LOW or HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISM

[@comom2055]

“You’re the best mommy!” Noah is so sweet! I have so much respect for you as a mom! I think your channel is so beneficial. I go to KZbin to learn and I’ve learned a lot from your channel! I think you speak about Noah in a way that is respectful and not at all exploitive. Thank you for sharing!

[@ReineDeLaSeine14]

I do too! I learn too, even though I’m an autistic adult! So many parents forget their child’s dignity, consent, and preferences...I recently reported a video a woman took of her son in the shower. Stephanie’s videos are a breath of fresh air for me (plus we have the same name 😉)

[@ethanreslock]

Yes her channel is very beneficial 100% agree with your comment

[@jenniecook9]

I’m high functioning aspergers adult studying at degree level in the medical field. If I don’t disclose this information nobody can pick it. I’m completely self sufficient and I have two children who are in my full time care. This is high functioning! I don’t understand how anyone could look at your boy and think he’s high functioning and think you are “lucky” people are so misinformed about autism You are a beautiful family and your boy is so lucky to have so much support!

[@ShanterialW]

Jennie Cook I found you comment just in time I am in my 20s and I am afraid of being a failure because of the struggles that come from being high functioning. I really want kids and to raise a family you gave me hope that I can. Thank you ❤

[@SoniaLeli]

"High-functioning autism (HFA) is a term applied to people with autism who are deemed to be cognitively "higher functioning" (with an IQ of 70 or greater) than other people with autism.[1][2] Individuals with HFA or Asperger syndrome may exhibit deficits in areas of communication, emotion recognition and expression, and social interaction.[3] HFA is not a recognized diagnosis in the DSM-5 or the ICD-10." I took it from Wikipedia. As I understand HFA and Aspergers syndrome are not the same thing.

[@sadiediaz5877]

I love it when Noah says, "You are the best Mommy." What a beautiful little boy with such a beautiful soul. 😍😍😍😍

[@tonyar.roberts3358]

Thankyou you for sharing. My brother lived with our mother all of his life. He is 51 years old low functioning severe autistic. He is non verbal also. I had to take on the role as his care taker when our mother passed away suddenly. It has been a challenge because he does has tandrums and he bites. himself. People have mentioned to me that he may need to go to a group home but I feel that as his baby sister he has. lived at hls home 51 years .....so i moved back to my childhood home to take care of him. Thank you for inspiring me to continue....IT IS A BLESSING .

[@EvadoCouto]

You’re such an amazing sister! Definitely sounds like a challenge but it’s a wonderful thing you’re doing. I hope you have a wonderful day!

[@yordanosg9402]

You are a great sister

[@flybugsy9855]

I cried throughout this video. Thank you so much for your honesty and thank you so much for the respect you show your son in the way you talk about dealing with his differences.

[@nicolejclarke]

My daughters Phycologist tells me there is no such thing as High or low Functioning autsim. It's like a pie and every child struggles with certan pieces of the pie. For one is congnitive, another it's something else...

[@Autmazing]

Functioning is so complicated. And I love you channel more than ever after this post. When my older daughter was first diagnosed they said that she was in the lowest .5% of children on the spectrum and I've had people say the same things to me that you're hearing because I'm all about vaccinating my kids and I've been vocal about helping my kids fulfill they're potential but that I don't believe that doctors can cure who she is neurologically and that I wouldn't change the person who she is and her autism is part of that (and it's such a relief to hear the same sort of things from another autism parent instead of the same anti-vax and let's cure this hype!). Now her results usually say she's "low to moderate" but she's still barely verbal and generally speaks in single word lists, and only then about mermaids so... communication is... limited to say the least. I get so annoyed though when people say that you must not want a cure because you must have a kid with HFA. It's so dismissive. And not true. They just choose to use that rather than engaging in whatever the argument or debate actually is. Anyways, thanks for another great video. I love seeing you and Noah interact. It is respectful and I think that's exactly what the world does need to see when they see videos of families with kids on the spectrum.

[@MaddyLVlog]

Your video was suggested to me and I enjoy now a days watching smaller KZbin channels (also the title caught my eye). You sound like a wonderful mother with a very lovely family. My friends son is experiencing symptoms of autism. He will be 2 years old in three months and they have been having different appts to try to help him catch up (learn new techniques, reach goals, etc). He is such a happy and sweet little boy. He’s the first friend my daughter ever had (they are 1 week apart in age). And him and his parents mean so much to me. I see them (especially the mom) struggle. She knows something is different and she so badly just wants to fix it. She’s only mentioned the word “autism” a few times. I think it can be hard for new parents to accept that their child may be different and especially so when they aren’t familiar with the differences. I hope you know how many people appreciate and are thankful for your hard work in making videos. It must not be easy with a million other things going on. Also, helpful as I’m sure many of your viewers are finding themselves in a similar situation. I subbed not only to support your job but because I am enjoying your videos and also like the information you share on autism. I have truly found with the few people I know that have it, are some truly wonderful and amazing people with hearts of gold.

[@irishchick5528]

I don’t understand why you need to explain yourself to these people. It’s ridiculous that someone that would say horrible things about a child. Step into her shoes and take care of her kids and see if you can do it well. There are people killing there kids and your complaining about her that she wants to be a celebrity because she has 22,000 subscribers and talks about her son who else is she suppose to talk about Trump. Seriously get a life

[@kaseyhulton3185]

This video has saved me today!!! My son is a lot like Noah! And its so hard to deal with the high functioning vs. low functioning and getting people to understand its a medical term. Every kid with autism and sensory issues struggles every day to live in this world that is not designed for them. I love that you give other autism moms a voice and show us all that we are not alone in this crazy journey! Thank you!

[@kaseyhulton3185]

Our LANDing Crew thank you! I will try!

[@meshastatam6469]

I have watched a couple of your videos and I don't have a child with autism, but your videos are very enlightening. Your family is beautiful, and let me tell you. You are a really wonderful Mom. The way you get consent from your children, really says a lot about your character.

[@ariadnaprado8471]

It is very nice to see how you are able to share your journey with your son and family with us, Nobody can judge you. It takes a lot of effort, long nights and it is also amazing feeling the happiness and loving with all your heart that special one been himself. You are a great mom and keep doing what you are doing. I have a son with autism and I enjoy watching videos like this, we are not alone and we can learn from each other experiences. As parents we have to stay strong and do everything in our hands to help out our kids the best way we can. I respect your opinions and your points of view are very appreciated for many of us. XOXO

[@jenklinereed]

Oh thank you! My son is 16 and verbal, so lots of people think he can do normal things. Our son can tell us all about things he sees on you tube but the things I teach him in home school he can't remember How To add simple things. It helps seeing and hearing someone like our son.

[@1proudmamaof3boys90]

I just love how real you are and ur vloggs are. People are so annying and don't let them make u feel ur not doing the best for ur babies. Ur their mother and ur the only one that know whats best for ur babies. Honestly screw the haters and the people that think that their opinions are everything. People just need to learn how to keep mouths and opinions to theirselves.

[@jody_j]

Oh my gosh my heart melted when noah gave you a cuddle and said 'you are the best mommy'. It makes it all worth it huh?! Danielle is awesome with liam! Don't worry about your hair girl... my hair looks like a poodle's butt no matter what i do to it! Haha xx

[@EvadoCouto]

Jody J LOL a poodle’s butt! Me when I wake up 😂 I agree! Love this family, such sweethearts all around

[@georgiagarcia2705]

I have a 15 yr. Old autistic daughter she can talk bt you cant have a conversation with her she can answer simple questions and understands everything bt has ALOT of trouble communicating and tics like pounding on her sides when she gets excited. She has alot of melt downs bt thier not violent its alot of screaming and saying VERY NAUGHTY words bt I wouldnt change her for the world I feel blessed to have her and wouldnt want her any diffrent someone who doesnt have a child with autism wouldnt understand why we wouldnt want them "normal" as society would put it (shes normal to me though) bt until you have walked in our shoes I feel no one has a right to tell us how we should feel about having a child with autism.

[@andreaabdallah9436]

Just subscribed to your channel. You are an amazing mom to all of your children , especially Noah. I also love that you are educating all of the viewers on autism because there are a lot of stereotypes out there about the disorder unfortunately and it is all due to lack of education. I'm actually a Masters student studying Applied Behavior Analysis with a concentration with autism so that's how I came across some of your videos. Thanks so much for sharing your family with all of us! :D

[@presleyreece2142]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I also wanted to know his level of functioning. My oldest (6) has High functioning ASD. Noah is absolutely amazing. I almost cried when he said you were the best. Something about the heart of autistist kids that make my heart melt. My son tells me that all the time and i melt like putty. Much love from my family to yours. ❤❤

[@presleyreece2142]

Our LANDing Crew it helped me understand alot more when watching your videos. Thank you so much for replying.

[@rebeccaperkins9638]

People are just ignorant with the vaccination comments! Keep your head held high! Sending you love from me.

[@kyleaperrott]

She's not exploiting Noah. I would bet money, if anything, she's looking for a community of people who understand her situation and can relate. My sister was born with Tourette syndrome, as well as a host of other neurological disorders, and my parents have always had a very difficult time finding people their age who understand. You can't bounce parenting ideas off of people who don't have a disabled child because they simply don't have the capacity to understand the type of parent you have to be. At the end of the day, unless you have a child with disabilities, you really don't understand what it's like and you don't have the ability to. That's not me being mean, it's just the truth.

[@susuilu]

thanks for your honesty- I needed this!!!! Sometimes being isolated and having no one who understands what you are going through is tough. God bless u.

[@suze0217]

I'm one of the new subscribers to your channel but I'm NOT new to the world of autism and developmental disabilities. My son is now 33 years old. So I guess you'd call me one of the "dinosaurs" of diagnosing autism. I was thrilled to hear your discussion about genetics and what chromosomes are involved in causing autism. "Thrilled" because you're helping to dispel many myths surrounding the whole world of autism. Please keep your honest informative videos coming!

[@killerkate12025]

You help me so much when I watch your videos my daughter is 3 and was diagnosed with autism and I felt like my world was going to fall apart. I'm a single mother and your positivity helps me so much and keeps me going my daughter at 3 acts a lot like Noah with the talking and violent outbursts I don't believe you are exploiting him. You are helping people understand and you have helped me a great deal. For that I thank you so much.

[@doloresbaker6890]

I,m raising my autistic grandson, and as a older parent, I give you praise! for being your children's advocate. It took me a while to get legal custody , but when it happened I hit the ground running. looking for answer's. All your daily joy's and struggles show's others parents they are not alone. Thank you!

[@lizethdiaz8278]

I found your channel a couple months ago, when I suspected my 18Mo was autistic your videos were so helpful with seeing the signs. We got confirmation yesterday that he does indeed have autism and I’m still trying to come to terms with it, I tried to mentally prepare myself but getting confirmation broke me! Thank you for your videos I know they will help me with my journey as an autism momma!

[@nataliekhalilrealtor]

Now 122k!!! We love your channel and children. Thank goodness for your channel

[@taylorrr2731]

Noah seems to be the sweetest thing ever! He makes my heart melt!!

[@bronaschild2967]

So sweet when he said "you're the best mommy" aww I love that and I love your channel. Looking back through old videos now because I'm all up to date on the new ones

[@rhaewynsmom]

Yes! My daughter is diagnosed with autism and because she can talk, people assume I’m lying about her diagnosis. There are times she shuts down and just makes noises and thrashes. She’s my first and only child so I’m still learningas I go but it can be more exhausting and hurtful dealing with people from the outside looking in! It’s so nice to find your vlog! Thank you for sharing your life!

[@tracymcmullen5161]

So glad to hear that you are cleaning up your diet. Even if you are not trying to cure your sons autism it can still make a huge difference in childrens behaviors. I have to say that although we disagree on certain issues surrounding autism, like I hope to "cure" my 3 year-old grandson who is nonverbal. I enjoy very much watching your videos. You are a great mom and have great kids.

[@MelB868]

Autism is because their brains are wired differently. I have Aspergers.

[@carpetstick]

Mind if I ask you what you mean by curing him?

[@sam1gnon]

I love how you say the Noah Normal. As someone with aspergers, this makes me happy. What's normal for others might not be someone with ASD's normal.

[@catinthehat9498]

Apparently my KZbin decided to subscribe to you even though I’d never seen your channel before. It worked out great because I’m really loving your content! I’m so glad KZbin decided I needed to watch you!

[@catinthehat9498]

Our LANDing Crew I’m so sorry you have to even worry about negative comments! I could never be a KZbinr, I hate being around negativity. I just finished watching your vaccination video and I’m amazed at how you handled such a controversial topic. I’m very picky about who I watch nowadays since my time is limited but I instantly knew that your gonna be a favourite. I haven’t seen much of your family since I’m only about 4 videos in but Liam is so adorable! You seem like such an amazing Mom and I feel like there’s a lot I can learn from watching you.

[@ginaphillips6089]

I have 4 kids all with special needs. Both of my boys have autism. Functioning is so crazy! My 13 yr old has mild autism(with other things) but I can tell you day to day it changes. He is pretty independent but still has some struggles with learning, being rigid with his schedule and having meltdowns. My 7 yr old son has moderate autism (with other things) and some days it is more like he is low functioning but then he will have days where you would think he is higher functioning. My daughter is 15 she has bp but possibly spectrum as well. She is well above her age except for personal care and social functioning. My littlest she is 5 and has adhd and spd. she mostly functions on bouncing off the walls, lol! I think every kid and every family is different. We function at different levels from day to day around here, of course some things are consistent but not everything. you are super sweet with your kiddo and he seems like so much fun. He reminds me of my 7 yr old.

[@sarahsmith3528]

I just found your channel today and wow I'm already in love. You are such a great mom and you are doing Amazing! I think it is so fantastic that you ask your children if you can talk about them on KZbin. And I also love how informational your videos are. I've learned so much just from the few videos I've watched already. Thank you! You are wonderful ❤

[@vanessanatal381]

I have watched you here and there for a while and I just found out there is a strong possibility that my 7 year old has autism.I would love a more in depth video.Like what all I can do to try and calm my daughter down and other things.I do love that you try and talk about it because it can help a lot.

[@adriannapizzolorusso7849]

I wanted to thank you for all your videos. It really brightens up my day and makes me feel like I’m not alone. My little guy was diagnosed w mild autism over a month ago and we are currently having early intervention come everyday for a combined 22 hours weekly. He just turned 2 on the 24 of this month and he non verbal. But he is very vocal. He says a few words but never consistently and i don’t feel he understands them. In conclusion I just have been dealing with this very stressful and complicated situation and I’m learning more and more about it. We all have high hopes for my son and his prognosis seems to be great. You bring me so much strength to go through those tough days. It tough and there are so many good days as well but at the end of the day your strength brings me hope and things to look forward too. Thanks girl!!

[@kaitlyndavis7884]

You are such an amazing mom. Seriously! I love watching your videos! You have such a special positivity!!

[@rationalraven8956]

You seem to have a great perspective, Noah sounds like a great kid! The most recent autism research is making it more and more difficult to label people with a specific "functioning" level. The trend is to focus more on what each individual's specific functional limitations are for determining which kind of support they will need, instead of placing them in broad categories. In fact, the terms "high functioning" and "severe" are not used in the DSM-V, there are actually 2 separate severity indicators ranging 1-3 for communication and behavior, as well as separate mentions for language and intellectual impairments. For example, I didn't have any language delay, which is the main reason I was labelled as "high functioning" (under DSM-IV), but to me it looks like Noah is a lot more outgoing and expressive than I was at that age. I may have had the language in my head, but I didn't know how to use it in a conversation or how to form friendships. I was fairly advanced intellectually, another reason for the "high functioning" label, but I had significant delays with personal care and still struggle with that as an adult. I could write a thesis and still have trouble cooking dinner and brushing my teeth. All that to say, it's just not as simple as saying one person is "higher" functioning than another, we all have different strengths and weaknesses.

[@socks8817]

that hug at 3:42

[@AlmostHippieKnitter]

Thank you for this video. I think this is my future and often i am scared to tears. My son who is 2.5 has been diagnosed as probable autism spectrum disorder by his pediatrician. I am waiting on a behavioral specialist to officially diagnose him. and I admit this has caused me to be more than scared for his future. I have been watching your videos and learning and I appreciate you making them.

[@tessacoleman4441]

Thank you for sharing all things autism. We are newish to the autism world. Our almost 6 year old was just diagnosed with high functioning autism in October. We are still learning.

[@sheisasurvivor8479]

We (me and the other 22k) love watching your family Stephanie! I prefer watching your channel over the “perfect” KZbin families who are rich 😬

[@nathanjw940]

Noah seems to always exceed what the doctors say. I would say that coordination issues from my experience is like trying to control things with a loose rope it's much harder. Meltdowns do occur on all levels of the spectrum. Noah's very good at being able to communicate better than most high functioning autistic kids. It doesn't mean he doesn't struggle but I hope he can live the best life he can.

[@chelsey7312]

I'm in love. You're the best parent from what I can see, and I'm so happy and excited to keep watching! I guess I landed here from Fathering Autism! Subbed!

[@deborahregina8955]

I'm a teacher for students on the spectrum and I appreciate what you do. I'm new on your channel and it's fun to watch a mother's prospective. 😊

[@angelachisler7129]

I have JUST found your KZbin channel today, & have only watched 3 videos, but I'm in love with your family! You're so inspirational, & upbeat. God Bless you & all of your sweet children! I want you to know that my little girl, who is also 10 like Noah, said that "Noah would be a good, & funny friend!" He's very precious. Lot's of love from West Virginia! 💙💜💛💚🧡

[@toystorylover5257]

Love this video! Noah is so sweet and I do not think people need to assume that you are exploiting him! You are trying to raise awareness for something very important to you! You do you girl! Noah is not high-functioning but you are helping him fulfill his potential in life so that is a blessing! Maybe he'll be a KZbinr when he grows up! You never know! Following in his mom's foot steps! Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!

[@ameliabradshaw3583]

You are an awesome mom all children are a blessing autistic or not. Your bring awareness not exploiting keep up the good work

[@sabrinabaran5491]

How wonderful is it that you ask your son first if it is OK to talk about his Autism. You're my role model seriously.

[@tiffsjourney877]

I think it was awesome of you and very respectful of noahs feelings for you to ask Noah if he minded you talking about his autism. I 100% admire and respect you for that. Some parents don't care and it's sad. *#MuchRespect*

[@maryfleming7359]

u r a great mother and i love the way noah loves u.let the haters hate girl!my son is 19yr old high functioning autism and he has difficulties in alot of things,i take care of basically everything for him because he don't have motivation at all,he probably will be living with me for a while i feel,and i have a daughter thats low functioning so i am in for the ride and i am cool with it.u do what u have to do for your kids they r depending on u....

[@kimberly0717]

Yes, it's something about when they are sleeping that you look at them and the love comes out..❤️

[@Lisa-oc5ds]

New subscriber here! You're an amazing mom and a huge inspiration for positive living. I can't believe all that you do every single day, keep it up! You shared testing and evaluating your two little ones for autism, could you make a video on your experience with the early signs for them and Noah? I think that would be really interesting and possibly help with some of the misinformation that's out there.

[@chubbiebunnie2605]

Thank you so much for not exposing your babies. You are the best mom & I so happy your kids were blessed with you.

[@alexise.2270]

My husband and I eat a Ketogenic, all whole food, diet. It's delicious and.... bacon. =) I've worked with kiddos with Autism and Noah is doing well (because of your hard work) but he's not high functioning. I have no illusions about your life and how hard you have to work. Big hugs to you on that one! I had a KZbin channel. I had to laugh at the celebrity comment. =P

[@bartman1238]

Alexis E. At same diet epileptics use

[@joanmcgilton5148]

Noah is a sweet boy. He reminds me of my grandson. He tells his mom the same thing to his mom your the best mommy ever!

[@quieshehope1352]

Stephanie, I was wondering how many viewers you had now, fantastic and congratulations! Noah, is handsome child and your doing great with him, with all your children. You have had such a big yr with major changes, its amaging that you still have hair on your head. Please keep that beautiful smile a dont let ther haters and trolls take it away.

[@zaedabaeda]

Functioning labels are harmful it’s better to say “high support needed” or “low support needed”

[@riannamajzoub5241]

I like to refer more to the style of communication used by the individual in question. Verbal with a bit of jilt or NVC/Non-Verbal Communication used mostly. Just because an individual is Verbal does not mean that it can be hard to get your point across. Take it from someone who knows and has been able to use both NVC (I can use ASL but I am not fully fluent)and Verbal

[@naomin5397]

Thank you for being real! I have a nephew with low functioning autism also. So will definitely be watching and learning from your videos!

[@jeanguerrero8305]

For me, the labeling of high and low functioning autism is for medical professionals to address needs and therapy. The actual high and lows are for parents to manage and address in day to day basis. It’s true that it’s different everyday.

[@kimberlierusk2136]

Amen to the vaccine crap.

[@jessicaadams6190]

I think it says a lot about a “parent” that they would rather have a dead child than an autistic child

[@beckyhyams8314]

Hey I'm a new subscriber, I'm 15 and doing work experience at a school for children with special needs ( mainly autism) and i find your videos very intresting and educational, wish everyone could except people with disabilities just like people with out as we are all human and all experience feelings, sometimes just in different ways ❤

[@BookloverFantasy92]

I love watching your clips. I totally get it. my son is 21 months old and we just had his paed appointment last week. he doesn't like to label or diagnose on first visit, but we have another appointment on his birthday. I have a few family members with autism, and I feel my son is as well. We have 3 words and a couple of new sounds now. But other then That he's pretty non verbal. your clips have been super helpful and I can't wait for my son to say I love you.

[@ReineDeLaSeine14]

I really don’t like functioning labels (I do understand their “purpose”). I speak, am very academically gifted, and have more ability to say what I’m feeling (I have done DBT which is a huge help) to the point that people who aren’t with me wouldn’t know about my autism. I am still significantly disabled in sensory processing and executive function. There definitely seems to be a difference between male/female people on the spectrum. My partner allows me to discuss their autism...unlike me, they really struggle with verbal expression, melt down in a different way than me, and have different/more stereotypical stims. I do live in my own apartment with PCA assistance through my state, but don’t think I could live on my own successfully without support.

[@carpetstick]

I also don't like functioning labels or severities. In my eyes, autism is autism, you can't be more or less autistic. I've been overestimated my entire life, but I cannot live alone, can't express my needs, struggle with executive function a heck of a lot, etc. I would be considered high functioning, but honestly, I don't deal well with being called that. If people say you're high or low functioning, they're looking at how much of an inconvenience you are to them (in my experiences). I tried living in my own apartment with support and my own coordinator, but I couldn't. Now looking at a residential place with 24/7 staff, which is kind of a bummer as I was hoping I could do without it, but I just can't. Academically I did very well until a certain point, then it kinda stayed at that level and I'm struggling to learn more. That seems to be a bit of a pattern in my life; I was very ahead in certain things (behind in a lot of things too, mind you) and was seen as very mature for my age as a kid, but then that stopped and now I'm seen as immature and not at the point I should be for my age. Every time I speak up about my disliking of functioning labels, and give real life examples of why and how they're harmful to me, as well as the autistic people I talk to (which are a whole lot), people just say I'm ableist and neurotypical trying to spread hate. It really brings me down, but you really can't change some people's minds. Autism means that your brain's hard wiring is different, it functions differently than neurotypical brains. That's why if you're autistic, you're autistic. That's it.

[@danielonn2002]

I love your family and vlogs on Noah and the Fam.God Bless Y'all

[@elizabethhuitt8656]

Thank you, I appreciate you and your family sharing these things :)

[@mackenzieb2218]

im a new follower, and the first video i saw of yours was noah being silly, and i instantly fell in love with your family. you are raising such a sweet boy, my heart melted when you asked him if you could talk about his autism. you have such respect for him, and it shows in how he responds. LOVE YOU, and keep being awesome noah

[@decemberkid93]

I was diagnosed with Aspergers when I was 16, I’m currently 24. I found college a struggle but I also have a mental illness. I have meltdowns occasionally. I’m extremely high functioning as they put it. I also still live at home. Hope you have a good day.

[@stephanietanner2092]

I'm a new Subscriber :) My son will be 3 in May. He starts evaluations for ASD in April. We've unfortunately been waiting since oct. but out local dr has been booked, and the 2nd dr we had left the Office. The closet Autism Center is about 4-5 hours away, which will be our next step if these Drs(not his ped) here thinks he is on the spectrum....anyways I just wanted to mention that you are the reason I also want to have genetic Testing on him done..., which Iintially turned down because I didn't really understand what it all meant. He was born with Bilateral Hydronephrosis and had surgery at 6 weeks. He was about 20-25weeks in utero and, the Dr at the specialist offered genetic testing since its a birth defect. Where we are standing now he is very behind in speech and practically non-verbal with most people. Only 2 people he will really try and say stuff with and that's me and his daycare provider, Still wont call me Mom.,,Mommy etc.. But coming across your channel I am very curious about the genetic part of it. Max is our only child, and I do want more also. thank you for being as open as you are, and letting us in, the things you have to say are very informational and you have no idea how helpufl it truley is. thank you!

[@katharinemeade3220]

I am so happy I found you too! My family has a lot of autism in it as well. My brother has a little level of autism and I guess so do I but it doesn’t really matter. Me and him have been bullied all of our lives and I am happy that you guys share your family And to say that we are not alone is amazing.

[@cruiser122s.d.8]

Everybody has strengths and weaknesses. My sibling and I are all a part of the spectrum and are considered "high functioning". We have other disabilities as well, and choose to work on our weaknesses and share our strengths. You are doing awesome!!!

[@socialglitch2663]

I think people tend to determine functionality of others based on their own personal experiences with autism. If their child struggles with speech, a child who does speak is automatically deemed “high functioning”, irrespective of other challenges, which might be quite severe. If a child struggles academically, a person who doesn’t struggle academically is automatically classed “high functioning”, despite the fact that they might be severely impaired in all other domains. In my case, people would deem me “high functioning” based solely on writing this paragraph. But they wouldn’t know I am 35, have never dated, never been in a relationship, cannot work, have never lived alone from my mother, flunked school, and have no friends, have zero eye contact, repetitive behaviors and self injury (hitting, biting) that has sent me to the ER, and need help from a center for the developmentally disabled to function. Diagnostically, all the doctors label me “moderate”, but speech wise, people want to say “high functioning” based on that one trait alone. I think its important to remember there is a whole person and the “severity” of autism is determined by overall need and impairment, not just one or two traits in isolation. Great video.

[@triptikumar9480]

Plz stay strong nd away from all the negativity. U r awesome nd u love ur kids so much.

[@laurarivera1275]

this is one of your first videos im seeing and honestly i love you guys already and noah is so sweet ! i love that you ask him for his input !!

[@Tanya_loudestgarden]

You have no idea how many times I've had to say the same thing about talking vs communication. I feel like because my son is still really young I don't think people get how low functioning he actually is. At 5 most typical kids aren't the greatest communicators but the differences my son probably won't get much if/any better as he gets older like those typical kids do. I also hate when people say if I socialize him more he will get better at socializing (even had his OT therapist say this) but my son doesn't learn by watching other people. That's a pretty common thing with kids with autism. They don't pay attention to social norms so why would "socializing" him change that? My son does not have the diagnosis of having an intellectual delay or disability on top of autism but I can tell you academically he is a little delayed. His 3 year old brother has definitely passed him in most academic areas. To me the academics are such a small part of the picture. It's those life skills that concern me. Our church has been less than helpful or accepting of my little guy's limitations and it's becoming a huge frustration.

[@work_matt_9546]

I had croup lots of times when I was a baby. What helps is my parents exposed me to either immediate cold or steam. Just turn on a really hot shower and let it steam if you don’t have access to immediate cold. Anyways, hope I could help!

[@elithornburg]

I’m in the process of getting diagnosed with high functioning autism. They call it a spectrum for a reason. I also work with low functioning autism, it’s interesting how they put on labels. But it’s most likely adaptive functioning.

[@transgender56]

You're a great mom and God bless you Noah seems like he's doing wonderful

[@carlys.6354]

In my town we have a place that works with people with Autism and other disabilities. It is the best thing ever my friend goes there for her Autism and I work in the kitchen at a different one 35 minuet from my town they work with them and they help take care of the individuals they are amazing I love what goes on bless your family

[@brendapatrickwilson9545]

My daughter is mildly autistic high functioning slash they are superior when it comes to being smart you do not need to explain yourself to these people your the best mom ❤! It gets so hard sometimes u just cry these people are not us we do our best everyday ...everyday its different with our kids

[@danielonn2002]

Autism comes in many forms. You love Noah for who he is. That's all thatclunts.

[@KatTheTruth]

I think it is obvious that Noah is not high functioning. I mean he isn't the lowest functioning but I can see how challenged he is. That being said, I can see how hard you and he work to be at the level he is. I am sorry people harass you about vaccines. That is not what you need. I am loving your channel. My nephew is also low functioning autistic and I know how hard it is. You do a GREAT JOB!

[@hydrofire1296]

My toddler who is autistic also started having bronchiol issues at 8 weeks old. Also began to present food allergies even though we had an extremely controlled organic whole food diet. We did not vaccinate because of reactions observed in other family members who are also in the spectrum. Just like all children on the spectrum experience different effects from the condition, vaccines also effect them differently. Family history and parental choice is the best way to go when it comes to vaccines. NO ONE should be judged or forced vaccines, it should be parental choice. I support those who choose to vaccinate and should receive the same support for my choice not vaccinate.

[@toystorylover5257]

This video answers a lot of my questions about Noah! Noah seems like such a sweet boy and I know you would never exploit him and want you to be a celebrity because of him! I understand that you want him to be self-sufficient so he can live the life he wants to live! You are a sweet mama to Noah just like my mom is to me! I believe Noah will be successful one day being a game developer because that is his special interest! That is what he is good at and I just know he will have a great job when he gets older! Thanks for sharing with us! I wish him good luck in life!

[@chromo3677]

Thumbnails with u and Noah are SO adorable!!

[@_little_mama_purple3452]

You are right about what you said wantinh to make it easier for him and not change who he is. My son 5 years old and he just start trying to talk plus he now doimg Baby babble. Your are a great mother.

[@laurajoshi6474]

You are amazing and a very patient mother I could learn lots from you

[@clothyoriginal]

Hi. Newbie here, not sure how I found you think you just popped up but I've been interested in learning more about autism and the way if affects everyone differently, esp as children. We had to do a module on it for college but im learning way more from youtube

[@swimmermusician2012]

Is Noah on the track for a high school diploma or certificate as of right now? I have mild autism (PDD-NOS) and it took me so long to get to where I need to be today.

[@jimcarreyonline]

Omg thank you for leaving Lonnie Jr and Danielles bathroom habits out of the videos!lol

[@ashleighray7503]

I know this is far in future but Eastern New Mexico University has a college program individuals with ID. They help the students with self care if needed. Students live on campus, I believe for the entire summer and they go to class. I just wanted to let you know that Noah has that option if he ever wanted it.

[@josiem1890]

You go girl Noah has a high functioning heart

[@stephbutlandful]

HI there! I was just wondering about services in Jackonsville. I watch FatheringAutism as well, and they seem to be able to find services in Jackonsville. I am wondering if messaging them might help? Not sure, but a thought.

[@danielonn2002]

Noah is soo amazing and I am so proud of his accomplishments. You are such an amazing Mom and I am so thankful for your KZbin channel. I am researching the field of accessible travel for individuals with disabilities and hope to stsrt a Tour company abroad that caters to traveplers with disabilities such as Autism.I woild love to email you or chat with you to help my research. You are my mentor. I was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism as a kid but have overcome my disabilities and even fly alone on internatoonal flights. I had a tough childhood and waa bullied. There is hope for Noah no not a cure but gain more independent living skills. Community Based Instruction would help Noah.

[@wemuk5170]

HF and LF are all about IQ. My paediatrician told me that my son has HF autism or Aspergers just because he has no challenging behaviour (“CB”) but she was so wrong! His educational psychologist subsequently did tests on him for several days & concluded that his paediatrician was completely wrong. His IQ is under 70 (meaning he has Intellectual Disability/mental retardation) so he definitely does not have HFA/Aspergers syndrome. Just because you are happy, content, calm and good as gold as a role model in school & at clubs, does not mean you have HFA/Aspergers. Lots of young people with HFA/Aspergers have challenging behaviour which goes to show that aggressive behaviour is not necessarily related to intellect even though aggression can be affected by a lack of intellect at times (since CB is a form of regressive communication for those who cannot communicate).

[@Callieistappingin801]

There is a school in Jacksonville called Jacksonville School for Autism (JSA) specifically for autism have you looked into that option for Noah?

[@Callieistappingin801]

I would contact them if I were you. I know they do some ABA therapy I dont know if they do other types though.. I am currently studying for my Masters degree in Special Ed. I will soon be specializing in ABA therapy and Autism education! If I can offer any support don't hesitate to ask.. :) I am prob your newest subscriber. lol

[@heyitsnohemi470]

I love Noah he’s super cute 😍 all your kids are great but Noah is my favorite ♥️😍😍

[@rainbowdrops6869]

It doesn’t matter what Noah is able to do or not. What matters is his character. This is the first video I’ve watched from you. I’ve an autistic friend who’s nonverbal, I wish for her she could talk because I know frustrating it is if you cannot communicate. But Autism is just a label, we might function a bit different than neurotypic people, but our blood is still redemption, we’re still human and autism is a part uf us, just like maybe for example our colour of eyes. Acceptance as it is. There’s no cure. And is a cure really necessary?If a cure is necessary, why not brainwash all people and make them all think the same things, like the Bork in Star tpTrek.

[@BethanyBrooke1027]

Hi I’m new here I love your channel I’m high functioning autism as well as bipolar and I struggled with homework and hygiene and many other things but now thanks to meds and growing up I’m going to be 30 in October Things are so much better now