Make Friends with Loneliness | CRP

CRP Channel - / @coachredpill
CRP Patreon - / coachredpill
CRP Telegram - t.me/realCRP

[@nobufrancis685]

Gonzalo Lira the picture of you with your two kids at the end of this video is wonderful. Rest in eternal peace. You will be terribly missed. Thank you for everything.

[@rodri4731]

🙏🙏🙏

[@jpoeste]

You died a legend Coach, RIP GONÇALO LIRA

[@triggaweris4216]

I’m a loner and I thank God for that.The fear of loneliness drives people into very unhealthy friendships and relationships

[@solidcatink]

Yep. I'm alone a lot. And sometimes I feel lonely. But I'd rather be alone than poorly accompanied.

[@neutrinowave]

totally agree

[@stefanv9660]

Same here dude

[@Francis_UD]

A wise choice 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻🤜🏻

[@nightowl6811]

I used to enjoy going out 4 days a week and dancing and clubs and Vegas and lots of girlfriends and friends and etc. Now I'm 51 and zero interest in all of that. Alone makes me super happy. I finally woke up and disconnected from the dumb matrix and society chaos and all garbage 🗑

[@younessayes-c6r]

this video hits differently after his passing. I hope he is at peace now.

[@Raphael0654]

Pray for his kids & widowed wife.

[@lucasprange7104]

'I've always known, that I'd die alone.' - Kirk Thanks for your memories, captain

[@solidcatink]

Those who truly loved me are dead now. But I was loved ! Yes, I was ! Now I'm on my own, and so be it.

[@prsgrind8794]

Solid!

[@recklessnotion1899]

Im glad Coach ended up deciding to upload this because I resonate with the message and it's reassuring to know he felt the same way I do at the moment. I used to watch CRP in my early mid 20s but at 29 going over all his old vids they just hit different now with more pain and experience over the years. I appreciate your sage wisdom and brutal honesty and transparency, even from the grave. RIP Gonzalo.

[@Larrye123]

So sorry we lost this guy. He was a wise man with decades of wisdom. I'm grateful he shared it on YT. Such a shame he foolishly reported on Ukraine and left us the way he did. RIP CRP.

[@InspectorA-r2e]

Do you support Ukraine Nazi?

[@furtrapper11]

Thanks for the insight you left. RIP

[@herbertthewaterrat]

Making friends with yourself. Treat yourself lovingly and celebrate your accomplishments and goals reached!

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

Ashes to ashes, dust to dust...my own fucking self I trust.

[@giannispapa-RCC]

That's a good one mate!!!

[@hotlucky5622]

loneliness is not necessarily about not mattering to people, it is about not being understood. solitude is a weapon.

[@KolyaNickD]

About what he said at the end about possibly starting a family - whatever you do, don't force it with the wrong person.

[@HornetBojan]

People don't realise how much of a gold so called "loneliness" is. The more you know, understand life, the more "lonley" (alone) you want to be and you enjoy yourself ... If you feel lonley you didn't suffer (grow) enough.

[@HornetBojan]

@Muttley 69 I understand you ... If you've been through hell and back "with other people in your life" then just remember those times and you'll not be lonley anymore ... If hell was not related to people in your life (family, partner) then I understand that you don't have any "reminder" or "wake up call" to bring you "back to reality" and notion that it can always be worse.

[@j_p_stratorus211]

You’re partially describing solitude here, not loneliness. Nobody ever wants to be lonely. If you WANT to be alone, that means you want solitude, which is a good thing.

[@RB09X]

A man is always alone unlike a woman. Enjoy it, don't feel sorry. I used to feel bad before later I learnt the truth and now I am happy.

[@brianhurt3801]

My favorite lecture of all ,I live this it is my joy been married to loneliness my whole life and I have a fantastic marriage ,always been loyal ....

[@dahnger]

Great man

[@MrTastytae]

Nobody does a better job of loving you than you.

[@hernandocortez6351]

It's great to see how happy you are with your kids.

[@TheRtyfghcvb]

It really does work. I have been doing it for years now. And it does comfort you. When nobody is home, I speak to myself out loud. Crack jokes, discuss serious issues, plans, cheerlead.... Out loud... Sometimes in the mirror... Or while pacing through the house. If I had a camera recording me the whole time, anyone would think I have gone insane. But doing this, improved my speaking abilities. I am an introvert. But with myself, I am an amazing speaker with a lot of accents too. Then there is another part... Then, it kinda becomes addictive too. Because you are so comfortable being on your own, people bores you. When you are in a crowd of NPCs... You just stay shut, uninterested in their programmed life. In my case, in solitude, I have gained so much knowledge on human behaviour, I could read people's body languages very easily, know why they are doing what they are doing and saying what they are saying. I could predict what they will do or say next. I could connect with everything CRP said here, because I have experienced this. And trust me, no matter how crazy this sounds, this does work in battling loneliness. And a point in time comes, loneliness actually becomes enjoyable. I laugh when I am alone. People who know me, won't even believe that I can laugh. I hardly speak. But alone... I am a much different person. It's like split personality. A side of me that nobody knows. But surely will love me if they could see that side of me. Because I am funny and very engaging when nobody is looking. Strange but fact.

[@tonycerviver2123]

Hey if you feeling lonely then your best gamble in life is to get a dog. I can't describe the bond one gets with a companion who absorbs all your shame, blame, and anxiety. I live in a rental right now, but getting a dog is on my list as soon as I move out.

[@solidcatink]

Totally agree. My dog is my best friend, and with him, I'm never truly lonely.

[@jw911]

Spot on- I agree that you must make friends with yourself to combat loneliness.

[@drapjb]

Honesty, vulnerability and truth shine so brightly.

[@mehnlo]

I mastered loneliness, hurts at first but time make you know yourself more. Love being in solitude, peaceful and your energy is Always full. Now it’s addicting.

[@starboy2013]

Sure there are monsters . They walk on two legs.

[@Orlando-t6w]

4:16 When you have more freedom more freedom to be whatever you want to and more freedoms and more opportunities to transform yourself into whatever you imagine you'd like to be the cost of that is loneliness.

[@LegatoStacatp]

I talk to myself all the time. Helps to get it out as if you’re talking to someone else

[@thomashanlon9764]

I'm so glad you did post this video. I got a lot out of it. Thanks

[@redpilled_1017]

RIP Coach

[@brianhurt3801]

This guy's content pulls me into focus , as did JERRY GARCIA s vocal retrospect to storytelling with a song ..thank you sir ,I am still video bingeing on your channel

[@ylannjacobin3803]

I often went back to this video just as a reminder…

[@VenomousMe]

soul-crushing loneliness - yup. no-one does give a shit about me- not really. thanks for being so honest.

[@goblinslayer6432]

Listen here folks, the things he says in the video is ABSOLUTELY TRUE, EVERY SINGLE WORD. I have also been there several times and i can feel that everything he says is from experience and his past. I have lived in utter loneliness for 2 years (2018, 2022) . I was preparing for some exams, after suffering horrible failures. Would work online in content writing to get some money, lived in my parents house, in a single room. Parents never bothered about me, as long as I didn't burden them. No friends, parents hardly spoke for 2-3 mins with me per day. No social media except KZbin. No friends, no phone calls, nothing. Just me working in content writing from 10 AM to 7 PM, and studying for my exams the rest of the time. Would have a pair of barbells and plates to workout in my small room, studied like hell, worked in shitty content writing to just make money, nothing else. Went out once a week at night to buy some snacks. And that was it. I think I was somehow more at peace with the world back then.

[@jimmyboyles2868]

There's a cat rescue here in Denver called Angels with Paws. It has a sign in the window that says 'volunteers needed to pet the cats'. This place has no cages but several rooms with 5-6 cats in each room. I tried it and have been back 7 times. The purring and petting is very calming and good for both the cats and humans. Try it! People suck!

[@adabelmusic9489]

If you’re going to a club alone, loneliness is the last thing you need to worry about…

[@petitprince3726]

Why is that?

[@giannispapa-RCC]

​@@petitprince3726cause you can meet new people there

[@krishnag7796]

I am going through this right now. I speak to myself in mirror as if I am two people and trust me it helps a lot to correct yourself and overcome loneliness feeling. I am enjoying my solitude with my best buddy, me!

[@giannispapa-RCC]

It's wonderful!!!

[@willtowin9996]

one of his Best ❤

[@saltyabcdef3202]

Thanks for being there for us Coach.

[@TheRobynhud]

Wonderful ending coach, important work much gratitude. Lets go rebuild!

[@giannispapa-RCC]

I did that and it's wonderful!

[@LordHasenpfeffer]

My 2nd divorce was 8+ years ago. I've chosen to remain single since 2018. I was more lonely when I was married than I am today... back then I was disappointed because I had expectations which were not being met to any degree... Today I have no expectations, therefore, I'm perfectly fine.

[@goblinslayer6432]

I wish u all the best. Perhaps happiness is a byproduct of peace, and nothing gives peace than loneliness. However I believe, loneliness is an acquired taste, like bitter black coffee. Takes time and a mature outlook to enjoy.

[@georgoeb]

That’s a really powerful technique. Talking to the successful, sovereign self.Imagination is a very powerful thing!

[@Avrelivs_Gold]

I'm alone and i don't have one single friend lol you have to master it, it's freedom but also responsibility. you are never alone because inside you there's your animal nature you have to train and you are also conscious mind having plans and goals. so you can't let it go, like driving your car alone. nobody is going to warn you or stop you. your animal side can't make it alone. your mind is powerless without animal motivation. there's balance. i look at it as big picture of humanity and not my one life. life is short, people die and my turn is coming too. so i just play the game.

[@nicksarap7826]

I am in that place right now, and don't see an end to it. 😆 Thank you. Great video.

[@wolfgoatassweat4531]

Youre not crazy, youre just extremely intelligent. I do the same thing.

[@brianf9615]

You are not a loon. I’m gonna take your advice and try to implement it. Thanks.

[@solidcatink]

Yes, I have felt soul-crushing lonliness many, many times ! I have made friends with that feeling. It is what is is, right? All I know is that someone, somewhere is missing out on being loved by an amazing person -- me ! Their loss.

[@carlostrato754]

totally agree i had this nobody gives a shit about me pressure with 19. Now myself is my bestfriend and i'm carefully to choose the right people

[@solidcatink]

discernment is important !

[@keithheller7775]

When I was younger I used to react to other people to how they treated me because my work ethic carried more weight than theirs and that reaction of character no one wanted to be part of I'm 48 years old it took my wife to leave to realize it so I had to find myself what I was doing wrong. And I'm by myself now I can try to change my character

[@beec7602]

Damn bro. Stay solid.

[@ameerromma]

this man is not describing loneliness, he is describing depression, which i attribute to his atheism. my religion has a built in structure that is stress proof, five daily prayers a day, constant dhikr and fasting, add to that the moral commands given to us by our messenger adds a sense of tranquility, peace and surrender in my heart

[@zuwenahussain6973]

Give yourself time

[@LeoGang89]

Makes sense to me. Shit, I do the same thing. I know you dont talk to your self like Jim carrey in that movie "Me, Myself and I". You have an internal dialog. Sometimes you have to laugh shit on your own jokes because there isnt always someone there to tell them to. Just an example. Damn, I work a lot too.

[@filmonmicheal1593]

its not schizophrenic way its called watching the thinker its type of Eckhart tolle teaching

[@mrmalark6615]

I feel we let this guy down.

[@rickvenlo1362]

There was nothing you could do. I was in the Ukraine many years ago. He didn’t know what he was up against. He was a good man and will be missed. One of the reasons why He made these videos. Take good heed.

[@mrmalark6615]

@@rickvenlo1362Ironically, I found another old video where CRP rails against his father. In the final analysis, it was his father on Tucker trying to save his life. Family is everything.

[@rickvenlo1362]

@@mrmalark6615 Clearly his relationship was jaded with his father. Tell us which video are you talking about specifically please.

[@mrmalark6615]

@rickvenlo1362 It's called 'When You Don't Respect Your Father's and it's available on the CRP Archive. It's almost immature, but I wouldn't hold that against him, no one is unimpeachable and we're all immature at points. But, ultimately, his dad wasn't indifferent to him.

[@rickvenlo1362]

@@mrmalark6615 My father very difficult. I’m in a similar age group as gl. Our fathers generation was difficult. GL Undertook a couple of things that I didn’t approve of over the last couple years. We all recommended that he get out of there. But he was stuck. He still left a wonderful legacy of great work for us all to study, enjoy And debate about…. Thanks for letting me know. I know I’m for sure gonna miss the guy And his take on things

[@CultureShockGaming]

I talk to myself all the time, helps quite alot

[@mehdizeddouk]

Yes young man it's make perfect sense

[@sarsary]

i just belive in posibilitis , how can i improve to fullfill my desires , the loneliness gave u the cure to mange ur self and have clarity , learn the iner wise , and the outside world is all about testing and have feedback to learn from , the splited self talk is so real and healthy , but some times u need new happens from the outside in order to not stuck just on ur mind though ....i have people who love me but when u realise is every individual testing a life within him self , u will start to make clear diraction , without blaming anyone , u will start to be real savage .

[@drewwood1986yt]

Wow man ... I know exactly what you mean I was partying hard one day /night /week /month lol etc... this chick was there with me. I passed out and when I woke up, she was gone.. It was the most ....lowest scariest destitute , empty feeling. Like he'll, almost. Soul crushing is a great word to explain it . How do I build a network , how do i convince others to care... glad you got thru it. It's the emptiest feeling you can imagine . Please do more vids on the subject of lonkiness.

[@ThePunis-Her]

Never had this loneliness but i do talk to myself when im alone. Even when i am like vacuumcleaning, im like.. Oke im vacuumcleaning now, then im gonna do dishes, wash windows then im free to do what i want. Its not like talking in yourself like an Skitzo, but more like thinking out loud?!

[@justinnicolathyme]

#freeGonzaloLira

[@frankdavf4599]

Intuition has the voice of yourself

[@kashifkhalid1139]

Thanks for sharing this!

[@deadw1nd]

I’m alone but I’m not lonely

[@HornetBojan]

"You" listen to your "ego", "persona" and "bestfriend" him ... "You" understand him, give advice to etc. :)

[@jeshurandianga1251]

I don't call it loneliness I call it being alone

[@InMoneroWeTrust]

I miss this guy

[@joevenuto587]

I bet if you interviewed and studied people who are imprisoned or even imprisoned in solitary confinement, I am sure these humans have taken "conquer loneliness" to its extreme. Interview them and ask if making friends with themselves matches what you went through in conquering loneliness.

[@thecreamyone3606]

The dramatic music makes me feel lonely

[@lucasprange7104]

Fucking amazing!

[@99vhtech28]

Nice thanks sir

[@JoseChavez-io6nd]

Un seguidor de Cristo Jesus nunca va ha estar solo augue este solo...

[@starboy2013]

Apparently you just described why source created the universe. It was alone and wanted sensation. It wanted a family.

[@simongeorgeturner]

My dear late friend, I think you meant to say thinking/talking to yourself is neurotic.

[@Raphael0654]

Or Schizoid--which does start to unravel into psychosis, rather than neurosis.

[@paulsmecker2778]

I'm glad to be more of a loner.

[@JM-oe5vf]

rip

[@markovuckovic3350]

Its working!

[@thecreamyone3606]

Loneliness is my Bestfriend 4 Life

[@lifeisbeautiful5998]

I appriciate your video..u been making videos people like me wanted . help me ..make a video to Help people like me I am an introvert ,have no freinds , I messed up with one if my Neiboure as they discriminated me cuz of my exam score . I never had any gf, no confidence , my parents been toxic and gaslighting... I am socially not good enough ., feel judged a lot,i don't have much word power , or verbal defence ,I need to live I am not living, I am living in 3rd world , I never been in part, never placed in a fteinship priority by freinds , poor in coomunation..,heavenly de motivated though out the years by the strict society, girl less school, ... Not being able to take care of mom dad ,they getting too old..it's painful... To see . And thair reactions on not being succesfull or see me not being succesfull like normally most others I been hugely lonely, am I feel stupid , I don't understand where my life is going , need someone to hang out and love , I feel missed out , left out , ...no job I feel I should have not been lived .I wanted to die ..but cuz of my parents I wanted to live anyway..I would die one day thats make me most demortivated and it's totally meaningless that I am gonna die ..I dont feel motivated and most people are judging a lot here...I feel really bad when many just talk bad ,sarcastic or ignore as I am not that succesfull or good looking and I don't have a job. .and not good in communation and have social anxity ... I feels it's too late abd not getting what most get in this age ..feeling my future would be worst , would be not able to find way , or support my family ..i feel really dumb as had no freind , no appreciation al, been trovervet , had not gf , no supporters. .i feel like don't deserve abd I don't know ehat yo do..I feel dumb and not active , dont feel I can make if...I feel I have no 0resence of mind. ...I wise I had 2 or 3 freinds with me most time . I would have been able to be happy , healthy and wont be bored , or overthinking of future or fear of missing out .. I don't also live in a really good place .people are not really broad minded here and have no money . I would have done a lot good to socity if I were a strong, healthy , smart, very poor in communication and if had freinds .I want to do something better ,.i want people to respect me I never did any harm to others Plz .

[@chosentobedifferent6242]

pray without ceasing. that is what will help you. no human can help you. Only Jesus.

[@solosportbikerider5734]

We have a Ego Conscious Mind a Subconscious mind and a Super Subconscious mind we have the power to Manipulate our own mind,but you must learn to do it we as humans are not even using 50% of our mind ability to check our own mind, Manifesting for what you want is a excellent way to get what you want and change your Reality.

[@Sulimankhayyat]

It's not schizophranic, not even close. It's a very meditative.

[@amarg26]

Where are you CRP? When you will be back?

cannabis does many wonders.

[@deankinyua2365]

I also do this coach 😂💯💯

[@DunCorp]

As much as this video made no sense... It made complete sense 😅

[@tonymartinez2644]

Whats de song name pls😢😢😢😢

[@Suddiprabhu]

I'm lonely. I approached many girls ! Still no sucess

[@drewski2001]

There's no such thing as a "lone wolf." Humans are pack animals. You said in another video to have stand-up friends.

[@silentclown4307]

Yes human are. But more freedom means more distance

[@lifeisbeautiful5998]

I appriciate your video.🙏🙏😣.u been making videos people like me wanted . help me cuz we don't have people to teach us, support us and here there are people who do a lot of harm to less intelligent peopeles or know less in many aspects .make a video to Help people like me My problems: I am an introvert ,have no freinds ,I I honest , I am stupid in many timeshad no smart freinds or healthy family . I messed up with one of my Neighbour as they discriminated me cuz of my exam score .socially awkward (introvert , bad in communication) I never had any gf,felt incomplete seieng others have it , no confidence , my parents been toxic and gaslighting... I am socially not good enough , felt judged a lot,i don't have much word power , or verbal defence ,I need to live 😔.. am not living properly cuz of these I am living in 3rd world , I never been in parairoity list never placed in a friendship priority by freinds , poor in communication..,heavely de motivated through out the years by the strict society, girl less school,... Not being able to take care of mom dad ,they getting too old..it's painful... To see . And thair reactions on not being succesfull or see me not being succesfull like normally most others I been hugely lonely, am I feel stupid all these years , I don't understand where my life is going , need someone to hang out and love , I feel missed out , left out,.no job I feel I should have not been lived .I wanted to die ..but cuz of my parents I wanted to live anyway..I would die one day that makes me most demortivated and it's totally meaningless that I am gonna die and parents too.I dont feel motivated and most people are judging a lot here...I feel really bad when many just talk bad ,sarcastic or ignore ot stone wall as I am not that succesfull or good looking ,shy not that interesting and I don't have a job and not good in communation and have social anxity also..I found if they fund u uselfull then only they will stay or otherwise ..😖 I feel☠ it's too late and not getting what most get in this age ..feeling my future would be worst , would be not able to find a way , or support my family ..i feel I am really dumb as had no freind , have no close friends, no appreciation throughout the life, toxic and unhealthy family since childhood,been introverted,had not gf , no supporters...there is no Community near me to help me or listen to me or do give me any activities for me where I can make freinds or earn. I been heavely self doubting myself as the school been real strict, had no girls, not practical not facing the reality now ..those books or lesson never helped me in life and I feel now i don't deserve love and that's my life and felt bad, sad when many other from diffrent country are having so great life , great school or atleat happy..I just wanted to Be happy and I accept others things in life but it was not that easy .had no one to love with me , i tried self love and its worst advice .. self love is lie u fed up in time , u gonna wake up and see all other people doing stuff, love , be humane (be together ,help and talk and go for it together)etc but this don't happen with you .. actually u need someone when many are not supporting u and u also don't love your self or belive in your self after a time ..u need that time someone to belive in you, and love u . regert being alone , regert having no freinds and seeing mom sad after all these ..i feel like don't deserve and I don't know what to do..I feel dumb and not active , dont feel I can make it...I feel I have no presence of mind..tried to do stuff and earn from online it never really worked ...I wise I had 2 or 3 freinds with me most time . I would have been able to be happy , healthy and wont be bored , or overthinking of future or fear of missing out and I am seeing , feeling it being more real .atleat I wish was not lonely all these years I don't also live in a really good place .people are not really broad minded here and have no money . I would have done a lot good to socity if I were a strong, healthy , smart, very poor in communication and if had freinds .I want to do something better ,.i want people to respect me I never did any harm to others but came to know it not the only way it works ..it takes a lot please 🙏 ..plz give me some enlightenment , u been helping throughout your most massages ,experienced views, opinions and facts in your videos it really practical..I hope you do it too this time..u don't even know how many lives you are saving 💓💫..but thanks ❤🙏

[@interamerichanic]

You call it loneliness, but it sounds to me like depression.

[@mintkimono]

you are truly missed gonzalo 🫡