleshe296]

FATHER,HEAL MY HEART:RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@_humblekay7075]

Fake happiness is the worst type of sadness.

[@Bas92583]

Amen

[@towandastarks8182]

I can tell Holy Spirit was in this message... Thank You Pastor Flowers for letting the spirit use you.

[@vinolabikunda7418]

This honestly blessed me. I couldnt stop crying while listening to the sermon.❤. I am currently going through heartbreak, it is hard , but I know God has something better in store for me in Jesus name. He is bringing me closer to my destiny. ❤ . May God continue blessing youre ministry and family in the Mighty name of Jesus.

[@rachellemcrannolds5896]

Betrayal hands you … paranoia and chronic suspicion, which is the bandage the heart wears when it has been stabbed by someone we formally have trusted!!!!

[@Tiffany_3x]

🥀This time was the betrayal of ALL betrayals so much so I am literally crying ALL of the allotted amount of water we should store in our bodies,, from my eyes!!! 😭😭😭 This betrayal was so bad God had to send angels to lift me up from the ground as the enemy pulled me down (with the tentacles I allowed to be wrapped around my very heart). So the spiritual warfare is alive & in color. This betrayal was so bad that I ran to God & I'm ok if HE wants me ALL to himself!! No, I'm not ok right now,,, but I will be, in Jesus' name!! 🙏🏾✝️📖⚔️🕊️🔥

[@thesisterhoodhub]

@@Tiffany_3x Dear Tiffany, May the Lord bring complete healing and restoration to you, mind body and soul, and meet you at your point of need! May He give you His peace that surpasses all understanding and help you to rest in Him. May you offer up your broken heart to Him as a living sacrifice and all your tears that He is collecting in a bottle... and He will wipe away the tears of pain and replace it with the joy of the Spirit, what will be your strength. May the Lord uproot the traps and snares lay wait for you by the enemy and null avoid them, so they no longer come to fruition, and may the Lord put a hedge of protection around you and be your refuge and strength during this time of trouble, and may He give you a spirit of forgiveness. May He forever be your rock and fortress and your God in whom you trust! In Jesus’s precious name I pray, amen 🙏

[@LadyDoe111]

This is a deep statement! Lord please heal my wounded heart

[@nidzaperez7258]

​@@Tiffany_3x To God's ears I'm ce ..... I was right there with you my this one was a real big betrayal 26 years 💯👋👋👋👋🤶♾️👏 you just hold on and no the god that we serve no weapon formed against and I am living testimony that they don't made my first husband rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🦢

[@Tiffany_3x]

@@thesisterhoodhub OMG!! 🥺 I wasn't notified of your response!! (3 months ago!! 🤦🏾‍♀️) Thank You SO much for your lovely prayer!! Evidently you are righteous as GOD hears the prayers of the righteous!! 🙏🏾📖⚔️✝️🕊️🔥 It (and so much MORE) have come to fruition since then, so THANK YOU 🥰 I pray that YOU & YOURS be blessed and covered in the MIGHTY name of our Lord Jesus Christ!! ✝️🙏🏾 💞✨🕊️

[@mariahcharnelle]

whoever sees this, we PROUD OF YOU! i Love You. God Loves You. God sees You. keep being purposeful and intentional💛 God bless yall…. God bless the Flowers!

[@jewelsfree8104]

Before I clicked to watch this video, I was crying and asked God why is my life so hard but full of loneliness at the same time. I don’t have support to match my day to day life and it is hard for me as a working hard single mommy and life itself. I cried so hard and said “ God are you proud of me?” I was led to your message 🙏🏽 thank you so much for this message. God bless you abundantly ❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@mariahcharnelle]

@@jewelsfree8104 God is SO good and always right on time baby. im glad you were drawn to my lil ole comment! keep working hard as a great mommy but dont forget to REST. in lonely times, know God is everywhere and God delights in You so delight in yourself! take some time to appreciate where and who you are! God is always proud of you- Matthew 3:17💛 i’ll be praying for you! stay blessed. much love

[@goldenlifelove7251]

I needed to hear this message badly!! I was blindsided with a breakup 7 weeks ago & have been on my healing journey ever since. I sent all the gifts he gave me back to him, threw away cards, notes, deleted pictures, texts & voicemails so I could heal. I knew God was calling me to handle this painful situation with dignity & care. I'm still hurt, sad & angry sometimes, but I know I'm headed in the right direction. I'm not yet at a place of forgiveness, but I'll get there eventually. I miss the friendship I'd built w/ my ex & Idk how or when God will bless me to meet the right person, but I'm going to take the gems learned in this message & apply them to be the best version of myself that I can be. Thank you so much, Pastor Flowers! This message was timely & really blessed me.

[@msaverielle]

We don’t get even. We get healed.❤

[@alexandrahays2431]

Snakes don’t even hiss anymore, they call you bro! 🗣🔥🔥

[@brandyhale6518]

This was a much needed and powerful word. Thank you Father God for using your vessel to speak your words. Thank you Pastor Flowers for your Faithfulness to our Lord and Savior. To God be the Glory!

[@theronirose]

Father heal my heart and restore my joy so I can love freely without fear! There’s something you need me to do🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ikeadeang3349]

This was my prayer just a week ago after experiencing an unexpected heartbreak. God please allow me to continue to love despite heartbreak and restore joy so that I can love freely! I desire a healthy heart so desperately. 🙏🏾

[@jennifersanchez8796]

🙌🏼🙏🏼

[@marilynrobinson6910]

Thank you pastor Jerry! This message will be life changing and transformation for me! I will be replaying it as much as possible

[@ccartagena2262]

I pray for you to release them ,so Our Lord will vindicate you . In Jesus Name

[@faithandworksasmr8130]

See this is my issue I can’t stop being loving and serving and sometimes I hate it. But I know it gives glory to God but it makes me feel stupid

[@ccartagena2262]

I understand what you saying. We are given the fruit of the spirit and long suffering is one of them . Ask for the Spirit Of Discernment to lead when to give but not waste your pearls to those not deserving of you .

[@jasminehailey553]

I watched this a year ago and was too distraught to really receive this message but now since I’m further into my healing journey I receive and appreciate it. Being betrayed allowed me take a self evaluation on why I allowed certain things/ situations. I’m pouring more love into myself , and learning to forgive those who hurt me. I miss certain people but I tell myself that “ I’m a child of God and he wouldn’t want me to be involved in anything toxic”. Thank you Pastor Jerry 🙏🏾

[@maishaparham9266]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART, RESORE MY JOY. SO THAT I CAN LOVE FREELY AND WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!!

[@msaverielle]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART, RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR! THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@Poohstin]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE’S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@jerieshacrutchfield565]

Principalities works through personalities! We have to get that! Good teaching!!!!!

[@bige1061]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@Masha.n.thebear]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@lindafrancois77]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY, SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@nthabisengmofokeng2008]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@terribryant7699]

INFORMATION WITHOUT APPLICATION= NO TRANSFORMATION 🫡😳😬🙌🏽 📖 DONT JUST READ THE BIBLE …..BE THE BIBLE!! ❤GLORY TO GOD FOR THIS WORD

[@reneemoore6971]

I've heard so many times, pray about it. Keep your head up. Fake it til you make it. So you don't want to confide in anyone.

[@keishaholley2205]

Powerful teaching my brother in Christ!

[@autumnsunflower9141]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@JeauxHoward]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@yahkar]

🩺😟 _A Lot Of Us Tried To Move On, But Your Heart Didn't_ maaaaan, 🥵this hit me all in the throat. 🩹Healing is Key Family. 🙏🏾 I Appreciate Pastor @JerryFlowers.Jr for allowing God to use him in this way. Many blessings Akh.

[@ereluadunni5493]

Ase

[@ereluadunni5493]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART, RESTORE MY JOY, SO I CAN LOVE FREELY, WITHOUT FEAR, THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO.

[@jadanicole625]

Same😭

[@jarsingtel6981]

Father, heal my heart; restore my joy so I can love freely without fear. There’s something you need me to do.

[@walkerzuri]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE’S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO.

[@thembelandawule8841]

FATHER Heal my Heart, Restore my Joy So I Can Lover FREELY without FEAR. There's Something You Need Me To DO!

[@lavonnapinder4309]

FATHER , HEAL MY HEART ; RESTORE MY JOY, SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR . THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO !

[@TheJoyIsMyStrength]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY. SO THAT I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR!!!

[@precious44]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY. SO I CAN LOVE FREELY, WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO. JESUS🙏🏽

[@tressaharvey189]

Father heal my heart, Restore my joy, so I can live freely without fear. There’s something you need for me to do!!!! I receive this word!

[@srenne5785]

FATHER heal my heart so I can complete the task you want me to fulfill.

[@yaracassamo2126]

The goal is not just to move on..but to move on right 😢

[@faithfrazier5485]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE’S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!!

[@crystalnelson1775]

God going to deal with the betrayals ,I'm still going to bow down gracefully Jesus and be humble I'm staying in humility.

[@NaturalNicole79]

Betrayal hands you paranoia and chronic suspicion. It definitely does and this word is right on time for me. I am in a planting season and man oh man its been challenging trusting God and the unctioning of the HS. If you are reading this, pray for my trust in God to be restored and that my obedience be greater than sacrifice. Thank you all in advance!

[@GenaGordon]

I cried so much while listening to this message . I fully understand where my HEART needs to be HEALED and my joy RESTORED . THANK you Pastor Flowers , THANK you.

[@itsterrishaa3021]

First timer

[@tipptoppjewelry639]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART, RESTORE MY JOY, SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR, THERES SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@blight7778]

When you finally get focused hell attacks you with heartbreak” ..but we have to overcome and heal because “The world and culture is not our mirror, it is our canvas and we are God’s paintbrush”

[@MissPerfection37]

FATHER heal my heart, restore my joy so that I could love freely without fear there’s something you need me to do.

[@jewelofjehovah3477]

I'm a first timer.. blessings to all

[@DarleneGarcia-oo1ne]

🙏GOD❤️z🫵// thank u for being part of my healing process.

[@Tani.ekundayo]

Fake happiness is the worst type of sadness 😢

[@AmandaSpeaks]

“We don’t get even, we get healed!” 😮‍💨😮‍💨 “Good fathers stand up for their children” 🙌🏾🙌🏾 This entire video speaks life! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

[@yahkar]

Love your channel Sista, don't quit sharing content🙏🏾❤

[@ccartagena2262]

Grief is inevitable, Grieving is the decision we make and process by layers not by the whole that’s why we run in the cycle of doubt when expectations are disappointed

[@AmandaSpeaks]

@@yahkar Thank you so much, appreciate the love 🙏🏽

[@wambuikahigi5926]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY. SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO! AMEN!❤

[@esseyjourlney5274]

Never let it hurt in the first place. It is affected

[@pyrogoblingaming2156]

Father, heal my heart, restore my joy, so i can love freely without fear. There is something you need me to do.

[@scottbrewer782]

Father heal my heart, restore my joy so that I can love freely without fear. There's something you need me to do

[@GoodKarmaWellness]

I am grateful for you posting this video🙏🏽🤍✨💡👁️🦋💯👸🏽⏱️

[@kiandrajohnson6134]

So proud of all who are tuning in 🙌🏾👑💯

[@annlovelace7843]

Think of the 10 that Jesus healed and only one returned to thank him. That one is the only one that effected Jesus, so the 9 ghosted Jesus no closure for him but Jesus knew that would happen so when this happen to us today we should think of this scripture we definitely isn't better than Jesus. We keep going in prayer and pray for all

[@rachellemcrannolds5896]

One of the main attributes that GOD wants to restore in our hearts is …. TRUST!!!

[@juliejoseph5345]

Every message needs to replayed over and over again, oh thank you Lord for your ministry.

[@qburnett64]

Hallelujah!! Glory to God!! I needed this message!! The blessing is what is left!!

[@daschuhow]

Amen! Move on/ get over it God’s way! Don’t let the devil win!

[@IamAshleyBryant]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART, RESTORE MY JOY, SO THAT I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERES SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO

[@yajairacruz-guardo1255]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY, DO THAT I MAY LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@teamsic]

FAKE HAPPINESS IS WORSE THAN SADNESS!! #abdiooop

[@DrDynell]

Fake happiness is the worse kind of sadness

[@morowarowe1517]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART. RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR. THERE IS SOMETHING FOR ME TO DO.

[@evettamann2236]

Whew Jesus!! That part....you will have mutual friends....they shouldn't have to choose sides...

[@courtneyjohnson5529]

FATHER. Heal my heart: restore my joy so that I can love FREELY and without fear. There’s something you need me to do🙏🏾

[@keajahwilliams2051]

Amen

[@mariahjedimolebatsi5660]

I'm a first timer... Love from Botswana.

[@Me4Life81]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY.

[@q_d9264]

Father heal my heart so that I can love freely.

[@GermanRed84]

Deep message. This weekend I'm going within to check my patterns and also the past relationships I've been in (friendships as well) to see why they have died and catch the blessing behind it. It's time to examine and see God in everything that happens in life because He's there at all times.

[@detrixhogan6078]

Amen❤

[@andreadamy3922]

Here i am 6 months after a major heartbreak. Lost, frustrated, isolated, finding it hard to forgive, and realizing how angry i am because i was betrayed by someone i loved deeply but i didnt realize it until recently. I need healing so bad but i dont know where or how to start. Just a few days ago I wrote something about what i was feeling. It was about me finally realizing that what i went through was a betrayal. However i didnt use to see it that way because i was still madly in love with the person. And then I saw this video yesterday, finished watching it today. All this time i've been thinking that what i am feeling is not valid. But this...this told me that God sees me, that He knows what i'm going through, that He dont want me to stay this way and be stuck here forever, that He wants to heal me, and that He is just waiting for me to experience healing so He can bless what is left in me. I honestly thought that i cant love anymore because of the amount of pain that i experienced. It didnt just broke me in one area but in almost every area of my life to the point that my brokeness from the past had to resurface all at once. So i'd say satan must have thought of it well coz it happened just when i was starting to thrive in my spiritual walk. But i'm still thankful, God is still sooo good to me. I now know that some things must go, some people in our lives must leave, and that some things really needs to happen in our lives so we can advance to where God wants to take us. Healing is a process and i dont expect to be whole and healed overnight. But there's something i am looking forward to now. If you happen to read my comment by any chance. Please pray for me. Pastor Jerry and Tanisha Flowers, you guys are a blessing. Grateful for your lives.

[@theauthenticchannel0]

Sending love and peace 💕

[@SherieceChristian-sp9wr]

Blessings in Jesus name. I just wanted to say you are very deep and self aware, not gassing you up but why deny your neighbor a good thing if it is in your hands to do so. So again not trying to inflate ego but it's not often that you get to whiteness a person look within and apply the message to the parts they feel would help and all the while giving honest personal testimony. Your doing ❤️‍🩹 well. So I pray that the Lord continue to perform his good work in you, and that you always walk in your integrity and In his peace ✌️🕊️ In Jesus name

[@juanitaallen6426]

This is my first time watching.

[@Cha_Cha_Cha-u4q]

Imagine a world without any sin we could literally give each other super powers just by loving each other !!

[@chareshines94]

FATHER HEAL MY RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITH OUT FEAR THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO

[@libbi3778]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART AND RESTORE MY JOY!!! THERES SOMETHING YOU PURPOSED ME TO DO. BUT THIS HEART OF MINE IS sick and scared...

[@kaminegassaway7713]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY FOR THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO ❤

[@gaynellbias2162]

FATHER HEAL MY RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED FOR ME TO DO amen

[@karynmartin2141]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY CAUSE THERE IS THINGS YOU NEED ME TO DO.

[@jennynguyen8858]

Thankyou!!!!! The betrayal of family the sexual abuse the physical abuse the verbal and neglect... i want to expose it to let ppl know they are not alone and shame is not their portion!

[@temperance2580]

Father, heal my heart; restore my joy so I can love freely without fear. There's something you need me to do.

[@ipalonkandu614]

My father heal my heart ND restore my joy so that I can be able to love without fear, ths my pray, thanx for ths powerful word

[@reneemoore6971]

It hits different!!!!! Yessss. Omg

[@Beloved.46]

I will still love no matter how much I been hurt thank you Jesus for showing me I will trust you from my heart heal my heart

[@ebbyb8499]

IThis was definitely a tear jerker. I'm not one to share confessions, but the pain of a betrayal is so real, and to still love the person who hurt you is so hard. Loving someone who wasn't taught to love and is stubborn and childish, it hurts to invest time, energy, and love into someone, and you get nothing. Love those who persecute. You just love them from a distance. Continue to pray for God to have an encounter with them, and let go and let God. I noticed God did not ordain many friendships or relationships, and I have to heal. While also trying to help others. God is just so amazing. I thank God for breaking chains and his unconditional love. Thank you, Lord, for loving me when others didn't understand or love me. I will no longer betray myself for others' satisfaction.

[@SiobhanMcLachlan]

FATHER, HEAL MY HEART. RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR... THERE IS SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO..

[@SalinaKhan-cg9ku]

First timer...fromnew jersey

[@nidzaperez7258]

Bless you and your family. My daughter and I 💯💯. In all thank you she taged me🤶♾️🦋💯😘

[@deebrown3832]

God heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds. Knowing that God cared about my heart delivered me from the pain! I hate when people say it'll get better but it usually does. ♥️💪🏽

[@kjenkins3939]

Thanks for being intentional about your healing 🙏🏿

[@deebrown3832]

@@kjenkins3939 Only God! If it were for me I would still be wallowing in my misery even after 2 years!

[@ladennayoung2939]

I appreciate when people put forward the effort at least. I'm going through a bit of a unique situation right now. And there are things that people say that irritate me. Maybe they really mean well, but I rather they don't say anything at all.

[@AMP181]

Father heal my heart, restore joy. There is something you need me to do

[@arankagionetti2098]

This was so eye opening ! Specially when you asking your self God!!! Why !! Why!!! Why!!!why this all happening to me!??

[@natashahicks9043]

Don't get revenge get HEAL... A to the MEN !!!

[@tiweathersby4475]

Information w/o application no transformation 🙌🏾

[@julie-annhall9420]

First timer here, with warm thanks.

[@marilynsalmon6149]

Excellent point whatever we love we protect!

[@ThePeacesweeetie101]

JESUS BLESS THIS MAN

[@tiffanywatson2453]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART RESTORE MY JOY SO THAT I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR

[@tiffanywatson2453]

THERES SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!

[@yolandawilliams3319]

FATHER HEAL MY HEART; RESTORE MY JOY SO I CAN LOVE FREELY WITHOUT FEAR!!! THERE'S SOMETHING YOU NEED ME TO DO!!!!

[@olamarks8605]

I'm here dor the 1st time