it’s all working out, you just need to change your perspective

[@juliadastra]

"life is happening for you, it's not happening to you" is going to change my LIFE!! thank you💝

[@LynetteAdkins]

❤️❤️

[@TravelSpanish-j3v]

I feel like we want things to happen OUR way or in OUR time which causes anxiety and sadness.

[@LynetteAdkins]

So true

[@celestialstoney333]

Lynette, girl, thank you. As a girl in her mid 20s as well I FELT this in my soul. I have been going through it the past 2 months and its always the voices in the back of my head reminding me to be positive about the experiences but the sadness and negativity has been overpowering that and feels like my mental had hit rock bottom, especially this time of year. But then it's videos like this that remind me I am not alone, I am not behind, I am not my feelings. I'm finally feeling like I can take charge of my life again and start with the little things like affirmations, reading, staying off of social media (that's a big one for me), and just giving myself grace through my journey and accepting where I am. Again, thank you so much. I will always love your content. Its nothing but real 💚🧚🫂

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yesss you got this love! The only way to go after feeling at your lowest is up. Sending you so much love❤️❤️

[@GabrielleBralyn]

lynettttteeeee girll. every time you post it always aligns with the phase I'm going thru myself, and you will never understand how much I just love checking in with you. As an only child, I always wanted a sister so bad. Not to put any pressure on you but the energy you give me is on that level of sisterhood, so I really appreciate you for having the courage to live your life, sharing it with us as you go, and live a happy one because you really do heal parts of all of us as you do it 🖤

[@LynetteAdkins]

Aw this means the world, I’m so glad these are helpful & thank you so much ❤️

[@PZCherokee]

When you said sometimes you have to smoke, I had a sigh of relief. Because I get this wave of guilt when I give in to vices, but... Damn Can I Live?! 1 yes out of 50 no's is still a win.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yeah I’ve honestly released so much same around smoking since moving to NY. Everywhere you go you can see/smell ppl doing it & I feel like with the world we live in it helps so many people. Having a good relationship with it is key I think

[@PZCherokee]

@@LynetteAdkins Exactly. Not running to it for comfort, but not running away out of fear.

[@loveleebeing]

Fellow cannabis lover here💚I’ve shifted my relationship with smoking a lot over the years and one of the things that’s helped me a lot is catering my high for what I’m doing/what time of day I’m smoking. Maybe try finding strains with compounds in it meant for sleeping, you could be smoking herb that is keeping you awake. I appreciate your videos sm Lynette, thank you for sharing your journey with us!

[@spirit869]

I saved this video a few days ago because I had a feeling it was something I needed to hear. It popped up again and it was the universe telling me to listen!! I wholeheartedly resonated with this. Down the to the defeated and depressed thoughts and negative self talk. Continuing to show up for myself even when I feel like it’s hopeless or “too hard” is the only way to get out of it. Thank you for this💗

[@Lore_TV]

Hey Lynette loved the part about the monk it really made me stop thinking about all the possible outcomes of things and focus on the present. I think my new soft affirmation to self is gonna be “stop anticipating the burn!”

[@LynetteAdkins]

Ooh I love this!

[@cough6094]

i swear it feels like the negativity ruts happen in waves. like i can be having a really good week and then certain things happen and it causes me to feel the same way that i've been trying to escape from. but you're right bc i just gotta keep going anyway. there are worse fates i guess.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Same. Yeah we just gotta keep going until the waves lessen i think or at least learn to ride them😅

[@Kidrobot016]

Thanks, Lynette. This has been the most tumultuous year of my life so far. I've been doing my best to choose gratitude over letting circumstances get to me, but it's not always easy. I'm getting better at bouncing back faster and I know my shift is very close. This video just grounded me further.

[@jupitersplans]

i needed to hear this today!! been spiraling over finding a new job and need to change my perspective

[@LynetteAdkins]

You got this!! Sending love

[@braydiddat]

I quit my old toxic job a few weeks ago and i was spiraling since really doubting my decision but once i changed my mindset and release old limiting beliefs i had i found a got a new job with a better work environment and pay and WAYYYYYYY more benefits. And for me it was like i had to really trust that life and the situations that are happening to me are really teaching me something and helping me grow and evolve to find something more aligned with me and my future goals and vision. I trust that your gonna find whatever your looking for and you should trust yourself as well because everything is working out for you! I promise its gonna be okay. 😊

[@jupitersplans]

@@braydiddat thank you so much for the nice words and for sharing your experience! def inspires me :)

[@LB-vb2ur]

Your videos are always so timely. Two days ago, after waiting 3 months for results, I found out I failed an exam that I’ve been working towards since undergrad. I’ve been feeling so down and feeling like my manifestations and prayers didn’t “work”. Needed this, thank you.

[@richnewyorker]

@@LB-vb2ur The exam isn't a reflection of subject mastery. Your path may be different than simply passing an exam.

[@LB-vb2ur]

@ agreed, thank you.

[@kelseycreating]

My friend failed nursing 101 3 times. She tried again, passed, and is graduating now and about to take her NCLEX. Don’t give up

[@LynetteAdkins]

I’m sorry to hear that. You got this though, keep going! This happens to so many people & your hard work isn’t for nothing, just a part of the story

[@therealuniquenichelle]

I almost couldn’t pay attention because of your eyes, & tbh, you’re always making sense to us😭 I notice you say that a lot at the end of your videos haha. You’re always right on time🫶🏾

[@richnewyorker]

Her eyes hypnotize you (in a good way)

[@gregorybennings8718]

I watch her videos on mute.

[@kianaharris2946]

Yo this was the realest video you’ve had in awhile. Like you’re always real that’s not even a question but the shit you was talking here was for real and motivating and a great reminder to take control and charge of our life and that the reframe is key. Love you girl, love your growth, love watching ❤

[@hhahahunner]

This was on point! I was in a rut for atleast a month if not more tbh, feeling down on myself especially with my finances, and stopped drinking alcohol 7 days ago. I’ve been having such a positive, productive week and creative ideas have been coming to me like crazy so I’ve been writing them down and actually materializing one of them today. I’m catching up on your videos while cleaning my apartment so thanks for sharing 💜

[@LynetteAdkins]

I love this for you, keep going!! Glad this was helpful

[@julzace630]

Hi Lynette! I've been a watcher of your channel for a while and your maturity and growth is evident! I'm 35 - and lead a very different life (now married, expecting my first child, full time at a start up, moved to the burbs of NC - after being born and raised in NYC and living there for 31 years) - all is to say - what you are sharing resonates with people from all ages and in different stages of life! Despite all the crap that is happening - we have a choice on how to react and show up for ourselves, our homes, and our communities each day - it truly takes a mindset shift and being TIRED of feeling crappy all the time - I had to come to that realization a few years back when I found myself spiraling - and I'm so glad I acknowledged I no longer wanted to be in this foggy cloudy space and be miserable to those around me and worse to myself. Adjust your thoughts, your actions, and remain faithful that all these adjustments will translate into tangible changes in your life - little by little and equip you with more resilience to endure and keep going - onwards and upwards folks! You got this!

[@ascendingmonet]

first of all your eyesss r so pretty I have to say u r glowing! I love how comforting n inspiring you are you express yourself so lovely its like big sis advice so realistic but from a loving place

[@kafiquashie1398]

Lavender, Linden & chamomile are decent too just help more with anxiety but can help with the wind down

[@GenevieveNewton-jd4yg]

Hey this is the first video I've ever watched from your channel but I really needed this today. Thank you :)

[@saderow]

I needed to hear this! Thank you for always sharing your journey with us. It’s truly appreciated 💕

[@iSnortIbu]

This came at the PERFECT time. Thank you :))

[@LynetteAdkins]

i’m so glad❤️

[@chicityballa09]

Tapping into God is also a key thing as well to help with dealing with those anxious thoughts & feelings. How we choose to deal with life is on us. If we can shift our perospetie on how to look at like saying "even if this is going on, I am going to trust in GOD's plan for me and continue to keep going. I am going to intentionally havre a good day. It's how we can choose to look at things from that perspective.

[@TheFlowerGardenZa]

❤

[@2u2uworld]

Lynette I need u to know I genuinely appreciate ur content so so so much.The world can be so overwhelming and i struggle to articulate my feelings at times but u do it soooo well and I learn so much from u. I am soooo unbelievably thankful for these videos. Thank u so much for just being urself and showing up. I see u, I hear u, and I support u. Àse earth angel ♡♡♡♡♡

[@serinaelizabeth4126]

I love how honest you are. Even moving to NYC where a lot of ppl dream of moving to, they could easily “envy” you and compare! But thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your journey too. I hope things get better ❤ We love seeing you in NYC tho, very fitting and inspiring 🫶🏻

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@anastasiageorge1279]

you always pop up at the best times 🌟💞

[@LynetteAdkins]

🤗🤗

[@Nathiofficial]

“I share what I need to hear” ufff

[@safiyassacredspace]

Wow, I needed this topic. Being in a negative loop is so real and takes courage to admit too. Thanks for sharing!

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

Needed to hear this! I’ve been working lately on reprogramming my subconscious mind. Great video ✨💕

[@iamatenamorelli]

loved this video!! i also love to speak about the things im going through, an i’ve been in a bit of a slower phase and you just inspired me to speak about that 🥰

[@gemanika88]

love this video 💖 also love how you’re honest about what you’re navigating through as well. last week was tough for me emotionally, but today i feel more empowered to make the most out of my life and find peace within it all

[@dawnfisher3860]

I truly connected with your video-beautifully expressed. I’ve been going through similar experiences, and I really feel you on this, so thank you for saying what needed to be said. Sending you love and light, always. ❤️

[@stevenmartinez5019]

You repeating everything I have said the last 2 weeks is kind scary , but the alignment 🙏🏾 PREACH BBY

[@gissellehurtado8444]

this video came at the perfect time thank you

[@CozyToni]

Thank you for this beautiful message, right on time! 😊

[@donovan847]

Hey Lynette! Aside from this GREAT great message, I love your channel so much! I love the vibe, the aesthetics, etc. Your channel motivates me to start my own channel and give advices. 💓

[@tora3584]

girl 2024 has been ROUGH being unemployed🥲i'm trying to push through but not having steady income is tough and i'm not built for that entrepreneur life💀you talking about choosing to make life fun and not suffer and be sad for the rest of your life is where i'm at rn. tbh i'm lowkey looking into joining a monastery in a few years. i choose peace.

[@Bbscarface]

I resonate with this so much, thank you for sharing you are amazing!

[@lunaparewijck6201]

Very gratefull to been re-discovering your channel Lynette

[@safiyahab7212]

Thank you so much! I’m in a place where I want better for myself but I feel trapped at my current job. Any advice on how to go more into my purpose and end this vicious cycle?

[@crazycubcakexd]

Thank you so much for sharing this video. I really needed it.💌

[@Jeremyjaytherealist]

Always right on time ❤️Keep it up. We love it

[@nyaweems_]

Needed to hear this thank you!!

[@deziraemariya]

i understand you luv🌻

[@sameerahevans1297]

Your hair looks sooo good!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you!

[@MeGogo-db2wg]

I hope you see this comment, you inspire me to be better and I love you showing up as yourself unfiltered and I just wanna say I love you so much just as a human ❤❤❤❤

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@emmasimpson6562]

Hi Lynette thank you 🌸🌸🌸🌼🌼🌼🌷🌷🌷

[@lillie-divin]

So powerful, thank you. Xx

[@kafiquashie1398]

As a smoker who has smokers guilt 😅 For 💤 try Valerian either as tea or a tincture &/ or clove water together depending on how deep of a 💤 you can afford 👍🏽

[@Heykay34]

Heavy on the” I cannot be a person”lately 😞

[@swordsnorchids1997]

It's okay and normal to feel hopeless sometimes actually but when you're severely depressed for a longer time that's when you have to really take care

[@Satorishayna]

Tysm I’m battling this rn 🩷

[@amayaarmendariz6606]

Love the hair!!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you!

[@imberkkorkmaz]

I really needed this

[@latisewilson4561]

Your videos are always right on time ..... 💕

[@LynetteAdkins]

I'm so glad!❤️

[@Likeicanttakethepressureofit]

Needed this

[@emelshrawi2394]

love this

[@madebyannamarie]

your hair and lashes look soooo good

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you❤️

[@sakshi.johari]

Thank you❤❤❤ And you look so so so beautiful✨❤

[@LynetteAdkins]

thank you so much❤️

[@n.s.2730]

Thank youu❣️

[@g_factking]

Another banger my beautiful blk Queen. Everything about you is pure perfection. Plz never relinquish your throne

[@kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293]

14:41 It all definitely resignates...

[@kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293]

11:12 Been so trying to figure out how to escape, cus being stuck in the matrix makes life suck...

[@guhaga7612]

You look beautiful than ever Lynette ❤

[@andersonmaia8835]

Muito bom 🇧🇷 esse vídeo foi pra mim

[@richnewyorker]

I’m reading a book called‚ “Why Greatness Cannot Be Planned” ..

[@Yonkohep]

You’re so pretty that is all

[@LynetteAdkins]

thank you❤️

[@rambothomas2209]

@@LynetteAdkins🎄🎄🫶🏽👏🏿

[@oumeymaayh7251]

Hi Thank you for the video ❤ especially in these hard Times With capitalism , …

[@--Singularity--]

I don´t feel its winter. There´s something wrong in this simulation Matrix.

[@adolfoguemes801]

El titulo esta en spanish

[@adolfoguemes801]

🤔

[@balance733]

⏳2:52⌛, cuRRently, watchinG "superMAN & loiS" 7 8 9 & TEN, lowKey thëY shoutd' üS Out...✨💌✨

[@NiijiGoddessFitness]

💙💙💙

[@Lifeandstuff]

Me catching this at 444 views is just an extra confirmation 💫

[@kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293]

❤❤❤...

[@devinjustice_]

hey guys! i’m doing daily vlogmas in case anyone is interested

[@AlyssaMonetMason]

💯🔥💜

[@lylystar5926]

Lynette vc é linda e jovem. Procure parar de fumar. Cidade grande é assim mesmo agitada. Mais vc consegue. Medite mais ame mais ajude mais. E nao fique melancólica. Seja feliz alegre🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Myla2626]

“I text my ex something” 😂

[@anapaulacastro5419]

Quanta beleza!

[@belissegiovanni]

I love you 🩷🩷

[@LynetteAdkins]

Love you back ❤️

[@rambothomas2209]

@@LynetteAdkins🫶🏽🎄🎄🎄👏🏿

[@dianat7263]

please start a podcast

[@ChristopherLares-d5z]

👁️👁️, ❤

[@talitapriscila_]

Título em português, mas ela fala em inglês kkkk

[@AbriannaV]

Seeing this at 111 views 🥹🫶🏽 thank you!

[@LynetteAdkins]

❤️❤️

[@rambothomas2209]

@@LynetteAdkins🎄🎄👍🙏🏿🙏🏻

[@AlyssaMonetMason]

💯🔥💜