Why women play hard to get EVEN when they like you

[@troublemaker2347]

Once she pulls away, I forget her. I prefer she maintains communication but never pulls away.

[@jamalcole1985]

Yup that's why it's good to have a roster and see who is really interested. People come and go

[@MultiTexMex]

Same here. As soon as I sense the “game” she’s playing, I quit playing. Don’t care for games which really amount to nothing much more than emotional manipulation anyways.

[@solomonkatamba7530]

True my Brother. Never waste time

[@innoLeBaron]

Control, Control & Control that’s what is all about. Emotion manipulation, control, breadcrumbs that is all the recipes of modern women

[@webbset]

Stoic man

[@Nehemiah.The.Shepherd]

If you don’t hear from someone for 24 hours in a talking stage (no calls, no texts…etc.) move on. Go where you’re appreciated and attention & time are reciprocated.

[@solomonkatamba7530]

Simple my Brother

[@Muy_chingon]

Women don't play "hard to get" when they actually like you if she likes you she wants you near her at all times. If a woman is playing hard to get you need to walk away from the situation and find a woman who is willing to do things on your terms as a man do not accept her crumbs it's better to set a high self standard and be ready and willing to walk away from anyone who requires you to jump through hoops her replacement is waiting for her to make a mistake so go find a woman worth your time

[@mardukdemigod1523]

@@Muy_chingon They still do, even if she likes you. In fact, even if you're in a relationship with this woman there will come a time that she'll pull away.

[@PastorScottHinton]

All depends on the woman, if she really likes you, some women will go in to control you, to keep you

[@rokljhui864]

You know nothing about women

[@Muy_chingon]

@@rokljhui864 I'm telling you the truth but your welcome to do things on her terms if you'd like nobody's saying you should stop running behind her that's your choice

[@adibe3902]

They never play anything if you barely acknowledge their existence 😂😂

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

Exactly, even if you’re only showing up to talk about how great you are, you’re treating her as if she’s beneath you, and that plays into this power dynamic as well. I won’t be morally shamed for taking advantage of it

[@adibe3902]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 She is beneath you. Nothing machiavellic here, she just is. Keep her where she belongs or else nature will punish you.

[@leghettosefateel-ghettomat2748]

😂

[@AWMUSSE]

😂

[@rdot8869]

False that's when they really start to play games when you barely acknowledge their existence.

[@KudzaisheClive.]

As a gent we aint got time for all these games😂👐🏾

[@MichaelMillerVlogs]

It's also about control.

[@MARKIEBANUNCE]

Please explain Control? Why? Why would she care if she doesn't want you? Why control and not just let go?

[@Luigi-xg7hx]

@@MARKIEBANUNCE free validation

[@MichaelMillerVlogs]

@MARKIEBANUNCE She's playing games, getting you to jump through hoops. Seeing if she can get you to do things.Establishing control.

[@MARKIEBANUNCE]

​@MichaelMillerVlogs why would she want to do that?

[@Darth_Bateman]

@@MichaelMillerVlogs everyone wants more control.

[@melvinrobinson7329]

I’m 61 and you made some valid points that I wish I had known back then and as I move forward thank you for your insight

[@digit313]

You r young even now. 61 is ok. people are marrying at 70 with a 45 year old and happy but not in West.

[@metatron333ascension]

US guys just dont have time to figure out. if she isnt putting in effort then im not interested. nobody got time for all that nonsense. life is challenging enough then trying to figure all this out.

[@KristyKaaos]

You clearly didn't watch the video.

[@KristyKaaos]

If you don't make her feel safe she will run. It's about making an effort to show that your intentions with her are genuine and not some ploy to just get in her pants

[@metatron333ascension]

@@KristyKaaos and i cant take the woman seriously if she's going to play games. im not interested in the games. If i think she playing games i lose interest immediately.

[@metatron333ascension]

@@KristyKaaos and i will tell you this. if a woman starts playing those games it makes the guy feel unsafe with HER internetions. with the amount of false accusations that women can do we dont know the womens motives when they play these games. that's why a guy would rather just leave it alone than persue any further. If a guy shows interest and she seemingly shows interest in the beginning and she pulls back that's immediate red flag.

[@KristyKaaos]

@@metatron333ascension well good luck picking up women 😂

[@markbrunner7793]

I went through this and thought she may be with someone else. So I left her alone, not knowing she was going fighting her OWN emotions

[@abdiqafarabdalla4102]

you have right to leave bro trust me

[@genovasquez8361]

i learn 20 years ago iif a girl is hard to get she is not worth your time. hard to get means she is interested,

[@Candlelight787]

04:15 "It's a clear sign she is interested in something " That something gentlemen, is wasting your time 😂😂😂

[@webbset]

😂😂😂

[@chukwuemekauwam8874]

@@Candlelight787 😂😂😂😂😂

[@PastorScottHinton]

@@Candlelight787 😄

[@theGodFactorChannel1]

😂😂😂

[@SOTNTV44]

That's very TRUE!

[@meshardekhaliif9453]

I told her from the word go that I want someone whom we can build our life together but in her reply she said she can't do someone without money. Thats where I drew the line.

[@mrscorpio007ify]

Well at least she was honest. Who wants to waste a lot of time with someone who's lacking financially.

[@reggiesutton9704]

Do have someing to send money o i dont have cazh out

[@mylesmulenga-uz6gd]

No wonder women usually end up with players because no decent man will play along once he realizes the feeling isn't mutual.

[@webbset]

Word is players 😂😂

[@kilovaj1122]

Damn right!! Haha

[@chrisbaled7471]

Wtf are these games Women need to mature the f up

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Finding a mature woman can be compared to finding a needle in a haystack. They are rare, but they're out there. My advice is don't trash others, and put yourself first. They will find you.

[@kalidismail2663]

the matured ones might be 84 years old

[@genovasquez8361]

i dont like hard to get women, i will just stop talking to her.. if she dont treat me like im chris brown or her celebrity crush i dont want her. Girls who are easy to get are the best. Women are hard to get with men they dont find irrestible. if a woman wants me bad enough she will show me and come on strong,

[@KyereAnthony]

@@genovasquez8361 you should be ready for the games bruh

[@genovasquez8361]

@KyereAnthony games mean = rejection. I don't tolerate games. That's beneath me. Such a turn off

[@anthonywaldrep5982]

​@@genovasquez8361I absolutely agree. Life is way too short to chase a lady that plays games as soon as you start dating

[@Ysl_kidd]

@@genovasquez8361💯

[@PastorScottHinton]

@@genovasquez8361 sad thing is when they get Chris brown they going to Ghost him too

[@VarjoPira]

All of these are easy advice to follow. The hard part is doing so consistently, long-term.

[@webbset]

Word

[@PedroMachadoBorges]

I love your advice and choice of soundtrack. Eric Satie is brilliant for your videos. Congratulations Jessica. Keep it up.

[@sheanlee2089]

When women play hard to get I move on & disappear

[@emmanuelboahen7105]

Jessica must be protected at all costs 😂😂. She's exceptionally good.

[@earnestrobinson7453]

Ladies, when you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes.

[@Ysl_kidd]

Or win absolutely nothing 😂 but some fart air 💨

[@matjazb.157]

Jessica just explained a dismissive avoidant woman. They lack of empathy and are very selfish. When you do no contact they still like and watch your stories and posts just not to lose s string with you but giving you nothing in return. So forget about them. The right woman will show at least 50% interest in you. If not - don't deal with them and next her. There are plenty better women out there, I'm sure you'll find the one soon even you think now this is the only princess ... She is in her own f**king avoidant world. Let her there and move on. ;)

[@pesocheco]

Lol women so powerful when it comes to dating and being slick. Sometimes I be scared of em, only reason they accept me is cuz I’m one of the small percentage of men who know how they cutthroat games

[@platinumheartaartist]

stay away from the tests boys.

[@StevenKernizan]

If you’ve been in relationship with a girl for years and she’s acting like that 95% of the time she’s cheating, she’s not playing hard to get because you already have her so pay attention to the signs, and walk away.

[@23e445]

This why she single playing games!!

[@king-taolaolaiya7182]

Great knowledge jessy, I gain a lot today. Thanks

[@JessicaOS]

I'm glad you found it helpful!

[@genovasquez8361]

im 48 years old, every committed relationship i ever had was a woman who was easy to get. playing hard to get = you just lost my interest.

[@trellwiggins2539]

Great information 👍🏽

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

It’s the same reason I only show up to validate myself around them and talk about how great I am. That way, I can’t possibly lose. Who cares if she plays hard to get after that, she was doing it out of spite cuz I wasn’t taking her seriously

[@taguirre7052]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 real talk

[@hayyarbrough]

Thank you and merry Christmas

[@maxgoldg8316]

So you really think a man of value should go through all this for a woman? If she was serious herself she wouldn't do that

[@mrscorpio007ify]

Right serious shouldn't have to equal games.

[@kharmpoiphoumsavath1571]

😊👍Love this topic. Thank you for your advice.

[@eddienortey3027]

Hahaaha 😂😂, thanks for this game and insight. ..

[@Its_superdave09]

The part that touched me the most is not taking it personal & putting her on a pedestal, it did hit me so much In the end, just like you said, the right woman won't make one question your worth or constantly feel like you're chasing Lemme use pidgin, "babe wey go like you no go stress you at all" Thank you Jess! God bless you for this piece

[@RichardNtsoane-x3q]

Thank you so much your teachings have change my life

[@LamarStanley-c1j]

This can be exhausting

[@daytondane1617]

I am a subscriber and I do appreciate the game, but I do also know a lot of this stuff a woman could be doing with 10 different men at the same time.

[@NurudeenMena]

Welcome sis Jessica os ❤❤❤

[@JessicaOS]

So glad you're here!

[@AnthonyManzio]

@@JessicaOS If she plays hard to gt ignore her. Stop waating your time with women like that with daddy issues. Immature woman

[@ssemudduhenry4615]

Control, and control, then your money. so when she finally gets it, then her focus turns to money. The primary objective is your money

[@Healthandfoodaffairs]

Who even the chase woman this kind time

[@Smashgamin]

Making me wait while others hit with eas👽

[@MickyasTamiruAsfaw]

Exactly 💯 I have to run from it 😂

[@rickrudge9349]

Most of the comments here are from men that refuse to deal with women who play games, manipulate and $h1t test men. Women , take note.

[@gearyderochea-bh2oh]

Too much work,not worth the effort

[@RonAldridge-y5v]

Some men don't have time for the test... It's a waste of time

[@dedelinda5272]

Thanks ma'am

[@kevinjordan9835]

Thank you big sis ✍️

[@JessicaOS]

🤗

[@adriand2895]

Just work on yourself as a man and the right woman will come to you!

[@JohnM...]

Aah, the Phantom 'SHE will find YOU' woman - a flying pig is easier to spot.

[@Mindsets_Reality]

Good stuff, lots of food for thought. Sometimes you just gotta hear it from someone else that what your thinking or doing is for the best for you and the moves you make. Umm. Did I just say validations.. damn.. hahahah 😮 😂

[@edwinwaweru]

Thanks jess but wanna know an easier way ??? Just dump her go to the 3 next options 😂 honestly the best relationships i ever had were from ladies who didnt play mind games in the name of " hardto get" those are the women i loved the most and viceversa😊

[@derwoodhamburger]

We don't do breadcrumbs

[@platinumheartaartist]

sign number 1: Thank you because she says she doesn’t want a relationship or anything like that… but her posts say something different towards love and emotional stability.

[@mrscorpio007ify]

Emotional damage. I've always wanted to say that 😅

[@gabterTurin]

Thank you ♡

[@JessicaOS]

Any time!

[@AnthonyManzio]

@@JessicaOS Block her

[@chris5329]

I'm sick of the games. I vibed with a girl I really liked, I even went out of my way to help her move and then she ghosted me. It's been two weeks and not even a text 😢

[@MultiTexMex]

Don’t reach out bro. These games she’s playing, ain’t worth it. Give her exactly the same energy she’s giving you.

[@teeoneofficial552]

She’s not into you bro

[@dab7805]

ask her to pay you for helping her and after she pays you block her

[@SigmaMindset313]

@@dab7805 petty

[@SigmaMindset313]

You were too nice

[@nkosanandaba8767]

Jessica you are the best of the best your advice is awesome Keep it up

[@paulwalker7498]

I don't think she was playing hard to get.. but I connected with a woman at a wedding and we talked that night about going out on a date. A few days later I asked her out and she said she was busy with the new house she had just purchased. I said no worries let me know when you have the free time. 2 months later through a mutual friend she was asking about me and trying to get details about my life. We just hungout this past weekend and she gave me many indicators of interest. If I was needy and beating her door down to see her I would have been cooked. Sometimes it just is not the right moment in time to pursue a new relationship for one or both parties. It helped I had other woman to keep my attention.

[@clintongeorge-v6q]

I do See All these efforts are worth it because I believe if she is interested she will make her self available to You

[@tshaolin971]

I understand but a woman should understand that not all men are the same and adapt accordingly to the situation.

[@markaguero410]

Fighting to be loved isnt the same as fighting for love. Leave always. Dont stress yourself. I played the game she had the audacity to tell me how she was rejected by a guy she asked out and how i shouldnt feel bad. You mean nothing to them. Leave. It's for their ego. Theres another guy. Just be upfront and take the L. She was insane and harassed me and stalked me after i ignored her.

[@sidifall1970]

That is crazy, It is very confusing

[@rokljhui864]

As a man. You can stay consistent with your purpose and your mood. Enjoy her changes, like the seasons. I have witnessed twice in my life, women so beautiful , words can not describe. They long for you one week, the next they are cold. They need to worry about giving-birth and raising kids. They are not your mummy. As a man, You must remain stoic and masculine for them. In time, all their moods will make you smirk with indifference.

[@MrHDProd]

There is no such thing as “hard to get when they like you”

[@user-yx8tb2vb9b]

Yes 😂

[@oluwatomiwalawrence1152]

I commented earlier today 😂. Great video always

[@JessicaOS]

Lol thanks for watching again!

[@Durion7]

Confusing only sometimes 😂

[@AlphaJChrist]

I agree Jessica has some cool inspiring ideas we love you Jessica God bless.

[@HopetonNewton]

I love what she said

[@CodeWithClinton]

Thank you ma'am.

[@JessicaOS]

You're welcome!

[@Hunkzilla]

Im going through the same thing ....

[@phillipwashington6925]

Excellent Presentation.✓ In my experience, ive noticed when a woman really likes me, once i've already initiated a degree of interest in possibly getting better acquainted with her, she'll eventually find a way to show interest, sooner or later, without being too direct. Wherever there's attention, there's awareness. Where there's awareness, there's energy. You'll know if theres a vibrational match at some point, when in her presence. So, just be smooth about it and appreciate the process. Don't be overly concerned about the outcome. Be as a champion that won't crumble if he loses a fight. Learn from the experience.Learn to be outcome independent. There's too many other options out there to feel crushed and defeated as a man seeking a woman. Most times, when youre not being motivated by your natural urges, such as lust, you won't be as anxious about the outcome anyway. Real talk.

[@arth.3899]

I believe my ex-wife wanted us to remain friends. I don't want to be her friend anymore.

[@djcaly84]

Just go no contact with her.

[@justrodger9531]

We keep each other's number though i confronted her months ago about this runner chaser dynamic, i did it jokingly and she responded with laugh and called me delusional and goodbye. I haven't texted since. Just view her status, maybe a like and just focused on me.

[@Ysl_kidd]

She’s a narc

[@infinitymfg5397]

@1:58 I appreciate the information, but the information is far to generous. Although I don't think that women just decide to toy with a guy, playing hard to get is typically how they treat men that they are not really interested in. It doesn't create value, it creates frustration and it's meant to discourage the man. Cancelling at the last minute is a classic way to put someone in their place.

[@Godzilla7302]

If a w-man likes you, she'll make it easy for you! And these words are coming from someone who has had a lot of relationships under their belt, so I know what I'm talking about. The problem with men who haven't had many relationships is that they can't read a woman's mind to see if she's interested or not.

[@jameshunt3504]

Of ALL THE VIDEOS GENTLEMAN. THIS ONE'S A RARE GEM 💎 😂😂😂 SERIOUSLY! AMAZING

[@mrscorpio007ify]

Yes. Because who would know a woman better than a woman. Definitely not a man like in all of those other videos.

[@jameshunt3504]

@mrscorpio007ify Normally I would agree with you except for the great Corey.Wayne, he is the king of kings.Sorry, I hope you are not disappointed my friend LO.L

[@francisjames1377]

WOW!!! Life is Complicated! Lol

[@some3sharks]

😂😂😂

[@fatawkantamebenezer3551]

😂😂 oooh okay. This woman should be protected at all cost😅

[@justinstocks9641]

Hi Jessica, I watched this video ago, a lady I’ve just start seeing cancelled a date and changed a plan we had last minute I started down the “what did I do/say road” and nearly started reading back through old messages, then I remembered your video and laughed to myself. 😂 I popped back watched your video again, I followed what you said, I didn’t over analyse, gave her space, still kept in contact but slight less and lighter. She came back, apologise for being grumpy and we have carried on. It would have been so easy to text her and say “did I do something” “did I say something” and it would have come across as un confident/insecure. Without even realising what I was saying. Thanks for your video ❤ I’ve got so much from them at 47yrs old, where were you when I was 20? 😂

[@adesamivictor3269]

@@justinstocks9641 this is a very good point you've stated. Learning from you 💯

[@ambassadorofcrank9899]

This woman brilliant

[@UserAndLoser1985]

Good video. Very informative. However, I have to disagree with one thing. I would accept a diamond if it came from a vending machine.

[@harveygordonhopebaygospelc119]

AWESOME!!! THANK YOU!! ! I LOVE IT!!!

[@ricky11-j5r]

There is a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal...

[@michaelamegatcher7855]

@@ricky11-j5r Please where can I get some to buy.

[@serdaadlim8551]

@@ricky11-j5r it's a bot!

[@edgargomez8586]

@@serdaadlim8551 I saw this comment from different video

[@Fielion]

the man has to put in the effort, to do the work... she invests nothing.

[@Ysl_kidd]

She has 10 other piggy banks doin the same thang

[@ernestnanadompreh2966]

Beautiful woman😍😍

[@Awillaway]

Jessica! 👋

[@mexicolombia2]

Why they dont play hard to get with Chad and Tyrone?

[@mrscorpio007ify]

Because she likes them. If she doesn't like someone she won't play any games.

[@MasculineSwag]

they literally do

[@287kj]

Jess, girl you Rock around the Clock. Good info! ❤

[@shrikantshitole1]

I waited for 1 month for her reply the she said dont msg me again or i will complaints. Then i close the chapter

[@webbset]

Away bus 😂

[@Ghost-ok6hx]

No one has time for these games

[@platinumheartaartist]

see I use solution three, I like that one better cause i I’m a good listener.

[@kingdyotchere1972]

Story of my life!

[@jaklv7906]

Welcome sis 👍🏼👍🏼🥰

[@FrederickBass-b2w]

Queen ure knowledgeable

[@Nipsiii]

Guess Iv been lucky..only time I'd be turned down by a woman is when I try to be too nice most women iv dated always made it easy for me id just approach talk from there judging from the conversation I'd know how she operates I don't remember a hard to get pursue guess I got a lot to learn😅

[@RobertLenior]

A Rubik's cube is easier to solve than a woman's mind.

[@michaeljewell53]

Loved the diamond from a vending machine bit Jess but you are our Cullinan 💎 Diamond-Star of Africa! Brilliant Vid Thank you x

[@flyguy7825]

Two things that hit me and where I went wrong is that I didn’t give the other person woman enough time to respond I seemed very desperate and unconfident.

[@webbset]

Don’t worry you learn , you move on

[@WOMPITUS]

Lol “Drop the game.” So she can keep running games. Men are supposed to keep their cool not say anything while women disrespectfully ignore them. That leads to nothing but more disrespect and games.

[@MasculineSwag]

yup

[@darrellbarnes1171]

This woman came back into my life a few months ago. Everything was going well and we planned on seeing each other. She lives in one state while I live in another state. She said she had a talk with her mother and after she told me that, her texts had no value, and then she went silent. I texted her one time just to let her know that I understand the modern era we live in. And I'm not a fan of how this era teaches a woman or man how to use no contact as a weapon. I believe in honesty and not using silence and ghosting as a means of rejecting someone!

[@djcaly84]

Mistake 2 is not a mistake at all. If you can frustrate and confuse her, it's in your best interest, because women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. And yet you made her feel something. It's worse when she doesn't feel anything.

[@LeoWatkins-ld1ue]

Thank you baby,❤