Love Language: Words Of Affirmation

[@sarahbethbliss3112]

Gary Chapman is the name of the Author! You can mention the authors name without supporting all of his beliefs.

[@blaqamur]

Right you can appropriate his intellectual property but not give him credit, all virtual signaling.

[@adenjohnson5733]

@@blaqamur exactly.

[@YogaWithBri]

Oh my god thank you 😂

[@Steve-og3cr]

No kidding. What a pathetic thing to do.

[@MoneyAli75]

Exactly !

[@kathykennedy7277]

For me it’s having the integrity to follow through with commitments. Being honest and allowing me to trust that their words are the truth. I can count on them.

[@stefaniecote6375]

I loved how simple you guys broke this down, and thank you for acknowledging that someone else’s love language may not make sense to you. My boyfriend is words of affirmation and I always feel so phony when I try and speak to him that way because it’s so foreign to me. My love languages are time and acts of service, so words carry no weight for me. Subscribed and can’t wait to watch more!

[@motherofwands]

Also I really think a big part of words of affirmation, is being there with verbal support and encouragement in difficult times. Verbal empathy in hardships.

[@lilelly16]

I love how Vanessa genuinely gets really pleased by Xander´s pet name and compliment!!

[@athanasiachamblee9927]

My husband is words of affirmation. We have read the five languages book together. This was helpful as I struggle to give him words and I also don’t realize how literal he takes my jokes :-) thanks guys!

[@vanessaandxander]

So happy to hear that you found this helpful! 🥰

[@catherinelambe8787]

I am words of affirmation. I always seek praise

[@adayah6772]

It’s respectful to cite the author of the original idea.

[@sakshishukla9898]

I'm not a good speaker and I'm someone who speaks bluntly and my husband's love language is words of affirmation so now I'm facing problem because I'm very bad in expressing my views my thoughts and delivering my views effectively, i really wanna improve myself for him

[@IngredientIQ]

My wife’s love languages is Words of Affirmation and it’s so hard for me to stay consistent with her love language I try to do better but then I fall right back and then she gets upset because I only do it for a lil bit any tips to stay consistent?

[@SweetShine213]

Perhaps get that checklist Vanessa mentioned at the end of the video. Or set a reminder on your phone to tell your wife something you find so alluring about her☆

[@caribaez5711]

I am so amazed of what they talking about. It is true. I am words of affirmation!

[@satinsage9237]

Great tips and I'm going to use this to improve my relationship with my wife. However, cite the author regardless of your beliefs. And just because people have different beliefs doesn't mean their negative, it's just that you disagree. I mean I just watched your video and will credit you guys even though we have different beliefs.

[@jessienordvall9612]

Gary Chapman. Give credit where it’s due.

[@Diamonddee436]

I totally agree about making this video you’re supporting his beliefs. This was a crazy statement to make, and not mention the persons whose work you using to create the Content.

[@JanaylovesLearningandArt9672]

Overall my main love languages and how I receive love are 1. Physical touch, 2. Quality time, and 3. Words of affirmation. How I give love to others are 1. Physical touch, 2. Gifts, 3. Acts of service, 4. Quality time, and 5. Words of affirmation. I do all 5 of them when I give or show my love to others.

[@christinasamios]

I love Gary Chapman, We don't all have to believe the same thing, we are free.

[@KouJunk]

You should still give credit to the author. 👀

[@abbykimz]

I wish giving love this way is easy for me. Have to work on this for my partner

[@RBray-vz4rs]

Her and I are both words of affirmation, and I am all about it, and I find it interesting that he does not reciprocate, even though he has the same love language

[@matthewharrigan3568]

"Take what is useful, discard what is useless, and add something that is uniquely your own" Bruce Lee

[@beautiesonabudget6886]

My husband has this love language and I'm not very Good at this...but I'm working on it .Thanks

[@vanessaandxander]

Hope this video helps! 🥰

[@eliassis576]

Loved the video, I got it a little bit too late, but hey.. better late than never :)

[@AngusxDangus]

Acts of service for me, I learned from my parents after all 😂

[@stephaniemccracken4850]

My boyfriend doesnt quite understand my need for words of affirmation. He does a lot of sweet and loving things but doesnt know how to say words of affirmation without feeling wussy, silly or overly mushy.

[@Fuentes066]

I had my husband watch this and I was so thankful for the explanation and specifically the bedroom love language that can be essential to our self esteem. My husbands language is acts of service so I after watching this video I told him the good news is that words are free and take much less effort than cleaning the kitchen for me. In fact I promised him that the next time he used my love language in the bedroom that I would gladly clean the kitchen on my own with a big cheese grin on my face 😁. 🤣 Excellent video and I can’t wait to watch more!

[@vanessaandxander]

SO glad we could help! - Team V&X

[@theyetti90]

If you don't see a more helpful comment, please pin this to the top. I have to say this for anyone struggling with this as their mate's love language. I felt SO fake doing this, and it was really important to my wife (fiancée at the time) because she grew up without it. I'm like, I am giving you words of affirmation! I was, but it wasn't enough for her. We were fighting and getting nowhere UNTIL I said something like, "You wouldn't want me to give you some fake praise like..." and I gave her a compliment in an exaggerated and joking way. She suddenly lit up and laughed. She said that's exactly what she wanted. I'm an extremely funny person, and I love making people laugh, so when I realized I could just exaggerate my comments and she would still love it, I was free. It's now the easiest thing in the world for me. She complimented me today or yesterday about how good I've gotten with it now. So, my advice is to have fun with it. I always enjoy making her laugh. I can even do it in public and with friends and family, which she REALLY loves.

[@Raynis1]

I took the test today and found out I’m an “acts of service “ person. I told my best friend and he said “I can totally see that”.😂

[@geno5169]

See I’am the same way my wife and I have been married over 31 years! We’ve been together 33 33 years. I’m the one and I’ve been always the more verbal and I showed my affection towards my wife! I believe she always had a hard time showing love for me And showing affection towards me.that’s kinda hard .because I need Affection too from my and other things from my wife!! Please 🙏 me.?

[@cynthiamoon3575]

Wow! Mind blown! Excellent informative and helpful video!!! Thank you both so so much! Sooo looking forward to seeing the other 4 videos ❤

[@vanessaandxander]

Yes stay tuned for those to come! 💖

[@robertwarf3316]

Hey thanks a lot for this. Really appreciate it. I've been struggling with this for a while, and I'm embarrassed because a lot of it seems so obvious. Thank you both!

[@mynameisnotmax]

These are great! thank you

[@vanessaandxander]

Glad you like them!

[@adriannoah6483]

Great content! new sub

[@vanessaandxander]

Thank you!!!

[@relaxtakenotes9556]

Everyone so pressed about citing the autor.. they have just as much freedom to not cite as he does to have those beliefs. Chill.

[@andreisavtchenko]

Awesome video ❤️

[@vanessaandxander]

Thank you 🤗

[@tahliadewet7295]

Super helpful!!

[@vanessaandxander]

We're so glad to hear that! Thanks for watching!

[@shanaw5445]

My WoA on the test is literally zero. I think it would be negative if that was an option 😬 It's long been an issue for us.

[@joyworldwide369]

Gary Chapman is a great author of 5 Love Languages.

[@awfulman8055]

This is the best love language and I totally agree

[@geno5169]

I tell my wife sometimes my love tank is getting low .

[@SweetShine213]

Sooo good!♡

[@sam65617]

Didn’t know Gary chapman was based , makes me like him more

[@nsprudhvi]

Thanks a lot !

[@vanessaandxander]

You are welcome!

[@vebjrnthunes9199]

Why did you even mention anything about Gary Chapman (the creator?!)? When you say this in the intro, the first thing I do is search for this guy. If you don't like his ideas, don't mention him at all.

[@mariavargas7716]

Can you have more than one love language?

[@gillianhughes_momshell]

I loved this 🥰 super helpful advice to understand my partner. Can’t wait to implement these tips and watch the rest of this series. Thankyou!

[@vanessaandxander]

So glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your support, Gillian! ❤️

[@caribaez5711]

Im words of affirmation

[@recebaby88]

Great video but y use Gary Chapmans ideas but not credit him smh not cool give him his credit ! We don’t all have to have the same views …

[@cmaccarter93]

Instead of calling Gary Chapman out, go to the source. The Bible is where homosexuality and fornication are identified as sin. Instead, why not just say you don't agree with the Bible? At least you say what you believe.

[@smartstudyers445]

Your hair looking good

[@vanessaandxander]

Thank you!!

[@dailyncolinaexplorethings1904]

Meeee

[@savannasmusicdisk]

❤️

[@beverlycampanero8468]

Author: Gary Chapman.

[@naftalikleinman]

I love your content, and still believe that all of the other kind of relationships are a sin. That does not mean that I cannot listen to you, since the most of your content can be very helpful.

[@MoneyAli75]

Sexuality is a sin no sex before marriage so leave his name out, that’s some sucka ish ..how are those thoughts so far fetched ?

[@MoneyAli75]

This is isn’t quite worded right but my point being to leave his name out is quite petty ..he has his ideals and must be a sharp person to write this book

[@DDominoGeronimo]

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