Love & Marriage Huntsville | Season 3 | Reunion pt. 2

[@heffasaywhat8259]

The fact that Martell has been free of his marriage for nearly two years now, yet STILL refused to claim her on a National platform says it all.

[@salvation1992]

Exactly on live TV he said he won't be with her,he is ashamed of her and wouldn't want to film with her. She's good enough for him behind the scenes.

[@winx0191]

that part! i hate how they keep sayin he must love her. NO, THIS ISNT LOVE! He wants control. thats it

[@ladytee8068]

Exactly. The man called her a peasant.

[@mahoganyjoy3502]

That's why that heffa is having social media fits and she acts like the viewers don't see it. She blamed Mel for being in the way before they were divorced. Coleslaw even talked about them getting married after the divorce, and the drama cuts to him harassing Mel. Coleslaw feels stupid in front of the world now because he still doesn't want her. But forgave him for calling her a peasant.

[@dougedoug2105]

It says what, that he wanted to be single all along? That was obvious. Most no good men will enter into another relationship to bait their wives into divorcing them. Then they leave the other woman behind because they ultimately wanted to be single. It has something to do with their flawed guilt complex; In their minds, if they didn’t initiate the divorce, then it isn’t their fault the marriage ended 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@dinathadiva7981]

Let’s be clear, this is Melody Holt’s show. She pitched the idea to Carlos King and the rest was history. The side chick does not deserve to come on the platform she built. Melody has been humiliated enough.

[@kymCPT]

✊🏽💯🔥🔥🔥🔥…Please Repost/Say it again LOUDER for the Underdeveloped 🧠’s !…🥰

[@gloriadavis2837]

Say that again for the people in the back.

[@ladyleo9780]

💯

[@salvation1992]

Exactly, people just hate Mel and want her hurt. Her story is done, nothing she can say, now she wants to attack the Scott's.

[@LuvScorpio]

Exactly! And nobody wants to see or hear Arionne on TV. We can barely stand to hear her talk on the net. Not interested at all.

[@ROSEMOORE35]

I ask my gynecologist why she didn’t have her husband last name when I looked at her lab coat. & with the most serious face said “cause I went to medical school not him”

[@prentfaiyaz]

Facts

[@CoilyAmazonChic]

Exactly!!!

[@laetitiannyoung6545]

Periodddd

[@mommasitayoung148]

Alrighty Then. 🤣 Now that’s Real !

[@penelopepitstop401]

What your doctor should of said was, NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS

[@t-bird8708]

Funky is like a therapist you hate to love. But you do...he has very thoughtful, brutally honest, hilariously gut busting reviews.

[@sparr5132]

This is the realist statement!

[@goldenskandi]

Like always this is an awesome review. I really just wanna know what does Arionne need a platform to speak about. Besides the little idle threats she throws around at the other couples, she’s told everything else for free. She doesn’t have a story to sell cause she gave it away for free. She chose to talk shit all over social media thinking Mel would leave sooner because she really believed the mess Martel was telling her. She wasn’t a restaurant, she was a drive thru. Martel bragged about being home everyday by 6pm… 7a - drive the kids to school 8a - morning meeting at H&H 930a - meet with a client or view some properties 12p - have lunch with your wife 2p - roll thru the drive thru cause you want a nasty snack 430p - gym time 6p - home for dinner, baths, and bedtime prayers with your real family. There’s nothing else to add to this jacked up story that destroyed a whole family. They can have each other now, so she can shut up & he can stop working so hard to hurt Mel. It’s disgusting.

[@swiftjustice04]

@@goldenskandi wow sounds you have a serious dislike of Melody.

[@goldenskandi]

@@swiftjustice04 what 🤨 where did you get that from my post? Hope you’re being facetious.

[@gentleraine480]

@@goldenskandi When Tank becomes a young man, he will have hard time looking up to his father…🤷🏽‍♀️

[@shantechavis2489]

Carlos is a good host, however saying the side piece is a whole restaurant was absurd as well as saying Mel wasnt "enough" was/is False. Martell's issues are his, not Mel's.

[@salvation1992]

Exactly, Mel is too much of a woman for Martel.

[@CHall-yu2sr]

Right!! That pissed me off.

[@tinawalker5335]

The truth is hurtful sometimes.

[@lovinkels1]

I was yelling at the tv when he told that woman that maybe she wasn't enough.

[@terickastidbits2342]

I mean it’s facts tho. He cheated for 5 years ands destroyed his marriage because of her acting like she isn’t important to him is stupid. Just like acting like Melody was enough FOR HIM when clearly she wasn’t isn’t also stupid

[@NicoleC007]

The side chick does NOT need a platform! 😒

[@l.c.warren5638]

Tiffany and Lewis isn’t giving what Carlos thinks…they’re not the characters we love to hate. They’re just annoying af.

[@daisyyall6781]

I literally can’t stand them

[@leichaurellelux7547]

Dry as a stale cigar they need to go back to being the messy church couple you know them new churches that be big and last all of 30 minutes. And serve juice and cookies at the end and kids come dress in beach dresses boring type of church.

[@touchyanose9464]

I get disgusted upon sight of them

[@l.c.warren5638]

@@leichaurellelux7547 this one had me rollin. I been to one of those churches before

[@l.c.warren5638]

@@daisyyall6781 right! But Carlos tryna tell US why WE don’t like them. Just let it go, Los. This was a miscasting, period.

[@sodeterminedx3]

I hope they go in a different direction with the show next season. I would like to get some knowledge on how to get into the home building business, see Mel in action with her classes. See them actually start and finish a project. Would have been nice to see Tisha show the struggles of being a mom, wife, and student. She could have motivated others to stay the course. I'm sure Mel is as sick of this divorce stuff as we are. Show them traveling. Could have shown Kimmi working the front lines. Let's change the narrative to show some positivity in these smart black people lives.

[@dimelachae3463]

As nice as that sounds, nobody would watch. Nobody was interested in this show until It was revealed that Martel was seeing coleslaw. None was checking for own except for people who like watching positive shows but they last maybe 1 or 2 seasons, then on to the next… but once Mel, Martel and coleslaw became the topic of discussion ratings went up and now everyone is benefiting.

[@marciaholmes591]

@@dimelachae3463 my sentiments exactly!

[@marciaholmes591]

The thing is...life is messy. They actually show alot of positive things but they also show the b.s. If this show was to be played out with your proposed narrative it would need to go to a completely different network

[@josephinebournes8212]

It's OWN not HGTV

[@JackieDelon]

@@josephinebournes8212 💀💀💀stopppp😂😂 but no facts

[@BEAUTIINBRAVERY]

they asked ALL the right questions. 10/10 to Carlos for getting right to it. Martell is a strange human being.

[@vanessabattle2905]

He is just that.

[@97indianuk]

It’s obvious why they keep being friends with Martell. He knows too much of their business. Everyone has to pacify him and keep him in line.

[@carlisashecares4urkidzhair347]

📌🎯💯💥

[@melodyholt500]

@@97indianuk he doesn't know anything about their business. They say online that he has nothing on them

[@lamarlo4437]

He's deeply insecure because he's a fraud and doesn't believe in himself.

[@toughflowers5088]

Since Carlos made that statement about coleslaw, a lot of ya'll are changing ya'll tune. As a wife I will never side with a home wrecker

[@CoilyAmazonChic]

Can you wreck a home from the outside?

[@laetitiannyoung6545]

@@CoilyAmazonChic yup sure can.

[@rodricksudduth1589]

U

[@IamNikkiG]

I am a wife and I would never give the power to another woman for what my husband did. Your husband is a homewrecker not the woman. We need to start holding the husbands accountable for what they’re doing.

[@IamNikkiG]

@@CoilyAmazonChic correct . Blame the husband

[@allthewayupnorth_8155]

No, Arrione can't come on...EVER. Nobody associated with her can come on..EVER. The gag is Martell don't want her on either. He could have been had a dinner scene with her face blurred or something. Why should she make money off Mel after causing Mel's pain. You're right she comes off really immature and silly on social media. She's controllable, that's what Martell likes to do. He can control her, he couldn't control Mel.

[@tinawalker5335]

Mel is making money off of her at this point. Mel and Martell would NOT have been the breakout couple if it weren’t for her for 3 seasons. Arionne is the reason everyone is watching them. Just like kihwa is a consistent story line for kimmie because they need the drama. Kihwa is on the show because she’s able to defend herself and give her POV

[@lifeasalexzandryia4391]

Arrione isn't the only one easy to control... Mel stayed for 5 years and her energy now is for tv

[@hershey8544]

@@tinawalker5335 ... Naw... The infidelity could of been anybody... She identified herself doing Tasha k... So she contributed NOTHING!!!

[@auntiel5301]

@@tinawalker5335 now u sounding like Arionne. If she wanted to make money off Melody she should have started her own show on tv. Now no way should she earn one dime off Melody on tv and a show Melody started. Please

[@Tasha8626]

Y’all gotta stop acting like Melody is this victim. She capitalized off her own pain for riches and fame. Her and Martell made this woman apart of their storyline. Like it or not they’re the ones who have given her too much attention on this show.

[@nik-at-nite]

I actually like Destiny’s energy 🤷🏽‍♀️ Again, we never saw much of her marriage to speak on how masculine or feminine she was, but when it comes to the energy she gave to Martell and Marsau it was warranted. They said some real disrespectful things. You can’t poke and not expect to get punched back just because of the gender differences. That’s that patriarchal bs.

[@yvettejohnson7417]

Destiny responds realistically to situations except... when she pulled Mel aside at her party. That was dumb.

[@sonyab2u974]

Facts!

[@moniquesmith5186]

@@yvettejohnson7417 AND when she confronted Kimmie about her ex husband aka “Chicken man” I didn’t like that at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@BeltwayChina]

She admitted to her energy described by Marsau and Q. So, unless you don’t believe her, she took accountability for it. She even went as far to say, “I need a man to bring out my feminine energy,” to which Marsau responded, “Well, I can’t help you because I’m married.”

[@nik-at-nite]

@@yvettejohnson7417 I agree

[@charnamosely372]

Martell and Coleslaw are childish. Both are too damn disrespectful

[@ChiCityGirl87]

I think Melody would not cared if Coleslaw graced the TV. It was the DISRESPECT . You can’t bite the hand THAT NEED TO FEED YOU

[@mrsa6925]

I’m glad because in the end it will get REAL nasty between the two of them; now Melody has removed herself it will get worse. She was the common enemy while she and Martell remained married. Now, they’re divorced, we get to see how solid 💪🏾 Martell and Coleslaw are! Clowns 🤡

[@swiftjustice04]

They are two of a kind.

[@maryjanesbaby9392]

Carlos was putting Martell on the spot in front of Mel not to hurt her but to get the answers she needed to hear from Martell but never answered.

[@DeeWins111]

Facts … he pretty much was saying if she is the restaurant why are you not there? Cause you are free to do so now.

[@TracesofTwaunsLife]

Exactly!

[@k0k01]

I think he didn’t want to hurt Mel but I also think he would choose Arionne if he could go back. I honestly think they are a better match. Mel always wanted more but Arionne would have been happy with whatever Martel gave her. Now that’s not a good thing but it seems to be a better match.

[@maryjanesbaby9392]

@@k0k01 Mel was the one who helped Martell stay in school and graduate college. Mel was the brains behind business decisions to make sure they maintained their lifestyle. So now Martell can live in mediocrity with Arionne with no hard feelings because he have nothing to offer her but his community d!ck.

[@k0k01]

@@maryjanesbaby9392 yea whatever it still would’ve been a better match with Arionne. Mel was dragging dead weight that really did want to be drug. He was happy to just make it out of the hood, and Mel wanted to be a star.

[@shesosweet2781]

Destiny isn't entirely wrong. Women have been put in a position where they have to rely on themselves and 'be the man'. It does take a certain type of man to break down that barrier and shield, it requires patience and understanding. When she asked 'Where's the man to bring out here feminine side?' it speaks to the point of feeling safe enough to not have to be your own hero; protector, provider, etc.

[@natylamckinney1549]

Totally agree. I married late in life and my husband agreed that it was okay to hyphenate but he is a man’s man and takes care of the whole me just not parts of me.

[@teresahodge4846]

Woman always remember it not easy to be in a relationship after divorce ....... Some time s it's good sometimes it hard to find love out here the man I'm in love with he had to work on himself and I had to work on myself because of we both set in our ways ..,.... I had to rise my kids alone and with family and he didn't have a good relationship with his kids so my kids came first he had to understand and he gets it...... We love each other and it works.... Because we work at it..... Almost 8 years together..... 😊😊😊🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😎😎😎😎😂🤭

[@teresahodge4846]

My kids love my man so much...... He had to change a little... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@octoberjanae7177]

I don’t think destiny possesses too much masculine energy. I think she’s not a door mat, naive, or gullible enough to allow a man to treat her any kind of way. Look at the cast… kimmy and Maurice don’t communicate and Tisha doesn’t have a voice so if that what it takes to be married then EVERY woman doesn’t want that.

[@taylortate8014]

Right??!!!! And then to assume Destiny forcing shit when she just being her genuine awesome self! What in the sexist patriarchal bs!

[@ThatDoll25]

This cast is full of chauvinists. I hated how they tried to gaslight Destiny and convince her she’s crazy for not letting them handle her any kind of way.

[@dougedoug2105]

Destiny is a man, psychologically speaking. Any woman who doesn’t want her husband’s last name is a man

[@r.nicole378]

DR. FRANCIS needed a segment of the reunion. He would have held all them ACCOUNTABLE. Kimmie, don’t trust Maurice. You in the same boat as Ticha. The Scott Brothers are no prizes. 👍

[@JAdoreQT123456]

Hellllll yes!

[@Understanditokay]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@amccullor19]

Martell hasn't completely hit rock bottom yet.

[@diva_keka4364]

Isn't he going Bankrupt??

[@jazznorelletv]

@@diva_keka4364 financially bankrupt is what he knows but its the personal spirit bankruptcy he isn't aware of.

[@diva_keka4364]

@@jazznorelletv Does it seems like nobody wants to work with Martell anymore after his divorce?

[@jazznorelletv]

@@diva_keka4364 only that one friend. Martell still doesn't have his builders license and he can't keep his composure in business meetings, nor draft up plans. So no license, no business acumen, no Melody, no money....just audacity, muscles, and a smile. Not a good mix.

[@cristina-dk4vo]

His rock bottom is going to be dangerous. She needs a restraining order & a gun

[@Star-Mac10]

Martell will take all the husbands to h3ll with him if they abandon him. That's just what narcs do.

[@sheron3068]

I do my happy dance when I see there's a new video out. Idc if Funky be talking about rain evaporation I'm here for it...

[@carlisashecares4urkidzhair347]

OK💥💯🎯📌☕

[@ayrea_glampartyarea]

Facts

[@nicolelocqueen]

not rain evaporation! 😂

[@mrsnicolem.1291]

Yes ma'am 👏🏽

[@BriLuvMusic]

Facts 🙌🏾

[@WynRank1908]

I’m with you Louis and Tiffany don’t need to return for season 4. Great review as always!!!

[@BlaydeAlabama]

We need somebody to add to balance Tisha and her mammy

[@Lalasworld828]

Melody absolutely need to get primary custody and move away. Martells toxic and narcissistic behavior will spill over to his kids if it hasn’t already.

[@autsim]

EXACTLY

[@YasmeenIman-s9r]

Period

[@zoeb3639]

I don't think of Arrione as a victim. No one told her to be a side chick. She seems pretty proud of her relationship with Martell. Last time I checked side chick's know the rules. They usually don't get rights or platforms. If anyone she should be upset with is herself for allowing Martell to get her mixed up in a mess. However, she benefited from the relationship. I really feel empathy for Mel and her children, even Arrione's son. People can be really mean.

[@Jezbel1466]

This👆🏽

[@gloriahines5756]

One thing about it the side chick position is open

[@ladyleo9780]

@Zarifa Burroughs. Speak on it. If she gets a show I hope she mentions the story of her own past because this is not her first time at the rodeo. Her daughter's father is a married man as well. It say's a lot about her own character and integrity. Yep, playing the game and don't know the rules. Her little group of fans just don't know her actions and spilling the tea..will eventually make their game exempt and her as well. Starting a new breed of chicks who got something to lose and don't talk, that will be the new thing. "We Ain't Thirsty." No phones, no photo's, no witnesses, no story to tell, we got something to lose. Holla...Holla "Last Call....For Alcohol"

[@ladyleo9780]

@@gloriahines5756 Nahhhhhh, that door is closed right about the time she reveals her story. New breed coming, "We Got Something to Lose To Crew." Watch it's coming. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zoeb3639]

@@ladyleo9780 honestly I am not putting her down. Just keep it a buck. In life you live and learn. You can't put yourself in a mess and be mad your in a mess. She has a lot of growing up mentally to do.

[@carmtrav]

It's unfair to Coleslaw? Why does Coleslaw deserve anything? She played herself. She put herself out there for public consumption. She could have stayed in the shadows, but she wanted to be something she will NEVER be. She literally ate off of Mel's plate for years. Now, somehow she deserves Mel's platform out of fairness? There is no fairness when you are the nasty Interloper! Come on Funky. Wives and sidechicks are not the same and do not deserve the same consideration...and Carlos WAS unnecessarily rude to Mel. Tough questions? Fine. Insulting questions... "How does it feel to know you were not enough?" Wtf? Perhaps Carlos is just pissed that Mel won't let he and Martell throw that trick in her face(on camera) for ratings.

[@mrsa6925]

If coleslaw comes on to LAMH, Mel should leave. I wouldn’t bother watching. Coleslaw done played herself and it’s only a matter of time until she too is replaced as the main squeeze. Martell is already out there with other women sooooooooo…let the battle of the side pieces begin!

[@gloriadavis2837]

👏👏

[@daddyschoc]

Yep she comes on that show I will npt watch.

[@teekayyyy4802]

Yes!!! You said that perfectly!! Funky and Carlos are two men speaking on an issue they know nothing about.

[@sunkissed6413]

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooookayyyyyyyy!!!!!!!! sidekick don't deserve NONE of Mels camera time!!!! Like why people don't understand that!! she don't deserve to be on LAMH!!! she don't deserve to be on no tv platform! People hear her side of the story when she jumps on social media! Carlos was wrong in how he asked them questions! it was classless.

[@mzzchachacha3946]

I totally disagree that just because Mel and Martell had kids that she should be darn near sentenced to 18 years of his childish narcissistic behavior. She does not have to live in misery because of his choices. I hope she finds a way where she can move out of that state ASAP! And it’s not unfair that Coleslaw doesn’t have a platform‼️🙄 She had a choice to not get involved with Martell. Her story is she fell for the oldest trick in the book, a married man telling her how unhappy he was at home for sex. The end and end scene. She should have demanded that he get a divorce and then who cares what her and Martell did after that.

[@ladyleo9780]

That's the real bottom line story. They both have time and space now. What 's stopping you now.

[@uncoverthetruth8365]

U better preach! I’m sick of hearin that toxic ass narrative I have a coworker that separated from his wife after like 2 years And they have one daughter and the family intervenes when it comes to the kids There is no interaction between the two of them The family is the mediator The aunt might pick up the kid and bring her to the dad and vice versa That’s an excuse toxic people use who are too scared to cut the ties completely so They use the kid as an anchor Nah There’s ways around that People chose to be miserable

[@nishashawn2021]

She does have to co parent with him. What are you saying? Hes the dad.

[@peachdawl]

My only disagreement is about the 18 year sentence. Martell was not a good husband however it seems that he is a good dad - the two are separate. That said, the judge's ONLY responsibility - legally - is to the minor children. He would not have that responsibility if the two adults who made them could also make an agreeable solution. the fact that they cannot be agreeable is THE only reason for a judge. That said, yes, unfortunately Mel has to live with that - it's not about her - it is ONLY about the children. However, I do empathize with her on that issue.

[@mzzchachacha3946]

@@peachdawl great points made. And I agree, it’s very sad and unfortunate because that will be a control tactic that Martel will use over Mel until those children are 18.

[@reneejr3650]

Kimmi was right about them leaving to not be complicit with their friend's BS. U see what happens when they stayed, the peasant took it as "we've all been hanging out, we're all friends" & she took pics etc of everybody that they thought were innocent as receipts. She's a child, Martell is child-like, my grown azz would've NEVER entertained them individually or together. Martell is a liability. Hope the Scotts learned their lesson.

[@daddyschoc]

Thank u and thats whats pissing me off. If the bitch didnt come w or invited by me thats on whoever (Martell) that brought her dog ass. And Maurice never said he knew nothin about Arionne he said he wasnt hanging out w her. As in we wasnt kicking it she n Martell were. Exactly why Kimmi said he shouldve left cuz hes being tAlked about because Martell is a disrespectful ass cheater.

[@gentleraine480]

Definitely a liability that professionally I could never tolerate. Completely changed my own professional game due to toxicity. Earned less (immediately after the transition) but peace of mind well worth it. Martell cannot get out of his own way long enough to see the possibilities of his new life.

[@tonimcclain1180]

Ur absolutely RIGHT...when Martell's pushed n a corner with a ?? he doesn't want to talk about, the lil boy act materializes and he starts the MJ moon walk away from it ..he's a child an' ppl don't like him...he needs to grow up and change his PR ppl..

[@reneejr3650]

@@tonimcclain1180 Him & his lil girlfriend irks my soul! I wanted her on the show for all perspectives to the BS, but now I don't even wanna see dumb & dumber having dumb immature azz conversations about such a serious situation involving kids, souls & real emotions. My nosey azz has a flair for the drama, but this has become too heavy for me to even enjoy. 🙏🙏for Mel & her kids..F Martell & his girlfriend!

[@SpiritualLifeCoach43]

You are so right!!!

[@reneejr3650]

We still didn't get any answers from Destiny. If she can't show her reality on reality tv, she needs not to be on a reality tv show🤷

[@mizzmiami3242]

I can see her being embarrassed because HE asked for the divorce 3 weeks after giving birth 😞

[@DeeDiamond2981]

@@mizzmiami3242 me too

[@Julygirl77]

I’m so happy someone said this!!!!! I’m like stop giving her a pass for not sharing her whole truth! She’s on a reality show and still not telling her full story.

[@swhite3633]

They kept calling her masculine. So she ran with that. So if a woman has an opinion and could hold their own, their masculine.

[@LaLaLisa3]

I love destiny’s energy! Like she said, where’s the man that can make her soft !? Ladies we know what she means. She probably felt as if she was having to take on more roles of leading the household , parenting etc, so it made her feel as if she couldn’t be soft and feminine . If she shared more info about her marriage, I bet she’d say something similar .

[@jadeehm]

Agreed!!!! There are women who run their households out of necessity!!! I am certain there are women who would love to be able to relax and let someone else take charge, making sure the appliances are off and the doors are locked at night to create a safe environment while sleeping!!! Perhaps during an emotional crisis, just having someone to collapse in the arms of would make any strong woman feel secure, safe, and yes, soft and feminine!!! Please don’t mistake strength and independence for masculinity because that is an assumed male role!!! Many many many women have had to assume this role dating back historically just out of basic necessity because there was no choice!!!🤔🤨

[@BklynCapri]

I like Destiny too

[@Princess-yr2tj]

Agreed

[@erekgamingberliner2]

I like DestIny too but funky was right her and Melody are too masculine.

[@CG-uh9zc]

@@erekgamingberliner2 they are. And melody’s mouth! I don’t see how ppl don’t get that that’s a lot of why her and Martell argue constantly. Of course he does passive aggressive things, but she also needs to sthu sometimes

[@ericasimms651]

Martell drunk ass mama can’t beat anybody. Martell is unfit if Melody have to pay his light bill so when the kids come over they have electricity.

[@isattathecreator]

When Mel said Martell crawled up those steps to talk to that girl I screeeeaaaamed at the image of it in my head. 😂😂😂😭

[@salvation1992]

Me too girl, ain't no mountain high enough 😂. That man is a fool

[@kangoocutee1198]

Me too!! I was like damn, if "By Any Means" was a person!!

[@sonyab2u974]

😂😂😂😭😭😭

[@danabenson4125]

And the devil would have got in me. I would have hit a Diary of a Mad Black Woman scene on Martell. Probably rolled him back down those stairs. You got the nerve, Martell.

[@salvation1992]

@@danabenson4125 I would have hurt his damn back again the nerve. Then he was still angry on the hospital bed when she told him they should separate, but knowing all along his with his trick.

[@twinklegallery]

Agreed that Destiny wears masculinity as a badge of honor. It's a survival technique. Women that act like this in relationships don't act like that when they feel safe and secure with the men. I bet there are some things she is not sharing about how he made her feel.

[@DannieLj14]

Exactly. That's why alot of women are like this with one man but the complete opposite with another... It's how he makes you feel as a woman.

[@divaslm1]

Agree. Martell Holt is toxic and has no remorse and accountability. Scott brothers are just like him.

[@nancycobb342]

Martell leads the way.

[@divaslm1]

@@nancycobb342 i heard it was Marsau who leads and is older

[@nancycobb342]

@@divaslm1 ohh okok that's possible he's hiding behind Martell since Martell slow and don't get it.

[@tmitchem81]

The idea that "fairness" needs to play a part for Arionne is simply ridiculous 🙄 This is part of the reality of being the Coleslaw/Sidechick in a situation. The reality is that your getting the least. Because you put yourself in a position to want so little for yourself that took a piece of married man, instead of finding your own. You treated your own self to the least of him. So simply she's getting the same energy, she gave herself.

[@RB-ux9bh]

Well said!

[@serinawoods-huntley1175]

I hate when ppl try to separate the man/husband from the father 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ As IF Martell’s actions hasn’t turned those children’s lives upside down and will impact them for the REST of their lives. Was Martell being a good father when he was out creeping during the pandemic when their youngest was JUST born??? Was he a good father to risk them ALL getting sick???? I mean....several examples of his selfishness negatively affecting his children.

[@PrettiNPiink]

That part

[@funkydineva]

Just cause a man don’t want that woman don’t mean he don’t want his kids!!

[@tiptoeing4515]

Now you knowwwwwww😂 when a lot of men leave a woman. They leave them kids to.🤣

[@yvettejohnson7417]

He wants it all. He's a sinking ship.

[@ladyleo9780]

@@funkydineva Sorry, but you read this one wrong. Mel does not want Martel period. Thus the divorce. If he didn't want her then he could have filed. No, Martel is not a good father he is just an active father in their lives and doing damage to them at the same time with the blatant disrespect of their mother. Martel and coleslaw both are double-minded people living in a strong "spirit of confusion" it's way too obvious. For me, it either is..or it ain't, it is either right or wrong and anything in between is bullshi$. For every action there is a reaction. What is really mindblowing is that coleslaw want's to tell her side, but fails to mention her second time around having 2 children both by married men and acts so unbothered by it from Ohio to Huntsville. Pride comes before a fall. Nothing good will come of it. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤐🤐🤐🤐🤐

[@divaslm1]

Martell brought the peasant from Ohio to Huntsville. She represents the gutter where he is from. Martell wants and needs Melody to advance, but he is jealous and envious of her.

[@cynthia9908]

Ooohhh….that part!

[@nik-at-nite]

Uh don’t bring Ohio into this. Alot of us have class lol

[@ladyleo9780]

@@nik-at-nite Truly, we all know that. People of this caliber are from everywhere. Ohio just so happens to be the State from whence she came. We know that there are great people everywhere. North, South, East and West from all 4 corners of the Earth. Continue to remain blessed with goodness in your heart. It is everything. Happy Holidays.⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘🎄🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@theresadavis-bowling2808]

Exactly!

[@swiftjustice04]

He moved her to Huntsville??Are you serious?

[@kjdnyhmghfvb]

I don't think Destiny has a lot of Masculine Energy. She is very straight forward and matter of fact, the real question is why is that seen as masculine. Why does that even have a gender attached to it? Being as straightforward and matter of fact as she is, I am almost certain she didn't just spring that on him the day before the wedding. As she said her only brother was no longer around to carry on another legacy, and even if not, I'm sure this discussion happened many times and parties agreed. In a few years, it will come to fruition, however the end of the announcement, may say it all...but that's not my story to tell.

[@ButtahBeauty]

She said her self she has bde that’s male energy

[@jazznorelletv]

Its considered male energy because she isn't financially dependent where she has to put up with any and everything that comes her way. If she was like a Tisha and getting walked over while still shouldering all the finances she would be considered stupid but feminine.

[@nik-at-nite]

@@ButtahBeauty She also said that in a condescending way in response to what Marsau said about her

[@meriah10]

Masculine means it is traditionally associated with men, which is a fact. I have BDE and I love it, nothing negative about a woman having masculine energy, plenty of men have feminine energy. Destiny will find the right guy for her

[@HolleeGolightlee82]

@@meriah10 This!

[@aleeyabrown4447]

If you’re going to reality tv reviews THIS is the type you should do! Why have you and Carlos not collaborated yet 😩

[@USERKINGING]

Chile they collaborate a lot behind the scenes!! I’m ready to see it on the screen lol

[@angelathomas3005]

It's about to happen in the part 1 review funky eluded to it happening. I'm here for it 😊

[@gentleraine480]

@@angelathomas3005 Absolutely ready for a collaboration! Smart as hell x2 and taking no prisoners!!!

[@PulchritudeDiva]

No one knew her name until you! Her tale is old as time! So the system is messed up! A woman should not be held hostage and made to stay anywhere! Martell is still controlling her and the courts aiding him. Melody’s mother’s name is Ms. Van not Val…please don’t disrespect moms!

[@kizzyhampton8678]

And Coleslaw is reveling in the fact that people are talking about her, “it’s nothing to be proud of sweetie, being known for being someone’s mistress” 🙄

[@milly.y.b1926]

Sidenote: Stop peddling this champagne to us and the website keep saying be back soon. Let Marsau know 😂😂

[@trecd8211]

Or pre-order then get 🍾6.5% in February 👏🏾🤣👏🏾🤣

[@Kaleepha]

@@trecd8211 February 👀🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

[@dougedoug2105]

Ok, I wanted to buy some for my mom for XMAS. Marsau & Tish are full of shit

[@trecd8211]

@@dougedoug2105 Oh nooooo Xmas‼️ Yes Valentine's if you order now‼️🤣🤣🤣 "Huntsville people" in my FuNKkkkkkky voice, aint gone do right👌🏾

[@trecd8211]

@@Kaleepha 🤣🤣🤣and don't be seasoned like me 6.5% is for brunch👌🏾

[@swhite3633]

Full custody doesn’t mean he can’t see them

[@iblaqgold]

“Birds of a feather flock together and it makes me question all of y’all” lisseeeeeennnnnnnn that part!

[@blackgirlmagic9487]

We tired of hearing about the side chick .. she ain’t on the show & never will be ! He didn’t need to keep asking questions referring to her. Martell is a damn trip 🤣

[@angelaabron3080]

You are absolutely right when you said Martel is a very flawed person. He’s quick to “dish it” but “can’t take it.”

[@MilwaukeeAmanda]

Heyyyy Funky Bunch we got us a late night special!!! Thanks Q!

[@quanajae6918]

Hunniiiii I’m so ready

[@TheShaniVerse]

Yesss!

[@gospel4303]

Heyyyy

[@AnointedOne-cb8ms]

Martell is a good father now because the kids can’t see through his bs yet. When they get older, can see clearly and call him out, he will quickly flip on them too. Poor babies!

[@Womeninthezone]

exactly. he'll cling to the mistress child who will remain grateful but the other kids will leave him.

[@SugaShan]

Those kids may be physically safe with their father but their father is emotionally dangerous to everyone involved in this situation… the kids need their father & their father needs therapy…they should go together ❤️

[@isattathecreator]

It can turn physical real quick unfortunately. I tried to separate my issues with my narcissistic child’s father and let him still have a relationship with him, but when I got in a serious relationship his behavior became worse and worse and then after three years he physically and verbally assaulted my son so bad I had to call CPS and get an emergency custody hearing smh. They have been to therapy together and Martell had gone as well. Unfortunately if Martell really is a narcissist or sociopath, it won’t do him any good.

[@dougedoug2105]

Yeah but he isn’t ever going to go to therapy so that’s a wash

[@reneejr3650]

Tiffany is a broken person who lacks social graces..seemingly from childhood insecurities & issues. Her type takes correction as criticism & is always in "rescue me" mode so they require a lot of protection. Hope Lewis is prepared for that major DRAINING role for the rest of his life. He thinks he has a prize, when he really has a problem🙆👀

[@DeeDiamond2981]

Correct.

[@k0k01]

She was definitely raised by a “Karen”. Biracial people who have white mothers tend to have a superiority complex when it comes to black people.

[@leichaurellelux7547]

I agree Tiffany is not built for reality TV. They trying to drag people however they are to timid to do so. The comments causing her to feel she should jump off a bridge. Her husband really want a check I get it he want that reality money however his big gruff butt need to go back to there basic life with them other folks before he end up on divorce number 2. I have to fast forward thru scenes of those two. Either bring some real heat and be ready for the return heat or go home. Y'all is the not reason we need to see next season.

[@brittneymarshall2278]

That part

[@Scorpioboo98]

Martell is a true example of a narcissist to his core. He lacks empathy, sympathy, and has a grandiose personality. It’s scary to see him in live motion because he’s unpredictable and hostile. He still wants to hold control over Mel and will not stop. And he’s cheated with more woman that just Arian curry!! He keep Mel and coleslaw and a whole menu full of sides 🤦🏾‍♀️ lowdown and dirty

[@swiftjustice04]

He’s dangerous I hope Melody realizes this.

[@lifeisthedash]

Facts...deniva defending an arse hole.

[@nikkyluv2244]

Sounds like you know a lil sum sum about narcissism sis…. Oh yes! True depiction he is

[@camilles.9694]

I love those Dineva pauses... you KNOW he’s coming with something powerful after one ‘o dem pauses.

[@jaricanicholas2553]

kimmie too real for this damn show I love her she speak her mind very respectful and that’s just that.. like nene “ and I ain’t changing it “😂

[@Reese2336]

Respectfully, you're going a little too easy on Martell. If he didn't want her he could have left. He could also agree to co parent the children from another state and let her heal. He is emotionally abusing her and that can be more damaging than physical abuse and she shouldn't be forced to endure it.

[@lifeisthedash]

Exactlyyyyy because both ways affect kids negatively

[@terickastidbits2342]

Emotional abuse is on both sides. Not just Martell people have a bad habit of thinking cutting words said in a soft tone make them less damaging and they don’t. If she hate Huntsville so much she always has the choice of giving their dad full physical custody and move to Atlanta. SHE could agree to coparent from another state and go heal. He already told her he would like full custody if that’s what she wanted. But she’d rather be unhappy in Huntsville. She doesn’t get to take his kids because she u happy

[@amenahking7863]

@@terickastidbits2342 I'm sure Melody wishes she has that kind of man to co-parent with...but Martell has PROVEN that he can't be trusted. He acts like he's out for MONEY when he's supposed to be the man and provider for his children. She said she was paying is light bill just so the children have power when they go visit him...and he didn't deny it. So just because he paints some cute faces, that doesn't mean he's father of the year.

[@sharonkennedy6256]

As a married woman I hope that coleslaw woman is never allowed to film. That is the day I will stop watching the show. That would be a disrespect to all wives.

[@yobiwolrd07]

It's not that deep.....

[@CoilyAmazonChic]

Some of these folks married in name only!!! It's not the be all, end all.

[@N5Mystique]

This whole narrative that destiny has a surplus of masculine energy is pretty disgusting. She’s supposed to be like Tisha? Naive and allow things to flow without questioning? Smh. When a woman stands up for herself and has principals she won’t bend on she’s “too masculine”? It’s pretty ignorant and disgusting! And melody’s mom was not out of line for giving that advice. Idc what you say. If martell continues to harass, manipulate and gaslight Melody why can’t she find a way to live a different, happier life away from him. There’s NO WAY Martell is a good father and capable of doing all those things to Melody. FOH. The two are not mutually exclusive at all. He needs help. Ppl like Funky Dineva won’t be satisfied until Melody commits suicide or abandons her children. Smh.

[@dcet30]

Masculine energy, just another way to insult and imply that black women are less feminine. Anyway, there is nothing masculine about Destiny. Plus have we forgotten she spent time in foster care. That’s a trauma, that I am sure she carries with her.

[@CG-uh9zc]

There’s a middle ground here between Tisha and Destiny. Why do ppl always act like there are no shades of gray?? Destiny does have too much masculine energy, as do a lot of black women. I used to be one of them! It’s not attractive, it’s emasculating, and it’s tiring

[@N5Mystique]

@@CG-uh9zc literally nothing destiny said in relation tho her relationship with her ex demonstrated a surplus of masculine energy. Who destiny is with Martell n all those other loser men is not the person she was in her relationship... im sure.

[@peachdawl]

Not just black men - men period - in every culture! Men do NOT hold one another accountable. Look at all of the mess we have just seen in politics. Covering for one another is NOT just a black man thing - it is ALL men cross culture.

[@ladyleo9780]

🎯

[@diseyehibbert93]

At this point we need a show called "the real sidechicks of Huntsville" because everyone can't be lying. If Arionne really has some tea on all the husband's, then she should capitalize on it. HELL, ZEUS NETWORK NEEDS A NEW SHOW. And it looks like they take anyone over there

[@VJ-zw7xz]

She sign a NDA

[@Justcallme_sum]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Jasai122]

What you said!!!!

[@jesswithdakids5172]

@@VJ-zw7xz She ain’t signed no NDA! She just talking with no receipts!

[@salvation1992]

Nope sis, her story is done, the new side pieces need to come out. We need new faces.

[@97indianuk]

Hey Funky, you said on Tea gif you wanted to be a teacher, but you can be on on KZbin. You have so much wisdom and knowledge to teach us. I really enjoy your morals/life lessons and wisdom videos especially!!.

[@nysejace868]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kcshipp80]

Professor Latham!

[@evrydayppl6296]

I do too!

[@therealkoolaidandkale]

And his READS. 😩 You CAN'T forget his epic reads... they be having me in TEARS. 😂🤣😂😭💀💀

[@fittomakeup9890]

The fact that Maurice lied about it, then got caught. tells it all.

[@takeishadeburr]

I always love your commentary on these shows! It’s really like you are talking to us versus putting on a show… it’s authentic and true feelings at the time. Your personality shines through! Thank you for the comedic commentary!

[@tiffiejackson3330]

I think Destiny HAS always had to take care of herself and take on the masculine role to take care of herself because of her lifestyle and up bringing

[@Teebee407]

#FunkyBunch where yall heaux at?!?!? CHECK IN!!!!

[@nashabrown6639]

I usually agree with you 100% but I don’t think Destiny should be labeled as too masculine because she is independent. That man divorced her 3 weeks after giving birth. That’s why women are independent, because men will not hesitate to leave you high and dry when we are socialized to depend on undependable people. It’s hard out here and she’s using that attitude to survive. Remember she moved to Huntsville to be with him.❤️

[@tiffanycunningham3409]

Q

[@tiffanycunningham3409]

Facts!!

[@jazznorelletv]

Tiffany can redeem herself somewhere else in the four walls of her own home, don't care to see her.

[@LaquishaSprings]

Q just a question. Is she using to kids as a pawn or is she trying to get away from emotional abuse? This man has followed her on a date and recorded her. He’s been verbally abusive on camera. He’s verbally attacked her worth and character in front of the cast while the kids were in earshot. Had their daughter uncontrollably crying to where he had to call Mel to comfort her. And that’s what we see on camera!!!! We don’t know the full truth so no one man or woman deserves to stay this close to an abusive situation. It’s causing more harm to those children emotionally to have them stay in Huntsville. Love you! Love your content but I respectfully disagree

[@mizrilya]

Thank you! Like I was uncomfortable watching on TV, imagine how Mel feels. He is making her life miserable.

[@terickastidbits2342]

Melody has routinely done things and then lied about it. People already ain’t gon believe anything he says cause he cheated. And people are telling her to take his kids cause she don’t want to live in the same city as him. So yea if I was him I’d record every single time I talked or Saw Melody to protect himself

[@deleshiadavis4326]

@@terickastidbits2342 she lied about giving head……..so what? What else has she lied about? 🤔

[@staceycheatom4427]

Maurice told a bold face lie...good luck with that one Kimmi.🤦🏾‍♀️👀 Marsau then contradicted Maurice by posting a pic of the boys trip to ATL w/Maurice front and center. Arionne supposedly took the pic.👀😂

[@keashawilson8912]

Martell thanked Arionne for taking the picture 😏

[@VJ-zw7xz]

Right I had a little faith and Maurice but he just as bad as Martel a narcissist cause baby we would’ve believed that lie if we didn’t she the pic

[@ladyleo9780]

@@keashawilson8912 That is very telling. Both are in it and of it. Signs of both being deseperate and thirsty by any means necessary destroying their own character, integrity, honor and trust for all to see. The quicksand of karma is being revealed. 🤔🤐

[@iamashby6479]

How is what Val said wrong? Did you think it was wrong when Maurice left his son and moved out of state from HIS child? Yet it is not ok for a mom to move out of state with her kids? Planes, trains and automobiles work all day every day and parents live in separate states and still see their kids all the time

[@denieraadams4924]

In most states you need the permission of the other parent to move states & I’m sure Martell is trying his hardest to keep Mel from moving. & that’s why she’s have to get full custody to move, not to keep them away from Martell but for a melody to be able to move on. Edit: Babies do not create bliss they highlight the issues already there.

[@SheniceSays214]

Destiny and her husband had no business together.

[@Ksway2]

Damn I clicked on this video quicker than Wanda responded to Coleslaw.

[@ladyleo9780]

@Kimberly Suarez😂😂😂

[@SheniceSays214]

People who are really bout throwing hands don’t need liquid courage to do so.

[@msponcianna]

Destiny took his last name, she was Peyton-williams. He just wanted the maiden name to not be attached, but she said they discussed this pre marriage so I don't think that's the reason for the divorce, Destiny never said actually

[@jademakai1]

Labbarick was just trifling..I believe Destiny is going threw Postpartum and I really hope she comes out on top .

[@trecd8211]

That's exactly what Lewis meant👏🏾👏🏾 "Shattttttt would've went left if he had a shot"🤣🤣word of the day "transparency"

[@janiced1041]

I’ve been waiting like hell on this review🙏🏿😂😂😂

[@erikaqueencoco]

Carlos King gave the viewers what we’ve been missing!!

[@MoniqueMakesULaugH]

Carlos…Carlos the people say Funky needs to be the next reunion host🔥

[@funkydineva]

That part!

[@covergirldst6754]

I agree!

[@CoilyAmazonChic]

and do!!!

[@touchyanose9464]

I know I comment this same comment on your videos, but you are sooooooooo articulate and intelligent Funky. I liveeeeeeeeee for any and everything you do. Such a strong and professional and well spoken black man.

[@hazeltucker9582]

When the children are grown and start researching what happened to their lives, they will let us all know if Martell was a good father. He is an active father, but ion know about giving him the title of a good father.

[@Creativeambitionz_LLC]

Arionee is so fucking simple. Doing all this talking, entertaining thousands FOR FREEEEEEE 💀

[@raniyadebreon]

"FIGHT BACK BITCH, AIR IT OUT" 😂😂😂😂that shit sent me to the grave lmao😂

[@elizabethbrown539]

I was laying down, but let me SIT RIGHT ON UP‼️

[@leneew3103]

I was about to go to bed

[@klpettigrew77]

Same 😂

[@OG_Bap]

“Using the children as pawns” she’s not using them as pawns because that would infer she is trying to manipulate him. She just wants to be away from him and I don’t blame her

[@salvation1992]

Yes, you can't coparent with a narcissist, it's extremely difficult. I feel sorry for her though, Martell is a difficult person.

[@daisyyall6781]

I ageee! I’m in the same boat kinda so I get where melody Is coming from. I want to go back to my home state but I feel stuck where I am because my children wouldn’t see their father like they do now😔

[@leichaurellelux7547]

Well that is too bad because he has a history of cheating earlier in their marriage and she stayed and continue having kids. So she has to deal with it and them kids are well spoken and want to be with their parents so she just have to stay or give him full custody. Moving away is not a remedy for those kids to bad to sad.

[@GeminiPeach81]

@@leichaurellelux7547 💯

[@gcboy16]

She’s trying to leave the rocket city it’s a mess in Huntsville

[@swiftjustice04]

My daddy was a toxic narcissistic.I am so glad my mother raised us without him.Martell loves absolutely no one.

[@Risha-Rene]

Melody is keeping her relevant by constantly making music & building a whole music career from this love triangle, but doesn’t expect anyone to ask about her. Like it or not, she’s very relevant

[@antoinerantful]

Exactly

[@thatdrapergirl6834]

There's no way he's a good father with such a childish, schizo,deviant personality. He's the type that would kill everybody in the house. I think Mel dodged a real nightmare leaving as quick as she did

[@isattathecreator]

Yeah I think Mel is just saving face because she lied so much about them having a good marriage that she doesn’t want people to look at her sideways about Martell being a bad parent. She made some hints to it throughout the show. Nobody that narcissistic and dishonest can be a good parent imo.

[@divaslm1]

Facts

[@swiftjustice04]

I believe the same he is so dangerous

[@swiftjustice04]

@@isattathecreator Facts

[@whentaytalk]

This here!!!! Idk y people keep saying he's a good father!! Like how? I'm sure Mel's mom knows the real deal and as disrespectful as he is u can't tell me he doesn't talk bad about mel to or in front of those kids...the simple fact that he let's his side chick disrespect tf outta his kid(S) mother shows that he ain't shit as a father!! Him skinning and grinning on social media with the kids don't make him a good father!!

[@annabella7188]

At this point I think everyone should gracefully bow out before the Scott's end up divorced

[@yvettejohnson7417]

Kimmi is probably on her way out.

[@sscott504]

Tisha seems like the old school women...will stay with the cheating husband

[@kanesmith1154]

The website for the champagne is down funky!!

[@leneew3103]

Babyyyy, I was sleepy and going to bed but not now! 🤣🤣

[@keashawilson8912]

I’m hollin 🤣🤣

[@sheraii]

Happy Holidays Everyone 💚❤️💚❤️

[@scandalfan1667]

Arrione was always a side. He really liked that side and it was so easy to stop off at the restaurant to get it, so he did. He thought he could still sneak off and get the side whenever he wanted with no consequence. Now that the restaurant is only serving that side and nothing else, he started to want other things.

[@isattathecreator]

You did a bit much disparaging black women in this review l and this may be an unpopular opinion but I have a feeling that Martell is not as good of a parent as Melody tries to portray him. She just wants to use that as an excuse to explain why she stayed so long. Nobody that narcissistic is capable of being a “great father.” Integrity is not limited to your children only. He probably uses them as pawns and there are instances of Mel corroborating that on the show. Not to mention, he’s the one who has spitefully told her was getting full custody because she’s a bad mother. Eventually he’s not going to be able to fool his children and everyone else because he can’t have her anymore. On Destiny…I vehemently disagree that she has too much “masculine” energy. Shes just headstrong and I don’t think she needs to answer “hows that working for you?” Y’all swear our validation and existence relies solely on having a man. I’d rather be single than settle for any of the marriages on that stage. If anything, Leberrick divorcing her 3 weeks after giving birth says more about his cruelty and less about her BDE.

[@aneshaelizabeth]

This comment is everything!!

[@MamaJas88]

That’s facts. And it’s easy for him to seem like a good father while they are little but as soon as they get older with minds mouths and beliefs of their own… that toxic will show up in how he interacts with the kids as well. I know it because I live it with my ex husband.

[@aneshaelizabeth]

@@MamaJas88 I agree. I was about their oldest child’s age (Mariah) when my biological parents got divorced. I know for a fact that Martell is not the best father and Mel does not want to put that information out there. The sad thing is that it is hard to prove that a parent is unfit in some states.

[@mahoganyjoy3502]

@@MamaJas88 This ain't no lie or fairy tale I lived it too and still trying to put things in the right place in some ways.

[@yvettejohnson7417]

The damage is done. I need this show to go away now. They can all solve their problems privately. Sad.

[@trackgrad08]

Let's be clear, men and women go to the courts when it comes to the kids, not just women especially when it comes down to relocating. Relocation is not impossible when both parties can come up with a plan that they both agree with and that the courts won't deem as not in the best interest of the children.

[@girlmelanie4]

How Marsau and Tisha paying for promo and the site don’t work!

[@hsbthree]

DEAD

[@indiasavage7]

I disagree. Martells manipulation has to overflow into his parenting. Im sure he's doing more harm than you think with those kids. Being present isn't enough. He gaslights and manipulates them too. It'll show up and they'll be in therapy as adults because of it. Martell needs help.

[@mizrilya]

Yes!!! I don’t get how ppl don’t see this

[@Theblackbumblebee]

@@mizrilya They see those piss poor outings and probably give him a pass because there children father aren't around.

[@Msshayson1]

We all supposed to be sleep and yet here we are.... Up and on the line 🤦

[@lovelifebrown]

I usually agree with your commentary, but I disagree with this one. How can you be sure a man as unstable as Martell won't ever put his kids in harms way and that he's such a good father. We saw him on camera talking about their mom in the car, manipulating the kids into saying their uncle hurt them, then all while the baby girl crying in the car while you then step out only to continue trashing their mom on live. Y'all keep letting Martell fool y'all. The kids is all he has and he'll use them to get sympathy, pats on the back and ultimately to hurt their mom. That man is crazy, period! So, yes give him enough time, he'll slip up and show how much of a father he really is. Sorry, it's all a cover up. Just like being a good husband was until he was exposed. You're off on this one Dineva, sorry.

[@funkydineva]

Until he does something to the kids you/her have no case

[@jeannettepridgeon5981]

Everything just said is the case

[@lovelifebrown]

@Africa1234 right and that's the same thing they tell women in domestic violence situations, "until something happens there's nothing we can do"...sad....Hopefully this isn't the case, but @Funky Dineva, to put him on this being a great father pedestal and dismiss Mel's mom suggesting full custody is not as disgusting as he has shown himself to be. I don't think she should just seek it because she wants to be away from him.. But, I don't think it's a far fetched suggestion if he moves reckless with the kids in the future. You give him a little too much credit at being a good father.. And seeing this man turn on everyone who no longer benefits him, doesn't alarm you? It's almost equivalent to saying a man who beats his wife physically is the best dad ever. How soon before the monster he shows to his wife shows up for the kids or uses the kids to hurt the ex? And how can you hurt my mom, purposely, continuously, even after the affair and still look at me as if I don't hurt if my mom hurts. All I'm saying is that I put nothing past that man. Nothing! Period! I hope he gets help, grows up, does right by his kids and he really starts putting them first because those kids definitely love him, whether he's right or wrong. But, I still don't put anything past him👀! Good night y'all.

[@ashleyjones5396]

One if my concerns in addition to everything you said is he constantly keeps notes, but we don’t see Melody doing the same. All that you said should be written with dates snd times whereas we see Martell is keeping notes on his phone. He is doing this with ill will and I don’t trust him smh. My concern is definitely for when she has a serious relationship. From the time we saw him confronting her on a date, I thought she should have filed for a restraining order. I think they should stop taping but in reality the show is her only evidence since she doesn’t seem to be keeping notes like Martell.

[@odrice1586]

Narcissist will do this. They will use at a later date

[@ChiCityGirl87]

In the good book somewhere it says… “show me your friends and I’ll show you their mindset” {or something like that 🤣}…. MARSAU + MAURICE + MARTELL = friends of the SAME mindset … ☕️

[@kendrat90]

I didn’t think Marsau or Maurice said anything about the girl that caused her to do all that. Her saying they need her to be relevant…child, the delusion of it all.

[@kookie3895]

Faaaacts! I personally feel like the side girl was mad because she wanted to be more relevant and she didn't like the fact that the men didn't acknowledge her more. That girl was so out of line to expose what she did out of anger and impulse. I'm sure Marsau and Maurice know more and is probably guilty of cheating but that wasn't her place. That was low down. And I don't think that she is relevant, i just think that people are nosey... end of story. That side girl deserves nothing from this show and we don't wanna see her do no walk thru appearance and capitalize off another woman's hurt. She is just disrespectful and immature

[@kendrat90]

@@kookie3895 Because real talk, nobody checking for her for real. And she’ll never make it on now cause Kimmi was ready to shake it up with Louis and Tiffany, I know she’ll be ready if the girl come on here talking crazy to her. Plus, all she would know is what Martell told her because one thing for sure - Marsau and Maurice aren’t dummies! Whatever or Whomever they’ve done has not shown up yet! Either it’s nobody for real or the paperwork and the code is right.

[@sadelovly]

Exactly and why was he comfortable bringing the side around his friends, that speaks to their character as well.