Making Drag Costumes With My Grandma

[@CheshireCesare]

“I’m so happy that we were destined to be grandmother and grandson in this life” is so touching to me 😭 💕

[@journalaway4753]

the fact that ahma may not fully understand but still supports you unconditionally...

[@eleanorbanwell3478]

Ahma understands entirely. Her culture is different to your culture.

[@my.old.name.was.stupid2496]

​@eleanorbanwell3478 but he literally said that she doesn't fully understand?

[@cameronschyuder9034]

@@eleanorbanwell3478they are Chinese. Chinese culture is very conservative/traditional. China itself is pretty backwards when it comes to queer rights legally, so yeah it’s not her culture to be this open and accepting of non-gender conforming presentations. Even though Chinese society is known to focus a lot on community, a lot of times that means less importance given to individuality and individual expression.

[@louierenault7344]

Peking opera usually used men for female roles

[@eleanorbanwell3478]

To clarify: I think this makes it even more special that she supports unconditionally. She understands. It’s not her culture. It’s not a problem for her. I’m trying to say she supports him fully aware that she’s going against the grain.l and will very likely be judged for it by her peers ❤

[@michikomanalang6733]

AHMA LOVES HIM DOWN TO HIS VERY BONES 😭

[@dzangdzang]

Ahma is 93 and she still looks so strong and full of joy 🥹

[@samaraisnt]

right!! I give her two more decades she is walking like she’s 50 :)))

[@evilmarketing]

Enjoy spending time with her. Family are the best.

[@SirFaceFone]

That's the shocking part. She looks like in her 70s.

[@rhiannonm8132]

my great aunt once asked my grandma if she was “disgusted” by gay people; my grandma was genuinely confused, like, “why should i care?” elderly allies tend not to really GET it but still accept it. such a great example for the rest of us. people are more accepting overall nowadays and i’m not in jail for dressing like a man which i appreciate so im not romanticizing the past here, but the art of accepting and loving even what you don’t understand is somewhat lost. we want to understand now which is ok but sometimes you just can’t understand and they doesn’t make someone else’s experiences wrong (as long as they/their opinions aren’t hurting anyone. i like to think my great aunts “experience” of thinking people like me are disgusting was wrong lol.) my grandma made her little gay grandkid happy that day just by not caring, accepting, and when i came out by loving me the same as she ever had. she passed away this summer. she was such a blessing to me. i’m so glad this gorgeous queen has her grandma too ❤😊 may they have many more long healthy and happy years together.

[@Luke-zv6bb]

❤

[@michellecarey583]

I'm sorry for your lose.❤

[@naan000]

the clip of ahma and opera dancing together is so cute

[@Ezmir_Orsini]

As a gay boy who loves his grandma very much, this touched my heart. My grandma is 84 years old so I also cherish the moments I get to spend with her as well. She has always unconditionally loved me as I was and supported me even when my parents didn't. "We were destined to be grandmother and grandson in this life" ❤.

[@AndyyWithAY]

It's so beautiful that at 93 she can walk unassisted and has no mental decline. That is so rare. I thought she was much younger. The costumes are insane. She was always his biggest fan. Such a heartwarming story

[@damngold]

I cried because i have soft spot for grandparents they are just loving. More loving than your own mom and dad! ..... Who would forget that money they secretly slip in your pocket or bags

[@b-rextheprgoddess1872]

My grandparents do not fit that stereotypical image you mentioned & I am sure there's a Lichert scale from 1 to 5 for other's grandparents and where they fall in that image. However, in my fantasy, all 4 of my grandparents were like this.

[@sandyquiroz8688]

Nothing like grandma's unconditional love. Miss mine immensely!

[@tazylab6233]

Same here

[@jin_cotl]

That’s actually so wholesome to see older generations support Drag 😊❤

[@aceofspades3003]

The absolute radiant joy Ahma shows when she's holding the headdress on 😊 ❤

[@patriciasiemann7525]

I love that Ahma created a safe space so instinctively without needing to understand everything. ❤️

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

Ah ma getting to impart her sewing knowledge to Opera on her Singer sewing machine must’ve been such an intimate experience. Both of them seem to beam with joy whenever they talk about their love for one another. This video’s so heartwarming.

[@highwaysstar]

Opera is so eloquent, and it makes me so happy to see a grandchild share such a deep love and bond with their grandparent. I never got to know any of my grandparents for very long.

[@RedQueenCreative_Roxie]

Beautiful costumes!!! My Bachan (granny) gave me my first sewing machine and I got a degree in fashion design. No matter what I wanted ti do she supported me 100%. She lived to 95 years old, and I miss her so much! Love to see this video of you and your cherished grandma.❤

[@kellykat8057]

Back in the day, I was what we called a Tom-boy. I was athletic and was in many sports. My Grandma was an awesome seamstress! She made my prom gown, from the design, to making the pattern, to sewing it. It was beautiful, and I was so proud to wear it. There were teachers who wanted her to make dresses & gowns for their wives or girlfriends, but she said she only made things for her family. It was a love, not her job. Being the athlete I was, I never had time to sit down & let her teach me to sew. I still regret it to this day. Not only for missing out on learning even a modicum of her skills; but, mostly because that was time I could have spent with her, my Gram & best friend. Cherish the time with your elders. They have a lot of wisdom & love to pass on.

[@Sallyfaceoff]

I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes 🥹 what a beautiful relationship between these two precious people. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@MeADow0201]

Ah ma's reaction is so cute. Love the interaction between them, very sweet!

[@GeraldineKoh]

So beautiful Very few people get to bond with their grandparents on this level God bless you both and may you have many more beautiful memories to share together ❤

[@thecrapartistx]

my grandmother was the only person who accepted me for myself too. This is such a sweet story and that head dress is absolutely amazing!

[@marcydrake9159]

Unconditional love is the truest form. What a beautiful grandma and grandchild.❤

[@kittyythecat]

I think this beautiful grandma prove that just because you are old it doesn't mean that you are closed-minded. Many just want their grandchildren to feel love and safe.

[@HILOND0N]

This is the love everyone needs in their life. Bless your Ahma’s soul. ❤

[@Jackie-cl2qe]

My grandma doesn't even accept me dying my hair, bless this woman 🤧💗

[@lisaleedang]

I miss my grandma. She passed padt year and yet I found this video as her birthday nears. What a gift to find this video filled with so much love. Your grandma's voice when she speaks sounds similar to mine and I can't ty enough for sharing this. Also, You're beautiful!

[@hyk33]

so wholesome seeing ahma and grandson!

[@jessicas.6235]

This is so sweet. Tell your grandma she looks so amazing in that headdress ❤❤

[@smoppet]

😭😭❤️ That was so wholesome

[@kanadetomato12]

my heart is full watching the two of them... 🥹

[@nikiTricoteuse]

My heart nearly burst with how pretty your grandmother looked in your headdress. I hope she has many years left but, l know she will die happy to have passed on her skills and proud of you.

[@feralwarden4873]

Supportive Grandparents are the most wholesome people on earth. Bonus points if they share handicrafts with their grandkids like Ahma.

[@darkangel_1978]

My maternal side of my family, is all for being yourself. I have friends from all walks of life, and I love them all. To see the love and support from Ahma, warms my heart.

[@cherylsmith950]

What a loving, wonderful relationship! I hope they have lots more time together to enjoy that special bond. Beautiful clothing!

[@wildlifegardenssydney7492]

What a beautiful bond. You are so fortunate. I am so glad you cherish your 93 year old grandma. Fantastic costume.

[@minngael]

That's so sweet! 🥰 What a wonderful relationship! Lovely outfits!

[@noniefuss]

I was so lucky in life to have grandma's that loved me. Even one great grandma. I hope to be like Ahma to my grandkids someday. Love is beautiful!

[@grimmmunro2279]

True unconditional love.😊

[@maltygoodness2]

Wonderful grandma and grandson bond and love!

[@clara.t68]

Love it, made me cry. Miss my ahma❤

[@SeiranPitu]

This video warmed my heart!!! You both are so sweet, and beautiful ❤

[@Zelepookins817]

She is so beautiful. Such an incredible bond.

[@npmm24]

Me recuerda a mi mamá y me da tanto amor ver esta relación entre abuela y nieto❤, Dios los bendiga

[@HelenCamile63]

She’s precious! You’re lucky to have each other. 🩷💜

[@rachellucia]

Lovely grandma

[@evonne315]

So precious to be able to spend this kind of time with a trusted family member and confidant, someone to support you and just be there accepting you for who you are. This grama is a literal treasure ❤

[@acmmendoza3331]

For sure your grandma enjoys and loves being involved with all the creative process and being able to help/support her loved ones :’) Happy for Ahma for still staying creative for all this year. For some reason it feels fulfilling/Inspiring :’) ✨💖🙏

[@faizahfakhruddin7068]

Very touching and sweet

[@gwynaethbranwynn]

This touched my heart with joy.❤

[@monicascott2354]

She's delightful. You're so lucky.

[@FT-od4xv]

Such sweet ❤ between them

[@rhodachandler4277]

I can’t believe she is 93! So beautiful ❤❤❤ You are both so lucky to have each other. Love your grandma in your flower headdress. She dances well. She needs to hit the stage with you at least once! 🥰

[@sewingintrifocals-alisonde7778]

I just fell in love with this grandma. 93 years young!

[@yanabgamin307]

They are so close. ❤there is so much love and understanding and acceptance. They are very blessed 🥹 to have each other

[@Tinclash365]

Slay queen! Your grandma is so supportive

[@TalentIDTALKS]

She and he are so beautiful bless them for eternity

[@coffeekatk4067]

That's family right there. Unconditional love.. not like, love!! Love to you both!❤

[@monbub]

this is so wholesome! im glad he has such a loving family with him

[@averystewart6086]

Grandmothers are the greatest ❤️ I’m glad you cherish her every day 🥰

[@valkyrie1066]

How heartwarming, how fun! I spent part of my early adulthood helping my neighbors with their drag costumes. I loved it, and them. If I found out I had a grandson who wanted to do drag...I think I'd be delighted to help him sew.

[@julielikesunicorns348]

This is genuinely so sweet

[@Wolfy39565]

this is so cute and sweet. nothing like a grandma's love to bond

[@Ohhhwehere]

It warms my heart when family loves and support their lgbt children❤❤❤❤

[@melindaschink6072]

Your grandmother is an amazing person. Please continue cherishing her.

[@nicolajo666]

Your grandma is a joy ♡

[@weiyanmiingx1548]

omg the soundtrack 🥹

[@cheyenneherrera5]

The bond these two have is beautiful ❤

[@patmc2916]

Aaaw so sweet ❤ The Momos around The World aré The Best of our lives❤❤❤❤

[@gillianlemire5927]

That was one of the most gently put and touching stories. Beautiful mini-documentary. ❤

[@fanvgames2594]

thank you for making this video, full of courage and encouragement to everyone to love and embrace themselves fully and be accepting and kind towards everyone. You went throught alot and through your many struggles and challenges you learned to be so compassionate, kind, strong and brave to be who you are now, and I am so happy for you. You never lost your kindness and compassion but learned to share and bring your experiences and knowledge into communities. Let your passion and light shine, you are beautiful and wonderful. Thank you so much for your encouragement and motivation Opera Tang. 😊

[@iChillypepper]

I love this so much! Glad your Ahma is so supportive

[@elizabethysm86ysm2]

I respect, appreciate in what you do as a profession and I believe with family, partner and friends support, you definitely have the ability to be loved like everyone else ❤❤

[@HeatherKinzy]

Opera is beautiful to see and the interaction between them is filling my heart today.

[@koykoyonly]

How is she still so spry at 93😮

[@ollieollie841]

What a wonderful woman! Absolute stunning costumes, will definitely be looking up your performances!

[@findyourpassion8722]

The best grandma ever! Her love is unconditional and pure.

[@KrayZJoy]

I am so glad to see them love eachother! And I'm sure she is happy to pass along her knowledge. It's great to have someone to spend time with you and value you.

[@dugongsdoitbetter]

Thank you for adding beauty to this world.

[@rosybanerjee1884]

So confident and beautiful person...😊.....and your bonding with your sweet grandma is so heartwarming....❤....best wishes for you....all the way from India.

[@Howlersmum2]

Your grandmother is adorable. You are absolutely stunning!!! What an amazing way to build memories and bonds. Cherish her. ❤

[@jenduh]

Not me crying on my lunch break 😊

[@juls2133]

That is just so beautiful

[@tiffanyvanlengen]

❤❤❤❤❤my heart is so big 🥲 you are honoring your ancestors by sewing. Beautiful

[@thewatcher6295]

Love is a beautiful thing.

[@mimimosa259]

Such a nice way to spend time together through a shared interest. So sweet to be able to say I learned how to sew from my grandma

[@PeacefulGardenLife]

Oh bless his heart 💓 It’s wonderful to see such an amazing family dynamic 🙏🫶🫶

[@otaku.assassin2993]

I shed real tears watching this😭❤️‍🩹

[@bast713]

This is so beautiful. She's a treasure 💜

[@plumsweetplum]

so touching!

[@rifkinr4660]

I love love the way that the story is told, I think it gives justice to the subjects of the mini documentary. Keep it up!

[@Lunaffee]

Ok this is all super cute and sweet but also that woman is so incredibly talented! Those costumes were all stunning and to pass off all of those skills is truly a blessing for both.

[@OhJustCommenting]

aw how adorable :')

[@erenjeager4308]

I’m not sure why but I’m crying

[@shellyboggs9093]

She is a treasure!

[@xyfuras]

I'm happy you both have each other.

[@river1790]

Unconditional love

[@lissakaye610]

You are so blessed to have such a beautiful and wise grandmother. I unfortunately lost all my grandparents very young and never got a chance to learn much from them. I am glad you have that time.

[@mapatterson173]

What a charming story. I got teary and happy and everything!✨💖✨

[@Mona-v5s]

That's unconditional Love❤️

[@qar1582]

Cried because i miss my grandma.