LTTA CLIPS: B SIMONE'S EMOTIONAL JOURNEY TO FRIENDSHIP HEALING

[@TheBSimone]

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[@nqobilempumelelotshabalala7458]

Your public breakup helped me make peace with two friendship breakups. At the first one God told me to do it because we were unequally yoked. I have learnt not to choose sides and to evade self blame or blame the other party to make myself feel better but look back and appreciate the season for what it was.

[@rissilient85]

Amen sis

[@tanayamitchell2272]

I walked away from 2 friendships that reached their capacity and time limit. One was over 20 years, the other about 17 years. They served their purpose in my life and vice verse. Onward and upward. We’re not enemies because we’re not friends. It was just time to move on

[@navimarlow]

Same!

[@jabellatv3240]

I did the same while one ended nasty the other ended for reasons I don’t know and I knew them since I was 8 years old but I’m so at peace yes I was sad and angry but I know it was for reason I’m 34 about to be 35 this year and I wouldn’t change anything especially because I bit my tongue and allowed so much bs for so long

[@BonitaHerring-cd3se]

I watched a video done by a guy explaining that you and your friend have different attachment styles...you are more solution based personality is what he said and she is more about needing her emotions acknowledged...it can be hard to find a middle ground so both can feel valued in the relationship. and that neither attachment styles are wrong...

[@britneyrenee2252]

I watched that same video and definitely saw myself in B….and I’m dating someone who is like Meghan. lol It definitely has its challenges but learning how to love them the way they need to be loved is a game changer. That video really helped!

@littleblackbook91 guy? It was so eye opening… 😩

[@doreeha]

What video?

[@Mysimon6468]

LBB

[@perfectionreleased2113]

Yup! Little Black Book

[@ThugLife1669]

B I saw you in service today and watching you taking notes & actively listening to pastor was super inspiring. & The way you stood up on the “spiritual manipulation” part he hit on….I support & feel for you ❤❤❤

[@ThugLife1669]

I pray that my comment translates well, I reread it and it sounds a little creepy….I don’t mean any harm I was just sitting in church, looked across the room & noticed her hair & was like “Aw wow, that’s B.Simone”.

[@Shearose107]

Definitely creepy. Let church be her safe place. 😅

[@gino6658]

That was Not creepy, the comment was All Love. Just saying they noticed her in Real Life, feeling the Spirit 🙏🏾

[@pheladintefeng]

Uhm kinda creepy, no one wants to feel watched in church, it's an intimate moment. Kinda like how now in churches media team be taking pictures and videos of people praying. We make it seem normal but it's not. Noticing what they did when is watching them. ... buuuuuut we believe it's all love from you though sis. 😊

[@Itswhitneyxxo]

what were his points mentioning spiritual manipulation? I’m just curious

[@IAmKenyattaGadson]

I hope many women learn from her testimony and experience. To walk away. To grieve. To cry. To feel your emotions. To heal. Don’t settle in anyway, shape or form!

[@Sister2SisterPod]

It takes a WHOLE lot to let go and let God. Wishing you nothing but the best on your new journey and new season in your life! ❤❤❤ You got this B!

[@ashleymcgowan370]

She saying all this but Megan seems more at peace and as if she moved closer to the Lord but I pray they both grow stronger in the LORD

[@Moody-mR4]

I’m praying for discernment as well. Don’t want to block my heart but guide my heart.

[@pinnacle99]

Same!

[@mrspurposed1163]

B GET OFF MY PHONE! Why are you reading my life right now! At least some of it. I’ve gotten pass the people pleasing aspect. But now I struggle with trying to also help people without always feeling obligated. I understand the walking away. It’s hard. Glad that you’re sharing the healing journey. And I’m glad that you have the podcast. You all should check out Little Black Book91. He talks about the old podcast and his take on you and Megan’s attachment styles. It was so good that I started reading more about attachment styles. It’s very good!

[@DMclean422]

I watched a few of the last episodes again especially the ones with Jackie and I could see the Nick picking the insults. The exclusion from certain topics. While it seemed light hearted I can see how that can drain you everyday with someone you love being so critical. I truly think that separation was needed but ai also see that growth has occurred on both parts. Growth that couldn’t happen without a break. I am still praying that you guys can reconcile even if not publicly. You both love the lord and love always win. I’m praying for you both and I have love for you both ❤

[@chryshawndaadams8429]

I agree with this. I think that it’s easy to produce self-sabotaging behavior when you’re in a place of brokenness. I don’t think Megan knew what she was doing. I also don’t think that she’s a terrible person. I just think that when we don’t deal with our stuff, we make the people around us pay for it. She’s taken accountability for her role in the demise of the friendship on numerous occasions on her podcast. I also know that there is a pastoral call on Megan’s life so the standards are different. I saw it even from the previous podcast. The way she nurtures, and processes things that point back to Christ were all telling. I do see that both parties are growing and evolving. I pray that Yahweh allows them to reconcile and forgive each other because I do believe that true love was present but trauma that goes unattended can become toxic. The break was needed. Yahweh needed Megan to heal and answer the call on her life and He needed B to heal and stand alone in her full identity.

[@DMclean422]

@@chryshawndaadams8429 all of this 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@NeasTube]

Reconciliation may not be what's best so maybe we should all pray for what's best for them.

[@DMclean422]

@@NeasTube you don’t have to friends to reconcile love. It’s God’s way 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I’m holding them to that standard.

[@Fleefromsin]

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7 KJV💜

[@keonnebrown3065]

We still grieving too we didn’t want that to end like that that’s what sucks about this I feel I lost two friends 😂❤ wish them both well though and bright futures!!

[@TryLuv2]

I’ve been there with family; it does hurt, I’m still healing and in therapy. God Bless You! We Missed you Gurl! 🙏🏽❤️

[@Gifted504]

I’m 💔that you guys wasn’t able to work things out because you two remind me so much of myself and the best friend that I lost to cancer. I love you both and the journey you decided to take, I pray that God continue to work on you and strengthen you. 🙏🏿

[@AlexiaInbloom]

I think more people need to start seeing incompatibility as deal breaker, instead of pushing forward with the friendship or relationship. When you and a person are existing in two different worlds, speaking two different languages, it’s so easy to feel hurt, misunderstood or suffocated. It’s easy for the other person to become a villain and you the victim. Not saying people aren’t evil, jealous or intentionally hurtful, but that’s not always the case. I seen a few episodes of their pod, and the friendship never gave compatible. I wish them both healing.

[@mrspurposed1163]

This is such a good take. I wonder what does that actually look like though? I mean after multiple years. Not so much a new friendship. I say that because I think that a lot of us were raised to help each other, and see the good in people. So it’s very hard to just break it off. Then that turns into multiple years. Then it’s a continuous cycle. I wish them both well also. I didn’t see the incompatibility until a little later. But then I also stopped watching later on.

[@NinaSimone3]

@@mrspurposed1163Just curious. What made you stop watching??

[@mrspurposed1163]

@@NinaSimone3 the show became too spiritual to me. I believe in the Lord, grew up in church etc. But when the show first started they were able to laugh, joke, and tell stories and interweave the Lord into the conversation. But after a while it just seemed like a lot. Like with Meg’s podcast (no shade at all) but I was following but when the clip from Dear Wifey podcast popped up and she spoke about crystals and God being the only way, that was a turn off to me. And some previous other postings/episodes. I want success for her as well but it’s just not for me anymore. It could be because of my background where every single thing was over spiritualized. Like folks wouldn’t even say thank you when someone did something for them. They were supposed to always say “Bless You” it was just too much for me personally.

[@NinaSimone3]

@@mrspurposed1163 I completely understand. I watched maybe 3 of their episodes and as I predicted it would not last. Not that I was hoping for that tho. Also thank you for taking the time out to reply 💛

[@mrspurposed1163]

@@NinaSimone3 no problem. Thank you for your nice reply. This is what I miss about social media, being able to have a respectful and enjoyable conversation 💕

[@IAmKenyattaGadson]

The fact that she walked away from something she loved, was getting paid from, and invested all her time in. And trusted God, in her process. I love it.

[@adjeleganl2984]

I believe you two will be back together as friends. Where you two are going, you can't go together right now.❤

[@CourtneyTheBody]

I’m still grieving over a relationship that is not fruitful and has nothing to offer me ❤

[@Meelindayvette]

❤❤❤❤Welcome, back I have missed you, B.simone. ❤❤Now get your #1 Spot 🙌🏾❤❤❤❤

[@simonkellogg3217]

I needed this at this time in my life! "GRIEVING WALKING AWAY FROM CERTAIN THINGS STILL EXIST EVEN THOUGH I FELT FREE WALKING AWAY" Going through this now

[@Bhard89]

You can't serve two masters The comedy shows are far from the true God

[@kianneabercrombie603]

Agreed!!!

[@BigCrossVita]

Disagree.

[@KortCam1]

This is so healing for me right now. Right on time.

[@mzmaconthemove2685]

I watched the same video with the guy about your attachment styles. It made me think about how I was and am. I've had them both. It's so clear now to see. U have to be willing to see that u can't love one person the same as the other. Like someone said in the comments, the game changer is knowing that u have to love people the way they need to be loved. It's a must, or u will be forever fighting the battle to love.

[@wesleyjones6768]

I totally understood Meghan more it’s simple she wants what she gives from what I heard B Simone seems like she just drops people without care and then the shady stuff after smh people should just observe who their real friends are

[@smithsmith107]

I agree idk details but it’s something about B Simone that just don’t seem right with business and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE 🙏🏽 PLEASE REMEMBER THAT THE DEVIL KNOWS THE WORD TOO YALL DONT GET CAUGHT UP IN PEOPLE KNOWING THE WORD AND GOD. If you know you know

[@LaFaRa-LoVe]

It’s sad and unfortunate their friendship had to end 😢 I loved the sisterly friendship,but there comes a point in our lives where we must end a friendship the same way you end relationships…I still think something happened 🤷‍♀️ whatever it may or may not be I pray they both continue to grow continue to keep god close,maybe someday they will find their way back into each others lives 🙏🏽 ❤

[@teairhill5696]

I am on the same journey B and God, you and Sarah Jakes are my friends during this right now🥺 but I'm dealing with it. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@kianneabercrombie603]

She's very articulate but she's still not understanding & admitting that she's part fleshly/ so called Spiritual without really knowing God's power & GOD'S instructions but just saying his Name ummm that is not enough... honey megan helped you UNDERSTAND WHO GOD IS . now you have taken what you've learned from a True believer ready to lay her life down for GOD & switched it like she's your enemy & you didn't need her.. you have to stop thinking GOD called you to be a comedian , cuss, say mean things & act out of control through comedy, a lot of things you're trying to say God gave you & told you to do is something you're trying to deeply convince your self of & other people of. ~ at thee end of the day all of these podcast that we all love to create won't save us from lies ~ ONLY & ONLY THE COMPLETE TRUTH CAN SET US FREE!!!

[@moniquecowan1315]

This! As I have made Jesus my Lord and Savior, Jesus has given me eyes to see. I crindged listening to her speak only referencing herself. When you are true believer it becomes no longer about us and more about Jesus. She may know God but has she made Jesus her Lord and Savior? I will pray for her.

[@Leeeiggh]

Ahh, the Lord has given you a discerning spirit and a seeing eye

[@crich2201]

So who made you God’s assistant? It’s always the most (so called) religious - look at me I love Jesus the most - and I am better than you and I am the truth people that have the most to say with all judgement towards another person but have no self reflection 🙃

[@BOSSRECOVER]

I appreciate you because you’re so real and growing, that’s exactly what God needs from his people in Jesus name

[@VondaTriedIt]

When Meg began to explain how your abortion affected HER! I new that relationship was dissolving! I don’t agree with abortions but I have on only 1 best friend in this world, and had she called me and told me she was doing something like that, it’s not about ME! I would walk in there, support my friend and I would hold her until she heals. I would NEVER bring it up and I would NEVER make it about ME! I don’t know B. Simone personally, but I feels like she just wants to be loved! She wants the husband, the kids, and girlfriends! It’s not wrong and I pray she finds what she’s looking for.

[@crittany7704]

We love you B! Keep being you sis 🤍

[@Tennybanks]

This is such a timely post🤍

[@donnajoyner9781]

You are doing an amazing job walking through this season. We have similar stories in a few areas. Praying for and with you. You can do this! 🙏🏽✝️🙌🏽🤗🕊

[@BellePM]

I’m sorry is it just me who feels that her friend outing her abortion experience was very insensitive, I feel like that was something they hadn’t spoken about prior to, but it could be just be over analyzing because of my traumatic first pregnancy experience. Anywho love you b, keeping you in my prayers , I’m on a serial entrepreneur path as well and please excuse my ignorance if I was wrong , it was just an innocent observation.

[@chryshawndaadams8429]

I get this. I don’t think she was wrong for outing it because she usually asked B’s permission before saying things on the pod and B agreed to this. However, I do feel like it wasn’t necessary for the question. Where she landed gave me a hard reach. The question was about B and meant to compliment her attributes to Megan’s life. She could’ve used something else without making it about her. When you aren’t secure about yourself and find validation in doing good for people, you can exploit their weaknesses to make you feel good. She did this more than once too. I actually don’t think she was intentional about that. I just feel like these were two broken people that needed to tend to their own stuff. I’m proud of B for doing what they both were afraid to do for her health. Again, I’m not taking sides because I have grace for people and I do believe that some things she did in the beginning for B was sincerely done. However, it’s no reason to stay in relationship with people that mishandle you whether consciously or unconsciously. I just wished it was a clean break. You can tell that the breakup got messy in areas and it didn’t have to.

[@donavinefreeman809]

I felt the cactus same way, it was never her story to put out there, and being put on the stop when the cameras are on, whisper or not was NEVER A RIGHT MOVE!

[@TinaBabe-cu2bd]

Wow this made me realize I'm a people pleaser ppl only come around for their own personal reasons

[@kaitlynleeanna425]

I don’t know you personally but I love you, like a best friend.

[@leilaluster2788]

I knew long ago when B explained why her friendship ended with her long-time friend while they were reuniting that it wasn't going to last long. Their body language gave many signs over the years, hoping all is well now.

[@thatsseauxnish_]

I don’t remember the reason. Was it just that she moved away and started a family?

[@alishagreenwood8421]

Yessssss! Discernment & Guarding My Heart Yesssss B! ❤

[@princessbc9791]

Now, that I've heard both sides...it's obvious who is not being completely honest with themselves. And I pray that one day, she will be real with herself.

[@juicycouture6796]

I’m sooo excited I ran into this B ❤

[@Vivianaone2]

Girl this is my second time watching this and I just thought about Abraham and Lot when they become too big individually to stay in the same land!!

[@truckerbaby171]

This was really really good I enjoyed it, I understand it, I relate to it, you covered everything a Chosen goes through. I will be tuned in. Finally something mature and real and Godly. Funny too lol. Good job and Happy Birthday 🎁

[@shesdeitria1182]

This was so good B 💗🫶🏾

[@agentj3942]

You need todo things on your own in these streets. We need to stop doing things with other people!

[@thesiinceoflife]

This was good!!!!! You hit the nail on the hammer 🔨

[@13gkristina]

An isolation season❤

[@missmaomi28]

Yes!

[@c.santiagox]

LTTA FAM LETS FCKN GOOOOO !!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU B

[@IAmKenyattaGadson]

It can be scary and lonely when doing what’s in God’s image and way. Rather than your own way and own thoughts.

[@21plepur]

I always say God first and therapy ima be okay. Im dealing with all theses things you stated.

[@tjeezy2875]

~Put everything in God's Hands and YOU WILL SEE God's Hands in EVERYTHING😇😇😇~

[@yayamercer6141]

I love u B❤️

[@taylorj8204]

Woooooooweeeeee I relate to everything you have said 🥹💞

[@Mcageneral]

I hope you wasnt tryna shade megan because SHES been married.... And has kids....and a man married her. You haven't gotten there yet so i wouldn't compare that at all

[@IAmKenyattaGadson]

Anything that’s not for you. Anything you thought was everything and more. God has better for you.

[@TXBornNBred]

I hate the term " no longer serves/served me." It seems innately selfish. A perspective that prioritizes yourself over everything and sounds very narcissistic. I understand boundaries and ending toxic relationships but sometimes ppl are just selfish and lack the wherewithal and emotional depth to navigate relationships that aren't superficial or transactional.

[@Rrrrr000]

Sis… your logic. Serves me is an applicable word. Anything that hurts and hinders; this can be a nice way of saying it didn’t serve me. Narcissistic traits are very specific. You’d be willing to conclude that bc something doesn’t serve a person they are VERY NARCISSISTIC. Hmm but working for someone 50 hrs a week while profit sharing is never considered…what’s that.

[@CourtneyTheBody]

I definitely know that I am in a transition phase and I’m being removed from people who are refusing to grow ❤

[@4evatinker]

Did she tell the truth about her and Meghan? Bc I wanna know what happened. They looked so happy. It's hard to loose friends

[@Leeeiggh]

No. 😮

[@DominiqueDeshaun]

Honestly! I am so happy for you. I've always admired the person you are. This spot is just for you ! Keep inspiring love ♥️

[@konesanssepouvwa]

When you are a people pleaser without boundaries it backfires every single time. In the end, you always end up looking like the villain.

[@latanya5385]

I don’t think you should compare things with a person!!

[@CourtneyTheBody]

I’m accepting the truth that this is over and I am not meant to be in this relationship

[@AtlantisEsquire]

The evolution of the graduation for the realm of certain emotions is almost as a debilitating phenomenon. Once the proper streams of emotional intelligence is swam through you can break into your yen. 🌻🌻🌻🌻💘💘💘💘💫💫💫💫

[@MZol-xp2zo]

Sometimes God removes someone from your life for a reason and sometimes God removes you from someone’s life for a reason.

[@CourtneyTheBody]

Every body ain’t going ❤😂

[@13gkristina]

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I literally feel this

[@Rrrrr000]

It’s Scary to pit 2 Women Against Each when they are not actually in a ring. That’s Scary behavior.😅

[@Majourfreq]

you speaking!

[@NeasTube]

I've been there (friendship, not podcast). It's hard, but sometimes loss is exactly where growth is taking you. When I left my 23 year friendship, I was so disappointed in her but I also realized the problems were my creation. When we met, I needed to fix and save people. So of course I met people who needed that all the time and were pretty selfish, though I didn't see it that way then. I just knew I had a lot of strength and I was good at pulling people up. When that "broken fixer" version of me started healing, I saw my closest friend so differently. I tried setting boundaries, but she was used to the old me. I also was being less kind because I was starting to somewhat dislike her as I saw her treatment of me through healed eyes. I'm still hurt by the loss but thankful for the lessons. My friendships since then have been mutually beneficial and light, not riddled with endless expectations of me wearing a cape. I've even been able to bring other women together for healthy friendships. Keep the faith.

[@JamieModelvsDirector]

Love you ❤❤❤

[@cjw93]

Some people are here just for seasons and that’s okay.

[@smithsmith107]

That longer serve me better catch that

[@sharondarenee]

Nah, see.....How can you talk about "walking away from the platform" or "walking away from a lot of money" when you originally said you wanted to do the podcast, just without the friendship?....... I don't believe you. I'm sorry because I want to believe you.

[@michelleflu225]

❤❤

[@dadawgofficial1475]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@jordyngenevie8881]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💕💕💕

[@13gkristina]

❤❤❤❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@alexasmith141]

She said someone really close to her betrayed her. Megan betrayed her. Thats why they not friends. I wonder what Megan did

[@NolaMarieSings01]

Probably nothing

[@Drea1204]

Did she say Megan betrayed her or did you say that...?

[@AkilahsWorld]

In the full video She said this happened 2 yrs ago so no she wasn’t talking about Megan

[@ciarac5831]

Yes she literally said her last business deal she was scared to make another business deal because the last person stole from her

[@mikehall8958]

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[@ToriSmith-di9ep]

😮

[@toddtrierweiler958]

Hello Gorgeous 😍🥰❤

[@MissDaniiii]

The way you introduced and promoted the podcast was distasteful tho…

[@NomsLoots]

I hope this video is the last we hear about their breakup. It’s time everyone focused on their healing privately. You’ve got your own platforms now, speak the message God gave you so it don’t get lost under all the rehashing of things you both claim to have let go 🥹

[@Mcageneral]

I hope you wasnt tryna shade megan because SHES been married.... And has kids....and a man married her. You haven't gotten there yet so i wouldn't compare that at all