love is blind and clay is not seeing heaven (neither is his dad)

  Рет қаралды 71,174

shay a

shay a

Күн бұрын

Пікірлер: 288
@lila_zr
@lila_zr 10 ай бұрын
clay talking abt him cheating like it’s HEREDITARY. i couldn’t stand him
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
Yeah like....maybe don't do it? Its not that hard. I get he saw bad examples first hand but his dad does not make him act like him. Thats a choice.
@thatguy2nice
@thatguy2nice 10 ай бұрын
I was taught it is hereditary.(One of many Generational Cycles)
@karma.chameleon
@karma.chameleon 10 ай бұрын
@@thatguy2nicegenerational cycles can be broken if you put in the effort. You inherit the history, not the destiny.
@MissKashira
@MissKashira 10 ай бұрын
@@thatguy2nice It's not as direct as that. It's more like people who have traumatic childhoods are more likely to make poor life choices. She should have asked him if he's cheated in every relationship he's been in. If the answer is yes, she can be as certain she's gonna get cheated on as she would an alcoholic is gonna keep drinking. If you have childhood trauma and instead of going to therapy and working on yourself, you harm everyone you come in contact with, then that's no longer your parents fault. There is a point where it's on you to do better. I'm betting Chelsea is the hot mess she is due to childhood trauma. AD admits she chases after red flags like they are gonna sell out tomorrow because of her own childhood trauma. If you can identify and articulate why you're a hot mess, then you should also be able to articulate what you're doing to get yourself together rather than running these streets being messy.
@Rtp174
@Rtp174 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@syndiwashere5821
@syndiwashere5821 10 ай бұрын
After he said “ok body” I knew he was going to say no to her
@itsniquenique45
@itsniquenique45 10 ай бұрын
Lmaooooo that’s a damn shame
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Lmaooo why!? How so?
@Rogueviewer1
@Rogueviewer1 10 ай бұрын
Never heard a straight man say that! That’s a girlie/gay bestie thing to say
@melarie205
@melarie205 10 ай бұрын
literally its disrespectful idc
@jess-rob
@jess-rob 10 ай бұрын
first thing when she’s finally up the aisle 😭😭 crazy
@pixcaine
@pixcaine 10 ай бұрын
"There's nothing he could've told me or shown me that would've changed my answer" is CRAZY.. AD needs to focus on herself fr, it's so sad how much she's willing to take from that bum
@SuzanneIYN
@SuzanneIYN 10 ай бұрын
When I heard that, I went “ooop girl that’s….not good” lol I hope she realizes she was in love with the idea of being married, not Clay himself
@pixcaine
@pixcaine 10 ай бұрын
@@SuzanneIYN I had to pause for a second after she said it like girl pleaseee stand up 😭 and 100% agree, i'm honestly just grateful clay put an end to this madness
@kayleemariee239
@kayleemariee239 10 ай бұрын
seriously seems like a wonderful woman, i hope one day she sees how much she deserves the way we do. clay is a pathetic excuse for a man.
@MissKashira
@MissKashira 10 ай бұрын
From any bum. Notice how the vast majority of women picked up that Matthew is likely dangerous and backed away and she walked towards the flame like she's incapable of feeling heat? It seems she doesn't think very highly of herself and so she gravitates towards the bottom of the barrel. But these guys are on the bottom for a good reason. Leave them there.
@lanceareadbhar
@lanceareadbhar 10 ай бұрын
It's sad, but she really does think she could fix him so anything he said or did would have been fixed after they were married getting the help he needed while she stood by him as his wife. She could have ended up exactly like Clay's Mom if he had said yes.
@leishajones9037
@leishajones9037 10 ай бұрын
They probably had the old man bachelor party bc they knew clay would cheat if he was out drinking lmao
@shayayy
@shayayy 10 ай бұрын
lmaooo you’re right
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Hey that would’ve made for good reality TV why you playin😂😂😂
@wizardress
@wizardress 10 ай бұрын
clay really smiled in her face and her families face just to do her like that at the alter. WHY HE AINT DO THIS EARLIER
@Shlagayaga
@Shlagayaga 10 ай бұрын
he wanted to make sure that she said yes to him so he wouldn’t be rejected
@MeretSeger
@MeretSeger 10 ай бұрын
yes, this feels sadistic@@Shlagayaga
@san_and
@san_and 10 ай бұрын
dude acts like he was born to cheat and everyday is a battle between him and the evil cheating spirit in his heart fuck outta here with the anime plot line
@deborah.s.nelsonauthor-boo4684
@deborah.s.nelsonauthor-boo4684 10 ай бұрын
I think he’s cheating right now!
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Everyday might be a battle for him to be faithful. Ex-cheater here speaking. Try not to be misunderstanding your whole life.
@ceeceeriderbaby
@ceeceeriderbaby 10 ай бұрын
The cheating spirit 😭 girl get out
@san_and
@san_and 10 ай бұрын
@@terrycrews1760 i’ve never been in that position so fair enough if it’s like that however from the way he speaks it sounds as if he hasn’t cheated before he seems to think it’s inevitable because of his father and role models which on one hand i can see as an influence but he’s also awfully aware to the point that he could just, you know, not cheat and end the cycle. also if it’s such a struggle coming on to a show knowingly where people are getting married straight away expecting a committed relationship when mentally you’re not prepared for that is irresponsible 🤷🏻‍♀️
@raydragerns3657
@raydragerns3657 10 ай бұрын
Anime plot line I am screaming.
@MichellaneousMe
@MichellaneousMe 10 ай бұрын
I feel like Clay auditioned to be casted for a singles show like Too Hot to Handle or Love Island, but didn't meet the criteria and instead Netflix put him in LIB. I hear that happens quite often
@xlovatoswag
@xlovatoswag 10 ай бұрын
the way clay's dad started crying to rita as if he didnt cheat on her for nearly 20 years is CRAAAAZY, and im so glad she stood up for herself. she seems like such a genuine, kind, wise woman & i love how she showed so much respect for AD kind of like she knows her son is just like his father. she seemed to want to protect AD's heart, even to the point of telling clay do not do this to this girl if you're not 100% in. she's a real one
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
Clays dad sounded like he was coaching him in a game. Just very non helpful and not trying. I saw disappointment on clays face that looked normal with an interaction with his dad. Its so very sad. My dad died when i was young but i was close to him and remember him giving hugs and comforting me. Clays dad gave the most hands off approach ive seen .
@Yocyndie
@Yocyndie 10 ай бұрын
Clay:”I remember you told me” He definitely didn’t wanna hear that shit again
@GizmoGremlinDog
@GizmoGremlinDog 10 ай бұрын
When he started off saying that he used to beat clay in races, I thought he was going to turn that into clay being the winner in the end by being able to get married (and not cheat) but he literally gave nothing
@ngweso
@ngweso 10 ай бұрын
This is how many dads are actually. My dad isn’t a bum like clays, but sometimes he does speak like that. Many dads adpot that style of communication with their kids because that’s what their parents did with them, and the dynamics are heightened with black father-son relationships
@Alsomnia
@Alsomnia 10 ай бұрын
OMG I said the same thing to my sister. He sounded like he was coaching him through his first basketball game and not a wedding. He ain't shit.
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
@@GizmoGremlinDog yeah it sounded like a not so subtle humble brag in his own favor. Ok clays dad.
@nicole4779
@nicole4779 10 ай бұрын
“Clay talks about cheating like he has a chronic illness” is THE BEST description 😂
@tae7x
@tae7x 10 ай бұрын
"is being single really that bad?" i think this all the time omg. people would rather be unhappy with someone who doesn't want them than spend 2 seconds alone... 😩 side note, you are literally so pretty wow
@deen1894
@deen1894 10 ай бұрын
Clay got on THIS BIG TV and told all of us he GON CHEAT. 😊
@urm0ther1
@urm0ther1 10 ай бұрын
“this man is giving Legion” STOPPPP😭😭😭
@FishareFriendsNotFood972
@FishareFriendsNotFood972 10 ай бұрын
Love that you pointed out that Jimmy is real comfortable painting Chelsea as crazy and blaming her for everything, that man is slippery. Chelsea is no saint, but Jimmy couldn't ever say any of the dysfunction was his fault. I know men like that, they love to trigger insecurities in other people and then endlessly blame shift to make themselves look like the hapless good guy.
@hockeygrrlmuse
@hockeygrrlmuse 6 ай бұрын
Yes!! Those 2 were making each other's insecurities and fear of vulnerability WORSE all the time!! They were incapable of working together to drive the relationship, they were constantly letting go of the steering wheel to let the other frantically try to get in control again.
@gigiarmany
@gigiarmany 10 ай бұрын
NOT Clay proposing to AD : will you take my "lovely "hand in marriage🤣🤯
@a1xndria
@a1xndria 10 ай бұрын
That gave me the ick lolll
@charleewilliams7367
@charleewilliams7367 10 ай бұрын
It’s kinda of funny that the boring relationship it’s exactly a genuine one
@katchike
@katchike 10 ай бұрын
finding out AD was with clay last thanksgiving was…disappointing
@heaven001ln
@heaven001ln 10 ай бұрын
What? I still don’t believe it. She really needs to be far away from him because he’ll never be serious since he only sees her as ‘body’, the audacity….
@emberpupp
@emberpupp 10 ай бұрын
Omg AD please STAND UPPPPP
@cutecupcake627
@cutecupcake627 10 ай бұрын
NOOH🥶😨😰
@nathaniahenry141
@nathaniahenry141 10 ай бұрын
I just hope they stayed friends and that's it
@aprilmichelle3543
@aprilmichelle3543 10 ай бұрын
" Bodyyyyy"​ walking down the aisle. Not omg this is it. I was so mad. @tokyo204
@brizzyvoices
@brizzyvoices 10 ай бұрын
I know most reasonable people have the same takes on all of these situations but you’re the only LIB KZbinr I’ve watched so far who literally takes the WORDS out of my mouth so tysm and I subbed so fast.
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Bruhhh what!?! Wow 2MM subs and commenting on a smaller channel and subbing. That’s what’s up!
@tokofukawa4654
@tokofukawa4654 10 ай бұрын
BRIZZY???
@f.d.5173
@f.d.5173 10 ай бұрын
idk why AD is upset, girl the bullet swerved around you, we need to raise our standards for men
@Frog-hd7sw
@Frog-hd7sw 10 ай бұрын
Because until you have stepped back. And looked at the bigger picture. You can’t see how much a person has fucked you over. Especially when you’re stuck on the fact they fucked you over. She’s smart. She’ll realize she’s a whole ass package deal
@edamame6363
@edamame6363 10 ай бұрын
i think she has a pattern of measuring her worth in how much she can fix another person. She felt like she wasn’t able to fix Clay enough in the time they had until the wedding and to her that means she was not enough for him because she wasnt able to magically eradicate all of his issues. I think what she did for him was great, he literally said he was going go start therapy which is huge. I’m glad they did not get married because the therapist dynamic is not healthy. I hope Clay really does go to therapy and work on himself.
@markeyalee
@markeyalee 10 ай бұрын
@@Frog-hd7swshe needs to see how she messed herself over. How many time did he have to say he wasn’t ready in so many words? Every time he said the smallest thing she fawned over him instead of actually listening to what the bell he was saying
@Hale8R
@Hale8R 10 ай бұрын
@@markeyaleeThis 💯 AD needs to step back, take time out and heal herself with therapy. She really needs to learn all the ways she self sabotages her own choices and attracts F boys.
@Frog-hd7sw
@Frog-hd7sw 7 ай бұрын
@@markeyalee denial. If you keep denying the truth. Then your lie you use to shield the truth becomes your truth. Unless you notice the denial and stop that shit.
@coffejeliy
@coffejeliy 10 ай бұрын
AD is the most gorgeous and thoughtful person ive seen on this show like not just her looks but her style and emotional intelligence... like im gay panicking over her so bad
@coffejeliy
@coffejeliy 10 ай бұрын
seeing her cry made me sad and angy like clay chilling on the corner while she weeps istg men are useless
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Thoughtful but not thinking clear headed enough apparently. We all know where this was headed. Everyone but her which was crazy.
@coffejeliy
@coffejeliy 10 ай бұрын
@@terrycrews1760 yeahh true
@toujourstiffany
@toujourstiffany 10 ай бұрын
Johnny and his one friend are probably in a much better spot mentally. Let’s keep in mind these “friends” of Clay are the same ones he said are all cheaters… quality over quantity.
@TheThe-sn1wc
@TheThe-sn1wc 10 ай бұрын
Thats a lot of assuming
@Frog-hd7sw
@Frog-hd7sw 10 ай бұрын
@@TheThe-sn1wc😭😭clay legit said it. Wtf you mean
@TheThe-sn1wc
@TheThe-sn1wc 10 ай бұрын
@@Frog-hd7sw i mean johnny and his one friend being so much better mentally….what lol u guys think ur psychocologists
@toujourstiffany
@toujourstiffany 10 ай бұрын
@@TheThe-sn1wcreading is fundamental, glance at the comment again, note the word probably and then reflect on the comprehension of it…
@TheThe-sn1wc
@TheThe-sn1wc 10 ай бұрын
@@toujourstiffany yes ms unlicensced professional.....probably is still making an assumption. The way u talk like u know those people is embarrassing. take ur own advice and dislodge ur head from ur own behind
@emberpupp
@emberpupp 10 ай бұрын
Clay is like one of the top 3 worst men on this show and I stand by that. Yes his father’s behavior definitely influenced him, the infidelity trips probably traumatized him, but he’s a GROWNNNN MAN and can make better decisions but chooses not to. Instead he puts it all on AD and fucks her over. I hope AD recovered and stops trying to go after men who are fix it projects, bc they’re never gonna be fixed unless they want to fix themself. Happy for Johnny and Amy tho I still hate Clay lol
@senselesslibraa
@senselesslibraa 10 ай бұрын
this terrible bloodline of men keeps blaming each other for their issues like they don't have free will and control over their actions omfg
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Some of y’all are incredibly naive and possibly even stupid if you don’t think your family’s past don’t affect your future. It may not be a matter of genetics but as far as lack of healthy behavioral models history is typically bound to repeat itself. This has happened over and over again, not just throughout mankind but very much so in every single persons family who does not have good examples. It arguably is more common to repeat the terrible pattern than to break it. And some of yall be acting like therapy is God lmfao. Therapy does not heal a person who does not want to be healed. I’ve seen so many people in therapy still out here crazy af, no change. Too many of yall are reducing layers and layers of complexity.
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
@@terrycrews1760 i dunno, at some point you can take direction of your own actions. My father was a cocaine addict and died of overdose. Did I take any path to drugs in my life? No. I've never even smoked a cigarette. Cause first hand I know its bad for you!
@renreckless
@renreckless 10 ай бұрын
I feel for AD but she is delulu. And Clay was only on this show for CLOUT. He knows he's a good looking guy with his finances in order so it won't be hard for him to soak up all the fame and women. Im sure he planned to come on this show and never get married, regardless of whether or not he liked AD. I HATE THAT SARAANN AND JERAMY GOT A HAPPY ENDING 😭
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
I mean clearly trauma begets trauma. Look at AD chasing the 2 men who were screaming red flags. Is what it is.
@Isthisjoebiden
@Isthisjoebiden 10 ай бұрын
He is neither of those things. Bm even when they have money, are terrible partners and irresponsible
@StoryTimeEnthusiasts
@StoryTimeEnthusiasts 10 ай бұрын
I can’t lie, I skipped Johnny and Amy’s wedding on my first watch of the episode. But on the second watch I didn’t. And I could tell they were getting married by the little details at their wedding. It felt real.
@elenbispo2156
@elenbispo2156 10 ай бұрын
I skipped too 😅 I was 100% sure that they would marry so I decided to save my time 😂 but i'll back to watch bc they're cute
@hockeygrrlmuse
@hockeygrrlmuse 6 ай бұрын
I haven't even watched the show but just by the way the guests were sitting & smiling you could tell there was no doubt that both of the couple would say yes and that they were really at a true wedding not some fucked up stage for drama.
@kelci9452
@kelci9452 10 ай бұрын
Ethical non-monogamy is RIGHT THERE, but Clay would rather be in a position where he could cheat on his partner. Wild.
@brittuniverse
@brittuniverse 10 ай бұрын
Dying at your reaction when he said "Ok Body" That was CRAaaazyyyyyyy 😆😆
@amigdalies
@amigdalies 10 ай бұрын
literally celebrated when clay said no, i’m just hoping my girl finally sees what we see and realizes that rejection was a blessing 😭
@PlanetHertz
@PlanetHertz 10 ай бұрын
As a Nigerian girl and a lover of CLAY SLANDER, this is my new favorite video ❤
@myman2930
@myman2930 10 ай бұрын
Clay is clearly someone that’s not suited for marriage. It’s clear that he’s not ready to get settled, which is dumb bc that completely disregards the point of the show
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
I thought the point of the show was to make it to the alter and hopefully get married but announce right then and there if you want to or not. Is that understood between everyone or is everyone supposed to say yes?
@dkblue317
@dkblue317 10 ай бұрын
Not the F boy dad giving a horrible pep talk.
@Rtp174
@Rtp174 10 ай бұрын
How do you know you are gonna already cheat on someone before you even start a relationship with??🤦🏽‍♀️THIS IS SICKENING
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
Yeah he sounds like if you slip on the floor you'll fall on a woman and cheat. It's not that hard not to!
@jackeeB
@jackeeB 10 ай бұрын
I trust someone has told Chelsea that she's annoying and manipulative. But, as we have witnessed, Chelsea fails to listen , has no self awareness and has no sense of reality.
@asarishepard8171
@asarishepard8171 10 ай бұрын
Chelsea never grew up, she acts like she's in 6th grade. I agree, relationships shouldn't have to be an every day warzone. Theres hard times and then theres picking a fight every day. Girl bye. She has to be comfortable with being alone. Ive been alone many years in my life, its not terrible!
@panamarubia1283
@panamarubia1283 10 ай бұрын
THIS!!! Every SINGLE DAY she had a damn issue with him. It was just the craziest shyt to me!
@ccxcrazy
@ccxcrazy 10 ай бұрын
Clay is trying to pass the blame for cheating before he even cheats. Then he can say i told you so. BOY BYE
@annieothername
@annieothername 10 ай бұрын
Whoa, had to pause for a second because this look knocked me outside my head. Absolutely gorgeous! now that I had that good energy sink in, lemme get ready to cuss Clay out with the girls
@annieothername
@annieothername 10 ай бұрын
Clay’s only act of maturity was saying no because he is not ready for a relationship. But it was an act of cruelty to go into that room with her crying and whining at her. Like you said, Clay and AD her modeling his father and Rita to the tee. I hope AD sees how she broke from that cycle.
@Mindylovealfaro
@Mindylovealfaro 10 ай бұрын
NOTHING?? AD😭😭😭😭😭 nothing he could’ve said?! Girl what if he said he had a BAAAD criminal record😭😭 outstanding debt😭😭
@jerrybarry3148
@jerrybarry3148 10 ай бұрын
Jimmy was telling Jess at the point they broke up in the pods, she was still his #1 at that point in time
@faultlessaesthetics
@faultlessaesthetics 10 ай бұрын
Crying screaming AND THROWING UP watching AD backtrack on everything she said in the beginning 😭😭 I know Matt was equally a POS but in an alternate universe I really would like to know how they turn out 😮
@MK-gv1wd
@MK-gv1wd 10 ай бұрын
Clay kept hinting about his red flags. And AD kind of kept ignoring them. I think she was hoping all his warnings were just him babbling. But also: he should have not gotten this far with her. I hope AD is doing well and welllll. Clay…. Whatever I guess Chelsea and Jimmy were a nightmare together. They both sucked. Johnny and Amy I hope are still together. They seemed good together.
@chibaby800
@chibaby800 10 ай бұрын
I've been thinking of the fact that Sarah Anne was definitely laughing lmaoooo. she probably was like "next time girl, mind your damn business"
@AllureALERT
@AllureALERT 10 ай бұрын
The way Clay wanted AD to say yes only to embarrass her like that 😢
@blunt3862
@blunt3862 10 ай бұрын
"i love her because she loves me" hit the nail on the head!!! P.s because it's still early in the comments and you may see this...girl you are fineeeee as hell!!! 😅
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Dude said “I’m not that guy!” All giddy and everything lmaooo. Bruh if that (amongst many) wasn’t a tell tell sign. He said that in present tense 😂😂😂
@Alexis.Morgan_YT
@Alexis.Morgan_YT 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for calling out Chelsea’s manipulative tendencies!!! The “one” problem/ argument was crazzzzyyy because she really truly does not see the overview of the situation! Also I feel like in the episode where she blurted it out… yes- wrong he slept with her but she is still friends with the ex so argument null and void. The fact that she and I feel like most people -glossed over the fact that she betrayed his trust and outed someone’s sex life who DID NOT sign up to film a reality tv show like Chelsea did is fucked up plain and simple-and says a lot about who Chelsea is. That girl did not consent and sign the contracts to have her love life out there, and for Chelsea to not grasp how that was a major issue/ violation of trust and RED flag for anyone in a relationship. The trust was broken and that’s huge. How do you marry someone you don’t trust? And chileeee I don’t even care for Jimmy like that but I loveeeeeeeeed how he ended it. Having me root for a man… gross. 😂
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
Yes it’s fucked up to announce Jimmy and his friends secret but cmon are you really gonna act like they’re not just as equally stupid??! Lmao knowing they had sex, Jimmy knowing that Chelsea was a fire cracker, bipolar, loose lipped cannon, still had the nerve to tell this woman he’s only know for 2 yrs, to meet her anyway!!! Lmaoo I think they all got what they deserved.
@princesshirelle
@princesshirelle 10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 they sent the men to play corn hole in the wilderness cuz these weddings are hanging on by a thread they couldn’t put them in a situation that they could mess nothing up
@A-N99-2
@A-N99-2 10 ай бұрын
Lmao you know Mr. Lachey organized that like “mmhm this is what you’re doing guys” 😅Mrs. Vanessa Lachey like “get it ladiessss!” 😂
@emmjay22
@emmjay22 10 ай бұрын
Hi Shay! Just recently found your channel and am loving your content for LIB. As a fellow Aussie I found it so endearing to hear the accent slip on "so scared" 😆
@Anne1000.
@Anne1000. 10 ай бұрын
Omg… just because you see your friends, parents or whoever cheating, doesn’t mean you should choose that path. This guy is full of it and so is his nasty father!! His poor mom.. nobody deserves that life.
@earthworm11
@earthworm11 10 ай бұрын
you’re so well-spoken and beautiful! i love your commentary,,, looking forward to future content i luv these love is blind vids LMAO
@marianagoncalves3529
@marianagoncalves3529 10 ай бұрын
"This man is giving Legion" 😭
@80soa
@80soa 10 ай бұрын
Clay got daddy issues, women need to get better at noticing that. Some ppl are addicted to struggle love and they will self sabotage everytime for it.
@harpazoseason
@harpazoseason 10 ай бұрын
This is the best review channel. I love that you watch it with us.
@user-jo3pt1pt4w
@user-jo3pt1pt4w 10 ай бұрын
I love the color you have on sooo much! So pretty
@facroeyreset
@facroeyreset 10 ай бұрын
honestly id LOVEE to see you collab w/Aaron & Jo for the reunion special!! you three would be so funny
@PrettyPolyInPink
@PrettyPolyInPink 10 ай бұрын
Clay talks about cheating LIKE HE CHEATS!! He been a cheater, but blames his dad like it’s genetic.
@emilyeholley
@emilyeholley 10 ай бұрын
“Not cheating isn’t hard. Literally just… don’t.” 😂😂😂 FR tho preach!!
@Alexis-wp7tf
@Alexis-wp7tf 10 ай бұрын
Clay does not know who he is. Idk if its because his dad seems to be living through his son and but then the trauma of seeing his father be a terrible person to his mother but I couldn't help but notice that every conversation he had with AD he was talking in circles of wanting to be a better person but then also not believing he can or he is. And AD also has self esteem issues. There is no reason for a relationship to end and then you automatically connect it to your self worth. They both need help.
@Frog-hd7sw
@Frog-hd7sw 10 ай бұрын
If my man when I come down that god damn isle to MARRY him. And he says “body” I’m turning around. It’s always been ad’s body he liked. And ate up how much she loved him and wouldn’t give up for him.
@jellycatnati
@jellycatnati 10 ай бұрын
oh i’ve been waiting for this
@PantsOHara
@PantsOHara 10 ай бұрын
You are actually my inner monologue while I was watching this I stg.
@PixelPlasm
@PixelPlasm 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this series up I haven't laughed out loud at a video, a long form KZbin video, in a hot minute! I love your takes and your energy 👏💌 can't wait to see your reunion videooo
@chelscara
@chelscara 10 ай бұрын
20:54 girl, that was the problem 😭 hope she goes to therapy and learns to love herself and how to have standards, she deserves a good relationship
@florence55999
@florence55999 10 ай бұрын
Maybe Clay need to be in an open relationship or he needs to be polyamorous. Not everyone needs to be monogamous. I find it weird when people say they are afraid to cheat. Either you're not meant to be monogamous then or you're with the wrong partner. Or you're a selfish person who want to have your cake and eat it too.
@aoki556
@aoki556 10 ай бұрын
ad needa dose of some self esteem :( cause that last thing she said was CRAZY
@harpazoseason
@harpazoseason 10 ай бұрын
Lmaooooooo "I rebuke it!"
@geminimademoiselle3261
@geminimademoiselle3261 10 ай бұрын
Jimmy is weird for asking Chelsea if she wanted to be married only to reply he did not want to go to the altar… I d have gone first and allow her to save face on tv..
@nim5721
@nim5721 10 ай бұрын
i tried to pay attention to what you were saying. i really did, but your hair just looks so pretty and i couldn't focus on anything else 😭
@myRedSockIsAwesome
@myRedSockIsAwesome 10 ай бұрын
Girl you look stunningggg
@ebonih7138
@ebonih7138 10 ай бұрын
My stupid ass thought Clay would say yes and cheat/leave after the show 😂 I thought he cared too much about his image to be the villain like he was…man really really don’t care! But devils advocate: the producers always need at least 2 weddings because we already knew what Amy and Blonde Man would do.
@geode5224
@geode5224 10 ай бұрын
I don’t watch this show but I loooooove the recaps and man… I really can’t stand clay fr. “he’s traumatized” yeah so am I, so are plenty of other people: it doesn’t excuse being a POS. man needs therapy before he ATTEMPTS a relationship, work on yourself boy baby. GOD.
@terrycrews1760
@terrycrews1760 10 ай бұрын
What do you mean you don’t watch the show but yet you on here listening to peoples opinions on matters you never seen for yourself?! Lmao so you just out here believing whatever people say smh. Ima have to call red flag on that behavior as well.
@Opinions567
@Opinions567 10 ай бұрын
AD's problem is that she was leading with her body and ability to carry a man through that. He only sees my body and he will trip on others but she was willing to build him into loving her
@liebeswag
@liebeswag 10 ай бұрын
i had to watch bc the title & 2 seconds in im already loving u!!
@kimikkomitchell687
@kimikkomitchell687 10 ай бұрын
I'm so happy I found this channel! Love your commentary🤗
@HarperSophia
@HarperSophia 10 ай бұрын
I fookin snorted at you going, "Am I husband?". dieeddd
@duckquack7191
@duckquack7191 10 ай бұрын
Girl seriously you are SO funny 😂
@lunalovegoat
@lunalovegoat 10 ай бұрын
not your camera dying just so you could flex on us recording on your phone, proving you have no bad angles, girl..
@chloeroberts5600
@chloeroberts5600 10 ай бұрын
This was so funny and you literally said everything I said while I was watching this 😂😂😂😂 Thank you for your videos! You have such a grounded and calming way about you. ❤❤
@Juatafriggggg
@Juatafriggggg 10 ай бұрын
LOL the legion comparison about clays dad
@gabriellestoddard3463
@gabriellestoddard3463 10 ай бұрын
Did Clay feel stupid because he regretted his response? Or did he feel stupid for putting AD through the whole experience?
@justdoit.86yearsago
@justdoit.86yearsago 10 ай бұрын
Probably felt stupid for being on this dumbass show
@sleepyenby4657
@sleepyenby4657 10 ай бұрын
I finally said ENOUGH and I am watching this video of this beautiful woman who keeps popping up on my home page
@shayayy
@shayayy 10 ай бұрын
hahaha hey 🥰
@sleepyenby4657
@sleepyenby4657 10 ай бұрын
@@shayayy heyyy 😍 EXCELLENT vid
@law11school11girly
@law11school11girly 9 ай бұрын
Love your hilarious personality & LOVE YOUR HAIR ❤❤❤
@KINGSOP2000
@KINGSOP2000 10 ай бұрын
“You’re in a tux and she’s in a wedding dress” is so good 😂🤣 like no way he thought they was just gon work it out (I hope that video of them together doesn’t make it tru 😅). Crazy how many people who are not ready for marriage went on a show for a girlfriend
@bdbdkbdbd
@bdbdkbdbd 10 ай бұрын
1st time viewer, ur cute but extra cute at 4:34 6:43 LOL 7:32 totally agree. clays dad just likes to hear himself talk im rocking wit you shay a, might check out ur other vids ❤
@heavenlychill2918
@heavenlychill2918 10 ай бұрын
Something about clay still calling Amber AD, DURING THEIR WEDDING, something didn’t feel right
@raydragerns3657
@raydragerns3657 10 ай бұрын
You had me at "y'all know me, I'm a wh*re". Subscribed.
@vampy7744
@vampy7744 10 ай бұрын
"This man is giving Legion" TOOK ME OUTTTT
@zarahilluminate
@zarahilluminate 10 ай бұрын
Girl I messed the whole first 30 seconds cus you are STUNNING!! 😍
@tdub226
@tdub226 10 ай бұрын
Lol you breaking into smooth criminal when Mama AS came out 😂😂😂
@blueblack3591
@blueblack3591 10 ай бұрын
Girl you look like a model
@aprilmichelle3543
@aprilmichelle3543 10 ай бұрын
Jimmy is so toxic! Wanting to protect his friend so she can move forward and have healthy relationships but Chelsea can't and she's supposed to be his wife? He did deserve it. She's a manipulator and annoying for sure, but he was never into it and superficial.
@wuraolasalawu9650
@wuraolasalawu9650 10 ай бұрын
Omg clay’s dad giving legion is exactly what I thought 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@panamarubia1283
@panamarubia1283 10 ай бұрын
Did Chelsea say ONE argument?!😂 And that he threw in the towel after ONE issue!!😂 Chelsea has me dead. She’s such a gaslighting drama queen!!👸🏼
@dthompson5234
@dthompson5234 10 ай бұрын
Erm what…. Just came across your channel and you must be the most beautiful person on the planet wtfff you literally look like an angel
@soul-deeplevel-up6179
@soul-deeplevel-up6179 10 ай бұрын
Jimmy is not a victim. And Chelsea is in therapy.
@lanceareadbhar
@lanceareadbhar 10 ай бұрын
I think Jimmy was a been jerk doing that break up with Chelsea after spending the day alone at the amusement park and after saying he was 100% confident she was her person at the end of the last episode, but of course they should not get married and Chelsea has a ton of issues as well. I'm definitely team "don't get married and both go to therapy for their separate issues".
@AandTay206
@AandTay206 10 ай бұрын
“Short King Sunday - LesssGO!” 😂
@officialc4820
@officialc4820 10 ай бұрын
I’m crying at the title 😂😂 because facts! lmfao
@adwoay2403
@adwoay2403 10 ай бұрын
Hahah Jimmy actually said “you were my first choice” not you are! If that clears up anything 😂. I had to rewatch it again looool
@sarahfara1539
@sarahfara1539 10 ай бұрын
Somehow this hasn't come up in their conversations at all or they didn't show it but I'm wondering... Clay keeps using his father as a reason why he's so scared of not being able to stay loyal, but a far more interesting question would be - since I'm assuming he HAS been in other relationships before at his age - if he ever actually cheated HIMSELF in one of these previous RS. This would be a much bigger indicator of him cheating in the future than what his father did. Like, did she even ask him that?
@zarahilluminate
@zarahilluminate 10 ай бұрын
My exact comments “more struggle love bs, get off my screen”
@LexieListens52
@LexieListens52 10 ай бұрын
“Not the charcoochie!”💀
love is blind and men are scary
40:36
shay a
Рет қаралды 60 М.
Cat mode and a glass of water #family #humor #fun
00:22
Kotiki_Z
Рет қаралды 42 МЛН
Quilt Challenge, No Skills, Just Luck#Funnyfamily #Partygames #Funny
00:32
Family Games Media
Рет қаралды 55 МЛН
Что-что Мурсдей говорит? 💭 #симбочка #симба #мурсдей
00:19
the evil boyfriends of Blair Waldorf
52:40
shay a
Рет қаралды 181 М.
I Quit Therapy
16:31
Fictional Adulting
Рет қаралды 1 М.
liars and cheaters finally EXPOSED on Love is Blind UK
19:43
the most unhinged teen show to ever exist: MTV's AWKWARD.
1:34:11
Why My Scene is Messier than I Remember
25:18
Can of Beanie
Рет қаралды 269 М.
the cast of love is blind have lost the plot...…..
22:55
Cat mode and a glass of water #family #humor #fun
00:22
Kotiki_Z
Рет қаралды 42 МЛН