I wanna feel his sincerity, but his actions need to be much louder than the disrespect he subjected her and their kids to.
@stranger62582 жыл бұрын
True..i might feel like he only does it cause there is so much heat im sure he feels guitly but i believe he will do it again.
@agapeagencyofvirginia7932 жыл бұрын
I think that he knew that the fans was turning against him and they were saying that he was worse worse than even Kirk frost I think he knew that and he still thinking about himself and his career
@stranger62582 жыл бұрын
@@agapeagencyofvirginia793 mhhhm couldnt said it any better..i truly hope he means his words.
@Nasia-2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@NannoChii2 жыл бұрын
Im not at all sympathetic towards him but what we’ve been witnessing regarding this is the product of a child growing up without a strong family foundation. Meaning, having both mother and father in the home raising children. These young boys are growing up not knowing how to be a husband and a father because they don’t witness that from their own fathers at home. They arent taught how to be responsible men nor how to support a wife in any aspect. If anything, this should show the world the importance of children growing up in a solid family structure.
@jessecord2 жыл бұрын
I love how she's about the children, and says let's focus on being parents because we can't fail the kids!!!!! That's huge growth on her part!!!!!
@lindaroselli52712 жыл бұрын
Erica has come along way. I hope they can work this out!!. 🙏 . People make mistakes. It's called forgiveness 😌
@YelenaBlanka2 жыл бұрын
It’s very different when you are in your 30s and decide to have your children (yes I know Erica had a son over a decade ago, not that he doesn’t exist but I feel like this is her being a first time parent all over again), you are way more mature and you see things from such a different point of view, the person you had a child with especially, it’s so hard maintaining a relationship that could last until you die. People nowadays are so quick to give up on their relationship. I hope my fiancé and I, and our first and only four-year-old son could thrive and be forever soulmates. We have our horrible days but when it’s good it’s great 😕🤷🏼♀️♥️🧿🧿
@nataliemathieu20562 жыл бұрын
She nuts
@toniageorge58502 жыл бұрын
RIGHT
@heavensurvivor20972 жыл бұрын
Yeah I really like the mom and wife side of her. She has really changed mentally. She talks like a wife that builds her house up and is strong rock. Safaree need to get it together and step it up. He definitely capable. It’s just his maturity mentally has to catch up. He has a family now. It’s time to change. He seems like a good guy, but maybe just still not use to daddy and husband life yet. When you get married you can’t be a playa no more. That’s stops.
@mercelingawanas32412 жыл бұрын
If Erica knows what's good for her, she will forgive this man and never take him back.
@angelamclorrain28602 жыл бұрын
100%
@ren_73082 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@gwickedtheking38072 жыл бұрын
Why u people don't want to see other people happy u don't know him or her or u in there house or bedroom 🤔 no leave them lat them grow in love everything takes time We Are Men we make mistakes sometimes and women does it too Nobody's Perfect
@Nirobiscloset102 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I did it. No kids tho.
@ChrissyRedd372 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@chantelblake-cross33172 жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy how men are never receptive to our tears from the hurt they cause us but they always want our sympathy for their tears, it’s such an unfair trade.
@dr.100purrscent52 жыл бұрын
Grossly Unfair
@mxx87782 жыл бұрын
say it louder for the people in the back!
@truballa1032 жыл бұрын
Y’all cry every day 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@mpumelelobeyers9572 жыл бұрын
talmbout "men" talk about the dudes yo ass choose don't put us all "men" into this... SMH
@Pauwwhh2 жыл бұрын
Yes mama we have to keep it together for our kids.
@syrenxo2 жыл бұрын
The thing about a repeat offender, the word “sorry” is taken extremely lightly. Changed behavior will ALWAYS be the best apology. We have all suffered our fair share of trauma, mistakes & vices - but I believe they need to both heal individually. If it’s organic? It’ll come right back together in divine timing. I’m not going to bash safaree or Erica because no one can judge the next at all, but I hope they can move in a positive healthy co parenting situation for their children. People will always have to answer to the choices they make. I hope they evolve.
@biglatto_riah67222 жыл бұрын
Children not child **
@BFick4782 жыл бұрын
Very well said. I concur!
@bliszumstyle46322 жыл бұрын
He will NEVER CHANGE
@v.g72792 жыл бұрын
❗️👏🏼👏🏼
@tamudefoe71152 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@sharyageorge2 жыл бұрын
So you wait until she’s ready to leave for you to apologize. They wait until they realize she doesn’t need them for them to apologize.
@Luscious_Luxury72 жыл бұрын
Always
@Mimi89_72 жыл бұрын
He still low key miss Nicki that’s what that’s about
@jazzy54102 жыл бұрын
You don’t realize what you have until you loose it, Ig. 🤷🏾♀️
@legendaryreactions53122 жыл бұрын
@@Mimi89_7 and I agree, I feel like he settled because he couldn’t have her and I feel like Nicki settled cause her life moves really fast and she wanted marriage and kids. Literally weeks before he was publicly with Erica he did interviews saying he misses Nicki and would try again if given the chance. His heart is with her and that’s why he does Erica the way he does. And I believe Nicki’s heart is with him too but she is too prideful to go back
@gwickedtheking38072 жыл бұрын
No love and hip hop just shows u this was was way before the rich dollar s***
@NuMindframe2 жыл бұрын
The word narcissist may be overused on the internet but Safaree definitely seems like one. He’s only sorry when she’s feeling stronger and ready to move on. But he had no tears and sympathy when he was breaking her down when she was most vulnerable. That’s exactly how narcissists operate. They get vicious when you’re at your lowest and want your sympathy later to regain control over you. I hope she forgives and doesn’t take him back
@theadvancedforce10172 жыл бұрын
Erica is a Saint to you?
@NuMindframe2 жыл бұрын
@@theadvancedforce1017 Yes I definitely said that in my comment. Re-read it and you’ll see I said that exact thing.
@theadvancedforce10172 жыл бұрын
@@NuMindframe all the girls are bashing and blaming bm for everything. You think hatred in their heart is a good thing?
@James-hq2hw2 жыл бұрын
I hear you....and I partly agree. However, i think the best apology is a changed behaviour. I think she should give him a second chance. Marriage is not easy. This might just be the wake up call he needed....he is close to losing his family...sometimes we men are so stupid that that is what it takes for us to wake up and act right...LOL
@NuMindframe2 жыл бұрын
@@James-hq2hw This man mistreated her while she was pregnant. That goes far beyond him making a stupid mistake. That’s just straight cruelty and no woman deserves to go through that while they’re carrying a child. Also please stop with this “men need a wake up call sometimes” thing. Yall are grown adults. Men need to wake their ass up in therapy instead of mistreating women.
@christineeugene1142 жыл бұрын
I hope she doesn’t take him back. Y’all can coparent without the relationship. What he did was inexcusable, I’m sorry. When you mistreat someone the way he mistreated Erica, you can forgive but that person never forgets. Actions speak louder than words. I hope they are able to coparent and come to some common ground
@zionasdiary28852 жыл бұрын
what did he do
@tp85712 жыл бұрын
YESSS PREACH!!!! SHE IS IN HER GROWN WOMAN MODE AND I LOVE IT! HE DOESNT DESERVE HER THE PAIN HE CAUSED HER FROM JUST WHAT LITTLE WE KNOW IS INEXCUSABLE IMAGINE ALL OF WHAT WE DONT KNOW. IF SHE NEEDS A GO FUND ME I’M TOTALLY DOWN WITH IT AND I’M POOR JUST WANT TO SEE HER WIN WITHOUT HIM.
@eveevolution16072 жыл бұрын
@@zionasdiary2885 yes what did he do all these comments and I still don’t know lol 😂
@sadoucelouis6 ай бұрын
Like my ex .. he’s a broken man and he will continue to hurt other women. He has to heal and seek therapy for himself before he can be with anyone else. Otherwise the relationship will end badly for the next woman.
@lovelysweetz44092 жыл бұрын
Don’t do it Erica, heal yourself.
@missbell16342 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@puffandpass602 жыл бұрын
Right I know a man who wants sum apology pum pum when I see one
@victoriaacmiller67972 жыл бұрын
Yes!! She needs her space and work on her self. And let him work for it!!
@JL-et2nh2 жыл бұрын
This is why sometimes y’all shouldn’t talk not everyone family has to break up y’all Give up to easy
@623blovely2 жыл бұрын
@@JL-et2nh right that’s her whole husband if they can heal and grow together and healthy with counseling separately and together that’s would be great
@Jessy_069012 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that Erica responded with "how do you know" instead of her just saying it back to him.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@elizabethcooper9122 жыл бұрын
Big facts 💯she held her weight with that
@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@ConservativeCoinCollector2 жыл бұрын
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@Arguewityamama2 жыл бұрын
And he couldn’t even TRULY answer that.
@animemangachic2 жыл бұрын
The one thing I can appreciate about Erica is that she seems very children focused that no matter how much pain Safaree has put her through, she's still willing to do everything she can to have Safaree be in their children lives. I have respect for parents that don't use their children as weapons, only to get back at their exes.
@marlak42032 жыл бұрын
Don't forget she has an older child. She's kind of been thru this before.
@JM-ip1es2 жыл бұрын
Manipulation King... those tears were for him , not here. He likes the idea of a relationship but he doesn’t actually want to be in a relationship. He’s using her as a coping mechanism to get over whatever it is in his life.... But that’s not fair to her or the kids. People like this will emotionally use you and then once they feel better again will move on w/ life. The best thing for her to do is to set up boundaries and coparent
@houseofmatrix61742 жыл бұрын
So Erica isn’t manipulative
@carmenjackson45972 жыл бұрын
Amen
@missladyprincesse37572 жыл бұрын
Just like my ex..once he is getting better he can't keep his words
@superwomanme2 жыл бұрын
Your comment was spot on.
@celiciaseremy2 жыл бұрын
hes not over nikki Minaj and hes trying so hard to move on
@jessicajohnson58172 жыл бұрын
I've never seen him cry. Must be the liquor.
@Incogn3gr0e2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t that mean he’s been holding in tears? They say a drunken mind speaks sober thoughts
@nonjabuloinnocentia28832 жыл бұрын
I dnt trust him
@Miasaun2 жыл бұрын
When you drunk you show your true self💯,had friends and family showed a side I never seen before whether it's good or bad💯
@pamelataylor89472 жыл бұрын
Rite lol
@daisykarina50362 жыл бұрын
Facts 😂😂
@NecieytheGREAT2 жыл бұрын
Well said Érica “ let’s focus on being parents”.. You can tell she has a good heart …but don’t let that heart get you in trouble… speaking from experience 🥴Let him Heal
@hep17312 жыл бұрын
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@美咲-w4h2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@Thealphaaa_ Жыл бұрын
I’ve been searching for the song playing for over a year. All these comments are about how safaree is and Erica has become. Forget them. I need this song!!
@jaerich91117 ай бұрын
Right!!!
@CCMIMIIАй бұрын
Girl use Shazam lol
@monique_dannigirl71112 жыл бұрын
Counseling is a MUST for Black Men. Alot of times we have grown men who don't have any Male accountability roles in their lives.
@ArianaPerez2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this generation stopped looking at therapy and counseling as if you’re a crazy person, I hope that now that women are more open to therapy after breakups that men also go to therapy because we all need to figure out how to control our emotions better, and understand hurting others is not a way of life especially with men in relationships.
@smackmurph74142 жыл бұрын
Bullshit!!!!!! 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
@lildgame43212 жыл бұрын
He's 45 he knows right from wrong.its just nothing but excuses
@dtyson5402 жыл бұрын
Counseling is a must for black women as well
@kailamoore53312 жыл бұрын
@@lildgame4321 umm he’s 40😭
@syrenxo2 жыл бұрын
It seems as though she’s slowly but surely getting over all the Bs he’s brought to her door step & I’m here for it. He apologized good for you but an apology doesn’t erase pain. They are both hurting in some way. Even his energy, when he said “I don’t know what’s wrong with me” it’s time for healing ❤️🩹 brother. Changed behavior is the best form of any apology. For their children, I hope they co-parent in a healthy, lovely way so that their children can learn healthy family values. All you can do evolve.
@Lushus402 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@fashunsmart20072 жыл бұрын
That's actually very well said.. I personally have done some things I'm not proud of and the ones I hurt keep saying I haven't changed and I'm like I said I'm sorry. But the way you put I never looked at it that way. Thanks for the enlightenment.💡
@tianamariee62872 жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with everything u said, as far as his apology, u hafta start somewhere, and saying that ur sorry is starting on the right path. Now he needs to man up and show her he means it by changing his actions/behavior. I feel like he expects the words to magically fix everything, but it doesn't work like that, not even close. I pray he is able to follow his words with the correct actions to make things right between them, but if not, hopefully they can get to a healthy enough place where they can successfully co-parent. Because at the end of the day, Safire and Legend are the ones that are suffering the most.
@choc44222 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Lynda9572 жыл бұрын
Love this comment!
@yahwehsbaby2 жыл бұрын
When narcissists feel their supply leaving, they come with the fake apologizes, fake tears, fake emotions to play on YOUR empathy (the thing they don’t have) to wheel you back into giving them what they don’t deserve. This is sad very UNHEALTHY. They love bomb you at the beginning so you’re constantly trying to get back to what you had in the beginning. I don’t like Erica but THIS IS ABUSE!!!! THIS IS NOT LOVE. Nobody deserves this.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@suzyj87082 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better myself. He’s also very manipulative, I used to be with a man just like him, now with experience, I can easily see thru these type of man thank God.
@brooklynforever19902 жыл бұрын
💯🙌🏼
@goddesshassanah2 жыл бұрын
This is facts Sis, been there. She has to be strong and let that man be, because men like him are dangerous
@jthompson49162 жыл бұрын
🎯
@Drill-kn5nh2 жыл бұрын
I actually cried watching this episode, I salute Erica for her progress. I hated on them cuz I wanted Erica for myself 🤣 but for real I would love to see more success and positivity on these shows so this was good to see
@mjohnson69012 жыл бұрын
I love how Safaree made it about him and made her feel sorry for him, when he’s the one been out here being reckless. Narcissistic behavior 101
@LeeHanHart2 жыл бұрын
He said he doesn’t have anybody to talk to. Sir, your wife is sitting right there. I agree that his behavior is very narcissistic.
@mimi.w6672 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they always do this I don't wanna lose you crap I'm lost I'm don't got no one shit
@cameron3572 жыл бұрын
sad lonely hating women.... y'all can't pray for them or at least wish them luck... sheesh.
@mjohnson69012 жыл бұрын
@@cameron357 Lmao, what gave you any idea that I was sad and lonely. That man is a jackass that craves attention from the wrong people. Nope not wishing her more hard ache and pain
@purgetheXYs2 жыл бұрын
@@cameron357 narc blk man alert
@thinasontshatsha78662 жыл бұрын
I just pray he's being serious and not playing her all for him to do it all over again
@Lushus402 жыл бұрын
If he does, karma will pay him a visit
@kaylalove48352 жыл бұрын
FOR REAL LIKE IF HE NOT NEVER TRUST HIM AGAIN
@thinasontshatsha78662 жыл бұрын
What's worse is that Nicki warned us about him and.we turned a blind eye she probably smilin like "l told y'all"
@leratohadebe49382 жыл бұрын
Same
@Obeox2 жыл бұрын
He’s fake AF
@lioneljohnson18252 жыл бұрын
Erica has matured so much. I know she still has her hot head moments but her growth is astounding!
@stepcollazo81342 жыл бұрын
Thats true
@kd1love9832 жыл бұрын
She's tired.
@emmm_44652 жыл бұрын
@@kd1love983 this!
@jammijam_2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@美咲-w4h2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@realitytvoverdose62 жыл бұрын
Ya'll still ain't found out who sing that song in the background
@alphalumaomegamind73142 жыл бұрын
This is what I’m talking about! Erica stood strong the entire time and didn’t stray! Amen.
@hep17312 жыл бұрын
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@美咲-w4h2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@selwaa.h2 жыл бұрын
If she has any sense she’ll never take him back but she’ll forgive him.
@tajbarbie33382 жыл бұрын
Period. I'm sick of people using marriage or children as a reason to stay sometimes if it gets too bad the best thing you can do is just simply focus on your children and move on and count it as a lesson some people are just afraid to be alone even when they know it's time to go
@rosemyrlinedavilmaralize22522 жыл бұрын
Safaree is so irogant
@ja37342 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it takes a while for us as men to get it together, and no one should suffer cause of it but that's why I rate this woman for holding him down better or worse, they can only go up from here
@stassyroze91982 жыл бұрын
The kind of love she and her kids need, is not a feeling. “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on it’s own way; it’s not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. “ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
@sakaiahreign33652 жыл бұрын
Periodt
@zazlar42282 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@美咲-w4h2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@thickathanasnicka262 жыл бұрын
Amen
@dympiece Жыл бұрын
When she finally done or finds someone better. They always cry. 🙂 not crying enough tears I did.
@JustAkila2 жыл бұрын
I say Let him be miserable, its the consequences of his own actions. He thought It was ok for him to dump all over Erica for literally no reason.
@lovil63752 жыл бұрын
It takes two tango; she was in the wrong too, And made a lot of noise
@toyalewis30452 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@monicamartina66862 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Star-qv3lu2 жыл бұрын
Y’all be so caught up with these storylines.. things can’t be that bad because she was just grinding on him on for her birthday
@xiamariansupreme722 жыл бұрын
@@lovil6375 True, but she didn't repeatedly cheat on him, then leave him to go grind on Caribbean men while he's alone to be in the NICU with their newborn for over a week. He did that to her and did it without hesitation.
@godsforcefulremnant45972 жыл бұрын
He didn't want to talk while she was carrying his kid I wouldn't hear him once my kid dropped PERIOD FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET!!
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz52872 жыл бұрын
You sound dumb for that comment. You really ain't going to forgive anyway. You can't say forgive never forget because you really never forgave that person.
@Heat_Rush2 жыл бұрын
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 Your comment is illogical. You can forgive a person without going back to them. Forgiving them means saying, "I no longer hold you responsible for the pain you caused, and I'm choosing to let go of that pain." When you choose not to forget you're saying, "you showed me who you are, and I'm no longer angry with you for being who you are, I accept who you are, so I'll get out the way so that you can continue being who you are." If you think staying with a person means you forgive them, then you're saying every battered, raped, and abused victim should go back to those who assaulted them, and that makes sense to you?
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz52872 жыл бұрын
@@Heat_Rush nope
@lovil63752 жыл бұрын
So stay bitter, and what would happen to the children
@xiamariansupreme722 жыл бұрын
@@lovil6375 How is that bitter? It would be ridiculous to go back to someone like Safaree after all he's done. Erica doesn't have to hold a grudge against him, but it'd be wise of her to not get back with him, because Safaree has shown her who he really is and hos true colors are nothing that Erica needs in her life.
@madame_ijeoma2 жыл бұрын
I love that even though it’s evident that Erika has tapped out, she still has compassion for her husband. When he told her that he loved her, she didn’t respond with a ‘ily2’. Instead she asked him “how do you know?” He needs to really reflect on that question and give another answer.
@Sincere4Eva2 жыл бұрын
Very well dissected. 👏🏾👏🏾
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@eclecticsunrise2 жыл бұрын
He hurt her to the core. She was all in for him. He dropped the ball.
@kyralashay70822 жыл бұрын
@@eclecticsunrise he definitely did her soooo dirty like idk but I understand her like ugh she love him tho like 😫😫😭
@lekishajones81272 жыл бұрын
I loved this part of the show I loved the way he opened up to her and she received it and expressed herself as well I was In tears 🥰❤️✨
@leelotero5042 жыл бұрын
Me too plus the song killed me and I still can't find the song
@whitdough81502 жыл бұрын
One won't realize what they had till its gone, stay strong couples!!! 💪🏿
@daphneepaul37372 жыл бұрын
Se vre
@coachzaynab3552 жыл бұрын
Yeah, emotionally immature people do that. And are not accountable to their life choices.
@lalitstar23712 жыл бұрын
Sa se vre
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@suadabdul-razak7652 жыл бұрын
He knew what he had, just didn't know he would lose it.
@cece82gemini272 жыл бұрын
Safaree: "I love you" What he really means: "I love how you tolerate this behavior and disrespect" 😐
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@ConservativeCoinCollector2 жыл бұрын
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@Ap-gk4rs2 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@tryna_be_better45492 жыл бұрын
Why focus on the negativity. Comments like this and thought process like this are the problem. This makes it harder to heal. If she constantly thought he was decieving her. Our thoughts become words and words become actions. Everything you expect of someone is all they will be. So if she keeps expecting him to be a liar a cheater and disingenuous that is all he will be to her. She isn't tolerating disrespect. She's being a mature grown woman who knows that he's the father of her children. the children need her and him. That's why it takes two people to make children. He's not beating her up and he's never physically abused her. Unless he's a danger to himself, her, or the children there's no need for her not have him around. They have two children. Newsflash, they will forever be CLOSELY in each other's lives.
@_ladiosanegra2 жыл бұрын
or "I love how you are my supply bc I have low self esteem"
@myexpi45422 жыл бұрын
The most vulnerable time for a woman is when she is carrying your child & to put her through all that drama while she is in the very essence of pure love, that changes you. You can forgive but you never ever forget it. Been there.
@AngieValencia-xh6ny Жыл бұрын
This episode is heart wrenching she completely loves this man 😢
@urbanskin2 жыл бұрын
This actually touched me. Imagine that, Safaree and Erica moving me to tears!!🤦🏾♂️
@djsamaria17312 жыл бұрын
then you are wasting the miles😂
@urbanskin2 жыл бұрын
@@djsamaria1731 your probably right!!
@henrybryant49002 жыл бұрын
This touched me too safaree is a good dude he needs to go back to the old safaree the old safaree didn’t allow anyone to disrespect his woman or he didn’t disrespect any woman I will pray for these two I have faith they can work this out.
@urbanskin2 жыл бұрын
@@henrybryant4900 I don’t know if he’s a good dude as I found him corny as hell and seems a bit selfish. But I did get some sincerity from him, something I never got from him before. I just want him to stop being so corny!!
@patricerenee17172 жыл бұрын
Awww. It didn’t seem genuine to me at all! It was a tv and drunk moment. 🤷🏾♀️
@sophiaimperial88162 жыл бұрын
Erica has matured so much I’m so proud of the strong woman she has become for herself and her kids
@razaanmendez95072 жыл бұрын
Erica, do NOT forget what dude put u through when u needed him most.
@fontellajohnson14202 жыл бұрын
He wasn't there for the birth of his son, he can't be trusted.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@suraiyaabubakar52622 жыл бұрын
you are not in the relationship.
@dr.100purrscent52 жыл бұрын
This very disappointing. Erica is a handful for certain, but she has grown into a woman who takes her family seriously. She worked hard to hold on as long as she could, but she knows if she doesn't let go now things will only get worse. It's sad that she has to, once again, push her emotional wellbeing to the side in order to be the lead partner and parent in this situation. Men like Safaree have been allowed to be completely reckless with women with limited consequence to their poor choices and emotional terrorism. It's not okay to convince someone you are safe to love when you know you are not, marry someone, get women pregnant to only go out of your way to sabatoge it all. To then only come back crying and bruised from the Hell you projected and put yourself through. As she said before, she is Human! Why would anyone feel it's okay to treat the mother of their children like trash? It is as if toxic men view women as livestock they can %@$#! It's sick and it is gross. I wish Erica all the best and True healing. There are good men in the world. There are men who made mistakes and are prepared to show approve for those they need to make amends with. Real Men do what it takes to show that they are healed. They know the value of a good support team and will go out of their way to be a real asset to their family. Safaree has a lot of growing up to do.
@petrinamayanwilliams52442 жыл бұрын
So true
@marrrweee Жыл бұрын
Absolutely the most powerful truth / perspective I’ve seen on this situation. Salute
@MAEVUIM2 жыл бұрын
Marriage ain’t easy. Especially when the world is judging you. Let them figure it out and we’ll support their decisions
@kellyb2352 жыл бұрын
That’s correct and that’s why they should’ve handled their issues privately because the media will force you to react in a way your heart may not want
@janiyahgee-neeley2102 жыл бұрын
Righttttttttt y’all to old to be judging
@originaleverythingelseisca59772 жыл бұрын
BEST ANSWER!!!!
@sebastyann1232 жыл бұрын
You all are just so used to being treated poorly and use the "marriage aint easy" as an excuse to feel better about yourself for keep taking every crap your spouse/partner does to you.
@drknow19972 жыл бұрын
The best comment for 2021
@kimkeller29832 жыл бұрын
She’s right, they need to take the relationship off the table and just focus on being great parents to their children and work on their selves…..you can’t work on yourself or heal wounds while staying with the person who caused the pain. She can forgive him for herself, but certainly don’t take him back right now.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@joevic46742 жыл бұрын
They married..the relationship is on the table until they aren't
@TeleeFONE2 жыл бұрын
I don't trust Safaree 1 bit, he is a smooth talker and manipulative. This crocodile tears is because of all the backlash he has been receiving for mistreating Erica and being an overgrown child.
@Girlforaction2 жыл бұрын
Amen. He can kick rocks on the relationship. He needs to be a good father.
@Jessy_069012 жыл бұрын
Yup my ex was exactly like this and like an idiot I kept taking him back for him to do it all over again. He also cried crocodile tears. Don't trust him Erica and run 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@sweetdeadlygyallala8052 жыл бұрын
BOOYAH 👊🏿
@Tamoiii Жыл бұрын
Safaree is a broken man who jokes about and evades the things that he doesn’t want to open up about. It’s sad. While he’s wrong it would be nice if she could get what she wants and he lets her love him and he could do the same
@ariaxrose12 жыл бұрын
Hes sad his ego is bruised now everyone dislikes him. He's too prideful he needs to be the good guy now to get his fans back
@angelicawolf26432 жыл бұрын
You said it!!
@keanyarenee86452 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking when I saw this. He thought his behavior was going to be overlooked because Erica is not well liked (and hot head). But once he saw everybody and friends/cast mates disliking and making him accountable for his behavior. This is the result he is not crying because he love her.. he is crying to fix his image/brand.
@美咲-w4h2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@sweetdeadlygyallala8052 жыл бұрын
I don't believe anything about him all I smell is a big pile of BS 💩!
@ZeeZee72 жыл бұрын
Ive watched Erica Mena for a looooong time, her demeanor here shows her growth and maturity! She’s not yelling and pulling shenanigans, she is communicating and seeking with a person not ready yet to be on the same level! SUCKS balls but most women face this UNEVEN level of emotional maturity ALL THE TIME! Maybe through co parenting can both find a better place as individuals and parents!
@msnicole47772 жыл бұрын
Awwww, I really want them to work out. Erica looks like she done but I respect the way she's handling him right now even though he doesn't deserve. It's the growth for me.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@KyasiaDavis-cy3mw8 ай бұрын
He wasn’t even crying 😭🤣 like no tears just dramatic
@sakaiahreign33652 жыл бұрын
Move on Erica, this isn’t sincere. A narcissist needs his supply, don’t be that.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@Renville872 жыл бұрын
Show actions don’t just speak words. He’s narcissistic and I don’t believe the tears. You know how many time I’ve seen a man hit my mom or watching men disrespect my female family members and friends and they come back crying and they ALWAYS take them back, just for them to do the same shit all over again. 🤦🏿♂️ I’m glad I’m not a softy, I believe in tough love. My friends and family know after I give you advice one time and you don’t listen Go to GOD next time with your relationship drama, don’t call my phone stressing me out for your bad decisions to stay with an abuser. This is why I choose to be single. Also I know when A women is fed up it’s a wrap buddy. safari she said she’s at 85% so you got 15% of a chance to turn yourself around and be better husband to your wife and a better father to your offspring. God bless
@ashleystalling99572 жыл бұрын
Omg facts 💕
@frahelis_betzaida84662 жыл бұрын
STRONG FACTSS !!! Preach !
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb44432 жыл бұрын
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@ajahjackson64822 жыл бұрын
she’s right, they need to focus on being parents and building a friendship so they can coexist for the kids. but anything other than that isn’t gonna happen. and that’ll benefit the both of them.
@Trina247472 жыл бұрын
Vh1…. We NEED to know the song please! 🤷🏻♀️🙏🏼
@angelareid6522 жыл бұрын
I’m glad he did this… he betta stay on track for his wife and kids.. he has a beautiful family 🥰
@courtneygordon68142 жыл бұрын
I agree
@blessedandhighlyfavoredwif73372 жыл бұрын
Exactly ‼️‼️‼️
@ren_73082 жыл бұрын
I think it's better they stay friends and co parent
@ChrissyRedd372 жыл бұрын
Man F him. Way too much damage has been done. She needs to divorce him & keep it moving
@bestgrandma74422 жыл бұрын
I really hope they work it out. But before anything they have to work it out for themselves before they can work it out for the kids they have to be 100 with each other. Don’t drag the kids back into it, if they just gonna keep breaking up it’s not fair to the kids..
@kellyb2352 жыл бұрын
Let’s just hope and pray this moment was genuine and not a panic… once she’s ready to give it another try.. don’t get “bored” again
@thetruthabouttee7662 жыл бұрын
I understand how he feels. It’s dark and it feels like if you engage your emotions you’ll fall into the darkness and never see the light.
@urmamasmamasmama2 жыл бұрын
I'm with u on this. But after darkness comes light. U gotta push through all the b.s. to get to the goodness. Sometimes we are meant to do it alone.
@KG-bliss2 жыл бұрын
@@urmamasmamasmama always meant to do it alone... People don't understand that if you can't fix yourself, fill your own cup... you will always be looking to others to blame...
@ChanChan-ux8nn2 жыл бұрын
🗣 go to therapy instead of relying on the damage you cause to the people around you to snap you out of it!
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@Dee-uz3em2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Erica has a beautiful soul. No matter how much pain Safaree put her through she is willing to help him grow and become a better person. God bless her soul ❤.
@michaelaharris14022 жыл бұрын
Being in love with someone and feeling that disconnection when you want them most really messes with you and I think safaree is realizing that and Erica is at a place of numbness where she’s tryna find peace without losing her mind
@lunacy32 жыл бұрын
I love how mature Erica was about the whole situation, she definitely deserved better. I still think they don’t belong together though.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@MEETMagazine2 жыл бұрын
How much longer until they really get divorced and she drops that tell all book and or interview? 2022 or 2023?
@expertexcavatinginc2 жыл бұрын
Early 2022
@fahadsalah31682 жыл бұрын
🙄 those are people like you u should look forward to that messy type of light let love win
@brittanystinson5152 жыл бұрын
I'm soooo mad that I'm laughing soooo hard at you🤣🤣
@ambermatthews44182 жыл бұрын
They’ll try again for 2022 for the story line then 2023 the break up and tell all will be the story line
@manuelescalera19532 жыл бұрын
@@milea4233 fffggfgggggg
@shanmac-brown63012 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know the name of the song playing in this scene?????
@thierrybrown24172 жыл бұрын
In order for them to work, they need to communicate better. No more walking away when things get rough. Be honest. They have a two magnificent kids that need them 100%. Be cordial for those kids.
@shrondasmith75442 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you too me I did feel he was sincere, but therapy and counseling for both is needed individual/marriage counseling. They both need to pray more and seek GOD Almighty with their problems he created marriage. They need to keep their personal business between themselves not posting/speaking negative things about each other because they are angry. All the yelling, screaming, cursing, and destroying things should stop they have a lovely family of 3 beautiful children which are all blessings. I want too see their marriage work for life it is hard but you gotta work at it and keep GOD first in all things.. I don't think divorce is needed yet but they may need to separate so they can work through all of this and take it one day. Safari has to grow up from a boy to a man and we all know as women that sometimes don't come over night. My prayers are with them and they entire family..
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@BrilliantBeauty-hn4fo2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad he realized his actions were hurting her and the relationship. With that being said an apology means there will be a change of behavior. I wish them the best and hope they can work through their issues, so they can be best version of themselves for their children.
@eclecticsunrise2 жыл бұрын
Watching him is cringingly triggering. It reminds me of my marriage and the times I consoled my now ex-husband after being hurt. He'd eventually go right back to that behavior, and I'd get hurt again. The only thing that stopped it was me leaving and being done with him. The behavior continues, but through him not paying child support and abandoning our daughter, who he seemed to be a super dad to... he left...didnt even call or buy her a thing for xmas. This is a man who, for the past eight years, has made at least a 6figure salary or year, but now all of a sudden quits a job every time he gets served the order. Safaree has made it hard for her. She has 2 kids now. She can't go party and chase men and bitches. She knows she's got to provide for them. He wasted her time and added so much responsibility to her life.
@wegonelaugh2 жыл бұрын
This is true
@TuscanWonder2 жыл бұрын
It's as if you STOLE my thoughts 💭. I'm very sorry you're going through what you are. I don't know my sister's full situation but she has three boys by three different fathers. And all I know is it couldn't have been me. If the first child didn't work out it definitely would have been me staying on birth control and vetting these men. Dating outside even
@eclecticsunrise2 жыл бұрын
@@TuscanWonder Thanks
@andreamontgomery80192 жыл бұрын
Sis you are not alone. My daughter father makes six figures and I know he’s not going to pay child support. The only difference is that I went through the system. I was never married to him. The state going to get his money. He abandoned me when I told him I was pregnant.. I can never take him back. You know what’s crazy? She looks just like him and act like him. Absolutely sad
@eclecticsunrise2 жыл бұрын
@@andreamontgomery8019 I went through the state too. He quits his job whenever he is located. Get this, most recently he has asked for a review so he can lower the ordered payments. 🤦🏾♀️
@kamariatoure42 Жыл бұрын
I know that look and that hug way to well that they gave to each other at the end. They do love each other, but they have no business together & it hurts when you realize that!
@ericasawyer89852 жыл бұрын
BRUH THIS WHOLE SCENE GAVE ME CHILLS N WAS SUPER EMOTIONAL LIKE OMG TOO CLOSE TO HOME, HOPE SHE DOES WHATS BEST FOR HER AND THEY WORK TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@dyamondwhite37692 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this because I’m going through the same thing… I’m not married but I gave my all in my relationship just for it to fail.. the love me and my ex used to share that spark we had all that is gone 😞💔 there’s no getting it back but I guess it’s for the better
@KG-bliss2 жыл бұрын
It didn't fail... It's leaving space for better... He just wasn't who you wanted him to be... Let him go and keep who you are. There's someone who will appreciate who you are.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@indddyyyy88212 жыл бұрын
When God shows you someones true head, you HAVE to do what is best for YOU. And it hurts yes, but the reward you get in the end.... That peace at mind. And you also learn to NEVER allow anyone else to do you like that again. I pray you heal 💗
@bliszumstyle46322 жыл бұрын
HE'S A GREAT ACTOR😂😂🤣🤣🤣... ERICA DON'T FALL FOR IT🤦🏽🤷🏽
@Incogn3gr0e2 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget her 🤣🤣 she never owned up to that fake page either even after Jonathan called her out on it
@bliszumstyle46322 жыл бұрын
@@Incogn3gr0e rite🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@adrianalopez92352 жыл бұрын
The “I love you” and Erica asking “How do you know?” Had me clapping. I think he sees that she is DONE and wants to have a healthy co parent relationship and he doesn’t want to loose so he is “letting down a wall” but that is a little too late in my eyes. Where has he been when she was pregnant begging for accountability? Oh yeah hooking up with women.
@HOT8CHOCOLAT32 жыл бұрын
People don’t understand this, but I have actually had two guys do this to me. They take their anger out on you because they are insecure, we get treated like crap and we’re in pain. It still doesn’t stop them from doing it. They have a breaking point once they come back to reality, but we literally don’t know what to do at that point.
@heytherelouise78842 жыл бұрын
Did you take them back and if so what happened..??
@zazlar42282 жыл бұрын
Had it happen also. Had to keep those toxic A Holes OUT ! Painful as it may be to cut ties, I deserve BETTER. You learn the signs and will never put yourself through that kind of BS again ever.
@debrajames38652 жыл бұрын
@@zazlar4228 well said. Show people how you want to be treated.
@black_kulture80012 жыл бұрын
So true
@debrajames38652 жыл бұрын
@@black_kulture8001 respect is the key to a healthy relationship. All relationships must have respect present otherwise dirt will be thrown back and forth.
@shaceestoner4202 жыл бұрын
The hardest part about ending is knowing your really done. The fear of life being different than u imagined in itself is scary. But if she knew what was best for her. She’d forgive him but she won’t take him back….💯
@KG-bliss2 жыл бұрын
That's right
@James-hq2hw2 жыл бұрын
i disagree.....they are married...marriage is hard....i beleive in second chances
@KG-bliss2 жыл бұрын
He is not in the marriage to even say its hard. She was in hospital alone with a baby in ICU while he was partying up a storm)... the trauma of that, the betrayal, the deep hurt... He checked out when it didn't suit him... and then now he can claim a turnaround? Adulting is hard, one has to be responsible and accountable.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@goodvibeswithteresa69612 жыл бұрын
WOW! I am crying. I am so glad that he said he was sorry.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@empressnaja2 жыл бұрын
I've been where she is with my " ex-husband " and he cried and begged on bended knee with a ring. And my heart couldn't do it , I been forgave him. I just didn't want anything to do with him
@arbrieannalyne72932 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo I’m sorry but I can’t take him serious 😂😂 since that fake ass cry at their wedding 💀💀 Lol maybe it’s the liquor idk
@gabrielle51622 жыл бұрын
I definitely get the same vibes! 😂
@arbrieannalyne72932 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielle5162 She don’t need to fall for that bs 🤣😩
@scarlettfa98532 жыл бұрын
Same 🤣
@shonfoster19842 жыл бұрын
I was about to ask was they both really crying r was those fake tears like scrappy mom n yandy husband mom...when they called them both out for those fake tears😂😂😂
@legendaryreactions53122 жыл бұрын
OK! This fake ass scene 😭 the love in their marriage can’t be real because I would never use my marriage for a check
@gabrielle51622 жыл бұрын
The crocodile tears are real 🐊😂😭🐊
@bjewel37512 жыл бұрын
Erica is such a good woman, strong and she’s grown so much❤️
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@ms.marciasonkosi66872 жыл бұрын
This scene really moved me. I need the song playing in the background...anyone know who it is or the name of the track? 🥺I need it
@callilove83782 жыл бұрын
Soon as a man cries.... we as women think maybe they get it....but they don't, their tears are weapons.
@PrettyBully4042 жыл бұрын
Exactly, he will be back on his bs, give him a month 🙄🙄🙄
@nataliemathieu20562 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@purgetheXYs2 жыл бұрын
Nah that's a fact. They try to say that about us but the same applies to them
@teriewilliams86142 жыл бұрын
Erika PLEASE don’t fall for it!! No one else NOTICED how she GRABBED him & HUGGED him 1st…ONLY me…okay!! #I’MNOTBUYINGIT!!
@jamilajones67252 жыл бұрын
I think he was just being respectful seeing as how they weren’t on touching terms he didn’t know if she would want him to touch her maybe he would of asked but she did so he didn’t have to ..that’s a stupid thing to point out it means nothing
@jammijam_2 жыл бұрын
He was breaking down. That’s why she held him. People don’t go around holding people when THEY are breaking down.
@teriewilliams86142 жыл бұрын
@@jamilajones6725…it’s NOT a stupid thing to point out!! For him to say “I don’t have anyone to talk to” is BS!! He didn’t BREAK DOWN till she said let’s just co-parent & everything else she said!! I do agree w what she said though “don’t kick a man when he’s down!!”
@teriewilliams86142 жыл бұрын
@@jammijam_…ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!! He’ll be back to treating her like crap in NO time!!
@jammijam_2 жыл бұрын
@@teriewilliams8614 First, Girl why are you yelling? Secondly, this is just a storyline.
@ashleyelizabeth64352 жыл бұрын
Wow 👀 typical tho! They always realize AFTER and TOO much time has past! 🥴💯
@arbrieannalyne72932 жыл бұрын
Girl I stggg!! They don’t appreciate what they have until it’s too late.
@alanbrown31722 жыл бұрын
Y'all act like women don't fuck up too.
@arbrieannalyne72932 жыл бұрын
@@alanbrown3172 Nobody ever said women don’t fuck up. We’re talking about SAFAREE in this situation. If you’ve watched the show, you’ll see that Erica tried multiple times to talk and fix their marriage. He didn’t want to. So he can save that apology in my opinion.
@mimiwilliams89182 жыл бұрын
TOO 👏🏾much 👏🏾time👏🏾 That part! Been there! 💯
@ashleyelizabeth64352 жыл бұрын
@@mimiwilliams8918 Same! 🤦♀️
@BarefootOrchid Жыл бұрын
I just wanna know what that song is that's playing while they're hugging! 🤔🤷🏽♀️
@vibezwithtinaa8632 жыл бұрын
As HE SHOULD !! Get your family back Dawg !! Y’all love each other so much & got a beautiful baby girl & boy 💗🤞🏽💙
@bliszumstyle46322 жыл бұрын
FAKE SHIT.... JUST SIT BACK AND WATCH 😂😂😂😂 ACTING AT AN ALL TIME HIGH 🤷🏽
@vibezwithtinaa8632 жыл бұрын
@@bliszumstyle4632 Thsts people problem now ! Y’all worried about what happen in the past !! LET DEM BE GREAT ! If he willing to man up & fix they relationship that’s respect ! & it’s called GROWTH !
@GreenGeeky2 жыл бұрын
@@vibezwithtinaa863 he should've went through THIS kind of growth BEFORE he got married and started a family.
@vibezwithtinaa8632 жыл бұрын
@Truth Speaks I hope you wake up ! They got love for each other no matter what they been through ! It don’t have to be a relationship type of love it can be a friendship but THE LOVE IS SOMEWHERE !!
@vibezwithtinaa8632 жыл бұрын
@@GreenGeeky okay understand but everyone growth is different . Things take time ! Meeting the right women taken time! They got married quick aab anyways so of course
@b4glady2 жыл бұрын
He will break her and childrens heart again. She needs to take him to court and get full custody; he's unfit. He's very manipulative and a deadbeat.
@MsRaysuns2 жыл бұрын
💯
@rebeccaflores68262 жыл бұрын
Man listen as a Scorpio myself we’re so loyal to the ones we love but when we get hurt we never forget idk if this is for a story line or what but Erica definitely needs to really make sure if she gets back with him that it’s because he’s putting in work !
@melissacarmona13582 жыл бұрын
I’m a Scorpio too. And that’s facts!
@Heat_Rush2 жыл бұрын
Yes hunny! As a scorpio woman, we love hard and are loyal to the people we care about, so when a person takes advantage of our love, we're quick to take back what we feel that person doesn't deserve, and we'll never be the same with that person ever again. It's funny how those people always notice the difference. Men always say to me, "you used to...." Used to being the key words.
@wonttrickmea18692 жыл бұрын
I don’t think anyone forgets 🤦🏾♀️
@itzmari212 жыл бұрын
Same . As a Scorpio as well I definitely fall and love hard . Once crossed you can forget ab me ever being the same lol I’ll make ur life hell fr
@mzdiamond732 жыл бұрын
But she definitely kept it real with him.With asking him you sure you love me because of his actions.So I know she's not going to go in anything with him blind it's all about the children as it should be.
@sherryashley3053 Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of Ericka's growth 💛
@sushana80582 жыл бұрын
Awww Erica is pretty. I hope Safaree grows up.
@mekasims19812 жыл бұрын
Her face looks a mess not pretty no more surgery 🙄🗑✌🏾
@leahmonet032 жыл бұрын
@@mekasims1981 she is very pretty
@mekasims19812 жыл бұрын
@@leahmonet03 yes but not as much no more she look like Trina Cuzzn Bobby 🙄 jus my opinion she not as pretty no more tome
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@trefens56352 жыл бұрын
What song is that playing in the background? Anyone know please?
@jasmynstevens74602 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy that he finally opened up to her . I hope they make it I love them together .
@Tamarajohnson70002 жыл бұрын
What??? Naw it was diff the liquor! He didn't even apologize for putting her& them baby thru hell!!
@cj88032 жыл бұрын
A REAL apology is not saying just "everything". I would DEMAND him to specific. For cheating on her, for ABONDONING her and their newborn son, for the CONSTANT disrespect, and for always shutting her out. THAT is an apology. And he needs to SHOW her he can change! Words mean NOTHING! It's all about ACTION!!!
@hariniquejoseph572 жыл бұрын
Ppp
@jammijam_2 жыл бұрын
@@Tamarajohnson7000 Omg ya’ll don’t know what they talked about off camera. Ya’ll swear ya’ll know peoples lives.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@Monica-lg7ov2 жыл бұрын
I need this song!!!
@lifeofnykee2 жыл бұрын
I hope he’s frl abt what he’s saying bcs if he put in the energy she put in they will be soo perfect!❤️
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@carmengordon56322 жыл бұрын
I was moved to tears. It seems like he actually got it! Take your time Erica… if what he says is true it will speak loudly in his actions.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@AsweetAroma-b2l2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@kimmie69242 жыл бұрын
His cry sound was super fake I get vibes of a fake storyline
@mekasims19812 жыл бұрын
Yes🙄never cared for them
@jeter68sharrieff2 жыл бұрын
Facts ..agree they both played this turmoil relationship script on everyone fake tears
@jasonsandate6585 Жыл бұрын
I feel their emotions hugs strong. Tears are real how much you loved them very powerful
@tyresmith98332 жыл бұрын
I want Safaree to mean well, but the amount of dirt he’s done to her over the years is too much not forget. It’s hard to take his word when he goes and do the exact same thing. I feel bad for Erica.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@jayc88032 жыл бұрын
This man is fighting for his family. About damn time!
@Heat_Rush2 жыл бұрын
This shit fake
@anairasoul61392 жыл бұрын
A day late and a dollar short. She still reaching for the hug. He a little boy in a grown man’s body. Until therapy, I wouldn’t believe anything he had to say.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@beautifullove23942 жыл бұрын
We have to start being stronger as women. He didn’t care about her tears and she shouldn’t be loving on him when he sheds them. That’s all they have to do to get some attention.
@rachelr11322 жыл бұрын
Women are already strong from the start, emotionnally stronger and sometimes too strong for some men. Men need to grow up, man up and step up to the plate to handle a graceful queen period. How does a woman been disrespected by her husband on national tv, now she's the one consoling him ??? Laaawd make it make sense ....😩😣🤦🏽♀️
@michelelee9009 Жыл бұрын
As much as she wants it to be real it’s not. As her emotional abuser he knows exactly what to do, what tone to say it in, and how to get her in a vulnerable position that will make it seem as if it’s “her” decision to go back into the toxicity that is their relationship when all along the narcissist in him is applauding his performance. What a beautiful woman, and as a mother to those children, she has to come to the realization that there is no fairytale ending for their story. On the contrary, this dude’s the villain in it.
@BeautifulKween_2 жыл бұрын
The fact that what she was saying was the right thing and he knew that and for him to hit her with the “yeah but I don’t want to lose you”. Just manipulation and sadly at that moment he pulled her back in. They whole situation was a mess from the beginning! I wish ppl loved themselves enough just to walk away even when it’s hard. On the flip side I feel like this situation was more so HER karma. I don’t wish this situation on anybody but ladies and gentlemen we must learn to listen when the signs are first shown. They relationship/ marriage failed way before it even started. Him having to prove something to Nicki and her just having to prove something.
@ambysounique44032 жыл бұрын
I see a man who finally realizes how close he is to really losing someone he knows he cant be without , the fake happiness during the partying & with those other women was all a part of that wall he put up to block her and it backfired..im rooting for yall Safaree & Erica 💕
@jammijam_2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@Alladathings2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I pray he really changes because she loves him so and they could be great for each other if he matched her output of love and commitment
@TheTamitude2 жыл бұрын
Said perfectly.
@shrondasmith75442 жыл бұрын
I agree because inspite of all that has happened Erica loves her husband and wants the marriage to work out. It anit nothing wrong with that.
@booboochick85742 жыл бұрын
Sadly he won't.
@resikchanel8432 жыл бұрын
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@JBurroughsMusic2 жыл бұрын
I’m rooting for them. I hope they can work it out. Acknowledgement and taking accountability, is the first step and they seem to be working on that. No real love is won without battles fought, that you can overcome together. No real Love is perfect, it’s how you handle it and grow with it, that matters in the end.