Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage ? Which is better ? | Dr. Shalini explains | MT 134

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6 жыл бұрын

Dr. Shalini who is a specialist in Psychology in this episode talks about the problems that youngsters face in the family and society. She briefs on Love marriage and Arrange marriage. She talks about the generation gap between parents and kids.
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@sanjusanjitha5602
@sanjusanjitha5602 5 жыл бұрын
Should telecast this in TV so that parents can understand the love and feelings of their son or daughter
@samathuvalibrary2412
@samathuvalibrary2412 5 жыл бұрын
En caste la thaan naa marriage pannuvannu adamant ah iruka yaarayum thayavu senji marry panniraatheenga🙏🙏namma caste la ipdithaan apdithaan nu dominate panni life naasamakiruvaanga...Ketta namma tradition,namma culture nu solluvaanga..don't hear all that BS.Unless u feel like u need a companion,pls don't step into marriage.Ayayo vayasu aagutho nu kalyanam panni naasama povaathenga.Stands for both men and women
@the_number_one
@the_number_one 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you nanba
@satheshkumar9114
@satheshkumar9114 4 жыл бұрын
Superb cobra 🙌
@capzin7380
@capzin7380 4 жыл бұрын
Ithalam kekamatanuga !!nasama than povanuga!!patta than thirundhuvanga
@deepu1252
@deepu1252 4 жыл бұрын
Nirmal jii
@tamizharasi1840
@tamizharasi1840 4 жыл бұрын
@Anandan Thandavarayan காதல் திருமணம் செய்தவர்களின் குடும்பத்தினர் தான் இதற்கு காரணம்.
@gowthamnarayan1992
@gowthamnarayan1992 6 жыл бұрын
சிறந்த நேர்காணல். இது போன்ற விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்தும் காணொளிகள் அதிகம் பதிவிட வேண்டும்...
@kiruthikam3334
@kiruthikam3334 6 жыл бұрын
Dr. salini mam Is my inspiration lady hatsoff you
@nandhinik9376
@nandhinik9376 6 жыл бұрын
kiruthika m mine too..... She is great
@sriramnathsridhar4135
@sriramnathsridhar4135 6 жыл бұрын
Intelectual women can change a generation all together...
@sps7117
@sps7117 6 жыл бұрын
Then you are also feminist like her
@dragonballfan9997
@dragonballfan9997 5 жыл бұрын
she's a freaking feminist
@coolguy0719
@coolguy0719 5 жыл бұрын
What does she have?
@priyasekarr1401
@priyasekarr1401 4 жыл бұрын
Arivu adhigama irundha similarity theriyum Arivu kammiya irundha difference Theriyum From 8:35 to 13:03 👍
@sathyasurya428
@sathyasurya428 6 жыл бұрын
The best interview ever. I hope the intellectual talk will help at least few people who still hold on to their caste and religion which means nothing at all.
@palayamkaruppannan1525
@palayamkaruppannan1525 5 жыл бұрын
Government wants to destroy caste system. But politicians want to encourage caste system
@dragonballfan9997
@dragonballfan9997 5 жыл бұрын
who said? government politicians and people want caste system :) only stereotype peoples thinks caste are enemy to man kind.
@santhoshkarthikeyan7693
@santhoshkarthikeyan7693 5 жыл бұрын
No people only wants caste system
@aarthyravi9965
@aarthyravi9965 5 жыл бұрын
Politicians definitely want caste system to assess the strength of their vote bank. Government? What is it other than a political machinery?
@MariMuthu-mw1kk
@MariMuthu-mw1kk 4 жыл бұрын
Is any difference between politics and government
@ramprasadrps9367
@ramprasadrps9367 3 жыл бұрын
Dr Ambedkar super
@g5realestate280
@g5realestate280 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a doctor in USA. Dr. Shalini is excellent. Hope she becomes the health minister.
@SrinivasaRao-kh7lk
@SrinivasaRao-kh7lk 5 жыл бұрын
Mam ur words are true. Close relation la marraige panni en life pochu. Kaasu panam mattum life illa. Oru nalla companiyaan illa na ellame irunthum waste than.
@nagarajankv6432
@nagarajankv6432 Жыл бұрын
Sir. Oru doubt keklama
@s.e.kuzhali7014
@s.e.kuzhali7014 6 жыл бұрын
Perfect need of the hour! Very good one!
@deepalakshmidevi8362
@deepalakshmidevi8362 5 жыл бұрын
Mam I love you. , unga advice la ye nalla life vaalalam, thanks mam ❤
@palayamkaruppannan1525
@palayamkaruppannan1525 5 жыл бұрын
No caste no caste no caste no caste no caste no caste
@nandhupalani6266
@nandhupalani6266 6 жыл бұрын
Very useful ma'm.. Amazing vision towards every situation and status in our country!
@ejr6543
@ejr6543 6 жыл бұрын
Logical ! practical ! Keep Educating us madam !
@jayakrishnan7579
@jayakrishnan7579 4 жыл бұрын
So intelligent and what more, soo patient to explain rational thought to people. May god bless you. May your service continue to reform society.
@user-dp5qi8cz1n
@user-dp5qi8cz1n 5 жыл бұрын
Mam, I believed people who could amass more wealth through street smartness by cheating others were intelligent and those who provided true services to society were dumb, most of the time I was rejected for being true , and service oriented. Now I feel happy for knowing the truth that the society in itself is chaotic , stupid. I feel happy that you have voiced out about this , I value your courage , Mam.
@VineshKumar88
@VineshKumar88 6 жыл бұрын
One of the best and useful interview of yours . Keep doing like this more which are useful for our society.
@sujazz77
@sujazz77 6 жыл бұрын
மிகச்சிறந்த பதிவு 👌👍
@subash104
@subash104 6 жыл бұрын
Super , smart questions from various platforms, intellectual answers from a single person......thanks madam
@munirajrr
@munirajrr 4 жыл бұрын
Avudaiappan @ Super thala, unkidda pudichathey opposite la ullavangala pesa vidura and avanga point ah share panna time kudukkura antha nalla attitude than.. Congrats yaa..
@Gopalselva99
@Gopalselva99 6 жыл бұрын
Should telecast these informative speeches to colleges and schools
@avvairajb6963
@avvairajb6963 6 жыл бұрын
Gopalakrishnan S correct telecast all channel in India...
@sps7117
@sps7117 6 жыл бұрын
fucking feminist
@mathumitharavikumar761
@mathumitharavikumar761 5 жыл бұрын
Nizzzzz dp
@dragonballfan9997
@dragonballfan9997 5 жыл бұрын
why are u people are so brain dead? she's freaking feminist :)
@adrianvann2947
@adrianvann2947 4 жыл бұрын
@@dragonballfan9997 Maybe you are brain deal. She explains how nature, human body and mind works. Why is it so difficult for you to understand :)
@princess5dharshu
@princess5dharshu 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome speech mam, it will be very helpful if you counsel this to my parents
@RemoRam
@RemoRam 6 жыл бұрын
Bro nengathaan inimay Face of the behindwoods!
@csravikumar9171
@csravikumar9171 6 жыл бұрын
Madam very wonderful speech
@vijayprakash.1987
@vijayprakash.1987 6 жыл бұрын
Bold and nice speech...tq
@vidhyachinnaswamy
@vidhyachinnaswamy 6 жыл бұрын
Wonderful topic🤩 am so impressed with your speech doctor shalini😍
@krishnakumar-jh8yl
@krishnakumar-jh8yl 4 жыл бұрын
I like Your Speak 🗣 Ms. Dr. Shalini Mam. Iam Many More life Information For Learning Your Speak 🗣 Mam Thank You.
@petrolsynthesis6306
@petrolsynthesis6306 5 жыл бұрын
One of the best human in society 💯💯
@kaviarasu2720
@kaviarasu2720 6 жыл бұрын
Very nice interview. Interviewer was very humble and pleasant to watch,and as usual shalini mam rocks. Mam,Your children's are very lucky to get you as a mom. Hats off to the team.Great work guys keep going.
@surulirajbojan5487
@surulirajbojan5487 4 жыл бұрын
Perfectly explained. Loveless relations are very basic cause for all health disorders. All explanations are worth listening. Alcohol is good invention if used sensitively and no substitute for it. But the issue is the way the substance is being handled and the knowledge levels one has on this unique substance. All are Superbly explained.
@venkataramansriram4474
@venkataramansriram4474 5 жыл бұрын
apart from the so called 'kulagauravam', there seems to be an ego issue - parents, i think, need lot more counselling these days in tackling this perennial aspect of family life. ur forthright approach is very pleasing.
@jeyaseelanjeyaram6538
@jeyaseelanjeyaram6538 5 жыл бұрын
Well said dr. India needs thousands of drs like you
@sambathkumar5807
@sambathkumar5807 6 жыл бұрын
really excellent interview and talk
@shamsundar9093
@shamsundar9093 6 жыл бұрын
great inspiration mam
@nantha_venkat
@nantha_venkat 6 жыл бұрын
one of the best interview i have ever watched...👍👍👌👌
@indhuboopathy538
@indhuboopathy538 5 жыл бұрын
Dr Shalini for reason Never missed any of your interview videos Helps me to understand problem deeply
@dragonballfan9997
@dragonballfan9997 5 жыл бұрын
she's freaking feminist are u kidding?
@abinayamadhialagan5400
@abinayamadhialagan5400 5 жыл бұрын
I got lots of knowledge from ur intrvw mam thank u so much
@lakmichinto5086
@lakmichinto5086 6 жыл бұрын
Whatever said.. It is not about social status or financial status.. It is about our ways of life.. The problem starts when we follow certain ways of life be it the way of praying to god or household day to day chores differs from home to home Religion to religion Caste to caste The adaptability gets difficult when there is an inter caste or inter religion.
@GFIFA96
@GFIFA96 6 жыл бұрын
👌🏻 superb interview
@sinthiyabalan2410
@sinthiyabalan2410 6 жыл бұрын
Avudai Anna always rocking.. because of you and your show with Dr.Shalini mam , I subscribed this channel.. please come up with more videos.
@sampath3842
@sampath3842 6 жыл бұрын
நீண்ட நாள்களுக்கு பிறகு சாலினி அவர்களின்அருமையான சிறப்பு நிகழ்ச்சி . குற்றம் பற்றி ஒரு சிறப்பு நேர்காணலை அவர்களிடம் எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன். நன்றி.
@ramamoirthimuthukumar9002
@ramamoirthimuthukumar9002 4 жыл бұрын
Super
@manjulavaratharaj443
@manjulavaratharaj443 4 жыл бұрын
88ii8888i88mii
@manjulavaratharaj443
@manjulavaratharaj443 4 жыл бұрын
IH8
@manjulavaratharaj443
@manjulavaratharaj443 4 жыл бұрын
U8i8j.jmu
@venkatesanrajamanickam6554
@venkatesanrajamanickam6554 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you shalini madem for solving family conflict.
@sathishkumar3039
@sathishkumar3039 5 жыл бұрын
What a explanation mam.hands off you mam.👏👏👏
@menaharani8612
@menaharani8612 5 жыл бұрын
Super mam.. Have no words to say... What an explanation.. Excellent mam..
@Senthilganapathy
@Senthilganapathy 6 жыл бұрын
In every video Shalini never miss to inspire you. Good job behindwoods
@ravindarb4265
@ravindarb4265 5 жыл бұрын
இது போன்ற சிறந்த நேர்காணல்கள் பல தேவை. பெரியார், கலைஞர் மற்றும் பலரைப்பற்றிய பல தவறான பதிவுகள் உள்ளன, அவற்றில் உள்ள உண்மைகள் பற்றி ஒரு தெளிவான பதிவை டாக்டர். ஷாலினி போன்றோரிடம் பெற்று தரவும்.
@kannanramasamy2035
@kannanramasamy2035 6 жыл бұрын
Nice interview . Thanks
@phantompain9
@phantompain9 6 жыл бұрын
Dr. Shalini - excellent as always in her views and the way in which she describes those viewpoints. Behindwoods - this end of the interview plea to click the bell icon needs to stop. It is highly annoying.
@avvairajb6963
@avvairajb6963 6 жыл бұрын
Still intercaste marriage is very difficult in our society.All humans are equal in this world...
@vishnulingam3413
@vishnulingam3413 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome thoughts from Dr. Shalini.... Parents should consider the life of their kids... Not their honor or prestige... Factu line "life without love is pain"... Live... Let others live..
@aakashb1170
@aakashb1170 6 жыл бұрын
Nice interview
@ranjitharanjitha4737
@ranjitharanjitha4737 4 жыл бұрын
Great info on love....Sir ur asking questions nice... keep it up
@shyamalasruthi7368
@shyamalasruthi7368 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing madam what a speech !
@vishnumarleycena4809
@vishnumarleycena4809 6 жыл бұрын
அருமை
@ashkutti
@ashkutti 6 жыл бұрын
amazing mam !! :) much needed video
@Dineshs-qp6et
@Dineshs-qp6et 6 жыл бұрын
This is gold bro,😊😊😊
@surendranperiyasami778
@surendranperiyasami778 6 жыл бұрын
Evlo periya matteraaa asualtaaa sollitinga shalini 👍🏾
@michaeljp7899
@michaeljp7899 6 жыл бұрын
Bro.. Neenga one of the matured interviewers. Innum neraya content kudunga.
@toplaz007
@toplaz007 6 жыл бұрын
@Avudai bro, please ask about remarriaging widow/divorcee and single parenting.
@jeniferranjili747
@jeniferranjili747 4 жыл бұрын
That's a good point... Thanks for thinking out of the box..
@sheebasolomon
@sheebasolomon 3 жыл бұрын
Please telecast this on Vijay TV ( repeat)
@abinayakannan7156
@abinayakannan7156 6 жыл бұрын
True explanation about caste....
@abimuthukumar7528
@abimuthukumar7528 5 жыл бұрын
Sema speech...sema bold ah pesuringa madam..super
@classicstressbusters4876
@classicstressbusters4876 6 жыл бұрын
Wowwww sema mam, evryone must watch
@sundaraselvi325
@sundaraselvi325 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent research Mr. Avudai Keep up the good work.
@akilagopinathg
@akilagopinathg 5 жыл бұрын
Great thoughts Shalini mam
@jayanthithangaraj
@jayanthithangaraj 5 жыл бұрын
Awesome mam ... very informative
@nivetharamkumar658
@nivetharamkumar658 5 жыл бұрын
How can I contact you mam for consultation
@yuganathkrishnan
@yuganathkrishnan 6 жыл бұрын
Monthly one interview of her ...enlightening boss
@palayamkaruppannan1525
@palayamkaruppannan1525 5 жыл бұрын
Amma you are rocking
@saaraahpk2560
@saaraahpk2560 5 жыл бұрын
A very nice interview. My parents should watch this. Shalini maam what if they try to emotionally blackmail us.
@MrSiva66
@MrSiva66 3 жыл бұрын
I got trapped in this situation and experiencing the pain
@alwayshappysri
@alwayshappysri 6 жыл бұрын
Superb....Thanking you
@yuvasri1432
@yuvasri1432 6 жыл бұрын
Super speech mam I like it
@christyjo7127
@christyjo7127 5 жыл бұрын
You are really awesome mam....used to listen u all times👏👏👌👌
@arunchandran9259
@arunchandran9259 6 жыл бұрын
Another masterpiece 😍😍
@abinayaselvam5799
@abinayaselvam5799 4 жыл бұрын
Super mam ......👏👏👏...this speech is very important to every parents...super .. it's true speech mam
@anithabharathi5243
@anithabharathi5243 5 жыл бұрын
Hi shalini mam... sema speech and interesting... nenga neya nana varum podulam enaku happy aaaidum mam...
@maheswaran296
@maheswaran296 6 жыл бұрын
Shalini mam 👌👏
@cutiepie-xh9ty
@cutiepie-xh9ty 6 жыл бұрын
thank u for ur speech mam...I really thanks to u
@vaishnavimasaiah6637
@vaishnavimasaiah6637 3 жыл бұрын
Nice explanation mam .parents must watch this...
@vishnuprasad3872
@vishnuprasad3872 6 жыл бұрын
Respect you Dr..Very informative & practical.I'm fed up of explaining my ppl who are blind folded in the name of caste & society.
@balajit5870
@balajit5870 6 жыл бұрын
Wow what an explanation about caste....and relationship
@pandia4188
@pandia4188 6 жыл бұрын
Shalini mam..... U r Thinking different dimensional... Very informative
@thomasmathew2611
@thomasmathew2611 3 жыл бұрын
@pandia raj not different she speaks normal (practical thinks)but nowadays people's do think everything extremely always normal peoples looks different for extreme peoples
@vishnunevetha5102
@vishnunevetha5102 5 жыл бұрын
ஷாலினி மேம்க்காகவே உங்கள் சேனலை அதிகம் பார்க்கிறேன்..சமூக மாற்றத்துக்கான கேள்விகளை அதிகம் கேட்கவும்..சுருக்கமாக சொன்னால் திருக்குறள் போதித்தவைகளை பற்றி...
@aishwaryap9306
@aishwaryap9306 4 жыл бұрын
Ur always best and your speech are perfect and always making us strong
@sathiyarajsathiya821
@sathiyarajsathiya821 4 жыл бұрын
Good information mam .Thank u
@sankarir1856
@sankarir1856 6 жыл бұрын
Do lot of interview with Shalini
@SimplyWOW
@SimplyWOW 5 жыл бұрын
Hats off to Shalini mam!!!. Anchor is also good, some people talk in between the guest, but he is very professional!!!
@priyankajegan786
@priyankajegan786 6 жыл бұрын
Nice interview😊
@RamyaRamya-fo3kr
@RamyaRamya-fo3kr 6 жыл бұрын
Great shalini mam nice interview👍
@periyasamy7411
@periyasamy7411 5 жыл бұрын
Ramya Ramya hi
@karthicks1469
@karthicks1469 4 жыл бұрын
Best explain use full topic😍
@maha9179
@maha9179 6 жыл бұрын
Watever is the marriage ...it depends on the people who are joining hands ... compatibility is only key factor ...I have seen many ppl loving for years and getting married just within few months divorcing ...and those who haven't met before ..they had lived together until end ...so compatibility is must in any of the marriage ...otherwise be it love or arranged ...life ll be hell
@etheranimus
@etheranimus 6 жыл бұрын
Except for marriage between relatives like marrying cousin or niece, basically, incest/inbreeding which is still quite common among Tamils or south Indians in general even in 2018.
@meharunisha5842
@meharunisha5842 6 жыл бұрын
maha lakshmi n
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr 6 жыл бұрын
I agree Compatibility is the key factor in marriage. At least love marriage gives us the chance to find whether the person is compatible or not by knowing him/her before marriage. But how could anyone find the person is compatible to you in arrange marriage before itself, If you know the trick can you share with us!
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr 6 жыл бұрын
Ludic, I think Incest is a strong word to describe, hope you know the real meaning of it! and more over specifically mentioning or targeting the one particular race is not welcomed! You've rights to express your beliefs but no rights on insulting any race or person or their belief system.
@navina2366
@navina2366 6 жыл бұрын
love marriage leads to intercaste marriages and loss of culture....so keep ur advice to urself bitch
@yuvarajv4134
@yuvarajv4134 6 жыл бұрын
Superb video waiting for part 2
@sakthishwarannagarajan5245
@sakthishwarannagarajan5245 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats #behindswod air
@sakthik410
@sakthik410 5 жыл бұрын
open talk super mam , that is facts
@suganyaselvaraj92
@suganyaselvaraj92 6 жыл бұрын
Just watcged video for shalini 😊
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr
@DeepakKumar-vd9tr 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for BW for presenting this insight Video. Presently many of us need the basic Social education which is neither taught by school nor by parents, may be they don't know how to tell! I just want to share one of the quote that I recently read "Feel free to blame your parents for everything that's wrong with you, but don't forget to give them credit for everything that's right". By watching these video many of my doubts and confusion on social that I had personally got answers from the Dr. Once again BW you're doing a wonderful job by taking the responsibility on social awareness and helping the new generation to understand! I can guarantee many of us are getting a massive changes in our life from these videos!
@radhikagowri5483
@radhikagowri5483 6 жыл бұрын
really very nice video.... i have never heard about like this inspirations and motivational video.... i started watching this video today only it was amazing shalini madam.... pls do speak more interesting topics....
@eniyamurali6270
@eniyamurali6270 6 жыл бұрын
Gud message. Very good interview. Do more interview with her.
@vetrijayam
@vetrijayam 4 жыл бұрын
Eniya Murali Good
@s.e.kuzhali7014
@s.e.kuzhali7014 6 жыл бұрын
Perfect need of the air!
@enochjf
@enochjf 6 жыл бұрын
S.E. Kuzhali hour u mean
@Tamil13033
@Tamil13033 6 жыл бұрын
Congrats bro
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