LOVE IS BLIND 7 SHOULD GET THIS SHOW CANCELLED

[@veethesepiascholar3114]

It's not Tim didn't like to argue...he just doesn't want the other person to talk

[@Nita_Key]

Because listening is his love language...

[@vanessiaclark6701]

😂😂😂

[@nikicrowe2768]

Not to mention, what kind of person goes back home and completely erases/ignores the fact that he was raising 3 children. He was very present in their lives! How does a person just not miss their kids the entire time they were away filming; then come back and just erase their existence off of their Facebook-and life ?? I don’t know, that is some next level coldness. If I found out I had married someone that could do that, I think I’d have to run.

[@islabee94]

Yes!!! That is the biggest crime out of all of his horrible behaviour. Fighting for children's custody just to turn around and abandon them like they never existed... because you want to be on TV.

[@chelscara]

4:29 Stephen felt like a horror movie character, like that dude is NUTS and needs to just stay away from people until he gets help.

[@mary5305j]

This season was the worst, from Hannah to Steven to Ramses to TYLER, it really feels like the producers are not vetting people at all and we are watching multiple scenes of near (if not 100%) verbal abuse, gaslighting, and whatever happened with Tim and Alex sounded(?) like it got physical at least with her putting her hands in his face or on his mouth. At some point the showrunners need to step in. They cut out the rich boy and gold digger lady from the beginning but then let Hannah verbally abuse Nick the entire season and Tyler did not hide his family well so how did the producers let Ashley go TO THE ALTER and get married without pulling her aside and giving her a heads up?! It’s manipulation from every single angle.

[@deedeedan8681]

The whole conversation with Ramses about sex legitimately scared me, like demanding sex from someone who isnt feeling well is absolutely insane and such a terrifying way for anyone let alone a man to be. It reminds me of those women who married men that threw tantrums when they didnt want to have sex immediately after giving birth and still actively in the healing process. Ugh, chills.

[@flateiacantis7510]

For real, gross needy ass lazy lying judgemental loser lol Marissa annoys me, but she is so far out of this man's league it's ridiculous.

[@perdybirdie]

I agree this show needs to be canceled. As soon as whatever season (I think atl) they're currently filming is done they need to postpone this indefinitely. Fire a bunch of people, get actual psychological and background checks done and revamp the show. As is, it's a complete fail. I wouldn't be shocked if someone gets seriously hurt at some point the way they got so many psychopaths this season.

[@Hanna55472]

I totally agree!! They are failing so much in the casting department. The level of background check is embarrassing

[@ohmyprettygirl]

I hate to say it but I agree. The show hasn’t been genuinely good or exciting since season 4, fewer and fewer couples end up married, its just time to call it a wrap

[@hollyfabiani]

Agreed! Prison inmates are the next step. Love after lock up.

[@Waddlles]

Glad you are back! Wishing you a steady recovery! So what makes this Tyler situation worse it that in America, if a person who owes child support gets married (Tyler owes about $30k in back child support), their spouse will then be liable to assist in paying for that. Tyler also has 7 legal evictions under his belt (this has been verified by court documents and the TikTok detectives)- Ashley can kiss owning a home goodbye (if she doesn't already own one). Pairing herself with this man will be her downfall. The negligence that Neflix has displayed in not running proper background checks on these people is disgusting.

[@stutter_box]

Wait, WHAT??? Oh my god Tyler you will star coughing in seven days I’m manifesting it 🤬

[@perdybirdie]

If Ashley wasn't so desperate and stupid, she would have a REAL case to sue and win

[@aninayouroukova3832]

Wait, if he was just a donor to an already married couple, why does he owe back child support? I understand the couple split, but idk much else about the details...

[@aninayouroukova3832]

Sorry, I hadn't gotten to the last part of the video. I get it now.

[@SEOshogun]

It's ok. Ashley is complicit. Shes standing next to this Deadbeat after he abandoned his kids this past year. She should pay every dime.

[@caseyw.6550]

I don't think nick was flirting with the beach lady. And he laughed when she called hannah jealous because it was clearly a joke. And I don't even think hannah really cared. She just wanted to be mad at him.

[@hollyfabiani]

He already called her a grenade prior to this. Nick sucks too.

[@caseyw.6550]

@hollyfabiani ABSOLUTELY

[@alongfortheride437]

Get well soon , glad you are back.

[@thedaviszone5187]

All this will be on the internet forever. These kids will grow up and see what their dad did to them. 😢

[@nbucwa6621]

That's the worst part. There's no way that these kids don't find out that their dad just one day decided it wasn't worth being their dad anymore and proudly announced it to millions.

[@Hanna55472]

Glad to have you back on my feed!! Hope you get back to a good place both physically and mentally! And if you need another break I hope fear of the algorithm won’t push you before you’re ready! I can only speak for myself ofcourse, but your personality makes your videos so enjoyable and unique, so I will keep coming back to your videos even if the breaks are longer!

[@Greta.Tantė]

I have no interest in Love is Blind because Im afraid it will destroy the last brain cells that bad lifestyle choices couldn't kill, but I'm addicted to your content at this point. Hope the healing journey goes well xx

[@Reverse_Cowgirl-cat]

Sleep tests are similar to a stress test in the way that it's usually in a hospital, and you are under observation. It's a common way to test for sleep apnea. I just imagine this dude lying down on a hospital bed hooked up to monitors and being... horny??

[@grrlwriter]

Please take care of yourself; we'll be here waiting! I did hear after that Marissa has rheumatoid arthritis, which can make your periods 100x worse. She was clearly in so much pain, and instead of being a good partner to her, Ramses was only worried about getting laid. I have the newest autoimmune condition, long Covid, and when your body is swelling internally monthly, it can be absolute hell. There are times when even the feeling of clothing against my skin hurts. There's not a lot you can do except ride it out; there just isn't anything you can take for the pain and make you "functional" (and that's a whole other thing; that women are expected to be perfect and amazing while bleeding and shedding their uterine lining for 7 days, but I digress).

[@PixieMermaid-fz9rt]

100% agree that the nonsense of asking for a father's blessing/permission is just ridiculous and has no place in modern society. Girls and women are no longer used as pawns for brokering deals and alliances (or at least they shouldn't be). This is even more true when so many women have deadbeat fathers that weren't there for them, such as Ashley and for some reason she still felt compelled to include him on her wedding day and yet for Tyler including his father was not important.

[@Ima_Wake]

💯

[@erin_leann]

I hope u are feeling better! ✨✨ i’ve BEEN waiting on this video!!

[@robinronin]

Petition to please just make this show about blind people finding love, instead of messy and terrible conventionally attractive people 😂 Also, I hope your recovery goes well! I stumbled in here through my reccomended, so I don’t know much about you, but I hope you’ll get better soon! 😊

[@msdouglas12100]

I think with Marissa being in the military kinda explains why she wouldn't recognize patriarchal problems. I watched an interview with a retired military woman and she said the military can be super cult like.

[@chelscara]

the mormonism growing up likely did not help either

[@msdouglas12100]

@@chelscara oh yikes nope that doesn't help either

[@MaybeitsclusterB]

It's more of a "good old boys club" tbh. I'm a female veteran.

[@msdouglas12100]

@@MaybeitsclusterB I've never served but the woman I was talking about was in the cult children of God so I trusted her opinion.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

Nick and Hannah hot take: They are a textbook example of a REALLY common dynamic in sexist marriages. The 'fun, bumbling, slightly slow, well meaning chill husband' (who does not pull his weight) and the 'uptight, mean, always mad, domineering, stressed, miserable wife' (who is stuck doing everything). The way this unequal burden persists is society continues to write the do nothing guy blank checks because on the surface he seems so 'nice', and on the surface, the woman seems so tightly wound and not fun. Until society goes, 'oh, he MADE her that way by shrugging and not pulling his weight', so, so, so, many women will be trapped in such dynamics and villainized for it. Endless American sitcoms trained us viewers to side with the do nothing man, so when we see a real life example, very few people empathize with Hannah. But I do! Nick tricked her into almost getting MARRIED off a fake persona, lied about many things, said he would cook for her, and then when she was rather trapped, turned out to be a small man baby. She should have been pissed, and she was. And sure, she did NOT handle it as well as just walking away immediately, but she did walk away after a few weeks, which is faster than I've walked away from some dumpster fires in my day. And as for her trying to 'change' him instead of walking away (and I agree, don't try to 'train' a guy, just walk).......women get SO MUCH cultural conditioning to do that. Especially in the south (and this is DC, basically the south), the message is 'men are all toddlers, you have to mold them into adults'. And while I DO think that messaging is toxic, I think Nick himself was looking for a bit of a Mommy, someone who would 'mold' him, so I think the guy would have been a terrible match for anyone and he bears the responsibility for coming on a marriage show while being in no way shape or form marriage ready.

[@___x934]

okay wow this is actually a very interesting perspective. im one of those that dont like Hannah but i completely see where ur coming from. i think both things can b true at the same time 🤷🏽‍♀️ he was a manchild that needed to be constantly put in his place, but i also think hannah genuinely ENJOYED bashing him at every possible opportunity. ur hot take is rlly good tho

[@Reverse_Cowgirl-cat]

Now I'm wondering how much their "sitcom dynamic" was real or if it was the producers seeing the "perfect story" for them to portray. Since it is so common in our culture, it's probably easy for them give a few nudges and edit some dialog towards that direction with out much thought.

[@robinronin]

Uh. Wow. That’s my parents. I can confirm this dynamic will absolutely mentally destroy your child and ruin them for life, especially if you’re a daughter and your mother constantly unloads her frustrations with your father on you, and your father is completely emotionally unavailable 😂

[@deedeedan8681]

No I dont think thats fair to Nick at all, him being childish and immature is what HANNAH told us. She came into the relationship with issues fueled by her own insecurities and almost instant dislike of him. She was straight up emotionally abusing him and I dont care what the situation COULD have ended up as when the fact of the matter is that we saw this woman tear him down for absolutely no good reason. If someone is too immature for you, you leave them. You dont "accidentally" leave lists out where youre ranking his manliness and his entire personality like hes a number on a board and then doing the same thing to his face and throwing him under the bus with the whole "you told me in private you didnt want to be made out to be a villain and actually Im going to use that against you after i said i wouldnt". That is just such unneccesarily cruel behavior. I would feel sorry for her if she actually was baby trapped, but she wasnt, and she wanted to have a problem with him so she is a profoundly obtuse asshole

[@MissDebbieSue123]

Ok, that take would be a wonderful and insightful look into the dynamics of marriage and society, but it does not apply here, I don't feel, and here is why I think so. Hannah is a verbally-abusive person who sucks the life from any partner she would be w I th. Before she even saw Nick, she displayed shallow behavior. She is a negative force that makes it very clear she needs her partner to play into her self-fulfilling prophecy that creates the weakened fuc*- up of a man so she can n gleefully tear him down even more. She was constantly berating him, and being emotionally and verbally up and down so he is constantly unsure and eventually becomes co-dependent, which is what she manipulated the relationship to be, then she will Amp up the cruelty even more. Discussing her sex life and disparaging him on TV is messed up. If he doesn't want to do that, talk to him about it, and, I don't know, wash yourself. If you're going to espouse how immature Nick is compared to you, then be mature. Hannah is only happy when she can suck any self-esteem, pride, confidence, and happiness from your soul and then despise you for it. On these bumbling husband sitcoms, the wife isn't telling the husband how disgusting he is, or telling the world he's bad in bed, or trying to decimate his self-esteem. Hannah is not the shining example you seem to think she is. Nick didn't dodge the proverbial bullet, he escaped an emotional Armageddon.

[@globehopp3r]

A long time ago i got a sleep test, to check if i had sleep apnea--i.e., not breathing properly while i was sleeping. It may be different now, but at the time i had to spend the night at the clinic, hooked up to machines. I can't imagine sexting while doctors were monitoring my breathing, heart rate, etc. 😂

[@celinacalderon6036]

One issue with Hannah and Nick too is that Nick being Cuban plays a factor. As someone who is Cuban and puerto rican, men in the culture are coddled often. From seeing what his mom said about him and her admitting she did coddle him, it was very familiar- it made me understand more and made me feel like Hannah, instead was basically kicked out and told to grow up and deal on her own- so she's resentful of the way he grew up. Not saying he's totally right, he does act very immature in many ways, but I do also feel Hannah was wayy too hard on him. She should've just pushed him to be independent without being such a bitch about it. There was zero grace and I definitely feel that comes from her jealousy thst she didn't have the option to live like him.

[@melbell7714]

Haven't watched the full video yet, just sending you positive vibes and hoping for your speedy recovery.

[@Esztibaba5]

Get well soon! ❤ I liked this format as well - it would have been nice to have a few photos up as a reminder who is who (honestly, it's hard to keep up with it at this point), but overall the video had a great flow, your style was quite natural - I liked it. :))

[@ToniaRichardson-tm3ff]

Agreed, this show should be cancelled. Missed you; I've been looking for your content - wishing you ever-strengthening health!! 💓💜💝

[@Katy133]

Sending you well wishes! Thank you for the video. I haven't watched Love is Blind, but I like hearing you talk about it from your POV.

[@perdybirdie]

I actually think marissas mom did rhe right thing with ramaes after seeing everything. It's unfortunate that marissas parent issues have stunted her so bad she couldn't see through ramses. And is defending him to this day. She has serious issues and needs help before getting into another relationship. Also, ramses is clearly a gay man trying to be straight for some reason. He needs to live his truth and leave women alone.

[@hellopeople6138]

Ew... men can be feminine and still be straight... wtf? Thats lowkey homophobic to say you being fem=gay.. can more macho men not be gay? He didnt do anything gay except desonstruct toxic masculinity.

[@caseyw.6550]

Cancel it right now. The end.

[@perdybirdie]

Agree. It's only a matter of time before someone gets seriously hurt. They need to postpone filming once whatever season they're currently filming is complete.

[@coraandhernicebangs7703]

Gute Besserung!

[@jackeeB]

Everyone seems to like Marissa bc she's bubbly, but i find her to be delusional and lacking true agency.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@GirlyEnglishGamer]

She's over 30 and she's like a child. But not in a cute way in a "I have lots of trauma and I'm immature in everyway" kind of way.

[@GirlyEnglishGamer]

She*.

[@mimineren8787]

Same, she was annoying to me from the get go. She lives in Lala land.

[@MaybeitsclusterB]

Yeah, something is definitely off with Marissa

[@EarthymoonPhotos]

Really really hope you have a speedy recovery! ❤️

[@evanati2012]

I'm so happy you're back😊 Hope you get better very soon

[@Oli3TB76]

yeah this show absolutely needs to be put out of its misery 😬

[@trellbee]

Yes to this being an hour long! Get well soon!

[@chelscara]

37:17 happens growing up Mormon within the church. Doesn't mean stupid, just means you were taught to STOP thinking after a point. That thinking any further than the mark they left you at is sin. Marissa left the church but the teachings are still very much there: Be nice, amiable, don't kick up a fuss especially with men as they know better...

[@veethesepiascholar3114]

And he admitted he didn't put the kids on his application

[@escanormusic]

Don’t worry about the editing, you’re entertaining to watch regardless of the production! Get well soon!

[@chelscara]

Ashley so desperate to get married after hearing the words "hidden kids"; if I heard that you'd have to find me I'd be in a different state at that point but I guess she firmly lives in the State of Delusion

[@Reverse_Cowgirl-cat]

Listening to you vent about Ramses was cathartic for me. It's like you took the words from my mouth.

[@teamaang7915]

The image of Marissa's mum thanos'ing Ramses makes me chuckle.

[@nikicrowe2768]

We’ve missed you!! So glad you’re back, but take all the time you need to recover. But seriously, missed your snarky comments on shows I would never watch!

[@cerealkillerrrrrr]

I thought the last seasons were bad, now it just feels morally wrong for this show to even exist. Real people are experiencing terrible consequences getting engaged to complete strangers. Not to mention the poor kids who were abandoned 😢 these people are so desperate to get married. I don’t even think it’s about love at all anymore, they just love the idea of marriage that’s why they overlook so many red flags

[@chelscara]

53:00 NOT DAD'S DRAFT PICK 😭😭😭😭😭😭 these poor damn kids. that poor damn Ashley

[@youcancallme_nats]

Glad you gathered the strength to record this! Hope you recover soon ✨✨✨✨

[@panfluff]

So happy to see you back and I hope that recovery is going well so far! ❤ Have you watched the show Our Flag Means Death yet? If not…ERIC. It’s SO GOOD.

[@diefraudietz]

I missed you ❤

[@tigeygirl]

I hope you feel better soon. 💐

[@Beelilium]

I’ve been WAITING for this one !

[@dollblades]

whats better than laying in bed and watching the trashiest tv! i hope your recovery goes well!

[@hamdialihassan1048]

I think Ramses is a narcissist. In the pods & in Cabo, she had nothing to distract her so she was able to be all over him and he loved it cause he thinks the world revolves around him. But then they come home and she’s got a job & school and sometimes she’s gonna be on her period and not wanna be all over him like she usually is and he just could not handle that and I’ll bet he’s gonna run into this problem with whomever he dates because this shit is pretty universal. Ppl got jobs, and monthly periods and energy that’s not always super high. I swear I feel so embarassed. This feels exactly like season 4 Jackelina, I loved both of them and thought they were super great and then they do something foolish to embarass me. This show is a mess.

[@jennifer-pm6ql]

Hope you recover well

[@asarishepard8171]

It feels like most of these people came on to give soneone false hope then break them apart on tv, probably for mental revenge on being dumped in the past 😂 its really disgusting.

[@perdybirdie]

I think it's more so clout and free sex (literally what Stephen said)

[@nikeish]

@@perdybirdiehahahaha “free sex” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@beckybertish7841]

Damn that sounds rough take care of yourself. I do wonder the vetting process for the show..too..

[@chelscara]

24:57 No yeah, I got the feeling that she wanted to dump him day one but just didn't want to be the one doing the dumping (or being the 'bad guy') meanwhile she made herself out to be one of The Bad Guys for the season. Only ones worse are Tyler and Stephen. Oh god wait Ramses. So many awful people this season 😭😭

[@cheffanie1752]

You are my new favorite 😍 Love the hat !!!!

[@notamberp]

um justice for Marissa?! She does NOT suck ass! She seems just lovely and doesn’t deserve that, especially after what she was put through with Ramses’ stupid ass.

[@GirlyEnglishGamer]

Erm. She's a bit...childish. In a not so cute way. I mean she learned about patriarchy through the Barbie movie. At over 30. Come on. Also it was VERY obvious that Ramses wasn't that into her. How can one be so delusional at such a mature age ? Marissa is like a woman-child. I don't know why she's like that but yeah. She doesn't suck ass but she's really not all quite there. She acted like an 18 year old.

[@chelscara]

look, as a queer person, we have a hard time liking anyone that's "to each their own" about politics and dates people that want us dead because its just a "difference of opinion", at least that's how I look at it

[@jennifer-pm6ql]

I’m glad for this video, cause I tried watching this season for myself,and I couldn’t make it pass the second episode. I couldn’t be paid to watch the whole season

[@AutumnOddity]

Perfect timing for my hot girl walk ✨ also all those surgeries sound like a nightmare I’m so sorry

[@MisaoM]

hmmmm I feel like you're a bit too harsh with Marissa, although I agree she is a bit too child-like in her approach of many relevant issues

[@vampirasilents2021]

Hope you recover well. Take care. You do a good job with your videos. A lot of the couples were pretty odd. I agree with your title, but I like seeing people talk about the shows on KZbin; it's pretty cool seeing all the different opinions. Also, Ramses did not surprise me; self-proclaimed male feminists are pretty terrible. I liked his creativity style but was not surprised he ended up being a jerk.

[@serenityq26]

not an excuse if its true.......i couldnt handle marissa for more than five seconds. how he lasted this long is beyond me.

[@serenityq26]

that was NOT her friend, thats hannah's brother.

[@EB-li3tm]

Sending you well wishes dear❤❤

[@observer5864]

Thanks, I liked getting a recap❤

[@MadGodLA]

I exclusively watch Love is Blind through you because I refuse to support the Lachey’s but I will 1000% support your content

[@Madiverso]

Fav boy for this evening

[@lindaw66]

I’m done watching this show. Yes this show needs to be canceled because of its irresponsible production. No vetting putting people at risk. We want happy endings not this stupid drama. Done!! The premise is a failure.

[@hmurchison8123]

Therapist LOVE the show. Where else can you see a curated list of people with Personality Disorders try to find love?

[@Zoe___oOooo]

Get well soon 🫶🏼

[@lasmapoisa]

Please look after yourself and take it easy.

[@giantwoman4958]

I'm glad you're back!!! I wish well on your healing:) Personally, I think asking for the parents' permission is some gross out of date hetro tradition. I think it is a soical normal that probably dates back to Victorian times of "true" womanhood and manhood bs. 🤢

[@MaybeitsclusterB]

I don't think Ramses deserves to be in the Hall of Devils but Marissa does 😂. The Ramses/sex thing felt like we were only seeing part of the story and yep, turns out thats true. Ramses felt very disconnected from Marissa and it wasnt about sex. LIB really will edit things to completely change all the context. I dunno, something is off with Marissaa. And then Marissa sat up there defending Hannah at the reunion and we saw her true colors. Look at Marissa's Mom. How could Marissa be okay?

[@nichellec.1752]

No, not a thing. Not all areas of law are lucrative. My salary as a lawyer was so low that I qualified for low income housing. Left after 2 years.

[@exmoextra13]

I agree with you about hannah and nick

[@randycurry1570]

Was it a thong or was it his mic?

[@LeahB31]

His mic pack was black and his underwear was red or something.

[@mundanepants]

Would his mic have been strapped between his butt cheeks?

[@summerintherockies9530]

Lielyer so thirsty for a wife he’s thrown away those kids. Let’s not celebrate deadbeat dads, as there’s too much trauma & mental anguish for the kids.

[@TravelSeets]

I would love your reaction to vanderpump rules

[@pinkimietz3243]

I trusted my dad deeply and he knew me the best. If he (he never did) would have said no to one if my boyfriends I would have listen to him. Sure he didn't like every last one of the freaks I've dated but a clear no? I would have listened to him. Ah frook I miss him.

[@lasmapoisa]

Finally!

[@FRADAVE02]

Ashley and Tyler?? It doesn't get more Millennial than that!!

[@cheerfulsatanist]

I think something that no one really gave Nick props for at least as far as what made it to the screen is the fact that she was willing to talk all that stuff about their sex slave find his back to a SOMEONE ELSE, so not even like a private couple conversation, even when he said he did not want that to happen, but he never did that to her he didn't talk about their sex life to anyone like that... And we all know that potentially anything he said about their sex life or about her that was sexual in nature could easily bring about really gross backlash on her because, woman+sex=slut! Put overall when it came to her family yes I think she wanted it to have them basically verify and validate all of her complaints against him but I think there was a secondary reason she did that and it's the same one we see her do with everyone else pretty much where and she essentially almost looks for situations in which there is a possibility of someone basically being sexist towards her or oppressing her in any way whatsoever, so she has an excuse to roll out the boss b**** Hannah mode. I need me totally see her do it when she states and announces to him that know him meeting her family actually meant nothing to her because their opinions mean nothing and she's the one in charge of her life it's her opinion and she's going to decide who she's with and what they say it doesn't have any standing. A healthy relationship with their parents (not the case here but that's beside the point, her entire family seems mildly afraid of her) probably would consider their opinion to a degree. But as usual she was super excited to announce just how much she didn't care what they thought to a degree that was almost kind of offensive, like they too were not on equal footing with her.

[@MissDebbieSue123]

Maybe Nick doesn't want to go to the all-you-can-eat Friday night Fish buffet. Just sayin.

[@JustaMomThatSims]

Great video. This season was horrible.

[@scatterbrain_jane]

Ah, 2016. I also had no idea about Trump back then. But I am Canadian and was not voting for him. I recently learned, however, that that lunatic has been off and on running for prez since '88.

[@Tinadoll95]

Exactly She really is an immature child!!

[@gigimc]

it's just bad acting all around... even that 'controversial ex-text' they made up for 'tension' seemed so contrived & forced... meh, just enjoy the ride... not worth getting caught up into

[@habeashumor9814]

Don't include Hannah in your thumbnail without also including Nick. He sucks too.

[@hellopeople6138]

He sucked... she was abusive

[@haileyporter-jx5gv]

Trump isn’t that bad. I have no issues saying I’m voting for him. It’s a free country.

[@hellopeople6138]

it's a free country but that doesnt mean you are doing the right thing. Project 2025 plans to cut funding to FEMA (the people who help citizens after natural disasters) He said openly he'd get rid of the constitution. He hates America. Be patriotic and dont vote for a man who only cares about himself, not the people of America

[@jcrotti7133]

it would piss me off if someone didn't put in the effort for my family , didn't help to cook or clean and then went to take a nap , that is not working together , it is a red flag . What happens in this show is the guys don't know how to communicate their doubts or differences. They are worried, and maybe rightly so , that the majority female audience is looking for any excuse to come down on them like a ton of bricks. So when they have 'difficult' feelings , like anger , or frustration , or doubt , or confusion they burry them. So as not to risk looking messy or angry or mean or stupid . Then the feeling gets too strong to ignore , the damn breaks and it's over . See Tim , Ramses and Steven. This show is a female relationship porn. Most of the guys know the deal and they play along with it as best they can until they can't any more. Then the audience turns on them anyway. It's hunger games for couples . The women need to take responsibility for their own delusions as much as the guys do for not speaking what is on their hearts . These issues are ingrained in our societies. Hashtag justicefornick , hashtag taylorandgarretforver