I couldn't never ever imagine myself being successful with no baggage/kids. Dealing with a man with a bunch of kids, babymommas, baggage, a liar and keep making me look like a fool.
@thatoneblackgirl39342 жыл бұрын
Same smh
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Right. She is self inflicting her pain by still dealing with him after the red flags.
@christinajackson63092 жыл бұрын
@@livinglife6345 This is a perfect comment. Because her being in this relationship is a *choice*
@thatoneblackgirl39342 жыл бұрын
She 10000%% can do better but I understand once you love someone it’s hard to walk away 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@bettyboop15682 жыл бұрын
🎯💯💯
@chantellejohn3052 жыл бұрын
Take a shot for every time Kendra says “We need to talk”
@MarieAmicalola2 жыл бұрын
You trying to give us alcohol poisoning 😹
@aleahboone43232 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm drunk and I still have 12 minutes to go.
@kimillionaire2 жыл бұрын
And I'm drunk and dying of alcohol poisoning 🤣
@hafsabourrich10992 жыл бұрын
"We needa tawk" 😂
@asiadoll38472 жыл бұрын
I'm about to dieeeeeeee 😂 😂 why did I try thissssssss uggggh
@d3sign3rmom2 жыл бұрын
It's funny how Karlie said that Joc got a boring woman and how he must've been tired of the "thotianas" considering she's one of those "thotianas".
@jennyjenga19292 жыл бұрын
Lol I was thinking the same thing. Including her 🤣
@supervegitok9562 жыл бұрын
I agree is she serious 🤣
@QueenSugar722 жыл бұрын
Exactly! She is the President of the club!
@LotsofLisa2 жыл бұрын
Did she ever marry that dude? While she sitting up here with her weird obsession over Joc.
@meloniesosa20132 жыл бұрын
And popping out of a cake for him😂
@KeddyG902 жыл бұрын
Karlie is known to be messy, but not known to be a liar.
@Jsween8762 жыл бұрын
FACTS!!
@vanessamoreira38902 жыл бұрын
I still think Karlie lied about fucking Pooh and her man
@daniellak.75212 жыл бұрын
@tq231442 Kendra actually checks joc on the regular, but Karlie needs to stay out of it...Karlie is doing it out of jealousy and pettyness..it does not come from a genuine heart..so yes, Karlie needs to be called out, too.
@ssiiaabbyy__2 жыл бұрын
she is lol
@latinagibbs27702 жыл бұрын
Facts
@traceydumase2 жыл бұрын
Kendra is proof you can be broken and educated all at the same time
@brizy___2 жыл бұрын
🎯
@beautyk26602 жыл бұрын
@Tracey Dumase Banda Exactly 💯
@kat17L2 жыл бұрын
💯
@candycakes79212 жыл бұрын
💯💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@purgetheXYs Жыл бұрын
bw can get all the degrees in the world, they never get educated om the bum ways of blk men.
@VeeeAyyy8592 жыл бұрын
The fact that she does not want to have kids with Joc shows she’s not as naive as she looks. The toxicity of the relationship is too much. She’s just in the relationship to try to prove she can be the one tame a man like Joc. Them men can’t be tamed sweetie leave them for the streets.
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Facts. I am glad she doesn’t want to have a child with him. She can divorce him but having a child with him is 18+ years with him.
@brandi17able2 жыл бұрын
He got several kids, I wouldn't want any with him
@royaldiadem_2 жыл бұрын
Nah it’s not that she just don’t want o be baby mama #6
@naemack14412 жыл бұрын
I would also say Joc is trying to prove something to himself as well. That he can attempt to be faithful and change. ..wouldn't say she should take all the weight
@stardustxx2782 жыл бұрын
She's pathetic like most women and puts her worth on having a man or not. And he found a woman who will pay his child support.
@LotsofLisa2 жыл бұрын
So basically this is just another case of a good black woman dating down. He’s using her to “level up”, meanwhile she’s “leveling down.” He thinks being with a woman that has it together is going to somehow make him mature and not look like the gigolo joke he is. Meanwhile he’s going to embarrass the hell out her and make her look like a fool.
@thatbeaatcch98842 жыл бұрын
But the thing is that she was actively being told about his behavior and she still chose to marry him? Like I don’t understand how Kendra could be so naive?
@cuzimblk57192 жыл бұрын
@@thatbeaatcch9884 Idk some people can't be better tbh.
@MarieAmicalola2 жыл бұрын
Idky “gigolo joke” is sending me🤣 accurate tho
@Jasmiyn1232 жыл бұрын
Exactly, And this is why I laugh at women that have the I could change him mentality. Like girl, Rather you change him or not. What's the point of wasting your time to see
@nikkikells87912 жыл бұрын
Correct!
@LJsUnicorn2 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that has no sympathy for Kendra ? Like this man showed her EXACTLY who he was and she chose to stay. She’s an attorney so why is Joc always able to talk his way out of things? Make it make sense. Being ignorant is a choice.
@natashacutiepie60742 жыл бұрын
I love when we hold women accountable. ❤
@jermainelatimer8042 жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@tmac77342 жыл бұрын
Facts how is Kendra an attorney and such a poor judge of character
@elisest.george82452 жыл бұрын
@@tmac7734 I'm mad that she's an attorney and we saw nothing in this marriage planning process concerning a prenup. When she brought it up...he kinda talked his way outta it
@justsaying83582 жыл бұрын
No, my sympathy jump out the window the momentshe started bragging about her ring to Karlie and acting like she won, cuz at that moment I realized that she's one of those "as long as I'm the one he comes back to/I'm the one that got the ring". At this point she well aware of what she put herself into and she likes to be in that situation.
@whyisthisdifferentnow2 жыл бұрын
Y’all need to learn, “pick-me’s” and “as long as he comes home” women come in all shapes, sizes, colors, with degrees, careers, and their lives together. Just because someone looks to have their life together, doesn’t mean they’re not apart of the desperado club. 😩🤷🏻♀️
@azizasingh2 жыл бұрын
Whew, you preaching🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 amen sis. You told the whole truth.
@chelll62272 жыл бұрын
💯
@moniqueduncan43772 жыл бұрын
That mf gone come home that shit
@LotsofLisa2 жыл бұрын
“The desperado club.” ⚰️💀 Somebody dial 911. I have died.
@KMatea2 жыл бұрын
She’s a pick me at it’s finest. She’d literally be better off alone, I doubt Joc adds much value to her life.
@lightskinp71652 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen a woman wanna get married and attach herself to heartbreak and embarrassment so bad 🥴 all the red flags started waving before she married this man yet still she kept going ahead SMH
@naemack14412 жыл бұрын
Some people don't want to accept defeat, too much pride 🤷🏽♀️
@sachelelandell82372 жыл бұрын
Strange. And then she lied to The Bams and Erica to kinda save face, cried and everything, 2 scenes later I lied, they were concerned for her.
@cycarr14342 жыл бұрын
Make me wonder if is to be in the show!!
@prettylittleliar7311 Жыл бұрын
Sad case frfr
@empresscolleenwilliams1092 Жыл бұрын
"That part" Heartbreak and embarrassment. So anything happens she deserve everything she gets.
@MsLettertube2 жыл бұрын
The fact she is going to be a Judge yet has horrible judgement in men makes me cringe....
@brtitneymissick6610 Жыл бұрын
Her professional life with love doesn't have anything to do with her career. If it was so she wouldn't be where she is today.
@sandou3 Жыл бұрын
@@brtitneymissick6610how you’re going to represent authority and decide on peoples life if you don’t have a bit of common sense. I her what you mean but she seems like the kind of person to be overlooking red flags and be driven by emotions. I wouldn’t want her to be judging my case.
@emerald_skai205 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't let Kendra Judge a talent show, let alone and criminal case
@MsLettertube Жыл бұрын
@@brtitneymissick6610 What she chooses to do professionally has a lot to do with her personal life. She has bad judgement in her private life which means she shouldn't go forth and judge people professionally... Where is she today? On love and Hip hop!
@Rylanbanks385 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅 For Real
@friabarbie2 жыл бұрын
kendra seem like the type of girl tht gets married to a guy just to say she’s married 🥴 knowing the whole marriage is going to b hell 🫤
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Sad but true
@summerbreeze20302 жыл бұрын
Omg yes !
@KenziePayne-uu2ugАй бұрын
She’s to dam successful and smart to be with someone like Joc to be honest
@meghanwilliams42952 жыл бұрын
Joc is who he is, and, is always gonna be. He tried. Kendra has to want better, FOR HERSELF. It doesn't matter how the audience feels.
@kiara1989232 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@explorewilikkleisland17022 жыл бұрын
Sis you damn right. Joc has proven time and time again he ain’t gonna change
@explorewilikkleisland17022 жыл бұрын
And Monday’s episode prove it
@QueenRissa_342 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@jmo8762 жыл бұрын
All of this!!!!
@sadepayne2 жыл бұрын
Seem like the whole timeline is about him f**king up and saying sorry🤣🤨
@d3sign3rmom2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@thatbeaatcch98842 жыл бұрын
And people are still trying to blame other people for his actions and or making excuses
@sadepayne2 жыл бұрын
@@thatbeaatcch9884 Exactly 💯
@kishalashawn55422 жыл бұрын
And her saying “we need to talk”! Lol
@sadepayne Жыл бұрын
@@kishalashawn5542 Yep 🤣 d@mn shame
@Blessedone6422 жыл бұрын
Love cannot be this traumatizing 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@leahosborne13802 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 fr
@rubyturk99042 жыл бұрын
Very exhausting
@boogphilly8321 Жыл бұрын
That’s because none of this is love, it’s lust and ignorance.
@madeleine9925 Жыл бұрын
Fr
@nice1cool3 күн бұрын
1Corinthians 13:4-8 New International Version 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 1 CORINTHIANS 13:13
@BoujeeBwiththeTea2 жыл бұрын
Kirk was very disrespectful to bring up Karlie & Joc's sexcapades in front of Kendra. I'm not surprised tho. Kirk doesn't respect his own relationship, so why would he respect Joc & Kendra's? Karlie was disrespectful towards Kendra as well. On various occasions! Karlie was pressed & jealous of Kendra 😂 and Kendra had to reprimand Joc for his behavior one too many times for me! It's like she was raising an overgrown child smh
@Perfectpearl Жыл бұрын
8:20
@kofi444 Жыл бұрын
Karlie is a hater!!, like a real life hater. And Kirk has no class at all .
@MizzFireRed2 жыл бұрын
She's book smart but not street smart, he'll continue to do her wrong and she'll make excuses for him, another Rasheeda..🤷🏽♀
@ashslay32242 жыл бұрын
That part. I noticwd this is a lot of highly educated BW, sadly. 🤦🏾♀️
@friabarbie2 жыл бұрын
@@ashslay3224 opposites attract
@Jasmiyn1232 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't care what anyone says. Getting a side baby is a game changer. I could kinda see taking a man back after cheating but there's nothing that should make a woman want to stay after a side baby or an std is brought. Like I honestly don't see how women could work on their relationship after that
@georgia85922 жыл бұрын
@@Jasmiyn123 The fact he got another girl pregnant whether it was on a break or not shows how reckless he is with his peen
@rosalynjeffery95102 жыл бұрын
@@georgia8592 You think. He has 8 kids that we know of. I like Joc and I pray he do right by her...
@Kateese2 жыл бұрын
The realest person to ever speak to Kendra has to definitely be Jocs best friend at the wedding with the Gucci suit. If a man tells me at my own wedding his friend is for the streets, thats all I gotta hear.✌🏾😅
@keeksm0617 Жыл бұрын
Kountry Wayne is a comedian 🤣🤣
@kentorriasmith8475 Жыл бұрын
@@keeksm0617 and he came out to be right during that “Joke”
@friabarbie2 жыл бұрын
karlie: we’re like family now kendra: i mean thts a stretch 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@DesignzRUs12 жыл бұрын
Karlie is so fake SMH
@brittthecancerqueenempress91372 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@enjoylife2thafullest262 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@LP-ss3fg Жыл бұрын
Safe to say Kendra won’t be becoming a judge anytime soon 😂
@rudinecacique5800 Жыл бұрын
Why wat happened
@keneriifox7796 Жыл бұрын
No, SHE WILL. This is what drives HER.
@crystalvouse6435 Жыл бұрын
It takes time . She's a lawyer. Most lawyers takes time. Just like teachers before they become principals takes time..
@LortsJailsus Жыл бұрын
She’ll be a judge as long as she stays in Atlanta.
@erinstojkov9300 Жыл бұрын
If I was intelligent enough to become an attorney- I definitely wouldn’t be dating someone like Joc and then appearing on a tv show like this
@BaranoWorld02 Жыл бұрын
It's like Sina said, Kendra is a nice person, just not someone Joc deserves.
@Thula_Impala962 жыл бұрын
She a very accomplished criminal and immigration attorney. More than enough men in her field who are intelligently equal to her AND will respect her. Ladies, please open your options or you will settle for dust
@jamesroberts1810 Жыл бұрын
Women love drama period..good guys are boring and routine ish
@stephaniemurria5534 Жыл бұрын
Relistate business
@southsudani983 Жыл бұрын
she’s insecure
@arleneaugustahair8393 Жыл бұрын
@@jamesroberts1810 my husband isn’t boring. I definitely break routine. I’m entertaining enough for both of us. We stay at home and have fun.
@andrinetoussaint7166 Жыл бұрын
She loves the pookie and ray rays
@natashacutiepie60742 жыл бұрын
Y'all took a 'break' & he got another baby. Girl run! 🏃🏾♀️
@katiekade76152 жыл бұрын
And do not look back. Lol
@butterflyblessbless58362 жыл бұрын
The biggest reason not to go back🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
@carmellahoney3599 Жыл бұрын
do not pass go, do not collect $200
@faithtofaith_2 жыл бұрын
He wants a woman that’s going to be “in-charge” of him like a mother, not a wife. Once he feels too tamed, he ventures out. They need to split up.
@monica0120772 жыл бұрын
Yup, Kendra has all the power in that relationship. She makes all the decisions and Joc won't say no to her because he's guilty for the past or present cheating.
@stephaniemurria5534 Жыл бұрын
Who wants to raise a man? Send him home.
@shanikaayanna97672 жыл бұрын
Proposing/accepting a proposal when you’re in the middle of conflict, so much so that you don’t even want to be around the person, is… WILD.
@JewelPray2 жыл бұрын
💯 I was over here like ikyfl.. 😭
@Deltachick91 Жыл бұрын
Very wild
@stephaniemurria5534 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@Americassweetheart32 жыл бұрын
It bothers me that she is basically begging him to take her places. Red flag 🚩 that he don’t want you to come girl
@bohkhuj92472 жыл бұрын
Kendra is definitely a fraud . The way she cried infront of Bambi and Ericka pretending she didn’t know about that girl is ridiculous.
@CVRenee Жыл бұрын
Can't stand her. She talk too much. Always trying to act like she above the rest of Jocs women. She's not. Evidently.
@sashal65932 жыл бұрын
Kendra thought she was Barbara the Builder. Men are not houses, you can't fix a broken man. You can't even build a solid home without a good foundation.
@fee99712 жыл бұрын
How a woman that’s soo accomplished decides to entertain a man with 9kids at that time and multiple baby mommas is beyond me!!!! She married him with his now 10lids so I guess it is what it is but that’s crazy! She don’t have no kids and he has 10🥴wow!
@zoes46452 жыл бұрын
When most of us enter our 30s, especially the late 30s, all common sense goes out the window. We settle for less.
@tracieross99282 жыл бұрын
@Fee I
@tracieross99282 жыл бұрын
@Fee I didn't know he had 10 kids. I thought it was just 4.
@jazzy54102 жыл бұрын
@@tracieross9928 He had 4 baby mothers. He had 2 kids with each woman. Now we got this “break baby”. 💀
@tequeshaharris47942 жыл бұрын
That's what I said.
@syrenxo2 жыл бұрын
I like Kendra, she’s a mature woman, I like her energy, however I can no longer feel bad for the women who settle for this sort of foolishness. Settling for the bare minimum will create the standard that you now live by. No one is perfect but everything is a choice. No excuses for joc’s behavior but that’s what she’s choosing.
@consciousanfesiashapsnikof86882 жыл бұрын
People are only as intelligent as the people they surround themselves with. Look at all the women in her circle, which one of them has a faithful intelligent man. Joc doesn't even practice safe sex. He's reckless with his penis, sexual health, and his soul.
@wellknownonikastan12712 жыл бұрын
🎯
@butterfly-ef8fx2 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY JUST SETTLING FOR THE NEXT NOT BEST THING
@blessedone6122 жыл бұрын
We have ALL DONE some dumb ass shit concerning that Good Good 😜 and knew betterr and didnt do a damn thang STOP THE FAKE SHIT , at the time was like yall just dont understand 😂😂😂
@kymberlipomerants5520 Жыл бұрын
If she is settling, how is THAT mature?
@sharyageorge2 жыл бұрын
Rasheeda needs to come and get her twin sister. She’s out here letting the human equivalency of a Citi Trends do her dirty.
@friabarbie2 жыл бұрын
now sis y u got me chokin 😂
@Lisatheecreator2 жыл бұрын
Girl I- 😂😂😂😂 not Rasheeda’s twin sister.
@cuzimblk57192 жыл бұрын
Wicked💀
@modestinemungo46612 жыл бұрын
👀 😆 🤣 😂
@Aissat552 жыл бұрын
Right 🤣
@diamcole2 жыл бұрын
Watching this hurts my heart smh. How do you ignore that he hasn't made your relationship public and still choose to move forward with buying a home + investing in businesses together? HOW?! Ladies, we really do need to want better for ourselves. This aint it.
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Right…. Sounds like they are more of business partners.
@diamcole2 жыл бұрын
@@livinglife6345 Nah, sounds like he'd been lying from jump and she should have seen his desire for secrecy for what it was.
@talishawinters95992 жыл бұрын
@@diamcole Yeees girl you are absolutely right. He’s been dealing with her for all those years and was a secret. He continued to cheat. He did this whole marriage thing to shut her up. She had me feeling bad once they got married and then the story leaked about joc having a baby but she knew that this whole time smh Kendra set herself up for a lifetime of heartache
@LaDominicana33 Жыл бұрын
I think he wanted to keep her a secret because he was being so publicly messy and didn't want the Joc he is with her to cross over into the dirt he does in the streets. He would not have had to hide her if he just stopped being messy and ridiculous.
@user-bn8ui9wm3u2 жыл бұрын
kendra is too good for joc and i wish she’d realize it. that proposal was a pure manipulation tactic and unfortunately she fell for it.
@marriejames012 жыл бұрын
I think she’s going to get pregnant and he’s going to get tired of her and leave. I think he wants to “humble” her and f up her life by being a single mother.
@JewelPray2 жыл бұрын
@@marriejames01 smhh exactly, I hope that doesn’t happen tho but who knows atp 🥴
@nice1cool2 жыл бұрын
This !!! She said she needed time and he come proposing in front of her family hoping she forget the other shit and ….it worked
@LaDominicana33 Жыл бұрын
Everyone acted like that proposal was so romantic and it made me cringe. She was upset and didn't want to see him. Hell they weren't even really together and she was going through it emotionally only for him to pull the biggest stunt he could think of just to get her back. The moment he got on one knee it's like she forgot all the hurt.
@CVRenee Жыл бұрын
No she's not.
@poppymashamaite5662 жыл бұрын
Kirk is an instigator!! 🤣🤣🤣 the way Joc turned and said "Kirk..." I watched that 5 times. 😭😂
@nicolewilliams1810 Жыл бұрын
😆 🤣 😂
@TheChicMaison6 ай бұрын
He so happy it wasn’t him 😂
@JT1L2 жыл бұрын
Kendra girl....Godspeed.
@Seadeddy2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ayanatetzlaff2 жыл бұрын
💀😭😂
@carmellahoney3599 Жыл бұрын
☠️💀
@HoneytheLibra Жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀💀
@adsjalloh2 жыл бұрын
We needed this because it’s been a whole lotta confusion 😂
@lyrikjordan58972 жыл бұрын
Right🤣🤣🤣
@shanteli59702 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! 🤔😭👏🏾
@meghanwilliams42952 жыл бұрын
😬
@couples_cleanse2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@cmapit32202 жыл бұрын
And STILL is because clearly that was "overlap" from the beginning. Kendra knows what she got, she's not going anywhere.
@emchatman2 жыл бұрын
Kendra has no real reason to stay with him. I think she thinks she can fix him.
@mayazeigler73872 жыл бұрын
Right. It’s embarrassing & he’s not even cute
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@thegoat40892 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!!!
@jamesroberts1810 Жыл бұрын
All mighty dollar
@andrinetoussaint7166 Жыл бұрын
Or for clout...fame etc
@eleyein33622 жыл бұрын
Yes, because the way to solve an argument about infidelity, is to say “Don’t worry about it” and propose…
@tam1729 Жыл бұрын
😂
@sifon5212 жыл бұрын
Kendra's reaction during the proposal was sooo precious, i really want the best for her
@cela98522 жыл бұрын
Joc will never truly change and Kendra knows that. Leave the girl to enjoy her Holy Cheatingmony.
@monicastone39882 жыл бұрын
I love how you said that cheatingmony! Your right Kendra knows he hasn't changed! Just because a man gets married doesn't mean he's changed..I'm not saying all men are like that I just saying that some are just like Joc!
@cela98522 жыл бұрын
@@monicastone3988 yeap. Kendra won't ever leave so long as Joc keeps his shenigans undercover so that she doesn't get publicly embarrassed. That's why she got mad about the baby news getting out. She knows she married a man who has issues with being faithful.
@2jazzy2bt2 жыл бұрын
They might as well have an open marriage but this man wouldn't be able to handle it if she was getting her swerve on she don't have kids and this man has a thousand kids and a new I wouldn't be able do it
@Lisatheecreator2 жыл бұрын
It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.
@Lisatheecreator2 жыл бұрын
It’s the cheatingmony for me! I’m gonna add that to my dictionary. I don’t understand why a woman of Kendra’s caliber would let herself get mixed up with Joc.
@justicecampbell38922 жыл бұрын
Kendra ain't gonna be no judge. After being on this show she can kiss that dream goodbye lmao. Nobody is going to vote her in or appoint her now 😂😂
@youmaydisagreebut8482 жыл бұрын
True that. Now that they can watch the show and see how Stupid and Naive she Truly is.... Who Wants an Attorney like That. .... Where is Kevin Samuels you need him.... oh yea.... 😔RIP KS RIP.... he would've said "your degrees mean nothing! and You chose him" "you knew who he was so why are you complaining now Modern Woman!?"
@brittanyfelder98502 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@ahavayasharahla91102 жыл бұрын
That's not true all these judges that has skeletons in their closet... She might make supreme court judge... 😆
@angeleyes33862 жыл бұрын
That’s what I’m thinking
@reneejones75112 жыл бұрын
Go fix unu life and come out the people them business then quite fine.
@IAmAboriginal-ov1vw2 жыл бұрын
Kendra signed up for everything she has and is about to go through. Don't blame anyone for your own lack or self discipline and true understanding of detachments.
@jefferlytoussaint8532 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jrose19992 жыл бұрын
You can’t blame her for her low self esteem
@MizzFireRed2 жыл бұрын
@@jrose1999 its plenty of men in ATL, who's educated like herself, she thinks she can change him but in the end she'll lose like all the rest of the women who tried.. Speaking from experience!
@ericakane24002 жыл бұрын
@J ROSE yes, u can. She could have stayed single. Went to counseling and work on that. Instead she latched on to community peen
@Givetheflowers2 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@bellax0o6092 жыл бұрын
It's so funny how Kendra wanted to go to Karlie engagement party but Then didn't want Karlie at the wedding.😭🤣
@brokenpofu Жыл бұрын
Cause she wanted to prove Joc was her man at the engagement party versus at the wedding she had since realized Karlie was still a threat and didn't want her at the wedding
@an-nisanichole5410 Жыл бұрын
Kendra DID Want Karlie There Tho , Joc Said He Didnt Want Her There 😅
@katherinepayne3298 Жыл бұрын
Kendra constantly has to pull Joc to the side and talk to him and remind him to respect her?! Whew Chile he ain’t worth your energy 🙅🏾♀️
@cocoati44606 ай бұрын
Accepting a ring after back to back to back infidelity is crazyyyyyyy
@TASconfidential Жыл бұрын
No degrees, education or career can erase the pathology of a person’s upbringing. This poor young lady probably witnessed all of the women in her life deal with men who ain’t shit since she was a child. Black women must not only better themselves in education and business, but MUST undo the bad relationship pathologies from their mothers, sisters, grandmothers, aunts and cousins, as the mindset had to be changed.
@BeautyLoves88Ай бұрын
💔💔💔
@TheFeliciac2 жыл бұрын
Kendra wanted fame so desperately that she allowed herself to be dogged out in front of the world. So, she knew what she was getting.
@sweetjanejonez2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@andrinetoussaint7166 Жыл бұрын
Thisssss
@oneforall90462 жыл бұрын
The fact that Kirk could be so messy about someone else's relationship is laughable
@JoanRudith2 жыл бұрын
Joc is the perfect example of believing the mess in your life is caused by what woman you have in your life. And not vice versa. Cuz even with Kendra he’s being the same Joc. Until he starts being accountable for his actions and changes himself, it won’t matter who is in his life.
@nimatnazirah2 жыл бұрын
The drink being poured from the can on the “twerk.” Is the most triflin scene lol
@ahavayasharahla91102 жыл бұрын
That's the BIGGEST RED FLAG for Kendra. Kendra should've kept it moving then
@Iamcherese Жыл бұрын
The way the girl walked off when Kendra came over to get Joc had me hollering 😂
@motherhoodisamother8874 Жыл бұрын
@@Iamcherese no I think she pushed her 😭😂🤣
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Kendra had so many red flags before they got married. He showed her who he was over and over again. She will break her own heart by ignoring the red flags. She might be one of those women who stay with the man to prove a point while he is out making her look foolish.
@mvkvi2132 жыл бұрын
soooo many red flags were displayed!
@BriyannaPierce2 жыл бұрын
So what happened to the tattoo? Somebody still got pregnant😂
@aleahboone43232 жыл бұрын
LMFAO 😅😅😅😅😅😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm Weak 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ddanks282 жыл бұрын
Same thing I’m thinking 🤣🤣🤣
@erehistruth23562 жыл бұрын
Hot damn mess smh
@ddbangtannim227011 ай бұрын
Kendra is so beautiful and an intelligent, passionate, big-hearted boss woman! She deserves a man that is going to cherish her and treat her with respect and integrity, not just for her, but for himself!
@freshangel12 жыл бұрын
The deflecting from that argument about him pouring water on another woman’s bum to her not wanting a baby is crazy deflection !!!!
@nice1cool2 жыл бұрын
Facts !!!!
@nursedee67912 жыл бұрын
She was so blindsided by it that she didn’t even know how to respond. That look on her face told everything. Toxic people are good for that.
@ashslay32242 жыл бұрын
BW if you had a lot of BDs/kids like Joc NO BM would marry you (hell they barely marry u with none). Step your self-esteem UP. This a big L.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth2 жыл бұрын
How you turn this to a way to make this about bw?? Yall dusties....😂😂😂😂
@nomimua98422 жыл бұрын
HELLO!
@xAshleyIsBeautyx2 жыл бұрын
You aint said not one lie
@javalynbanner51852 жыл бұрын
Joc need a t shirt that says " We need ta talk" bc I swear 🤣🤣🤣
@ybeckom2 жыл бұрын
Or, oops I did it again!😂
@javalynbanner5185 Жыл бұрын
@@ybeckom lol right cause she stay pulling him to the side 🤣
@StylesbyNina Жыл бұрын
Joc leave Kendra alone before she becomes a bitter judge. Leave her alone.
@ebby5282 жыл бұрын
Kendra kendra kendra. She knew his patterns and, unfortunately She BECAME a part of his patterns 🤦🏽♀️
@austriadecosta44942 жыл бұрын
Karlie is so disrespectful to joc and Kendra's relationship especially when they went at the cabin, just because her and mo wasn't at one she choose to make everyone relationship a mess.
@rhiannajd44122 жыл бұрын
This woman, as intelligent as she seems, is a fool for staying with this man.
@youmaydisagreebut8482 жыл бұрын
Shes paying $$$ for his kids while she's childless ..... Joc loves and will always Want Karlie but kendra is the perfect s*x doll/ ATM
@Autonomous111 Жыл бұрын
Imagine having no kids, a career and being a stepmother to 9 children!!!! If roles were reversed, joc wouldn't look her way.
@TiaReshade2 жыл бұрын
Kendra: The rumors about the "break baby" aren't rumors. Me: 🤡
@chosenbyGod..2 жыл бұрын
Lmafo 🤣
@kingscherry72 жыл бұрын
Listennnnnnn I was like bish whaaaa😆😆😆😆😆😆
@jadebotan832 жыл бұрын
My thing is how was she okay with him cheating on her and she was out doing her as well yet she mad about the baby?? Make it make sense!!
@ms.p6828 Жыл бұрын
Damn they just got married not to long ago. Please tell me how y’all already need a break tho😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😂😂😂. Ain’t no breaks, ain’t no separation. We staying together or divorcing- I don’t do the in between stuff.
@shardaemitchell3053 Жыл бұрын
Do ya'll believe in breaks in relationships? 😂 for me, I'm genuinely asking it's either ya'll together or ya'll ain't 😂
@dahtcrazychiik Жыл бұрын
What does Joc provide as a partner? Take money out of it he has multiple children with different woman, emotionally immature and cannot be faithful. Ladies, let’s take people at face value instead of the potential you think they might be one day.
@LaDominicana33 Жыл бұрын
That last sentence is KEY! When people show you who they are believe them!
@dahtcrazychiik Жыл бұрын
@@LaDominicana33 always!
@calvthomas6153 Жыл бұрын
I notice with Joc... whenever he has an opportunity to publicly deny something he claims he didn't do, he just laughs it off, and finesses his way out of the situation, behind closed doors. Doing that not only makes him look guilty, but it offers no protection, or security for the woman he claims he loves.
@sherare2 жыл бұрын
I love drunk joc💀..this was the funniest part of the season 🤣🤣😂😂🙌
@aarondyes2242 жыл бұрын
Mane said “see you can’t even get out, God dont want you to leave” 😂😂😂
@kweenbrook Жыл бұрын
that was so funny. and he was genuinely drunk, speech slurred and everything. 😂😂
@nredvine2 жыл бұрын
Soooo, long story short...he's been playing in her face from day one. Roger that.
@5thHouseProductions2 жыл бұрын
Right!!! Thanks Vh1 for clarifying it for us! 😉
@enjoylife2thafullest2622 жыл бұрын
10-4 lol
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Rasheed must have been her voice of reason when it came to her making decisions. This is just sad at this point. He was still being reckless by having unprotected sex and has another baby during him and Kendra’s supposedly “break.”
@pheonyxjohnson59662 жыл бұрын
TRUE. I wouldn’t have been able to marry him. Because having unprotected sex means either you weren’t planning on us getting back together or you just don’t give damn about me.
@LaDominicana33 Жыл бұрын
And that's just the unprotected sex she found out about and only because a baby came from that situation. Who knows where else he put that thing with no condom on.
@quemc6000 Жыл бұрын
So he did have another baby with another girl in the new episodes it keep coming up. But it's the girl meda meina idk how to spell her name she got the baby
@ninaangelique48112 жыл бұрын
The title needs to be more accurate...their timeline that we know of! LoL 🤦🏾♀️🤭🤷🏾♀️
@jadabussey22782 жыл бұрын
Yessss rewind it back 😂😂👏🏽
@loyalcapricorn17722 жыл бұрын
Wait what you mean 😳👀 was Kendra messing around with joc while he was with karlie or sumn?
@ninaangelique48112 жыл бұрын
@@loyalcapricorn1772 There's an interview of her saying they took breaks, so only they really know the timeline; definitely not VH1...LoL
@thatbeaatcch98842 жыл бұрын
@@ninaangelique4811 but I feel like she just said that like Rasheeda did when Kurt had a baby on her
@loyalcapricorn17722 жыл бұрын
@@ninaangelique4811 oh ok lol I thought I missed some good tea from the blogs 😝
@bohemians0ul180 Жыл бұрын
I feel like Kendra wanted to be in a marriage where she could be the one in control. So she chose Joc as a fixer up project. But little did she know, when you see smoke, there's fire. But I think some of us need to be burned in order to understand that.
@cosmicneuromelanatedgoddess Жыл бұрын
Yes that part
@virgochild4216 Жыл бұрын
That's what it seems like to me.
@candidlycamille6 ай бұрын
👏🏽
@empresscolleenwilliams10922 жыл бұрын
This headline needs to be "we need to talk" she always have to pull him to the side to address him with something someone said, yet she still went and married him. I wish them both good luck.
@terryo35122 жыл бұрын
"I'm Definitely A Changed Man"😂😂 I thought Joc had changed too because he got Kendra's name tattooed on his D😂. I know that shit hurt....
@2jazzy2bt2 жыл бұрын
Kendra face when Joc poured that water down poohs Crack. Omg. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Right. So disrespectful.
@jasminegreene81592 жыл бұрын
Embarrassing 😭😭😭
@ahavayasharahla91102 жыл бұрын
More of the reasons why she should've just have fun with him and kept it moving because that was the red flag right there
@2jazzy2bt2 жыл бұрын
@@ahavayasharahla9110 exactly
@true37042 жыл бұрын
Not attractive, baggage, bunch of kids and a cheater. What do she see in him🤔 Even if he was attractive he still shouldn't get a pass. Joc got too much going on.
@jefferlytoussaint8532 жыл бұрын
Wait. So Kendra is mad at Joc for…. Being himself? Ohtay.
@adsjalloh2 жыл бұрын
Kendra is too gorgeous and too good of a woman for this man 😩
@2jazzy2bt2 жыл бұрын
I would love to see her with a doctor or a successful black man that's not in the industry
@jasminegreene81592 жыл бұрын
Well, she chose Joc. Despite her being an accomplished attorney with access to many successful top tier men smh. I don’t feel bad for her.
@tam1729 Жыл бұрын
Physically but is she mentally?
@AmakaN.2 жыл бұрын
A man with 9 kids n several babies mothers is an automatic red flag for me. I couldn’t n being as accomplished as Kendra... Nah!!!
@miabarnett25872 жыл бұрын
*13 kids
@AmakaN.2 жыл бұрын
@@miabarnett2587 damn!
@kishalashawn55422 жыл бұрын
Naw that’s a stop sign!
@trinidadianbeauty12 жыл бұрын
Wait he really got that many kids
@neicynunnery Жыл бұрын
Wow didn't know how many he had...what a fool. Never would I either. That's too many. How old is his youngest???
@JewelPray2 жыл бұрын
Ugh I hate that she made herself look so goofy by messing with this man and trying to take him serious - all those babymamas would’ve been a dealbreaker for me smh 😭😭
@stephaniemurria5534 Жыл бұрын
😭😂🤣😅 "take serious "
@nnekalyons2382 жыл бұрын
Joc loves Kendra but he's just not ready to settle
@nonhlanhlangobeni78612 жыл бұрын
Joc saying that he has been into many fail relationship as if it was someone’s problem not his
@nonhlanhlangobeni78612 жыл бұрын
Lol she still deserves better
@IndiaDior613 Жыл бұрын
Kendra think she different because she calls him by his first name 😂😂😂 what a shame
@LaDominicana33 Жыл бұрын
Remember how we all thought Kendra had such class and in typical LHH fashion she's out here trying to fight her man's "entanglements" on national tv?
@jermainelatimer8042 жыл бұрын
Ladies, as a man. We're only going to do to you what you allow US to do until you check us about it. Joc have been the same since day 1 being on the show. She wants the entitlement so badly just so she can say I'm a WIFE.
@mariannevasquez41342 жыл бұрын
So true
@thatbeaatcch98842 жыл бұрын
Thank you, as a gay woman, I’ve been telling my straight friends this for years!
@oyabunnn2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@jermainelatimer8042 жыл бұрын
@@thatbeaatcch9884 it's so true. You only do what has you allowed to be done until you stop it
@chysel48602 жыл бұрын
How about yall do what you're supposed to do and stop trying to get over on women.
@KanikaM2 жыл бұрын
She may be a real woman be he is far from a real man ! She needs a real man to match her and her lifestyle he is not it, but that’s something she’ll have to figure out herself… You live and you learn, don’t down talk her.
@kishalashawn55422 жыл бұрын
Telling the truth is talking down?
@mikashae86512 жыл бұрын
Jock does not deserve Kendra, but I will say this, if you choose to be with someone, be with them. Don’t listen to everybody that has an opinion about your significant other. Kendra knew who Joc was when she got with him. She need to stop listening to women who would be with Joc in a heartbeat.
@monica0120772 жыл бұрын
I'm going to pray for Kendra because she's going to need it! 🙏🏽
@ms.p6828 Жыл бұрын
😂☠️❤️☠️☠️☠️😂😂😂😂😂😂
@kemzi_a2 жыл бұрын
Those emojis on that title are right ….the relationship really went from 😍 to 😳
@ishasoula2797 Жыл бұрын
Joc trying to argue when he's drunk killed me🤣🤣💀💀💀💀
@vasharisimmons84652 жыл бұрын
I hate that they literally pay ppl to ruin their lives
@TheFayeJames2 жыл бұрын
I think she's with him and on this show to boost her name and lawyer status. She's stated that she doesn't want kids with him. What else could it be about him that would make a woman like her accept looking like a fool? 🤷🏽♀️
@jadebotan832 жыл бұрын
Facts. You never lied.
@AJ-tb9cr2 жыл бұрын
Acting like a fool. Doesn't make her look good as an attorney
@lavishbyvicky8146 Жыл бұрын
@@AJ-tb9cr exactly
@Forsaken8602 жыл бұрын
I laugh so hard at JOc face every single time Kendra snatch him up in Trinidad😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@belindaclark333 Жыл бұрын
Everytime joc get caught he always looking like wat just happened 🤣🤣🤣
@rogeandyer1577 Жыл бұрын
Kendra is a true Black Queen!! We all have some kind of flaw everyone is not perfect. And I know for a fact a lot of people are looking and wanting love.
@ms.p6828 Жыл бұрын
All that you stated is in fact true. I love Kendra but she should have kept wanting and should have kept looking because he definitely wasn’t good for her heart and definitely not great for her career. She worked to hard for that career to be letting him taint it.
@sarahdaniel51856 ай бұрын
Let’s take a shot every time Kendra says “Jocile” 😂
@Strawberryfreeze30002 жыл бұрын
I’m convinced Kendra just wants fame and TV time … what other reasons she really want with Joc ???
@andrinetoussaint7166 Жыл бұрын
💯
@mommymel732 жыл бұрын
I like kendra but she made a big mistake marrying him . He has a lot of baggage and is never gonna stop cheating . I feel bad for her cus I’m sure she really feels that he’s gonna change but he’s not .
@nnekalyons2382 жыл бұрын
I seriously don't like Rasheeda
@gracefullybrkn95122 жыл бұрын
Right
@s.c.h65122 жыл бұрын
I'm watching the old episodes and realized that she painted herself as a victim the whole time. Now she's trying to give relationship advice smh.
@icysisdee95472 жыл бұрын
Nah, if I see my man pouring water on some woman like that and I SAW IT imma punch him. Cuz nah the blatant disrespect.
@livinglife63452 жыл бұрын
Right.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth2 жыл бұрын
It woulda been over.
@icysisdee95472 жыл бұрын
If she have did to him, yall know for a fact he'd call her all kinds of bs and hoes. Then leave her.
@freshangel12 жыл бұрын
This relationship is tragic ! It reminds me of my old self. When I was an Attorney in training I met a real ROADMAN … of course I didn’t know this I was just out having fun and met him he was charming, kind and fascinated that I had it all together and wasn’t like girls in his “world”. The thing is even though you know right from wrong you end up falling for the person (yikes!) I did just that my life spiraled and I’d go to work tired from partying 5-6 nights a week. I wasn’t my usual self. I even found out he does drugs and wasn’t mad, yet I was the type that would NEVER. I however drew the line at marriage - somehow I knew in my heart of hearts that I should never make such a huge commitment so easily / hastily. I knew who I was dealing with and wasn’t gonna do it forever. So I quietly disconnected my heart and left him and booooy am I doing a 1000 times better I’m an attorney now which he didn’t get to experience with a great job and credit and I hear he’s still for the streets with a baby on the way ! PS one time he suspected I was pregnant he made me take contraception and watched me to make sure I took it! It wasn’t even about me because I had a lot of good going on for me but he was afraid to be a dad and still for the streets. Need I mention most of his fellow drug using friends have children with autism (yeah their using is that bad). We black woke women Don’t need to ever bounce back like Ciara ! We can choose to do better from the start but maybe we need the experience to fully appreciate what’s good. Also the entire relationship I was the money maker and spender even though he could afford it he was just bummy about everything
@neicynunnery Жыл бұрын
Good for u sis . I bet he tried to trash talk u to his crew like u the awful one.
@freshangel1 Жыл бұрын
@@neicynunnery yeah I bet he did - but results show for themselves lol he’s in a worse state than we met
@madeleine9925 Жыл бұрын
So sorry you went through this, but at least you know your worth now!
@freshangel1 Жыл бұрын
@@madeleine9925 thank you 🙏🏾
@Newzladee2 жыл бұрын
She deserves so much better...
@kishalashawn55422 жыл бұрын
She deserves what she demands.
@emerald_skai205 Жыл бұрын
She deserves what she puts up with
@sspencer897 Жыл бұрын
Exactly... you knew what you had from the jump but want to ask brand NEW about Meda.. she knew..