Love, loss & betrayal | with Ophelia Nichols

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[@alexadams5638]

“I’m not a perfect one, but I’m a present one” that’s what every parent needs to be ❤

[@ophelianichols9249]

❤️

[@Daphnevasquez]

@@ophelianichols9249 you did a great job. Remember their privacy is necessary, the more we dig or search the more they hide and they go to way farther lengths of hiding stuff.

[@stephaniebutler81]

Best quote!

[@sharonkeef]

@@ophelianichols9249❤❤❤❤ women I have fellowed u since my husband was in hospital with Covid n the double pulmonary embolism and I still ware the justice for ur baby . I’m from Winston co al but I live 3 plus hours north now anyways never stop being u

[@chelseanorthup5544]

@@stephaniebutler81èw😢eereeee😮ř😮 RT😢😢😢😢😅😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😅😅😢😢😢😢😢😢-😮

[@lexii8211]

I could listen to Ophelia talk for the rest of my life. What an incredibly inspiring & well spoken woman! I appreciate you using your platform to interview her Laura. 10/10

[@zknight4481]

This! Her voice is so soothing. It feels like a safe space, like a mama. And hearing her story, how much shit she went through, and how gracious and loving and kind she still is? It’s beyond inspiring. She’s just wonderful.

[@missarielle2]

I remember that video Ophelia posted. I cried for an hour. Ophelia belongs in the house of compassionate Queens with Dolly Parton and Betty White

[@keelopugdog1]

My heart absolutely broke for her during that video and other videos! Lord, the pain of a momma losing a child, is the worst pain and sound you will ever hear! I was in the ER with my baby years ago and years a doctor tell a momma she lost her baby and it was the most blood curdling scream I have ever heard and I will never forget! So my heart breaks for any momma that loses a child no matter how they lose them! I have one child and I can’t imagine!!

[@HorrorShow694]

The Facebook short of this is what brought me to your channel. I loved hearing her story. I feel like at one point we were all Ophelia. I loved this

[@billiehenry8493]

Same

[@melodymckay8605]

Me too!

[@TaylorPriest7]

Me too!

[@oliviaallen3410]

Same here!!

[@ramonamartinez6558]

I love how Laura doesn’t interrupt when someone’s talking! She says hairy words to let them know she’s paying attention and always looking at them but never interrupts!!! I think it’s beautiful!!! Such a great interviewer!!!

[@themediocremomshow5275]

Talking this openly about her mom while her mom is alive ...she's more brave than anyone I know

[@christinapowell5521]

She talks regularly about how she doesn't have a relationship with her. She decided she couldn't have her in her life to protect her children.

[@user-lz6xk3ur1t]

I remember her life as a child being very abusive. She is open with that and her testimony really hit home and relieved me of guilt I had been carrying for walking away from my mom, a long time ago. I never saw her again. She died in 2002. Thank you for your honesty.

[@mechelled3012]

I hope her mom Sees this and realizes how despite her best to see her fail, she came out on top (:

[@hannahbrooks3689]

Ophelia is an absolute blessing and a breath of fresh air. I strive to be the kind of person she is & I wish a knew an Ophelia in real life. I wish nothing but the world for this woman ❤

[@queenoftheecouch-alysad7002]

"I fought with him to fight for him"... that sentence has power. A video i needed. Thankyou Laura, ive been watching you since the Steeeeeven videos. Never knew of Ophelia but now a fan!

[@anabella4166]

You must not be on TikTok if you don’t Kno who Ophelia is lol

[@Brooke00755]

I would’ve never guessed a sweet soul like her had been through so much. She’s remained kind, sweet, genuine, and beautiful through it all. What a lesson I’ve witnessed.

[@mandybling]

How many times did you cry? Me: Yes.

[@AvasNana616]

Same!

[@tenillestewart5370]

HOW in the WORLD did this woman tell the story about her son without just breaking down 😢💔💔bless her 🙏🏾

[@saxyben81]

She has cried many times. You learn how to tell Randon’s story to keep his memory alive. My mom died from ALS and I tell hers all the time. I cry occasionally. ❤️

[@tenillestewart5370]

@@saxyben81 my condolences 🙏🏾💜😔 my father passed 7 years ago. To avoid telling the story I made a video. I can talk about it now. Just the first couple years I had to play the video instead.

[@thetravelingwisewoman4223]

My condolences. I lost my 28 year old grandson in May. I understand there's not enough tears ever.

[@cstupi]

It depends on the day, to be honest...It's not easy..I lost my daughter ..and when people ask about her....somtimes I can talk about her with out crying and some days..i just can't even talk...its depends on the day....to be honest..

[@lorrainetipper9018]

I broke down for hear my heart literally hurts listening to her speak about that day my worst nightmare.....my boys are my world!

[@justicebfrazier]

Her story about when she first made a TikTok to help that young girl “quick fast and in a hurry” gave me chills ❤

[@kaylatatrow7222]

The world needs more people like mama tot! ❤

[@WILDFLOWERTEA]

Amen to that!!

[@EmmaLeighR712]

The collaboration I didn’t know I needed. Love you both! ♥️

[@amberdoll1125]

Came to say this

[@taminatorharrison552]

FACTS

[@lizziegrover5625]

Same here ❤

[@KitchenGambit]

7.5 minutes in and I’m crying i remember that video we ALL need a mama tot in our life ❤

[@candacecarnell1644]

Came here to say that as well!!

[@zknight4481]

Her voice is so soothing. It feels like a safe space, like a mama wrapping you up in her arms. And hearing her story, how much shit she went through, and how gracious and loving and kind she still is? It’s beyond inspiring. She’s just wonderful. As someone who had a baby at 17, I wish I’d had her videos back when I was a new mom. Especially with my child’s father also having a drug addiction and me trying to love him into sobriety. I needed someone who’d had a baby young and loved a man unwilling to help himself and who still came out it an inspiration instead of a scary statistic. I needed someone who’d make me feel like I wasn’t a tragedy waiting to happen, and when you’re a young mom, everyone makes you feel like you’re gonna fuck your kid up no matter what you do. Even though I’m 27 now and a law student and I’ve beaten the scary statistics and I didn’t have these videos back when I *really* needed them, hearing Mama Tot tell her story still feels like it’s healing a part of me that was broken. And it inspires me to do even more, to be more than successful- but to be kind and loving without expectation, to turn myself into a safe place for people who need it.

[@AngelaTheCrazyDogMom]

You're wise beyond your years sweet girl!! I had my daughter at 16, she's now 27 and just became a mom herself. I didn't graduate college, but I wanted that for her and she's so much better and more than I ever could have expected! She graduated college, married her college boyfriend and they're both teachers and now they just had their first child. I just wanted to tell you how proud of you I am and that you're kicking butt at life!! 💪🏼❤️🫶🏼

[@annaw7437]

I don't know this lady, but she is gold!! Stopping generational trauma by being the opposite of what you received (what broke you) as a child, is the best thing you can do with your life xx

[@tabithamartin7498]

The trauma response of being hyper vigilant in reading the mood in the room.... every person everywhere who identifies as an "empath" feels exactly the same way. I come from generations of trauma from bipolar disorder and mental illness. I try every single day to break that cycle with my own children. It's so hard when you are trying to heal yourself too.

[@misskarenvasquez]

Yes! When she said that it really never occurred to me that I feel the mood of every room, it’s more than just reading the room. You’re feeling out every single persons emotions before you ever speak a word, so you don’t say something/anything to upset anyone or show the wrong emotions. It’s exhausting sometimes.

[@susanscarpiniti3874]

I am sorry that you're going through that. I am too. Your kids are lucky you are aware and willing to break the cycle. Your awesome ❤

[@DankrumStar]

I lost my boyfriend and then a month later Ophelia lost her son. Watching her openness in her grief and healing helped me through mine. I love her so much ❤❤❤

[@OneDayVision]

I can relate to everything she said about being raised by a bipolar mother. Especially the anxiety of coming home from school and not knowing who to expect on the other side of the door.

[@ophelianichols9249]

🥹♥️♥️♥️

[@lisathomas6724]

You’re the Mom you never had. I love when life teaches us a lesson we don’t even know we’re learning.

[@tiffanygreener1006]

Po3

[@nicolewright8901]

When my boyfriend of 8 yrs. Passed unexpectedly and Young 😔 mama tot and you Laura is what helped me through ❤️ litterly 😔 jellyroll and his wife bunnie helped me as well. All of your souls was placed here for a reason ❤️ thank you 💕

[@AngelaTheCrazyDogMom]

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss!! I lost my fiance to an overdose in 2015. Jelly Rolls music has helped me tremendously, and his wife Bunnie and I share a birthday (1-22-1980). They're both truly beautiful souls! I'm so very sorry for your loss and I'm sending you love & light along your healing journey. ❤️🫶🏼🫂

[@Sorchadal]

What a beautiful conversation, its really refreshing to listen to a podcast where the the interviewer allows the person to just talk and not interrupt alot.

[@reneesteel6342]

I love how well she still takes care of Skylar. So much respect.

[@jenniferts1304]

Thank you Ophelia. I appreciate how vulnerable you were during this discussion. Well done Laura. I appreciate that you gave Opie the time and space to share her stories without interruption.

[@kaylajones0018]

This is the best crossover I've ever seen. Both incredibly powerful women. I could listen to Ophelia talk ALL DAY. She has such a calming presence, i can't expain. You can just sence how genuine she is without even trying. Love them both❤️

[@susansmith1249]

I've lost my mom, daddy, and my sister in just the last year. But I could never imagine the hurt of losing a child. Mama tot you are an inspiration. Your content helps me more than you'll ever know.

[@freespirit_17]

I’m so sorry for your pain 🫂

[@rosioreynoso]

I'm so sorry 4 ur loss. I lost mom and sister a year apart it feels like ur barely hanging in there accepting and adjusting bammm more pain. Huggs ❤ I can't imagine losing a child. I'll die

[@freespirit_17]

@@rosioreynoso I lost my mom in 2008 and the pain is still there… Worst when it’s her birthday and her day of passing. 😞

[@rosioreynoso]

@@freespirit_17 it never gets easier

[@rosioreynoso]

@@freespirit_17 my mom's gna b 2years on the 7th and my sister a year on valentines. Plus got A terminal illness on chemotherapy right now its hitting hard. But only the strong survive

[@tiffanysavage5351]

Ophelia should be a motivational speaker. I get so much from listening to her speak that helps me with my own life. ❤

[@lauratancredi3385]

I was just blown away by this. I could listen to Ophellia talk all day long. I just want to say thank you for giving her the opportunity to share her story and thank you for sharing your story. It was so unbelievably powerful it has just stuck with me all day long. And Laura I am loving seeing you move through this journey and the healing and grief and you just allowing that process to continue as it needs to in order for you to heal.

[@bekahmetz1664]

She uses her pain for power to help people. An angel. I love her so so much!

[@amberdoll1125]

Laura you did such a good job interviewing Mama Tot. You asked great questions and listened so well. I love the direction this channel is going and I just love the both of you so much

[@Ash.Crow.Goddess]

I love to hear people talking about discernment. Also known as intuition. It's definitely a gift. It seems almost supernatural, but it can be learned and refined.

[@Sassyfras9824]

Yes, mine scares me how accurate and also quickly becomes frustrating being disappointed by people

[@areicgregory6143]

'i fought with him... To fight for him' I absolutely love that level of understanding and compassion and love momma tot all the more

[@messily1456]

Man, Ophelia is a classy, classy woman. I love that she shows that forgiveness and compassion still reign supreme as the ultimate world changers.

[@jesicacaldwell9686]

I’m not crying you’re crying!!! I love Ophelia and Laura

[@OctoberSoul90]

Mama Tot is such a Gem. I cried multiple times hearing her tell her story. Such a beautiful soul. Thanks for this Laura and Ophelia ❤

[@bettingontrains]

I love Mama Tot so much. I had a cruel mother as well and have dedicated my life to showing love and illuminating the world around me.

[@GiGi_Leon]

A million thanks for having Mama Tot in your podcast. This is the kind of interview I love to see & hear. A genuine and authentic lady with a beautiful light and soul. One of the best. Thanks so much. ♥♥♥

[@PrettyPettyMara]

I remember seeing the video of Mama Tot letting everyone know exactly WHAT and WHOM was stolen from her & her family... i bawled & i barely knew Mama Tot at the time. But thats when i started watching... little did i know not even 2 months would pass & my oldest son's daddy would die. Watching mama tot helped me be able to move along the emotions, the grief & continuing to be a mama to my boys, especially my oldest who was suffering, is still suffering. My life story is just so much like Ophelias & i relate to her immensely. Laura. Thank you so much for this... it was everything i needed at this time in my life...esp before the holidays. With all of my heart, I say thank you. ❤ For the record - the youtube beauty influencer Mama Tot was disappointed by, i believe is Laura Lee. I think bc she is from Alabama as well & her personality match up (as in what ophelia described- cockiness etc).

[@kristibrowerdalby3074]

I'm crying...I follow mama Tot and didn't know ANY of this about her- I loved her BEFORE knowing these things & adore her now. ❤❤

[@Bexinmo]

I came in on the Help Helen era too. I loved watching your family, then the whole breakup. As someone who has been suicidal off and on for life, I sympathized with Stephen at first, but then watching him spiral into madness...Well, I spend most of my life standing at the edge of the gangplank. I am not about to follow someone out to the tip of it and risk hopping off.

[@alissalatour7332]

Smart move. Gotta do what’s best for you

[@misskarenvasquez]

You interview people so well, you just gained a new follower in me. You don’t speak over them, you just keep it relaxed and let them tell their stories with peppered questions when the time is right. There are some days when I’m scrolling fb and see momma tot and she just asks ME how I’m doing, have I ate anything today? Like some days it’s like we need someone to just ask us, and they don’t. I try to be that mom, I ask if they’re okay, and what’s for dinner, if they need anything, and I hug them tight because I’m never promised tomorrow, and neither are they. This interview had me laughing and bawling. ❤

[@pj-light-glass]

Lots to think about, the choices we make or don't make, made or didn't make. I swear, sitting in on this video is in some ways triggering, remembering the crazy things that happened in my own life. And yet, hearing and seeing your words MamaTot, feeling your compassion and fortitude, bringing us along is like going through rapids on a river. Sometimes we have to paddle harder to get to calmer waters. The fact that we are still alive, is a testament in itself to perserverence and determination. Bless you Laura, Bless you MamaTot 💖❤️‍🔥💜🥲

[@marybirt5486]

I’m sure you won’t see my comment although I WISH to God you do! Thank you. I lost my baby brother to suicide 8 months ago. I was there the day he was born. I’m 12 yrs older than him. To say our hearts are shattered is an understatement. There are no words. My mom. No words for watching her grieve. My dad wakes up every morning sobbing. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I love what you said that you live for your other children and your grand baby. I hve no doubt my parents will get there. Please pray for us as we head into our first Christmas without our Liam. God bless you 😘

[@jessgonzalez9151]

God bless you Mary

[@Crystal_1992]

Mama tot. You have helped me so much i grew up in a home that was full of chaos and trauma. Im still healing and trying to be the best mom i can be for my 3 kids. You are such a inspiration. Love you mama tot ❤❤❤❤

[@stephaniebutler81]

Thank you for this Laura. I love Mama Tot, I was devastated for her when her son was killed.

[@MiloWren]

Ophelia said that people always say that they needed to hear her words and I always felt that watching her TikTok’s, but damn I was not expecting to REALLY need to see this video😭 She’a such a good role model! Loved seeing these strong amazing women together❤️

[@brand-EE]

I cried watching this. Especially the part about her ex-husband. I feel like that's how I am with my husband of 24 years. His addictions have led me to fight for him since we met. Even today, at 42 years old, I'm still fighting. I don't know if I should give up and walk away or keep fighting. Some days, it drains me. I don't think I'm as strong as Ophelia is to leave and start on my own. Anyway, thank you for this, Laura. 💓

[@JordynTruoca89]

Hearing why you are sensitive to other people’s emotions.. and hearing why you had to be, reminded me of my own childhood, very similar. I never connected that is why I am so sensitive to others feelings or why I pick up on other people’s emotions so well. Thank you for helping me understand that momma tot..😢❤

[@Thefatcatcrochets24]

My daughter absolutely adores Ophelia and was devastated for her when she lost her son, I'm thankful that my girl has Ophelia in her life, even if it is only on Tic Tok

[@sasto65]

Much respect to both Laura Clery and Mama Tot. This was truly time well spent. You both make our World a better place simply by being you.

[@AvasNana616]

Absolutely! 💯

[@titstatsandkittycats]

Johnny Ross responded to one of my comments on his channel... I was having suuuuch an awful day and the second i saw that i was just so over the moon. Couldn't believe it. And so i responded to his comment AND HE REPLIED AGAIN and was so gracious and so amazing and i just love him so so much. I don't know if influencers realize how much they do for the people that love them just by simply RESPONDING to them. Side note, my GOD listening to Ophelia talk about her mom I swear it's like listening to my own story word for word, I'm completely gogobsmacked right now!

[@dabsallday9938]

Girl, same! Except my mom wasn’t bipolar.. just a narcissist

[@dabsallday9938]

I’m also so very sorry you had a “mother” like that too.. 😢

[@patrishacutshaw7073]

It’s so freeing hearing Ophelia talk about her life and her story. I went through 2 years of physical and mental abuse with my daughters father and the entire first year of her life was lies and manipulation and abuse and I finally had enough and cut him off completely after her first birthday. That was a month ago and we are both so happy and healthy and thriving being away from him. My mental health is so much better and I’m happier and physically healthier now. I love hearing her talk about what she’s been through because it shows me that no matter what i went through, i will always be okay in the end and so will my baby girl.

[@Just_Jenny85]

16:17 literally me. i’m going to bawl my eyes out right now. i love you Laura. thank you for introducing me to her. and her story, it opened my eyes.

[@wic9288]

Her story is remarkable. Thank you for allowing her to share it on your show and great job with your hard work!

[@AudreyJDiCarlo]

I love how compassionate Ophelia and Laura’s convo was about Ophelia’s parents and moms bipolar

[@marissarios7218]

Laura- your new look (or just me now catching up) looks PHENOMENAL on you!!! You look amazing, very unique and beautiful!!

[@feighfarr8393]

Her son passed in odd circumstances in a vehicle related to drugs... Like his Father...and Ophelia handles it with so much Grace and Love.😢

[@aimeebaldwin5600]

Nothing I heard of her sons passing was odd just sad circumstances. Wrong place at the wrong time.

[@aimeebaldwin5600]

Also not like his father I don't think. I think that would be hurtful to read.

[@feighfarr8393]

@@aimeebaldwin5600 died in a car, in situations related to drugs..ummm..yes, That's what happened. Did u watch it?

[@aimeebaldwin5600]

@feighfarr8393 yes I've known for months. His dad died due to do a drug addiction. From what mamatot says he was a bad drug addict. Randon was probably selling a bad of weed. She talks about him smoking pot. I don't think he was an addict.

[@kieoranichols5134]

Love mama tots authenticity, transparency and warmth.

[@bernadetteb176]

My two favorite ladies ! Both have made me laugh...allowed me to cry and live along with you .

[@user-kn7lo6si5u]

This was a wonderful podcast, Laura. You were respectful & let the conversation flow. Ophelia is such an inspiration. She has so much compassion for others & strength of character. Love her

[@sydney.carlson]

I cried during the interview with Bunnie and I SOBBED during this. Mama Tot, you are so beautiful. Truly. Your grace, your soul, your appearance. You are once in a lifetime. I know you idolize Dolly, she would be in awe of you.

[@karenrose656]

Ophelia is a gem. So honest and true❤. Good pick there Laura ❤😊

[@sarahdickinson7855]

She is the perfect definition of the name "Ophelia" Ophelia is a Greek girl's name meaning "help," "aid," or "advantage." This name is best known for the tragic heroine in William Shakespeare's Hamlet. Although Ophelia's story is heartbreaking and poignant, the name also represents beauty and selflessness. Mama-Tot to a T ❤

[@edithmariequinones5328]

Mrs Ophelia is so kind, real , empathetic and sweet. But don’t mess with her or family! 😊

[@greeneyesmom]

Wow. Just wow. I have followed both Laura and Ophelia since the beginning. I loved them before, but now I respect both of them so much more. Laura for her ability to put Ophelia at ease and Ophelia for her showing us all how to forgive and treat people w love and kindness.

[@HeavenBond-hl5ft]

I’ve been following momma tot since that very first video and Laura helped me stay sane in an abusive relationship. It’s really awesome to see both of you sitting and chatting 🥰

[@nicolelueck8576]

I have to say this is one of your best interviews. It's nice to see something different than your your other interviews & seriousness.

[@nicholeprinkey7291]

My best friends mom was this for me as well. I named my daughter after her. My mother was not with me. My father took me away from her because of abuse. I did not get to know her until I was much older, and I am just now in my forties learning the extent of why this was. I am thankful everyday because I had my best friends mother in my life. Without her I would have been lost.

[@fayelove1000]

Man, I love Mrs. Ophelia’s transparency, love for life, respect for others, & genuine spirit. Your life pattern is so similar to mine in many ways but different. Also, I lost my son exact same way…❤️💜❤️💜🤷🏽‍♀️

[@zknight4481]

To have experienced so much pain, throughout her entire life, so much loss, so much heartache, so much grief, so much trauma, so much suffering, including the worst possible pain and loss a human being can ever experience- the loss of a child- and to still be able to say “I have a good life” after all of that? That’s fucking strength. Absolutely unmatched strength, perseverance, and optimism. Nobody wants to be strong like that, and I wouldn’t wish that kind of strength on my worst enemy because of what has to happen in your life to force you into that strength, but if anybody has it, it’s Ophelia Nichols. So many people would break under the weight of a lifetime of traumas piling up, even with all the good in between. I’m not too prideful to admit there’s no doubt in my mind that I’m one of them. This woman is an inspiration the likes of which we haven’t seen in a very long time. She’s endlessly kind, compassionate, empathetic, and loving. She just exudes love and peace and comfort from her very soul. I’m not religious anymore and I’m not delusional enough to think anyone is perfect, but Ophelia Nichols is truly angelic. The closest I’ve seen to the WWJD mentality that a lot of Christians claim to follow but never actually seem to. She models what it is to be a good Christian in a way that I haven’t even seen from pastors. It’s enough to make me reconsider my distance from religion, and to restore a little faith in humanity. And isn’t that the entire point of being a Christian trying to witness to people? To be such a reflection of Christ in your everyday life that you lead people to him without ever needing to say a word about religion at all, instead of pushing them away with your judgment and contempt and hatred? She accomplishes that without ever even saying the word God, while so many Christians actually trying to witness to others can’t do it while quoting straight from scripture or actively trying to entice people into their religion.

[@SexyRainbowDinosaurs]

My mama was/is the exact same way, Mama Tot. The anxiety about coming home from school hit me so hard. You never knew what you were going to get that day and it was terrifying. Thank you for sharing.

[@JujuMama23]

When she said that it made me want to be a better mom 🥺 I don’t ever want my baby to feel that anxiety

[@aimeebaldwin5600]

Mama Tot, some of this I knew but some I didn't. I think you could write a book and do the audiobook in your voice. The person you have become with what you went through is nothing short of amazing. And I love this collaboration.

[@moanak]

Thank you mama tot for sharing your story and still showing so much compassion and strength !

[@EbStefTv]

8 minutes in and I'm sobbing. A genuine heart like Ophelias is so touching.

[@ally4821]

Mama tot, I want to burst into tears in your lap for how you described the momma I grew up with. I'm 26 years old now and hate going back home so much that I quit talkin to mom around the holidays so I don't have to. I get the anxiety heading back to the house. I hold my breath and sometimes don't realize that I am until I've left her house. Bipolar is a scary disease as a child, you don't know who you're gonna get any day at any given time. It's frustrating as a child to not be able to voice your fears, or anything because of what she might say or what she might do. Even still as an adult I can't voice anything, setting boundaries... Forget it. She thinks of me as a friend than a child and I don't wanna be her friend I wanna be her daughter. But physically, emotionally, spiritually I can't. I used to wish I was in the family watching Full House or 7th Heaven because how in tune the parents were or how gentle and understanding they were towards emotions and big emotions. Thank you for sharing your insight... I have clung so hard to your words here. 🥰🩷🩷

[@georgettecastillion]

Ophelia is an Angel from above & such a bright light in this world! ❤✨️

[@kimosburn325]

I can’t tell you how much me and mama tot have in common when it comes to our relationship with our mothers. It makes me feel so good to know I am not alone and it helps me heal hearing how she has struggled and survived the relationship with her mom. Also, when I was a teenager I lost my best friend to a gun accident and it changed my life for ever. I think about my best friend all the time and credit her to why I have worked so hard to be a good person and live my life to the fullest. I always hug and luv on my children and loved one a little tighter bc I learned the hard way you never know what could happen. Sincerely enjoyed this and luv Laura and Ophelia

[@ophelianichols9249]

I’m currently uploading a video to TikTok right now. It will blow your mind. 🥹my mother is awful

[@kimosburn325]

@@ophelianichols9249 My mom was bipolar as well. I know exactly what you meant by you could never tell which mom you were going to get until she started talking to you. I had to make the difficult decision to walk away for my kids and to protect my peace. Boundaries and people pleasing is something I struggle with because of my relationship with my mom.

[@cherylmiller1970]

Your story is so much like mine momma tot, except I had 3 instead of 4 and was married to my 2nd and 3rd children’s daddy who passed away of an overdose when they were itty bitty, I am now married almost 26 yrs in May to my precious husband Cody Bill who accepted all of my babies from day 1, God has a plan and it always always works out, I feel so connected to you in so many ways and am so glad I found you, my momma was just like yours also, it’s crazy! There is so much more of my story that is identical to yours but I can’t go into that here, just know I know what and how you felt, feel and know I think you are the most amazing momma out there

[@kikimarriott8707]

I already love mama tot but this just made me feel so proud of her, she is an inspiration ❤

[@robinlane420]

The first time I heard Mama Tot, it felt like home! ALABAMA GIRL here. My life has many similarities. Love my Daddy 💙 RIP. If my family or friend's need me, I give them my full support & love! 🙏💙✌️🔮 🤗

[@taravines9749]

Ophelia Nichols is the mom I needed in my life ❤ I was raised by a single dad with my little brother. And my mom moved to another state and never stayed in contact. My dad never remarried and I was 5 when they got divorced. I now have my own son and could never just abandon him like my mom did me. I would do anything to have a mom in my life to be there for me.

[@nursegirly3248]

I love listening to you both ❤ my mom was like miss Jenny, we also grew up in poverty and it was just me and her but her doors were always open for my friends and neighbour kids. I had a tough time as a teenager with being bullied and home was my safe place, but I knew growing up that it was the opposite for many of my peers. Mama tot has overcome SO much adversity and she is so inspiring. Thank you for sharing so much ❤

[@danistirling515]

OMG ☺️☺️☺️ I SOOOO ENJOYED THIS 👏👏👏 MAMA TOT IS SUCH A BLESSING TO SO MANY & SHES LIKE SO MANY OF US WHO HAVE LIVED & HAD STRUGGLES SUCH A HUMBLE WONDERFUL WOMAN !!!!! THANK U FOR DOING THIS ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@Americanhoney86]

She cares and it shows. Wish Mama Tot nothing but the best.

[@delusionalcinderella]

It’s amazing how much she’s gone through yet is still just a BEACON for other people. She has such a special light that the universe tries to put out but she’s too bright.

[@mileytaylor1304]

I’ve been in healthcare for 10 years THE WORST thing you’ll ever hear is that mama/ parent from the soul scream when they learn their baby is gone. It doesn’t matter if the child is 2 Or 52 it’s always the same and it’s so from the core it shakes you. Now I’m a mama and I can’t imagine that pain idk how people go on but parents who continue life after losing their baby are the strongest people

[@googleuser3749]

I've heard it once & I still think about it. It's horrifying.

[@melaniemccann7327]

So very true lost my 37 yeat old daughter 2 months ago

[@mileytaylor1304]

@@googleuser3749 my first time hearing it I was 14 and watched a man pass in a horrific car crash unfortunately I was still there when his mom and dad arrived. Hearing her is why I chose my field I wanted to prevent that as much as possible. Now as a mama I had to leave the field after witnessing a small child pass last year I decided I could no longer do it

[@esseaem1451]

I agree, I’m an anesthesiologist and I hear it more than anyone should working the ED. It’s really sad.

[@melissawhite5108]

I really feel like Ophelia needs either her own podcast where people call in or talk show like Dolly did in Straight Talk! She is a genuine woman who has been through some really tough times but she is still very strong and so many are drawn to her ❤

[@Jezinator]

Thank you Mama Tot for bearing your soul to us and sharing so much of yourself. ❤

[@karayoung4411]

Two of my favorite people on social media together ❤❤❤ I read both of Laura’s books and I love these two women so much ❤

[@jadeanderson9375]

It is amazing to me how similar our lives are. My mother was bipolar and did all the same things hers did. I got that same anxiety on the bus. My mom died at 12. Almost 13. I could also never figure out why my dad and my mom were together. My dad is also very much an enabler but the kindest person. That to me is absolutely amazing

[@reneechandler2072]

“Run the Roads” must be a southern thing. I’ve heard that term my whole life!! lol especially as a teen. “don’t be out runnin the roads”

[@ambermatzke5304]

I love & respect these women so much. Allowing people to hear your story; Being so candid and raw is absolutely stunning. ❤

[@LovinTheP3nB]

MamaTot is so genuine. I just love her.

[@ashtonclark4039]

Mobile is proud of you Mama Tot! There’s been days where I started the day out in a rut and just watching one of your videos has completely turned my day around and inspired me to be a better mama and lean into the Lord. ❤

[@kittymama611]

"I fought with him, to fight for him" 😢

[@stephaniecook7603]

Yes!!!! I love mama tot! ❤

[@lizzponce]

This is one of the BEST interviews I've ever watched. Love you Mama Tot❣️🩵🙏

[@kaseylemonzz]

I’ve never loved a stranger like I love this woman.

[@krissylynn6466]

My story is so similar to mommatot. I was in group homes from 11 to 15 was abused by my family since I was 3 ton15. Moved 4 provenance away . Had my oldest child at 16 and I'm still with the father to this day. My mother always wanted me to struggle more then she did. I'm now 28 with 2 kids and doing my very best. It's hard to heal from such a broken past

[@abbytamara5823]

I had my daughter at 26 weeks because of preeclampsia. My BP was 270/150 - it was terrifying on so many levels. I’m okay now and my daughter is perfect - thank God for all of the incredible doctors and nurses… I remember all I wanted to do was to run to my mom during that time. I needed her. She told me “look at yourself. There’s something wrong with you that this child decided that the outside world was safer than being with you.” It broke me into pieces. At that time, the only thing that was keeping me going was my daughter. I had to survive for her but GOD, my body wanted to quit. I had nothing left…so hearing that part specifically… that hit