act like a lady, think like a man, date like Lori Harvey - dust bust your love life | Fumi

[@mameafrane1725]

My guess is that she was raised to believe that she is the treasure and the gift hence, she will move swiftly if a relationship doesn't server her. There are a lot of options out there. Its very important to really live and explore before you really commit to the "one". I think there is plenty of possible "one". Dating should be fun and exploring character, goals, values and like you mention, a vetting process. I think Lori is doing just that. Those who criticize Lori are jealous they lost control.

[@Mahamaven]

Yes! I love everything you said. Sometimes the wait is long, but Dating should be fun in the meantime

[@jaymsleedan]

You are correct! Dating isn’t synonymous with sexual intimacy! Who’s to say she’s sleeping with these guys. Maybe that’s why it’s so easy for her to move on 😂

[@faitha1075]

I agree! Dating someone has nothing to do with sex.

[@Mahamaven]

That’s literally my theory! Dating while celibate makes for clean breaks 😂

[@redvelvetsprinkles]

truly, you are the big sister i never had fumi! i am so grateful for you and for helping me set even higher standards for finding a christly, high quality man!

[@kadd4415]

Yes, she's the lawyer-friend, smart, beautiful Christian sister-friend that we all need :)

[@kadd4415]

19:04- Yep, I learned the hard way about "potential." I wanted to see the best in certain guys I was dating, hoping they would come around to meeting standards, or their own positive images of themselves which never translated into real action. Don't waste too much time, effort and emotion hoping to see the smallest bloom of hope when gardens of hope are already in bloom all around you.

[@lunar3n]

this video is definitely making my standards higher, perfect timing as i’m in the planning stages of moving out w my boyfriend - so i’m trying to really set aside the desire to get out of my current circumstances and instead examine if i WANT to live with him, if MY goals fit him in somehow instead of fitting my goals into the relationship

[@Mahamaven]

Being intentional is so important 💯💯

[@reginahkagoro9665]

I love this take and the longer videos here🥰

[@Mahamaven]

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[@bkdivaBkdiva]

I agree because if she wasn’t emotionally attached in the first place that makes a difference. Clearly she wasn’t that attached to him. 😂😂It could be why she left. Women date men all the time that treat them well but when they feel something is missing they know that is not their person and need to move on. Same goes for men. Men have been leaving women all that time hitting them with the it’s not you it’s me line. Its just seems to be more common that men leave compared to women so when a woman leaves for what appears to be no reason it’s frowned upon.

[@tayla3934]

This was such a great video and it was very well put together! The advice about taking time to really think and consider what your nonnegotiables are was something I’ve only touched the surface on. But you really reminded me to take a deeper look into it. Thank you!

[@Mahamaven]

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[@yasminbuchanan5923]

Such a great episode! Thank you for this!

[@Mahamaven]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@uzoma_may]

You’re so authentic about this...

[@rohannaterry7288]

Your videos have changed my life for the better tremendously. God's light shines so fervently through you and I've found such a newfound confidence at 18. I just wanted to make that known

[@christiana6555]

hey girl, i'm 18 as well. I love seeing other young women like me getting to know Christ and taking charge of their standards and life. you go girl 💞💞

[@opuulent1]

So spot on Fumi! Lessons learned and practicing!👏🏾🙌🏾🙋🏾❤️

[@alexandriamatthews3896]

i love when you say please 🤣

[@Kimber272]

14:52 drop that pigeon and get you a dove sisters 🎉

[@Promentalist]

How did I miss this? And it’s a long video 🎉

[@syrgirl]

People saying she needs more time to heal are assuming she got hurt to begin with.

[@THESTARDOM]

First OMG ❤❤

[@Mahamaven]

🥰🥰🥰🤍🤍🤍

[@ernestinemalaou9996]

I wanna see Lori get marry before I say anything. 🌚 let’s wait and see the results🥳

[@nadineh4767]

I don’t think she is interested in settling down, which I love for her. She’s a free spirit as she should

[@evek2572]

Samson don't want to give up his ex though

[@thegardener3650]

Fumi, you’re way too hot! Too hot to handle! 🔥

[@CutebabyDestiney]

This is a very authentic necessary TIMELY video we are living in a time that is so … weird for the girls😭🥹 Fumi you are a girls girl and I just love it thank you🥰🥰