9-5 work week in my life | major life update, getting vulnerable, & going through a breakup

[@LuciaCordaro]

what's your go to comfort food?

[@morgan7005]

peanut noodles!

[@Tlynn86CG]

PBJ with coffee chaser 😁

[@LuciaCordaro]

@@Tlynn86CG yummm

[@itsmecallied]

Pho or ramen 🍜

[@LuciaCordaro]

@@itsmecallied oo a good one

[@Tlynn86CG]

You are smart, strong and very capable of handling the upcoming changes like a boss! I can't wait to see what the next year brings into your life! Get yourself a cute little apartment, decorate, dance, act, and embrace being single for a while! I think everyone should have their own place for at least a year. I had my own apartment in my early 20s and it was wonderful to have the freedom to do what I wanted, when I wanted, and go where I wanted with zero responsibility to notify anyone, or compare schedules, etc. Embrace this season of life and make the most of it! 😘

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much!!! Yes definitely excited for this new chapter of change and being on my own 🤍

[@lillian3356]

Great advice

[@melaniegucwa8417]

Hey! I just found your channel through this video! I just recently went through a breakup myself at 24, and I definitely have felt all the emotions this past week as well. We can go through this together! You're not alone. If you feel alone, you won't feel that forever. You got this❤

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you!! We are in this together 🤍🤍

[@RebeccaABeaudoin]

Finally subscribing after watching all your recent videos! Love to see another hard working twenty something girly bop. Stay busy, feel you feeling, and push on

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍

[@rose.carter]

So sorry to hear about your breakup :( Wishing you healing and happiness, I'm sure everything will work out for the best. Also just wanted to say that you seem so nice and genuine and I always enjoy your videos! 🤍

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank u 🥹🥹 really appreciate it

[@cheetosaregood8]

I'm so sorry about the breakup Lucia! Was in a really similar situation as you, was broken up with 3 months ago by my now ex-bf who I lived with, it's really tough but time really does heal! So glad to see you've got supportive friends around you and that you're taking care of yourself!!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍🤍🤍 sending you love as well

[@amandaaa20]

You are so strong Lucia! I know everything happens for a reason and i know bigger and better things are about to head your way! ❤️ You deserve the world! Keep your sweet chin up! You are so loved by many!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🥹🥹🥹

[@amandaaa20]

@@LuciaCordaro❤

[@postgradisrad]

Heartbreak and breakups are so hard but you will come out the other end of this flourishing ❤ sending you positivity, strength, peace, and love!! ✨

[@useeerrr12587ll]

I really know that you're gonna be okay. Time can heal everything... You're amazing, never forget that 💗

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍🤍🥹

[@useeerrr12587ll]

@@LuciaCordaro ❤️☘️

[@ArdenScott]

breakups are so indescribably hard but your mindset is so healthy entering this new chapter, you're really setting yourself up to flourish. i'm glad you are meeting with a therapist and allowing yourself to lean on loved ones during this time. pour as much love and care and patience as possible into yourself right now because you truly deserve it. i just moved to lincoln park so if you want a friend date or want to talk it out feel free to reach out. sending love

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank for the kind words 🤍🤍🤍

[@GinaRose-ek4be]

I appreciate how real you are! Breakups are so hard. Im glad you are taking care of yourself 💗

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@_JamJam_]

Lucia I'm so sorry that you're dealing with a breakup. At the same time, big congratulations for handling it as well as you did. You've honestly handled it better than I have when I went through a breakup. You're on the right path, even if it doesn't feel like it. I'm proud of you! All the best ❤

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🫶🏼🫶🏼 really appreciate it

[@morgan7005]

i’m so sorry about the breakup. i’ve never been through one so i can’t rlly give much advice lol but i’m sure everything will work out in the end

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🤍🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@brandonpadilla423]

Sorry about the breakup, I really hope everything works out for the best!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks sm! 🤍

[@kaekae198]

Sending big love your way💛 the pain of a breakup never really goes away, but it does get easier to cope with over time. You are so capable and strong Lucia!

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🤍

[@FEMALETWEETY]

Things will definitely be whatever it is supposed to be🫶🏾 gotta take life one step at a time! So glad you were able to take a break from social media for processing and I hope you're able to continue to take whatever time you need to heal! You will make it through!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🤍🤍

[@willmax95]

I clicked this so fast & am watching now. I have to say before I keep watching sorry about the breakup :( I didn’t see that coming at all having been a follower of your content for a couple years now. Gonna watch the vid & hear ya out on everything now. I know you are a very strong person & have it in you to find ways to get through it. Allow yourself to feel what you need to feel & treat yourself along the way. You deserve to. Edit: I just finished watching, it sounds like you have your head in the right place & also good luck handling the apartment situation & taking care of yourself!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🤍🤍

[@Bigtflies321]

Went through the same thing after college. Moved in with my gf and we made it 10 months into our lease together. Also just went through a breakup last June after moving to Chicago. Together for 4 years was awful going through that breakup. Keep doing healthy things to keep you busy. I can’t say I did the same, but wish I would have. You’re going to have times where you forget and times you can’t forget. Lots of ups and downs but time heals all. Hang in there

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍 comforting hearing about people who have gone thru a similar thing!

[@jovanicruz_]

Hey Lucia - I always look forward to seeing your videos, and I feel so sad to see you like this. You’re very relatable, I know how bad rejection feels and it’s terrible. At the same time, I believe you’re handling this situation very well. So much better than my previous experiences. I’m happy that you’re investing time in yourself, seeing a therapist, seeing your circle of friends, family, you’re handling it with such class. I want you to know that there’s a lot of people here rooting for you, and care a lot about your well being. Keep your head up Lucia, and I wish you a great week! 😊

[@LuciaCordaro]

thanks so much! i really appreciate it

[@leahmichalski5481]

aw i also got myself a squish mallow during a break up. i wanted to suggest the podcast heal your heartbreak because it helped me out SO much. feel better 💗💗

[@LaChicanaG]

I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Sending you hugs and good vibes. Things will get better 🫶🏻

[@marielisec.a.3072]

Lucia, my heart hurts for you, I know how breakups can be painful when you are in the middle of it. I also know that time heals everything: sadness that seemed impossible to overcome slowly lifts and one day you'll realize that you are not sad anymore ❤ You got good friends you can call and that cares for you, a life full of exciting events, make the most out of it to take your mind off of things ❤ You got this!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍🤍🤍 will do :)

[@christinaaewart]

Nooo I am so sorry! I've loved watching your vlogs for a while & relate to you so much. You will get through this❤

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🥹🥹🥹

[@biancapf]

I've been bingeing on your videos! It's been helpful since I'm also going through a long-term relationship break up. Thank you for posting!

[@LuciaCordaro]

in this together!

[@lisabrooks178]

i'm so sorry about your breakup Lucia!!

[@pepper1188]

We've all been there, that lack of sleep adds to the tearfulness. Take a few naps if you can, helps alot.

[@LuciaCordaro]

tru!

[@LyfeWithBri]

Wow… im so sorry Lucia. I really do believe everything happens for a reason and things will get better for you. I’m glad you have supportive people in your life. Yes to staying busy but also prioritizing your rest is important. You’re gonna come out on top girlie ❤

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank u 🤍 so true!

[@qfason5836]

Better to break up than to stay in a relationship that’s wrong. Doing it now rather than years down the line is better. Best of luck to you!

[@LuciaCordaro]

very true! thanks!

[@ThondieSade08]

Watching your videos are so therapeutic for me❤ I'm so sorry about the breakup I'm sending you so much love and prayers to you

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🤍

[@karissawidder9538]

So sorry you're going through this! Great idea to stay busy - reflection is good but only for so long. Hope spring brings a new energy and freshness to you!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Totally! Yes excited for the spring energy 🌸

[@TimeToTellTheTruth]

Lucia You’ll be just fine! It’s okay to 😭 Be 😞 and 😡. You inspire me and I’m one of your older subbies- You’re intelligent, adventurous . Because of you I work out! So hang in there…Jesus Loves You Gurl♥️

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🥹🥹🥹

[@jessrrowe]

Good luck on your healing journey Lucia

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Seolhwaneul]

Oh no i’ve been watching your videos off and on, but you guys were adorable 😢 hoping you’re healing well. But I just had to ask, have you guys been drifting apart or did something happen that night that led you guys to break up?

[@alysanostrand]

Sending you soooo many hugs and snuggles Lucia. You'll get through this. Can't wait to see what life holds for you ❤️

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🤍🥹🥹🥹

[@Pjzweek6586]

I’m so sorry to hear of your breakup. You are a smart, beautiful woman, and I’m sure you will go far . Best wishes for your future. Looking forward to more videos.

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍

[@temiek]

I read these two books back in my 20s after a painful breakup and it really helped me get back into my normal self again. Hope you try it and it helps. First book: The Single Woman’s Sassy Survival Guide: Letting Go and Moving On by Mandy Hale Second Book: Gentlewoman: Etiquette for a Lady, from a Gentleman by Enitan O. Bereola II (Author)

[@LuciaCordaro]

Omg thank you so much!!! Love these recs will def try

[@ernieschipotleeducation586]

You're phenomenal. You're brave to be so raw and vulnerable online. Best of luck to you!

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍

[@GG-lt5or]

breakups suck but time helps sooo tremendously ❤️ i’m thinking of you lucia and sending you positive energy and lots of love ❤❤ i know ur life will continue to thrive and be even better bigger and more beautiful❤ love you

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thanks so much 🤍🤍😭😭

[@msqueeneats]

Hey 👋🏽 Lucia!!! Here for another vlog 😊 I thought 💭 about going back to school for marketing. I want to be a social media manager some day. 🥰 Glad you had fun with family!!!

[@msqueeneats]

It’s hard going through a break up 😢I’ve been single for 10 years and all my exes have significant others. God will send us the right one ☝🏽🥰

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🤍

[@thecosycat]

I'm sending all my love to you, just focus on yourself and being good and caring. Give yourself time. Lots of hugs

[@LuciaCordaro]

Sending hugs back 🥹🥹🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@jaycgr]

Sending you so much love!!❤❤❤

[@GSlover14305]

Girl you are literally so pretty I cannot. Like DROP. DEAD. GORGEOUS ❤

[@LuciaCordaro]

Awe hahha thank u :)) 🥹🥹🥹

[@amachlis1991]

I’m really sorry about the breakup Lucia 😢

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍

[@lillian3356]

Stay strong girl . I’ve been through it if you need to talk. 🙏 I had to break up with my bf after 3 years.

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍

[@Cub242]

Sorry about your breakup! Life will continue for you and enjoy your single life! I’m from the Chicago area and it’s always fun to see your videos in the beautiful city. My go to comfort food is pizza and alcohol. Maybe not together but a nice glass of wine sounds good after a tough day!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you 🤍 sounds yummy!

[@piwiedmonds3480]

Sorry to hear 😔 much love, love your videos watchn from NZ!

[@liannes808]

Breakup is like a bad flu. Take care and your time.

[@thequeenadri_]

I am going through a very similar situation, me and my ex broke up 6 months ago after being together for 5.5 years… We still currently live together, but I am moving out next month. It will be hard, but it will get better ❤

[@Eliseu.90024]

I’m so sorry. If it’s not inappropriate to ask, why are you two no longer together? My bf and I just hit 5.5…and I have this fear that we might one day hit the inevitable

[@KatNella-ec2qm]

Feel better soon ❤. Also, Jesus loves you girl 💓

[@MaximeFortin]

Sending so much love💗

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍🤍

[@Fifth.Amendment]

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Just when you think everything is going well, life happens and pulls the rug right from under you. From experience, it's okay to be sad. It's okay to cry when needed. However, with every waking day you have to choose to be happy. I know you have real friends helping you through. But as your internet big cousin, I'm sending you the biggest virtual hug and praying for your mental health, inner peace and overall happiness on your next journey. You got this! 🫶🏼

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank you so much 🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@nevadahuvenaars]

I feel for you girl - it gets easier with every day that goes by. Take advantage of the opportunity to invest extra time into yourself now!

[@LuciaCordaro]

Thank u! Great advice

[@prmoilanen]

Love following you! ❤

[@sunyshine10]

Thanks for sharing ❤ my bf and I broke up this week so I’m going through the same thing 😢

[@LuciaCordaro]

We are in this together 🤍🤍 sending you so much love

[@amachlis1991]

If you need anyone to talk to I’m here for you

[@useeerrr12587ll]

My comfort food is actually coffee 😂

[@LuciaCordaro]

Ok mood bc same

[@morgan7005]

aw i love oliver

[@LuciaCordaro]

Hahaha the best squishmallow

[@Alyssas15165]

Sending you much❤️❤️❤️

[@Avo_kai_do]

I’m so sorry 😢.

[@LuciaCordaro]

🤍🤍

[@Waltaere]

Luciaaa 😃

[@joannk.2557]

I feel bad for gals who get into a relationship in high school or college/get married to that person, and then never experience single life in their 20s. It is honestly the best time to realize who you are on your own, have some fun, and just enjoy that freedom. It might seem hard now, but it's a blessing in disguise! Also, Sweet Mandy B's is the BEST Chicago bakery in my opinion.

[@LuciaCordaro]

Totally get what ur saying!! I agree it will be a good opportunity to experience that!

[@LOSTobsession1415]

You feel bad for them? Some people find their person earlier in life. No need to tear others down!

[@joannk.2557]

@@LOSTobsession1415I wasn't tearing anyone down and I didn't say anything mean about people who find their person earlier in life. I was simply saying what I was feeling.

[@joannk.2557]

@@Eliseu.90024Happy for your situation and that you feel that way at the very start of your 20s. It's hard for you to see the other side because a relationship is all you've known, but there is a difference in single freedom and relationship freedom (to each their own though). You could be with this person for the rest of your life or you could break up next week, regardless of how secure you think the relationship is, you really never know because that's how life is sometimes. And that's okay!

[@CallMeNains]

💜💜💜💜

[@lizettjimenez5940]

❤❤❤

[@queenbee4350]

Sending you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@Billy33753]

Spaghetti and meatballs

[@LuciaCordaro]

Yum!

[@haroldallaberg6359]

single now? sweet~

[@TheHumanPlatform]

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