The Real Story About Why I Got Dumped | I'm Sorry

[@savagebyrd]

Hah! You mentioned me! Made my day! This bronzed face with these candy eyes is so dope!!! I can't wait to get my curve cases in the mail from the tiktok shop and this look makes me even more excited. I think that sticking up for yourself is necessary, but we have to be tactful in how we do it. For instance, when people are constantly negative or combative. I'm not putting up with it anymore. If you dont add to my life, im going to subtract you from it.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Of course I mentioned you. I don’t think people realize how much each and every conversation impacts my thinking, therefore my life. I want to be tactful… but if being tactful means taking shit all the time… I just don’t want to roll over.

[@savagebyrd]

@makeup4lossedtime deffo. We have to pick our battles wisely. I'm not the same angry girl I once was, and I dont like being it lol. I dont think anyone does. All in all, I love your channel and I just adore your personality. It sucks people can be so mean.

[@alexandreaturcot8921]

You look like a magical unicorn 🦄 ✨️ I hate when places like tire shops, mechanics, etc..assume we don't know what we want or when we are being taken. I have heard horror stories about mainly younger girls being over sold on stuff for their vehicles. Good for you for saying something!

[@Sherralyn]

I can't remember if you said you received your light in your eyes pallet yet?

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Mechanics try to fk chics over all the time. Those dumb guys at the tire shop tried to treat me like I was the dumb one. That shit didn’t fly for one second. I do most of the work on my own vehicle. When I’m in over my head I got a buddy or two that spot me, so to speak. My one friend was raised by a single mom, so he can’t stand mechanics taking advantage.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

It’s on the way now.

[@alexandreaturcot8921]

@@makeup4lossedtime I can't wait to hear what you think about the new palette. I didn't buy it, yet.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

I’m actually more curious about it as well. As opposed to absolutely certain, as I normally am.

[@SophiePaquin]

It’s your channel, you can play any music you want. If someone’s not happy then they have the option to watch something else! You rock girl ❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Exactly. And I don’t need to explain it to someone. We know it.

[@ijustsideeyedyou4716]

Your makeup and style is so crazy today . I looooooove it!❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Oh my gads, I love your name!!!

[@ijustsideeyedyou4716]

@makeup4lossedtime if you didn't look this good , I would have kept up to my name 🙄

[@deborahdelgado3193]

Hi. There's grace and honor in humbleness. Recognizing and accepting error makes up stronger and a very special person. Keep up the good work.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Thanks, my dude. We can’t do better if we can’t even admit when we’re screwing up. But even that aside, I just legit don’t feel good about some shit I do. Even if I can’t fix the sitch, the least I can do is say I was wrong.

[@nina.b3]

Hey Katie 🩷💜🩵 I really do hope she hears your msg and comes back. We're just emotional beings by nature, and I have to remind myself that written or typed out words doesn't transfer well compared to face to face interactions. I love how you keep yourself accountable, it is very hard to do. I'm so quick to react & then I play out that crap in my head regretful I should've handled it differently. For the most part, I consider myself sensitive & thoughtful. But if someone crosses me or I feel hurt, I will distant myself & just wish you well from afar. It's the Cancer in me 🙂 Your makeup rocks per usual, and I love your story time bcuz we all can relate & learn from it.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

I hope she comes back too. I honestly didn’t mean it. Lord knows I’ve said far worse… Just meaning, it was pretty forgiveable with a heartfelt apology. I think, anyway. I love the response I always get when I upload videos like this. We’re all just trying to live.

[@melina_m_makeup]

Your eyelook is gorgeous!! Love it! Also i love your music and im not into rock music but i prefer that than a moment of silence between swatches or when you are not talking 😂 And props to you for apologizing because most peoole wouldnt do that. It truly shows what a great person you are. You are amazing! ❤❤❤❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Thanks, Melina. No one is perfect. Everyone fks up. Everyone fks up bad too. But not everyone can say they were wrong and that they are sorry. Also, this channel isn’t for everyone. It’s for the people who it’s for. If that makes sense in text.

[@rabbiroz3806]

Not a therapist, but if a person repeatedly yells at you, s/he/they are not worthy of you. You deserve much better.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Fkn agree 1000%. I didn’t realize until I heard myself say that that our relationship wasn’t as good as I thought. He knew it and I didn’t.

[@kayla4702]

The books: "Nonviolent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg "Set Boundaries, Find Peace" by Nedra GloverTawwab "True Refuge" by Tara Brach "Rising Strong" by Brene Brown These have all really helped me a lot in both being firm in how I'm willing to be treated and so much more. 💚

[@makeup4lossedtime]

I have read “Rising Strong.” I actually own it. That and “Daring Greatly.” Live Brene. I’ll look into the other ones. I love reading. I’m a total nerd. Thanks for the recommendations.

[@eureka7_go]

I got a mention. 🙌🎉 I say choose your battles wisely and your weapon of choice with caution. I am personally a pushover but I am sticking up for myself more as I get older. However, there are certain people that I don't go nuclear with because I respect them and happy around them. You look beautiful ❤.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Thanks, my dude. And thanks for always having thoughtful and useful input here. Of course you got a mention.

[@tianiortiz8529]

Hey babes, love the look & the glasses. Your hair looks so pretty loving it. Haven’t been consuming a lot of make up too kind of mess it a bit so it was nice. Spending some time with you Boo😘😘

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Mamacita. Love hearing from you when you do pop in.

[@Sherralyn]

Metal saved my life. My first metal love was Black Sabbath. I was 9. I was around 20 when Metallica, Slayer, and Megadeth were everywhere. Being able to focus on nothing but that music is almost meditative to me. It allows me to focus and center myself. So fuck that music is annoying shit. Go listen to opera. I gotta tell you again, you remind me so much of me! I'm a good bit older, and so don't give a shit!

[@makeup4lossedtime]

METAL SAVED MY LIFE! Don’t fkn tell me it’s annoying… it’s everything to me. It’s still saving my life. Thank you

[@CB-dr7jk]

He sounds abusive. He would hurt you and cause you stress over and over if you stayed together. It's better that he's gone. You look super cute and sparkly. I love your personality, I like how you are just yourself with no filter or apologies. I hope I can be like that one day haha

[@gagacita]

I couldn’t relate more… ❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

I think a lot of people feel the same way…

[@beautifuldreamer0811]

Happy solstice/first day of yule!!! It is good to take accountability but also I felt every bit of your self directed anger when describing yourself as a wounded bird. Been there, hate that. Also, as a female metalhead, I rarely find people who listen to the same music I do and I think it's funny when people get so worked up about it. The music in this video was just good old regular rock. Tell that woman to go listen to Mirar or something 😂 she would lose her shit haha. And today you look like the candy fairy character from the old 80s/90s candyland. I can't remember what she's called but I remember thinking she was beautiful and magical when I was a kid lol.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Happy YULE!!! Same, as far as not many people liking my music. I started this channel because I wanted to create something I could relate to where there wasn’t anything. And that’s what I did. And I found a few people who were glad to have found it. That’s all. I didn’t create for the people who were already getting what they needed from everywhere else. That is all🖤🖤🖤

[@stephfoxeh]

If you ever have a chance to read the book, The Argument Free Marriage by Fawn Weaver, it teaches you that anger is a secondary emotion and you should always stay in the first emotion, whether that be hurt, sad, scared etc. If you react in anger, it gives the other person something else to react to other than the issue that is upsetting you and then there is an argument to win. Instead, if you stay in your first emotion and tell the person how you feel they have to react to what they did and how it made you feel and not your anger. Anytime i do this to my boyfriend he just apologizes and gives me a hug and a kiss. Theres not much to argue about when someone tells you that when they yelled at you it scared you or it made you sad. as for comments in videos, i don't think you need to react to every comment. When you are running a business, its sometimes better to be liked instead of to be right. Someone not liking the music in your videos is not a reflection of you. You can be okay with them being wrong in their opinion. you can be okay with them being a boring old lump. We cant control every rude person, we can only control our reaction to them and sometimes ignoring the trolls online is for the better. don't feed the trolls. lol. I cant believe how many people make wakko comments about how other people look and how they do their makeup. We are all doing our make up for us, not some stranger on the internet. so bizarre. normalize not commenting on other people's bodies! anyways. love this look!

[@makeup4lossedtime]

This comment is fkn fire. Thank you so much for taking the time to write out such a thoughtful, informative comment. Ima screenshot it.

[@glitterroach]

It's human to overreact sometimes, but what is more important to acknowledge it and apologize and not make a habit out of it. Me when someone is screaming at me eaither go crazy (which happens less and less) and lately I just walk away. I don't need that kind of negativity in my life and then address it with the person later. I know it's not the best way, but I am just too old for the shit. I think it is really nice of you that you apologized and about your ex f@#? him. Also I hate that sometimes you have to go full Karen mode on for people to do their job properly or do their job at all.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

And then they treat you like you’re the dumb one. It’s fucking infuriating. It is human to overreact. I don’t mind an overreaction. But I love accountability. When people do bullshit, it’s not that that gets to me. It’s if they can’t admit it. I have someone in my life like that and I just won’t be like that. I like admitting when I fkd up and I’ll forgive most shit if someone just owns it.

[@lianaD]

Those glasses are rad!

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Aren’t they tho?

[@CB-dr7jk]

Hard rock is never the wrong music! How dare she! 🤘 Also who cares if your face was a bit pink, someone needs to tell her it can be washed off. People need to let others live, damn!

[@4MsHunnyBrown]

Hello. You are in my age group, which makes you way too pretty to be concerned about haters. On or off cam. Ijs. BTW, I'm subscribing. ❤❤❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Glad to have you. I love people in our age group. We come from a time when people weren’t so fkn nice, I think it’s safe to say. I’m not sure if people understand how hard it is for a gen x’r to not tell people to go fk themselves. Or a myriad of other things more true and much more painful. I could be wrong tho…😉 I’m glad I have some other skills tho. Also a gift of being a little older.

[@countrycoverangel]

LOL!!!! I love rock music! If she doesn’t like it…..she can go watch someone with boring music. 😂

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Plenty of channels for her to go watch.

[@nwarner78]

I love your content and the music!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤘🤘🤘🤘

[@zeldatwinkletoes5022]

Just tell them you have been down in Australia for a couple of weeks.

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Hahaha. Right

[@zeldatwinkletoes5022]

@@makeup4lossedtime OMG I just opened my Adept order, (Amy

[@KaileinMcCoy]

It’s so pretty uggh I only have one of her palettes so another couldn’t hurt right hahaha

[@makeup4lossedtime]

MIGHT AS WELL!!!

[@marshabrink2613]

Omg 😂love those dumb dum sucker earrings

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Dude, I got them at Spencer’s a few years back when I was totally into harley Quinn looks.

[@aprimello]

Your makeup look look is 🔥😍😍🔥. 💙🩵💜🩷 Those glasses!!!!! 😮😮😍😍 I want a pair!! 🤤 I am so over people thinking heavy music is not valid and telling us their incorrect opinion like we actually give a f***. I don't listen to easy crap pop music that is constantly shoved down my throat.. I don't tell people who listen to mainstream that they don't have a brain in their head and should instead find music that actually speaks to their soul instead. 😁 I beyond LOVE that you are like the only makeup content creator that uses music that is up my alley. 🤘🤘🤘

[@makeup4lossedtime]

Exactly. I can’t even expand on this. You pretty much said it all.

[@smthsweet]

Wow! You seem to be as triggered as I am currently. I don't respond to disrespect at all. I cry instead. However, I've been beginning to stand up for myself this year. I got out of a toxic, emotionally and mentally abusive relationship a few months ago, with help from the guy I'm dating now; he's been so supportive but blows up at me occasionally. It breaks my heart, and I feel I could put myself in the same situation. I've been watching many of your videos, which are excellent. I was not expecting this kind of upload, so I wanted to say I completely understand you. You are not alone. 🩷

[@Sherralyn]

Girl!!! That "blowing up" is a huge red flag! It took me two shitty assed marriages and 53 years to find someone who never blows up. He's endlessly kind and generous. They are out there. Him and I waited 8 years to get married. I'm now 63. I'm content, peaceful, and serene. Put yourself first, expect to be treated like queen. Period. You deserve it❤

[@smthsweet]

@@Sherralyn Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm happy you found someone who brings you serenity. That is so beautiful. ❤ He's been very supportive and understanding throughout everything, and I almost feel I owe it to him since he played a major role in helping me get out of a bad relationship I was stuck in. I wish things were different between him and I - I would never leave. But I know I have to put myself first. Thanks again ❤❤

[@kayla4702]

​@@smthsweet I know the feeling of thinking you've found a "better person" right after a bad relationship. I've been there, done that. And while I'm grateful for that person who came after, I'm thankful that they aren't in my life anymore. I feel I've done much more healing since finding how to set and hold boundaries for myself. I hope this makes sense. Wishing you the best. 💚

[@smthsweet]

@@kayla4702 It makes perfect sense. I understand you completely. I've talked to him about it -- if only we were in a different place. I have much to work through before I can be 100% ready. I don't want to keep making the same mistakes. He reassures me, but I know this is something I've got to do on my own. Thank you ❤

[@makeup4lossedtime]

I do vids like this every once in a while. They always get a really good response and I find that people really relate and connect thru content like this. I’m glad you got something from it. I believe hearing the truth is a spiritual experience.