Taking Myself On A Date! *romanticize your life*

[@koko87371]

Girl you dropped so many gems here! I say this all the time: “How can you expect someone else to treat you like everything if you don’t even treat yourself like everything?”

[@samanthavanschalkwyk5285]

This is so true

[@anaxo1971]

Wow that's self-worth right there

[@ProfNoor123]

That's true 💙.

[@EsiriE]

There must me something in the air because this is the EXACT stage that i'm in, in my life rn. Working soo hard on self love atm and seeing myself the way God sees me.

[@serenaarcher1842]

Same

[@riatesfaye]

Agreed!! I’m doing things for myself and that make me happy! especially just focusing on God and aswell as doing selfcare and focusing on bettering myself everyday!

[@EsiriE]

@@riatesfaye yesss 👏🏾

[@shyysheis]

I literally thought the same thing “it’s something in the air!”

[@sadeiofficial]

Love this!! 💗🧘🏽‍♀️🌿

[@theresalor]

She's hitting that 25 mark. Her mindset is exactly what I went through at actually 23. I started living for me. I always do things by myself and create my own vibes because...why not? I love my own company and my life begins and ends with me. So whenever someone comes to me, they have to make my life better than what it already is. I can't do less. Wait until she's 28 where I am now. Another epiphany that hit me on my birthday. It only gets better and better.

[@drnefarious2758]

Idk, its really hard to think this way when you're 25 and haven't even had a bf because no one loves you. I don't even get asked out on dates in the first place because guys don't think I'm good enough for that. Obviously I just block guys who just want to sext or something, but it's really annoying when you're constantly being hit with assholes like this

[@Tamimt153]

Do you have more advice or epiphanys you want to share?

[@swisdom9117]

That fact about wanting someone who can add to your life is sooo true. I am 22 and I've never had a bf. I refuse to just date someone or lose my virginity to see what sex is like (I'm so curious). These guys in rl are not it. But I also need to do my part. I need to take care of myself just as much as I care for my hair

[@Kierraburch25]

This ‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@4bambii444]

i really love seeing people enjoying themselves and doing what they love for THEMSELVES✨

[@ameliacostello4871]

Girl sometimes you gotta have alone time and nothing is wrong with that. Take time to love and enjoy yourself! 💛

[@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988]

*The queen of beauty is back. I missed her so much. Luhsetty looks oustandingly beautiful in her thumbnail. The white dress is so pretty on her & she looks stunning in her profile picture and looks prettier than ever, too*

[@melanyz5867]

Once I started asking myself “Why?”, I started to put the pieces of the puzzle together and now my outlook on things is so different. Setting boundaries and putting yourself first is so important. I’m 31 now and It has taken years for me to get to a place where I can say: “yep, I am awesome; I like myself”.

[@annabelleclaudio8773]

I am 31 also... and have to say goodbye to some people to make room for really cool ones...

[@Oddie_A]

“Why can’t I walk into Vanilla Cookie Crumble?” 😂😂😂 huge mood

[@ava.catherine]

Ive been watching you since 2015 and I love seeing you grow and live your best life 💕

[@traceysamuel6458]

Dangg !! Since ‘15? Okkk I ddnt even know what KZbin was then.. hehe😅

[@ldmwaleed3913]

@@traceysamuel6458 same

[@victoriacestodio348]

I’ve been on this self love journey also the last year and everything you were talking about in this video I’ve also learned how to do. I loved this!!! Made me realize how far I’ve come!

[@patriciaflorentina3168]

Our girl is back in business!

[@sunnilightfoot7156]

No matter what’s missing in your life YT has someone who can put you on! You are so live for this!!!!

[@lavlinalavender]

She has become a Queen now , I mean look at her attitude.Such a strong diva

[@IndyyGold]

So happy for you!! As someone who has watched you for 8 years, you never fail to inspire me 💞

[@juliajimenez7162]

I really enjoyed this video. I've been dealing with these issues lately too. It's comforting to know I'm not alone. Thank you so much! 💜

[@toyoseventsanddecor]

When she was doing her makeup, It really sparked me when she said that you can't impress everyone! Thanks Luhhsetty for bringing this video

[@iamsofiaa_]

omg lisette you look amazing! the hair is giving sis!! im on a healing journey myself thanks so much for the tips 💜

[@miahenderson2617]

This is such a powerful video, and you are so right. Everyone should love themselves and prioritise themselves. It has helped me to think about myself for a change.

[@OnlinewithElmachannel]

Your hair became even prettier and healthier from the last time I saw you 😍😍❤️

[@laurynsharon]

Vid really came on time.I literally lost myself by being there for so many ppl until I realized I'm not really living, rather just existing. Now I put it as my top priority to love me more and just take care of myself first. ly♡

[@gregria9182]

Back and better than ever! You never fail to make my day.💖

[@melossibagadis7973]

Girl,you're literally glowinggg OMGG

[@ashleybhagwandas20]

Matching people’s energy is exactly what I’m doing right now. Just like you said I was that person who always reached out and now I’m finally putting myself first

[@angelbaby92ful]

Same!

[@amandapeters-bambic2507]

You have really inpresied me to "take a step back" and realize my self worth, and to be selfish. Thank you so much!!

[@fatimaaamir7738]

YOU GO GIRL YOU ARE ABSOLUTELEY AMAZING . I DINT KNOW WHY PEOPLE DICH AND DOGE YOU..... LIKE FR YOU ARE THE BESTEST HUMAN ON THE EARTH I HAVE EVER SEEN YOU ARE THE TRUE BEAUTY FROM HEART ASWELL AS FROM OUTSIDE I REALLY APPRECIATE YOU AND YOU WORK. KEEP IT UP

[@TheIntrovertedSim]

yes!!! so proud of u!! i let go “friends” as well & been working on me & my peace without having to be negative/argue, & i love it sm. peace & love always win!

[@emilydrawsxo9029]

omg this is so true! just don't care about other's opinions because at the end of the day, not everybody like u, and u don't like everybody. so inspiring!

[@thukumarkmwangi1523]

Sis could be gone for 5 months and her content would remind me to treat me like how I want me to be treated! LOVE YOU Lisette!🥰

[@LotusFlowerLife]

I absolutely *LOVE* how you decided to take yourself on a picnic date as a form of self love/care. It's crazy how we can go above and beyond for others but not do the same for ourselves.

[@abigailperez4151]

I’ve been watching your videos since I was 16 (I’m 20 now) and I just want to say you have really helped me grow as a woman, and these girl talk videos were; and still are huge teaching moments for me. Thanks for being a big sis I never had!

[@angelicaurena3918]

This is the length check you get when you leave your hair alone from salons and just use the right products & I'm so glad there's women out here empowering other women ,I need advice like this all the time .

[@christy406]

The meaning and information shared in this video is really important, it applies to not only young, single women but women of all ages. If i may be so bold, i feel like this energy is particularly useful for married women, especially mothers... it is easy to completely lose your identity as you embark on the journey of motherhood, and wifehood. You're in service, at times, of every person and thing in your vicinity every waking hour.. but you know what often gets left off of your never-ending 'to-do' list? To take care and time for yourself. Thank you for thinking of and executing this video, the message is gold. Should be a series IMO

[@wojoudd]

THE WAY I HYPED U UP WHEN U CAME W THE DRESS OMGGG UR LITERALLY SOO GORGEOUS MANNN

[@User300a]

This video waas soo helpful ❤ I thank you sm I would have realised how important it is to love and respect your self ✨

[@natalie_rose]

Lisette I truly agree with you. Recently in my life, I had a lit of eye opening experiences and I realized that I don't have to turn myself into someone else in order to impress others. Thank you.

[@parissewell1005]

you speaking the real facts in this video!! a lot of it i needed to hear so thank u queen ily

[@sesiabautista8120]

You’ve made so many points! I’m taking this as a sign to start romanticize my life for myself. I love you!!💕

[@biancapierre2061]

Please do more of these, I needed this so bad. Literally have been struggling with how to pour into myself and then you posted this 🙏🏽

[@maxyousofirahimi4555]

08:19 I feel like this applies to all the people who need to get out there and just try to connect with people. Not everybody’s going to like you, but you have to try. It’s easy to get your standards so high (and at the same time be insecure about yourself) that you isolate yourself. It’s easier than ever. So make an effort as an act of self love. You deserve to have great people in your life and it’s your responsibility to get to know those people. It’s okay if some people don’t like you. Keep trying and inevitably you will find your people. But as she says in the video, you have to be one of those people. For yourself but also for the people that you love.

[@bangtwitterandtwicetagram830]

OH MY GOSH YOURE BACK! I was manifesting you’d upload today 💜

[@zotmlr]

Love having you back, spitting facts giving motivation to move forward. missed you so much. lisette i've been watching you throughout my whole teen life and now i'm an young adult, i'm so glad to see you grow and happy to grow with you. you're amazing! ly

[@finaukamilo]

The Queen is back it again. I missing watching your video. This video/ upload has touched me alot of this. To treat myself to be a better person, there no men this world will treat you like a queen .

[@SydShae]

You have grown soooo much and are speaking SO much TRUTH. I have learned to live in this headspace of knowing and growing who I am before expecting anything from someone else, or really needing any validation from someone else. I found a man and am in a relationship I am beyond satisfied in and it all came from knowing me, loving me, and putting me FIRST. Thank you for spreading this knowledge and I am SO happy you are happy.

[@Sarahlovely88]

i love how ur so positive! ❤ your so pretty. Enjoy ur alone time. it's the best. u don't need a man to make u happy.

[@bookitty19]

Its the match the energy for me!!! I really needed this video because ive been going through this cycle with my family surprisingly!! So I decided to break off the toxic take care of my mental health and be happy and live life because its “too” short! Miss u lushetty looking forward to more positive and self love videos!!!

[@lucyhart7878]

I have been watching you for a while now and your videos have help me through my tough time with caring for my mum and I just want to say thank you and you just be yourself ❤️

[@iamnyia8242]

i used to watch you all the time because you just seemed like such a loving being and you were so positive and like your life was all put together still good content til this day love you lisette

[@sanaesanae2344]

love you and love how you encourage women to be themselves and love and prioritize themselves. im 29 and i learnt that throug my journey. thanks 3>

[@blessedxbby624]

Lisette, u make me wanna be a better version myself💜 ur like the older sister I never had🤍🤍I binge on your videos when I need to get away☁️☁️ thank you ✨🌙☁️🤍

[@angharadrees856]

Loved this! Dating yourself is the best thing to do to give yourself confidence. I feel like I go d up on dating. There’s so many rules and being yourself isn’t enough these days .

[@dominiquemubanga7474]

Wow girl, it has been a fat minute since we’ve seen that beautiful face of yours , but I’m happy you’re back and took time for yourself love y’a 💗💗

[@beatricenigro23]

Hi Lisette, what an inspirational video! Thank you for posting that, you're so pretty and intelligent. I'm really happy you're healing yourself, it's important to truly understand who you are, that means that you start loving yourself as you deserve. A warm hug.❤️

[@ogomsseries]

Priortise your hapiness always, dont allow people,s opnion stop you from doing the things you want. Thanks for the encouraging words.

[@dodobirddori]

hii!! you’ve inspired me to love myself and You should TOTTALLY MAKE VIDEOS LIKE THIS CAUSE ITS HELPING ME AND ALOT OF PPL SM!! TYSM!!! ❤️❤️

[@abbyblanchard8139]

I really love this video - been watching your videos for so long! The growth is REAL and I'm so here for it

[@JÜLIE-j4l]

I'm from Germany & I've discovered your channel only a few weeks ago and I must say, every time I watch your videos, they somehow calm me down. Honestly I've never been much into KZbin influencers or what so ever but I really do like your videos AND you remind me A LOT of myself for example when it comes to taking the time you need for certain things, cleaning up your apartment properly, wearing the clothes you want despite other people's "nay's". In the end it's really what makes us feel best to overcome and outshine some people's nays and we've seen the results: the majority loves it when we stick to ourselves. I'm so glad I've discovered you & I can't wait for more videos! 🦋💘 Lots of love from Munich to L.A.! 🥰

[@yessisbutterflyfamily]

Omg girl! Your video came in a perfect time. I've been questioning all this different things about me and about putting myself first and setting healthy boundaries with. Why don't people want to hang out with me and all that? Thank you for your video and I hope you are doing well. I really missed your videos. They really help me a lot ❤️❤️❤️🙏😘

[@anniiinaaaaaaaa]

big sister everybody needs. thanks for this video. really made me realize so much.

[@zeneamorkel3901]

People that have been watching Luhsetty, knows that’s her theme song/anthem at 6:38.. Plus, thank youuu for posting again, I’ve been waiting for you to post, your content is everything!

[@Pancake_cake_cake55]

AS YOU SHOULD! I do it ALL the time! If it’s been a while since I’ve taken myself out, I’ll buy a day pass to a spa. She deserves it.💜😭

[@thirteenwolfies]

I can genuinely say that I really appreciate all of the wise advice you dropped!!

[@jessicaessien23]

omg girl i’ve been waiting i’m so excited you finally posted❤️🥹

[@guerlinegelin-eisner8058]

ILYSM!!!!! Yes never expect people to treat you the way u like. just warm up and see what its like

[@yvetteisthefuture]

I’ve never loved a video more than this one. Pure quality and things to live by. I love your transparency and I think I gotta rethink some things for myself in a great way

[@emanghanim7325]

Omg the silent patient is literally such a good read hope you enjoy it

[@bugbones55]

Lisette I appreciate this talk soooo much!! Lovely to see you back and on this journey as well! You are glowing inside and out! Much love❤

[@holly_kalonji]

Your channel is SO SO GOOOOOD!😭 Firstly, MA'AM? You're so pretty!😻 Secondly, I absolutely love how much effort you put into editing your vids!! Also, the quality is EVERYTHING!!!🥺❤️❤️❤️

[@keilah2]

I love you Omg I’ve been watching you for years and I’m so proud

[@Hanna_Tam]

Something that I heard that changed my way of thinking was "don't accept criticism from someone who you wouldn't go to for advice". Changed my whole perspective honestly.

[@rosefrancis2043]

What you said it was totally 💯 true love ❤️. Keep yourself first, prioritize yourself. Give yourself love ❤️, care, support yourself, encourage yourself. Live your own life , Do everything that’s make you feel happy 😊.

[@kaicrump4125]

OMG I’ve missed her SOOOO MUCHHH I’ve been like lost and so sad. I’m so happy for luhhsetty. Love you girl😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@nattshacc6513]

Omg! Ur back!,! I LOVE U luhsetty and can’t wait for the awesome vids u will be posting!

[@cassandrasingh7474]

Get it girl! Yes you do have to love yourself first and foremost. Thank you for sharing!

[@alishabhullar]

your vibe seems so welcoming🥰

[@judithnnodim5445]

Giiiirrrrrllllll…where have you been all my life😩so glad i came across your channel this morning. I needed to hear these things. You were spitting facts. Thanks darling😘😘 Am on a journey now to self love🥰

[@ShiiruNgugi]

Welcome back Luhsetty we truly missed you

[@lexs.588]

this is definitely a sign, I told myself a lot recently to romanticize and take myself out on dates and look good for MYSELF✨ ILY QUEEN💜💜✨💫

[@nicolewilliams2039]

Lisette, you are an inspiration to me. Thank you so much honestly for your wonderful videos. Depression is real, and your videos help. So thank you girl.

[@Mesha-ka]

She's baccck y'all we've all missed her sm love from Saint Lucia ❤️💯 she shared alot and she definitely looked lovely 😍

[@chelseachumba7661]

always pushing me to love and take care of myself more

[@sxvannah7525]

YESSS MAMMM YOUR GLOWING I LOVE VIDEOS LIKE THISS NO MAN DESERVES ALL OF THISSS LIKE I FEEL BAS FOR YOUR EXES BECAUSE THEY MISSING OUT and your hair😍

[@melikabahadori4520]

This is the best video I have ever seen, just, thanks 😭💗

[@karlahiatt]

I’ve missed your videos. And you came back glowing we all see it 🫶🏽❤️

[@livewithmanon6443]

The first video of you i saw was a "get ready for a date" this is a nicer one because i'm afraid to even flirt so like how would i go on a date with someone else. Thank you for the reminder to take care of myself 💖💖

[@sarahvic458]

I loved the silent patient! The twist at the end 🤯

[@sunflowerlela4424]

She’s back 😍🥹 I’m so happy to see you girl!!!

[@aLb159]

Was just wondering when you'll post🙊💃 This video was so needed.. I have been asking most of that questions lately... I am just trying to find myself again..

[@its_nzisa]

Love it...learnt so many things on putting myself first before everyone.. because one thing about me, I will try and please someone but don't realize the harm they are causing me

[@nikkixchanelslife9347]

Everything you said was so spot on and exactly what I needed to hear…. I missed you so much !!! You’re videos are literally apart of my chill spa days lol love ya girl

[@melissasteinkamp9348]

glad ur back luhhsetty

[@FK-zp2fp]

I am loving the mindset - thank you ❤️ I needed the reminder to stop accommodating for others when they wouldn’t do the same for me.

[@nolwazicele8601]

the queen is back❤❤💃💃💃luv you luhhsetty, all the way from south Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@gbullard98]

This video is right on time👏🏽. Going through a season of loving myself, growing, and glowing!!!🤍

[@alila.b8068]

i love you girl, your advice about loving yourself is amazing PREACH!!!!

[@nickysaayman2339]

I love how you are growing girl. Keep going cheering for you. BTW love the hair growth

[@ummeemad4968]

Self care videos, they really motivate me. I wait badly for your videos. Good to see you again 😊

[@angelica957]

So happy your back.i love to see you more. But life is first .

[@spreadlove8291]

Lisette!!! Omg I was just saying “I haven’t seen a video from her in FOREVER!!” Glad you’re back and had time to yourself 😊

[@gigioso241]

Thank you for posting this. It came just in time. It helps remind me to not go backwards (to someone from the past) & keep moving forward focusing on ME. Setting boundaries is everything. 👍🏽

[@keondraduncan2519]

Yay!!!!!! Lisette is back!!!!!! 💕💕💕🥰☺️ I’m here for self care & bringing peace back into my life!!!! Your videos have definitely helped a lot!!