Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.
@bennjeri18862 жыл бұрын
Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.
@janegicheru9732 жыл бұрын
We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.
@jemimahnjoroge13222 жыл бұрын
May the Lord heal you from the traumatic experience. Pole.
@joycew.charles5332 жыл бұрын
Love you girl 😘😘
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏 My people, feel free to connect with Jacinta via +254742560671 or instagram.com/cinta_njoroge? Her number is also in the description box:). Thank you
@therryt68292 жыл бұрын
I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏💛
@asantesana56892 жыл бұрын
Am from Zimbabwe too Love this show
@vimbaimadubeko50352 жыл бұрын
I'm from Zimbabwe too, you are doing an amazing God Lynn, God bless you
@rozy_mnk75502 жыл бұрын
From Rwanda love this show too
@munesugazi97652 жыл бұрын
Am from Zimbabwe too, an I've lived on this show for over 2years!Good job Lynn.
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
Fellow human beings, kindly never ask anyone why he/she isn't getting married. Some are battling childhood traumas.
@masigalaura81762 жыл бұрын
This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
@@masigalaura8176 we share the same story. We shall overcome.
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
@Nicholas Ngecu So so sad
@CharityMFavour2 жыл бұрын
Sure haki
@lilianbirungi3842 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lynn and team, Jacinta you are a fighter.
@extrovert58292 жыл бұрын
The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.
@timothyg19862 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your lovely comment I feel it to the core.
@mercymeriy78512 жыл бұрын
it's so true . at times u may think uko sawa ..but when triggered again realized not.
@antonettewambani8052 жыл бұрын
For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive
@resahbarasa8102 жыл бұрын
Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. . I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas. I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace. I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy. Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.
@angella58762 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you love.
@dianaprincess6172 жыл бұрын
Sorry boo boo....hugs mamii
@wairari2 жыл бұрын
Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!
@pammurithi43312 жыл бұрын
Sure. She will be our Oprah soon.
@Nothwest2 жыл бұрын
Oprah is a Queen who went through a lot but she became a queen of TalkShows
@christineshem40432 жыл бұрын
And our Oprah from kenya is lynn ngugi❤❤
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
I'm not a parent but this topic is helpful. We need to share on family WhatsApp groups.
@cookingwithnimoh2 жыл бұрын
True
@francisnyapendi2982 жыл бұрын
i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.
@ngendonancy89942 жыл бұрын
So sorry for that. Hugs
@catherinemuriuki14712 жыл бұрын
You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗
@ClassicAudiobooksInspirations2 жыл бұрын
You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
Am also a Ugandan sorry
@annewanjohi57452 жыл бұрын
Please report this to the nearest children officer.seek help
@janewanjiku1522 жыл бұрын
Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it
@justhome48502 жыл бұрын
Hey Jane, please seek counseling,get delivered cz it might repeat itself and u get married to such a man.. all the best
@maryannnyambura4062 жыл бұрын
Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal
@tujieleweglobal2 жыл бұрын
No envy, no jealousy. Pure respect and celebration. Lynn Ngugi this shows are 🔥🔥 🔥
@mbakanamedia86672 жыл бұрын
Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️
@lizwambui83202 жыл бұрын
What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏💛 Truly appreciate the love:)
@janekihika10472 жыл бұрын
Isaiah43:18-19
@lynnwanjiru15112 жыл бұрын
Looks like an Oprah Winfrey show so proud of you Lynn
@john_njonjo2 жыл бұрын
This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.
@zakstv73682 жыл бұрын
Mimi ni Mtanzania🇹🇿 ningekwepo hapo na mimi ningesimulia yangu pia wazazi wanafaa kuangalia watoto😭😭
@kadzo66142 жыл бұрын
As someone who was abused by my uncle, I spoke about it after 12 years. There's no forgetting
@stellamachunde77342 жыл бұрын
Uncles .
@euniceeunice57022 жыл бұрын
Yes. Trusted uncles...
@aselyne56312 жыл бұрын
Hun i told my mum for the first time at 28
@morinejepleting Жыл бұрын
I was abused several times and this is the first time I'm saying this
@vicvic97922 жыл бұрын
Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u
@lavendernyawade15142 жыл бұрын
I watched this story on shared moment with Justus, I really cried. This lady went through a lot.
@blessedalicia72272 жыл бұрын
This show is becoming something else i swear. Am so much hooked into it. Thanks Lynn,you are amazing 👏 ❤ 😘
@msapereewabc9392 жыл бұрын
I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls
@cookingwithnimoh2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your ordeal. Hugs ❤
@joanmutuku42312 жыл бұрын
Pole, Hugs🤗
@EllaKabami2 жыл бұрын
Sending you Hugs. May the angels sorround you with peace
@rosenablanc65942 жыл бұрын
Omg sending hugs to you
@allanogol50082 жыл бұрын
Sorry for that
@josephmuhalya80782 жыл бұрын
Hello am Michelle Bahati, thank you so much Lynn, Ngugi for this show, I I was also raped by my cousin in 2004 by then I was staying with them in Nairobi, because am an orphan, I can surely tell you, that I haven't forgotten, I told his mum who is now dead, but she did nothing instead she beat me up,,,,, I'll never forgive you JUNIOUR!!!!!!!
@ngendonancy89942 жыл бұрын
So sorry for Wht u went through. Hugs
@marynduku84222 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you Michelle. I believe in you and i know you will overcome because you are more than a conquer through Him who strengthens you. Pls forgive him it is the first step to healing, release him and hand him over to God
@joycemumbe68682 жыл бұрын
So sorry hugs dear
@hehe-tr1ci18 күн бұрын
Dont carry this burden, speak it out and declare that you forgive junior and the rest is up to God. It works. Junior is not worth your peace of mind
@lilywhite80292 жыл бұрын
Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk? Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is
@Debby1422 жыл бұрын
That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..
@bellaolum97682 жыл бұрын
Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling
@KuiWaKamau2 жыл бұрын
Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
I never take for granted the impact I am able to make with your support 🙏
@amigrowing2 жыл бұрын
I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone. Xoxo💜
@titus2542 жыл бұрын
@Lynn you took this show a notch higher. This is life changing experience and you have proved to be the best.
@kamikazishakira79712 жыл бұрын
😊
@lydiakaindi58722 жыл бұрын
Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her. See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy.. I am so proud of her. She will partner well with Njeri. God bless her and give her strength.
@cookingwithnimoh2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@petersonwanjiku36612 жыл бұрын
Now this is another direction I'm happy for the show. Thanks
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much🙏
@estherwanjiku94722 жыл бұрын
I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.
@InstaF.A.M2 жыл бұрын
So many parents have no idea what happens to their daughters behind the scenes in Kenya. So many girls go through this.Thanks Lyn for the platform
@cookingwithnimoh2 жыл бұрын
Painful story to listen to.. May she and others who have gone through similar traumas receive healing ❤
@WanjiruMuya2 жыл бұрын
Few encounters with people can make you rule out everyone but in God's perfect timing he makes everything beautiful ❤️
@rosemwai87912 жыл бұрын
Happy new year shiru
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Very well said🙏
@thedragonernestevans39762 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart as a parent,I feel so emotional.
@felistermwongeli63342 жыл бұрын
This is the best place to be to be strong and come out of the pain you passed on thank so much Lynn for the good work 👏 🙌 God bless you 🙏
@marthakibera13012 жыл бұрын
Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥
@mamalao85742 жыл бұрын
Lynn baby girl see this need also to know how r coping with life
@gachugumaggy2 жыл бұрын
Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪
@carolinewanjiku76092 жыл бұрын
I went through the same and the person who did it was my father's blood brother,His thing could not fit in my small v so he would put it in my mouth,I never told my parents cause they were busy fighting each other.When I started to develope breast he touched me and I got very mad and reported him to my mother who told my father.My father was soo mad but kama kawaida it was solved kifamilia.I would look at them and tell myself mgejua kuna ingine mbaya sijawaambia.I was also this shy anti social person,with very low self esteem.I can't wait for my abuser to die cause that day I will be celebrating.God's justice.
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
We have gone through alot but please forgive and let go and let in God
@masj81602 жыл бұрын
So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.
@joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын
Sorry for what you went through.
@Njeri-2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for what you went through, I hope you get help to overcome it💕
@kiwishbj12 жыл бұрын
I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open. I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say. But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.
@Njeri-2 жыл бұрын
I don't even want to remember my life living with relatives, am so sorry 💕
@menameir17862 жыл бұрын
@@kiwishbj1 God bl6you bro
@Njeri-2 жыл бұрын
Am glad to have been part of this live show and sharing my experience too " to parents/guardians : know who you are bringing closer to your children", make your children feel safe with you Lynne you are a blessing💕 God bless you
@beingkiddo16432 жыл бұрын
You Soo talented mamaa😍😍😍how can I reach you ? Just need a piece of advice please 🥺
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Njeri💛💛
@wambuijacinta97232 жыл бұрын
Njerih was happy to see you also open up and share your experience 👏❤️
@Njeri-2 жыл бұрын
@@wambuijacinta9723 Jess you are so brave and strong You are life Jess 💕💕💕💕
@wambuijacinta97232 жыл бұрын
@@Njeri- Thankyou ❤️
@TheCluelessMan2 жыл бұрын
We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.
@maureenodhiambo60232 жыл бұрын
I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.
@gathonimaria16362 жыл бұрын
Be strong
@oderatrizah50872 жыл бұрын
Hugs dear, all will be well
@joykiru88582 жыл бұрын
It is well dear, nobody understands the pain of such an encounter. I pray that God gives you peace and love
@josephmbira3992 жыл бұрын
@@oderatrizah5087 a
@truth80272 жыл бұрын
@maureen Odhiambo, Please get the help you so need. See a trauma specialist for sexual assault. 💜😘
@wambuialice59872 жыл бұрын
Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Dear Alice, we are sending you so much love and light💛💛💛
@overandabove98212 жыл бұрын
May the Lord heal you ...
@annndunge84122 жыл бұрын
Wow, I see life's being changed through this show... Keep doing what u love most: touching lives💕
@JJones-oh3dd2 жыл бұрын
This is my story😭😭hugs Gals💔after watching this show am ready to come out and tell my untold story...thank you Lynne for always having our backs🙏❤
@hellenmwangi45982 жыл бұрын
Jeanifer you are a strong lady, by talking it you heal Hugs
@mariawangari26702 жыл бұрын
This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed
@anitawambui71282 жыл бұрын
I pray total healing to all survivors either rape abuse, emotional or domestic abuse may God help you all to overcome it .💜💜
@catherinemuthike49482 жыл бұрын
I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.
@menameir17862 жыл бұрын
Who defiles a 4 day old baby or a 5 months or any child at all? These people should be killed or isolated from the world completely. It's sickening even to think of it. Suerly njeri you are a strong woman to handle this case,. May God bless you and give you more strength to carry on.
@judithtwinomugisha89172 жыл бұрын
Our Ugandan president keeps proposing that these people should be kept away from society but the so called human rights. Oh God this is so sad. Men please have mercy and self control. This saddens me so much!
@masigalaura81762 жыл бұрын
I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.
@TeacherFaithlearnandgrow2 жыл бұрын
Jacinta, thank you for honouring us with your story. I celebrate your courage to own and Honour your story. Wishing you love, strength and healing. You are Loved, Valued and you matter. You're not alone. 💜💜💜💜 Thank you Lynn for amplifying the survivor's voice. Thanks for believing. I celebrate you for this! 💜💜💜
@wambuijacinta97232 жыл бұрын
Thankyou faith ❤️
@TeacherFaithlearnandgrow2 жыл бұрын
@@wambuijacinta9723 Karibu 😊
@amiej99342 жыл бұрын
I have not watched but I must admit I feared men until I met a guy 2yrs ago .I stayed for more than 28yrs for what happened when I was 13 and didn't want anything to do with men.I feared him too but I don't know what happened since it was different. I met the love of my soul. My twin soul
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
Sorry pl
@CoachVioletRibu2 жыл бұрын
Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.
@shazmeenbank16302 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful
@jedidahakinyi96812 жыл бұрын
Yes! I could listen to her all day long. I just love it ❤️
@mutukucosmas35492 жыл бұрын
"unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through
@millysammy50452 жыл бұрын
True
@254muthonirachael2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to see some of your guest supporting your show Lynn♥️may God bless your work girl 🙏
@ireneabuya72312 жыл бұрын
This interview was so dope and very emotional at the same time,God may you protect us always 😭😭😭😭
@babieuniya2 жыл бұрын
Waaaaoooooo I just love the setup, so beautiful, a combination of Dr. Phil, Oprah and Ellen in own very own Kenyan girl. Kazi safi sana Lyn.
@DaviesWokabi2 жыл бұрын
I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this
@emmily26932 жыл бұрын
Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.
@MissT2922 жыл бұрын
This is the best interview I have ever watched,,,I pray that God restores her n many others like her,,for u Lynn keep winning Mamie🥰🥰🥰
@vallinejuma10032 жыл бұрын
I was also raped by one of my uncle when I reached in upper primary akacome kutututembelea nilihisi baridi Kali sana nilikuwa namuona najaribu kukaa karibu na shosh ndo asinikaribia so my granny could shout at me and tell enda ukae huko Nini unataka kwa watu wakubwa yeye hakujua Nini ilikuwa inanifanya I could go and hide in banana plantation cry out na tena slhuyo uncle asinipate lackily my mum alinichukua tukaishi na yeye but niliogopa wanaume I really feared men ata kwa gatherings adi waleo ata mazishi sipendangi mybe church ndo Mimi hupatwa piece huko but little did I know nikaingia kwa guysim ......
@wanjiru-usa12 жыл бұрын
I'm about to turn 41. Having gone through similar experiences, its not easy to forget but I always talk to self that I have to beat my past and move forward. Lynn, this is a great enlightening show. Keep up soaring. Many women who've lived in these trauma will come out, brave it, and live again.
@carolynewambui63622 жыл бұрын
True true,it hurts when u realize such serious issues when you all grown,i think parents also needs to try and be open/best frds with the kids,maybe is she was close with the mom they would have at some point talked about it and maybe sought help early enough.
@rehobothjennie34562 жыл бұрын
That's true, I'm also turning 43, my Mum abused me and rejected me before I was even born, I remember she would send me to fetch water at night, so I can be eaten by Hyena's and leave her live forever 😭😭😭😭 I grew up like an animal, a very bitter person and a depressed one. My husband never understands my emotional weakness and he even makes it worse for me, by mocking me when I becomes emotional and starts crying. I really don't know how to control my emotions, all thanks to the abusive environment I grew to. May Almighty God help this young lady to overcome it totally in Jesus name.
@wanjiru-usa12 жыл бұрын
@@carolynewambui6362, it hurts. At somepoint I felt like blaming parents, but I realized blaming them won't heal the wounds. Some of our parents may still be not that enlightened of how cruel the world is, and not knowing that the people they trust most with their children are the great threats.
@wanjiru-usa12 жыл бұрын
@@rehobothjennie3456 sorry for the experience. I hope you've been able to forgive your mom and you've made ✌.
@rehobothjennie34562 жыл бұрын
@@wanjiru-usa1 I forgave her long time ago, but there's no motherly connection. I just see her as my neighbor.
@susanwangeci63232 жыл бұрын
Looking at everyone's reaction to her sad story, I really wonder who has not been through some traumatic event in their childhood or even adulthood ? So many people are living with alot of pain. God please heal us.
@cookingwithnimoh2 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@jennymayna53342 жыл бұрын
Please God Almighty heal us 🙏
@elizabethletsoso25582 жыл бұрын
A big AMEN 🙏
@kennethombuor99712 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for what happened to her.Tell her she doesn't need a psychologist she needs Jesus
@bettylaban96962 жыл бұрын
Joyce Meyer too went through such an experience through her father and the mum was aware. Surrender this pain to God so that you can get a new identity through Jesus.
@malaptr2 жыл бұрын
“Injury in the mental realm vs injury in the physical realm” Its the same Kenneth and friends. We have learnt to think that for physical injury you need a doctor to fix the broken bone for example, and Jesus to do His healing work; but for mental fractures, we think you only need Jesus and not the mental health specialist. That is not right thinking, just as for the physical injury both are needed, the same applies to the non-physical mental health injury
@judymburu88982 жыл бұрын
After years of emotional abuse in a 27 year marriage that ended with cancer.....the only thing that has helped is burying myself in the word of God. Through this I was able to flee. Am not discounting the use of therapy but it doesn't come cheap.....when that money is not available, seeking God is a sure solution. They that seek the Lord renew their strength.
@judymburu88982 жыл бұрын
@K K oooh.....thanks KK. Didn't know. Will check it out....
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
@@bettylaban9696 are you sure her mother was aware? Did te mother just ignore?
@annabelnduta38242 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs
@raelchepkoech79662 жыл бұрын
Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.
@victorwasonga57262 жыл бұрын
Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.
@kembabazichristine70272 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I really appreciate, and advise that lady how to have a safe retaliationship
@lovethildah73402 жыл бұрын
Wooow, I had to check whether I'm lost😌 This is another big step Miss Lyn, Congrats!❤
@chebby0102 жыл бұрын
Very true 💞 Lynne is a real epitome in this society....we love you mummy 💞
@bennjeri18862 жыл бұрын
God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.
@katemillicent94332 жыл бұрын
That's a good job Lynn, healing comes by speaking out and letting go off the past,and being positive .
@JMBM88222 жыл бұрын
Havent been here for a while. Lynn ume upgrade. Proud of you. I met you at some restaurant in town. I was so excited to see you. I waved... and you waved back with so much love and enthusiasm... it's like you knew me and you hadn't seen me for a long time. You are a genuine soul. One thing i didnt do... take a pic.. for myself and my sis. She loves you.❤😊.. she keeps asking me , how i met Lynn Ngugi and never took a pic 😁
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Awww, thank you so much:) I am sure one day our paths will cross again and we will take a beautiful pic. Please pass my love to your sister:)
@JMBM88222 жыл бұрын
@@LynnNgugi ❤
@nyaboketinega46462 жыл бұрын
She is our star
@everlynemaranga2 жыл бұрын
@Lynn Ngugi is a special gem to us. Such a wonderful personality rarely found.
@sofiemission33332 жыл бұрын
It's hard to understand if you have never being abusive. I had attempted abusive and that things disturb me alot Sometime you can't speak out because the society will judge you without understand what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭
@punguzatumbo15672 жыл бұрын
I have cried my tears 😭😭😭😭 tears . Thanks Lynn for hosting this innocent girl. Please let her feel huged 🙏🏿🙏🏿😍😍😍we love you sweety. I pray she overcome the the trauma
@jedidahakinyi96812 жыл бұрын
When she spoke about memories being suppressed but the body never forgetting, I remembered something that always comes back to me. I have always wondered whether it actually happened or it's a dream. It's at night, pitch black. We are sleeping on a mat in a room just close to my mum's and step father. And I feel someone trying to force themselves on me. I was probably around 6 or 7. How do I explain this? I have never spoken about it because, how do I start? Now that she spoke about it, I am scared that I may have been sexually assaulted and I didn't even know it. And I have cried. Thank you Lynn
@LynnNgugi2 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way
@wanjiruolive2 жыл бұрын
trauma remains in the body as a memory its gets triggered when we are adults especially when we venture into relationships especially romantic relationships. it has an effect on the brain which is so sad because of things that happen to as children. it is also said that any traumatic event as a child can hinder your development. so i wish her the best in her healing journey slowly but steadily she will reach there
@neliafrancis91202 жыл бұрын
This is the way to go Lynn, soon we will be having Lynn TV. God guide you darling, you are a blessing to many.
@iamcherop37472 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this though it didn't happened to me God saved me from my own father ,😭😭😭🙏 but he left me dippressed till today
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
Sorry dear
@staicykagai4002 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lyn.This is go to help many people are suffering in silence.The show will be in another level soon.
@ponijada36972 жыл бұрын
So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids . Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist Love from South sudan
@refilwephokungoane46442 жыл бұрын
I just learned about this platform recently from South Africa 🇿🇦and am really learning a lot.@Lynn your a truly inspiration to the world Kenyans are so lucky to have you 😘
@zalwango732 жыл бұрын
Lynn, our Kenyan version of Oprah Winfrey. Good job.
@hellenmkalla3502 жыл бұрын
Lynn this show has encouraged so many people being one of them. Some might not come out but through this they alreally concoured the fear and become victories. Thank you and congratulations.
@charlescech27822 жыл бұрын
Imagine am crying, much love from Uganda
@ngendonancy89942 жыл бұрын
It's quite sad 😭
@nakamijunic58442 жыл бұрын
We are many Ugandans
@claireclarkeignite84582 жыл бұрын
Lynn this was an excellent show. I hope both persons received the help to continue their journey. Thank you for sharing it with the world
@ProphetessMrsArielFrimpong2 жыл бұрын
I can't help but be in nonstop tears right now. This is literally what I have gone through from a very young age. And I can recall some memories, but I know there's something major that had happened to me that my family is refusing to open up to me about. Till this day, I suffer from that trauma. I don't know when it will end. I don't know. But I believe in God. I only started remembering more things from last year 2021 and it hit me so hard that I was so heartbroken. But when I tell you that it's only because God sent me my husband, who absolutely loves me so dearly. It is seriously a miracle. He's like an angel 🙇🏾♀️🫂😭♥️♥️🤍... Thank you Jesus.
@victoreddie95522 жыл бұрын
I am happy that Lynn Ngugi is back on her feet again
@gontlafetsembeha28482 жыл бұрын
The therapist is soo amazing! I watched her story as well ❤️
@bobbybettyofficial722 жыл бұрын
Lynn Ngûgî you're a blessing to our generation#Kenyan Oprah Rev Pst Charles Wanjîgî you're indeed a man of God and blessing to our generation. Dr.Joyce W.Charles, we're lucky to have you.
@theachebes57242 жыл бұрын
Lynn this is amazing. I believe just like anyone in ministry you too are called to reach out our generation. I am a servant of God and I must bless the Lord for such a unique grace on your life. Keep it moving!
@blessed_rose1902 жыл бұрын
This show is a life changing thank you Lynn,,,, I know this gal has receive healing and this is her new beginning of her life ❤️❤️
@joycegacheri51772 жыл бұрын
Aki vile nampenda Lynn 😍😍may God keep here give her strength and more wisdom to do more we grow together with Lynn we learn together and we change our lifes together God protect Lynn from every evil Amen and Amen
@lucyikua59882 жыл бұрын
Soo many souls out there are abused, The only thing we can do now is to try and make the upcoming generation feel they are in a safe place by making the world today better than yesterday.
@IamGodsfavourite65182 жыл бұрын
Waoh.This is a new level.awesome.Biggup Lyn. You are trully blessed and you have become a blessing.for the lives you touch,God will reward you
@AregoJuddy2 жыл бұрын
You can move from a survivor to the thriver that you are🙏🙏
@jnn17152 жыл бұрын
Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.
@maryannemwangi1682 жыл бұрын
Kindly if someone is single and past 30 years pliz don't ask why some are battling traumas
@victorianzembi92012 жыл бұрын
I will never get tired of watching this show I always watch it from the toilet 🤣 those are leaving in gulf know it well but when I realise Is out I can't imagine how people they can take opportunity to misuse a small girl and are the one who are supposed to show good example but anyway I'm sorry gal toto you are so brave and strong you will get your man when God bless you with one so God's timing is the best even me I remember I passed there but when I remember it always broke my heart 💓 Lynn continue impacting people life and even enlightening
@gontlafetsembeha28482 жыл бұрын
Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼
@cellineadhiambo6962 жыл бұрын
Watching this and dealing with health anxiety and PTSD... I feel encouraged...
@EllaKabami2 жыл бұрын
Hugs to you. May God wrap you in his arms and may you find his never ending peace.
@PerisAimo2 жыл бұрын
Have cried and shed tears😭😭 throughout this video. Sexual assault is very bad. As man, before assaulting someone's child, look both sides of the coin if it's your child, siblings, cousins? The pain.
@lydianyambura71422 жыл бұрын
I know what she's going through cause I went through it when I was 19 and know I am over fifty but I still feel the same. If possible we need to do this more and more cause I once talked to small girls and children out there are going through hell I am a witness.
@ngendonancy89942 жыл бұрын
True it's quite painful
@bettyphil81762 жыл бұрын
They should not even entertain the thought coz thoughts often give birth to action.
@gracemwangi96782 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is so encouraging coming from a man...I wish we could have more men who are as thoughtful..God bless you Zablon
@florahnambuyah28852 жыл бұрын
God protect our kids mothers who have left their kids and left them with guardians we don't know what is going on,am one of them working outside the country 😢😢😢.am speachless 😭😭😭 listening the show of today