A Most Unusual Love Triangle | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

High school sweethearts Tracey and Doug say they first started having problems about 15 years into their 23-year marriage. About a year ago, Doug admitted to having an affair with a trans woman, Essence. Tracey wants Doug to decide between her and his lover once and for all so that she can move on with her life - but why is she leaving the decision up to him? (From Dr. Phil Season 10)
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[@kayangvue30]

Once a man tells you that he loves another person, it's time to leave.

[@reneerichardson8903]

Amen ❤

[@priscillatherealtor12]

Even if he doesn’t admit loving her the moment he won’t stop it’s still time to go

[@ricklynn2574]

I wish her the very best! Keep being classy and find yourself a REAL man!

[@debrahmack6930]

With the quickness!!!!

[@LornaYoung-b4u]

Yes fly away quick

[@tiadixon1181]

Why is she letting him make the decision to stay or go?? My mom always told me, don''t let a man tell you more than one time he does not want you!!!

[@boomboomwatts4745]

Bingo!!!

[@laurenpegues8372]

Whatttt!!! That's what my granny taught me.

[@godschildyes]

You're mom is a very wise woman! I love that saying of hers! Wow!

[@weslynmurden8586]

Great advice...

[@patriciaharris1711]

You're a person on the outside looking in. You have or have not been through that type of situation. A weak person stays in a shot that you can't explain or describe. She's going to have to have the strength to step outside herself and focus on God. I'm speaking on experience. I had finally walked away after 27 years. I blamed myself, and putting a state distance between me and that person helped me open my eyes

[@justhere02]

He is just gay, she will never have what he needs. Get a divorce! PERIOD

[@stuff1784]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@AkitaLover1013]

Absolutely he is not bisexual he is gay. Not only did he ruin his family but his life! Once a cheater always a cheater!

[@missm1548]

Bisexuals exist

[@CrystalDorsey-xk8xf]

Thank you

[@EatABrickBigot]

He's bisexual...no gay man would do that..

[@SlowBonnie]

I hope she got tested. He cheated with over 22 ppl while married to her. He’s downright disgusting.

[@nisip3133]

When she said he is making her sick. Lady he is literally making you sick. WTH.

[@gymeni]

22 MEN alone!

[@lisafanning3263]

My thoughts exactly.

[@lisafanning3263]

make him leave the house. He is so selfish. To blame this on her is BS

[@pebblelabateman1448]

This is so disgusting

[@mlm1916]

He said : I love my wife, but I'm in love with Essence. With that, there's no more need for discussion.

[@ruhabadii8961]

He likes his wife because he is not working she is supporting him financially. The wife is crazy get out

[@nadinedockery-green5192]

Yep, conversation over

[@Yourhighness7777]

🎯

[@wandayoung2099]

Why would you want him back

[@Debshad]

So he's gay

[@womanofvalor7]

Why would she sleep with a man that's sleeping with men. Tracy needs to love herself

[@demetriadavis7083]

exactly !

[@tinaluise8]

My thoughts exactly

[@JuiceeMcShakes]

Disgusting

[@sattasana7753]

Let him hypnotize her that he did it because of lack of attention. This purge wealthy

[@1bluegreen2]

And the diseases

[@amabrown952]

The wife needs to divorce this man asap

[@conniemares4324]

They both don’t know how to say good by to each other and leave.

[@tempgirl00711]

Wife needs HIV test

[@peonyflowers23]

@@conniemares4324he’s the worst.

[@marydobney8615]

I agree

[@Annsunshine30]

Yes she is horrible! She needs to give him his freedom.

[@SlowBonnie]

He’s blaming women for him sleeping with men instead of just admitting he is sexually, physically & emotionally attracted to men.

[@LaAerial]

this part of the patriarchy tracks

[@mioa.5429]

Girl, let him have his mid-life crisis on his own, get you a lawyer, divorce, and be out!

[@Deiidreamng6855]

I know I’d be on a flight out to a tropical island 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DeejahMAY]

I pray she gets everything

[@blowdry9791]

She works for a huge law firm so that shouldn't be hard

[@teresaacevedo1731]

I agree I certainly hope that she gets on with her life and leaves this guy behind. She’s a young beautiful woman, and she deserves to be happy.

[@laureenejackson1441]

Leave before you get asap.

[@TheAtm149]

She needs to throw the marriage in the trash and move on. She can't compete with a man who wants another man.

[@shayemoore]

She shouldn't compete even if he was cheating with a woman.

[@myradevereaux1288]

That’s not a competition at all period!

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Well said 💯 per cent. She doesn't deserve a man like this.

[@tanyadavis2979]

And her man wants him.

[@margaretholman9515]

@@myradevereaux1288sexually 😔 you are correct. there is no competition, man on man will NEVER go back to a woman🤫

[@Godis4me1978]

He is gay... period...run...never allow a man to embarrass you this way....

[@itsinesantonio]

Bingo!!!

[@GODBEAUTIFULCHILD]

He is gay, once a man has an intimate relationship with another man it's OVER!!

[@marweennie]

Where do they get these people? OMG​@truehogan

[@victoriadove3363]

Damn right 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@JosephLennonova]

He’s not gay, he’s bisexual.

[@IamRa-18]

“She looks like a model to me” *tracy Morgan in a wig pops up on the screen*

[@zooyawk4526]

Doug's blaming his wife for his homosexuality. That's a good one, Doug!😂

[@doloresbrown9661]

Nice try Doug

[@tiffanyingram3444]

Who can I blame for being straight?

[@QueenBthatsMe777]

​@@tiffanyingram3444😂😂 Girl, he just bypassed God and went straight for the wife! 😂 if tptb keep pushing their agenda it will only be us strong minded ppl who will remain straight😂

[@MaryWyatt-ij3fl]

Right I so agree 💯💯💯

[@DivineVee33]

I think he is blaming her for putting him in a situation where he could explore that homosexual tendency. He said he never acted on it because he loved his wife for who she was. As soon as she stopped being a physical pleasure for him, he saw the opportunity to act on those dormant feelings... when viewed from a different angle, it kinda was her fault.

[@charmaineblake5020]

Why is she still continuing to be intimate with him. She’s putting herself at risk.

[@nyc4233]

Probably bc she's an egocentric idiot!

[@aprilmaynor2479]

Exactly

[@McMillie803]

Disgusting

[@mathilda4028]

Low self Esteem

[@mathilda4028]

He slept with 22 men. Wow !

[@angels0auras]

This Taxi driver can't afford to leave his wife & move on with the homless essence. His wife pays for EVERYTHING. Wake up, Tracey !

[@winterdame307]

My God! Woman, get a clue! Hello? Anybody home?!

[@juliagulia5823]

This

[@SW-us7le]

He should leave not stay and be mean and nasty to her. Then again, he has no morals.

[@marylove482]

Then begging that mf to keep using her. Man f that

[@anatudes]

They can live in the taxi ...lol

[@Rae_Naeee]

Girl if you don’t end this conversation & divorce him!! I wasn’t going on any show! You’re cheating on me with a MAN?! Not only am I divorcing you but I’m suing you for putting my health at risk!!

[@delanac1809]

If your man is sleeping with another man, he isn't your man nor are you his cup of tea.

[@nyc4233]

It's astonishing how oblivious this woman is or was! She neglected him but thought he would stay and then when it was really obvious he disrespected her as a result she still stayed! Ridiculous! But I still feel sorry for her!

[@Karen-dm5lb]

​@@nyc4233The result of him disrespecting her wasn't from neglect from her. He was disrespectful & a nasty pervert all along. He tried to blame her instead of taking accountability for his own actions. He just wanted his cake & to eat it too. She'll be much better off without him & she'll soon see that for herself

[@nyc4233]

@@Karen-dm5lb Well you have no idea who he was before all this started do you ! You don't know anything about his life! He disrespected his wife but he was apparently faithful until she started neglecting him, emotionally, sexually. She's not totally innocent here. She might better be off without him or not! But it is clear it would be very difficult for her to accept this man in her life ever again!

[@ananimity7332]

@@nyc4233 Nothing anyone does to another makes them cheat!!!!!! If a person isn't happy in a relationship or marriage LEAVE...No one forces them to stay.

[@itz_aymi41]

AMEN SIS!!

[@deionellison6881]

This is why homosexuals need to be honest and leave heterosexual women alone

[@blazebrown9102]

💯‼️

[@sylviarucker4658]

100 percent agree. Honesty is the best policy.

[@terry4161]

This is why acceptance of lgbt is needed in society so they don’t have to pretend. Btw I’m a lesbian and I encounter straight women who pretend to be a lesbian. So it goes both ways.

[@truthbearingpsychonaut]

This man is hardly homosexual. I'm so done with inept people who can't tell the difference. A real gay person would NEVER marry nor do the deed with the opposite gender. This man is probably bi or pan. People, inform yourselves.

[@pamelabell5132]

?

[@katehack1677]

He is SO full of it. He was always attracted to men. But it is pathetic to try and blame his wife.

[@isabelizzy9130]

I will be like Forrest…run run! The husband obviously has “mental health issues” and who ever deals with this type of behavior causes them trauma bonding. Girl…save yourself and your children!! No one is coming to the rescue and obviously he has a different taste sexually. Run.

[@marylove482]

Exactly

[@Dollicakes]

He was gay before he married her she is simply a beard

[@Ottosparty17]

Whining and pitiful poor me! What is his wife doing even talking to him? Why do gay men marry. She should divorce him.

[@faithtaylor2449]

Dr.Phil hit the nail on the head HARD! I pray she listened to him and took his advice

[@Suzie-he9ni]

Lady get a divorce, get tested for diseases and get out. First go on about your business and take all the money out of savings, retirement funds, and checking accounts. His trans can give him a place to live.

[@Ontheroxxwithsalt]

And thank GOD you work for an attorney. They will make sure he doesn't have a pot to piss in. Let's see how long "Essence" sticks around supporting him when he's laying up on the couch day after day.

[@paulablack1863]

​@@Ontheroxxwithsalt Perfectly said. Once he's broke, they'll be a distant memory... lolololololol! She definitely needs to get tested and take all of the assets before leaving.

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[@lillyclervoyant4601]

24 YEARS OF MARRIAGE WASTED AWAY!!!! The nerve of him blaming his wife for his cheating with another man.

[@veronicajohnson5516]

They always blame the other for their indiscretion. One will always hear, you don't give me what I want. This marriage is irreconcilable.

[@mecmarsh6474]

It's reality

[@jackie1o1]

23 other men!

[@AlejandraGarcia-q8x]

Some men always blame the wife. Instead of taking full responsibility for their actions. Dogs 🐕 will always be dogs....

[@vivpace7049]

She's as much to blame as he is since She told him to go get a girl. They both wanted the marriage on their own terms.

[@Enoughalready20237]

He’s using her for her money and to take care of the kids like he’s a bachelor. He’s mentally and emotionally abusing her and he doesn’t care.

[@maryshannon4444]

Exactly.

[@Yourhighness7777]

Sociopath

[@squizzerl1478]

Yeah the "I'm cheating with a trans woman" is NOTHING compared to what he is actually doing. Forget the cheating. He's disgusting

[@bergenleigh8256]

Absolutely. Let him take care of the kids while she’s off with a boyfriend and all of a sudden it’ll be a different story

[@benascg-ll7sq]

Ask yourself what keeps the lady on board. What's her secondary benefit ?

[@jadenoa4170]

Loving yourself more than Loving someone else IS the key 🔑.... self respect is the foundation ❤

[@bebec5081]

It is better to be single than have a relationship with an unfaithful man, especially a man sleeping with other men. 😢

[@Diane-dg3pw]

Exactly 💯

[@camillawiking]

100 % on that one!

[@lovelysosweet8386]

A lot of men goes through this

[@gailainsley6939]

@@lovelysosweet8386. They should live in their truth and shouldn’t be with women then

[@kenyalovelybae28]

Sleeping with anyone else!!!!

[@lucianaromulus1408]

People, STOP accepting cheaters. Idc your orientation, your gender, etc. GET OUT.

[@kukutilove]

gender matter too.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Hmmmmm.

[@lucianaromulus1408]

@kukutilove it doesn't. Doesn't matter if you're a man...a woman...an alien helicopter...I don't care. Only cheats think others should accept this deplorable personality flaw.

[@rachellewis9251]

Spot on

[@katherinecarpenter4677]

Girl! Get a lawyer and get out yesterday!!

[@Ontheroxxwithsalt]

She WORKS in a law firm. That guy is done. They'll take him to the cleaner.

[@Samone1Mur]

Amen Sister!!!!!

[@Honestlytho-i8t]

😂 Right?! Get that money and bounce!

[@alisonmason7593]

😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻well said

[@julieprj9225]

He’s smiling over the horse and pig comment, guess that’s next

[@beatrizgoncalves827]

The disrespect on every single part of this triangle is astounding him blaming her, her not listening to him the lover not caring about anything. Honestly where is the maturity

[@marcdennis4698]

A failed marriage does not make a man turn to another man HE WAS ALWAYS GAY

[@danibeebe9840]

Exactly!

[@raymonagreen8115]

Point Blank ‼️💓

[@StarHamil]

Facts

[@kyemberlyeaden1949]

Exactly 👏🏾

[@mckinnonjames]

I just read he's a huge Trump supporter.

[@billieleighton8252]

He isnt bisexual. Hes gay. She can never give him what he wants they both need to seperate and move on.

[@DeeLytes]

Gay as Peter Pan on a pair of ice skates..

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@DeeLytesyes

[@akilahyoung6793]

My thoughts exactly

[@lindacarole6486]

What’s wrong with this woman. His vows are broken and he needs to leave this woman alone and she has a low self esteem

[@lindacarole6486]

Sorry she’s stupid

[@elizabethroy5420]

22 men oh yes that's gay..lady his choices has nothing to do with you..runnnn!!!

[@tonybluestar4954]

And all those men were married as well!! Ladies beware!!

[@MsSHEISHER]

Sure it was more than 22

[@lovelybones1692]

@@MsSHEISHER probably not, if he was going to lie about the amount of men I’m sure he wouldn’t have picked that high number, 2 maybe… not 22!

[@truthbearingpsychonaut]

​@@tonybluestar4954lol the sooner you realise sexuality is a spectrum the less "shocked" you'll be. It's crazy you believe most people would fit in a simple box. You'll never stop being surprised unless you wake up to reality.

[@lucidladyleo]

​@@tonybluestar4954 nasty work!!!

[@iriemon_onelove]

"She lifted me when I was down". Literally and metaphorically 😂😂😂😂

[@SantosCorner]

RIGHT!!!

[@jeanhickman6678]

Irregardless, gay, straight, right or wrong. She is simply dealing with a high level narcissist, and he has taken her through the entire narcissistic empathic dance. CLASSIC!

[@Bonsqueesquee]

*regardless

[@jeanhickman6678]

@@Bonsqueesquee GOOGLE……Is irregardless a word? Yes. It may not be a word that you like, or a word that you would use in a term paper, but irregardless certainly is a word. It has been in use for well over 200 years, employed by a large number of people across a wide geographic range and with a consistent meaning.

[@chelcybryant225]

Been the done that. I said narcissist right off the bat. Blaiming her for everything.

[@shellyjohnson8491]

Exactly! It's your fault I cheated on you. Classic narcissist!

[@priscillae93]

That's the BIGGEST ISSUE, HERE. I am not even annoyed that he is gay. I am irritated that he keeps placing the blame on her. Sir, TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY and be real with yourself. Not everyone can be monogamous and many are low key sexually fluid 😅. We're in a new era. You disrespected her and your children. She is the bread winner and she takes care of your children since you abandoned your responsibilities. How hard is that to admit?!? It's a wrap! Be real!

[@pauladouglas9891]

Why does she still want him ? Please lady , there is nothing left in this marriage for you.

[@kathylofton7643]

Sadly, because he is the only man she has ever been with since high school. She knows nothing else and therefore is dependent upon this. It is really regrettable that she has not had the opportunity to experience another love or healthy relationship with a good man in life

[@keishahuie1849]

She is still holding on to the 23yrs but it is just time to move on he only likes male and that it

[@alloutjoy3172]

,because she can't face the fact that her husband does not want her.

[@showthyselfapproved1st]

She is grieving the loss of a husband that she lost. Delusion is one of the stages.

[@Cynthia-fx4we]

​@@showthyselfapproved1st• Every lost is not a lost if you understand what l mean. What did she really lose? Absolutely nothing! He wasted 20 plus years of her life!😮

[@giulianapedregal4866]

It is so sad to see a man have such a high level of disrespect for his wife and the mother of his children.

[@LRoach79]

Talk about love is blind 🥴🙈that thing is scary looking. My heart hurts for her. I hope this is older and she's moved on and is happy now. He'll cheat on him too. He's disgusting!!

[@sarinaburke1803]

That's not a she it's a he.

[@theadvocate3006]

I think he hates women and doesn't have the balls to say it. Narcissistic behavior, period .Blaming her for his choices. She's a marriage to cover his gay *ss 👀

[@peaceandquiet62]

This man is doing everything to hurt his wife. She doesn't realize that she can be unalived for a life insurance policy. Two broke people will be living it up while she is dead.

[@Bonsqueesquee]

He is a weak man

[@anitaholst7671]

She's afraid to let go. When she addresses THAT she'll be able to. Truth sets you free.

[@victoriadove3363]

🎉🎉🎉Truth🎉🎉🎉 yes

[@true4585]

💯💯💯

[@oshuncornelius-ojoh4999]

He chose a trans woman to have a relationship with because he hasn't reconciled that he's a homosexual and a feminine-presenting person who he views as "male" is more palatable for him. He used the wife as a beard and has been having relationships with men the entire marriage.

[@jendee1260]

and then blamed her. “if she gave me more affection this would’ve never happened.”

[@NettaReed-r7y]

@@oshuncornelius-ojoh4999 BOOM!!! EXACTLY 💯 💯...It was never n him to be a good husband!! His marriage was meant to hide his REAL IDENTITY AS A GAY MAN!! he's a BOOTY WARRIOR 4LIFE and I HOPE KARMA PAYS HIM A VISIT SOONER THAN LATER!! 👍🏾✊🏾👏🏾

[@taniali3206]

Sleeps around with over 20... he is not just gay he needs help, unless that kind of life style goes with being gay

[@x.quiche.x7960]

​@@NettaReed-r7y😂😂😂 booty warrior 😂😂😂

[@erinsheline8398]

​@@taniali3206 😮

[@laburdette]

The wife needs to stop begging and just end the marriage.

[@Selfemployedmildautisticperfor]

Only unusual if notall agree and they didnt Interesting it was my guess but by the still I couldn't tell that its trans

[@kunaiuchia5926]

I think he was unsure of his sexuality . She's his safe place

[@Kim-vw4nx]

Just proves women’s desperation for a title thinking she is making other women jealous because she has a title , there is absolutely nothing there and she actually trying to work this out .

[@donethmiller1963]

Yup ❤

[@crystallatta8770]

Right! He's gay, I don't understand it either. I think she is so insecure because he's all that she knows, they've been together forever. It's sad all around😢

[@MichelleBible-t6b]

She needs to leave, be tested for STDs, and move on. I feel like he was lying when he said he was being safe.

[@michaeljohnston4459]

Well, he also said he doesn't want to hurt her.

[@pmkingcorp]

He doesn't give one damn period ​@@michaeljohnston4459

[@pmkingcorp]

​@@michaeljohnston4459he's making it seem like what he's doing is normal. Like that's not normal to be with men. Off the top. But with a wife and children this is too much.

[@lavjamsoflocamp]

Been with over 20 men??? In my house?? She is too desperate cant stand it.

[@James-oj8kq]

@@lavjamsoflocamplike why is he the one to choose ! leave him to his demented self! He is horrible!

[@Queensofafrica8]

The fact that she won’t stand up for herself firm is annoying me!!!!!! The way I’d flip out on him for trying to blame me, he’d be scared to talk!!!!!!!

[@suninaries571]

He’s gay, stop gaslighting her!

[@tem2198]

Maybe bi or queer?

[@ladennayoung2939]

She is gaslighting herself at this point. You have to see the truth for what it is and stop trying to paint a different picture.

[@pastorveracampbell3383]

EXACTLY 💯

[@pastorveracampbell3383]

​@@ladennayoung2939 EXACTLY 💯

[@jazzyjoanna]

He goes both ways, he is being honest, he don't want her but she don't wont to let him go, when she found out about his double life that should ended it( for the kids) yeah right😮

[@sleepyhead5384]

Cheaters always think their mistress is great until they actually get into a relationship with them.

[@demekonrn]

I think it's the other way round. Mistresses don't live with these men. They don't raise kids & pay bills & beg them to fix things or take out the trash. They don't see the day-to-day flaws arise when you only see them once or twice a week. Men are always on their best behavior when they want nookie😂

[@Janice360]

Mistress? I think you mean lover-man. LOL 😆

[@keitalattimore7984]

Right

[@loriolson1143]

That's not true

[@punkinj3912]

Iam GREAT!!!👀👀👀👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andreajones886]

"why are YOU waiting for HIM to decide what's gonna happen in YOUR life?" whew! that comment ate! Idc! Doctor Phil is the TRUTH,y'all!💯

[@Ilene-pz8fp]

Essence is jealous that Tracey is a real woman and he is a wannabe woman.

[@indiscriminatethoughts6269]

He did you a favor …… he showed you who he is. Believe him and RUN!!!!

[@lashonesewell5939]

My heart go's out to you- I married a man who was on the down low- I didn't know- he liked men- there's no bisexual- he's gay and used you to hide behind- I left him 3months after we got married- and moved on- God is so good- let him go- tell your children the truth and move on- it's going to be hard- but he's gay he wants a man- now he's out the closet- let him blame you all he wants- you live your life- and let God lead and heal you

[@kimaletta8943]

💯

[@axemaster8331]

I'm very sorry what happened to you, but being bisexual is very much a thing.

[@izzygee2216]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@dspenderella9671]

Amen. Great testimony. You're so strong. I pray God blesses you with an exceptional man who is double for your trouble to restore the years the DL locust ate.

[@dspenderella9671]

Why is Tracey even letting him decide and choose between you...Doug isn't even a provider, a looker, a good person... He's a selfish cheater and ghay - I don't see how she's still in love with him. Why would you even be willing to still be with him. She let this confused and pathetic male destroy her self-esteem and degraded herself to the level of sharing him with another man...Tf. She's an actual woman and she's way better looking than his boyfriend. There's no competition here. If he can't see that, then please drop the DL loser.

[@arlenedennis9446]

Get a divorce and heal. He doesn’t want you

[@karenwhite4141]

Absolutely not! He prefers men!

[@jessiem276]

​@@karenwhite4141He's a weirdo!

[@spongemonkeysooz]

I hope this is an old show and Dr Phil knows better now. Essence is a grifter. They practice making people think they are good people. You just saw a tiny bit of her true personality come it... not so nice 👿

[@tikatikatikatika3066]

Sure don’t , he wants a man

[@gottogoalltheway]

​@spon gemonkeysooz That is a he. What is wrong with people

[@vonnieb.4897]

He is straightforward and speaking truth about himself now. She needs to accept him as he is, leave him alone and not feel guilty. He wont change

[@boldandcourageous4176]

He was putting his wife's health at risk by sleeping with all those people. I don't believe all those encounters were protected.

[@theariesknowing4812]

She wasn't sleeping with him

[@princess3193]

​@@theariesknowing4812 Wrong. You were not listening. At 13:24, he said "we have contact now" and she said "not any longer". So yes, he was putting her health at risk!

[@goldengoddess1723]

Gay men rarely if ever use protection.

[@vivettewoods9938]

Wife has self esteem issues. She really needs to stop carrying the load of his homosexuality on her head.

[@BellaIsMyBaby]

​​@@vivettewoods9938I feel like she thought he would snap back out of it. She clearly took her vows seriously & genuinely loves him, so she was slow at throwing in the towel bc she kept trying to make it work if he did & that led to him lying to her & unfortunately with people like him, are master manipulators. It works on people who truly love you. He blames her? Bro can't blame his female wife for not having a ding-a-ling. Said she didn't communicate? How about telling the lady who is in love with you, you're sexual desires...Just, wow, what a sicko!

[@christyluv3969]

Essence didn't break up their marriage. He did, for not being honest with himself and her acting like she didn't know he wanted to be with men.

[@chidiammaqueenosigwe2090]

💯

[@jacquelinemonfourny]

Exactly. 100 percent.

[@billierodriguez5031]

💯💯💯

[@peggyjohnson4842]

And you k ow this man .😂

[@UriyahMommy]

He has been gay all his life and he should have been honest before marriage. Classic narcissist

[@shelinashelina3020]

Get tested for STI's , divorce, get therapy and find peace. Your children also need therapy and keep him away from all of you. This is scary.

[@shaykay2389]

Classic narcissist no accountability,gaslighting, manipulation blaming, lack of empathy or remorse..girl please save yourself and your kids from this toxicity

[@melpye1788]

100%… you are spot on!!

[@samoan_soprano]

100%. You saved me from writing this all again! Narc 100%. All her fault. Wishing the wife all the best!

[@isabelgibson898]

100% he doesn’t deserve her!!!!!

[@stephaniebryant2070]

Undercover downlo narcissist. Yes something is wrong with you from the get go he's into women period

[@raymonagreen8115]

AMEN‼️

[@antoniapalmore7494]

She said, "Go get a girlfriend, not a boyfriend. Lady gets a divorce. He loves men.

[@DonnyNoMarie]

I bet Essence still has his essence, because if hubby wanted another woman, he would get a real one and not a bootleg copy.

[@r.r911]

Lol right

[@DivineVee33]

@@DonnyNoMarie 🤣🤣 bootleg copy!!

[@DonnyNoMarie]

@@DivineVee33 😁

[@yosea8701]

🎯

[@jennifermudau6473]

This man betrayed his wife by not telling her the truth for all those years. She is so pretty and does not deserve to be treated like a trash. Run away from him my dear

[@pizzachick6884]

She knew about him, and she STAYED

[@maricrismartinvlog2231]

It’s unbecoming to a man who blames his wife for his flaws very unmanly.

[@Buttercup_100]

He’s gay. Period. You won’t win. Let him live his truth.

[@isabelmorgado5675]

He’s the one not letting it go. He should then just leave.

[@lynm2398]

Right?! He's had his preference for a LONG time, kept fighting it and used the marriage as a cover up. He's gay, period 💅. Co-parent & move on.

[@chilo8187]

He’s not gay he’s a trans chaser.

[@Laoriginal718]

There’s no such thing as HIS/HER truth. It’s simply THE TRUTH

[@Blueflame1st]

@@Laoriginal718Thankyou!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@1motivator4u30]

Yall take it easy on her. My heart goes out to her she has been with him since a teenager! She will get it together through time and therapy...🙏🏿

[@kayk2899]

❤

[@summermoney5276]

She will find love again when she least suspect it and he will come running back

[@francesjavier3113]

Touche! 🫶

[@angelaroberts7041]

This is the reason why young folk don’t need to fall in love and attach themselves with others. He is all she know she never got to know herself outside of being with him women need to learn that they can live without a man

[@bevhoney-b2184]

My heart goes out to her too! I agree it's not easy but what she needs to understand is that she is not married to the same man she married 23 years ago! Is the same man by name only he is a whole another person and that's why she should divorce him because he is not the man She married! And on top of that he said he lied to her when he married her that he had feelings for men when he married her So he was in denial and in the closet the whole 23 years! He wouldn't have to tell me one more thing he would be out my house he would not be spending my money on another human being, disrupting our finances and he would not be still taking my kids to see The person he's committing adultery with, that we didn't discuss together! So if he wants to go be with that other person then let him be with him and let them go live their life together but you going to pay child support!

[@1tiredmommaRissa]

He’s gaslighting her for HIS homosexuality. He should be ashamed of himself.

[@kristiinatomberg6350]

That's so true you can't blame others in your choices

[@Imanx602]

A true narc

[@angelajohnston5872]

She didn't need Dr. PHIL opinion to get out of this marriage, she just needed to look in the mirror and see how beautiful she is and how she deserves more

[@lee77337]

Run girl! Leave him alone! Let him be with essence. He has had over 25 other partners while with you. Take an HIV test right now. You deserve better. He is insecure! I feel sorry for him.

[@Laoriginal718]

Why do you feel sorry for him? 🧐

[@diamante2005]

Wow! I also wanted to comment to his wife, but I wasn't really sure how to put it yet until I read your comment. You said it perfectly!! Just what my thoughts were in a nutshell. Why would she even want him still?? HIV never crossed her mind??? SMH😢

[@taniali3206]

He is the one holding on and with the deception.

[@diamante2005]

@@taniali3206 If she's leaving it up to him to make a decision to come back to her. Then she is clearly also holding on as well as him.

[@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij]

That disgusting He better have been at the VERY least tested himself!!!!!

[@holliehoover6223]

He aint the prize. Get out. Your children wont give you credit or love you more for trying to stay together while you were unhappy. They will reflect on their fathers behavior and will never forget. They will love him but never respect him. Trust me.

[@peonyflowers23]

The kids will, resent him when they are older.

[@jaimebaird5699]

Very well said . Couldn't agree with you more.

[@BeckyBlake-sd1pg]

That man is evil and sick. 22 men in his life. He's a weird homosexual.

[@JohnKamasua]

Exactly 😢

[@gecabey3187]

This is utterly disgusting!!! Tracey needs to get counselling. He is a full-blown homosexual. She needs to end this marriage.

[@NobodyLikesMillhouse99]

What's disgusting? The cheating, the fact he's pan or she's transgender?

[@ang_ro]

Right... she needs to take her self-worth back, ain't no way I'd put up with this!!

[@olgamlklj1380]

That’s gross!!! I would have left a longtime ago!!! 🤢🤮🤮🤮

[@evephelpsmarketing]

What’s disgusting to me is that she is so blinded by homophobia that she can’t see that he’s a lying cheater!

[@sweetecstasy2300]

He is in complete denial he was already looking at men. He is a selfish, self serving person. She needs to accept that he likes a...

[@roxiestarr3430]

He said Essence looks like a model. 😮 more like a bonus on Tu Wong Fu!

[@joelove1987]

As a gay man, I don't approve of how he's doing his wife & kids!! She has every right to be angry & he's irresponsible with his health & hers!! I would never be "side piece" to some dude in a heterosexual marriage because he can't be honest about who he is!! Tracey should just move on

[@mallorygibbons4975]

Exactly. It’s not even about him being gay. That’s fine. It’s about the dishonesty n level n duration of deception. He should’ve just lived his truth all this time n not drug her or these kids through this.

[@female115]

You gay men are the worse. Trust me.. you dont give a damn. I hear enough stories😂

[@dawnricherson2604]

I hope you turn towards Jesus and let him heal you, because your eternal destination depends on it. God loves you. So much.

[@YongamaLove]

God says homosexuality is an abomination and so you are deceived and you can go to JESUS and ask Him to help you because it is not natural. God loves you and JESUS died to save you from this confusion. JESUS LOVES YOU SOOO MUCH ❤

[@kandi668]

JoeLove, you are so right. It never had anything to do with his sexuality. Never. He is just a selfish and disgusting individual.

[@Ann-d6e]

Why fight for a man who does not want you? Just let go.

[@eaustin4187]

Ain't that the f****** truth

[@taniali3206]

He is the one holding on and with the deception.

[@gracedalit3092]

For sure!

[@BellaIsMyBaby]

​​@@taniali3206EXACTLY! All she was trying to do was keep the family together. SHE Took her vows seriously. She didnt WANT to throw in the towel. She loves him.

[@VYT6171]

23 men?! He’s cheated their whole marriage GTFOH…

[@NoName-sb3iv]

😂EXACTLY! 23 MEN

[@Megan6772]

Not an ounce of shame on his face when he copped to that

[@NoName-sb3iv]

@user-rj5bd7lo8c RIGHT? The next few generations will be crawling with a NEW Era of STDs that's drug resistant

[@sashasbox]

​@@Megan6772 Right... He has no regrets, no remorse, no regards... No respect. He's horrible. She's been married for 23 years. He's had a roommate with benefits.

[@marcdennis4698]

Damn. NASTY WORK.

[@michellebh]

Narcissist abusing 2 partners with broken self esteem. That’s how he gets off

[@carrollapplen8116]

I don't understand this show. There's no way that man would have ever crawled back into bed with me.

[@tyronesiasmall8418]

I’m questioning if it’s real because it’s so unbelievable

[@joelove1987]

You know doggone well you would let him poke 😜 you again🤣🤣🤣

[@moddie6783]

Doug thinks his transgender GF with a voice deeper than Barry White, " looks like a model"...... In what universe Dougie??

[@sass_designs]

😂

[@candacewalton9456]

😂😂😂😂 straight delusional 😂

[@CapriThermilus]

😂

[@The_Variant]

The Gayniverse

[@charlee1150]

A model for what

[@brandyb2931]

Ma'am, he stays with you because you provide stability. You provide housing stability for someone who works sporatically. He can cheat with who he wants, and she stays because he gaslights her that he cares.

[@MichelleBattersby-dw3yy]

Shew no bigger truth ever told....she's a better woman than me

[@Susan-id5xj]

So true! Her job is stable. I would have never considered him based on his job.

[@NoName-sb3iv]

​@@MichelleBattersby-dw3yyFor REAL girl cuz aint no dam way

[@priscillaflach2960]

The trans is repulsive.

[@lilyhernandez4759]

Him saying that he wished he met essence before his wife…. His poor children. He’s indirectly saying he would go back and not have them to have essence for longer. He really doesn’t think of anyone but himself.

[@victoriousjoy9338]

If I were that wife, I would get the fastest divorce in world history!! I don't have words for my DISGUST!!! 😢

[@maryfiaola3686]

And get the Fastest sexual disease tests done

[@cindytheiringer2811]

From start to finish I had my divorce done in 2 weeks. I hope she beats it

[@amysnews6808]

If I knew my husband had been screwing men I wouldn't want to be with him any longer. I don't care if those men threw a dress on first. Gross!

[@SarahBear303]

This makes her what, sadly, we have a term for these days….Trans Widow.

[@goodintentions1302]

She looks like a model? If he'd said it about his wife I could understand it.

[@Luigiplumber32]

Leave before he gives something you can’t wash off

[@xxxx-qo9dh]

That’s probably the only thing he gave her in years

[@Luigiplumber32]

@@xxxx-qo9dh XD XD Poor lady. Lmao

[@mommaoinnh2674]

A gift that keeps on giving…

[@Susan-id5xj]

The ringworm booty disease originated in NYC. The wife better be careful and leave for her health.

[@lisalee3837]

Exactly ain't no way I'll be sticking around with him and his boyfriend

[@BethlynnGreen12]

He doesn't have a girlfriend he has a boyfriend

[@marieandrade7924]

❤❤

[@brideofchrist8295]

He keeps calling him she 😅

[@motherhoney3863]

Right that's a whole man

[@curiositychroniclesx]

Exactly

[@chrisnunya2001]

@@motherhoney3863lmao for real

[@zulypaniagua3432]

Unbelievable that he is blaming his wife for HIS cheating. What a total creep.

[@e.l.c.4298]

I feel so bad for his wife. Doug is a disgusting person.

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

She has the choice. To get OUT. ITS TIME. 😢

[@phuchyouh7171]

Doug is such a narcissist 😮

[@paulablack1863]

Self centered and self indulgent...

[@spongemonkeysooz]

FLEE FROM THAT MAN... HE'S A DOUCHEBAG

[@littleme3597]

This cannot be fixed. He is gay. No trust left in the marriage.

[@ronnielola6594]

This woman needs self love…. This man is gay.. he married a woman for society values and family values…

[@BBrock1951]

I don’t understand why they’re even discussing the marriage or the affair. Their relationship ended long before he went outside of the marriage. I would never have gone on Dr. Phil to discuss such devastating and very private issues. Let it go!! IT’S OVER!!

[@laurabeavers5981]

Amen!

[@punkinj3912]

You are soooooo right because at this point ,,ain't a dammmm thing 2 talk about....

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts

[@Loosybaboosy]

You'd think so. Bit I reckon the martiage is still not "over". They are both too chicken to move on. It serves a purpose for each of them to stay together.

[@josephdarline660]

This is helping woman heal♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@vpar2102]

She cannot and will not change who he is and his preferences. She needs to move on and not wait on HIM to decide whether or not he wants to be with her. End the marriage, find a good therapist, and learn to love yourself!!!

[@ninap6893]

Omg get rid of him. He’s cheating, addicted to porn, lying, and broke! You’ll be better off. Free yourself of his drama and negativity. Take yourself on a girls vacation.

[@nadanalia3000]

Exactly. BROKE

[@jenniferlynn8109]

Exactly right! Fk that!!

[@shersanta9s]

This guy is a gay man.

[@Laura-cq6vc]

❤ Terrible ❤

[@rosettafair438]

How could she have no idea he liked men but she caught him looking at men parts🤷🏽‍♀️ she was in denial from the start🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Mo_Malone]

This. 💯

[@Alisa-b4u]

That still doesn’t give him the right to betray her and sleep with men behind her back- she deserved to have a choice from the very beginning as he knew he had a desire towards men even when he married her and he was in denial at that time

[@victoriousjoy9338]

@@Alisa-b4u Truth.

[@mereese1]

She's definitely been in denial for sure. Now that her eyes are wide open, she doesn't need to give him another minute of marriage. Leave him with his trans boy toy. See how long that lasts. Dr. Phil is right. Relationships born in infidelity are I'll fated.

[@GeyBallew]

My heart really hurts for this woman. He's really blaming her for him being Gay.😢

[@conniemares4324]

Like Dr Phil said, she needs to get a back bone and leave.

[@MoneyStrategiesSOULutions]

Lol he didn't

[@mckaydenhoward2602]

What gives him the right to be upset when his WIFE doesn’t want to call his girlfriend by her name??? Truly!

[@MsLeonor1968]

Dude likes dudes, girl leave with your babies and find true happiness.

[@Itskcdiaries]

Dont be a bigot

[@MaryLov113]

She should run.

[@KM-nq7ez]

@@Itskcdiaries 🙄stop with your asinine virtue signaling.

[@Itskcdiaries]

@@KM-nq7ez no cause i am not doing that calling a woman a dude its transphobic

[@Itskcdiaries]

@kiki30312 calling a trans woman a man is transphobic.

[@Mo_Malone]

He shook his head "No" while saying "yes, the marriage is over" only because he hasnt worked out housing and finances. Hope she can kick him out expeditiously

[@ThetaAlphaGamma]

So....Tracy is married to a homosexual and doesnt know what to do? Let your husband live in his truth and you go live yours. You don't have to accept his choices.

[@dinomite078]

I feel so bad for this lady . She’s busy being a mom . She has needs she has many reasons to go out and do something yet she stayed faithful. He decided I NEED ME AND I WILL TAKE CARE OF ME .

[@sandykim5109]

Once a husband starts sleeping with a man outside the marrage bed, to me the husband is now on his own. Never would i want him back.

[@ingridphillip5367]

What do you mean “ outside of marriage?” Explain

[@pauladouglas9891]

When a man sleeps with another man, he can expose his wife to diseases, he is gay and is not interested in her.

[@azmgbbb]

Plus it’s not safe. He’s been with too many men.

[@NoName-sb3iv]

​@@azmgbbbI wouldn't care if he was bisexual, it's STILL risky

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@ingridphillip5367what do you mean? He is being unfaithful sleeping with anyone other than his WIFE ❤

[@Shug4763]

He slept with 23 men and 2 women......but the point is that he was sleeping with people other than his wife. He is cheating and he is disgusting.

[@tonicrossgrove7247]

He's sickening

[@elizabethroy5420]

He's a full blown gay man😖

[@BrinkOf50]

25 men. That's not a woman no matter how transgender that thing is...

[@2013lovemy]

😮 she needs to get tested!!!! Disgusting 🤮. I feel bad for her, but she needs to be smarter than this !!!

[@sarahfitzgerald2708]

He said ‘I didn’t want to disrupt the children, the family”, but then you go on national television. Sorry buddy, lives disrupted.

[@tisbutascratch2045]

Not just that, but just the fact that he would cheat multiple times on the mother of his children and act like that alone wouldn't be immensely disruptive to his kid's lives is so delusional I can't even believe it...

[@gforcewindswinds291]

He is a GOOD man. This a robotic thought. She is the typical hoho. My son - she is in love as typical Dems thought on child rape.

[@LacieChaos]

He had his kids drive him and his partners around! Bruh like.. tf??

[@HopefulInterventions]

@@tisbutascratch2045Exactly!

[@evephelpsmarketing]

I didn’t want to disrupt the children so I married a woman, had children with her when I was gay the whole time. 😂

[@valentinagk]

The guy is gay not bi ... He just tried to push his true nature and now he is confident enough to come out and be who he is

[@Carnivore1959]

Why wouldny you just leave him?? Have some self rspect lady. You dont need to understand...just leave

[@phabebarcelona863]

Even lusteinh tp her like she trying to work things like if left the person she would take him back

[@phuchyouh7171]

​@@phabebarcelona863??

[@paulablack1863]

Right!!!!! Like, what's there to save!!!! Girl, he's been with over 20 men since they've been married... Omg!!!! She's lucky she doesn't have an STD!!!! Moooooooove on, chic. He's gay af!!!!

[@paulablack1863]

​@@phabebarcelona863I took that from all of this too. She wants him back!!!! WHY?!?!? EWWWWWWWW!!!!! My god, he sleeps with everyone!!!!! Mainly dudes!!!! Wow! She needs some friends or family to step in.

[@GypsyGirl317]

She needs to wake up and respect herself properly. He's a douchebag who blames external situations for his inner feelings. He has yet to learn that he is responsible for his own feelings and nobody else can "make" him feel anything he doesn't choose to. Life with "Essence" in full time co- habitation will look very different than what they are experiencing currently.

[@callenday6853]

There should be a punishment for people who don't disclose the fact that they are bi-sexual BEFORE marriage. Causing someone to live in a lie is pretty dirty.

[@cristenhartman5185]

Monetary damages for every year of their lives they waste.

[@cindyhoomalu1566]

Yes! My ex was bi, at the very least. I think he faked it just to find a wife because he was a police officer. Sadly, his next wife had 2 children with him before his true colors came through in their marriage. He is a good person, but I really wish I hadn’t wasted 7 years of my life thinking he loved me.

[@vondahe]

Interestingly, many people feel it’s ok if the bi is a woman. Cheating is cheating.

[@rojamillerover]

This

[@Rat_Queen86]

You are aware that not all bisexual people are like this right?

[@PrinceMuha]

The fact that she continues to be intimate with him even after finding out he is gay makes me confused even more. Tracey should just get a divorce period

[@jennifers2017]

Yes major ick factor!

[@BeautyInYOU583]

Cause she loves him And been with him 20 years and don’t know anything else. I can understand why she doesn’t want her husband to go but unfortunately he’s done with. He’s gay gay cause Essence even sound like a man.

[@beneiseoleinmheart5614]

Yes, she has alot of insecurities she needs to work thru.

[@jgyrwa]

🤢🤮

[@DeniDays312]

​@BeautyInYOU583 what about her loving herself? He's not the only thing she knows. She knows herself.

[@CindyArcher-vz6my]

Hahaha, when he said there is nothing wrong with him! Everything is wrong with him 😂

[@TinaBrown1019]

She's a nice looking lady and she deserves so much more. The fact that she's on this show and still with this guy, tells me that she doesn't value herself. I hope she realizes her worth and start loving herself if not for herself then for her children. Her very life is in danger if she stays in this marriage. Get Out Lady.

[@cattaylor7031]

She's a blamer n awful.

[@sylviarucker4658]

Her possessions are more important. The image is sickening.

[@michaelturner2177]

She's not the first and definitely not the last. You better start looking at your own husband and boyfriend.

[@heavenlybrown4491]

😂​@@michaelturner2177

[@ivnehaas]

"It's her fault" is the biggest red flag. The show could be over right there. She doesn't deserve this man-child.

[@mrfantastik8168]

She has what she deserves. No one twisted her wrist. She is very toxic herself and judging by your Comment you might be too. 🤷

[@GwendolynWilliams-or4jm]

He is a Narc (narcissistic)...I wouldn't allow him to touch me either. But he says a strong drive sexually...not to women but to men...wake up girl!!!

[@wakeupluv]

​@@mrfantastik8168 You actually sound triggered by her personal opinion on a public platform.. 😅

[@Dimi374]

@@mrfantastik8168 Correct! She told him to go find another person, he did and she’s going to cry about it. Uh- uh no, no sympathy here.

[@mrfantastik8168]

@@wakeupluv Not triggered at all. Are you triggered by my comment?

[@patriciaharris1711]

Her hardest part is not leaving him, her hardest part is following through and staying gone and that's why she needs friends and family. Her self esteem is really low, and her strength is shattered. Don't judge her.

[@juliatripp2010]

And don't judge Essence either. Tracy, as many women in her shoes do, cannot accept that they are no longer top dog in this world. She shouldve left long ago. Many men, not just black men, have long been choosing very differently and finding women cloying, demanding, controlling and oppressive. They are opting out of trad husband roles... I never married cuz I saw so many red flags, and then there was the downlow, and when that hit, I knew the world had shifted. I'm glad I didn't take the trad wife route. I led a more peaceful existence and saved myself a world of hurt. That's why I 'support' Doug's choice. I don't think he's a bad man. Just a typical man; a human being trying to navigate in a world that has rules that no longer serve...

[@dianaroach3093]

For me, the best question to ask your date is. How is your relationship with Jesus? I told my second husband that I would not marry another man unless he was a Christian. We've been married for 11 years now. Marriage takes work. Do we have problems? Yes, but we work it out. My husband is a great, funny, hardworking man. He does what needs to be done. If I can, I will help him work. I thank Jesus for my husband.

[@AnaThaLight]

​@@juliatripp2010the lying is deplorable. Knowingly sleeping with married men is a poor character no matter the preferences. The married man knows it's wrong, that's why he's blaming his wife. Hurt ppl hurt ppl but it's not an excuse. Doug needs to move out. Period.

[@lelamaciolek1166]

@juliatripp2010 You said she needs to realize she isn’t top dog. This woman has excepted less than a dog.

[@loriblythe6635]

It’s not like she’s unattractive. She’s a beautiful woman and deserves better