Loved Ones Killed From Hate Crimes (Pt 1) | Unpacked With Relebogile - Episode 42 | Season 2

My loved one was a Victim of Hate Crime (Part 1) Guests share their stories on how their loved ones were killed for who they are
Studio Guests: Chippa Mahanoe
Zoom Guests: Nombuso Cele
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[@rachel4274]

The show we didn't know we needed

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Glad this could be that show!

[@ObviousNcube-de6kg]

Hi

[@tj7_sa]

I met Lindo in college (2015). We went on to become good friends. He was vocally talented, friendly and very fun to be around. What happened to him still pains me deeply. My thoughts and well-wishes are with his Family❤️🙏🏿. Likewise Bonang’s💐.

[@pertuniamashaba6004]

This pulled at my heart strings. Why are people bothered by how others live their lives, moreover if they are not hurting anyone? This is so diabolical.

[@ntombindaba806]

you may not get it ,but it is simply jealous and pure evil klaar.

[@natheeah7369]

I am from Guyana, your stories are very educational.....god bless you

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Great. Welcome!

[@phumelelekunju5563]

This is sooo sad ! South African men need to do better. South African communities need to stand up 🙏🏿 This is terrible

[@nolwazidivine9912]

Watched the documentary of Lindo on cutting edge🥺💔😭 some people are hurtless hle💔😢 Addicted to this channel♥️✨

[@pontsomudau414]

I think I watched it 2 years ago as well if m not mistaken.. It was so sad to watch💔😭

[@nolwazidivine9912]

Heartless*

[@nasiphituswa4848]

I couldn't even finish it, it was and still so heartbreaking 💔😿😿

[@pontsomudau414]

I once watched Lindokuhle's story on cutting edge.. The story was so heart breaking 😭😭#JusticeForLindo The pain of burying someone you love.. May Bonang's soul rest in peace ❤️

[@cynthiamagaga9061]

Me too... When his uncle got into details regarding Lindo's incident, his breaking down got me to breakdown also😭😭... The community should have defended Lindo 😭

[@ndiboe_m1496]

I hate the hypocrisy in men. The very same men who are absent fathers, rapists, womaniser and everything pain think that they deserve to live but somebody who just chose to be different doesn't. They even forget that the pain they cause to the kids they denied, the rape victims and the women they've hurt might be the reason why somebody decided to be different. SA needs to do better. Everybody deserves to live; even if their choices contradict with your personal beliefs.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

I fully agree!

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Ndivho you said a Mouthful 👏

[@kedifentsetaljaart5222]

Relebogile is so professional, I love her 👌

[@annwanjiku5923]

Me too ❣️

[@zusibone]

Thank you Relebogile for shining light on our community LGBTQI+.

[@nolusizodlalisa5573]

I'm crying for so many people who can't live their lives the best way they see fit. Imagine knowing that the world has so much hate that these people even think they are entitled to other people's lives and how they should live it. It's painful, sad and just makes me cry😢😢😢😢😰😰😰

[@olebogengmeea8998]

People who suffers from sense of entitlement always delude themselves into whatever that feeds their sense of superiority and they would do anything even if it means harming the next person just to keep their mental facade standing. What I could pick from chipa statement is that the old man felt he was more deserving to have bonang than chipa because he is a man and chipa isn't. Of which to me sounds like old man was suffering from delusion of grandeur.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Well put!

[@gracenovie]

Spot on 📌

[@joycenonhlanhlavilakati7161]

My heart goes out to the loved ones for losing family and partners in this manner. The offenders didn't just perpetrate hate crimes, there's a revolting pathology to their actions. You can't just butcher a human being who hasn't provoked you in any way. Hearing the details of what happened is difficult on its own. How much more those who witnessed these beastly acts?

[@malebogogaeepe8653]

Yoh.This is saddd..They must name and shame these people.

[@kgathanaruth639]

Thank you, I've been waiting from 16h00😉 😊😊😊😊can't get enough of these insightful shows. We love you sesi Lebo❤️

[@relebogilemabotja215]

Thanks for the support ❤️

[@ms.r1611]

😰😥😥😥😥😥😰😭😭😭 Yoh I just couldn't hold myself from crying. It's just painful hearing this. People truly fear what they don't understand. What I don't understand is why should other people's lives and decisions bother certain people.

[@MODIRWA]

I’m crying. This is horrifying. It’s just heart breaking.

[@relebogilemabotja215]

😔💔

[@ELLIOT8209]

It's extremely horrible what people do to others. 😭😭😭

[@Vanessa_TK]

I've just subscribed to this channel and I'm loving it😍

[@henogtjikune7483]

It so sad to hear what the LGBTQIA community goes through on a daily basis.

[@nonhlanhlamoyo8136]

Heartbreaking, thank you Lebo for your show it's very informative

[@relebogilemabotja215]

You’re welcome

[@reflioekheswa6314]

This is heart breaking I'm sorry to everyone who lost their loved ones due to hate crime

[@tumirasu8594]

We really live in cruel world, we live amongst demons everyday. My heart breaks for the lives lost and for those who have to move on from such tragedy. May God lighten this load from your spirits.

[@Nicole-og6df]

I couldn’t love this show more 😩❤️

[@spirittraveller7411]

"I am Leaving Now And I Don't Want To Leave With This In My Eye!" May their souls rest with the Ancestors in peace! Ase!🏔

[@potegomphahlele2983]

I'm very worried nd scared of this hate crime my son is gay..may their souls rest in peace

[@cynthiamagaga9061]

Our communities contribute into these murders💔, people just watch whereas they can do something to the perpetrators 😭

[@stellamooibedi9027]

The OBSESSION of being "The First" will have people not help you, but take videos of a helpless dying person....This is how sicker the society gets every minute

[@pointa2b388]

Chippa, i wish i had your calm spirit, i really do

[@relebogilemabotja215]

❤️🙏🏾

[@nomthandazomashiloane5207]

This is sad story. I have a sister who is lesbian 2019 early february my cousin come running to tell us at home "that they are killing my sister " we run to tarven where she was. She was so beating my heart was so broken😭😭. We open the case police call after months and says there's no evidence but the was medical report and witnesses. She was beaten because, she is lesbian. Is so sad how the police are not taking our cases serious and people treat other people. This story bring so much pain 😭

[@sontomtolo473]

This is so heart breaking😭

[@nomsazwane3505]

but why? why? why? even for them to get go to jail nje its still a slight punishment. Those killers deserves more than jail,angaz.. Iam shattered nje 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭

[@extremelyscrumptiousrecipe9146]

So sad to watch yazi, may they find healing and peace.

[@gugunompumelelo1023]

This is such a painful episode 💔💔😭😭 the world we live in... Condolences to both the families... Hate crimes 💔💔💔

[@francinahmodise4487]

It's sad how people are so brutal

[@sanelisiwemyeni3760]

Heart breaking

[@tadalaimwa394]

love from china, your addicted fan

[@relebogilemabotja215]

That’s awesome. Thank you for being a fan all the way from across the word!

[@africamos7408]

This is so sad 😭😭😭😭😭

[@aphiweK]

Who can people be this cruel and hateful 🥲🥲

[@stellamooibedi9027]

They lack self love and I don't think if you love yourself enough you will have time to hate

[@annwanjiku5923]

Ooh My God some people are so evil,how can you stand there and watch someone dying Infront of you and you're not helping really 😭

[@zimkhitha.h]

Painful

[@spirittraveller7411]

"Everyone Has A Right To Decide Their Own Destiny!" #Nesta🎶🎸

[@robimatiko3288]

Omg this is so much hate may God give these families grsce,

[@jeniferthanolo645]

Bathing SA 😥😓😭😭......mmane Relebogile tanki hle,as a student counselor am really learning a lot from u hey also I have introduced your show to my family,they love it a looot🙏

[@sweethingization]

I pray for healing for their families.❤🕯

[@minkymajaja8258]

OMG this is sad, every time my partner and I think of going back home to settle...we always talk about how our country's people cannot accept the LGBTQ community😩. It's actually sad that we are South Africans living and feeling more safe in a foreign country🙌...Morena a boloke sechaba sa heso🙌

[@ntombindaba806]

Inkinga thina bantu abamnyama ,we try too hard to be nice ,we refused to accept and respect others truth. A jealous person is very dangerous ,when they tell us and show us by all means that they are jealous ,we refuse to hear them.We want people to be something that they are not,thinking that trying to be nice its good,that is a big problem really.

[@user-cj5ss1hb3n]

Hate crimes is so painful sorry dear 😮😮😮😮😅😢

[@setsomotsoai6336]

These type of stories really bother me I don't understand and will never understand how another person living their lives bothers others Soo much to a point of killing 💔💔💔 really if a person has a problem with someone's sexuality then okay just avoid that person 😑 I don't understand how someone's life will another person sleepless nights hle bathong!!!! May the souls of the taken to soon rest in peace 🕊️

[@stellamooibedi9027]

😭😭re phedisana botlhoko mo lefatsheng

[@careerday4607]

💔

[@maryjo2394]

Interven it never happens in SA

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Vele o kena kae on how people live their lives

[@ThokoMjoli]

What kind of a community are we living in mara where we just watch while people are being killed :-(

[@mons7921]

😭💔

[@sandramazia4543]

Do I hear a different story from the two? Or maybe I haven’t been listening properly 🤔

[@nasiphituswa4848]

Yes babes you are, two different stories and different victims

[@sandramazia4543]

@@nasiphituswa4848 oh it’s different victims 😳oh I get it, was confused. Thank you.

[@stellamooibedi9027]

You must be really unhappy with yourself if you find a need to commit hate crime...

[@ObviousNcube-de6kg]

Woow

[@Mabobo333]

💃💃💃💃

[@francinahmodise4487]

I am here

[@siyabongantokozo2749]

Hate crimes are really disgusting. What’s infuriating is that there is so much ignorance and disinformation regarding the LGBTQI+ community. We all have access to educational knowledge about the LGBTQI+ community (make use of it), there is no justifiable reason for queer-phobia and hate crimes to exist in our communities. Human life must be respected regardless of race, class, gender or sexuality. The victims and their families deserve justice!

[@phindilenala6994]

😭😭

[@criticallyspeaking]

How much was the procedure in England. Thusang. We need more info. This trans confusion is infiltrating SA.

[@lullah85]

Do a bit more research on these procedures in Asia, esp Thailand/Phillipines etc....having travelled there plenty of times, i've seen and heard that getting your procedures done there is way cheaper than in Europe and the after care is first class....In Thailand, you cant even tell someone is trans until they start speaking to you or they tell you......Many people get them done there and go home after....Something to look into fosho!

[@khetimthembu8465]

I really don't understand guys who do correction rape or kill people cos they are part of the LGBT+ community. Like why are you so bothered hey😕😕. Yall need to get help 🙌

[@HousewifeofSoweto]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@emisto9sakina398]

His RRR 👍

[@molatelochokoe1867]

Nna banna a ke ba kwishishi I don’t wanna lie. It’s like they were birthed by the same woman 🤮🤮🤮

[@stellamooibedi9027]

Ntatemogolo mo ngwaneng