LOVE YOUR KIDS Message to parents of adults by RC Blakes

[@maryhanns1658]

I really needed this. My son severed ties with me knowing I was going through cancer treatments. He was being extremely disrespectful and drama followed him. He is very entitled and acts like he's entitled to be disrespectful. This reinforced my thoughts on all of this. However because he left me hi & dry when I needed him the most & his level of disrespect, I will give him all the space he needs. Thank God I'm cancer free. Living well is my goal.

[@monicaivy2497]

Praise God!! Blessings to you and your family.

[@latoniamckinney9934]

Thank u Jesus 💓 experiencing similar situation 🙏 heartbreaking he has went in several rages had to call the police during the time I need someone to care.he failed me when I needed him 😪😪😪

[@RCBlakesJr.]

Thank God you’re doing well 🙏🏽😊

[@larsandradouglas3119]

@@RCBlakesJr.we can’t wait to see u in atl Friday praying Lisa and your brother can come as well even mama Blake’s 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@gloriapearson64]

Praise God. Strong woman. Prayers you stay in God's grace

[@misvanroch5403]

All i've goten from my mom and dad was an is rejection but i'm still here thank God for that

[@thaliaduncombe7679]

Let them be to grow and come into God's will. Nothing wrong with them being distant or a prodigal. Love them and be there for when they return with a repentant heart. Give adult children the same grace God gives us.

[@Kershundala]

Awesome advice

[@RealLadi228]

It's a demon a spiritual attack spiritual warfare "I say aloud forgive them Lord for they know not what they do" Is it heartbreaking?.... absolutely gut wrenching!!! I trust God and I stay prayed up for them more importantly for my own emotional well being and mental sanity. My heart and door has never closed.

[@SosoRenee]

Thank you for teaching on this topic!! Please speak on this more. I’m 38 and a single mother of 4 boys w/3 different fathers. I had my first son when I was 16. I’ve made soooo many mistakes. I’ve grown a lot, learned a lot and am trying to do better. Thank you so much pastor for your word. You don’t know how much I needed this today. 🙏🏾❤️

[@debraafriday]

God forgives our mistakes...just move forward and do better God bless.

[@fstblk5]

I also had 4 sons the first at age 17, the second two at 25 and the last at 30 in 1988. It's a challenge, I will keep you in my prayers cause boys are not easy for 2 parents let alone 1.

[@fanniemartin6358]

Sophia yes God got you my sister, continue moving forward. We all made our mistakes in life all we can do is repent of our sins and allow Jesus to continue to guide our steps with Him. May God continue to Bless you, My Prayers Are With You and Your Family 🙏 🙏

[@trinadoe9581]

This was a blessing to read and I encourage you to continue working on you. I don’t know your financial situation, but if you’re able to, I encourage you to invest in yourself by joining the sisterhood of Mordecai Mission community. I did and it has truly upgraded me. The way I approach and process people and situations is much different. ❤ many blessings to you and your boys

[@MamaLisa_Reads]

You are not alone dear. I've 4 sons and 3 different fathers. First sons (twins) at 18. I'm 43 now. May God continue to bless you.

[@debraaguayo7777]

I love my children very much, but with all the disrespect that has been shown to me I have to love them from a distance. God Bless!

[@BlindChicTech]

Crazy this is the first time I have heard an advice on how to parent an adult child. PLEASE PLEASE continue or follow up this topic again it’s needed. I have been struggling with this idea on how I can love my child even thou they are living a life you never predicted…

[@chrisparker6249]

The first person or people we have a chance to lead, influence, mold, and cultivate are our own seed(s). Let's raise these Kings and Queens the right way🙏💗🔥☝️👑

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

POWERFUL STATEMENT!

[@savannanicole1981]

Oh my thank you for teaching on this topic! My mothers love has always been conditional and only loved us if we did exactly what she wants us to do. I’ve always felt not good enough and invisible to my mother my whole life but it taught me what not to do with my daughter. Even if I don’t agree with my daughters behavior or whatever else it may be it could never take my love away. I want her to always know she’s loved. Please talk more about this! Bless you pastor! ❤️

[@amyblake8872]

I want to say thank you as well PASTOR BLAKES. There is so much going on with the family. I gave birth to three incredible children. And due to the some choice's that I made I often feel this deep pain inside of me that I have failed them. Not only them, also all of family members involved with them. I would have 4 more, and listening to influence of some family, and fear I had I had abortions. In which the enemy tormented me for 30 years about. Along with flat out disobedience, addiction, love abuse, from not only family, also from myself. I often hear family and even though I do not see them I get encouraged to keep trying and keep going forward without shame, guilt, and regret have it's way with me. Well at least MY MAJESTY IS TRAINING ME UP. at times, and this helps me to be encouraged to keep going, to meet the full potential of the QUEEN THAT GOD WANTS ME TO BE. I KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT THE LORD IS PREPARING ME FOR. I am hoping to have another chance to someday be able to build, and bond with them, and meet some of my family I feel that's been so good to Genesis and Captain, and done, and do the best they can. I THANK THE LORD FOR THEM ALL IN CHRIST JESUS NAME AMAN AMEN. I agree with you on allowing all of them to be able to make decisions, and choice's in life. And will always love, and forgive, and embrace them. Do my best to encourage, and currently am only allowed to do that not too often with my first daughter Peri. I want to be a member of The New Home Family Worship Center . And want to thank all of you again. I tried again to SEW that 56$KINGDOMSEED. Would not go through again. Frustrated me much. I have an appointment today, and my mother's not doing well. My step dad is not either, or my brother. And I am not able to help them effectively with a connection to THE LORD. Or anything for that matter, it hurts so much. PASTOR BLAKES AND FIRST LADY AND CHURCH FAMILY WOULD YOU ALL PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND ALL OF THE FAMILY, AND THANKYÓU ALL SO MUCH daughter Peri , Genesis, and a son Captain. I am also praying for you all as well. And please tell your brother thank you for all the help yesterday. Oh yes please forgive me for this being so long? Will not be sending them so long next time.

[@Indiscrazyworld]

@@amyblake8872keep seeking and allowing your faith to grow in our LORD FATHER GOD JESUS CHRIST HE WILL MAKE ALL CROOKED PATHS STRAIGHT HE LOVE YOU TO NO END GOD BLESS YOU WOMAN OF GOD

[@mitz1919]

Amen!!!100%love this message. You have to separate choices and behaviors from them as people. We all sin, we all have made the wrong choices thank God that He loves us thru it all . And as parents we must demonstrate that love as much as possible.

[@shalissahicks6556]

I need to hear this....many of times I catch myself going off on my children for making the same mistakes I made.. yet I have to keep In mind that I was one a child also and show grace....thank you

[@seekingenlightenment2026]

That was an amazing message, Pastor Blakes. Thank you.

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

Narcissist Adult kids is a whole other relationship ‼️‼️ pray for the parents with entitlement Grown kid issues ‼️‼️‼️

[@shegotstandards]

Great message! Even as an adult parent I needed to hear this to respect the relationship between me and my adult child. Thank you Bishop Blake.

[@toshistokes9277]

"Just be the change you want to see." Such a powerful statement. That is EXACTLY what I did. Thanksgiving was beautiful because of it. I know it was God that moved me to reach out. This was a timely word. God is healing and restoring families and this is just CONFIRMATION of that for me. Thank you for sharing your WISDOM, STRATEGIES, and a SOUND PERSPECTIVE on parenting our adult children.

[@matildagonsalvez6059]

Thanks for sharing. You are absolutely right. We all face problems with our kids but, we need to love and pray for our children and Grandchildren all our lives. God finds a way to bring back our children to us even if we have misunderstandings. If God is with us, who can be against us. God will keep our families united.

[@tammietate6648]

That’s what I’m on, Loving my children and my family. United.

[@samanthapitts1910]

My father disowned me as a teen parent. I try to learn from ALL of my poor decisions & use myself as an example to my children. My son, is now in his 20’s & am so incredibly proud of him. I’m appreciative to the people that saw me for who I was as a person & not my mistake.

[@broderickmayeux]

Sound words Rev, my little boy is 4 years old and still this message is helping me today for tomorrow. Thank you

[@misskaykayRSA]

As an “adult child”, thank you for your message. Been struggling with my overbearing and over protective father who lacks boundaries.

[@shadowarhi558]

Agreed on this

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

THis is soooo gooooooddddd. I talk with my kids about this often. I allow them to hold me accountable and the rules go both ways. We all need to be who God has called us to be but are always called to love each other. I am thankful for the peace in our home. As I have did my work and stay true to emotional health it has rubbed off on the kids. So many of us have been broken even from the best homes. I tell my kids I love them and hug them EVERY morning and evening. I THANK GOD for blessing me with these gifts. God has asked me to steward this role well and I'm committed.

[@preciousstone2782]

YES LORD! WE ALL FALL SHORT, WE MUST REMEMBER...THE LORD HAS BROUGHT US A MIGHTY LONG WAY!

[@ranaehawkins4536]

Thank you. God always sends confirmation. Letting go of control. Loving my children. Setting them free to be. God bless this ministry. 🙏

[@lynellb]

"God doesn't need us to be advocates for him" oh so very true! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@tammietate6648]

All that starts in the FAMILY!

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Learn to separate ur disapproval from your Love! Wisdom/Maturity. Your transparency is liberating! Thank U Sir

[@alexisnorthington5227]

I needed this me and 1 of my adult kids had an argument because he is Toxic like I used too be and disrespectful and still home and its hard to coexist lots of days Thank you for all you do 🙂❤🙏

[@camillefaheyblackman4801]

Beautiful message, teaching parents that it first begins with us. We need to set the example. Thanks so much Mr Blake for your openness and honesty.

[@Mary-qm7rw]

Amen Pastor Blakes! I need to hear this today. My son has cut me off from his life because his wife doesn't like me...long story. He doesn't call, he doesn't text, he doesn't answer his phone. My texts do get through and so I periodically let him know, we love him, we miss him, and we hope he is well. I do not abuse the fact that my texts get through. This is not the situation I would like, but it is what I have, and I will take the blessing that I can at least get that message to him. Growing up is hard and growing older is too, we are all on this earth learning and relying on God. Bless you for making this video.

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

Thanks Pastor Blakes... Good stuff 👌

[@LADYOFLUV]

I really appreciate this message Because I'm a mom of 2 teenage Boys and it gets ruff ..

[@barbwinters1693]

I so admire you're brutal honesty about yourself. God is using you, and moving hearts through it. You tell it like it is. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

[@aj7009]

I wish I could send this to my Jehovah witness mom, since I left the religion she shuns me. So sad, but I have the strength to live my life in peace 🙏

[@aj7009]

@RCBlakesJr00 if your going to SCAM at least use spell check 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@amiajohnson2428]

My mom was this type of parent she held us to so many high standards and wanted us to do what she wanted us to do my mom want you to cook how she want you to cook ,date who she want you to date , dress how she want you to dress ,be how she want you to be and she swear it’s because she wanted the best for her and to be honest lol that just made me get alittle disrespectful towards her cause I started speaking up for myself because I’m a leader not a follower I do want I want to do meaning if I wanna dress a certain way ima do just that cause my style may not be your style

[@dublingirl1691]

That was a beautiful honest and transparent message. It’s why I come back over and over to your videos. God Bless you and your family. 🙏🏼🙏🏼☘️

[@veronicaiweagwu4951]

Pastor Blacks . May the good Lord increase you in what you do for him and humanity: This short message touched my heart. Now my oldest son stopped communicating to me and block me from his social media. Just a an argument between me and him because I told him that he should talk to me with respect because he do take care of me financially. He does it frequently that I felt that I felt I being 🎉humiliated most of the time as I became as a Slave to him either you shot up or I will not help you anymore. So I told him that I hv heard enough from him and will not take it any of that. So we hv stopped talking even on my 78th birthday he did not call me and did not invite me on his birthday in October. So I just let him since he told me that he is going to take a break because that’s was what he told me. This is since May this yr. Blessings to you Pastor. I am still praying for I know that God will touch his heart on his timeline. I know still love him and was my best friend but Ihe is very unforgiving and likes to keep groudge .

[@N.O.W.826]

What a powerful message!!! Thanks Bishop Blakes for sharing this!!!

[@MsP0624]

You are speaking TRUTH!! Thank you.

[@quiqui5875]

Bishop I’ve been praying for you to cover more parent-child topics!!! I even emailed you and your wife requesting these topics. THANK YOU. We all would benefit from your wisdom.

[@maudline]

I wish I could like this 100 times! All my love and respect go out to you parents ❤❤❤

[@bobbijokramm1976]

I can't express my appreciation enough for ur work Bishop 💗

[@Naj-ru6xl]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge. I absolutely needed this message and anticipate learning more about various ways to demonstrate love to adult children. I am certainly an exaggeration of my mother and I treat my adult children similar to how I was/currently treated. My mother did her best and such an amazing job (look at me now!), but there are things that need to be tweaked :).....immediately. Please continue to share! God Bless!

[@madyella-Ge]

Love the topic….Mother of three adults 33, 28, & 26. Please speak on this more love your Godly advice.

[@loisthomas5465]

Thank you for this profound word my Bishop. I appreciate you so very much. 💖❤

[@pittymama4500]

Uh oh, come on now🤯 ...an accurate and dramatic reflection of us! That just hit hard for me

[@love.joseph73]

This was great teaching. As a young, single mother of 4, without a clear manual on how to be a parent this was really good. I agree and appreciate your perspective. Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you!

[@sarahpeyton3824]

I will definitely be bringing in the New Year 2033 with my New Home Family & seed !!!Thank U so very much Mr & Mrs. Blakes!👍

[@JadedLove313]

Thank goodness for this message. I have two grown children! It’s a good rule to remember when you were their age. My dad has never rejected me and he too is a minister. My mom who’s a Jehovah’s Witness not so excepting of my adulthood “manipulation behavior” How soon we forget! ❤ the truth comes out eventually!

[@belindadavis468]

Wow, this popped up right on time!! I needed this ❤

[@normabarros3124]

You truly blessed me on this subject. I love my son and have needed to love him at a distance.

[@lifecanbebeautiful6548]

My God is always on time. This message was just what I needed. I've been trying to find the words to say to my husband/pastor regarding our adult son without challenging his manhood or parenting. I can't forward this video fast enough. Thank you so much, and may God continue to use you.

[@missjaszmine1968]

Please consider sharing additional videos on parenting and empty nesting. This is very much appreciated Pastor. Thank You 🙏🏽.

[@makenziepolston1220]

Great timing really needed to hear this message at this time in my life praise the lord Jesus blessed

[@LJJones-dz3cb]

Thank you. Your message is right on time and was literally a concern when I went to bed last night. May God continue to use you and bless you.

[@lynnlamont8942]

I appreciate this conversation. Thank you Bishop. I Love my adult children and they love me a whole lot even when I'm not approved of what they did

[@tamikaqueen1203]

By prayer love & the grace of God.

[@OrchidTingz]

This message needs to be heard world-wide 🌎 There are so many people that struggle in this area not knowing what to do or how do it! I believe if there's a true desire to love that there's always a way always an answer! Thank you so much RC Blakes what you call rants are actually conversations full of wisdom and can serve as an invitation to healing, better relationships, and freedom We absolutely love You & Lisa 🤍🧡 🙏

[@sharonhoward5831]

Exactly 💯 Pastor! My son's father needs to hear this. But he's fallen off the face of the earth.

[@Mrg524]

Thanks, pastor! It can also go the other way. Children can disapprove of their parents’ lifestyles, and find it difficult to be close to them. I appreciate your point that sometimes when children know you don’t approve of their lifestyles, they can think of themselves as an embarrassment and imposition to you. That can also apply in the reverse.

[@cheshahale]

SO TRUE! I don’t approve of my parents’ lifestyle. And the decisions they make. I’ve been like that before I got saved.

[@kaleema1987]

Very true! I also feel like everyone situation is different and that’s okay too!

[@richardfaison1698]

I humbly appreciate your words, message and time. Thank You Sir!!!

[@tinabutler7786]

I'm right there with you Bishop. I had a baby at a young age my daughter 42yrs

[@gc2137]

What a beautiful message Pastor! ❤️ Praise God that He takes our dysfunction and, if we allow Him, transforms us into Powerful witnesses for Him! This message is right on time for me.

[@kimsmith1250]

Thank you! This was for me.

[@shirleyjones7616]

Oh My Goodness! God Is A Wise God. I've Learned To L❤ve My Son Insipte Of Whatever He Has Done. I Thank God For His Rebuke And His L❤ve For Me. 🕊Thanks Bishop🕊

[@ashleybrittneywhatsreal3355]

Thank you! Putting this message in my heart💯

[@monicaivy2497]

Oh my, how much I needed to hear this!! Thank you Pastor💜💯

[@darciborelli9153]

Phenomenal Bishop! Continue venting!!! Impeccably, powerful message. I pray after parents, individuals listen to this message, that action will be taken and not just let it go in one hour and out the other. I pray that the penetration would go deep into the brain, heart. Appreciate you, Lisa, thank you beyond your understanding.❤

[@angelinamcclain9256]

Good afternoon Rev. Blake I thank you for this message 💯👍. I am rightly relating myself. To this message. I lost my son to the streets he's in jail now . I raise my children without a father in the home as a single parent.

[@ReneeJ4Jesus]

Our children may be an exaggerated reflection, expression, or characteristic of ourselves. Gulp...Who can relate? Okay...Yes.

[@yemedemure414]

❤❤❤❤

[@carmimoultrie1448]

It's very very very hard to do at most times because of the perceived apathy and disrespect shown, but, love is there. I love and appreciate this message. Much needed. Thank you.

[@888hereandnow]

💥Excellent!💥Thankyou!

[@tieonneyvonne7420]

Thank you Bishop Blakes! This was an awesome message!🙌❤🙏

[@julieelliott943]

This is a wonderful holiday gift. Thank you ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@shamaywilliams-blake]

A very needed topic which is rarely addressed. Thank you for following the leading of the Holy Spirit.

[@mildredherring4109]

Thanks Bishop for this topic ! I am sitting here thinking about some of what you said ! It's true charity begins at home ! Today That's missing in a lot of homes ! Nothing too hard for God! Love 💘 then even if it's long distance

[@MsFrizzy]

❤️🙏🏾 God bless you Sir.

[@unasmith6633]

Thanks for sharing this Rev. Blake.

[@chantellhudson2546]

This Is A Great Video and So Accurate

[@lisalaser3698]

I am currently being rejected by my parents each time we try to reach out to each other…. I wish I could send this to my mother without fear of retaliation. But nonetheless I thank you for putting this information out for people that ARE ready to hear it. And as a young adult I thank you for allowing me to feel more comfortable in my individual self and realize how much of my parents’ dislike of my choices is between them and God.

[@ShivaniGrail]

❤such a beautiful message - thank you 🙏🏼

[@mal1075]

Glory to God, thank you for sharing. I thank God for you and Lisa

[@yemedemure414]

This message is right right on time for me!!! I have 3 grown children. I’m going through it bad with my 25yr old daughter. She keep me from seeing my grandchildren because her and I at odds. It hurts! 😢 She disrespectful and never apologizes. She blocks me and her brothers from calling. She expects me to quit working and babysit her kids while she works. She hasn’t worked in 4yrs. I agreed to watch the kids around my work hours. That still wasn’t good enough. I don’t know what else to do.

[@tonyajackson8860]

Keep doing what your doing. Love them from a distance and pray 🙏.

[@estherwilliams7535]

This is a very truthful statement I just had a conversation with a friend of my and she couldn't understand that until I asked her to think about her self

[@LightBeingsBE]

Powerful!! Thank you for your obedience 🙏🏽

[@tarsha9176]

Thank you for speaking on this I would like to hear more on this topic, for I’m having a hard time with my 3, pray daily for guidance and protection for them. Thank you.

[@celestep2965]

Amen bless your heart thank you.

[@sarinsarit9034]

Thank You an appreciate Your wisdom!!!

[@Mochalove77]

Thank you! Lord knows I did needed this!!

[@gracemitchell4954]

Thank you pastor we must love them unconditionally & be honest about how we feel! It might just plant a seed in their heart ❤️

[@MissQomfortable]

What a special message 🙏

[@msrelly86]

Thank you Pastor for this message tonight 🙏🙏🙏

[@jamiestumps6146]

Thank you Bishop RC, for this Word, God bless you Sir!

[@jennifersesley1998]

Thank You Pastor, Great Message ❤️

[@robertaclemmons7999]

This is so point. I just displayed to child not being accepted because of a choice that was made. I've been displeased with not responding God's way. Acceptance and I love you. Thank you Bishop Blake. ❤️

[@yeviec9263]

This was really good and needed for me. Thank you.❤❤

[@samiraj71]

I really needed to hear this, Bishop. Tonight my adult daughter and I had a tumultuous conversation where she almost hung up on me. And we live on opposite sides of the USA. Your message was spot on and apropos to what's happening between us right now.

[@trulycay5714]

I see this in a lot of people they don't know how to sit down and talk and communicate it's sad to people shy away from conversations

[@DeidreMichelleIngram]

I very much appreciate this message pastor. It is right on time!! ❤❤❤

[@sarinsarit9034]

God bless You!! Wow a father at 15

[@Indiscrazyworld]

Thanks so much for this message GOD BLESS YOU