REACTING TO ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT OUR PARENTING

[@caitlinodonnell2559]

OMG , people have such negative opinions. Jordan is more productive than 80 percent of men who sit on the sofa on their games for hours and ignore the kids . I assume that you have a lot of fun and happiness in your lives and bless to have each other and your beautiful children x

[@jamiealex1606]

My fella plays on his ps4 but still makes time for his kids

[@jamiealex1606]

We have 4 kids and he still makes time for them all but plays on ps4 with his sons 2 dont make them a bad dad

[@caitlinodonnell2559]

jamie&alex i agree and am not saying all dads and don’t just mean games , tv, sat on phone all day ( can be women too) . Just meant that unequal households is still very apparent . I’m lucky that I also have a very helpful and productive partner but many mums I have met aren’t in the same situation ☺️

[@sagegary993]

instablaster...

[@angelb3260]

Omg it literally looked like Indie Loo rolled her eyes at the convo at 18:21 😂😂😂😂😂👀👀👀👀👀😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rebeccajaynegilson]

😂😂😂 perfect timing!

[@Autumnalcoziness]

Angel B noticed that too. She's so funny 😂😂😂💕

[@alexiyahxoxo1377]

This is why people are so annoying, just because it’s not on social media doesn’t mean it’s not happening. You don’t need to put everything online 🙄

[@vesper9547]

Omg! I cannot agree more.

[@louiseevans3294]

I'm a security officer at Heathrow airport. I love nothing better than coming home and watching your vlogs. They are so wholesome, and such a pleasurable escape from what's happening in the world right now. Thank you x

[@CarlyElizabethX]

😱😱 I can not believe someone has said that they think you have bonded with one twin more then another!! That must be a childless person. I was so shocked! 🙈

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

C a r l y E l i z a b e t h thank you and I think you must be right. Any parent knows you don’t favour any child, in my opinion anyway. I can’t imagine that, I truly love all my children equally, they all mean the world to me 🤍

[@christinewalker6621]

They must be how awful x

[@CarlyElizabethX]

@@LucyJessicaCarter i have 3 boys an dont get me wrong there are days when their behaviour differs, or one is more clingy then the others but the love is split exactly the same. An i think its quite clear to see that with you and your four. Also, ive followed you for years and jordon comes across like a real chilled hands on dad to me. Cant believe all the comments about that. 🙈 Some people! Xx

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

C a r l y E l i z a b e t h well that’s exactly it, some days some children require more attention and that’s just life & the way it is, doesn’t change my love for any of them! Just because jenson is at school daily doesn’t mean I love him any less, or if one of the twins is more unsettled and needs holding for an hour doesn’t mean I don’t love the other. It just means I am responding to each child’s need on demand. Thank you 🤍🤍🤍

[@christinewalker6621]

I have a 14 year old and 5 year old can't understand that someone with to much time x

[@nala36924]

I can't believe people would assume such things, from what we see, Jordan is an involved loving parent who definitely is reliving his childhood with his kids, as for you bonding with one twin more than the other is absolute rubbish, you are such a kind nurturing mother who loves all her children genuinely, these people must really get things into their head and hold grudges ... some people are totally blind to what really goes on ❤❤ i love your sit down videos Lucy, you're such an interesting person and your sit down videos are so relaxed, it's like we're all having a conversation with you

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Niamh Curtin thank you so much Niamh for all your support 🤍🤍

[@nala36924]

@@LucyJessicaCarter Awh, thank you Lucy x I appreciate your dedication to replying to comments and producing such great videos x

[@nicoleliossis6264]

Wow can’t get over how much the girls have grown. They are so alert.

[@misscarebear1000]

5:41 India’s little face smiling at Jordan 😭😭💓💓

[@sophiewelsh3754]

Imagine saying someone has bonded with 1 child over the other. People are just soo rude. Why would that ever cross someone's mind. You both seem lovely parents ❤️

[@charleaves7022]

The twins are looking soooo cute 😩💖

[@GABIANDTINO]

Charl Eaves there soo gorgeous

[@deannayork9128]

@@GABIANDTINO I agree.

[@greenerpasturesgrl]

I can't believe some people's comments about Jordan. Every vlog or Instagram story he's always busy fixing up the house or making bottles or doing dishes or holding a twin or playing with the boys. He does a lot more than most parents and doesn't leave all the housework to you either. I think you both do an amazing job and yes we are all allowed our hobbies and time for ourselves. Also, if I had a KZbin channel my husband wouldn't want to appear on it or film bits of blogs for me likejordan does for you 😂 some people always want to moan about anything and everything they can, clearly they have nothing better to do than be negative about others

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

briemadonna thanks Hun 🤍🤍

[@keavey-leigh4093]

18:17 Indie fighting her sleep has to be the cutest thing🤣😍

[@rachel6841]

OMG the question about bonding with one twin 🙄 but I absolutely loved the mama bear came out a bit in Lucy, you could tell and I love it! You tell them queen 💓

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Thank you Rachel xxx

[@cerysrennocks8332]

Wow, I can't believe how harsh some peoples opinions are! I think Jordan is really hands on!! We all need our own time to do what we want, its important for our own well-being. You guys are making it work the best you can xx

[@laurenmidwinter6059]

India’s eye rolls 😂😂🌸 love watching her drift off to the sound of mummies voice 💕 so cute x

[@debbiebousquet5677]

I love how India smiling at u guys talkn .... And Rosabella looks like her Daddy... Who cares what other people think .... U do what u have too .too take care of ur children and family and thats what counts the most.... And i c both of u taking care of the children and thats All that matters..... The love u both have for each other and the children.... 💕💐💖

[@blp7922]

India’s facial expressions crack me up 😂

[@3108Rebecca]

I had my first baby in November and your channel has been brilliant in helping me navigate motherhood. Thank you for continuing to upload in such a difficult time, much love to you and your family x

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Beckie H that’s really lovely to hear. Thank you so much Beckie. All my love to you & your family 🤍🤍

[@KarinaRoberts]

Lucy, don't for a second change your parenting styles. Everyone is different at parenting and have their different ways to parent!!! You are an absolute GREAT mom and your husband is a great dad too!!! I think y'all are GREAT PARENTS!!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Karina Roberts thank you 🤍

[@sianbradley2582]

You two are keeping me going! You are such a lovely positive family and work together so well as a team. I have 3 children (one being a 12 week old) and two step children and I try and take inspiration from how laid back and fun you two are with your children.

[@lizziehurford4737]

Lucy Jessica Carter, I have 10 month old twins and some days one needs more attention than the other. These people have *no* idea what being a twin mum involves! 💕

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Lizzie Hurford I completely agree with that. Have for kids & a set of twins, walk in our shoes for a day and then comment! Thank you for your support 🤍🤍

[@jimfurfn8505]

You are such good parents. India looks so much like jenson 😍 all gorgeous kids x

[@heathers2016]

Poor Jordan!! I don’t understand what these people are watching!! You are both amazing parents and I love watching your vlogs so please don’t change!!

[@carlysines2673]

India’s eye roll at 18:22 was perfect timing 👌🏼😊

[@heyitsok1770]

That's lovely that your parents are your biggest supporters & you are the same for your children. I couldn't agree more, uplifting your children is SO IMPORTANT! It's, unfortunately, not a parent thing as mine are not that way, often put me down, telling me I could do more. Great video, but funny to hear people's perception. I am like Jordan with the food though! love a bbq and could easily eat burgers pasta salad every day (if i didn't put on weight ahah) Both doing amazing! lovely family & couple x

[@emmamccann7096]

I am a twin parent & it's not easy at all!!! I'd be lost without my helpful hubby! Double the work but double the love !!

[@mad4710]

I can’t believe people can say that about Jordan at least he isn’t one of those parents that just stay on their phones and don’t do anything with their kids he wants to play and look after his children rather than be on his phone I think that’s good parenting personally x

[@jadelouiselaird]

Some of those comments made me laugh, dont change your social media for anyone your both equally good parents im due my first baby in 8 weeks and you 2 are an inspiration 💜 love your videos

[@marykaycole8878]

Dear Lord I have not even finished this video yet and I cannot believe how people can assume such things. Jordan you are an amazing hands on Dad who does not favor one child over the other. You both are partners in everything. I love watching your videos

[@rebekah3483]

Yay, the two of you cracking me up together! The girls look so sweet and beautiful! Thank you for keeping me sane Lucy and Jordan!

[@HealthywithAmy]

Your blessed to have each other-My husband is a Police Officer, working more than ever. 2 oldest sons are military-Just 1 teen at home now, but grateful for our home.

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

All my love to you xxx

[@lynchwood2736]

Such a wonderful family. Really enjoy your video's. So genuine and down to earth. 👍

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Thank you Mrs Wood xxx

[@janr2133]

When my boys were little, two of them took a nap each morning for an hour then again in the afternoon for 2 hours. I put them in their rooms with a box fan going to drown out the noise the other two older boys made while playing. Thank goodness for fans!!! I got my house work done during nap times and dinner started too.

[@kirstyclarke3869]

No idea on these assumptions about Jordan 🤔 but you can see 100% he is a doting dad and it shows alot how much he does for your family. It looks very equal to me. I've been watching your channel a few years now and you've both are the same towards the children its really lovely too see. Hope your all keeping safe looking forward to more videos and seeing your insta updates ❤

[@janetreadgold5773]

I’m new to your vlogs came on to them just as the twins were born.... you have a gorgeous family, don’t some people ask some intruding questions........you answered them perfectly, lol .... all the time the girls sat as good as gold.... thanks for the lovely vids & sharing your lovely family much love fr Manchester.... xxxx

[@slcastro8686]

You guys are amazing parents!!!! As well as amazing people. You guys are an inspiration to me. I have two kids my self and my husband and I are still working. We are considered “essential” workers and it’s hard to balance work, homeschooling and being together as a family but we do it. Even though people are saying we are selfish and ones doing more then the next. Keep up the amazingly hard work you two.

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Stacey Castro thank you Stacey all my love to you 🤍🤍

[@margaretr778]

Love watching your videos, you are the best. Seeing how you are with your beautiful family including your sisters, makes me smile. You and Jordan work as a team. It’s so easy to see how you love each other. Full marks to you both. I am so very happy to have found your channel xx

[@ireneesperante8137]

Just found your channel. So shocked to hear some of these assumptions. From what I have seen already, you seem such an incredible and lovely family 😍❤️.

[@emc6011]

i am doing pretty well in lockdown. i hope everyone is doing just as well and staying as safe as you can! 🌺😇🥰

[@josefineoijer]

That hot pink color is gorgeous on you Lucy! 🤩

[@megansharpe3342]

Hope your doing all well? Your a great family who work really hard to keep yourselves and children safe and happy you should be both proud of the amazing parents you have become! Stay safe lots of love Xx

[@rachaelkirby3467]

You have a lovely family, I have two boys grown up, tried for years for a baby girl didn't happen, would have loved a sister or daughter sadly had neither, so very alone. Don't take for granted what you have, your very blessed. And yes I'd have paid anything for a baby girl. Sex selection is about family balancing.

[@lindagentile2380]

I think you BOTH are AMAZING Parents.... It definitely shows on the Peaceful, Loving ways you ALL get along.... GBY & your Family with Peace, Good Health & Protection against this Coronavirus 🙏 ❤💙💙💙💖💖🤗✝️

[@oceanpier]

I love the two of you and your little family, people make a lot of assumptions. You've all been keeping me going since lock down. 💜💜💜

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Victoria Katherine thank you so much Victoria 🤍

[@lilybroadbridge1300]

Love your little family, Jordan proper cracks me up! Both amazing parents x

[@sharonday6483]

I can’t believe some of the comments , most people let there kids have a tv in there room if they won’t to stay sane ? , your both amazing parents love watching your videos your real and are just normal parents doing what most parents do day to day to get through it love you guys your making my lockdown much better I look forward to the videos thanks xx🐨

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Sharon Day thank you Sharon 🤍🤍

[@catherinedesimone4015]

People are so critical! You are awesome parents! Keep up the good work!

[@jenniferellis3571]

Two beautiful girls and two wonderful parents what a wonderful family

[@mazda2038]

You both are doing fine ,you both have respect for each other and that's key to a a relationship and parenting x

[@sarahprice2887]

Little India just causally nodding off ♥️ bless her! Such a lovely family xx

[@andreanittel2240]

no, your kids don't need more stress- I agree with letting them have their down time, and time to do things they enjoy...we all need that!!!! Esp now!!!!

[@gillyjollysinatra1633]

I just love watching you all together, you have a beautiful family and of course your gorgeous sons . I think the way you parent both of you is amazing 😉 your children are so lucky to have you as parents and of course vice versa. Xxx

[@natten74]

You two are bloody super parents!! Love you all and can absolutely tell in your vlogs that youre both just as dedicated and hands on as the other.. youre AMAZING! xoxo

[@Kerrylm1984]

Jordan: "Rootie want a Donkey?" 🤣🤣🤣 Love your videos, thank you for being an uplifting distraction from your neighbour in Devon. Keep safe xxx

[@Jane-fq4or]

Beautiful family in every way. Born to be parents - just lovely ❤️❤️

[@marissaquintana6524]

You and Jordan are great parents. Keep doing what your doing....I love watching you guys, you guys remind me how me and my husband are together always joking around

[@janetmoss5275]

Great video Lucy & Jordan the way some people think is beyond me but each to their own . Stay safe keep well until the next time ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shannonwilks4821]

The girls are adorable 😍 & my locking was going ok but now I’m struggling a lot being away from my parents I have a 3 month old been doctors told I have postnatal depression. Love watching your videos and your four children how you cope. You’re an amazing mummy / family ❤️

[@mamak5670]

You're amazing too!! I had pnd with my daughter 11 years ago and you've got this mama. Take each day as it comes you're an amazing mum xx

[@sophiepearson2781]

I think you are both amazing parents. Love you both and your beautiful family. ❤❤

[@staceytheycallmegingex4355]

The Fact LUCY REPLYS TO COMMENTS !!XX WHOOP X EVEN MORE AMAZING SUPER MUM !XX

[@staceytheycallmegingex4355]

Lucy ❤ x

[@nevaehgarrett958]

I hate it when people r so mean to you guys I absolutely love you guys you are so amazing and awesome.

[@gracediamond172]

Loving your videos at the minute Lucy , can’t believe what people think :( I think you and Jordan are amazing parents xxx

[@gurcaycanel9130]

I luv ur videos n if ppl watch ur vlogs it's obvious that Jordan is a handz on dad n always helps out with the cooking n cleaning well done to him 😊 👏

[@Hajl11]

Can you do an updated makeup routine please your foundation looks lovely, I need a new one as mine looks really orange atm!

[@ramonaanthony573]

Yourl are just great parents...every parent has their own way of parenting...Love you guys from South Africa

[@lucyjane23mccafferty16]

You are great parents don't worry about what other people say love you guys

[@anita8455]

Random video idea... How many steps you both do a day doing housework and looking after kids! I've always wondered how many I do with a toddler but I don't have a fitbit or smart watch or anything!

[@theatrelover9920]

Oh my god Rosabella and India are just melting my heart, they are absolutely adorable!!!

[@nataliemchardy]

It’s sad that so many people are assuming that Jordan doesn’t help/step up as a dad. Whether you’re a parent of one child or ten children it’s important and healthy to have some time to yourself doing whatever it is you want to do. ❤️ you shouldn’t lose yourself as a person just because you are a parent xx

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Natalie McHardy very true. Thank you Natalie 🤍🤍

[@niamhviolet14]

the girls made me smile the whole time watching this video!!! They are just the cutest ❤️❤️

[@booksteaandhistory9572]

I think its very nice of Jordan to do DYI around the house. I think of it as he is investing in the environment his family lives in. Honestly, I wish my dad would do some DYI around the house like Jordan. Thankfully, my boyfriend is very similar to Jordan and loves DYI and such. Lucy I think you are the best mum in the world and if all mothers were like you the world would be such a better place for the children. Lots of Love from Malta ❤️😍🥰❤️🌷💖

[@emilyhaynes4158]

Loved your video. You were saying about holidays I have 5 children and we went to Egypt in January. We were very surprised how good they were on the plane and through the airport. Also Jordan was asking about how people are getting on during lock down. It's been a struggle and it's hard for the kids as they are really missing their friends.

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Emily Haynes I absolutely love Egypt. I really do! Where abouts did you go. It’s hard with kids, love to you 🤍🤍🤍

[@emilyhaynes4158]

@@LucyJessicaCarter we went to jaz Aquaviva in hurghada. It was lovely and staff couldn't do enough for us and the children. We flew from Bristol as we only live in Bradford on Avon so not to far to travel. Hope you are all well in this lock down.

[@angelb3260]

Great video as usual guys! Love you guys! India is soooo chill in throughout this video lol. I love the way u guys dress the girlies, always so cute! 😍😍😍

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Angel B thank you so much Angel 🤍

[@niamh1830]

The girls are so beautiful and can't believe they are so alert!

[@artemis1style]

Yes, really enjoyed this video. You are all doing really well.

[@susieleyens3641]

Their getting so big...so adorable xxx

[@zandrajayne]

What negative questions, I think your both brilliant parents and I love you guys you are such a lovely family xxx🤗💕💙

[@sarahstyles2804]

Lucy, your girls are just GORGEOUS!!!! I love that one is looking like you and the other is looking like Jordan. They’re beautiful! 💗💕💗💕 they will have the best relationship when they’re older. I’ve got an identical twin sister and we are so close! They will have such a special bond. Xxx

[@marymary2998]

just do what makes you happy stay safe and keep smiling xxxx

[@kimandyy8388]

You guys are so much fun! I just sit and laugh with you two. Love the vids xx

[@georginadrake4050]

Oh my gosh the babies are so cute, 10/10 content, great questions & answers & also cute babies for us to watch while we listen, what more could we want ☺️😂

[@karenb2382]

I think that you both seem like great parents!

[@sarahj2845]

Aw beautiful family you have. You make it look so easy 💕

[@shannon3824]

I can't believe some of the assumptions! 😩 Can I just say Lucy I watch your videos with my boyfriend & i always say to him if I could be like anybody as a mother it would be you. You seem so kind, patient & caring. We are hoping to start a family this year. I'm type 1 diabetic so it's taken me a while to get my bloods right for pregnancy. Carry on being amazing you two 💙💙💖💖

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Shannon Rowell that is really kind. Thank you Shannon. All my love to you 🤍🤍🤍

[@homemama1001]

Aww the baby is smiling at her dad so cute

[@mrskaitimorris9836]

Omg Indie falling asleep is the cutest 🥰😍

[@loveloveherby]

Love these videos. I think you both make such a great team :)

[@lydz505]

The things people have said is so harsh and I can honestly say I dont see what these people are seeing! Lucy and Jordan you are fab parents I mean does it really matter if jordan works out he still does is fair share people are so harsh ❤❤

[@LucyJessicaCarter]

Lydia Merry thank you Lydia so kind of you 🤍🤍

[@lydz505]

@@LucyJessicaCarter ❤❤

[@charlottecoley2126]

I am 100% with you lucy! I did typhoon lagoon loved all the rides family rafts etc but that volcano was not attractive at all! X

[@learnwithmissr5217]

awww India's little eye roll at 18:21. She's like 'guys im trying to go to sleep here' xxx

[@sarahpyra6467]

such a lovely family and so funny together great video . Girls are growing so fast 💕💕

[@gemmawhiting6137]

India's little smile at her daddy. I love you guys your what's keeping me going through this difficult time. My 3&2 year old boyd love watching your boys. My 3 year old always says "look my friends" 🤣 ignore all the negative comments your amazing people and parents if only there were more people like you guys. Stay safe 😘 xxx

[@sophiebrooks7807]

Lovley couple beautiful kids you’re both really good parents so many negative assumptions lots of love Jordan Lucy and kids xx

[@Rose-ub1cg]

Loved this video! Also love your style of parenting 💪🥰

[@wendylock9071]

Really love these kind of videos, with you two especially.... as your both so honest and real xxxxxx your so beautiful xxxxxxx love you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[@kerstin5386]

My Babygirl is 3 Months and love 👶Thank you for this Video

[@evebeinguniquebeingme6205]

The best part is you can spend more tine with your kids having this job you're doing so good not everyone could do it! 💖👏😄

[@anniej1004]

You have such a lovely family, you’re amazing parents xx

[@The.twinsies]

We’re twin girls and our parents are always run around ragged with us but they always say to people it gets better when we get older haha 😂😂

[@kiranrafi44]

Omg india is gonna be such a good baby she didn't even move that much and then went to sleep aww so cute xx