Male behaviour that scares 99% of women away

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419]

Yep crime partner**

[@kwabenanyarkoh7380]

Thats nice, you speak well even though am a guy, I wish I could speak well as well. Any hints on that please?

[@danielcox7383]

Very well spoken, honest lady. Thankyou Jessica.

[@derwandschauer]

From a males perspective, women are just crazy. My father once told me, some even dislike you cause you look at them the wrong way. Be your best self and remember, if you are the right guy, you can do nothing wrong, if you are the wrong guy, you can do nothing right.

[@dakingltroyproductofdade3579]

Lmao 🤣 shallow Hal

[@dakingltroyproductofdade3579]

Women from mars

[@sedzesanimathavha9939]

Amen 🤣😂

[@phililenqala4791]

From a woman's perspective men are the ones who are crazy and why do men even look at woman it's rude.

[@reginaldarmah2381]

Word bro

[@jossell911]

The vid got real as soon as you said..calling and texting too much. I’ve made that mistake and regret but life moves on. Excellent vid💯

[@nwachukwuohameje8570]

You are very most appreciated Queen Jessica for your tips, friendly reminders, and constructive criticism. Men needed this lecture. 🙌🏾

[@adangbe]

You're Over-Complementing.

[@chipomwansa3446]

If it's one thing I've learned from Jessica, its that I'm absolutely not ready for a relationship.😂 The best advice I got was to focus on my dreams. 💯 Thanks Jessica!

[@zammyjaay]

😂😂😂

[@rafad3262]

Hahaha, that's funny.

[@Crowbar11115]

NEVER focus on Relationships. No Woman is actually worth your time. Women are subtractive. They add stress to your life and subtract your time, energy and resources. Stay focused on yourself, stay single and just exist.

[@DLPfan-km8dc]

I know it's just not worth it

[@shafiumayana8881]

Me too bro 😂😂

[@50pence59]

Don’t make all the effort. A woman not making half of the effort isn’t worth any time.

[@kingkash4869]

Most guys want to stay in the relationship with the girl they love. They don't want to lose the person

[@RJayMusiq1]

Thanks a lot for this.. I hate talking stages! It’s very necessary.. but very annoying when you’ve found someone that has great potential and you have to keep a distance yet show interest.

[@AlextsarDiary]

Everything makes her think you are creepy, pointless to even give them attention, just ignore ignore ignore, skip skip skip and focus on myself...

[@Civiltechacademy]

Thank you Jessica for letting us know about Passion Air, I am watching you from Senegal but since I trust you, I suggested it to a colleague who was going to Ghana and had to make a trip from Accra to Tamale. He came back and told me that he enjoyed it. So Thanks

[@JessicaOS]

Glad to hear it. PassionAir is a very good airline. 👍🏾

[@dreamerthetruthmatters619]

Jessica, thank you so kindly. I have made some mistakes that were mentioned here. But I must admit that I did apply some of the above-mentioned ideas, and it works out perfectly for me. A greater lesson learned 📕 today live from the 🇺🇸. I look forward to booking a space or conversation with one of Africa's eloquent ladies.

[@12Messenger]

Ik how frustrating it is because I used to be there. Copying and passing same message sending to 70 girls on fb and only get 16 responses and maybe 4 hangouts. Just exercise patience. Girls who have many many men messaging them won't really care about your alpha strategies because of their options. And you'll know if she really don't care about losing you if you message her and then she dosent even read it for days. Let her go if it goes past 2-3 days

[@shanechavarria9532]

Your so well spoken and clear it’s easy for us men to understand

[@miles2burn]

Very interesting and accurate take on the subject. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 thanks

[@Introvertedalpha]

💯

[@goldenstate2192]

👍 Another great video. Sometimes as men, we do these things unconsciously (even when awake 😬). Thanks for reminding us that there is very little room for ERA when first meeting a woman. 1st impressions go a long way, and some women may not be willing to take a second look😳. U are really good at this 😉

[@samg2590]

That goes 4WOMEN too

[@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379]

Yes.

[@kelvintosh1132]

After watching alot of your videos, i have become more confident when am talking to ladies, also I've found your advice to be very useful, thanks alot keep up the good work.

[@JessicaOS]

Thanks for the feedback

[@davidkettle6834]

Thank you very much for this video. Keep doing a great job.

[@bobbysizzle1119]

Jessica please talk how trust is very important in a relationship..love this video...I love all your videos

[@marcusknoll9500]

Very good one👍👍trust and honesty up front

[@markellys8411]

For sure if a woman loves you or likes you she will be comfortable with you in so many ways… but if she doesn’t nothing you will do will make her happy or comfortable,,,

[@yawampofo8529]

Keep giving out the best advice. Still learning. Thanks Jess.

[@Kay-zf6zd]

Feminine expectations. As she's scrutinizing you, judge her harshly too especially by her past.

[@petermoko8724]

Always inspired and learning more from mss Jessie big up dear

[@olowaemmanuel]

I am just too grateful for the wisdom streaming down from here Much more blessings I pray. Jess is a don🎉

[@SarcasticSplendor]

#8: *Bad manners* : Many women won't care. More especially _younger ones_ . For what reason do you think *bad boys* are called *bad boys* ❓

[@Aditmad]

to some degree, yes.. this is kinda right.

[@nii_nii_dexousia007]

Bad boys are called bad boys not because of bad manners. Sorry. Bad boys we are because we are bold, and daring and we have chivalry that “good boys don’t have”😉

[@SarcasticSplendor]

@@nii_nii_dexousia007 It is unfortunate that many people don't _even_ realize that the *bad boys* _appellation_ is actually a _euphemism_ for something *worse* .

[@nii_nii_dexousia007]

@Gasore Ganza I like the point you making hence let me ask a question do based on your earlier on disposition do all good boys have good manners. There are extremes to your concern. Irrespective in that euphemism you speak lies the thin line of the daring character and nature of a bad boy. What is being outlined here by Jessica as bad manners is not relative to the bad boy tag you are succinctly connoting. Finally am not in argument with you at all but am trying to tell you that the bad boy term generated from the behavior and nature of boys who was never will get stuck and get sucked into the status quo that is present in their generation.

[@nii_nii_dexousia007]

And you can check history or your vicinity most boys who don’t relate to the status quo at hand is termed a bad boy and not necessarily because of their bad character. Honestly bad boy don’t have bad character they have daring behaviors. If we would want to put character in play then it would rather be a rude boy or I’ll mannered man.

[@kojamps]

Please everyone, im taking collection for Jessica, she has been amazingly helpful to our annoyingly clueless blockheaded gender, we need to show substantial appreciation! Substance oo...we love you Jess!

[@davidyt9365]

You're sincerely the best, Jessica. I love the way you explain things.

[@brandanbrandan775]

Great advice jessica you are on the spot👍🏽

[@jordanyoung1836]

I need to chill out with that...may god give me the strength to overcome this...

[@francisjames1377]

It's the opposite in most of my situations with women, they are the ones wanting sex and after they get the sex, they turn crazy. They act possessive etc..

[@fabstouchcosmetics3191]

You should be married.

[@lostafronaut4647]

Show us your ways master

[@francisjames1377]

I want to get married and maybe have kids when I find somebody, but she has to be a Special woman.

[@mariagiveth5314]

@@francisjames1377 then stop sleeping with every woman you get

[@glenblackwood7015]

Thank you for these helpful tips and or reminders. I often wonder why you invest so much time in assisting men with these helpful information. I trust it's rewarding to you.

[@sundaymuchika763]

Really helpful the way you explained your points.... thanks for the video

[@innerself3271]

The Stalking behavior has to STOP, once I find out it's happening I just disappear silently

[@mugonzafargie1558]

However also most ladies rush asking us money for their problems without prior time understanding them

[@buravan1512]

run away...

[@josiahflame7477]

She doesn't love you she's taking you for her father or rather her sugar daddy left her and she wants to fill up thr Gap.Run for your life as soon as possible.

[@bajanlandscapes]

Jessica most of your points are very relevant.At the sametime,some women use the teasing methods to discourage men.The sexual preference are profound issues.

[@dscrown]

You are loaded with wisdom sis God bless you more everyday.

[@PageTV2]

From Google and deep research

[@jawagerramakrishnan3872]

Salute you for your analysis. Awesome... Youngsters should listen to you. 👌👌👌

[@josiahflame7477]

@Kille Omier why would you want your ex back she's past you'd better move on. BS

[@dvforextrades]

I really love these gists... Thank you Jessica always talk from experience 🙏

[@topthinkug]

Fx

[@dvforextrades]

@@topthinkug hello

[@mikea.4477]

Great video Jessica!

[@Introvertedalpha]

Interesting point about compliment overkill. Thanks for this video!

[@munuku]

Spot on! These work both ways though. Maybe do a video of things women do that put men off? The "treating others badly" (especially waiters/service industry employees) is a bad habit I've witnessed more with women 🙊

[@fanofeverybody2230]

Exactly right

[@mugonzafargie1558]

This quite awesome, thank you for alerting us. I personally didn't know I making a few mistakes highlighted.

[@ellyomondi6613]

can't get tired be your first chief follower just keen in every word .Thank you and big thump up

[@danielfrancis3660]

Talking about sex to soon she complains. Don't talk about sex at all she complains. Welcome to the world of dating

[@phililenqala4791]

No offense but that's why I see this dating thing as stupid.😒

[@jordanyoung1836]

I can admit that I'm rough around the edges from time to time and i usually try my best to work on that...i don't really like to mention sex or want to do it either but the women that I've met wanted that from me and every time i respectfully say "No", they would want to get an attitude with me...also i need to work on my mouth because i tend to be harsh with verbalizing. To tell you the truth, i usually try to keep my distance until i fully get myself in order...

[@Introvertedalpha]

Appreciated hearing your experience.

[@jordanyoung1836]

@@Introvertedalpha you're welcome

[@KingofNewYorkkk]

I have the same "rough around the edge" personality but it's tamed compared to my past self. I'm usually vulnerable and honest with women because it's like why hide attraction when it's already upfront.

[@Afternoon99]

I know it’s rough for you and for me as a woman I still don’t understand why some women behave like that. Maybe they’re still too immature to understand themselves

[@jordanyoung1836]

@@Afternoon99 I agree with you 100%

[@gabrielcaraballo1014]

truly helpin out the introverted community!

[@lyndonjames9178]

This is a good video for young people, to watch. It is informative and eye opening. What I am concerned with is her telling men how to behave, on a date. When just like women, men also have to be wary of what women want and if he can introduce them to his family. It works both ways

[@someonespecial581]

Jessica gives relationship advice to men not to women

[@austinikechukwuka1819]

Wow, I love this video. Jessica you are loaded

[@ManiGotti]

It’s usually the woman mistreating the server

[@radicalhustler7575]

Officially i subscribe love from neighborhood country Togo

[@moneytime1556]

It depends on the person everyone is different based on how they grew up.

[@focusedallday5620]

I partially disagree with number 1. Saying some outrageous sexual stuff to open the interaction is a sign of a man who is confident, but not calibrated. However, you should be demonstrating sexual intent. The point is you want to see if she is sexually (the strongest form of attraction) to you. Women know this within minutes of meeting you, and so should you. Stay Focused Guys!

[@chipomwansa3446]

Definitely see the truth in this.💯

[@dsmartblack2]

Wrong

[@focusedallday5620]

@@dsmartblack2 thanks for the comment 🙏🏽

[@MrFLstyle]

THIS.

[@mark26mw]

Agreed

[@pioussiaw9]

Very useful information. Thanks so much my dearest madam Jessy❤❤. More love

[@howiseeitwithjonathan6787]

Very true...taking queue from all you have said. Thanks

[@mrstevens445]

Guys, Let’s protect this Queen at all cost

[@chrisx1197]

Thanks for the advice, I'll keep it up.

[@nileIslamJournalArua]

Point 3 (4:09) to me is 100% correct. I was evn blocked on whatsapp because of excessive praises during first week of the chase. After some time, the issue was resolved.

[@eigobike3929]

Good advice. I am a “scary” suitor sometimes. It’s like a Goldilocks game, not too hot; not too cold.

[@jasontutorials4809]

All these “turns offs” just mean that the woman is not really that interested to begin with…or you have more interest in her than she does in you…so she is already looking for a reason to disqualify you….if she is really interested, or more interested in you than you are in her…you could tell the most corny jokes, call and text her many times, the reality is that most women you encounter will not have high interest in you … they are just trying things with you because you are decent enough, that’s why modern dating and relationships are an absolute waste of time….you can never be good enough for people who are just tolerating you because you seem decent enough but, they aren’t really into you that much

[@mark26mw]

Agreed

[@josephquashie9722]

I love your teaching, it direct, motivate and guide us to select best partner in life, beside to make a good decision in a relationship 🤝🙏

[@JamesLee-eg6sy]

You said there are quite a number?!!! But isn’t it also said that a woman knows as soon as she meets a guy or sees a guy whether or not she’s going to have sex with him? You don’t want me to ask for sex but in your mind you’re thinking whether or not you are going to have sex with me? It seems we have to be a puppet! This dating thing is complicated!!! Wow!!! I agree with a lot of the things you speak on.

[@chekwubesamuel837]

Please, Jessica, can you please do a video on how to build a distance relationship with trust

[@muritalaakande69]

This is highly philosophical, kudos.

[@emmanuelandoh8739]

I have been TURNED OFF by many women that I crush but those I don't like always come my way and I do approach well also

[@josiahflame7477]

Stop chasing give it time.work on yourself you'll get a high value woman and you will not even believe it

[@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379]

Yea! It's a norms.

[@AprendizDeLoQueToca]

Too complicated nowadays. IMHO Much better monk mode 🌞🧠🙏🏼

[@Afternoon99]

The no.1 is a big one. And some guys tend to do this the most. I met a guy online he acted innocent yet sending me picture of him in his underwear with that thing out trying to make it look like he didn’t see it but he did it twice so I blocked him lmao. It’s so obvious. And I tend to see guys sending half naked pics when we just first talk it’s such a turn off

[@jaceemae4648]

Gross like a big turn off to me,.

[@ab-mn2yq]

I liked this video, Looking forward to viewing others.

[@gangadaranramalingam5107]

I cannot refrain from watching your video. Simply the best

[@femialade9106]

I get to learn new words when you speak. I had to look up a few words. Thank you

[@JessicaOS]

😅 you're welcome

[@mmanmartin]

This was informative

[@momodoudem7730]

Hi Jessica I just want to know the materials you are using for your KZbin I want to be teaching international law on KZbin but I am not well expose to camera stuffs

[@john_mwaniki]

Some of this bad behaviors should also apply in normal friendship, like i have this male friend who keeps calling me even at 10pm, and whatever he is calling to tell me is something he can what'sapp

[@andersnielsen6044]

One question here is... Why do women or girls even "date" guys who have these immature bahaviors?

[@businessboom6143]

Powerfully interesting video Jessica.💯🎯

[@wisdomdarko2813]

Thank you very much

[@sowahpee9999]

Lol My love for women who look intimidating like Jessica😹❤️. Love from Accra

[@yungzel8154]

Thanks for this 🙏🏾

[@theodorelevia5122]

Interesting very interesting cool video.It will help thank you Jessica.

[@angie8896]

There has to be a happy medium in everything. If you really care or want to continue dating a woman you have to watch her behavior and listen to her. Follow her cues, most women respond in some way if they like or dislike certain behaviors. Pay attention and the same goes for women. Please excuse my "2 cents"💛

[@briar35981]

Great point Angie Phipps. I think so many men are just starved for attention from women these days. They seem to just go to fast when a lady gives him any attention at all. Not knowing that this is a quick way to turn her against the possibility of a relationship. I also believe it's because men understand women have options in the dating market. They are just trying to stand out from all the rest.

[@mentuhotepii2641]

Simps need to copy and paste this advise on their homescreen

[@angie8896]

@@mentuhotepii2641 Be my guest!

[@PageTV2]

Too many instructions for someone's son

[@sylvesterese466]

Imagine, how busy I am... Its always perfect to let her break the "invisible barrier" around her, herself than hound her... wanting to break it, by impatience... Where's my honour...?

[@fanofeverybody2230]

Every person has idiosyncrasies!! When you truly love someone, they do not matter!

[@TamaX6]

Thank you!

[@Chrisvessel]

I've got you all time Ma'am Jessica.

[@DArtmanreignz]

Seems like a lot of games to me for some of it, I run into so many different woman from one moment to the next no one circumstance covers every potential endeavor👑

[@adzrakutseprecious4856]

Very helpful thank you Jess🥰

[@nelsongoncalves5379]

Great Advice thank you Jessica.

[@michaeldorsey2552]

Preach...Reach...Teach!!!

[@erickessy7201]

I'm kinda guilty of number one I really lost this great girl whom I was really into thought I been "masculine" but in reality I just been stupid so I don't know if there's anything I can tell her to convince her otherwise

[@danoku5582]

People should stop creating laws for how humans relate. Humans are d most evolved being on earth with very complex behaviour. What A dont wants is what B wants. Thats humans for you, teach people to be adaptable than creating dogma which are not absolute.

[@Logicc77]

Classic video. Great info.

[@gbevillc4935]

Guys,just be yourself, women have thousands expectations from men. Be who you are, whether she likes you or not. Another woman out there will love you the way you are. If men also have all these requirements, I don’t think there will even be a marriage on earth…

[@udokankamnebe2748]

You are a pro. Thank you for your contribution to humanity.

[@dsmartblack2]

Some of these males are block headed yall better take notes. She spitting facts. Am in my 40s this list has been my modus operandi my whole life works every time

[@tamarakepreyeomgbuayakimi.1379]

Glad it did , thanks for her and your service...

[@philemonakanji4465]

Well said, Aunt Jessica👌

[@zumba.c]

Regarding point 5, that applies to kinks and fetishes as well

[@ryanbailey8588]

As far as point 2 is concerned, I just find it hard now that I have a sense of self to chase women. It’s weird because given hypergamy, women want a guy who has and therefore doesn’t want/need. So when you chase, you’re essentially admitting that you only want/need because you don’t have, which women are biologically designed to be repulsed by.

[@teravolt6113]

Wonder what happens when a guy is seeing sex workers. It will likely confuse ordinary women. Confident (i find having escort sex regularly makes me really confident with ordinary girls), sexually attracted, single, yet not chasing.

[@ryanbailey8588]

@@teravolt6113 Hooke me up. Where do you source your escorts? If you don't mind sharing?

[@teravolt6113]

@@ryanbailey8588 Escort websites, agencies. It has to be legal where you are. It's legal in my country, i'm not breaking the law in any way.

[@ryanbailey8588]

@@teravolt6113 Gotcha

[@EmceeMjax]

Thanks Jessica for this

[@Mohamedalijama143]

These points make sense.

[@tawandamataka133]

ALWAYS A GREAT TEACHER. I HAVE LEARNT A LOT FROM THIS VIDEO.

[@richardmiller8285]

That's what I bet some guys that I work with sex is not everything in a relationship you need somebody gonna be there for you when it down on when you up not only sex

[@immortalthumbz]

Women like everything u listed in moderation.