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@Ricky__353 ай бұрын
I'm so glad Tracy stepped in & corrected them about his 14 year old daughter.
@dreamchasahh3 ай бұрын
She waited too long for me I was ready to jump in my tv 😂
@Ricky__353 ай бұрын
@@dreamchasahh 😂😂
@scherriebanks62383 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!! I kept saying how is a 14 year old responsible for the marriage.
@stephaniemelendez57333 ай бұрын
💯
@noeloriave90802 ай бұрын
I wish Tiffany had apologized to Maya also.
@luesgrandbaby3 ай бұрын
At 14 this child has learned how to protect her peace. May she always.
@tobemeis2bfree3 ай бұрын
Amen
@lorrainea.2853 ай бұрын
🙌🏻🙌🏻 AND IN THAT ORDER!!!
@ashleeallen87173 ай бұрын
I’m teaching mine too, especially due to daddy issues
@janadoolittle14483 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking up for the daughter, Tracy. It’s not a child’s responsibility to fix the relationship. It’s the parent’s responsibility. Therapy is needed. Consistent therapy.
@DB-gu6tf3 ай бұрын
Berating that girl for not calling and blaming her for affecting their marriage was wrong. I’m glad she checked the parents. They seemed to understand.
@fjones58903 ай бұрын
The wife’s energy in the kitchen toward her stepdaughter was toxic. That child sat there and cried while her Aunt and Uncle did nothing. She’s not protected in that family and that’s sad.
@bessence9563 ай бұрын
She Lowkey don't like tht girl..she's controlling I wouldn't call them either... energy never lies
@alexiscddaniels97843 ай бұрын
On a NATIONAL SHOW so imagine what's said and done in private
@TheBaba19203 ай бұрын
Yes and I’d want to stay home too.
@ms.ajones71683 ай бұрын
Right! And I had no idea she was only 14 let alone 9 yesrs old when they lost the baby, why would he think a lil girl has the mentally to call an check on dad😔🤦🏾♀️ but it appears that they both had some realizations and willing to change 🤞🏾
@namjam7262 ай бұрын
It broke my heart when the Dad comforted his wife when she was crying but he didn’t take the same action when he saw his daughter crying moments earlier💔 The Dad lacks emotional maturity (& possibly the aunt and uncle if they didn’t comfort their niece either) in my opinion. Thank God for Tracey reminding the couple that his daughter is a child 🙏
@erikabush92223 ай бұрын
Once again Tracy is the real MVP of this episode
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
This one was a good one
@UGIPerry3 ай бұрын
Stop on therapy on going 100 spot on! My bro went thru this same thing with a baby dieing but no therapy and they both turned on each other blame! Therapy needs to be apart of death- divorce - any major life changing moment ( offer 4 sessions)!
@umadox413 ай бұрын
At 14, SHE IS A CHILD! It is beyond unfair of both of them to put their relationship failings on a CHILD! If she doesn't call you, you're the PARENT DAD, it's your responsibility to chase and fight to be in your CHILD'S life.
@jacquelinescuisine72653 ай бұрын
As you can see everyone else are adults. So they’ve decided to go to the weakest link “a child “. They’re just plain old narcissist. It’s all about them. Shame on them.
@privatelifejust_4me3 ай бұрын
How both of them crying and he hug the wife. Yet blame his daughter! Horrible and wife needs all the attention
@jenniferbanks29382 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I was pissed hearing that.
@Kendallslovejoy3 ай бұрын
Wait a damn minute. Did she just place blame on his daughter for their marital issues? She has lost her ever loving mind.
@HireAhkesha3 ай бұрын
This poor man looks like he’s barely hanging on 🥺😢 I pray his wife FINALLY allows him to grieve and stop trying to correct and belittle him.
@angeliqueanderson14843 ай бұрын
I agree. How could she not know that he was depressed? He lost 2 important people in his life within weeks of each other. I could tell from the ride in the car that he was in anguish. I hate that people don’t understand that men have feelings as well and can take loss of loved ones just as hard as women. We as wives need to be there emotionally for our husbands. They deserve and need that.
@TheBaba19203 ай бұрын
She sees in him her grief. I hope she’s learned that berating will never fix depression
@melissajohnson8173 ай бұрын
Exactly!!🎯
@plencilaakua47523 ай бұрын
@@angeliqueanderson1484 Thank uuuuu so trueee
@stephaniemelendez57333 ай бұрын
💯
@dvine71543 ай бұрын
The wife is so SELFISH! It’s all about her 🤦🏾♀️ I can’t believe she made his daughter feel responsible for his pain! They both need intensive therapy.
@hevel43833 ай бұрын
I think the wife does not understand that her husband is suffering from depression and grief. She believes he needs to snap out of it. But once she was told what he is dealing, it appeared she understood.
@LawFirmMentor3 ай бұрын
@@hevel4383I agree. People in these comments have immense empathy for him, but basically none for the wife. She may be less knowledgeable about depression, but she also has the full emotional weight of the miscarriage, caregiving for two children under age 2, a service profession with clients to serve, a strained father-stepdaughter relationship, custody litigation regarding that child, and an emotionally unavailable spouse. Both of these people deserve empathy and support.
@hevel43833 ай бұрын
@@LawFirmMentor Yes, I agree some does not have as much empathy for her as they did for him. They both are grieving, but it shows up differently. Despite, the day to day task they both are faced with, they both see that each need their own counseling to address their own issues and then they both can show up as the best version of themselves.
@aleanathe3 ай бұрын
We don't know what she goes through....
@betheone82923 ай бұрын
Okay, I thought it was just me thinking the same thing.
@dixon49193 ай бұрын
I love the immediate correction about blaming a child, keep kicking the man’s back in when he is having an anxiety attack.
@ThegyrlfromGa3 ай бұрын
His Symptoms sound similar to panic and anxiety that manifests itself physically.
@HoneySuckle1233 ай бұрын
You nailed it 👍🏽
@RahYisrael993 ай бұрын
I agree. That and the fact that he's weak. He blames his child for his conscious decision to not be a parent.
@MrsSkittles9163 ай бұрын
@@RahYisrael99what show are you watching? He never blamed his daughter. It was his wife who blames the daughter for the problems in their marriage and he blames the wife for the daughter not wanting to come around.
@FeliciaStands3 ай бұрын
Agree you can see he doesn’t feel well not sure if it’s cause he don’t want to loose her and it manifest in physical pain or he’s having an anxiety attack 😢
@unicoh9723 ай бұрын
And ptsd
@hamdhbash3693 ай бұрын
she has no compassion or kindness from her side.. ANYONE can look at this man and SEE his soul in massive pain. BE LOVING & Patience PLEASE.
@lovingmefirst63 ай бұрын
Exactly
@clairedee-ay3523 ай бұрын
Few mins in.....i feel like he doesn't feel 'safe' enough to breathe/exhale with her.
@salome91243 ай бұрын
Neither do, but it because they experienced trauma together.
@gabriellesmith-perry34653 ай бұрын
💯 The trauma has caused him severe depression.
@lepetitecherie3 ай бұрын
I'm disgusted how they're treating his 14 YEAR OLD daughter!
@shaybutter34033 ай бұрын
I'm so mad!
@tiffanybarlow78163 ай бұрын
Glad someone said it he hugged his wife after seeing his daughter cry never comforted her
@mygleetusb96513 ай бұрын
Unfortunately HE ALLOWS IT
@jacquiemylove802 ай бұрын
Girl!!!!!
@_cocosunny3 ай бұрын
Tracy is always so spot on. I love how she holds the couples accountable for their BS. The energy feels off on this one from the time they were in the car. The constant berating and correction would drive anyone insane.
@MindsetOfMarge3 ай бұрын
“And the Word is depression “ 💯
@TheBaba19203 ай бұрын
I lost it when she said that.
@4real1973 ай бұрын
He is grieving late. He needs counselling for his ANXIETY &DEPRESSION, PTSD!
@AskAmandaCain3 ай бұрын
This is a powerful episode. I wish all married couples saw this. Honestly, working with married couples like this, should be a whole other show!
@jmo8763 ай бұрын
I agree! I wish there were more shows that really breakdown problems and trauma married/engaged couples go and grow through.
@TheMwendaa3 ай бұрын
Yeeeesss!
@ericgoldberg10793 ай бұрын
Tracy be SPOT ON…, she told the wife “Hey STOP THAT! That wife beats the husband DOWN sheesh 😮 she’s so controlling and won’t let him talk…she’d drive any man to stay away from her and retreat to the garage 😮
@erikabush92223 ай бұрын
The wife is the biggest issue in the relationship.. She has no empathy at all No compassion for him at all . He's a broken man
@yemedemure4143 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹😩😩
@FeliciaStands3 ай бұрын
This is true his brokenness is manifesting physically 😢
@MsMenifee2u3 ай бұрын
AGREED !!!
@MrsVanB3 ай бұрын
@@FeliciaStandsSo true! 😢
@CrankyCrunchyVirgo3 ай бұрын
I thought the same thing. For most of the episode, she was not my favorite person. At. All. But as the show progressed, they showed insight on her thoughts and emotions. Even though she was 100% wrong on multiple things, I now feel for her.
@psalmxv41883 ай бұрын
I love the fact that the family is rooting for them. This was an awesome show and an example of what black families need to deal with their trauma.
@ThegyrlfromGa3 ай бұрын
Don’t put the responsibility Of the parent child relationship on the CHILD!!
@JusTee223 ай бұрын
My dad always reminds me he is the parent and it his responsibility to have great relationship between he and I. This hurt my feelings for her especially the bond he has with the wife’s daughters
@juskimmie3 ай бұрын
Two adults blaming a child for their marriage falling apart is insane. He failed that baby as a father, not one time did he take accountability for not being there for her but praised the wife's kids smh. They need counseling, period!
@brittanywyche75673 ай бұрын
Thts part !
@JustmymomandWE3 ай бұрын
That junk pissed me OFF! And that’s exactly why she don’t come around. Why the hell would she care about people who don’t give a damn about her.
@colourm3fab2 ай бұрын
Like why was he just meeting his child when she was 9 and then immediately placed blame on her for being uncomfortable or not reaching out. It seems like the daughter doesn’t even really know him and again, he put that blame on her
@Marcie_does_it3 ай бұрын
15 minutes in and I don’t like how they put all that pressure on the 14 year old. I hope they clean it up… Let me keep watching.
@investingwithkat3 ай бұрын
Its too much pressure for a 14 year old. Thats not a childs responsibility
@BetterBodyCrew3 ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@JacksQueen.3 ай бұрын
Right!! I’m p!ssed!! 😡
@esmenembungu19803 ай бұрын
I don't like it
@uppitynegrogoddess20423 ай бұрын
Exactly what i came to say
@gcchair76343 ай бұрын
The wife saying he is having mental breakdown, is counterproductive and she gets to blame him for everything. She seems to relate to him as though he’s her child.
@UGIPerry3 ай бұрын
It did appear to be a mother child relationship but her mom did the same so the wife only mimic was was shown to her! Cute couple!
@ms.robinxoxo27103 ай бұрын
First off why no one stood up for the daughter. Seems like he’s been absent and her momma wasn’t having the popping in and out !
@ToshaJackson3 ай бұрын
Gastritis has you this way too, too much stress causes stomach pains, burping nausea and tiredness.😢
@montoyawalker-s8g2 ай бұрын
Sure does. I experienced this in the past.
@mariasöderlund-l1nАй бұрын
So does drugs when it leaves your body...
@TheJocha313 ай бұрын
When he said losing his mother"poked the stability he was standing on", touched my soul. I just lost my father and this 100% how i feel..
@_belloty13943 ай бұрын
That’s sad and scary , sorry for your loss .
@RahYisrael993 ай бұрын
The hiccups startled me. I thought he was going to have a panic attack. She told Husband to get up and pull his pants all the way up. Sounds like me talking to my teen son. She's the breadwinner. She said if she makes one mistake at work they are right back in the ghetto. She's carrying the entire marriage. She acts like his mom because she is. I give them no pass on how they treat his daughter though. He abandoned her for nine years then expects her to manage his emotions. A child.
@kamariasia3 ай бұрын
Summarized perfectly.
@princeken97193 ай бұрын
He has anxiety…
@gatomonsenpai3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry?? How tf you find out your husband is struggling with depression and you make that isht about YOU?
@jenniferwilliams64943 ай бұрын
This is the comment I was looking for!!!!!! The doctor should have sent her away to take her moment and let Josh continue to explore his feelings. The wife made that moment about herself as he was starting to express himself.
@mauricethomas6543 ай бұрын
I thought I was tripping. The minute he finally starts to open up and let go, now you act like u are having anxiety and a revelation. She is selfish and want the attention all on her.
@Amiakatee3 ай бұрын
Josh is grieving.. It’s so sad and he need therapy. The wife is out of line with the daughter, no compassion. They are putting too much on a child
@haitiandoll32183 ай бұрын
This lady is super controlling and can’t even see it. She’s telling him what to do every step of the way
@sunshine14503 ай бұрын
She is so in tune with her profession. I ❤ how she calls out bad behavior like Iyanla but in a more passive manner. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@antonechias67853 ай бұрын
In a more progressive manner! Love that!
@BrownSugarNCurls3 ай бұрын
Traci is an assertive communicator for sure.
@ob2be13 ай бұрын
It’s called empathic confrontation, it’s a unique skill of helping the client to see their problematic behavior or beliefs without putting them on the defensive and encouraging the client’s resistance. Seems passive but it a skill.
@investingwithkat3 ай бұрын
Man when he started to cry, I balled- 😢
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
Man an can't stop crying 😭
@yemedemure4143 ай бұрын
🥹🥹
@torrifavors8963 ай бұрын
Losing your mother changes you!
@TheeMichellesMind3 ай бұрын
It definitely does. And when that happens you need supportive people around you that will be there for you when you’re grieving. Not people that tell you to man up, you’re not acting the same, you still crying etc. I don’t get why people don’t understand this. Also, the circumstances in which a loved one dies makes a difference. My Grandmother died in 2022. She was 88 years old. I think of and miss her everyday, but I was at peace because she was 88, she deserved her rest. My mom died in 2023 from stage four uterine cancer. I watched her die a little every day. The last few days of her life were very traumatic. So I’m not grieving the same. It’s very very hard to go on each day. My anxiety and depression are through the roof. I have to make a decision to lean on God everyday just to keep on keeping on.
@ChelseaChronicles3 ай бұрын
It does
@RahYisrael993 ай бұрын
I feel bad for him. He definitely needs therapy. But he never raised his daughter and blamed the daughter for not reaching out to him. She's a child, and he was a stranger to her. So, he has always had issues.
@Talk2FlowNow3 ай бұрын
@@TheeMichellesMindThe same thing happened with my mom and it’s been ten years and still seems like fresh pain. 😢
@MoPerspective3 ай бұрын
Facts! I have never been the same since I lost mine 4 years ago 💯💯💯
@AshleyKinshasaHarris3 ай бұрын
His daughter crying and him hugging his WIFE instead of HIS DAUGHTER is DISGRACEFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Like Sir she NEEDS YOU. Shes a 14 yr old CHILD!!!!! A BABY!!!!!!
@lexx41482 ай бұрын
You could see it in her face as well
@karmenlewis237Ай бұрын
VERY DISGUSTING‼️‼️‼️
@TotallyTammyXOXO3 ай бұрын
At the table, He hugged his wife but not his daughter 🥴
@naturallymoi81713 ай бұрын
This ‼️
@TheBaba19203 ай бұрын
It’s based on who has more value to him. Unfortunately, for some fathers, children have no value.
@Honey-pv1zg3 ай бұрын
And he wonders why she doesn’t call…..
@zewdyhalefom36903 ай бұрын
o ya u see that too i feel it😢
@toopretty4183Ай бұрын
Terrible!
@Justlikethat5553 ай бұрын
He seems to be having an anxiety attack right before our eyes. The signs are there. Poor thing.
@CrankyCrunchyVirgo3 ай бұрын
I saw the same thing! I really hope he gets individual therapy, grief support and even medication.
@LadyCee5023 ай бұрын
Not okay for a wife /stepmom to apply pressure to a child that way ! Huge problem
@wanb23 ай бұрын
Are they blaming a 14-year-old for not reaching out? A dad saying you didn't call me on my birthday. What... It is your job to reach out...
@RavenChoates3 ай бұрын
Facts
@j.t.63603 ай бұрын
Love, love, love this episode. By far the best one. Keeping marriages together is a beautiful blessing 🙌🏿
@mickeyallen923 ай бұрын
I couldn’t be married to her. Its not safe to be emotional. Its not safe to be vulnerable and she’s extremely controlling. Run bro! And keep loving your kids
@RahYisrael993 ай бұрын
Does he love his kids though?
@B.Latriece3 ай бұрын
She just like her mom smh sad
@colourm3fab2 ай бұрын
@@RahYisrael99not Maya. What he gives her isn’t love. He’s literally showing his child what not to accept
@1happygirl-t5b3 ай бұрын
I commend this entire family for their strength and vulnerability in not giving up... my prayers are with you all
@TeniqueSpeaks3 ай бұрын
The wife’s lack of compassion plays a huge role in this dynamic. She’s blaming everyone else. But is not understanding how everyone else feels.
@kennethsimon69303 ай бұрын
Not a fan of the wife at all. First with the guy basically dying on the couch and she’s acting like he’s a creep for not doing well. Then with blaming his child for their relationship issues. Pathetic behavior. That child will never feel protected by her.
@ariellemayaali3 ай бұрын
I don’t like how the bride kept on mentioning that the daughter not contacting her father is “messing up the marriage”. I understand the show is about the husband and wife, but I don’t think that’s helping her not feel neglected
@GlamoftheGlam3 ай бұрын
I completely agree! Then they couldn’t understand why she didn’t feel loved or wanting. They kept blaming the child.
@ariellemayaali3 ай бұрын
@@GlamoftheGlam exactly! And that is huge, especially for someone so young
@kenialee90243 ай бұрын
I definitely agree
@valerieosei53123 ай бұрын
Agreed! They’re putting too much responsibility on the child for their marriage issues! It’s not her responsibility to heal their marriage. If she’s not calling her dad, the dad needs to reflect on why the dynamic has ended up that way. HE is the parent, HE sets the tone for their relationship as father and daughter!
@cculc1753 ай бұрын
I’m so glad Tracey checked them on that
@TerriaunnaEverett3 ай бұрын
Tiffany owed that baby an apology period
@tai4short3 ай бұрын
Right cuz wtf ???
@childofgodtv39033 ай бұрын
I'm lost...in the beginning his stomach hurts she said he always tryna bring her down...😮 but let me keep watching
@Dabiggesttoevadoit3 ай бұрын
Man I’m lost too like damn his stomach can’t hurt? 😭😭😭😭
@lanettemcdaniels95433 ай бұрын
OMG i came to the comments for this. I was so lost. I’m like did they take something out? But let me finish watching 😅😂
@novelpettis44443 ай бұрын
Right
@GlamoftheGlam3 ай бұрын
With anxiety and depression it can be physically symptoms along with it. Like headaches, stomach pains, the jitters, etc.
@starrjohnson13273 ай бұрын
I think he's on something.
@shatimar90693 ай бұрын
Controlling is how she comes off to me at times. This one was deep, i loved it as always and Love the switch in the format. Congratulations yall
@arianawilliams86383 ай бұрын
The wife should have apologized to his daughter & reassured her that the demise of their marriage is not her fault& make her feel loved & aslo welcomed.
@mkxv3 ай бұрын
Sheeeeshhhhh that trauma therapist was good!
@CrankyCrunchyVirgo3 ай бұрын
She was dropping gems for real!
@Luxemaven86863 ай бұрын
We need more episodes of saving couples on the brink of divorce.
@WhenSpiritSpeaks3 ай бұрын
I don't care for placing the blame of a strained father daughter relationship on the child. She's 14! Stay in a place of love and understanding for her...she's is and was a child throughout the whole process. But I'm glad they are in a place of learning and growing. ❤
@ggjur3 ай бұрын
How is it the daughter’s responsibility for the father to have a relationship with him? And then to say it affects your marriage? What?!
@lovebrittt3 ай бұрын
Right?! Like how???! Expecting a 9 year old to reach out and comfort you is insane.
@raponzelhouston67653 ай бұрын
The wife body language is off.. I honestly think she has already moved on and now she's making excuses. I feel sorry for him
@Teaknowsbest3 ай бұрын
Sigh (after making it 36 minutes) I just want to thank Tracy for being a straight forward therapist and bringing the other therapist in. I will hold back my comments on the couple.
@MindsetOfMarge3 ай бұрын
This episode was a rollercoaster of emotions. I truly hope they work on themselves individually first and foremost . I commend them for putting their lives out there in this way because we don’t talk about grief depression and anxiety as Black people enough even with all the progress we ve made with talking about mental health over the years . I like how the therapist never missed an opportunity to correct and call out things out for what they are .
@lovebrittt3 ай бұрын
Yes especially our black men deal with sooo much and they almost never get the support they need. I just wanted to jump in the episode and give him a big bear hug.
@ayandakhumalo86923 ай бұрын
Oh my! This guy is not feeling well. 😢😢😢. The wife keeps saying:,sit up😣 😡
@desidefense14633 ай бұрын
He needs to hold hug his daughter
@sattasana77533 ай бұрын
Excuse me, are y'all blaming the 14 year old?
@ebonykennedy18383 ай бұрын
Right!!! Whom at the time was only 9 yrs old!!!
@apriljoy4253 ай бұрын
They are ignoring the 14 yr feelings and blaming her.The stepmother words on top of the Father’s is crazy. I think Maya’s mom needs to make sure her Daughter is emotionally safe from them. They are too broken .
@Shalayah20103 ай бұрын
Seems like the daughter is doing that on her own already.
@ckdots56983 ай бұрын
Anxiety is very debilitating… it’s hard to push through especially with the wrong ppl around you.
@teetee67083 ай бұрын
I think overall they are a good couple. Grief, trauma and depression can wear and tear you down. Mentally, emotionally and physically I hope that are able to work through it and get back to their happy place. They both look so sad, because of the trauma.
@psalmxv41883 ай бұрын
These adults are blaming others fir their own shortcomings. They are blaming the kids. Stop it!
@dbeloved023 ай бұрын
They are not all there! Expecting a child to make contact with them
@tgber81263 ай бұрын
A 9 year old he wants her to said oh let me call my dad n comfort him coz my lil brother passed away really man how stupid can u be she doesn't even know abt death by that age he's crazy n selfish
@dbeloved023 ай бұрын
@@tgber8126 right and they were willing to keep blaming her
@just_here303 ай бұрын
Yeah that pissed me off. At their big ages they should know that but for some people with age doesn't come wisdom. That made me not like them lol
@betheone82923 ай бұрын
This wife is all about her. Every time the therapist makes an observation about him, she instantly adds her 2 cents. Geez, he mourning let him get started on some healing. 🙄
@ms.robinxoxo27103 ай бұрын
He seems like he has anxiety and he’s been through a lot
@dreamchasahh3 ай бұрын
So the wife tried to get custody of child then blames her for the wedge and grudges themselves as adults harbor. Girllllll
@naturallymoi81713 ай бұрын
This ‼️
@RahYisrael993 ай бұрын
Right. How do you try and steal a woman's child instead of the dad just BEING A DAD? Crazy.
@bessence9563 ай бұрын
Tht child would catch hell in house wt them
@moralitygreen15483 ай бұрын
Shes truly not a good person 🤦🏽♀️ everything is about HER HER HER...he need to grow a pair and put her into the place of his wife and not his mother smh
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
I hope this family sees these comments one day
@_NoniDube3 ай бұрын
As a mother to a teenage boy, I'm learning so much from Tracy
@tracyhearst-purdy68033 ай бұрын
This episode was hard to watch. Wow. So many layers to peel back. This was sad. Josh looks defeated and his wife is annoying as heck.
@tiffanysmith43893 ай бұрын
How someone getting sick putting her down..im.confused
@luckyhall7413 ай бұрын
Real true love can be staring us in our face and still be blind….. He loves his family he just need some healing. Anxiety is no joke it can cripple a person
@dyslstudio88893 ай бұрын
One of the best but saddest episodes!! I love this show and wish this couple the absolute best!! Keep fighting for each other ❤
@MsSong2U3 ай бұрын
Not having the tools to effectively communicate is the root of it all. The fall out is dire.
@ldgatgat4593 ай бұрын
Not fair to blame daughter it is father’s responsibility period. They both weak for that
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
An it's a shame that a lot of parents do they kids like this
@miri96463 ай бұрын
He’s mentally beat down but loves her
@jclark3773 ай бұрын
Damn, has he sought out medical treatment?
@Americassweetheart33 ай бұрын
Don’t put that on that baby!! Shame on her!! He’s the daddy. And ain’t nobody stick up for her! Lawd all them adults didn’t comfort the baby! I’m disgusted Thank you Tracy!!
@antoinettebrown4563 ай бұрын
That’s what tore me up! Not a soul consoled the daughter
@JacksQueen.3 ай бұрын
Agreed!!
@yemedemure4143 ай бұрын
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@savillewilliams3 ай бұрын
She didn't have the capacity to understand grief...lawd I hope she grows with him..this is life ❤ she doesn't have the tools, nor did the family...true for many of us
@TammyJFox3 ай бұрын
If I could 🙌these therapists, oh my goodness the power of therapy at work here! Love it! Shine that light the truth makes you free. Now this couple has some decisions to make.
@keylacmckemp13093 ай бұрын
First 5 minutes, and I am worried about him. He looks medicated or unwell
@jaylacy99123 ай бұрын
People need to understand people grieve differently especially men! His baby, his mom!! That’s alot!! When me and my ex had a baby and she passed he didn’t stay he ran away and left I understand he couldn’t handle it
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
How is he today and you
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
An I'm sorry for your loss
@missprizzy13 ай бұрын
I easily see why the 14 year old isn't around I'm glad they had a 1 on 1 and he apologized it's clear he hasn't grieved and he holds it all in because he doesn't feel comfortable enough to let it out because she doesn't let him and it effects him physically the black community has to be more open to seeking help it's okay to go to therapy
@wanjamitchell51493 ай бұрын
I wanted to see Tiffany apologize to the daughter as well, it needed to be done.
@danessicajones49323 ай бұрын
21 minutes in and I was good until the mother and father blamed their daughter on their relationship issues. I have always been the one to say that children don't call parents. Be a parent!
@HoneySuckle1233 ай бұрын
This is my favorite episode. The love was undeniable 💕💐
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14173 ай бұрын
I agree with you too
@sharsaymurphy8733 ай бұрын
The groom seems to be more in tune with his wife's kids than he is with his own biological child, they may need counseling to build a bond and get to the bottom of their trauma.
@lovebrittt3 ай бұрын
The elevator don’t go all the way to the top with these people. Blaming a kid for your marital issues is wild.
@pamelahenderson55493 ай бұрын
He def needs to step up as a grown man and take the responsibility of being the father. He needs to call her. She’s a kid!
@bilqis33 ай бұрын
Tracy is my mentor. I truly appreciate her approach!
@bardleymcknightlaw12753 ай бұрын
They are scapegoating that 14 yr old child
@FeliciaStands3 ай бұрын
I don’t like how the wife’s family looks at the husband and his kids 😢
@reneerenee50733 ай бұрын
They are a mess 😂. I’m only at the beginning but wtfff
@mutshidzimulelu29913 ай бұрын
Expecting a nine year old to reach out to a grown man is insane. Like they are adults, yet they can't act right, but a child should
@inmytravelstoday3 ай бұрын
This couple is TOXIC. How dare they put the onus and GUILT on a 14 year old child?
@miraculousjackson84672 ай бұрын
Everybody speaks so eloquently. This family is very smart God bless
@SabrinaRLevi3 ай бұрын
he said he dont feel good. If he pass out everybody will be screaming and hollering