Lwm Tiam Tsis Nrhiav Koj Ua Txiv Lawm. 2/20/22

[@etee8361]

I wish my mil would tell me not to attend her funeral. I’d make her put that sh!t in writing and notarized!

[@pretty2165]

For reals! 🤣

[@bluewhisper5008]

😂😂😂

[@maipha8560]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@souavang9152]

😂

[@bluewhisper5008]

Wow. Sounds almost like my husband. He can't stand up for me. This boils me because this could almost be me. My mil hates me because im too short for him 4'9" and not pretty enough. My mother in law is the devil like yours too. I paid my own dowry. Took her abuse for 2 years then my husband took me away. Now she's almost 80 and nobody wants her she's back to living with me. Now If I don't agree I tell her to her face and bring the past back to her . She hates it. Lol.

[@kingofall9262]

Karma a b, be strong

[@myprecious6751]

You owe no loyalty to her. For you to have a heart and open your day up to her to live her dying days is short of a blessing to her. But people like her will never appreciate it. Just remember you are not obligated to. Your husband want it it's his responsibility not yours. He warrant the burden and responsibilities so deemed him to it. Wash your hands of her. Do what you can and if you can other than that too damn bad...

[@etee8361]

I’m 4’9 too. We short and cute! 😜

[@kimberlyvx]

ib cov nyab loj loj siab siab los twg tsis nyiam muaj pheej xwm paub li peb cov under 5ft kiag. tsis txhob tu siab os... alot of us are in same shoes ib yam koj kiag.

[@MissPeachie]

@@kimberlyvx you are right. My 2 niam Ntxawm are 5”4’ and don’t know how to do anything, especially cook. They can’t even handle having 7lbs babies. LOL.

[@angelthao4674]

Omg this story reminds me of my ex mil I'm glad to get out of that.

[@semicharmedlife]

Sister you already endured your mil no need to endure your sil. Stand up for yourself and if your husband doesn't like it he can leave instead.

[@cal3243]

Agreed

[@user-wd8br8rp9s]

I agree.

[@MySunshine71]

I have a monster-in-law and a mama's boy as a husband also. I lived 30 years of my life being verbally abused by her because the mama's boy couldn't leave his mama and move out and I couldn't divorce him because of the children and mostly because of relatives and families who won't let me off. I think the earth and sky feel my pain and cries because my -n-laws are now in hell and I have never been happier in my life. I can feel your frustration and pain sister.

[@myprecious6751]

No matter what you shouldn't let your children or relatives stopped you. But to put up and tolerate for 30 damn years. But I guessed you put up with it for that long why b*tch about it now? Children will understand and they'll adapt to changes. Mentally it's better for them. Remember you are someone. You matter. You deserved a good husband that's going to stand up for you and be a man. He's married to you not his parents or his families. He's responsibilities are to you and your children, his own home. To protect and defend you against all outsiders and especially his own families namely his parents. If he cannot be a man to take care of his responsibilities what good is he to you and your children? Love yourself and respect yourself. Know when enough is enough and learn to walk away from a losing battle. Cannot be happy if all they do is sucked every last good out of you and left an empty shell full of hate and misery and despair.

[@bchang227]

@@myprecious6751 PREACH IT GIRL!!!

[@MySunshine71]

@@myprecious6751 I tried moving out 1 time and they had to call my side of the family and drag me back into the marriage. Because i was born in Laos I still have the "75" thinking cap on. I was preach to love and obey the OGs and respect all side of the families. Yes, I shouldn't bitch about it now but I just want to share my freedom and my happiness after hearing this story

[@Rise-Shine24]

My mil try that shit with me, I took my husband and moved 15 hours away. Blocked her phone calls! I’m happy as heck, my mil don’t determine my happiness.

[@วีระชาติแซ่หลี่]

ตอนนี้กำลังเจอเลยแม่ญ่าแบบนี้ไม่เจอด้วยตัวเองไม่มีวันเข้าใจ ความเสียใจมีอยู่เต็มอก

[@tunyalakthiratnitchakun6472]

เป็นกำลังใจให้นะ ขอแค่สามีเข้าใจและรักเราก็พอ ถ้ายังอยู่ฝ่ายแม่ผัวมาด่าเราอีก แนะนำเลิกซะเสียเวลาค่ะ กับผัวที่ไม่ปกป้องเรา

[@faidanglorchannel3940]

Tuaj pab koj lawm thiab saib koj nawb

[@msjtworld8815]

I got goosebumps all over because it hits my core . I know your story is so true because you said you want to remember and pray you will never meet your husband and his family in the next life or whatever life again. I’m sorry your husband never stood up for you...this is worst than what your mother in law ever did to you. Sister, you can never get back all those miserable years but it made you who you are. You are not weak. You are strong to put up this much crap. Free yourself now and live your life how you see it.

[@myprecious6751]

Right it's never too late to free herself. Especially now that all the kid's are grown. Spend the rest of her life at peace and love and happiness not self loating and misery. Too dislike and not want to meet or married him ever again or his family speaks alot of hate, Misery, pain, disgust, mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. But she still stayed with him and tolerate the abused. Now it's from his sisters. Yet he's still not a man to step up and defend and protect his wife. Especially after all the crap his mother put his wife through and now his sister's pick up where their mother left off.

[@chakatalee]

You have the biggest heart, dont worry cause God loves you and you have all the blessing from heaven. Bless you and your journey 🙏

[@08maibill]

I don't get why you as a women still stays with a husband that doesn't take your side and don't protect your rights as a wife. Also why deal with a family like this for so long. This is American and you need to learn how to love yourself frist.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

I agree! Life is too short to be so miserable.

[@maipha8560]

That's right! If he chooses his family, let that be it. Heck when his parents die, he can go and spend time and hang out with them at the cemetery.

[@solomoua5520]

Stop saying this is America. Stupid thinking about peoples that has that though… 🥱 The mil just need a big slapping in the face. So she can get her mouth shuttt The husband has to chose between wearing a dress or pant. Be a man and protect your woman

[@Iabiabsiab]

Me viv ncaus aw, koj raug tsim ib yam li kuv thiab os. Peb ua ib tug Ntxhais hmoob mas tu siab tshaj plaws li, mus ua lub neej raug tsim loj tshaj li os.

[@ABO-rk5ls]

Niam laus aw koj zaj dab neeg ma zoo li kv kiag os tu siab tsaj thaum mloog koj hai

[@maiyang570]

Omfg I would have left him a long time ago, never will I let anyone abuse me mentally like this.

[@heysoniher]

Same here!!!

[@amyy8017]

I know how you feel. I'm your shose too sister. I promise myself too same way like you do.

[@vubbieful]

Ua cas yuav ua kuv mob siab ua luaj nrog koj li os txoj kev ua nyab nyuaj thiab tu siab tshaj plaw li yog tau ib tsev neeg li koj xwb os kuv lub neeg los yuav luag zoo li koj thiab os

[@endlesslove1256]

Yias phem txaus yias thiab. Tsis qhuas koj thiab tsis qhuas koj niam pog.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Tseeb tseeb. Tus zoo yeej tsis yeem mus txuam tus phem yom thaum pib. Txog txij mag tag pab ntxub tag tiam ces yeej phem txaus nkaus thiab ho. Lam muab ua dab neeg hais seb puas muaj tus qhuas xwb.

[@auaumvhj5355]

yeej yog li koj haig kawg .

[@gexiong3864]

Cov no ces leej twg ntsib leej twg thiaj paub xwb os kuv twb ntsib lawm thiab nawv

[@nyabhmoobthojchannel9352]

Niam lau kj hai tau yog kawg lawmos muaj sij hawm no tuaj caum kuv thiab os

[@touathao3397]

This guy lucky he have a good wife but he not protect his wife

[@maivang4504]

Yog kawg kuv los twb ntsib kiag li koj thiab os me ncaus aw

[@gnyblamo9340]

Kj txoj dab neeg no nus zoo li kv lub neej tam sim no os niam laus

[@minaxiong5681]

😭😭😭😭 tu siab tshaj plaws li os viv ncaus wb lub neej zoo ib yam li os

[@อัมพรแซ่เท้า-ห2ฎ]

😊😊

[@heysoniher]

I would have left that miserable life a long time ago! Sorry you went through all that but it wasn’t like your MIL didn’t warn you. Your husband didn’t protect you because he didn’t respect you. Why pray for a better life in the next life when you still have a chance to make it happen this lifetime? Remember, you are the master of your life/destiny and only you can make you happy!

[@ThuanTranUS]

No

[@ชอดฟังเพลงลาว]

Tub tu lawv tsi tshuam hlub tseem yuav tau yus lawv nyiam thiab ma ua lub neej tu siab kawg li

[@thone2929]

yog lawm tam sim no kv tab tom nyob rau txoj kev zoo li kj ko thiab os niam laus aw

[@Yourfavhmonggirly]

We're are in the same boat and it's very sad. My mother in law hates me so much she refuse to let my kids eat at her house so we stopped going years ago. I'm afraid her funeral in the Future. I'm ready to divorce my husband I'd he does what this man in the story did I'm sorry but we both work invest in this marriage and I'm entitled to my feelings.

[@maipha8560]

Yep make sure you put your foot down. In-laws and nyab relationships are two ways street. If they didn't like you or offer any help, I guess they are telling you that's how they want it to be.

[@kuekia5654]

Tu me sister, I am wearing your shoe right now.

[@beevveil2240]

Ev cas neeg pheej tib peb cov neeg me me ua luaj. Peb me tab sis peb lub peev xwm zoo dua thiab peb tes taw nrawm dua cov siab siab nav 😭😭😭

[@cheeyang4939]

Been waiting all morning

[@nraugntses3610]

Cov dab neeg muaj kev ntxub ntxaug no twb tsis tsim nyog coj tuaj tham os niam ntsuab teev.

[@MXhX88]

Omg. Of course he's going to buy her for him. His life and her life. Ur mother just there to support and guide them.

[@taoleetaolee7626]

Pab kj tu siab os tu niam laus peb cov nyab niam pog tsi nyiam thiaj li nkag siab xwb os

[@pahouavang9371]

Ua neej nyob luag tsis hlub yus ces tuag los yeej tsis hlub yus. Tsis tas pe koob hmoov.

[@masaelee8989]

Kuv zoo li ,koj thiab koj hais koj txoj tas luwm kuv yuav hais kuv txoj thiab mo.g

[@kabnpaujhawj9598]

Yog kaws os mob yus es yus thiaj li paub os

[@hoasung9231]

Pab koj tu siab os mi vib caug wa

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

I feel you. I am in your shoes too. But now I live for myself, my kids, and my husband. Whenever they ask for help, I help if I can. If I don't have anything to help, I don't.

[@oppooppo-ho7rz]

Yg lawm o niam laus awtxoj kev niam pog thiab tej muam g nyiam ces kv lo yeej yg ib tug thiab o

[@cassandraxiong282]

Tej zaum koj siab tsi loj siab tsi zoo txaus ua lawv tus nyab.

[@cuvangthi669]

Kv lub neej cag nim yog nkaug li kj Haig li og

[@baha9061]

cas txoj da neeg no yuav thooj kuv ua luaj li os

[@AaAa-sp8fs]

Niam laus as thov pab hais rau kv thiab o

[@Hmongtiverse]

Wow, Your Husband Has NO BALLS! If I was you girl! I would of left already, in this time of AGE! F That! If your Husband don’t protect you! Your in law will disrespect you your whole life! SMH ! Please Protect your OTHER HALF, because no one will!

[@northbay4619]

This is why you don't date or marry a man whose mother already made it known from the beginning that she doesn't accept you. It is not worth it. There is nothing I can't stand more than evil mother-in-law and their evil daughters. Why the hell do these daughters meddle anyways?

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

That’s what i say all the time when i hear these women complain. They knew.

[@teardrop662]

I don't believe it until I hear both side story.

[@beechang]

Txhob tu sab os peb los yeej zoo ib yam hab thaum yug txawj tiv thaiv yug tug kheej ces twb yog yug kawm ntawm puab lug xwb os. Puab qha kom ua taug nam xwb txob tu sab os tam nuav ces muab txuj sa cog rua yug cov miv nyuas xwb os hlub yug tug kheej nawb

[@mast3rlue]

1000000000000000000000000% I love this 🥰😢❤🙂

[@lilylo5191]

This is so sad.

[@nagxiong6788]

Ca yv ua neej meem txom ua lj lau

[@maipha8560]

This lady sounds like a broken record. Sometimes, you have to take a leadership role and take control of your own life and happiness. Should've taken a firm stand against in-laws like yours. If you don't find your own happiness, people around you will not find it for you. Sad that she can endure it for this long. I can guarantee you that if you were sick and on your deathbed like your in-laws, they would've taken their son to marry someone else.

[@Llis3322]

Agree. I can't stand stories where the "main character" acts like he/she can't do anything and just plays victim all the time. If the husband don't have balls, then grow your own!!! sheeeeesh!!!

[@maipha8560]

@@Llis3322 that's right! Even if the family yells at her for wearing the pants in the house, then let that be it.

[@nangkue8371]

My story is similar to hers, but I defy my husband's immediate family to become the most successful and giving of the mother in law's children. Yes , his sisters don't like me, but they are not apart of my family's life. When you take away your yawning for their approval and love, you are free and self love blossom in your life. Now that the mother in law is gone, the sisters are all teary-eyed and sad stating they have no family to love them and no places to go visit.

[@MySunshine71]

If you're not in her shoe or been in a similar situation you won't understand. Most of you are lucky you don't have to deal with OGs that live with you. It has nothing to do with you being dumb, stupid and or don't have the power or gut to leave okay?

[@maipha8560]

@@nangkue8371 I'm in a similar place too but I don't even have time or give my awful sister-in-law a second of my precious time and energy. I used it to better my life and be the best mother I can be to my children. No one defines me, only I get to do that myself. With or without them, I'm moving forward with my plans and my life.

[@iaxiong5529]

Amen me too!!!

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister txoj kev ko ces raug leej twg leej twg thiaj paub mog

[@bbvwsxeemvaaj4015]

cas kj tus niam pog tus txiv cas zoo li kv thib kv lub neej zoo li kj lub thiab 😭😭

[@avnamo5787]

Cov niam cov txiv uas phem phem ma ntxim ntxub tiag.

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Dab laug hais ntau ces kom dab laug coj mus xwb

[@yuxianlee2864]

Txoj kev niam pog coj phem li ko Mas txaua ntxub tshaj plaws li o. Twb lwj siab npaum ko ua cas tseem yuav nws niag tub ntawv thiab .

[@maivang1673]

Kuv tus mi ntshais ces niaj hnub no ces lawv ua kiag li ko rau nws os yus twb yog neeg zoo zoo thiab es cas yus tej mi nyuam yuav tau lub neej nyuaj siab ua luaj li yus twb yog niam pog thiab tab sis yus tej nyab mas yus yeej hlub hlub li os nyob ntiaj teb no cas yuav muaj cov neeg phem phem li ko li os

[@mailoryang1248]

Kuv Los tau ib tug niam pog zoo lis koj tu thiab.

[@MC-qq5ly]

Hello my beautiful Ruby

[@kanokwanlove9329]

yus yog tus luag tsi nyiam cias ua zoo npaum cas lo yeej tsi zoo

[@touyang5608]

Cas g nhov txog cov vauv neejtsav g niam. Tejzaum Kv yuav muaj 1 zaj thiab hais txog Kv yuav tus vauv luag g niam

[@01rainheart]

Lub neej no uas cas zoo kiag li kuv lub neej tam sim no ces kuv tu siab tshaj qhov hais tau lawm tsis muaj siab tu lis lawm os chim lub siab thiab mob lub siab nkaus lawm xwb

[@whatheck6797]

Sound like most mother in-laws that came from Laos to America 🇺🇸

[@khammoua7116]

kev mu ua nyab leej twg ntsib niam pog txiv yawg phem ma leej twg thiaj paub os lawv aws ua npuas tiv aws xwb e thiaj zoo

[@somman9639]

Pab koj tiab su os mi niam tsev aw swb tag pua tsav yam lawd ! Yuav tsjm tawv tim tawv thiaj hum mog

[@nkaujseelee4905]

Koj cov neej tsa tsis muaj tus khov Koj thiaj li raug kev txom nyem siab. Lawv thiaj saib tsis taus koj. Luag tias noj tsis taus ces yuav tuag. Hais tsis taus ces yuav Swb . Koj hais tsis taus rau koj tej neej tsa Koj hais tsis taus rau tej kev tij Koj thiaj swb ..cas zoo li koj ntshaw lawv tshaj lawv ntshaw Koj . Koj twb tsis nrog lawv Nyob es Koj pheej ntsawg lawv txoj kev hlub ua dab tsi.

[@yeevue6569]

This is how these Inlaws turn good dil into evil dil!

[@afuvivo5831]

Hai txog lub neej zoo li no ces kv los tus siab hv tab si niam laus aws koj tus. Txiv twb tseem zoo lawm ntau dua peb cov o kj tus txiv tseem txawj los hai rau kj tia yog niam lawv hai xb twb tsi yog nws hai e txob tu siab ho kv tus ces xav hnov kom hai li kj tus npaum cas los tsi tau hnov li o nws cov lub teb yus ces yog cem li cem xb ua rau hniav hnub no ces tsi tau luag nroo ib yam dab tsi rau nws li lm o

[@shouathaolee]

I have been in your shoes before and believe everything you said 😭😭 and still married to my husband for over 30 years 😭

[@namchai3951]

Cas koj nim yuav hais raws lis kuv hais thiab os me viv ncaus aw Yug los ua neeg me soob mas luag hais ab tsi los hais tias koj ua tsi tau os me dhau Tu siab tshaj os

[@baoher4277]

Lady learn forgiveness

[@user-wd8br8rp9s]

This story hit hard, your story is my story.

[@hlinrathojchannel6752]

Cas koj lub neej tau tus txiv tsis tiv thaiv yus li kuv thiab na kuv mloog mas cas yuav zoo li kuv lub neej tam sim no thiab os 😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Cov ntxhais uas thaum sib tham luag niam luag txiv twb tsis nyiam yus lawm los tseem nkag qees mus yuav lawv tus tub ces yeej tsis tau txais kev hlub lis. Nco ntsoov yus tus txiv txawm yuav hlub yus npaum cas los. Nws yeej yuav hlub thiab mloog lis nws niam nws txiv qhias thiab.

[@itcity2956]

Txhob tu siab os.kuv los yeej tau lub neej zoo li koj thiab kuv ma yog hmoob dawb los yuav hmoob ntsuab ma lawv haj yam tsis nyiam kuv.thaum niam pog puv 120 xyoo kuv tseem yog tus tuaj nyiaj ntau tshaj tus ua niam pog hlub na.los kuv yeej tsis tau lub npe zoo li os

[@baochulee1124]

These stories are so 🙄🙄 these mil and sil act like they gonna sleep with their sons/brothers. And these dil act like they don’t have a mouth to defend themselves.

[@ongxiong7921]

I’ve been so blessed, my mother in-law is wonderful to me, but I watch my mother and she’s terrible to one of my sisters in-laws. It’s so true if your mother in-law doesn’t like you, it doesn’t matter what you do to make her happy or if you just said something to her that wasn’t even mean she makes it out to be like you are the worst person in the world. Try being the oldest daughter n telling your mother to stop being so rude! Seriously my mom busted in one of my brothers rooms and told him to get up so she could find him the wife she liked, while my mom was living with my brother n his girlfriend. Sometimes I feel like some moms just don’t have any filters! My grandma was the same way. It’s so so sad, because you like your sister in-laws n your aunt in-laws but they be suffering by the people who gave you life! Some times I just don’t understand why they teach you to be respectful and love each other yet they talk shit n plot us all against each other☹️. Be strong and take care of yourself. You don’t ever have to see those people if you don’t want too!

[@sengtheking]

Koj Npam lawm. Lub neej dhau los koj tshuav koj niam pog nqi tiam no koj thiaj li tau so koj niam pog quav. Yus tsuas tso yus ruam ua tsis tsis niam ces kav tsij them nqi kom tag tiam no.

[@tueyang6776]

Koj txoj dab neeg no yog kuv txoj kiag.

[@maovang2294]

Tus viv ncaus aw yog koj cov muam siab phem lim hiam zoo li koj cov muam ntawv ces tsis tab ok txog cov muam dev lim hiam ntawv li lawm os me niam tsev aw

[@maiyiathor3119]

Ua cas xa tias yog kuv xwb no tseem muaj koj thiab txoj kev koj tau mas tu siab tas ib tiam viv ncaus koj li yog koj me kuv li ces kuv yog hmong leeg os txhob tu siab rau yus tus kheej vim xaiv los yug tsi tau ua tus niam pos xaiv cov muam ntawm tsi care ua zoo rau cia nws xa ntxub xa cem nws ua ces mob nws khib nws xwb nas

[@nancypha3576]

Tus niam koj txhob ntsawg ntsawg luag kev hlub txhob lhes txog cov muam cov kwv cov niam tij niam ntxawm os txav deb ntawm koj cov yeeb ncuab os peb ua neej nyob tus twg hlub koj ces koj hlub tus ntawv xwb os tau cov niam pog siab phem li koj tus niam pog xwb tuag lo zoo txhob nyuaj siab rau cov neeg tsis hlub yus mog

[@kerchang7096]

Koj zaj dag ces zoo li kuv thiab os sister

[@mayuralee756]

Cas koj lub neej zoo li kuv lub thiab os

[@pnvang2]

Sorry of my life. Sister, I thought I’m the only one in this world. 😢

[@EasygoingLady]

My monster-in-law don’t discriminate, she hates all her daughter-in-laws and son-in-laws. I don’t know who will take her in when she gets older.

[@ninavang9062]

Vuag, ua cas tas nrho niam pog txiv yawg, cov muam thiab yus tus txiv phem tag nrho li ntag. Tsuas hnov koj thiab ib tug neeg uas kuv tau paub thiaj txawj tham thiab xyav npaum koj xwb os tus viv ncaus aw.

[@barryvang6655]

Kv rau kj sab khau tab sis muaj hmoo tshaj kj vim kv ib txwm g nrog lawv nyob

[@พี่นุด-ฆ6ป]

ทำไมเหมือนชีวิตของน้องเลยค่ะ หน้าเศร้ามากที่เราเลือกถูกคนที่รักเรา แต่กลับไม่ถูกใจพ่อแม่พี่น้องของเขา

[@tunyalakthiratnitchakun6472]

ผัวรักเราก็พอค่ะ คนอื่นช่างเค้า

[@nouxiong3620]

This wife is like Donald trump so emotional and every has to like her. Who cares if your mother in-laws don’t like you. If your hubby still loves you and don’t act upon your Motheterinlaw words and you guys already moved out be at peace. The elders are dead be at ☮️.

[@px2824]

This lady is spending too much time thinking and worrying about what her in-laws did and said. Forget and forgive! That’s how you can move on. You’re still alive, strong and healthy. Be thankful for that.

[@staceychang9685]

I that kinda husband n mil marry to one before it's a headache

[@maivtsabxyooj1557]

G yog koj ib leeg xwb kuv lo zoo ib yam thiab o

[@thoojsiabkoomplawv590]

Kj zaj yg kv zaj lm ces kv g muab tuaj lm os 5555

[@Loves_GodSR]

When you're in laws don't like you. Don't matter how hard you try, how much you cook/clean/etc, how nice you are, they will ALWAYS find every reason to put you down and talk crap about you. It's too bad you're husband won't stand up for you. I'm sorry you had to go through this. May you be blessed

[@colleenchan9872]

Kuv paub thiab nkag siab koj os! Kuv twb rau koj sab khau thiab yeej chim siab heev! Kuv zoo siab kuv dim plaws lawm mas kaj siab luag xwb lau!

[@มัยเเมม]

Niam laus aw cov Niam pog zoo li ko yeej npam Niam pog kuv li Niam pog nrog Niam pog tus ntxhais tus ntxhais cem foom foom kuv thaum kawg npam niam pog niaj hnub no niam pog mob rem ruam nyob noj lawm xwb ne tej nyab tsis txhaum foom tej nyab ces thaum kawg ces npam

[@meexiong9292]

Yog kawg yuav tiam no xwb ..Tus txiv siab phem lwm tiam thov bye .. Yog tiam no lub Neej tsis kawg los tsis TU siab thiab ....thov bye