Safaree Apologizes To Erica "For Everything" 😩 VH1 Family Reunion: Love & Hip Hop Edition

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@mrsruiz2871
@mrsruiz2871 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna feel his sincerity, but his actions need to be much louder than the disrespect he subjected her and their kids to.
@stranger6258
@stranger6258 2 жыл бұрын
True..i might feel like he only does it cause there is so much heat im sure he feels guitly but i believe he will do it again.
@agapeagencyofvirginia793
@agapeagencyofvirginia793 2 жыл бұрын
I think that he knew that the fans was turning against him and they were saying that he was worse worse than even Kirk frost I think he knew that and he still thinking about himself and his career
@stranger6258
@stranger6258 2 жыл бұрын
@@agapeagencyofvirginia793 mhhhm couldnt said it any better..i truly hope he means his words.
@Nasia-
@Nasia- 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@NannoChii
@NannoChii 2 жыл бұрын
Im not at all sympathetic towards him but what we’ve been witnessing regarding this is the product of a child growing up without a strong family foundation. Meaning, having both mother and father in the home raising children. These young boys are growing up not knowing how to be a husband and a father because they don’t witness that from their own fathers at home. They arent taught how to be responsible men nor how to support a wife in any aspect. If anything, this should show the world the importance of children growing up in a solid family structure.
@jessecord
@jessecord 2 жыл бұрын
I love how she's about the children, and says let's focus on being parents because we can't fail the kids!!!!! That's huge growth on her part!!!!!
@lindaroselli5271
@lindaroselli5271 2 жыл бұрын
Erica has come along way. I hope they can work this out!!. 🙏 . People make mistakes. It's called forgiveness 😌
@YelenaBlanka
@YelenaBlanka 2 жыл бұрын
It’s very different when you are in your 30s and decide to have your children (yes I know Erica had a son over a decade ago, not that he doesn’t exist but I feel like this is her being a first time parent all over again), you are way more mature and you see things from such a different point of view, the person you had a child with especially, it’s so hard maintaining a relationship that could last until you die. People nowadays are so quick to give up on their relationship. I hope my fiancé and I, and our first and only four-year-old son could thrive and be forever soulmates. We have our horrible days but when it’s good it’s great 😕🤷🏼‍♀️♥️🧿🧿
@nataliemathieu2056
@nataliemathieu2056 2 жыл бұрын
She nuts
@toniageorge5850
@toniageorge5850 2 жыл бұрын
RIGHT
@heavensurvivor2097
@heavensurvivor2097 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I really like the mom and wife side of her. She has really changed mentally. She talks like a wife that builds her house up and is strong rock. Safaree need to get it together and step it up. He definitely capable. It’s just his maturity mentally has to catch up. He has a family now. It’s time to change. He seems like a good guy, but maybe just still not use to daddy and husband life yet. When you get married you can’t be a playa no more. That’s stops.
@mercelingawanas3241
@mercelingawanas3241 2 жыл бұрын
If Erica knows what's good for her, she will forgive this man and never take him back.
@angelamclorrain2860
@angelamclorrain2860 2 жыл бұрын
100%
@ren_7308
@ren_7308 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@gwickedtheking3807
@gwickedtheking3807 2 жыл бұрын
Why u people don't want to see other people happy u don't know him or her or u in there house or bedroom 🤔 no leave them lat them grow in love everything takes time We Are Men we make mistakes sometimes and women does it too Nobody's Perfect
@Nirobiscloset10
@Nirobiscloset10 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I did it. No kids tho.
@ChrissyRedd37
@ChrissyRedd37 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@chantelblake-cross3317
@chantelblake-cross3317 2 жыл бұрын
It’s so crazy how men are never receptive to our tears from the hurt they cause us but they always want our sympathy for their tears, it’s such an unfair trade.
@dr.100purrscent5
@dr.100purrscent5 2 жыл бұрын
Grossly Unfair
@mxx8778
@mxx8778 2 жыл бұрын
say it louder for the people in the back!
@truballa103
@truballa103 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all cry every day 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@mpumelelobeyers957
@mpumelelobeyers957 2 жыл бұрын
talmbout "men" talk about the dudes yo ass choose don't put us all "men" into this... SMH
@Pauwwhh
@Pauwwhh 2 жыл бұрын
Yes mama we have to keep it together for our kids.
@syrenxo
@syrenxo 2 жыл бұрын
The thing about a repeat offender, the word “sorry” is taken extremely lightly. Changed behavior will ALWAYS be the best apology. We have all suffered our fair share of trauma, mistakes & vices - but I believe they need to both heal individually. If it’s organic? It’ll come right back together in divine timing. I’m not going to bash safaree or Erica because no one can judge the next at all, but I hope they can move in a positive healthy co parenting situation for their children. People will always have to answer to the choices they make. I hope they evolve.
@biglatto_riah6722
@biglatto_riah6722 2 жыл бұрын
Children not child **
@BFick478
@BFick478 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said. I concur!
@bliszumstyle4632
@bliszumstyle4632 2 жыл бұрын
He will NEVER CHANGE
@v.g7279
@v.g7279 2 жыл бұрын
❗️👏🏼👏🏼
@tamudefoe7115
@tamudefoe7115 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@sharyageorge
@sharyageorge 2 жыл бұрын
So you wait until she’s ready to leave for you to apologize. They wait until they realize she doesn’t need them for them to apologize.
@Luscious_Luxury7
@Luscious_Luxury7 2 жыл бұрын
Always
@Mimi89_7
@Mimi89_7 2 жыл бұрын
He still low key miss Nicki that’s what that’s about
@jazzy5410
@jazzy5410 2 жыл бұрын
You don’t realize what you have until you loose it, Ig. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@legendaryreactions5312
@legendaryreactions5312 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mimi89_7 and I agree, I feel like he settled because he couldn’t have her and I feel like Nicki settled cause her life moves really fast and she wanted marriage and kids. Literally weeks before he was publicly with Erica he did interviews saying he misses Nicki and would try again if given the chance. His heart is with her and that’s why he does Erica the way he does. And I believe Nicki’s heart is with him too but she is too prideful to go back
@gwickedtheking3807
@gwickedtheking3807 2 жыл бұрын
No love and hip hop just shows u this was was way before the rich dollar s***
@NuMindframe
@NuMindframe 2 жыл бұрын
The word narcissist may be overused on the internet but Safaree definitely seems like one. He’s only sorry when she’s feeling stronger and ready to move on. But he had no tears and sympathy when he was breaking her down when she was most vulnerable. That’s exactly how narcissists operate. They get vicious when you’re at your lowest and want your sympathy later to regain control over you. I hope she forgives and doesn’t take him back
@theadvancedforce1017
@theadvancedforce1017 2 жыл бұрын
Erica is a Saint to you?
@NuMindframe
@NuMindframe 2 жыл бұрын
@@theadvancedforce1017 Yes I definitely said that in my comment. Re-read it and you’ll see I said that exact thing.
@theadvancedforce1017
@theadvancedforce1017 2 жыл бұрын
@@NuMindframe all the girls are bashing and blaming bm for everything. You think hatred in their heart is a good thing?
@James-hq2hw
@James-hq2hw 2 жыл бұрын
I hear you....and I partly agree. However, i think the best apology is a changed behaviour. I think she should give him a second chance. Marriage is not easy. This might just be the wake up call he needed....he is close to losing his family...sometimes we men are so stupid that that is what it takes for us to wake up and act right...LOL
@NuMindframe
@NuMindframe 2 жыл бұрын
@@James-hq2hw This man mistreated her while she was pregnant. That goes far beyond him making a stupid mistake. That’s just straight cruelty and no woman deserves to go through that while they’re carrying a child. Also please stop with this “men need a wake up call sometimes” thing. Yall are grown adults. Men need to wake their ass up in therapy instead of mistreating women.
@christineeugene114
@christineeugene114 2 жыл бұрын
I hope she doesn’t take him back. Y’all can coparent without the relationship. What he did was inexcusable, I’m sorry. When you mistreat someone the way he mistreated Erica, you can forgive but that person never forgets. Actions speak louder than words. I hope they are able to coparent and come to some common ground
@zionasdiary2885
@zionasdiary2885 2 жыл бұрын
what did he do
@tp8571
@tp8571 2 жыл бұрын
YESSS PREACH!!!! SHE IS IN HER GROWN WOMAN MODE AND I LOVE IT! HE DOESNT DESERVE HER THE PAIN HE CAUSED HER FROM JUST WHAT LITTLE WE KNOW IS INEXCUSABLE IMAGINE ALL OF WHAT WE DONT KNOW. IF SHE NEEDS A GO FUND ME I’M TOTALLY DOWN WITH IT AND I’M POOR JUST WANT TO SEE HER WIN WITHOUT HIM.
@eveevolution1607
@eveevolution1607 2 жыл бұрын
@@zionasdiary2885 yes what did he do all these comments and I still don’t know lol 😂
@sadoucelouis
@sadoucelouis 6 ай бұрын
Like my ex .. he’s a broken man and he will continue to hurt other women. He has to heal and seek therapy for himself before he can be with anyone else. Otherwise the relationship will end badly for the next woman.
@lovelysweetz4409
@lovelysweetz4409 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t do it Erica, heal yourself.
@missbell1634
@missbell1634 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@puffandpass60
@puffandpass60 2 жыл бұрын
Right I know a man who wants sum apology pum pum when I see one
@victoriaacmiller6797
@victoriaacmiller6797 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! She needs her space and work on her self. And let him work for it!!
@JL-et2nh
@JL-et2nh 2 жыл бұрын
This is why sometimes y’all shouldn’t talk not everyone family has to break up y’all Give up to easy
@623blovely
@623blovely 2 жыл бұрын
@@JL-et2nh right that’s her whole husband if they can heal and grow together and healthy with counseling separately and together that’s would be great
@Jessy_06901
@Jessy_06901 2 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that Erica responded with "how do you know" instead of her just saying it back to him.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@elizabethcooper912
@elizabethcooper912 2 жыл бұрын
Big facts 💯she held her weight with that
@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
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@ConservativeCoinCollector
@ConservativeCoinCollector 2 жыл бұрын
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@Arguewityamama
@Arguewityamama 2 жыл бұрын
And he couldn’t even TRULY answer that.
@animemangachic
@animemangachic 2 жыл бұрын
The one thing I can appreciate about Erica is that she seems very children focused that no matter how much pain Safaree has put her through, she's still willing to do everything she can to have Safaree be in their children lives. I have respect for parents that don't use their children as weapons, only to get back at their exes.
@marlak4203
@marlak4203 2 жыл бұрын
Don't forget she has an older child. She's kind of been thru this before.
@JM-ip1es
@JM-ip1es 2 жыл бұрын
Manipulation King... those tears were for him , not here. He likes the idea of a relationship but he doesn’t actually want to be in a relationship. He’s using her as a coping mechanism to get over whatever it is in his life.... But that’s not fair to her or the kids. People like this will emotionally use you and then once they feel better again will move on w/ life. The best thing for her to do is to set up boundaries and coparent
@houseofmatrix6174
@houseofmatrix6174 2 жыл бұрын
So Erica isn’t manipulative
@carmenjackson4597
@carmenjackson4597 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@missladyprincesse3757
@missladyprincesse3757 2 жыл бұрын
Just like my ex..once he is getting better he can't keep his words
@superwomanme
@superwomanme 2 жыл бұрын
Your comment was spot on.
@celiciaseremy
@celiciaseremy 2 жыл бұрын
hes not over nikki Minaj and hes trying so hard to move on
@jessicajohnson5817
@jessicajohnson5817 2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen him cry. Must be the liquor.
@Incogn3gr0e
@Incogn3gr0e 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t that mean he’s been holding in tears? They say a drunken mind speaks sober thoughts
@nonjabuloinnocentia2883
@nonjabuloinnocentia2883 2 жыл бұрын
I dnt trust him
@Miasaun
@Miasaun 2 жыл бұрын
When you drunk you show your true self💯,had friends and family showed a side I never seen before whether it's good or bad💯
@pamelataylor8947
@pamelataylor8947 2 жыл бұрын
Rite lol
@daisykarina5036
@daisykarina5036 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 😂😂
@NecieytheGREAT
@NecieytheGREAT 2 жыл бұрын
Well said Érica “ let’s focus on being parents”.. You can tell she has a good heart …but don’t let that heart get you in trouble… speaking from experience 🥴Let him Heal
@hep1731
@hep1731 2 жыл бұрын
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@美咲-w4h
@美咲-w4h 2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
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@Thealphaaa_
@Thealphaaa_ Жыл бұрын
I’ve been searching for the song playing for over a year. All these comments are about how safaree is and Erica has become. Forget them. I need this song!!
@jaerich9111
@jaerich9111 7 ай бұрын
Right!!!
@CCMIMII
@CCMIMII Ай бұрын
Girl use Shazam lol
@monique_dannigirl7111
@monique_dannigirl7111 2 жыл бұрын
Counseling is a MUST for Black Men. Alot of times we have grown men who don't have any Male accountability roles in their lives.
@ArianaPerez
@ArianaPerez 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad this generation stopped looking at therapy and counseling as if you’re a crazy person, I hope that now that women are more open to therapy after breakups that men also go to therapy because we all need to figure out how to control our emotions better, and understand hurting others is not a way of life especially with men in relationships.
@smackmurph7414
@smackmurph7414 2 жыл бұрын
Bullshit!!!!!! 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
@lildgame4321
@lildgame4321 2 жыл бұрын
He's 45 he knows right from wrong.its just nothing but excuses
@dtyson540
@dtyson540 2 жыл бұрын
Counseling is a must for black women as well
@kailamoore5331
@kailamoore5331 2 жыл бұрын
@@lildgame4321 umm he’s 40😭
@syrenxo
@syrenxo 2 жыл бұрын
It seems as though she’s slowly but surely getting over all the Bs he’s brought to her door step & I’m here for it. He apologized good for you but an apology doesn’t erase pain. They are both hurting in some way. Even his energy, when he said “I don’t know what’s wrong with me” it’s time for healing ❤️‍🩹 brother. Changed behavior is the best form of any apology. For their children, I hope they co-parent in a healthy, lovely way so that their children can learn healthy family values. All you can do evolve.
@Lushus40
@Lushus40 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!!!
@fashunsmart2007
@fashunsmart2007 2 жыл бұрын
That's actually very well said.. I personally have done some things I'm not proud of and the ones I hurt keep saying I haven't changed and I'm like I said I'm sorry. But the way you put I never looked at it that way. Thanks for the enlightenment.💡
@tianamariee6287
@tianamariee6287 2 жыл бұрын
I wholeheartedly agree with everything u said, as far as his apology, u hafta start somewhere, and saying that ur sorry is starting on the right path. Now he needs to man up and show her he means it by changing his actions/behavior. I feel like he expects the words to magically fix everything, but it doesn't work like that, not even close. I pray he is able to follow his words with the correct actions to make things right between them, but if not, hopefully they can get to a healthy enough place where they can successfully co-parent. Because at the end of the day, Safire and Legend are the ones that are suffering the most.
@choc4422
@choc4422 2 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@Lynda957
@Lynda957 2 жыл бұрын
Love this comment!
@yahwehsbaby
@yahwehsbaby 2 жыл бұрын
When narcissists feel their supply leaving, they come with the fake apologizes, fake tears, fake emotions to play on YOUR empathy (the thing they don’t have) to wheel you back into giving them what they don’t deserve. This is sad very UNHEALTHY. They love bomb you at the beginning so you’re constantly trying to get back to what you had in the beginning. I don’t like Erica but THIS IS ABUSE!!!! THIS IS NOT LOVE. Nobody deserves this.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@suzyj8708
@suzyj8708 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better myself. He’s also very manipulative, I used to be with a man just like him, now with experience, I can easily see thru these type of man thank God.
@brooklynforever1990
@brooklynforever1990 2 жыл бұрын
💯🙌🏼
@goddesshassanah
@goddesshassanah 2 жыл бұрын
This is facts Sis, been there. She has to be strong and let that man be, because men like him are dangerous
@jthompson4916
@jthompson4916 2 жыл бұрын
🎯
@Drill-kn5nh
@Drill-kn5nh 2 жыл бұрын
I actually cried watching this episode, I salute Erica for her progress. I hated on them cuz I wanted Erica for myself 🤣 but for real I would love to see more success and positivity on these shows so this was good to see
@mjohnson6901
@mjohnson6901 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Safaree made it about him and made her feel sorry for him, when he’s the one been out here being reckless. Narcissistic behavior 101
@LeeHanHart
@LeeHanHart 2 жыл бұрын
He said he doesn’t have anybody to talk to. Sir, your wife is sitting right there. I agree that his behavior is very narcissistic.
@mimi.w667
@mimi.w667 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they always do this I don't wanna lose you crap I'm lost I'm don't got no one shit
@cameron357
@cameron357 2 жыл бұрын
sad lonely hating women.... y'all can't pray for them or at least wish them luck... sheesh.
@mjohnson6901
@mjohnson6901 2 жыл бұрын
@@cameron357 Lmao, what gave you any idea that I was sad and lonely. That man is a jackass that craves attention from the wrong people. Nope not wishing her more hard ache and pain
@purgetheXYs
@purgetheXYs 2 жыл бұрын
@@cameron357 narc blk man alert
@thinasontshatsha7866
@thinasontshatsha7866 2 жыл бұрын
I just pray he's being serious and not playing her all for him to do it all over again
@Lushus40
@Lushus40 2 жыл бұрын
If he does, karma will pay him a visit
@kaylalove4835
@kaylalove4835 2 жыл бұрын
FOR REAL LIKE IF HE NOT NEVER TRUST HIM AGAIN
@thinasontshatsha7866
@thinasontshatsha7866 2 жыл бұрын
What's worse is that Nicki warned us about him and.we turned a blind eye she probably smilin like "l told y'all"
@leratohadebe4938
@leratohadebe4938 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Obeox
@Obeox 2 жыл бұрын
He’s fake AF
@lioneljohnson1825
@lioneljohnson1825 2 жыл бұрын
Erica has matured so much. I know she still has her hot head moments but her growth is astounding!
@stepcollazo8134
@stepcollazo8134 2 жыл бұрын
Thats true
@kd1love983
@kd1love983 2 жыл бұрын
She's tired.
@emmm_4465
@emmm_4465 2 жыл бұрын
@@kd1love983 this!
@jammijam_
@jammijam_ 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@美咲-w4h
@美咲-w4h 2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@realitytvoverdose6
@realitytvoverdose6 2 жыл бұрын
Ya'll still ain't found out who sing that song in the background
@alphalumaomegamind7314
@alphalumaomegamind7314 2 жыл бұрын
This is what I’m talking about! Erica stood strong the entire time and didn’t stray! Amen.
@hep1731
@hep1731 2 жыл бұрын
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@美咲-w4h
@美咲-w4h 2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
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@selwaa.h
@selwaa.h 2 жыл бұрын
If she has any sense she’ll never take him back but she’ll forgive him.
@tajbarbie3338
@tajbarbie3338 2 жыл бұрын
Period. I'm sick of people using marriage or children as a reason to stay sometimes if it gets too bad the best thing you can do is just simply focus on your children and move on and count it as a lesson some people are just afraid to be alone even when they know it's time to go
@rosemyrlinedavilmaralize2252
@rosemyrlinedavilmaralize2252 2 жыл бұрын
Safaree is so irogant
@ja3734
@ja3734 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it takes a while for us as men to get it together, and no one should suffer cause of it but that's why I rate this woman for holding him down better or worse, they can only go up from here
@stassyroze9198
@stassyroze9198 2 жыл бұрын
The kind of love she and her kids need, is not a feeling. “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on it’s own way; it’s not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. “ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
@sakaiahreign3365
@sakaiahreign3365 2 жыл бұрын
Periodt
@zazlar4228
@zazlar4228 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@美咲-w4h
@美咲-w4h 2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/en_YoKybqreFea8
@thickathanasnicka26
@thickathanasnicka26 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@dympiece
@dympiece Жыл бұрын
When she finally done or finds someone better. They always cry. 🙂 not crying enough tears I did.
@JustAkila
@JustAkila 2 жыл бұрын
I say Let him be miserable, its the consequences of his own actions. He thought It was ok for him to dump all over Erica for literally no reason.
@lovil6375
@lovil6375 2 жыл бұрын
It takes two tango; she was in the wrong too, And made a lot of noise
@toyalewis3045
@toyalewis3045 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@monicamartina6686
@monicamartina6686 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@Star-qv3lu
@Star-qv3lu 2 жыл бұрын
Y’all be so caught up with these storylines.. things can’t be that bad because she was just grinding on him on for her birthday
@xiamariansupreme72
@xiamariansupreme72 2 жыл бұрын
@@lovil6375 True, but she didn't repeatedly cheat on him, then leave him to go grind on Caribbean men while he's alone to be in the NICU with their newborn for over a week. He did that to her and did it without hesitation.
@godsforcefulremnant4597
@godsforcefulremnant4597 2 жыл бұрын
He didn't want to talk while she was carrying his kid I wouldn't hear him once my kid dropped PERIOD FORGIVE BUT NEVER FORGET!!
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 2 жыл бұрын
You sound dumb for that comment. You really ain't going to forgive anyway. You can't say forgive never forget because you really never forgave that person.
@Heat_Rush
@Heat_Rush 2 жыл бұрын
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 Your comment is illogical. You can forgive a person without going back to them. Forgiving them means saying, "I no longer hold you responsible for the pain you caused, and I'm choosing to let go of that pain." When you choose not to forget you're saying, "you showed me who you are, and I'm no longer angry with you for being who you are, I accept who you are, so I'll get out the way so that you can continue being who you are." If you think staying with a person means you forgive them, then you're saying every battered, raped, and abused victim should go back to those who assaulted them, and that makes sense to you?
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287
@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 2 жыл бұрын
@@Heat_Rush nope
@lovil6375
@lovil6375 2 жыл бұрын
So stay bitter, and what would happen to the children
@xiamariansupreme72
@xiamariansupreme72 2 жыл бұрын
@@lovil6375 How is that bitter? It would be ridiculous to go back to someone like Safaree after all he's done. Erica doesn't have to hold a grudge against him, but it'd be wise of her to not get back with him, because Safaree has shown her who he really is and hos true colors are nothing that Erica needs in her life.
@madame_ijeoma
@madame_ijeoma 2 жыл бұрын
I love that even though it’s evident that Erika has tapped out, she still has compassion for her husband. When he told her that he loved her, she didn’t respond with a ‘ily2’. Instead she asked him “how do you know?” He needs to really reflect on that question and give another answer.
@Sincere4Eva
@Sincere4Eva 2 жыл бұрын
Very well dissected. 👏🏾👏🏾
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/h4vKYaljh6emgLc
@eclecticsunrise
@eclecticsunrise 2 жыл бұрын
He hurt her to the core. She was all in for him. He dropped the ball.
@kyralashay7082
@kyralashay7082 2 жыл бұрын
@@eclecticsunrise he definitely did her soooo dirty like idk but I understand her like ugh she love him tho like 😫😫😭
@lekishajones8127
@lekishajones8127 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this part of the show I loved the way he opened up to her and she received it and expressed herself as well I was In tears 🥰❤️✨
@leelotero504
@leelotero504 2 жыл бұрын
Me too plus the song killed me and I still can't find the song
@whitdough8150
@whitdough8150 2 жыл бұрын
One won't realize what they had till its gone, stay strong couples!!! 💪🏿
@daphneepaul3737
@daphneepaul3737 2 жыл бұрын
Se vre
@coachzaynab355
@coachzaynab355 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, emotionally immature people do that. And are not accountable to their life choices.
@lalitstar2371
@lalitstar2371 2 жыл бұрын
Sa se vre
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@suadabdul-razak765
@suadabdul-razak765 2 жыл бұрын
He knew what he had, just didn't know he would lose it.
@cece82gemini27
@cece82gemini27 2 жыл бұрын
Safaree: "I love you" What he really means: "I love how you tolerate this behavior and disrespect" 😐
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@ConservativeCoinCollector
@ConservativeCoinCollector 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIC3i2h4maxgnck
@Ap-gk4rs
@Ap-gk4rs 2 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@tryna_be_better4549
@tryna_be_better4549 2 жыл бұрын
Why focus on the negativity. Comments like this and thought process like this are the problem. This makes it harder to heal. If she constantly thought he was decieving her. Our thoughts become words and words become actions. Everything you expect of someone is all they will be. So if she keeps expecting him to be a liar a cheater and disingenuous that is all he will be to her. She isn't tolerating disrespect. She's being a mature grown woman who knows that he's the father of her children. the children need her and him. That's why it takes two people to make children. He's not beating her up and he's never physically abused her. Unless he's a danger to himself, her, or the children there's no need for her not have him around. They have two children. Newsflash, they will forever be CLOSELY in each other's lives.
@_ladiosanegra
@_ladiosanegra 2 жыл бұрын
or "I love how you are my supply bc I have low self esteem"
@myexpi4542
@myexpi4542 2 жыл бұрын
The most vulnerable time for a woman is when she is carrying your child & to put her through all that drama while she is in the very essence of pure love, that changes you. You can forgive but you never ever forget it. Been there.
@AngieValencia-xh6ny
@AngieValencia-xh6ny Жыл бұрын
This episode is heart wrenching she completely loves this man 😢
@urbanskin
@urbanskin 2 жыл бұрын
This actually touched me. Imagine that, Safaree and Erica moving me to tears!!🤦🏾‍♂️
@djsamaria1731
@djsamaria1731 2 жыл бұрын
then you are wasting the miles😂
@urbanskin
@urbanskin 2 жыл бұрын
@@djsamaria1731 your probably right!!
@henrybryant4900
@henrybryant4900 2 жыл бұрын
This touched me too safaree is a good dude he needs to go back to the old safaree the old safaree didn’t allow anyone to disrespect his woman or he didn’t disrespect any woman I will pray for these two I have faith they can work this out.
@urbanskin
@urbanskin 2 жыл бұрын
@@henrybryant4900 I don’t know if he’s a good dude as I found him corny as hell and seems a bit selfish. But I did get some sincerity from him, something I never got from him before. I just want him to stop being so corny!!
@patricerenee1717
@patricerenee1717 2 жыл бұрын
Awww. It didn’t seem genuine to me at all! It was a tv and drunk moment. 🤷🏾‍♀️
@sophiaimperial8816
@sophiaimperial8816 2 жыл бұрын
Erica has matured so much I’m so proud of the strong woman she has become for herself and her kids
@razaanmendez9507
@razaanmendez9507 2 жыл бұрын
Erica, do NOT forget what dude put u through when u needed him most.
@fontellajohnson1420
@fontellajohnson1420 2 жыл бұрын
He wasn't there for the birth of his son, he can't be trusted.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@suraiyaabubakar5262
@suraiyaabubakar5262 2 жыл бұрын
you are not in the relationship.
@dr.100purrscent5
@dr.100purrscent5 2 жыл бұрын
This very disappointing. Erica is a handful for certain, but she has grown into a woman who takes her family seriously. She worked hard to hold on as long as she could, but she knows if she doesn't let go now things will only get worse. It's sad that she has to, once again, push her emotional wellbeing to the side in order to be the lead partner and parent in this situation. Men like Safaree have been allowed to be completely reckless with women with limited consequence to their poor choices and emotional terrorism. It's not okay to convince someone you are safe to love when you know you are not, marry someone, get women pregnant to only go out of your way to sabatoge it all. To then only come back crying and bruised from the Hell you projected and put yourself through. As she said before, she is Human! Why would anyone feel it's okay to treat the mother of their children like trash? It is as if toxic men view women as livestock they can %@$#! It's sick and it is gross. I wish Erica all the best and True healing. There are good men in the world. There are men who made mistakes and are prepared to show approve for those they need to make amends with. Real Men do what it takes to show that they are healed. They know the value of a good support team and will go out of their way to be a real asset to their family. Safaree has a lot of growing up to do.
@petrinamayanwilliams5244
@petrinamayanwilliams5244 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@marrrweee
@marrrweee Жыл бұрын
Absolutely the most powerful truth / perspective I’ve seen on this situation. Salute
@MAEVUIM
@MAEVUIM 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage ain’t easy. Especially when the world is judging you. Let them figure it out and we’ll support their decisions
@kellyb235
@kellyb235 2 жыл бұрын
That’s correct and that’s why they should’ve handled their issues privately because the media will force you to react in a way your heart may not want
@janiyahgee-neeley210
@janiyahgee-neeley210 2 жыл бұрын
Righttttttttt y’all to old to be judging
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
@originaleverythingelseisca5977 2 жыл бұрын
BEST ANSWER!!!!
@sebastyann123
@sebastyann123 2 жыл бұрын
You all are just so used to being treated poorly and use the "marriage aint easy" as an excuse to feel better about yourself for keep taking every crap your spouse/partner does to you.
@drknow1997
@drknow1997 2 жыл бұрын
The best comment for 2021
@kimkeller2983
@kimkeller2983 2 жыл бұрын
She’s right, they need to take the relationship off the table and just focus on being great parents to their children and work on their selves…..you can’t work on yourself or heal wounds while staying with the person who caused the pain. She can forgive him for herself, but certainly don’t take him back right now.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@joevic4674
@joevic4674 2 жыл бұрын
They married..the relationship is on the table until they aren't
@TeleeFONE
@TeleeFONE 2 жыл бұрын
I don't trust Safaree 1 bit, he is a smooth talker and manipulative. This crocodile tears is because of all the backlash he has been receiving for mistreating Erica and being an overgrown child.
@Girlforaction
@Girlforaction 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. He can kick rocks on the relationship. He needs to be a good father.
@Jessy_06901
@Jessy_06901 2 жыл бұрын
Yup my ex was exactly like this and like an idiot I kept taking him back for him to do it all over again. He also cried crocodile tears. Don't trust him Erica and run 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@sweetdeadlygyallala805
@sweetdeadlygyallala805 2 жыл бұрын
BOOYAH 👊🏿
@Tamoiii
@Tamoiii Жыл бұрын
Safaree is a broken man who jokes about and evades the things that he doesn’t want to open up about. It’s sad. While he’s wrong it would be nice if she could get what she wants and he lets her love him and he could do the same
@ariaxrose1
@ariaxrose1 2 жыл бұрын
Hes sad his ego is bruised now everyone dislikes him. He's too prideful he needs to be the good guy now to get his fans back
@angelicawolf2643
@angelicawolf2643 2 жыл бұрын
You said it!!
@keanyarenee8645
@keanyarenee8645 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I was thinking when I saw this. He thought his behavior was going to be overlooked because Erica is not well liked (and hot head). But once he saw everybody and friends/cast mates disliking and making him accountable for his behavior. This is the result he is not crying because he love her.. he is crying to fix his image/brand.
@美咲-w4h
@美咲-w4h 2 жыл бұрын
Asi con toy y sus mañas no se le aisuru.tokyo/shinigami hay nomas pa ra reirse un rato y no estar triste y estresado por la vida dura que se vive hoy.. Son unos de los mejores conciertos , no puede ir pero de tan solo verlos desde pantalla, se que estuvo sorprendente. Жизнь, как красивая мелодия, только песни перепутались. #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков .#垃圾.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@sweetdeadlygyallala805
@sweetdeadlygyallala805 2 жыл бұрын
I don't believe anything about him all I smell is a big pile of BS 💩!
@ZeeZee7
@ZeeZee7 2 жыл бұрын
Ive watched Erica Mena for a looooong time, her demeanor here shows her growth and maturity! She’s not yelling and pulling shenanigans, she is communicating and seeking with a person not ready yet to be on the same level! SUCKS balls but most women face this UNEVEN level of emotional maturity ALL THE TIME! Maybe through co parenting can both find a better place as individuals and parents!
@msnicole4777
@msnicole4777 2 жыл бұрын
Awwww, I really want them to work out. Erica looks like she done but I respect the way she's handling him right now even though he doesn't deserve. It's the growth for me.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@KyasiaDavis-cy3mw
@KyasiaDavis-cy3mw 8 ай бұрын
He wasn’t even crying 😭🤣 like no tears just dramatic
@sakaiahreign3365
@sakaiahreign3365 2 жыл бұрын
Move on Erica, this isn’t sincere. A narcissist needs his supply, don’t be that.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@Renville87
@Renville87 2 жыл бұрын
Show actions don’t just speak words. He’s narcissistic and I don’t believe the tears. You know how many time I’ve seen a man hit my mom or watching men disrespect my female family members and friends and they come back crying and they ALWAYS take them back, just for them to do the same shit all over again. 🤦🏿‍♂️ I’m glad I’m not a softy, I believe in tough love. My friends and family know after I give you advice one time and you don’t listen Go to GOD next time with your relationship drama, don’t call my phone stressing me out for your bad decisions to stay with an abuser. This is why I choose to be single. Also I know when A women is fed up it’s a wrap buddy. safari she said she’s at 85% so you got 15% of a chance to turn yourself around and be better husband to your wife and a better father to your offspring. God bless
@ashleystalling9957
@ashleystalling9957 2 жыл бұрын
Omg facts 💕
@frahelis_betzaida8466
@frahelis_betzaida8466 2 жыл бұрын
STRONG FACTSS !!! Preach !
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@phineasandferb4443
@phineasandferb4443 2 жыл бұрын
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@ajahjackson6482
@ajahjackson6482 2 жыл бұрын
she’s right, they need to focus on being parents and building a friendship so they can coexist for the kids. but anything other than that isn’t gonna happen. and that’ll benefit the both of them.
@Trina24747
@Trina24747 2 жыл бұрын
Vh1…. We NEED to know the song please! 🤷🏻‍♀️🙏🏼
@angelareid652
@angelareid652 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad he did this… he betta stay on track for his wife and kids.. he has a beautiful family 🥰
@courtneygordon6814
@courtneygordon6814 2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@blessedandhighlyfavoredwif7337
@blessedandhighlyfavoredwif7337 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly ‼️‼️‼️
@ren_7308
@ren_7308 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's better they stay friends and co parent
@ChrissyRedd37
@ChrissyRedd37 2 жыл бұрын
Man F him. Way too much damage has been done. She needs to divorce him & keep it moving
@bestgrandma7442
@bestgrandma7442 2 жыл бұрын
I really hope they work it out. But before anything they have to work it out for themselves before they can work it out for the kids they have to be 100 with each other. Don’t drag the kids back into it, if they just gonna keep breaking up it’s not fair to the kids..
@kellyb235
@kellyb235 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s just hope and pray this moment was genuine and not a panic… once she’s ready to give it another try.. don’t get “bored” again
@thetruthabouttee766
@thetruthabouttee766 2 жыл бұрын
I understand how he feels. It’s dark and it feels like if you engage your emotions you’ll fall into the darkness and never see the light.
@urmamasmamasmama
@urmamasmamasmama 2 жыл бұрын
I'm with u on this. But after darkness comes light. U gotta push through all the b.s. to get to the goodness. Sometimes we are meant to do it alone.
@KG-bliss
@KG-bliss 2 жыл бұрын
@@urmamasmamasmama always meant to do it alone... People don't understand that if you can't fix yourself, fill your own cup... you will always be looking to others to blame...
@ChanChan-ux8nn
@ChanChan-ux8nn 2 жыл бұрын
🗣 go to therapy instead of relying on the damage you cause to the people around you to snap you out of it!
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@Dee-uz3em
@Dee-uz3em 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Erica has a beautiful soul. No matter how much pain Safaree put her through she is willing to help him grow and become a better person. God bless her soul ❤.
@michaelaharris1402
@michaelaharris1402 2 жыл бұрын
Being in love with someone and feeling that disconnection when you want them most really messes with you and I think safaree is realizing that and Erica is at a place of numbness where she’s tryna find peace without losing her mind
@lunacy3
@lunacy3 2 жыл бұрын
I love how mature Erica was about the whole situation, she definitely deserved better. I still think they don’t belong together though.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@MEETMagazine
@MEETMagazine 2 жыл бұрын
How much longer until they really get divorced and she drops that tell all book and or interview? 2022 or 2023?
@expertexcavatinginc
@expertexcavatinginc 2 жыл бұрын
Early 2022
@fahadsalah3168
@fahadsalah3168 2 жыл бұрын
🙄 those are people like you u should look forward to that messy type of light let love win
@brittanystinson515
@brittanystinson515 2 жыл бұрын
I'm soooo mad that I'm laughing soooo hard at you🤣🤣
@ambermatthews4418
@ambermatthews4418 2 жыл бұрын
They’ll try again for 2022 for the story line then 2023 the break up and tell all will be the story line
@manuelescalera1953
@manuelescalera1953 2 жыл бұрын
@@milea4233 fffggfgggggg
@shanmac-brown6301
@shanmac-brown6301 2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know the name of the song playing in this scene?????
@thierrybrown2417
@thierrybrown2417 2 жыл бұрын
In order for them to work, they need to communicate better. No more walking away when things get rough. Be honest. They have a two magnificent kids that need them 100%. Be cordial for those kids.
@shrondasmith7544
@shrondasmith7544 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you too me I did feel he was sincere, but therapy and counseling for both is needed individual/marriage counseling. They both need to pray more and seek GOD Almighty with their problems he created marriage. They need to keep their personal business between themselves not posting/speaking negative things about each other because they are angry. All the yelling, screaming, cursing, and destroying things should stop they have a lovely family of 3 beautiful children which are all blessings. I want too see their marriage work for life it is hard but you gotta work at it and keep GOD first in all things.. I don't think divorce is needed yet but they may need to separate so they can work through all of this and take it one day. Safari has to grow up from a boy to a man and we all know as women that sometimes don't come over night. My prayers are with them and they entire family..
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@BrilliantBeauty-hn4fo
@BrilliantBeauty-hn4fo 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad he realized his actions were hurting her and the relationship. With that being said an apology means there will be a change of behavior. I wish them the best and hope they can work through their issues, so they can be best version of themselves for their children.
@eclecticsunrise
@eclecticsunrise 2 жыл бұрын
Watching him is cringingly triggering. It reminds me of my marriage and the times I consoled my now ex-husband after being hurt. He'd eventually go right back to that behavior, and I'd get hurt again. The only thing that stopped it was me leaving and being done with him. The behavior continues, but through him not paying child support and abandoning our daughter, who he seemed to be a super dad to... he left...didnt even call or buy her a thing for xmas. This is a man who, for the past eight years, has made at least a 6figure salary or year, but now all of a sudden quits a job every time he gets served the order. Safaree has made it hard for her. She has 2 kids now. She can't go party and chase men and bitches. She knows she's got to provide for them. He wasted her time and added so much responsibility to her life.
@wegonelaugh
@wegonelaugh 2 жыл бұрын
This is true
@TuscanWonder
@TuscanWonder 2 жыл бұрын
It's as if you STOLE my thoughts 💭. I'm very sorry you're going through what you are. I don't know my sister's full situation but she has three boys by three different fathers. And all I know is it couldn't have been me. If the first child didn't work out it definitely would have been me staying on birth control and vetting these men. Dating outside even
@eclecticsunrise
@eclecticsunrise 2 жыл бұрын
@@TuscanWonder Thanks
@andreamontgomery8019
@andreamontgomery8019 2 жыл бұрын
Sis you are not alone. My daughter father makes six figures and I know he’s not going to pay child support. The only difference is that I went through the system. I was never married to him. The state going to get his money. He abandoned me when I told him I was pregnant.. I can never take him back. You know what’s crazy? She looks just like him and act like him. Absolutely sad
@eclecticsunrise
@eclecticsunrise 2 жыл бұрын
@@andreamontgomery8019 I went through the state too. He quits his job whenever he is located. Get this, most recently he has asked for a review so he can lower the ordered payments. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@kamariatoure42
@kamariatoure42 Жыл бұрын
I know that look and that hug way to well that they gave to each other at the end. They do love each other, but they have no business together & it hurts when you realize that!
@ericasawyer8985
@ericasawyer8985 2 жыл бұрын
BRUH THIS WHOLE SCENE GAVE ME CHILLS N WAS SUPER EMOTIONAL LIKE OMG TOO CLOSE TO HOME, HOPE SHE DOES WHATS BEST FOR HER AND THEY WORK TOGETHER FOR THE KIDS
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@dyamondwhite3769
@dyamondwhite3769 2 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this because I’m going through the same thing… I’m not married but I gave my all in my relationship just for it to fail.. the love me and my ex used to share that spark we had all that is gone 😞💔 there’s no getting it back but I guess it’s for the better
@KG-bliss
@KG-bliss 2 жыл бұрын
It didn't fail... It's leaving space for better... He just wasn't who you wanted him to be... Let him go and keep who you are. There's someone who will appreciate who you are.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/en_YoKybqreFea8
@indddyyyy8821
@indddyyyy8821 2 жыл бұрын
When God shows you someones true head, you HAVE to do what is best for YOU. And it hurts yes, but the reward you get in the end.... That peace at mind. And you also learn to NEVER allow anyone else to do you like that again. I pray you heal 💗
@bliszumstyle4632
@bliszumstyle4632 2 жыл бұрын
HE'S A GREAT ACTOR😂😂🤣🤣🤣... ERICA DON'T FALL FOR IT🤦🏽🤷🏽
@Incogn3gr0e
@Incogn3gr0e 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget her 🤣🤣 she never owned up to that fake page either even after Jonathan called her out on it
@bliszumstyle4632
@bliszumstyle4632 2 жыл бұрын
@@Incogn3gr0e rite🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnSvlmCkithgl9U
@adrianalopez9235
@adrianalopez9235 2 жыл бұрын
The “I love you” and Erica asking “How do you know?” Had me clapping. I think he sees that she is DONE and wants to have a healthy co parent relationship and he doesn’t want to loose so he is “letting down a wall” but that is a little too late in my eyes. Where has he been when she was pregnant begging for accountability? Oh yeah hooking up with women.
@HOT8CHOCOLAT3
@HOT8CHOCOLAT3 2 жыл бұрын
People don’t understand this, but I have actually had two guys do this to me. They take their anger out on you because they are insecure, we get treated like crap and we’re in pain. It still doesn’t stop them from doing it. They have a breaking point once they come back to reality, but we literally don’t know what to do at that point.
@heytherelouise7884
@heytherelouise7884 2 жыл бұрын
Did you take them back and if so what happened..??
@zazlar4228
@zazlar4228 2 жыл бұрын
Had it happen also. Had to keep those toxic A Holes OUT ! Painful as it may be to cut ties, I deserve BETTER. You learn the signs and will never put yourself through that kind of BS again ever.
@debrajames3865
@debrajames3865 2 жыл бұрын
@@zazlar4228 well said. Show people how you want to be treated.
@black_kulture8001
@black_kulture8001 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@debrajames3865
@debrajames3865 2 жыл бұрын
@@black_kulture8001 respect is the key to a healthy relationship. All relationships must have respect present otherwise dirt will be thrown back and forth.
@shaceestoner420
@shaceestoner420 2 жыл бұрын
The hardest part about ending is knowing your really done. The fear of life being different than u imagined in itself is scary. But if she knew what was best for her. She’d forgive him but she won’t take him back….💯
@KG-bliss
@KG-bliss 2 жыл бұрын
That's right
@James-hq2hw
@James-hq2hw 2 жыл бұрын
i disagree.....they are married...marriage is hard....i beleive in second chances
@KG-bliss
@KG-bliss 2 жыл бұрын
He is not in the marriage to even say its hard. She was in hospital alone with a baby in ICU while he was partying up a storm)... the trauma of that, the betrayal, the deep hurt... He checked out when it didn't suit him... and then now he can claim a turnaround? Adulting is hard, one has to be responsible and accountable.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/en_YoKybqreFea8
@goodvibeswithteresa6961
@goodvibeswithteresa6961 2 жыл бұрын
WOW! I am crying. I am so glad that he said he was sorry.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/en_YoKybqreFea8
@empressnaja
@empressnaja 2 жыл бұрын
I've been where she is with my " ex-husband " and he cried and begged on bended knee with a ring. And my heart couldn't do it , I been forgave him. I just didn't want anything to do with him
@arbrieannalyne7293
@arbrieannalyne7293 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo I’m sorry but I can’t take him serious 😂😂 since that fake ass cry at their wedding 💀💀 Lol maybe it’s the liquor idk
@gabrielle5162
@gabrielle5162 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely get the same vibes! 😂
@arbrieannalyne7293
@arbrieannalyne7293 2 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielle5162 She don’t need to fall for that bs 🤣😩
@scarlettfa9853
@scarlettfa9853 2 жыл бұрын
Same 🤣
@shonfoster1984
@shonfoster1984 2 жыл бұрын
I was about to ask was they both really crying r was those fake tears like scrappy mom n yandy husband mom...when they called them both out for those fake tears😂😂😂
@legendaryreactions5312
@legendaryreactions5312 2 жыл бұрын
OK! This fake ass scene 😭 the love in their marriage can’t be real because I would never use my marriage for a check
@gabrielle5162
@gabrielle5162 2 жыл бұрын
The crocodile tears are real 🐊😂😭🐊
@bjewel3751
@bjewel3751 2 жыл бұрын
Erica is such a good woman, strong and she’s grown so much❤️
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@ms.marciasonkosi6687
@ms.marciasonkosi6687 2 жыл бұрын
This scene really moved me. I need the song playing in the background...anyone know who it is or the name of the track? 🥺I need it
@callilove8378
@callilove8378 2 жыл бұрын
Soon as a man cries.... we as women think maybe they get it....but they don't, their tears are weapons.
@PrettyBully404
@PrettyBully404 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, he will be back on his bs, give him a month 🙄🙄🙄
@nataliemathieu2056
@nataliemathieu2056 2 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@purgetheXYs
@purgetheXYs 2 жыл бұрын
Nah that's a fact. They try to say that about us but the same applies to them
@teriewilliams8614
@teriewilliams8614 2 жыл бұрын
Erika PLEASE don’t fall for it!! No one else NOTICED how she GRABBED him & HUGGED him 1st…ONLY me…okay!! #I’MNOTBUYINGIT!!
@jamilajones6725
@jamilajones6725 2 жыл бұрын
I think he was just being respectful seeing as how they weren’t on touching terms he didn’t know if she would want him to touch her maybe he would of asked but she did so he didn’t have to ..that’s a stupid thing to point out it means nothing
@jammijam_
@jammijam_ 2 жыл бұрын
He was breaking down. That’s why she held him. People don’t go around holding people when THEY are breaking down.
@teriewilliams8614
@teriewilliams8614 2 жыл бұрын
@@jamilajones6725…it’s NOT a stupid thing to point out!! For him to say “I don’t have anyone to talk to” is BS!! He didn’t BREAK DOWN till she said let’s just co-parent & everything else she said!! I do agree w what she said though “don’t kick a man when he’s down!!”
@teriewilliams8614
@teriewilliams8614 2 жыл бұрын
@@jammijam_…ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!! He’ll be back to treating her like crap in NO time!!
@jammijam_
@jammijam_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@teriewilliams8614 First, Girl why are you yelling? Secondly, this is just a storyline.
@ashleyelizabeth6435
@ashleyelizabeth6435 2 жыл бұрын
Wow 👀 typical tho! They always realize AFTER and TOO much time has past! 🥴💯
@arbrieannalyne7293
@arbrieannalyne7293 2 жыл бұрын
Girl I stggg!! They don’t appreciate what they have until it’s too late.
@alanbrown3172
@alanbrown3172 2 жыл бұрын
Y'all act like women don't fuck up too.
@arbrieannalyne7293
@arbrieannalyne7293 2 жыл бұрын
@@alanbrown3172 Nobody ever said women don’t fuck up. We’re talking about SAFAREE in this situation. If you’ve watched the show, you’ll see that Erica tried multiple times to talk and fix their marriage. He didn’t want to. So he can save that apology in my opinion.
@mimiwilliams8918
@mimiwilliams8918 2 жыл бұрын
TOO 👏🏾much 👏🏾time👏🏾 That part! Been there! 💯
@ashleyelizabeth6435
@ashleyelizabeth6435 2 жыл бұрын
@@mimiwilliams8918 Same! 🤦‍♀️
@BarefootOrchid
@BarefootOrchid Жыл бұрын
I just wanna know what that song is that's playing while they're hugging! 🤔🤷🏽‍♀️
@vibezwithtinaa863
@vibezwithtinaa863 2 жыл бұрын
As HE SHOULD !! Get your family back Dawg !! Y’all love each other so much & got a beautiful baby girl & boy 💗🤞🏽💙
@bliszumstyle4632
@bliszumstyle4632 2 жыл бұрын
FAKE SHIT.... JUST SIT BACK AND WATCH 😂😂😂😂 ACTING AT AN ALL TIME HIGH 🤷🏽
@vibezwithtinaa863
@vibezwithtinaa863 2 жыл бұрын
@@bliszumstyle4632 Thsts people problem now ! Y’all worried about what happen in the past !! LET DEM BE GREAT ! If he willing to man up & fix they relationship that’s respect ! & it’s called GROWTH !
@GreenGeeky
@GreenGeeky 2 жыл бұрын
@@vibezwithtinaa863 he should've went through THIS kind of growth BEFORE he got married and started a family.
@vibezwithtinaa863
@vibezwithtinaa863 2 жыл бұрын
@Truth Speaks I hope you wake up ! They got love for each other no matter what they been through ! It don’t have to be a relationship type of love it can be a friendship but THE LOVE IS SOMEWHERE !!
@vibezwithtinaa863
@vibezwithtinaa863 2 жыл бұрын
@@GreenGeeky okay understand but everyone growth is different . Things take time ! Meeting the right women taken time! They got married quick aab anyways so of course
@b4glady
@b4glady 2 жыл бұрын
He will break her and childrens heart again. She needs to take him to court and get full custody; he's unfit. He's very manipulative and a deadbeat.
@MsRaysuns
@MsRaysuns 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@rebeccaflores6826
@rebeccaflores6826 2 жыл бұрын
Man listen as a Scorpio myself we’re so loyal to the ones we love but when we get hurt we never forget idk if this is for a story line or what but Erica definitely needs to really make sure if she gets back with him that it’s because he’s putting in work !
@melissacarmona1358
@melissacarmona1358 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a Scorpio too. And that’s facts!
@Heat_Rush
@Heat_Rush 2 жыл бұрын
Yes hunny! As a scorpio woman, we love hard and are loyal to the people we care about, so when a person takes advantage of our love, we're quick to take back what we feel that person doesn't deserve, and we'll never be the same with that person ever again. It's funny how those people always notice the difference. Men always say to me, "you used to...." Used to being the key words.
@wonttrickmea1869
@wonttrickmea1869 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think anyone forgets 🤦🏾‍♀️
@itzmari21
@itzmari21 2 жыл бұрын
Same . As a Scorpio as well I definitely fall and love hard . Once crossed you can forget ab me ever being the same lol I’ll make ur life hell fr
@mzdiamond73
@mzdiamond73 2 жыл бұрын
But she definitely kept it real with him.With asking him you sure you love me because of his actions.So I know she's not going to go in anything with him blind it's all about the children as it should be.
@sherryashley3053
@sherryashley3053 Жыл бұрын
I'm proud of Ericka's growth 💛
@sushana8058
@sushana8058 2 жыл бұрын
Awww Erica is pretty. I hope Safaree grows up.
@mekasims1981
@mekasims1981 2 жыл бұрын
Her face looks a mess not pretty no more surgery 🙄🗑✌🏾
@leahmonet03
@leahmonet03 2 жыл бұрын
@@mekasims1981 she is very pretty
@mekasims1981
@mekasims1981 2 жыл бұрын
@@leahmonet03 yes but not as much no more she look like Trina Cuzzn Bobby 🙄 jus my opinion she not as pretty no more tome
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnSvlmCkithgl9U
@trefens5635
@trefens5635 2 жыл бұрын
What song is that playing in the background? Anyone know please?
@jasmynstevens7460
@jasmynstevens7460 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy that he finally opened up to her . I hope they make it I love them together .
@Tamarajohnson7000
@Tamarajohnson7000 2 жыл бұрын
What??? Naw it was diff the liquor! He didn't even apologize for putting her& them baby thru hell!!
@cj8803
@cj8803 2 жыл бұрын
A REAL apology is not saying just "everything". I would DEMAND him to specific. For cheating on her, for ABONDONING her and their newborn son, for the CONSTANT disrespect, and for always shutting her out. THAT is an apology. And he needs to SHOW her he can change! Words mean NOTHING! It's all about ACTION!!!
@hariniquejoseph57
@hariniquejoseph57 2 жыл бұрын
Ppp
@jammijam_
@jammijam_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tamarajohnson7000 Omg ya’ll don’t know what they talked about off camera. Ya’ll swear ya’ll know peoples lives.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/en_YoKybqreFea8
@Monica-lg7ov
@Monica-lg7ov 2 жыл бұрын
I need this song!!!
@lifeofnykee
@lifeofnykee 2 жыл бұрын
I hope he’s frl abt what he’s saying bcs if he put in the energy she put in they will be soo perfect!❤️
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@carmengordon5632
@carmengordon5632 2 жыл бұрын
I was moved to tears. It seems like he actually got it! Take your time Erica… if what he says is true it will speak loudly in his actions.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@AsweetAroma-b2l
@AsweetAroma-b2l 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@kimmie6924
@kimmie6924 2 жыл бұрын
His cry sound was super fake I get vibes of a fake storyline
@mekasims1981
@mekasims1981 2 жыл бұрын
Yes🙄never cared for them
@jeter68sharrieff
@jeter68sharrieff 2 жыл бұрын
Facts ..agree they both played this turmoil relationship script on everyone fake tears
@jasonsandate6585
@jasonsandate6585 Жыл бұрын
I feel their emotions hugs strong. Tears are real how much you loved them very powerful
@tyresmith9833
@tyresmith9833 2 жыл бұрын
I want Safaree to mean well, but the amount of dirt he’s done to her over the years is too much not forget. It’s hard to take his word when he goes and do the exact same thing. I feel bad for Erica.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@jayc8803
@jayc8803 2 жыл бұрын
This man is fighting for his family. About damn time!
@Heat_Rush
@Heat_Rush 2 жыл бұрын
This shit fake
@anairasoul6139
@anairasoul6139 2 жыл бұрын
A day late and a dollar short. She still reaching for the hug. He a little boy in a grown man’s body. Until therapy, I wouldn’t believe anything he had to say.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@beautifullove2394
@beautifullove2394 2 жыл бұрын
We have to start being stronger as women. He didn’t care about her tears and she shouldn’t be loving on him when he sheds them. That’s all they have to do to get some attention.
@rachelr1132
@rachelr1132 2 жыл бұрын
Women are already strong from the start, emotionnally stronger and sometimes too strong for some men. Men need to grow up, man up and step up to the plate to handle a graceful queen period. How does a woman been disrespected by her husband on national tv, now she's the one consoling him ??? Laaawd make it make sense ....😩😣🤦🏽‍♀️
@michelelee9009
@michelelee9009 Жыл бұрын
As much as she wants it to be real it’s not. As her emotional abuser he knows exactly what to do, what tone to say it in, and how to get her in a vulnerable position that will make it seem as if it’s “her” decision to go back into the toxicity that is their relationship when all along the narcissist in him is applauding his performance. What a beautiful woman, and as a mother to those children, she has to come to the realization that there is no fairytale ending for their story. On the contrary, this dude’s the villain in it.
@BeautifulKween_
@BeautifulKween_ 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that what she was saying was the right thing and he knew that and for him to hit her with the “yeah but I don’t want to lose you”. Just manipulation and sadly at that moment he pulled her back in. They whole situation was a mess from the beginning! I wish ppl loved themselves enough just to walk away even when it’s hard. On the flip side I feel like this situation was more so HER karma. I don’t wish this situation on anybody but ladies and gentlemen we must learn to listen when the signs are first shown. They relationship/ marriage failed way before it even started. Him having to prove something to Nicki and her just having to prove something.
@ambysounique4403
@ambysounique4403 2 жыл бұрын
I see a man who finally realizes how close he is to really losing someone he knows he cant be without , the fake happiness during the partying & with those other women was all a part of that wall he put up to block her and it backfired..im rooting for yall Safaree & Erica 💕
@jammijam_
@jammijam_ 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
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@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/oaeVq2d4gLadirM
@Alladathings
@Alladathings 2 жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I pray he really changes because she loves him so and they could be great for each other if he matched her output of love and commitment
@TheTamitude
@TheTamitude 2 жыл бұрын
Said perfectly.
@shrondasmith7544
@shrondasmith7544 2 жыл бұрын
I agree because inspite of all that has happened Erica loves her husband and wants the marriage to work out. It anit nothing wrong with that.
@booboochick8574
@booboochick8574 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly he won't.
@resikchanel843
@resikchanel843 2 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/hnSvlmCkithgl9U
@JBurroughsMusic
@JBurroughsMusic 2 жыл бұрын
I’m rooting for them. I hope they can work it out. Acknowledgement and taking accountability, is the first step and they seem to be working on that. No real love is won without battles fought, that you can overcome together. No real Love is perfect, it’s how you handle it and grow with it, that matters in the end.
@divinemuse6989
@divinemuse6989 2 жыл бұрын
Don't fall for it air-wreck-a.
@sansadrake4133
@sansadrake4133 2 жыл бұрын
Cyn 😂😂
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