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[@zoomie5948]

The whole vibe coming from ya'll is terrific! Cullen the light is back in your eyes and Katie you just seem happy and cheerful....I love seeing ya'll like this!

[@turnitbluex32]

I feel like I comment this on every other video, but as a young woman (unmarried but in a serious relationship), y'all are such a breath of fresh air and inspiration!!!!

[@BigMoneysLife]

The part where Adabelle looked at Cullen like, "Awkward!"..... I died LOL!

[@simplyraeann3711]

I think Brooks would be words of affirmation. Because when you tell him good job or praise him he lights up

[@beckydouglas5757]

Loved this! Please keep having the fireside talks. Teaching people how to love their spouse/significant other will keep them happily married. Bring us along your journey so we may learn too.

[@sarahmarieivfmommy8581]

I love the fireside chats - I would love to hear about religion in your marriage. How you actively pray for each other, and how you lean on your faith to stay strong together.

[@SweetPea112]

I second this! Praying together and for each other is HUGE!

[@pellchie2]

No Religion

[@sarahmarieivfmommy8581]

You can skip it but they go to church and some would love to hear.

[@jillbeful]

Yes, I would love it I looove that they’re Christians.

[@kimmyduhhMakeupPOT]

I agree!!!! Pleaseeee I would love to hear about your faith, prayer and how you’re region helps your marriage❤️❤️ Love you guys and I appreciate how much y’all are sharing with us. It’s helping so many people. Such a great sad to utilize your platform for something meaningful!

[@elizabethfunkhouser380]

I saw someone else mention the “Fireproof” movie and that there is a book that goes with it. I HIGHLY recommend you guys watching the movie and getting the book “The Love Dare” that goes along with the movie. You can of course get it on Amazon or any Christian bookstore. It seriously saved my husband and my marriage. There is biblical references in the book that show you how each task you are assigned relates to certain passages from the Bible. The book teaches you so many skills to make and keep and healthy, happy marriage! We now watch the movie every New Year’s Day as a refresher to start off our new year in a good place. I think you guys are being so brave in sharing such intimate parts of yourselves and your marriage. I hope you realize that in doing so you are creating a wonderful outlet for your viewers who may also be going through similar things in their life. It will allow others to relate, connect and learn from each other. You guys should do like a separate series or something. Like “Marriage Monday’s” or something like that. Thank you again so much for talking about this and sharing. My husband and I are praying for you guys and cheering you along from afar!

[@ktee369]

My top is physical touch and my husband is acts of service! It’s crazy how different we show love! This definitely opened our eyes on how we need to treat each other in a way we feel the love ❤️

[@FamBamTV]

Five Love Languages is SUCH a life changer! Absolutely LOVE that book! We also read The Five Love Languages for Children and it has totally shaped my parenting. 💕💕

[@psycommentary]

I love these fire side chats! My husband's love language is physical touch and words of affirmation, mine is quality time and acts of service. We always keep ours in mind!

[@whynotbekind1957]

Love to see you guys working hard for your marriage...so many don’t even try and just throw away their relationship and their family....your kids are so fortunate that you guys are fighting to get back the love that that started your family....and that you guys realized how your issues were affecting the kids....proud of you two for hanging in there and doing what you need to do. keeping you all in my prayers.

[@homecaregiver]

wow! You don't even realize how this important this video was for me to view right now in my marriage! So gonna share this with my husband... This was my personal results, I'm gonna have my husband do this test too! 11 Physical Touch 7 Quality Time 5 Acts of Service 5 Words of Affirmation 2 Receiving Gifts

[@brittaniesidebottom]

Mine was almost identical, only Words Of Affirmation was my lowest and receiving Gifts was my second lowest. My husband is almost the polar opposite of me. His highest is Receiving Gifts and his lowest is Physical Touch, while my highest is Physical Touch and lowest is Words Of Affirmation. Crazy how that works lol.

[@calimomma4741]

Marriage is work and I feel like that that's a good thing. Taking the time to check in and evaluate. You guys are such example of the good that comes from that!

[@anitabarnes277]

We love you guys. It is good to see a couple who is trying and being honest and not being all fake and just give up. My Husband and I just celebrated our 30th anniversary. I was 17 when we married, he was 19. Relationships do change over the years but always make time for each other and don't give up. So proud of you both.

[@SuddenKimpact]

Ours actually changed after having kids I think. Neither of us were acts of service but I bet mine is now. We should probably retake it because we did before we got married but I bet it's different now.

[@courtster5609]

Sudden Kimpact I feel the same way. I can almost guarantee that before have a kid mine would probably have been something else, but it’s acts of service now.

[@ksquared5270]

Long post. Sorry. I love these sit down videos about love and marriage. My husband and I got married in October and we never want to forget to make out relationship a priority and just to think about these things even if we are newlyweds and we aren't struggling. When we met three and a half years ago we were also total opposites for our love languages. Gifts were really big for him, while acts of service was big for me. We really learned how to cater to each other's language (I'd leave him love notes around the house or bring him a special snack from the store). That's one of that things that made me fall in love with him actually. I was living with a roommate and he came over and fixed some things around the house because he knew how much it would mean to me. Now these languages are still important to us, but we have found a common language in physical touch. Years ago, neither of us would have said physical touch. We're not touchy/feely people. Except with each other apparently. We're only like that when we're alone and at home though. So when we touch or hug, it feels like our own private language. And that's something that's organically grown over our relationship. Sending you both so much love and prayers. I love these videos! It's so good to reflect so we can go forward confidentially into the future.

[@purplesneakers3343]

We took it we had to adjust a bit because I am in hospice and not well but we did it as if I wasn’t sick. We almost matched but this is 18 years menopause between two of us and also caring for her Mother and Brother when they were both sick and dying. It breaks my heart knowing I am leaving her as well but when we took the test of course we started chatting about the past and how different and so alike we both are. I learned a long time ago that she would find little presents for me or little things she remembered I liked and in the past it drove me crazy because I wanted her attention and affection but she was busting but in an OR I was taking care of children all day and we came home to two family members one older and a drinker and one who was very sick and she was trying so hard to keep a balance. It’s amazing what you see when you try to look through the person you can’t imagine living without eyes and why they do the things they do and how you grow and change and sometime boom your end up slammed into a cement wall and as much as you want to get over it or around it you have to work together to figure out how to get over. Thanks for adding the link and forcing us to look again and remember even though I am ill and not here for much longer I will be able to do a little bit more for her in my time I have left that will be more meaningful to her in this timeframe. Does that make sense? I want to do the most for her while I can. Off to make her a chocolate eggcream don’t ask it’s a weird Brooklyn thing I think chocolate milk with seltzer water? But she loves them so thank you 💜🐢

[@mariagriffin1216]

That was a great thing to see you both so open and laughing and love that your happy. Love is great and my husband and i have had ups and downs because marriage is sometimes hard. But want you to know next week were celebrating our 55th year and are still in love. Love ya both .

[@suecrespy]

"um...where's my poptart." LOL LOL Made me laugh out loud. Great vlog with really good info.

[@carlyyy93]

Our love languages changed just in 6 months. I found that the more I focused on his languages the more those languages mattered to me and the same for him. Our scores move closer every time we take it! They also have love languages for kids and that one completely changed the way we viewed our parenting.

[@annefreed]

You both just made me feel so happy. I love seeing you together like this sharing your love languages and inspiring me to do this with my husband. Thanks for your openness!!!

[@kerrionalucas4363]

My lowest was physical touch & His highest was physical touch. So yes knowing that was eye opening & helpful for us. We took the test 2yrs ago but i think we need to take it again & wanna find that apology test.

[@lifeworthsharing]

I've just done mine! Words of Affirmation was my top at 9, then Acts of Service 8, Quality Time 7, Physical Touch 5 and Receiving Gifts 1. It was fairly interesting. I'd love for you to do more videos like this, sit down and chat!

[@jamessammieackenhausen1562]

Love that you guys love each so much your willing to work on your marriage.

[@AllQuiltedTogetherLLC]

Yay, yay, yay!!! I wasn’t worried however turning things over and being patient waiting on HIS time to give us a clue if love will prevail.....is because I know I personally went through some marriage learning moments too!!!whoo, I’m so glad you both have found a path back to smiles & love! I’d rather have these tears of joy than the sad ones we all had last week. Thank you for showing all of us that “Love conquers all” We love you two together & the kids and we all would be so lost without your family!!!!! The best marriages are the work in progress marriages because they are growing! Growing together!!!! Keep up the openness and communication! 💞💞

[@jessiecullen9095]

Sometimes I think your trying to hard! Just be happy love on each other! Love you guys, ever body go's through hard times. Your growing.

[@simplyraeann3711]

I love love love the way Katie lights up when you are touching her and you grabbed her hand. Gosh I love yall!

[@andreameier2640]

My husband and I LOVE the Five Love Languages books! We’ve taken the quiz quite a few times over the years. We try to make it a point to read the book together too. We even got our church on board to do videos that are on KZbin. We love and believe in it that much!😊 There’s also the same books for teens, singles, men, etc. You guys are awesome! Keep up the hard fight for your marriage, yourselves, and your kids. ❤️

[@jalenapardun5215]

I took mine last nignt and my top three are Word of Affirmation (9), Physical Touch (8) , and Quality Time (8). Love these fire side chats.

[@autumnrutherford514]

I'm 23 and I've been married for 6 years. I got married st 17 before I graduated high school. There are so many people I went to high school with that have been married and divorced already. I feel like people my age expect marriage to just be a walk in the park and that they will never have to work at it. I think a lot of that is because they see people online that "have it so easy" and think if their marriage isn't like that they shouldn't even try. My marriage has been far from perfect and there have been times we have talked about calling it quits but when we got married that was it for me. I always said I would only be married once and I truly mean that. I think y'all being open about having problems in your marriage will show people that it's not always easy and marriage takes work from both people. So thank you for being honest about everything.

[@mommy2kdk]

I am so glad you guys got back into the love languages! My hubby and I for married last June, we did the love languages for premarital counseling. Mine has slightly changed from being married to my ex and being with my current hubby. My top isn't different but next one changed and it is stronger. I am words of affirmation, physical touch mainly. A little in acts of service and quality time. I was more quality time before. I think ptsd from the abuse changed it. Physical touch makes me feel safe and reminds me I am. ❤ My hubby is physical touch as number 1. Acts of service, quality time and words of affirmation were all low. Gifts weren't on ours. Lol Love you guys and glad you are working through these things and sharing the journey! It will help so many couples. ❤

[@gointothedogs2]

Really appreciate your candidness and your ability to teach as well as learn through some very disappointing aspects of life....I know you guys love each other and will work hard at learning what gets in the way of progress in keeping close and not reading into the misunderstandings but to dig deeper...and your ability to laugh together and yet still address the hard things is key. Another good tool that we found particulary revealing and helped us understand some things we just couldnt figure out...was Les and Leslie Parrots assesment tests...really couldnt believe how indepth and on point it was. One thing that you hinted at and I also realized is even though you learn alot about the other person there is still need to explain the findings about yourself to the other person because they might jump to conclusions of what that answer to question meant. Its a lifetime of staying in touch and understanding that needing to grow individually is not unloving or to be taken wrong...but its also very important not to read into things but to ask questions of the person of what it means to them. I think its alot easier to show affection or say words of affirmation over acts of service which seems like such a wide range of possibilities...but then again maybe no words or touch works if your looking for specific things...so its good to keep ears open and ask questions....its a great thing when people say, I want to tell you and show you how much I love you and Im just not sure what you need the most...can you help me learn...wow....just letting that person know you want to knock there socks off the way they love...says a lot.

[@kimmyduhhMakeupPOT]

I would love to hear about your faith, prayer and how you’re relationship with your higher power helps your marriage❤️❤️ Love you guys and I appreciate how much y’all have been sharing with us. It’s helping so many people. Such a great sad to utilize your platform for something meaningful!

[@darlenesmith7680]

You both are SO SO PERFECT for a daily vlog....it all comes down to this...loving each other ENOUGH to put in the devotion of making sure they know you're willing to do ANY AND EVERYTHING to show that love. The 5 languages is an AMAZING gift to marriage....and to parenting! THANK YOU for once again opening up your lives to help bring healing to others....it takes a special soul to care that much--I love,love that I found your "home". A weekly "COUPLE" vlog would be SO GREAT! What about like a live video chat with adults only?!? YAAAAAAS! :) Happy Friday!!!! 💛💛

[@user-pg8uf7hr3z]

WE ARE TAKING THE TEST TONIGHT! Yay! I’m so flipping excited; Cullen THANK YOU again, my husband seems excited to take it too. We want to BOOST our marriage. We have a 23 yr daughter, we’ve been married almost 11 yrs, we want to learn as much as we can. My husband only will watch you guys (no cable) when he decides to watch anything, so you both are a blessing to us . God Bless (TtownRaised)

[@bieberforever181]

Hi Katie and Cullen :) just wanted to tell you guys how much I appreciated and enjoyed this video. I am struggling in my relationship right now. This video really helped. I took the love language "quiz" and my love language is gift giving. I don't think I am a materialistic person, but for me personally, I LOVE to be thought of and feeling important. Growing up, I never felt like a priority, first choice, or favorite to anyone. So I think that is why that is "gift giving" is important to me.. :)

[@allisonbo20]

I took the love language quiz years ago when I was single and now I am in a relationship and took the quiz again today because of you guys. My love language scores are 12 quality time 6 acts of service 5 words of affirmation 4 physical touch 3 receiving gifts. I sent the link to my boyfriend and within an hour he sent me his love language scores 8 acts of service 8 quality time 6 words of affirmation 4 physical touch 4 receiving gifts

[@jenndoucet703]

Just as an FYI, there is a spot in the test page where you can take the test for your kids (it has diff tests for diff age groups) and there is also a test for teens. I had my teens take it and it was eye opening.

[@melaniebeachy1]

Oh man, taking these two tests helped me realize how much these languages relate to certain seasons in life. All 29 years of my life I've been a single pringle. But my results during college compared to now are drastically different. In college my top love languages were: physical touch and gifts. Now my top love languages are Quality Time & Acts of Service which are both a 10. And physical touch is my bottom one with a five. Granted I would still say my physical touch cup has been running dry, on account on not having much of community lately. Having most of my friends being married and having babies makes it hard to find community that has time for you. (Even tho i have a flexible schedule for meeting with them.) Its all a different kind of balance of life priorities that decides what my love languages are.

[@mrspaisley1]

Mine is words of affirmation. I don't have a significant other right now, but I love hearing couples talk about their struggles and successes. I feel like it gives me tools to keep in my back pocket for when that time does come. That being said I vote for a regular marriage segment on your channel! Just from the comments you can tell how many people your story has already impacted.

[@thecookingandcleaningmom5878]

I scored: 9 Acts of Service, 7 Quality Time, 7 Words of Affirmation, 4 Physical Touch and 3 Giving Gifts My husband scored: 9 Quality Time, 8 Acts of Service, 8 Physical Touch, 5 Words of Affirmation and 0 Recieving Gifts We didn’t really agree with what the tests results were for us, but taking the test helped us to see what areas we need to work on. We are going to post our charts up somewhere in our house so that we can make an effort to work on things we need to for each other. It may save my sanity and relationship with my husband so we appreciate you sharing this link. We’ve been “working” on our marriage since we got married. Now we can actually see what we need to do to think about the other person and it won’t be as hard of work trying to remember with this chart posted in our face. 😁 We’ve needed this for sooooo long!!!!

[@thecookingandcleaningmom5878]

I realize I put giving gifts on mine instead of receiving gifts. Oops! lol 😂

[@lexistone01]

Loved this video! You guys should do more videos like this; laid back yet informative and very relatable ❤️❤️❤️

[@AdrianaGonzalez-ct9dv]

My husband and I just took the test this past weekend! We were at a marriage retreat and this was the topic! His was quality time and mine was words of affirmation! Made us realize so much!

[@micaelac7703]

Would love to hear halls thoughts on the apology languages as well. Just took it for the first time and its eye opening! My top three love languages are all tied! Thank y'all for talking so openly about this and what your going through. It makes you relatable which is what people love!

[@brandilorts3819]

My husband and I just finished our love languages! I am a 9 on Quality Time and Physical Touch being a 7. My husband is a 9 on Acts of Service and an 8 on Words of Affirmation. It's so neat to do this and normally what your spouse is complaining about is just a plea for their love tank to be filled in a way that makes them feel loved. It really gives you more patience and understanding of the other person. My favorite quote: It is great to be loved but it is profound to be understood. So happy yall did this and I'm excited to see how it transforms your marriage. I'm excited for William to return home so we can continue for this to transform our marriage! Much love! ❤

[@ShilohShepherdmom]

Loved the fireside chat! My husband and I are the reverse of you guys. He's physical touch; I'm acts of service...and it certainly causes problems when we forget that. It's legit work to cater to your spouse's needs, especially when they're different from your own, and you're tired from working and taking care of little kids, etc etc.

[@JessMegn2005]

I took the quiz for singles. Quality time and physical touch were my #1 & #2. It's important to know what your love language is whether you're single or not. Even in friendships, knowing how you want to be loved helps to keep any relationship strong. Going on 20 years with some of my best friends, and at 30 that doesn't really happen. People grow up and grow apart, but when we know how each other wants to be loved, it's a big deal! I love that you guys did this and are growing in love with each other. It's something I aspire to do in my future relationships.

[@jennifervieira99]

I think I really need this more than ever because it's been so long since I been in a relationship and married and I wonder if I've lost some of the thing's I use to do but lost entrust in my ex-husband because of everything and lack of him in our marriage, and not trusting. Maybe I need to stop and look at myself and work on me and I might find the right best friend for me. I got a few note books that I can write down my goals for myself and watch how I change my life for the better. And be happier!😊😉 I definitely have a hard time with affection and touching people so I think that and verbal communication skills might be low and I need to work on those. I wish I was more affectionate! I just don't know how to be like that. I'm always hot 😳 so I don't want to get close to anyone. I'm trying to be better and stronger for myself. Thank you Katie and Colin for this. I think this will help me as well. Yes, I'm single. ☺💕

[@KyleKateyVlogs]

I'm words of affirmation and Kyle is acts of service! Our marriage is so much better when we treat the other how THEY want to be treated!

[@skylarandmichelle4031]

Thank you for being so open and honest about your struggles and your journey. You're an amazing couple. This video prompted a great conversation between my husband and I and we both took the test. My husband scored: 10 physical touch 8 acts of service 7 quality time 5 words of affirmation 0 receiving gifts I on the other hand scored: 8 words of affirmation 8 quality time 7 acts of service 6 physical touch 1 receiving gifts We had a long talk about how true this is and how important it is to us to communicate about what makes us feel love. We enjoy your videos and I enjoy your fireside chats! 😊

[@melissa1010scott]

Fireside chats, yes please! We ordered the book, can’t wait to read through it!

[@TheJeters]

Our are the same as yalls!! 😂😂. I am cracking up listening to y’all, because it is the same with me and my husband! He is just fine with us together in the living room on separate chairs watching TV and I’m like “ why are you not over here cuddling with me???” 😂😂

[@SweetPea112]

It's been a couple of years, but as I remember it, Mine was Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation, and my husband was Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation. This makes me want to take it again! I love the fireside chats, and I hope you will do it more often! God Bless you both!

[@michelleblubaugh1775]

I took the quiz a couple of years ago and my love language is gift giving -- I knew that going into it though. One of my favorite things to do is show people I'm thinking about them or love them by getting or making them a gift. I went through a long phase of sending people care packages. Christmas shopping is taken very seriously because I want to make sure I get people things that show how much thought I put into what they might enjoy. On the flip side, if my husband walks in the door with something as small as a candy bar for me, it means so much because he was thinking of me at that moment when he saw it. -- On the flip side, my husband ranked lowest in Gift Giving and highest in Acts of Service. If I do extra chores or wash his truck for him, it means the world!

[@meganmoore9445]

Mine were physical touch, gifts and acts of service. I knew the first two but the last one is new to me. Probably since becoming a mom I apprise help more often. I need my hubby to re take it. His was words of affirmation but that could’ve changed too! I love these little chats. Keep them coming! They are so helpful for so many people. Thanks!

[@lisavinson09]

I love this! Especially being this close to Valentine's Day. Not that we should only rely on just that one day but every day. ❤

[@blu.sapphire.]

One of the best videos about this subject! You two are awesome!!

[@courtster5609]

I really love these kind of chats from you guys!

[@yagzygee]

Physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time are my love language.

[@latonyaricks3294]

I love you guys....that was fun and very helpful. People don’t try anymore so I am really happy that you guys are genuinely trying. God Bless you.

[@theresamcmichael3840]

I love ya'll openness and honesty, it's so eye opening and refreshing to watch and hear!!!! Mine is 11 physical touch 9 QT 5 A of S 3 W of A 2 gifts Without my hunny taking the quiz I pretty sure his highest is gifts

[@misskatie223]

My main ones were physical touch and words of affirmation. It’s SO eye opening!!!

[@sassybooklover739]

I'm single and took the one for singles. This was my score. 7Receiving Gifts 7Words of Affirmation 6Acts of Service 6Quality Time 4Physical Touch

[@naominicole369]

I scored 9 words of affirmation 6 acts of service 6 physical touch 6 quality time 3 receiving gifts I’ve read the book 5 love languages and I love it it makes you look at things so differently.

[@amandacole9048]

9) Acts of Service 9) Words of Affirmation 7) Quality Time 3 Physical Touch 2) Receiving Gifts Loved the video and the "fire" talks!!

[@brookeamos9026]

My love language is physical touch and quality time. My husband and I share quality time but his number 1 love language is acts of service, like Cullen’s. Honestly I was like what in the world can I do for my husband for acts of service?! Katie what do you do for Cullen? My go-to service is making his coffee or at least getting it ready to go so he just has to push the button. Love y’all!

[@RistrettoReader]

It’s so interesting how your love languages can be the opposite of each other’s! Mine is 10 physical touch, 6 receiving gifts (NOT in a materialistic way) and the others were way less. It makes SOOO much sense because I am very touchy feely with my hub and giving gifts is something I throw myself into deeply and am guilty of sometimes expecting the same level of thoughtfulness back from my hub (his Gifts score on the test was a 1!!!) It’s very eye opening. Something I highly value is something he isn’t personally interested in. So that tells me why he has such a hard time with that kind of thing. And on the flip side, his highest score was Acts of Service which, like Katie, I could care less about. But I’m learning to take that as “his” way of saying I love you.

[@deedraallen5310]

I just love yall! I love that you are both making an effort to get to know each other again. I pray that the love between you continues to grow and blossom. I'm not married yet but it is refreshing to see an honest reprensation of what marriage is like and that it does take work in an ever changing world. Thank you for sharing!

[@theanglefam6498]

I made my husband take the quiz tonight!! I got physical touch as my highest and the next was acts of service. My husband for quality time as number one and receiving gifts as the next! Crazy to see how different ours are and once we took it and talked about it everything made so much more sense for us. Thank you for making this video it was so eye opening

I took it a little while back! I was mainly Quality time & word of affirmation! My boyfriend is exactly the same! Still to use Quality time is different! I like talks and he just like to cuddle and play!

[@Anniemarie823]

I really miss you guys sitting down together at the end of your vlogs for a few minutes. They were my favorite part of your vlogs.

[@cathyray3861]

I think women are more touchy huggey lovey , not expecting or wanting an intimate situation to follow . It's nice to have a touch that feels special verse a touch or pat that one would give a friend ! I totally get where your coming from Katie !

[@shelbykatherine0712]

My fiance and I have taken this quiz consistently at least once a year if not every 6 months. It keeps us actively aware and making sure we are always focusing on serving each other! My results make me laugh. I got a 10 for Acts of Service and the other four have a score of 5. Clearly there is a way to my heart! Now my fiance's top results are Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch (one I really struggle with!). It's really helped us get to know each other more and prepare for married life

[@maydelin21]

Hi guys!! Even before taking it I knew that my love language it was acts of service... because that's how I show love to people and when people does things for me that they don't need to, it means the world for me... one time I was dating this guy (nothing serious) and the exciment was fading away and by that time I was dealing with some legal stuff, and he went to a different lawyer and asked about my situation without even telling me... when he told me what he did, I felt loved and care. I GOT A 10 in Acts of service 8 in words of affirmation 6 quality time 4 physical touch 1 receiving gift

[@tracydavies1558]

Loved this vlog so much. After 19 years together 16 married and 3 kids ranging from 18 years 13 years and 8 years old we have been having a tough time lately. Throw in 18 yo daughter that has a boyfriend that has many of his own family issues that affect her that therefore affect us. I just took the test and got 10 physical touch 7 for every thing else except a 0 for gift giving. I think my hubby may be reluctant to take it but who knows he may surprise me and if he will it will be interesting to see how we differ. Love you guys ❤️

[@Katia22-n4d]

Love that book! Helps a lot in relationships. Husband, wife and parenting. ❤

[@sharondingle1607]

Hi Cullen and Katie I just want to say that the hardest thing to do in the world is to live a life. Life isn't about net worth its about the best person you can become. Showing and teaching your kids its okay to ask for help when you need it. Be proud of who you are. God will always give you trials and tribulations he will never give you more than you can handle. He will always test your faith. Believing in him and his words even when the light doesn't shine inside. You have a village draw from there strength,take one day one step at a time and you will see the light inside. Let the past go. Your Dad would want you to live a good life. Celebrate his life his birthday. A house is where you make memories it doesn't define you. You can't change everything but the things you can change them. Say a kind word to each other everyday, when your sad when you can't make a vlog when your mad always talk or just ask for a hug no words need to be spoken. I once said you need to have your house checked for mildew and mold in the walls. Have the house blessed. Just one more thing a date night doesn't mean you have to go out and do something you could stay in the house hang out in your underwear cook for each other go to sleep feel relaxed it doesn't have to be stressful hang in there keep the faith believe in God he will pull you through we will keep you in our prayers. Love you guess

[@BLT365]

I listen to the 'I Do' Podcast on the podcast section on your iPhone. Its great!! its a couple who interviews relationship experts every week & those experts are therapists, counselors, writers, etc. They are really interesting to listen to while working out or driving and they are usually 30-40 mins long. I learned so much from them. Each week is a new relationship topic.

[@torishore1181]

My love language results consisted of: 10 Acts of Service 8 Quality Time 6 Words of Affirmation 4 Receiving Gifts 2 Physical Touch I love you guys and I want more of these "fireside chats" lol :)

[@kimmychan1967]

I didn’t even think about taking it again. We did it about 10 years ago and now that I think about it I’m sure mine has changed. My top ones were physical touch & acts of service. Not so sure my top would be physical touch anymore. Acts of service gets me every time though. I crave it!!!

[@stefanie8226]

Yes, take the test again because it can change. Nice job on bettering your relationship.

[@shelbyscott5116]

My top one (scored a 9) was spending quality time. I just like to be around people and I get really upset when I feel like I'm being left out of something. It's followed by words of affirmation (8), physical touch (6), acts of service (6), then lastly receiving gifts (1). I'm going to have to have my SO take it later, I'm interested to see how it compares because we do see stuff like that differently and I think there is some truth behind it

[@ladyfease]

I absolutely love you guys yet sitting down and talking about everything like this. Whether it be about the kids or about your relationship

[@StephanieBogart]

Mine is acts of service/quality time and my husband is physical touch/quality time.

[@meredithkilby877]

My boyfriends is 9 physical touch, 9 quality time, 5 acts of service, 5 words of affirmation, 2 receiving gifts. So he has pretty much all the different types even. Mine is 9 Acts of service, 9 quality time, 5 receiving gifts, 4 words of affirmation, 3 physical touch. Physical touch if a big difference for us, which we already knew, but didnt realize how big of a deal it really was. But we have quality time the same. My boyfriend didnt mind to take it. I sent him the link and he took it without me asking.😍 I thibk with knowing this, and how we feel love is different, it will help us build a strong relationship. So thank you for sharing your life, through your struggles, but through you success too.

[@Allyopps0722]

I’m loving these truthful real down to earth videos. Even though y’all are going through a hard time it’s refreshing to me to see the real ness. That you all arnt putting on an act for the sake of the vlog. I’m not married or in a relationship but I think if I did take the test that my love language would be physical touch. I long for touch, hugs, closeness 😢. still praying for y’all. Stay in church. Put family first always.

[@pearlbragdon6602]

I know I was with someone for 6 or 7 year's and we would hug and I liked getting a hug but then thing's changed because we hit a bump in the road and he just up and left me . I am with someone new now but I don't really get hug's and I don't really get to see this new guy as much as I seen my Ex and it's really hard for me. I'm glad to see you guy's finding ways to make your guy's Relationship\Marriage work

[@misswings4]

One of the things I have been working on is anger or snapping back. My husband was showing his anger and instead of snapping back or being angry back. I chose to not in gage or say anything back. Was surprised how easy it was to not in gage and not having to argue. Right or wrong just was nice to not have that . I felt much better by not doing it.

[@amberbowman8390]

Have you ever watched the movie Fireproof I definitely recommend it you can also get the book they use in the movie

[@MS-sw5zq]

I haven't taken the quiz yet, but I think I'm probably quality time first, then acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, and gifts last.

[@juliannewilson1656]

I just love you guys! I can see how much you love each other!

[@LindsayDroke]

I am the same as Cullen I like acts of service and my husband is like Katie with physical touch.

[@Annette1965]

I’m so happy for y’all, sounds like things are getting better. Not sure if my husband will do the quiz. I’ve been talking too him it seems like forever that we need too work on things. He’s old school though. I know he will say the quiz is stupid. He hasn’t been much of a talker the last few years. I’m like you, Katie that physical touch is my top one. We didn’t have hugs or very many I love you. It will be 32 years May 23rd, we definitely need a change. Love ❤️ and hugs 🤗 to y’all from Illinois 🙋🏼

[@muffin2u63]

My husband (even when we dated) loved for me to help him work on his cars too. Whether it was washing the parts, helping bleed brakes, etc. . He just liked me out there with him helping. I guess that was showing love in his eyes too.

[@jcjfk06]

Mine has always been physical touch (I got 10 on that one), but I have a close second, words of affirmation (9) which I didn’t realize before! I feel like that one has changed a lot since we’ve been married- he doesn’t usually say too much but when he does, it means a lot to me.

[@lanaramsey5433]

I LOVE these types of videos! Just y’all chatting and smiling! Maybe once a week have a laundry chat video? Where you guys just sit and talk about different topics while you fold laundry? Idk just an idea! Love you guys and love to see you happy❤️

[@keteratliff558]

Cullen and Katie just want to say I am so thankful for you both to share your heart and to be a help to so many of us!! PLEASE DON'T LISTEN TO ANY NEGATIVE COMMENTS MADE! THEY ARE JUST HATERS! AND THEY FEEL THE NEED TO DESTROY OTHERS WITH THEIR HATEFUL, SOUR ATTITUDES! LOVE TO YOU BOTH! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND THANKS FOR SHARING! LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!!!

[@muffin2u63]

Men and women are so different in a lot of ways. My husband was like Cullen....sit and chat about things. It can be anything that happened that day too. He loved cars and used to tell me that I was the only woman who liked to talk cars with him or even listen when he spoke about them. My son is one that doesn't care to talk much, but when we do , it's quality.

[@brandybarnett9953]

Learning about the 5 love languages has really helped me to understand people in my life who’s love language is gifts because mine isn’t

[@SherondaMcKee]

Mine is Acts of Service and Physical Touch...His is Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch.