6 Ways Men Test Women

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Today we’re going to talk about how men test women. You may not notice but people are constantly testing you and the reason why is because of three laws of human nature.
The first one is that people will attack you if they think that you’re weak. That’s the first law of human nature. The second law of nature is that people will sense your weakness through your sub communication and the things you’ve done in the past. The third law of human nature is that people are after the easiest one. They will deter from you if they sense that you will harm them in the process of trying to take advantage of you. Some people are just there to take advantage of you and if you don’t let them they just leave.
These are the ways men test women:
1. Early sex - A lot of ways that women got impregnated back then was through rape. Other thing that a man will encourage early sex is to see a woman’s resistance. If she says no, it’s a good thing. If she says yes, she fails. A guy wants a woman who resists. A guy wants a woman who is strong. A guy wants a woman who’s control her emotions now.
2. They will look for signs of weakness in the past and see if they could exploit him - If they notice that you’re somebody who is easily manipulated, abusers see that as a gold mine, they get happy when you say, it’s actually something they want to hear. So if you went through a lot of abuse, I recommend you not to tell the guy in the beginning, because some guys are just looking for weakness.
3. Pulling away and seeing your response - This is the simplest one. Guys will literally pull away just to see whether or not you’re gonna over pursue, going to get emotional, or start responding fast because telling me those shows signs of weakness. Guys will not respond for a long time to see whether or not you’re going to double text. If a guy pulls away either he’s touching you, testing or he’s actually not interested to react the same way.
4. Hurting you in small ways and seeing your reaction - What they’ll do is that they’ll inflict pain. They’ll try to gaslight you to see whether or not or they’ll cancel a date to see how you’re going to respond. Don’t name call you or even hit you, to see whether or not you’ll pull away. They’re testing to see what the limits are. If they notice that you’re not somebody to play with a lot of times they’ll leave because they’re not there to love, they’re there to hurt.
5. They’ll test how gullible you are. A man’s responsibility is to lie about his value. Literally, guys are designed to lie. Gullibleness, believing in everything you see is the worst trait you could have as a woman.
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[@PrissyLadyVenom]

“Guys are designed to lie. Their job is to lie about their value and your job is to identify it” No truer words have been said.

[@tanit7741]

Omg my daddy told me this

[@jfireball2461]

Guys are not designed to lie. Pieces of sh*t are designed to lie.

[@asiamiller6833]

Lord hammercy

[@SR77736]

Yup men lie and overestimate their value.

[@Soouber]

No, guys will try, they aren't all dumb...gotta give real men who don't tolerate BS...women need to be real and have morals and see how fast they stuck and see what they change.

[@patriciaviii]

When he pulls away, I get turned off. And lose interest

[@shacutehuntyssssx]

Same I lose all interest tbh

[@gretchen725]

Me 2 .

[@Frugal637]

Right I pull away harder and they usually do a u turn.

[@suzanneweary9739]

Yep, it's the Gemini in me.

[@MissNyPeachJerseyAppleBottom]

Weird how they always wait to come back as if you supposed to be happy to see them

[@carolmaz8675]

Do men even like themselves ?

[@HaileyMarieGrande]

Nope!

[@zubieM]

Good men do- bad ones are narcissistic doosh bags that really loathe every single fibre of their being!

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Excellent question!! Oh, i love it 🎯

[@Loluxmarie]

No not at all so I know you won’t like me makes no sense

[@darkkitty22]

This is ‘toxic’ dating advice for weird ass situations because most people use their toxicity to weed out others or as a defense mechanism and if you want to play, get to know the rules I guess. But all in all Some men are sane lol, very rare, very few but sane at least to my knowledge

[@РафаэлаХендрикс]

"A person who acts like a fool is never a fool. "

[@mesemilly903]

Just stay away from people like that over all . It’s low vibrational. High vibrational people don’t try to hurt others

[@bigflyness17]

EXACTLY ‼️

[@clapyourhands8056]

The truth

[@isaiahjr9259]

Frr same here too

[@louiseevans3510]

They certainly don't justify rape and abuse either, as Alex just did.

[@tdixon4771]

Childish

[@greendreem9684]

Ladies he is not lying! This happened to me last year, I was tested in every which way and failed miserably. I was gullible I believed everything he said to me was not resistant in any way, and you damn sure he used and abused me, but Karma got that ass because he is going to go to jail for his abuses (they became criminal offenses). Listen to this man! He is the truth save yourself from the bullshit.

[@jasmina5445]

I hope you are feeling better now 🌸

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Danggg..glad u are safe. And glad that douche bag got his...stay lifted..# love yourself...PERIOD

[@missj3434]

🙏🏽🙏🏽💞

[@kayesmith2518]

Praying for u, I just went through that, he got drunk & beat me last week, choked me unconscious, literally tried to snap my neck and shot at me twice. He treated me like a queen was so wonderful for the last 8 months then some red flags started showing 2 weeks ago then all that happened to me

[@chellierenae]

😳 wow. I'm sorry you went through that. Broken men either look for broken women or strong women they can break ..I'm glad you are unbreakable 💖💖💖💖

[@womenwhodate7643]

Oftentimes women are so willing to just do whatever it takes to be with a guy, to give all that power away, to give all their sense of self-worth and confidence away as well. Stay strong women! And to the uploader, super valuable content, THANKS!

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Facts

[@enchantingnaturals866]

No this women are called pickmesha women. Not all women belong here

[@ashantiistore_tv]

Correct

[@samanthamutah8635]

Even if you do nothing for a man, if the man don’t wanna be with you, nothing will make it. It’s not about the woman it’s about the man. What one man sees as a weakness, another man can adore it. There’s no formula to dating men.

[@Itspaolatina]

6:25 NEVER EVER tell them. NEVER. They don't need to know about your past. Even if he is a good guy. Your life starts when your relationship starts the more You don't talk about your past the better.

[@alexajackson8227]

Fine but I don’t think women should live with shame. Someone else’s abusive behavior is their shame to carry not yours. If a good man found out something you’ve been through, he wouldn’t judge you.

[@linvi_chemutai]

To the women that cut the cord when they're tested, good job🙏 Never like someone so much you forget your value❤️

[@alicia_nicole]

I feel like all of these are games that little boys play and my response to all of these every time is to walk away

[@marah3298]

Right! Same here

[@strive09]

I agree no one has time for it anymore smfh

[@Vesta588]

It’s toxic men seeking broken women

[@Cherrypie210]

The moment I smell BS, they will never be able to find me again… always on the fight or flight mode 😂

[@krixttysimon2705]

Period

[@miaestelle3042]

He’s explaining narcissistic men. Healthy men don’t behave like this! There are so many nice men . . like literally. My guy friends are so nice, they never treat any women with disrespect. They have always been there for me, treated me good, protected me, helped me when I needed them the most. Yes, they do exist!

[@kiradomochi4961]

Yea this dood sounds like pure narc

[@taraanderson9363]

Yes but information is good to know on case you run into a narcissist..thanks for info

[@no-one00]

Healthy men do tho

[@trinap.8904]

I think those men are either gay (which I love) or waiting to shoot their shot.

[@Accidentally_Unmonk]

So you really never found out when they tested you.

[@planetChristie]

If a person is playing games like this I’m not calling anything out because it’s intentional games. I’m pulling away and moving on period. Only behavior I call out are mistakes. The intention matters the most to me, that guy can play games with himself! “They will leave if you don’t tolerate their behavior, they are there to hurt and not love” bingo go heal yourself instead of trying to hurt people 🤣

[@mariaarlene888]

Yes!!👏👏

[@RiaSouthernBelle]

💯💯💯

[@crunchybobaasmr2130]

💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯

[@cjbowers6055]

I feel you. The first time can be a mistake, but after that they making choices.....so yeah no 3 strikes w/ me after the 1st I'm on guard, 2nd I'm out...

[@HaileyMarieGrande]

BINGO!!

[@Kimberlee_S]

Hearing this validates how I already felt about guys "testing" women. It's sick.

[@candacecasey5634]

In a twisted way they are doing an intelligent woman a " favor". They think they are " slick"but their behavior is shockingly predictable.

[@BeautifulSunshine-vl3fd]

This makes you just want to give up on man completely. I think I'm done with them

[@Igetlifted50]

I know right? At first I was cool to see so many men make advice videos to give us some insight and understanding of men. But now there are so many of them, from so many angles, perspectives, the lying, the testing 🙄, the immaturity, the stupidity...I just can't take not one serious!

[@evelinaxxo9593]

Same sisters

[@juricpro]

I've been done with them for a couple of years now.

[@leahracquelGibson]

Ditto

[@creatorattractor4189]

Lol

[@humanityandme]

Yo this is fucking GOLD and I wish women had psychological defence classes like this

[@sharlenefasano7876]

Psychological defense is a good way to term it

[@PucciNYC]

Yes, I feel the same

[@queenester5875]

We do, sheraseven1. She’ll have men eating out your hand.

[@Patricia-uz2xx]

Dark arts defense

[@BettyAttoms]

telling them about past abuse was new for me. I had no clue they would see it as permission....wow

[@goddessglow6996]

It’s true! Never tell them about your exes.

[@RobinLMaze]

Some things Never need to be shared, in my opinion.

[@ladyofspa]

They know it's not really a boundary.... You accept it. They only respect a woman above them in self worth and emotional strength.

[@hightopv1352]

I actually tested this out when I heard this. It's true. After the experiment, I ghosted... 😏

[@kaymornasinclair7905]

That’s not good! Unfortunately pple like that do exist but they’re broken and narcissistic…..period!!!!!

[@Christilovestea]

Just got broken up with and left with a shattered fucking heart all because I didn't respect myself. Yall know what that means???? Educating myself with your videos while eating ice cream. Thank you.

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

I'm sry you were hurt. But next time u will kno how to protect yourself. I highly recommend The toxic Coach..He has help me through his videos. And Sis they actually work. It's a mindset. Stay safe 🙏.

[@annaa-rh2bj]

Honey sorry to hear that, I send you much love 💕 go watch Sheraseven, and celebrate your breakup 🥳 men are like buses, there will be next! 💋

[@JO-tw5yd]

Sending you love and positivity. Trust me everything happens for a reason 🌹

[@dcaramelone]

I pray that the next time you see your ex you'll laugh and say to yourself "WTH was I thinking?"

[@ninafrederick6048]

PERiOD. Don't go back and leave the door shut when they come back. Trust me when I say this u won't waste your time

[@paisleydragonhostler3714]

That's a damn shame that some guys even play games like that. No time for broken, damaged little boys and their bullshit. A real king will come and claim his queen.

[@crunchybobaasmr2130]

Platinum

[@annndugu1032]

My, the most informative video av watched all my life. Thank you soooo much. My heart is pacing, all the bullshit I have tolerated..Am done.

[@tafadzwa2001]

The honest truth is that when someone loves you it doesn’t matter how damaged and broken you are. They will stay and help you put yourself back together. There are no dating rules, there is just pure genuine love.

[@kaymornasinclair7905]

That’s true!

[@maame5207]

I love this

[@therealkoolaidandkale]

His mother, maybe. Because tf? 🤣 But go off.

[@EchelonPandora]

It is very true. I don't like to be lovey dovey but my God between two guys the who who was poor but showed genuine love to me won over the guy who was high class but a fucking asshole without empathy who ordered me around

[@Yasmine-qd6nu]

This is the typpa BS that keeps you single

[@zaratisafa2445]

Dudes gonna hate you for exposing their games, thank you Alex so much for this precious video it opens up my mind..

[@sarahd4260]

He has a while chanel for men about us too tho 🤣

[@bollagurl]

He's right do not tell these guys anything early on.

[@ckmp]

Yup my mom always told me that

[@bollagurl]

@@ckmp I wish your mom would have told 😂. Later on they will use anything and everything against you.

[@setme4ree]

Fuck I messed up

[@janayewill3883]

Or sleep with them smh 🤦🏿‍♀️ 😂

[@lyn9415]

When you have good come backs, honestly they can’t use anything against you. Have confidence and be swift when someone tries to use anything you told them, against you. Pull a card.

[@sunshinejanice30]

That is why I stay to myself, I'm naturally gullible, have no "street" smarts so to speak, I'm a completely selfless person and would do anything for anyone....learned long ago I'm gold to a narcissistic man. So I'm happy single!!! Giving all that love to myself. Steer clear from most people

[@AmerielThompson]

You are definitely gold to a Narc

[@AmerielThompson]

Self love is the best!

[@whitepearls20]

Me too😩

[@amnbvcxz8650]

Read the book ‘human magnet syndrome’ by dr Rosenberg, he talks about this same phenomenon, describes how chemistry/attraction works for you attract those narcissistic men, etc. i’m in your shoes, understand you. Have to stick to being by myself so far, until i learn self love.

[@avasinha9764]

I can relate with you ...but I am working on my boundaries....it will help you if you do too...

[@rosequartz7939]

When I meet someone I never talk about my past I’m mysterious I always keep a person wondering 💭

[@tiannatekeste4498]

I agree with what you say . But in some other reality. Myquestion is why does someone disrespect another person because they allow it? wouldn’t that be a question of your character. If I meet someone that is a pushover and , easy to manipulate because I fancy myself as a person with good character, I wouldn’t take advantage of that I will just leave them alone. Because that person’s feelings matter so if I can’t give them respect than I need to preserve my morals and back away.

[@loyaltyb71052]

You are so right but unfortunately most SEE KIND LOVING PEOPLE AS WEAK AND A gold mine. TAKERS SEE OTHERS AS BEING PUT THERE To satisfy their needs ONLY!

[@Jenrumbi]

Ypu would be a great target with that mindset

[@msjrene05]

It’s human nature. Both men and women do it in regular lives with others. We may not be outright disrespectful, but a person knows how to move with someone who may appear to not have any boundaries or be a pushover. It happens at work, in families, friendships. Women especially need firm boundaries with men. Men always think they can get one over on me because I’m very kind and have a baby face. Being kind doesn’t mean I’m stupid. They soon learn 😊 Being underestimated this way allows me to see guys characters very early on. “Be as wise as serpents and as harmless as doves.”

[@ladyofspa]

Lol spoken like a woman 🤣😂 ....men don't often think like that. They are designed to conquer. If you let them the masculine will.

[@tiannatekeste4498]

@@ladyofspa well I am a true woman so I guess you are right! 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ladyofspa]

Some men are so wierd and weak you punish for everything. Beg for our attention then blame us when we give it to you. Beg for sex then punish us for being easy. Plead for baby then leave when it gets hard. Want to buy a house together switch it up and go back to mommies house. This poor girl willing to keep the fun going and instead you label her wack weak low esteem. She cant win Had she cause a scene shes crazy. Either way you were gonna punish her think less and blame her for you being a liar. SMH

[@leachridlah1927]

Exactly my thoughts

[@Niqua10023]

I been there done that. They are the weak ones for taking the time to do som I mean who is the weak one here really? Most are fools but, not all. Some are their to be their and loyal. Then their are some that are just as fake as he is. Lairs and cheaters.

[@amnbvcxz8650]

that’s the cognitive dissonance I’m experiencing too from messages towards women’s supposed behaviour. If you’re not gullible - you’re blamed for being mistrustful, difficult (i was even rejected for that). If you show any upset emotions due to a broken boundary/mistreatment - you’re confrontational/crazy. if you don’t cause a scene - you’re weak/exploitable/disrespected. What’s the balance? If you walk/pull away, you’re distant and unattainable, and just end up alone even before they attach. Either way, men will blame you and say their treatment of you is your fault.

[@trishtrishlee]

I’m too crazy for these behaviors. You’re right, if their intentions aren’t good then they won’t tolerate the strong females reactions. The good men won’t play these games.

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@candacecasey5634]

Being crazy is the best defense against these types😂They always think I am " sweet and innocent" until they piss me off!

[@HeartLatic]

Ditto and agreed sister!!

[@jodiburnett6211]

Tolerate Nothing. Amen!!!! A hot neighbor man just asked me, “so when do I accidentally get to see you in your robe?” And I said, “Hey! Why don’t you buy your sweet girlfriend a nice robe and have a nice weekend!” He CRUMBLED. Thank you for the truth.

[@zubieM]

👏🏽

[@lyn9415]

You a goat. Yes, all hail you, bringing these lying, cheating mfs back to reality, draining the blood out of their little head.

[@theadrenalizedartist6843]

I have no idea how I even found this channel but every last bit of this is the truth.

[@me.2172]

I feel like all this testing and mind game BS is ridiculous. People over think shit and IGNORE red flags. I treat them as I would any new friend/ acquaintance, feel em out and DON’T give up the cookies. Be friendly, be YOURSELF! Keep your standards, speak your mind, LISTEN, and control your emotions. If it becomes something.. cool. If not, cool. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@eshtermaria6884]

DON’T give up the cookies 😁👍

[@evelinaxxo9593]

SPEAK YOUR MIND

[@TT-nu4qk]

Listen to the non verbal communication will tell you more then words

[@alexajackson8227]

Unless it’s a double stuffed cookie. Than ya minus well give it up to the 3rd who wins the treasure chest.

[@angeliqueesprit8674]

My cut-off game is powerful!💪🏽

[@michellenubian3067]

It’s not that she believed you but she just knew that she wouldn’t get the truth from you..

[@vallymokhlis]

You know I STRUGGLED with not following through my words and acting gullible. In the end of my old relationships, I'd always get disrespected and I noticed how they'd treat me like I kid and I'd wonder WHY?? And now I know. It really does take an outsider to put it into perspective. Now I'm in a happy healthy relationship where in the slightest BS I hear. I call it out. Women are naturally assertive, never let society change you into people pleasing. A freaking nightmare I tell you. Thank you Alex, you're changing people's lives ❤

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

On point….. call them on everything & always be willing to walk away….

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

So get this: why are women considered “doubters” and “over thinkers” when we DON’T believe everything a guy says?? Make it make sense!! We can’t win either way!

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@QueenOfPrinciple]

I made the error in telling guys that men in my past have been unfaithful and then showing my hand in my vulnerabilities, then being too giddy. But I'm just naturally happy and down to earth. However I not only bark, I bite too!

[@ladyofspa]

Same. Never share till it's safe. Omit the negative times to much later if ever... Keep it general.

[@crunchybobaasmr2130]

Never share it period. Is safer to not date them.

[@munix9351]

@@ladyofspa don't ever let your guard down with men. Take it to the grave. Even if you are married. They never ever, ever, ever forget. Ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@MAGAISKLAN]

I'm guilty of being too giddy too. Never again!

[@Gabrielleoregon]

As cute as he is I’d never go on a date with Alex knowing how his mind is in real life from these 😂 so grateful for his brutal honesty to be always real with myself with the way most guys are these days.

[@fran791]

Lol he's so toxic that it's funny

[@kiradomochi4961]

Yea he's pretty gross

[@elenal1906]

Unfortunately this is how a lot of men think. Or even worse

[@bossbabies347]

even he will one day meet someone that will mess his head up in a good way 😂

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

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[@MARYsNOlongerDrUnK]

SKIDMARK OF BUDDHA!!!! LMMFAO!

[@aubreyjames8795]

Dude if a woman has to play games and pretend to hold off sex then clearly the dude shes dealing with needs to be DROPPED

[@hijustyourlocalfriend5756]

Omg i failed harddddd, how do i gain his respect again

[@305babygrl9]

ok I’ll l ok

[@305babygrl9]

o lol ooopo

[@KimberlyH.]

At first, I thought playing games was inconsequential. Now I realize, it is necessary in dating.

[@Tnc874]

#2 is the reason why u keep your fucn mouth shut about what you been thru. We run our mouths too much as women. Quick to run our mouths and spread our legs

[@EmeralDiamonds]

Alex, I agree with you but most of these men prefer women are weak and easy to manipulate. I love that you empower women to be strong but let’s not lie, most men are not looking for confident women with boundaries

[@PucciNYC]

You right they just want an easy lay.

[@evelinaxxo9593]

Truee, they also dont want intelligent women

[@caramelali8132]

They want confident woman with boundaries, but also what will keep them is playing evil beauty, nice enchantress with them. They like role playing tooo fuckin much

[@caramelali8132]

And it’s also because most men these days don’t know what they want. They want all levels lmao

[@vhayashi7369]

Yep exactly

[@lauriejordan2716]

I have a question. For some reason people think I am weak. So they attempt to disrespect me. Then when I stand up for myself. They are shocked and mad at me. As if, “how dare you. You are supposed to be passive and allow me to take advantage of you.” But how is that my fault?

[@lauriejordan2716]

@@munix9351 I love that advice. Thank you for taking the time to reply. I truly appreciate it.

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Maybe it’s the way you look and dress. Do you have a sweet baby face? Are you delicate and not fierce in the way your body is shaped? You should only balance your aesthetic with your character and way of acting

[@amnbvcxz8650]

I think i have a similar issue

[@yuyu-ev7eq]

Same here.

[@rosequartz7939]

When people think I’m weak and at the end they be begging for mercy because they realize they was the weak one and it was a game I’m a manipulate worst nightmare 😌

[@lyn9415]

Me AF When you have to remind them that you had the power the entire time You were only humble about it Love this

[@Niqua10023]

That's how I feel. I ain't weak. I was being nice but, I fo have limits. I'll be your worst nightmare. Don't play me or you'll wish you never met me.

[@TT-nu4qk]

Whole Fact. When they intentionally disrespect you and you dismissive them with Grace. Its i wouldn't do you like the, I am sorry, I care about u, I wanna be with you 😂. They didn't get the powerless reaction they were looking for so they want round two. Gracefully move around sir like I did ✌

[@Nicana68]

I may pass his tests, but he has automatically failed mine by testing me.

[@goddessinfinity1]

You did not describe grown men. You described narcissists. Mature men don't play games. Your audience of women must be pickmes because the prize does not need this information.

[@redroselace9545]

You starting to look more healthier and rested ! Keep up videos

[@jamejame544]

He helped me get back my ex after separation

[@gracea7372]

If you really love someone there’s no need to play mind games. PERIOD

[@YellowRoses10]

I agree

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

Duh. But most men do this. Either play or get played. You’re watching the Toxic Dating Coach, not the Healthy Relationship Coach.

[@vhayashi7369]

I'm in my 40s it's always games. They only love conditionally. Ask me why they get married... It's not for love.

[@emarisarah3547]

Than y u here

[@pammi2725]

The man be dropping gems…but Alex you’re pure comedy at the same time lmaooooo

[@zubieM]

Always be willing to walk away! Walked away Monday- called him out on his BS 💩and he shut down and ghosted me for 5 days... then, popped back up 5 days later with “I was travelling Monday and today. Call you when I’m back home” (not in my country)- he didn’t call obvz- meaning he deliberately blanked me from Friday to Sunday- now I know better... NOW ITS my turn to ghost him forever- easy- game on 😎

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@carlel121]

Hehe yeap

[@syedanaqvi7238]

She was not gullible... She was just giving you respect by hiding your truth... As by not saying anything when she knew you're lying !

[@kymgarcia09]

Thank you for this video, it's really helpful. I have to agree with u regarding telling guys about your past, in my experience every time I tell the new guy what happened to my past relationship or how I got cheated on, most of them will end up taking me for granted and playing mind games with me. Never gonna happen again, ever.

[@arlenepayne309]

You guys are going to make yourselves go extinct by playing these mind games. Good luck finding a life✌️

[@saaramohamed8921]

LMAO true

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾 Truly

[@deadbeats4417]

And then guys complain that girls nowadays are bitches, well ofcourse weve been treated badly and always know what’s coming

[@Ash-ec5iq]

Very bad choice to share about abuse too soon. That is more of a 6 month to a year in conversation, for multiple reasons!

[@vicca4661]

Do not reveal too much too soon, never a good idea.

[@bessiesimmonsmusic1368]

Don’t be telling guys you not going to do something and don’t follow through with the threats. Wow, thats good stuff, but so true

[@jeannievail]

When she pretended she didn’t know you were making a date, she wasn’t jealous because she didn’t see you as relationship material, just sex, but she knew she was disrespected, the second you answered that phone call. There’s a difference between a woman going down on you while you’re on the phone and actually answering a phone call during sex. When you did that you told her you weren’t having sex with her but using her mouth to get off.

[@murel8319]

Father Alex looks like he been hitting the gym

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

He's been 💪

[@bruna8663]

I said the exact same thing

[@babyc.3015]

Father Alex now a toxic daddy

[@MAGAISKLAN]

Is it strange that one time a guy I had just been dating for a while asked me if I'd ever been in an abusive relationship? I had not so, of course I said no. But I recall thinking it was such a weird question.

[@munix9351]

😂😂😂😂 he was trying to find out your weaknesses. they then use it to abuse you.

[@cheriew2512]

Great tips!! ✨✨ Ladies - stop chasing these men!

[@superpoodlehead]

They look for the weakest. But they want the strongest. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@dinapereira9448]

My boyfriend does all of these even though we have been together for almost 6 months Your amazing have to listen to every video now Thanks 🙏🏻

[@jasminwall9115]

As bad guys go for the "weak", does that mean good guys will avoid abused women? Will they think less of her?

[@RubyAraceli_R]

Pull away and your doing me a favor........ Thank you for revealing yourself. We cannot lie forever. The truth eventually comes forward

[@ehisyorfor6621]

I really love your talks… I just wanna give you a big hug 🥺🥺

[@jamejame544]

He helped me get back my ex after separation

[@jasminwall9115]

What per cent of guys are looking for weakness? What can a woman do if they've been abused by a lot of people? (Family, Friends, Boyfriends, Strangers)? How can someone hide that much of their life for a whole few weeks? Some people have been abused a LOT? Also, is it acceptable for a man to ask if you've had sex before and with how many people? This has happened to me before. I think the right thing to do is drop them.

[@amnbvcxz8650]

I’m so sorry 🫂please read ‘human magnet syndrome’ by Dr Rosenberg, he talks about chronically attracting abusers (he calls codependency a self live deficit disorder). as well as other books on codependency might help, but HMS is the best on the topic imo. I understand you, when you were abused as kid it will create a magnet for that to manifest in adult life…

[@zimkazenstv6379]

You told the truth on false advertisement, when a low value guy does not lie, he will not pass on his genes

[@vhayashi7369]

"They're not there to love, they're there to hurt." Yep.. women don't realize this about men.

[@hippydippytrippy9804]

I found myself saying Hallelujah! Thank you for this insight Father Alex 🙏❤️

[@Allyg1741]

Thanks for creating the video!! I feel this also applies to all relationships with friends and family too. No person is perfect and sometimes people have to be held accountable, for the sake of your own self-love, otherwise they'll end up pulling you down and down away from your true purpose in life.

[@toydzurko]

Video begins at 3:00

[@insightillumination8917]

The way you blend psychology and science is genius AF

[@xtinasd9138]

Thank you so much . Always dropping 💎 💎💎💎

[@Sara-world]

I mean you are acting toxic with this girl and seeing if you can play and manipulate her for nothing more than entertainment and self interests. That's narc shit. Most normal people don't think on this level and waste their time on this energy. So do you typically go around seeing how you can manipulate women and its your honest opinion that all other men are doing this because they have nothing better to do and are bred to lie and fake value?

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@aplusdiva7006]

I call everything out and folks run for the hills 🤣🤣🤣. Those who understand respect me and stick around. As far as rape there's no way a child can fight off a grown ass man/ woman. We must protect ourselves and each other PERIOD!

[@emily_rose_elyse]

This channel partly only applies to people who have narcissistic/abusive tendencies, I think Alex knows this. It’s still good to know about though! The alternative to not learning how to handle toxic people is to robotically get rid of people the second you see subtle signs that they are possibly toxic and I’m sorry but that’s just not how people work. It’s better to educate ourselves on how to handle different types of people.

[@avasears2516]

The signs of a narcissist,, run forest run!!!!!!!

[@zubieM]

Absolutely!!

[@icyymariee3143]

Facts

[@tatkins4800]

I get school keeping one busy in grad school to get my master's degree in counseling. I am just now realizing that lot of things a guy did in a recent relationship were tests. Right now, I am just focusing on myself on school, health, and making money after a relationship ended last spring. I am at the place with relationships right now of it happens, it happens....if not, oh well. I have met a lot of people who have told me that when they got to that idgaf point is when they met their person.... personally, right now I am unapologetically focusing on building my life.

[@TT-nu4qk]

This idgaf level is deep into yourself and out of the fairytale ish and you kick the pedal stool you put men your intentioned in on. You can see them for them and not the "potential" then a emotional bond can be created.

[@ssafariyt66]

That part!

[@amnbvcxz8650]

Idgaf never got me anywhere. It’s situational, you have to create situations where you get to know new people. Luck is what happens when you create conditions for it to happen.

[@constancejenkins3867]

Thank you Alex for Spilling ALL THE TEA 🍵 🙏🏽 And It's Pippin HOT 🔥!!

[@vm6796]

This is such an important video thank you for making it 🙌

[@sagenosnibor9173]

This video just made me snap out of that shit! Thanks for pointing out what homeboy thought he was doing. ✂️🙅🏾‍♀️

[@kimmichaud4064]

The info your giving is so priceless i just turned fifty I wish i had this info decades ago

[@ThatVerySpecialGirl]

You’re the best dating coach ever! You are so incredibly spot on wow I’m in awe. Thank you, we need more guidance we all do.

[@ClaudineBelhomme]

I agree 100%

[@Inner_abundance]

The best dating coach on KZbin 🐐❣️

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Period!!

[@lbanks3237]

I came for the dating tips, but stayed for Alexis’s personal stories. 😂😂😂

[@Mynameisdarkxxo]

Make videos about modern dating; hooking up is common, a lot of girls end up struggling keeping a guy interested after sex, what are the key behaviors a girl should do when there are in situations like this

[@Ash-ec5iq]

Can't make a guy like you and why would women want a man who isn't into her? If we want a long term relationship then then we should wait at least a month for intimicay. We should wait multiple dates before kissing too. And date multiple guys. I've changed my rules on dating and I would rather keep getting rid of the wrong guy than being stressed wondering if a guy is into me. No thanks.

[@Ash-ec5iq]

Meant to write, we should wait a few months before being intimate.

[@abbykempser2050]

Check out decodingthepredator here on KZbin, she teaches how to keep a man interested and decodes their behavior.

[@quristle8128]

If they’re not interested after sex then they’re not interested

[@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358]

Don’t hookup with random men lol. Wait at least 3 months. Kissing off limits for a month.

[@louisaklimentos7583]

I have made that mistake by telling people that I am in an abusive marriage .

[@greendreem9684]

You’re the TRUTH

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Facts

[@candacecasey5634]

lol His name ain't Jesus😂

[@sheaNERD]

Great video full of amazing advice!

[@DemureDarlings]

YOU ARE THE TRUTH!!!!🙌🏼

[@candacecasey5634]

This explains a lot. I always have a bunch of tricks up my sleeve for these jackasses. If they want to play games They will learn that they do not define how I perceive either them or myself. Ever.

[@dutchessofcreativity9397]

texting too much IE if he texts first n you text back quickly isn't good

[@gemaynedorisjeanhoward7325]

Yup that's a jewel. Alex told us not to do that.. never never to text back to quickly...Correcto it totally works. Make those Guys thirsty for uuu...

[@UplifterofHumansCharity]

Ouch. Explains narcissistic men for sure omg thank you now I’ll come in swinging 😂. I loved when you said “ they aren’t there to live they are there to hurt .”

[@scherermurillo7669]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires with more love and commitment from your EX 💌through the same great man of the universe Ogo,,who helped me restored my broken home . 🏠he can make your ex beg for a second chance

[@UplifterofHumansCharity]

This is a gold mine. Thanks nice professor stick too !

[@antisocialite13]

Thank you Big Brother!

[@angelicaangel2624]

Alex is making some gains!

[@aliarsenal6136]

OMG. This is so eye opening. Thank you so much Alex!! ❤❤❤

[@1Blkmadonna]

Such a wise man

[@dreaming2557]

Thanks for inspiring me I feel like I should be talking to ladies from a women’s prospective I definitely am an anti narc slayer…maybe I’m the blade of narcs but I slay them every time and they become controlled by me 😂they end up only desiring me I have like 5/6 dudes who think God made me for them & I don’t even believe in that shit🥴I just clearly used my power and out Narced a narc and no I didn’t do nufn low vibrational ladies I simply just walk away in peace💯& they start going crazy🎯

[@TT-nu4qk]

This! I'll def say alway date multiple men. It's fun and your detached from all of them while still engaging. Always walk away with grace. That power they can't take is why they go crazy. They came to destroy and found out you really don't give af about them. Take a number my guy

[@xw6475]

This is SO SO good! Thank you so much father Alex 🙏🙏

[@theoutlandishblueprint2419]

Haha 😂

[@ShakespeerTube]

Really good

[@nikkitheevixen]

This one could save a life. Thank you for this.

[@rhg624]

Alexis: life saving dating coach. Strong, truthful facts. Glad I watched this in time. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤👍👍👍😓☺