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[@ookayyyy7579]

“nak makan mana ?” is the most stressing topic ever .

[@darkabyss8066]

and their reply is "makan kat mulutlah "

[@nurnatra43]

"makan kat mamak lah, " They replied "kan dah makan kat situ "

[@eepycatshark]

Yeaaa its like the hardest question asked in my car

[@mirska9]

Oh shit, that was an absolute nightmare

[@farthurf.5221]

Makan ada di tudung saji

[@Raaz387]

If women ask "where to eat?".....your answer is repeat the question...

[@nuraimanakmal6480]

Dont suggest to her where to eat....n u will regrets

[@blursedfly3504]

Fucking same

[@ismailhashim3378]

Just said i want eat u..

[@rushdrift]

"makan apa?" U leh want "makan apa?" then the cycle repeat till you get into an argument till end up at mamak stall,closest nasi lemak joint or McDonald/kfc.

[@sitimrs3221]

Haha..stress btl ni..

[@putrinabillaaleyabintimohd8819]

The single one can't relate to either dating culture 😂😭

[@budakgemuk90]

I feel you....

[@heenimfiara911]

Single where ever you are. We are same. Hahaha. No boundary

[@jessicaikumi5571]

I can relate so much 😭😭

[@yuciehayashi266]

Omg finally something I can relate.

[@ginyahya9678]

yeah.. order 2 dish just because both looks delicious.. end up tapau back leftover.. and eating silently alone... at home... (T . T)

[@aisyahrosli1454]

sometimes we don't know what to eat until we get into a fight 😂😂

[@yuhee9518]

Aisyah Rosli ahahah . my ex japan bf always prepare where to go, where to eat HAAHHA becoz he knew i cant decide HAHAHAAH

[@zhongli8146]

World war 3 began😂

[@aqmareesyaanuar4105]

Yes

[@neo2790]

This is malaysian culture 🤣🤣🤣 friend also can quarrel 😂😂😂

[@Bankgexplore]

Haha... Typical malaysian couple...

[@j.klaustar6717]

indeed mans in Malaysian got no privacy when around with girlfriend

[@aera-xv2kd]

i’ve gave them privacy..i didn’t control them at all..didn’t check their phone etc..but they said i didn’t care about them..mans are complicated 🤷‍♀️

[@sassysummer16]

erm i honestly prefer this...

[@kyonamugench.]

@@aera-xv2kd ik ik! Thats why choose men wisely

[@jompisini]

I object. I trust my partner so much. Even we are husband and wife now, never i had check my husband phone so do my husband never check my phone.

[@littlemissai8997]

@@aera-xv2kd me too.. but he end up cheated on me almost many times.. and i became insecure. Men are indeed more complicated.

[@Teng1024]

My boyfriend is Japanese and I’m Malaysian, he does hold my bag some times but I didn’t ask for it. ちょっとびっくりした😳but I did asked いいの？and he will say いいよ、もちろん😌shopping part is very true... instead of waiting outside the shop or sitting at the bench, he will give opinion and choose clothes together which was really fun! Even what to eat we will discuss together instead of leaving the choice to only one of us. Food sharing part is not a problem as long as we asked each other’s permission politely ☺️ always start with itadakimasu and ends with gochisosamadeshita!

[@Tatatatatarutaru3]

Cute and nice

[@thereal_arfahsyazwani]

Wow

[@whatohokayhmm1870]

Congrats

[@tomatotom984]

Goals

[@icha0505]

how do u get a japanese bf aa im jelly

[@slmbkdk]

Not only phone password, your Malaysian gf will know all your social media password & have the access to read all your fb / ig / whatsapp / line or any messages from the phone. Btw nice slurrp there. 4:07 . i wish i can do that well :

[@hajarahmad473]

This must be new generation thing. Am in my 60s never had I ever asked nor bother to check my late hubby's password, nor check his phone messages. This also applies to majority of my friends. So is this a new generation habits of malaysian couples or plain generalisation

[@zarulsr20detify]

Sy dh 15thn kawin tak pernah check hp dia....klu dia nk keluar dgn kwn pun sy jarang tanya nk kemana....selalunya somi dh siap2 ckp dia g mana.....jd tak semua sy nk ambik tahu...janji dia bertanggungjwp sudah....

[@Amethyst0614]

This must be pc culture... traditionally every spouse is at least aqquainted to their partner's family and friends incase anything happens

[@ismailhashim3378]

Bank pin number pun dia tau lah..haha

[@tiana8249]

This sometimes become absurd.. One time i though i whatsapping my friend.. Talking about very personal thing.. Turn out she give her phone to his boyfriend together with all fricking password.. When i go to class my friend's boyfriend make fun of me.. I am so betrayed.. Never trust ur friend who is have boyfriend especially the one who first time having a boyfriend..

[@thats_not_breezyshes_soo_windy]

I think the last one if you take food without asking He/She will reply back “Main ambik Je😐”

[@hatsuneaye8419]

Main rembat je😂

[@sitihatika]

right hahha

[@kyonamugench.]

Mine always say "ambik je lah"

[@noorathalia6363]

nahhh,it should be " pukul tgn dia sblm dia amik makanan kita"

[@naomimishima5699]

Times have changed, there’re many young husbands in Japan who carry their wives’ handbags these days...even my not-so-young husband😜

[@NicoBonTV]

Aki , who is Jennifer ?

[@mrbread4859]

U are comel

[@wingoflight7814]

@@mrbread4859 wtf

[@sebastianbarthez]

now the real girlfriend is pissed.

[@alyaniali6829]

@@sebastianbarthez are they in relationship?

[@sebastianbarthez]

@@alyaniali6829 lol, third gf is asking…

[@tunmifzal5058]

Malay gf is just the boss

[@togerthetigerking951]

The Malaysian privacy is true my friend told me that his GF know his Instagram password, Facebook, WhatsApp and ETC. I responded with a laugh.

[@nuratiqah3656]

Meanwhile, my ex bf asking for my social media'z password and read my whatsapp. I never do that to him 😂

[@mirra_wan]

Nur Atiqah uppp aku stuju..

[@littlemissai8997]

Well not me.

[@HanemMini]

1:00 Buy lah, Buy lah.

[@MKMF57]

The best way to make it fast...

[@zackrocky8027]

That's why many man wallet become empty until we know it and its too late😭

[@arelunk]

"Her opinion is stronger." OUCH. 😂

[@wahidamanap8424]

as a malaysian, i can totally relate to all the situations LOL!!! this is 100% me and my husband

[@najwawakana2545]

I'm a malay and my husband are from germany... and we have so much of culture different😅😅🇲🇾🇩🇪

[@jessicaikumi5571]

Gosh you so lucky 🤧🤧

[@yuciehayashi266]

Please share it!! 🙌🙌

[@omagawd6762]

Ooo gut

[@mayrose3675]

1:00 '' buy lah buy lah'' you using chinese slang now 😂😂😂😂

[@alexanthony9913]

that so true😂😂😂 especially the privacy part.there is no privacy for Malaysian girl.they must know everything

[@kizoritoram9956]

Yeah even if you hide your secret for 10 years they will secretly find out because of their detective expert skill. Edit: plus woman instict

[@alexanthony9913]

@@kizoritoram9956 well,that is one of the reason why man dislike sharing thier privacy especially thier social media password😅😅

[@littlemissai8997]

@@kizoritoram9956 yup mmg dh kantoi ex aku tipu aku, long distance relationship kot. Aku bleh rse with my instinct.

[@littlemissai8997]

@@alexanthony9913 Certain malay guy always cheating that's why.

[@quynhanhpham3761]

My malaysian husband would never agree to hold my bag under any circumstance 🤣 In emergency case, he will ask me to put my bag on the floor or on the table he will watch for it 😂

[@MAR-gq9wt]

totally true especially about the decision making and that craving stuff. lol

[@incineratorium]

Nice! Pretty accurate for the Malaysian part. I don't know about Japanese culture expect from the anime.

[@calvinlee9130]

That's quite accurate, maybe except for the carrying bag part or its just me.

[@nightwing7950]

nah i dont carry my wife's bag as well

[@blursedfly3504]

I did. usually after that I start walking flamboyantly and embarrass her

[@raytvmy]

Not until when it's necessary only

[@stayanne2136]

many malay couple is like that

[@milocylium6612]

I did lol..because scare got rob hahaha romantik la sgt

[@KN-cs8dp]

Usually when we eat out, my partner and I will say "try this" or "this taste good" while shoving each other's foods into each other's mouth. If my partner finishes his food, I will cry and said "why you finish your food and didnt left anything for me??? I want to taste it, so I don't have to buy it next time!! “ The only acceptable answer is" the food doesn't taste good that's why I finished it without giving you" and I'll be "Thank God! You are so sweet and caring!" (to not let me taste something I'll regret later

[@affin1176]

The last part should be like this: B: *grab his gf's food without permission* G: So, you have choosen DEATH

[@Tatatatatarutaru3]

I was so surprised especially about the privacy part. Japanese girls occasionally know the bfs' phone password but not usual I guess... I as a Japanese,or just me, think that's too possessive, but most of girls might need that kinda relationship. But comes to shopping part I prefer Malaysian bf's one! Shopping and choosing things together is fun, but I want to experience that my bf passes me his wallet to buy my clothes😂👼

[@amevaio92]

i am a msian guy, lucky i have jp girlfriend lol...gonna visit her in tokyo next july...良かったわ、色々勉強した(笑

[@YotaOnKai]

ヤバーホントだ！！😂 私インドネシア人だけど、やっぱりインドネシアとマレーシアのスタイルめっちゃ似てるわ。動画を作ってくれてありがとうございます！とても面白いです！☺

[@rocket_89]

Great video btw. Really love it. 😂

[@seantwentyfour471]

Thanks for this. I’m very familiar with the Japanese aspect, but am considering dating a lady in/from Malaysia.

[@JayCee2020]

I feel like Japan is in a world of its own, whereas other countries are pretty much like Malaysia lol

[@syazanahuda3328]

The last one, we malaysian do ask permission first before taking other foods because it looks rude to suddenly taking someone's food

[@qouryeah613]

Her opinion is stronger that true 🤣🤣

[@farahin28]

The food thing and boundary applies to friends too. 😂 We just drink our friend’s drinks hahaha. In fact, we even insist them on tasting our food and feel bad if they don’t. We would say “eh, makan la makan la. Rasa la ni, sedapp”. I think we feel closer that way

[@chupoposama]

It's almost universal fear, when it comes to making food decisions, the GF says "anything"...the roulette games begin...

[@amarulhusairie697]

If your food looks & taste delicious than hers,once she taste it, that food belong to her already. 🤣

[@chew1291]

1:00 buy ra- buy ra hahaha...niceeee

[@tobeabetterme5977]

hahhahaha

[@nnlim5757]

There is one saying in Malaysia:the best food is the food you took from others

[@SuevyYukiko]

マレーシア人です: Never understand why girls need someone else to carry their hand bag. . Personally don’t feel the need for your partner to pay for your shopping goods. . Never understand why some girls check their partner’s phone. . But the above does happen to most people. わかりません🤷🏻‍♀️

[@angiegan4703]

I personally prefer Malaysian dating.

[@_eLf45]

different culture makes life so much more interesting

[@bdbgh]

It's scary how on point some of these examples for Malaysia are, not just for dating but for social situations like the food sharing thing

[@annmcfly]

As you get older together, married whatever the "where to eat" question will continue till the end. 😂

[@yusasmayusoff8046]

So true! We’ve been married almost 30 years and this “nak makan kat mana?” still a headache till now.

[@coolwei1427]

The bag one is sooooooo true. My mom always tell me to hold her bag. I’m boy and it’s always feel cringe to walk around look like girls. I’m 14 btw

[@anasakinaismail905]

Hahahaha good video! For me i don't like my boyfriend carry may bag😂 but most other thing is true especially on privacy things

[@kestiameshad]

😂 I'm Malaysian and married and I can say that while every couple is different, the first two really doesn't apply. My husband never carries my bag unless I want to try on a jacket or have to leave my bag behind, and he never pays for my clothes LOL! True about the rest, though! Haha

[@dberambot]

Wkwkwk wadu. Untung la sweet2.. aku single tak pernah merasa semua tuuuu .. sob sob sob :/

[@intactsanity]

hahahahaha don't worry geng. we are in the same boat

[@tendopain8554]

Hahah i can feel u bro

[@pesgaming7431]

Same bro😭

[@tokding]

If we were meant to be together, there should be no boundaries at all, and ofcoz in whatever we do

[@kazama2212]

You know you don't have to deal with "where to eat" things if you don't have a gf😏

[@azimajim831]

Wow aki already be a Malaysian guy.... "Buylah buylah" hahahaha.....

[@nsbrawr9999_]

The sharing food is really true in Malaysia, but of course we will only do it with someone closer heheh

[@panzlithium]

The food sharing, I can see it from iChang channel lol

[@tiana8249]

I love guys who can makr decisions..

[@MrCyberizal]

Hahahahaha amazing man.. u made it almost perfect...

[@khrlazfradnan497]

My youtube full with video aki from japan and ichang RM 🤣🤣🤣

[@mr.taufikzainal699]

In Malaysia, women always right

[@zenruhqe2432]

Boombooclat : this two perhaps will date each other ʕ•ᴥ•ʔwwwwwwww

[@lizanisyam585]

But the girl already got married la

[@zenruhqe2432]

De Luna im just saying. :)

[@syfer5812]

Love your content, Keep it up!

[@Az-rv8gg]

An anime character once said " I ask him what to eat for dinner and he said anything is fine but 'anything is fine' was more difficult to decide" Sorry I don't remember what anime it is 😅😅😂😬😅😅😂😅😅😂😂😅😂😂😅😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂

[@fairuzhashim5604]

I really need a guy who can decides where to eat instead of asking "nak makan mana?"

[@PuteriAina]

i must say malaysians really don't have boundary when it comes to food because it's a norm to just taste friends' foods because we'll usually just say "ha, take la. more more" lol

[@mayukiko]

So, is Aki willing just close your eyes and pay? I mean your girlfriend's clothes.

[@azrulaimandpih6e233]

Why so accurate😂

[@chronostone3488]

For me, for a man to hold woman's handbag is for safety. Banyak kes ragut, banyak orang cedera dan mati kena ragut. Jadi untuk keselamatan elok la kaum lelaki bawakan handbag, sebab jarang peragut nak ragut lelaki, kena fikir dua kali.

[@dayanglily7372]

Betul. Tgk keadaan...biasanya tak

[@heavenlysadist]

His birthday? Nope. Our Anniversary? Nope. That is the main reason why I wanted my privacy to be more tightened actually mine is like a shape password

[@foulstar1933]

Damn the food sharing in Malaysia is really relatable to me... 😂

[@forest3245]

In relationship or not I am not sharing my food 😂

[@dronepilot1333]

When you have a Malaysian wife you have no privacy about your ATM cards' password too.

[@WhitneyTan]

Pretty accurate 🤣 1. I love it when he holds my bag, much relief and love felt ♡ 2. We share the same passwords but never pry 🤣. 3. Malaysians selecting where to eat is almost impossible, my partner and I always dont have a specific place in mind, we list out a bunch of places but mostly end up going back to our fav hawker area 🤣. 4. We usually offer our food before taking a bite. Which dating culture do ya'll prefer? Malaysia FTW

[@obi6037]

Im a malaysian but i carries my own bag😂😂 wait after watching the video i realize I do all the japanese do😂

[@paulalim84]

I agree with no boundary hahaha not only with gf/bf but also frens and family 😂😂

[@pakhang3247]

Nice video quality. The place and background so beautiful

[@iamalphalim]

Wait, what. I'm doing all the Japanese things..

[@nurulhamizah4670]

I think its about yourself mentality , for me , i respect my partner n he respect me . And all those typical malaysian stuff we dont do , except for deciding on what to eat(which at last, we at pizza n chill at home) can cause a huge fight :)

[@cang9695]

haha that's interesting -- if you not mention then nobody see the different !! good work !!

[@shafia33]

How about saying I love you? I remember my Japanese friends telling me they don’t say I love you to their spouse everyday, as it is “kimochi warui” while in Malaysia if you don’t say it they would sulk 🤣

[@kuraiiz612]

Hahahah in malaysia the husband doesn't say I love you the wife gonna throw a fit for the whole day 😂

[@ka.9214]

ネックレス一緒の持ってます〜💕💗💕おそろいだうれしい

[@fayye4748]

The makan part is quite true for malaysian.guys follows girls decision more

[@nurazmina7457]

Her opinion is stronger. That really right😂. Even after marriage, women always right😂

[@KheizlinaDanial]

My husband will eat my left over also. 🤣🤣🤣 So accurate

[@KarinKishimei]

As Malaysian, don't touch my food. 🍲😂 Ask for it first

[@dunyamurni9752]

Time valentine jugaklh kluar vid recommendation ni.... So... Why I've even watch this. Its hurt in my kokoro becoz im single hahahaha.... Just kidding

[@lindapotato]

Guy carrying his gf handbag is one of the strangest dating culture I've seen, it just appear out of nowhere

[@ishmaildeco990]

Lol this is such a great video dude. Gives us an incite into your cultures.

[@donutrangerr]

NO WONDER MY GIRLFRIEND GIVES HER HANDBAG TO ME, ITS BECAUSE SHE THINKS ITS ACCEPTABLE

[@heavenlysadist]

3:46 "Her opinion is stronger" Me: What the fu- I usually fine with anything if it's for my least favourites not my dislikes foods

[@astraldreamstarot14]

4:15 the no boundaries 😂👏👏

[@Geedi1977]

Very funny 😂 and interesting 🤔

[@1511nisha]

It's like Malaysian man is Chinese and Japanese man fits the Indian guys description

[@etelfon6722]

This video reminds me of my relationship with my siblings not only gf.

[@misakihana2255]

He make decision? My japanese boyfriend let me choose lol. His security tight? My japanese boyfriend let me know all of his passwords and all the important stuff, we do that to each other. Ask for permission? He doesnt even care lol. Some is not accurate actually and its depends. So if you put there “its depends, tht is totally okay” but my boyfriend say if you do this, it is just like you are mean by every single of japanese 😅

[@Aikechi]

Crystel // That's why the word "stereotypes" is there

[@pinkhair8872]

JAPAN IS JAPAN MALAYSIA IS MALAYSIA!!

[@hagridlemonhead611]

Makaysian guys when dating usually given in to the girl but when they get married, bam... no more.. woman goes wow... he used to show me so much attention, affection and love.. but no more. 😂😂

[@nrsryazain3359]

That's why Malaysia relationship is so healthy no privacy between us lol

[@n.z.a3231]

No privacy = healthy eh ? Only applicable to suami isteri kott 😅 in my opinion lahh

[@sitimrs3221]

I knew all my hubby's password...but i only interested on bnk pword only..kikiki

[@xndrian1167]

zfxkkfxidrxfkuseusdzjrxfjjcftifkgcjtdtif 😂😂😂 Poor him

[@nishiki_guy]

Well... Rather than "No Boundary" I'm just used to sharing 😂

[@akudiraf]

During dating, both country got no privacy in terms of texting and calling by phone. 😂

[@biahbubin2259]

If his security is tight, you be know he's cheating lol

[@ri3yt]

If I have to meet someone I’ve always try to be punctual or 15min early bcoz I don’t like them waiting for me, and I’ve done this for years, recently I just try to be late like my friends did because I’ve already make peace with it that Malaysian will never be punctual.

[@noob9912]

the background sounds is loud, i didnt catch what they say in english...

[@jacklee9628]

True!!!