Love Language: Quality Time

[@stephaniemccracken4850]

My boyfriend and I live and work in neighboring cities so we only see each other twice a week. We start each meeting with a long intense hug, then about an hour of talking. Then we eat together, play a game or watch a movie. When we are watching the movie, full on cuddling is happening. There are no phones or distractions. It is our sacred time and its such a wonderful time that goes so quickly we try to be veru present. I look forward to us moving in together someday but the days i get to see him are precious. Its building a strong foundation where we never take each other for granted.

[@mayaleela7749]

As an addition I'd say any verbal communication on desire / excitement on spending time together also really makes me feel loved. For example: I miss you Looking forward to spend time with you Can't wait to hold you in my arms again

[@vanessaandxander]

Those are great additions! Thanks for sharing Maya.

[@ashleyching5786]

3:19 start

[@mkmcu66]

You both are so awesome & open. Just love how you really interact with each other....

[@vanessaandxander]

Aw thank you Mitzi! Thanks for watching!!

[@soothingsounds4659]

I'm 24 yrs old just learn my love language is quality time. This helped so much and gave so much clarity. You guys are a beautiful couple. Thank you so much for this.

[@Play-jv3oi]

Are you a man?

[@postnatalmotcoach1006]

This is where I am I’ve asked to not take calls during our dinner together for example and my partner says it’s ok to

[@geno5169]

My wife and I look forward to sit down and have a cup of coffee together. And after every dinner we clean up . She wash the dishes . I dry. I also wait for her to come out of the shower.for years I’ve offered to dry her back. I get turned butt lol . We two girls

[@KrisyKreme]

These are so helpful 💖 thank you guys

[@vanessaandxander]

You're so welcome! Thanks for watching!

[@leighannallmon608]

This is my wifes love language and I feel like I am the complete opposite, but I am working on this so we can feel more connected.

[@martincardenas4215]

Yo how's it going after your comment? I need to get on learning the love languages and see what I need to work on. I need to catch up on the acts of service videos as well.

[@hollywood123r8]

Really helpful! Thank you☺

[@vanessaandxander]

Of course! Thanks for watching!!

[@SimplyJayCreations]

My husband is a truck driver and is gone a lot so we talk on the phone mostly but I am really bad about multitasking while talking to him because I have to be doing something with my hands any tips

[@andreisavtchenko]

Love it!

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks!!

[@ysa9]

What if their love language is opposite to mine?

[@kikim4164]

How I can have quality time on my own when I don’t have anyone and feel same way? I try on my own but is like not working out.

[@TheJoannaCruz]

Can I have 2 love languages?

[@preciousvails5420]

Yes you can have more than one

[@chelseyl880]

Subscribed 🎁

[@vanessaandxander]

Thanks for watching!

[@zoe2839]

how do i bring this up without sounding like i’m nagging ?

[@siennateel2381]

You could just bring up the concept of love languages in general and then tell them what your is and explain it!

[@justagirl12345]

Some people might not understand and hold a toxic machismo attitude

[@703390]

Here’s another way when you guys actually have quality time together just you and him you can mention how nice this is to you and how about this moment with him you appreciate it a lot and then maybe the idea will click in his head that you like quality time and you appreciate it

[@katiekunch830]

Ask them what their love language is. Not what you want, but ask them what they like... it should pour into what you like

[@Komo47]

3:09

[@noslengashi1390]

4:30

[@caitlynguthrie5641]

What if... you know you're quality time. But you don't know what activities *means* quality time, because you've never had a partner focus on that for you to receive before?

[@vanessaandxander]

Communication is everything. Talk to your partner about what they consider quality time

[@geno5169]

We do hold hands where laying in bed. Sometimes it does get me hard . I do tell my wife but i just wish she would take care of me or get on top