Many dl men have multiple kids by multiple women. I know guys with 8-10 kids. Why have so many?

Many dl men have multiple kids by multiple women. I know guys with 8-10 kids. Why have so many?

[@ursulatroxler7428]

I don’t believe men that have kids with multiple women care anything about their children . If you love something you take care of it! Most of these men don’t take care of themselves or their children.

[@Cornbread-gi6kt]

They really don’t care about the women either. But, it’s a ‘two way principle.’ As long as women give men these powers, allow men these powers, nothing changes. Its no secrete, it’s all over the media for years about millions of single mothers in the world, same ole’ story, so there’s no excuse why one would get involved with some of these low down dirty characters. No reason why one should open their legs knowing full well the highly publicized percentages of him not staying.

[@RipplesnWaves]

I always say this to myself. If you love something you hold it in high regards and take care of it

[@Angelica._.officalll]

In the blk community, around 18% of the men produce 80% of the children. So I don't know what men you're talking about, except the FEW these women are choosing to lay down with.

[@glorygirl6946]

💯

[@cortezbarrett5826]

women break up the hot 70% of the time but yall act like men just leave

[@aquarius560]

This topic makes me think of P Diddy, and Nick Cannon. Making a bunch of kids with several different women, as to prove to society and themselves they are "MEN". Making babies don't make you a man🤦🏽‍♀️

[@levipegram6808]

You don’t recon do you😂

[@imo.124]

👀

[@slystally9874]

Smoke theres fire

[@japhya0378]

Diddy only have six biological children. What the heck are you talking about? If you want to call him downlow, do that. But don't give him children that he doesn't have.

[@destinee971ify]

@@tedbundy2268 Not with multiple women in multiple homes.

[@Haterzarefans]

I think a lot of domestic violence cases have down low men taking out their frustration on women.Same for men making babies all over the place...and men who constantly complain about and bash women.Added to this list Men who pretend like they are just imitating women in comedic skits Men who act too extra when gay bashing Men who always compete against women Men who seem jeolous or intimidated by women who rest in their femininity Men who are too much into a womans' affairs instead of engaging in masculine things Men who act catty and gossip and seem to have a hatred toward women and make life hard for women by being trifling

[@spreadmorelove5235]

A guy who goes by the name of astralboobaby has done videos on dl men and the bigger picture and he's been said that countries where men are either not permitted to be who they are or countries that criminalizes homosexuality will just create a greater problem and the women of those countries will be the most impacted. He explains that places like these will just create a huge dl problem. Men will hide their bisexuality and homosexuality by getting with women to avoid suspicions and persecution. He said that in those relationships, those men will beat and abuse the women out of frustration and resentment. He also said that those men will continue to secretly fulfill their desires without any protection and bring back everything to the wombs of the women they are using as a cover. It all made perfect sense because I've read that men beating and abusing their women, along with hiv/aids is out of control in all of these anti-gay countries. It made me think that a huge portion of those domestic violence situations are men who feel trapped in being with women that they do not really desire. That's why women need to understand that supporting anti-gay laws and homophobia is not in their best interest at all cause the women will definitely end up paying a huge price in the bigger picture.

[@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387]

Yes

[@taup6992]

Sounds like you're talking about the Manosphere😂😂

[@pinkishdiamondz]

I absolutely feel the same way.

[@dukington101]

Now you explain this, why are women gravitating to, and having so many children with these men? I'll waite for that answer...

[@gbrieannful]

The interesting thing is it seems like people who desperately want children struggle to conceive and the people who don’t want children or would make bad parents seem to conceive easily.

[@Self-helper415]

Yeah that’s definitely a 🚩. I don’t know ANY straight man that’s gonna PRETEND to be gay to get money from gay men. That’s some straight BS.

[@mylusciouslife41]

Maybe it’s human nature. Many want what they don’t have and don’t want what they already have🤷🏽‍♀️

[@hueyseale4253]

💯💯

[@MsJoyce31202]

👍

[@nikicarrie4071]

If your rich, married, have unlimited resources, family, extended family that loves you and would help you and your children with High iq's, these people will have so much trouble conceiving a child.if your broke ,with mental illness, from a dysfunctional family, broken home with no resources you'll have 10 kids from blinking.

[@marksr8784]

My Dad told me and my Brothers Not to have kids till your ready for them 😊 love you Pop 🙏🏿...and we three young Men avoided having kids till marriage...I had 2 and both Brothers had 3 each. Fathers are More valuable than you know ✌🏿🏕

[@carolyndaniels386]

❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️

[@RipplesnWaves]

Amen

[@rexnegron1778]

Glad your dad told you something other than get lost and stay there like mine.

[@taneshalashai]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@kathleenking47]

It means, staying in a faithful marriage You need both parents, even for the "pheromones" the mom and dad give off Wrap it up, otherwise How come BM seem to ge the only ones doing this? For the world to see?

[@BLESSEDLYLEE]

Walter this reminds me of my dad. He allegedly wasn’t DL. But, he had over 20+ kids. For years I wondered what was wrong with him. Then, I read The Will to Change by Bell Hooks. Men with these behaviors lack integrity and self-worth.

[@Douglass10]

So was your father dl or did he just have many kids?

[@tedbundy2268]

🧢 maybe your dad was just a super freak women sell their poon all the time

[@Angelica._.officalll]

Now, let's ask what's wrong with your mom for choosing this person as your father. How many baby mommas did he have before you?

[@derekbarnes7986]

@@Angelica._.officalll Facts!!!!

[@maxim30]

@@Angelica._.officalll and after that question is answered. The point of her statement and the video would still stand.

[@VeaRobinson]

Happened to my cousin her hubby was a pastor too, both are dead from HIV/AIDS because he chose to live a secret life of lies and dishonesty, being on the DL. RIH cousin miss you everyday. 😔

[@ejjones7784]

Same happened to my aunt & uncle. They were from Atlanta & he was a minister also. Seem like a lot of hiding of sexual orientation in these churches.

[@Angelica._.officalll]

@mizzalienated dang what’s his name I want to look it up?

[@stevencorrea8032]

Was they so-called black I'm learning from white scientist.The immune system is for so-called white people. We have a defense system that is different than the so-called white people. Eukaryotic cell people, study of biology we are prokaryotic cells. We're different in cellular biology somebody's being poison especially the prokaryotic cell people we don't suppose to eat meat we supposed to eat fruits and vegetables technically fruit only. Fruity. HIV is real. But whose biology is at for? UVC is level is also at ground level now this is a germicidal wavelength you can prove it by buying a UvC meter from Amazon it come from radiation the Sun 🌞 you think I'm full of it ask your doctor what's the difference between a prokaryotic cell and a eukaryotic cell.

[@t.w.8174]

Wow

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Yeap that very handsome pastor in Atlanta I can’t think of his name he is in prison for giving one of the young girls in his church HIV who was a virgin had HIV baby super sick monsters

[@Shejustkeepswinning]

When a man has multiple children with different baby mamas. This is a big red flag 🚩. Multiple baby mamas means that the man is not satisfied so he has to keep chasing a different woman. He also has to throw everyone off by having multiple children so that no one will figure out that his gay.

[@robertcohen8554]

How do you explain why these men have sex with multiple women then, even if they are "gay"?

[@donanderson3520]

@@robertcohen8554 yeah people really say things that don’t make sense

[@sandriea30]

​​​@@robertcohen8554 Diddy still having children. It's called Bisexual /DL doesn't mean Gay. DL men use women and children as beards that's what DL means Dow Low. Gay is out proud with men only they are not DL. Women use the term GAY out of context she means Bi/DL .

[@curt5361]

Probably narcissists. A narcissists will have sex with anyone.

[@emg.9246]

@@robertcohen8554 $3xu@lity is a very long and wide spectrum.

[@nameinaframeindy]

You gotta be careful around those hyper masculine hood dudes. Sometimes the biggest gangsta is nothing but a panty boy.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Indeed

[@Renee_96]

Period 💯

[@islandgirl8067]

Very selfish of these men to bring so many children into the world knowing the have no intention of taking care of them. They need to come to terms with their own sexual identity instead of bringing innocent parties into it.

[@jmath1978]

The selfish hoes need to stop letting these guys nut in them making themselves single moms.😊

[@Joyful_Smiles]

I've suspected that men creating multiple children with multiple women are homosexual but are in extreme denial. It just doesn't make sense for someone who actually values women to use and exploit women's bodies. The actions don't align with the promoted orientation.

[@robertcohen8554]

They certainly are not in denial that they love dick.

[@Tonytonytonyyy]

These men are a symptom of a much deeper issue. Def powerful and a reminder the DL still does exisit.

[@prettyqueendiva]

A serious deeper issue. Don't forget about the gay women as well. People have some real serious mental, emotional, and spiritual problems.

[@erickanew]

I have a gay family member and has been since birth on the feminine side. He married a very beautiful lady and had 2 kids, everyone was so freaking surprised he was married because he was so flamboyant. He eventually left her and married to a guy now. Lol I always thought she was in serious denial because he was so freaking obviously gay

[@kimjoseph6109]

It not denial it's called being desperate. Some of these women are so desperate for a cock is ridiculous

[@VeaRobinson]

👀

[@marvinjenkins4901]

Yep. that was stupidity on her part. You wonder. Do you blame him or her.

[@erickanew]

@Marvin Jenkins even though hes blood, lol, feel worse for her she was in the military and supported him. So basically, she was used

[@celestesaunders6281]

She might have been gay too !! But wanted children .

[@geminienteratyourownrisk4151]

Got my coffee! ❤ Some men are just messy, they run from house to house, they gossip with their baby mommas about the other baby mommas and keep up a lot of confusion and the women fall for it, they feel like they’re special, getting a little attention. The kids suffer and the cycle continues. Add another man or men into it, the person has to like confusion, not enough time in the day. The wild part these type of women look down on another woman because they’re single and choose to be selective.

[@tggt2939]

That sounds like my bd! He’s such a gossiping shit starter Queen! He would run and tell his other bm what I said about her and all my business. He even told her where I live and work! Total fag!

[@QilinRider21]

PREACH!!

[@cherryredzone]

And end of the day they “man” is not gonna be stuck with the baby to their hip, she will , looking stupid. Life to short for sacrifices like that. Too much playing for me. I rather single and safe than doomed.

[@YogiBrandau]

Anthem of Sisterhood in College - “DICK IS A MOTHERFUCKER” ‼️

[@marymotherofgod4861]

Facts !!!!😂

[@tallglasscocoa6105]

I used to work with a co-worker he would always tell the other guys how many women he picked up and s3x s3x. One day I took another route to work. Guess who I saw gave special treatment to another guy in the car. I never said anything. His "homeboy" would take him to lunch almost every day and drive him home. He told me months later that he had a bf. He was such a nice guy and I don't think no one would care if he was gay. Everybody liked him.

[@SmileyAdventures]

Gasps! WOW!

[@htownqueen663]

WOW!

[@VeaRobinson]

😂😂😂

[@kbro1984]

Not sloppy toppy in the car!

[@mamasmoneynow]

I knew it was something else behind the multiple kids and the multiple baby mommas scenario…….Thanks for the confirmation!!!

[@WalterLeeHamptonII]

You are so welcome

[@jmath1978]

​@@WalterLeeHamptonII I dont think its any hope for the straight, metro dudes out here. Think god for video games and porn!

[@angeljohnson234]

I unknowingly dated a gay man in college. He was gorgeous and very masculine. But I knew something was off. I later found out that he had an equally attractive boyfriend. It's been well over 25 years since I dated him but I found out he has multiple children by different women. It always baffles me when I hear about his children because I know the man is gay. Not bisexual but gay. As someone who experienced this, I can see how the "first" baby mother could be duped (there is NO excuse for the second, third, or fourth baby mamas. If a man has children and is not with the woman, run for the hills).

[@CoCo-yv3hl]

I was 32 at the time & I dated a guy that I suspected was DL he made too many comments & had too many stories. I left the relationship because I didn’t believe him about not being gay or BI. Men that always mention gay men are DL because why do they care. Let them be.

[@tashahall1855]

Yeah. I saw a lady write a comment about dating a man with 5 kids and complaining about his baby mamas . I’m like you’re part of the problem why would you date a man with 5 kids .

[@Cornbread-gi6kt]

No, you run for the hills the moment you knew ‘something was off.’ Why wait around so long until things get weird/weirder.

[@tedbundy2268]

You knew that dude was as g a y as this dude in this video smh

[@brownsugako7772]

I'm the 1st baby mother of my kids dad, we had 2 kids in the 90's, he went like 10 yrs without having another child. He's now on like baby 13 or 14 at almost 50 yrs old, our youngest daughter is 25 and had a baby 2 weeks before his lastest baby mom had her baby, my daughter has a 1 yr old brother, smmfh... Everyone keeps asking me what's wrong with him, I I know whats wrong, hes gay! I been saying he was DL for the last 20 yrs....

[@dyoung2739]

😂You’re gonna have to start hanging your keys high up before we see Ginger and Grayson driving down I20😂

[@taradraper8590]

😂😂😂😂

[@dyoung2739]

@@taradraper8590 🤣

[@Shy411]

😂😂😂

[@dyoung2739]

@@Shy411 🤣

[@Southern.Nappiness]

😂😂😂😂

[@kantik2118]

Basically, my story: I am the 2nd baby Mama. When we 1st met, he told me gay men love flirting with him but I didn't know about dl men back then. 6 years later, I am a single mother After he begun sleeping with his boys in my house. Our neighbor when I was AT work, his 'cousins', his collegues... Sended him back to his religious mother. He is still in denial, seeing his best Friend 'buddy' lover on the dl. Of course, he won't call his beautiful son. A normal human being would be proud to have a child like this. But not this person. The icing on the cake: he is Bad mouthing me to his family/ Friends because I know his secret now. Never knew the earth could have such individuals. And it is my baby father.

[@lizzyforevermore4]

I'm sorry you have to go through this

[@kantik2118]

@@lizzyforevermore4 thank you so much. Your words are precious. Blessings 💋

[@ABCxyz-my7mg]

Be safe.

[@kantik2118]

@@ABCxyz-my7mg trying. We Saw each other for the kid Yesterday and he tried to hurt me. He is Angry and acting crazy when in reality I am the one that's angry. Not wishing this to my enemy. Going to the police tomorrow. Blessings.

[@queenshantearion]

Wow how did you find out?

[@Texas_Made_]

I used to know a guy who claimed to be "straight" and he had a kid...but get this...he would always tell me he would pretend to be gay just to get money out of gay men...and would send them "fake p pictures"...my radar immediately went off and I stopped coming around..he definitely probably was sleeping with them or actually curious so he could not only fill that desire but also get money🙄👀🙈

[@smfarrie2943]

He may have been lying to himself.

[@Texas_Made_]

@@smfarrie2943 ohhh I felt this way too.

[@Dachozan1]

Gay for pay so they say

[@Texas_Made_]

@@Dachozan1 LOL exactly

[@shawnbawn22]

@@Dachozan1 Yeah, and for some damn drugs!

[@starhollywood]

This breaks my heart 💔 , I grew up in a broken home 🏡, my daddy has over ten kids and he stopped counting, people will ask him how many kids he have and he thinks it’s funny , it’s really sad 😞 tho, I’m the oldest , and I have never had any type of relationship with my dad , I missed out on so much , he couldn’t teach me anything, he failed me as a parent , he dropped out of school around the 9th grade, his reading skills are poor and he lacks an education, I am a product of my environment, at times I feel broken , lost and sad. My dad is around the age of 54 and his youngest child is 2 I think she is number 10 or 11 , I have so much to share with the world I can’t wait to get the opportunity to share my story , thanks for having this conversation

[@Alisa-b4u]

Break the generational curse seek better, elevate aim high, choose to go in an opposite direction get therapy if you can - surround yourself with positive ppl- you already know what’s right and what’s wrong that’s the true beginning to healing ❤️‍🩹 Blessings upon you

[@starhollywood]

@@Alisa-b4u Thank you so much ❤️🫡

[@TM-nb9zf]

I was just talking to a guy that told me he has 5 kids....and multiple moms for them. Then i said wow.... His excuse was "i was in prison 8 years so i got out and start wildn. " And i thought to myself... Yup....he gay 😂

[@WalterLeeHamptonII]

Yea. He gay

[@MT-yx5cu]

Got my late lunch and pineapple juice tuning in to the Walter show😂. This topic is one of the reasons I am so cautious about dating and enjoying my peaceful single life. I have met some attractive, financially well off, "suspicious" guys. Women are out here competing with men, women and transgenders for a man.

[@kathleenking47]

You may try to change your gender, but not your SEX

[@MT-yx5cu]

@@kathleenking47 who are you talking about?

[@jmath1978]

Mt and your standards may be too high than like the average woman out here!

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

That's the FIRST mistake. NEVER compete for a man. A man meant for you will willingly choose you and Only you!

[@tinadavis2083]

Amen❤️🙏🏽

[@c.b.5535]

Either get your nieces or nephews to help you, or get some foster children, if you want children. Save your money to hire a nurse if all you want is help.

[@tywilliam3225]

The reason why people have kids of these 3 things: 1. Their Parents pressuring them to have kids. 2. The Bloodline = Reproduction to keep their bloodline alive which is why people have kids. 3. Money and Benefits also status. People don’t really care about children. They are care about system rules or society rules on bring children to satisfied or to sacrifice them. 1. Why’s so many missing children? 2. Why’s so many fosters children? 3. Why’s so many children are killed? Because people don’t give a damn about children. Lil Nas X said F those kids. He is right.

[@davidsanchez861]

What can be bad is the baby mama's don't know each other. Then their children can end up dating each other not knowing their dating their step siblings.

[@jeanettegarrod-williams9150]

I totally agree with you Walter. I have seen it firsthand many years ago and was totally shocked. It took me a while to understand that they were trying to prove they were straight. Maybe they thought it made them look good to have so many children and never be therefore any of them. Obviously that does not make any man look good at all.

[@zenafaye7183]

Me and my brother been seeing and talking about this since we were kids! These men running around having multiple children by multiple women, ain't taking care of them or spending time in their lives are almost guaranteed to be on the downlow! One more thing Walter, my mother (rest her soul) worked in a nursing home for over forty years and she has shared story after of children just leaving their parents in those homes. Those children don't come and see them or nothing. The moral of the story is, having children is no guarantee that they will take care of us later in life. In this society where narcissism is the new norm, many of us can just forget about thinking our children will be doing much of anything for us, unless they are getting something out of it. That's all.

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

You're GUARANTEED for them not to take care of you if you don't have any.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@spreadmorelove5235]

Well said fam.

[@Futurelawyer812]

Children are also not obligated to take care of their parents in old age

[@SometimeAgo65]

@@Futurelawyer812 According to scripture you are. If your parents were good to you, raised you well, provided for you and showed you love, then why would you not want to care for your elderly parents? Honor thy mother and thy father and thy days shall be lengthened upon the earth....one of the Ten Commandments in the Hebrew bible. Have a good day 😊❤️

[@tinadavis2083]

So true😔🙏🏽

[@pinktrillness]

This DL man is upset that I won’t give him a chance. He made it clear that he’s into Trans women. Stick with what you like and leave others out of the drama. At this point is has to be ego.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Sadly, more men are getting into this trans attraction SMH

[@kimjoseph6109]

Just because you have children doesn't mean they are. Going to take care of you. Especially with this generation. They will put your axx in a nursing home and keep moving

[@Prettyrissa]

Agree

[@Noirzucar]

@@Prettyrissa many years ago in my mid 30s I was panicking because the closer you get to 40 puts you in the high risk pregnancy zone. A friend asked me why I wanted to have a child, I want the experience and someone to be there in my old age. She told me that’s no guarantee. It’s not unusual for the child to move far away, have their own responsibilities, life happens but having a child for those reasons are not reasons. Made sense to me. Made perfect sense to me.

[@Prettyrissa]

@@Noirzucar I agree. I have family members in this situation and I'm somewhat in this situation because my younger kids have disabilities and won't be able to take care of me .. so true .. it all makes sense to me too

[@jmath1978]

​@@Noirzucar Im 44 and male I want kids but nothing so far.

[@7DMEDIA1]

We had a council man get shot and killed in bed while sleeping with another man who was DL.. Killed by his DL lover...

[@WalterLeeHamptonII]

Where was this?

[@ninaj.4885]

I dated a guy that I suspected was gay. No one believed me because he was known as a ladies man but something about him was just off to me. Its like he was dating all these women to prove his masculinity but it was obvious to me that he didn't really like women. I don't just mean sex, I mean literally didn't like women. He was very abusive in his prior relationships and the moment I found this out I left the next day. We were living together. Well years later ended up going to prison because he was beating his lady in public and people tried to help her and he ended up shooting them. Nobody died but he got some years for it. He was a very muscular guy but now he's fully out of the closet since he's been released.

[@dustrepellent8986]

See, those types are the reason ppl don’t wanna intervene and help. And why we GOTTA learn to protect ourselves with lethal force. Bcuz no one’s coming to our rescue.

[@MsObsidianReloaded]

Down low men have vitriol towards women

[@MelMeltalks31]

⁠@@MsObsidianReloadedand for what ????

[@MsObsidianReloaded]

@@MelMeltalks31 you sound shooketh! 🤔🤣

[@tynaangelici3023]

My ex husband is a dl man. I have a 16 year old daughter. My intuition told me he was secretly into men. Always spending time with guys not me.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Yeah, that's big. Once you start dating seriously, friends should naturally take a back seat. They actually should be focusing on their own relationships as well. I've never understood hanging with friends regularly well into adulthood.

[@samm8250]

Ginger throwing that bone down like she rolling dice 😅

[@virgoqueen148]

I does always say if a man has multiple women he gay. He cannot find satisfaction in women he is chasing something and it’s a man. Pls ppl be real to yourself

[@FDArtistry]

Ive always felt this way. It makes no sense to continue to bounce around making kids with all these different women but not get married? Especially the ones who 1)have multiple children and 2) bash/hate women. Never made sense. If you gay just say that, right now is the best time of all time come out.

[@jmath1978]

These hoes be complaing about their babies dady and be on the dl themselves with kids.

[@fjdslkfjdsklfjdsklfj]

You and the puppies need a show! They are hilarious!

[@ericawilliamson215]

The puppies steal the show....lol

[@reece1929]

Yes! 😂

[@dollsway8816]

And Gorgeous........

[@mekalashay7111]

Thank you! Ive been saying this forever. These men be searching for something there never going to find in a woman. So yes it’s to convince themselves they are not gay.

[@robertcohen8554]

And instead of being happy and available to me as a partner, they go off being with females 24/7.

[@mekalashay7111]

@@robertcohen8554 All facts!

[@sbaby-fc3ki]

I have been hit on by a DL man before. But thank god I have the life experience to know he was a fraud. Pretending to be straight because he’s looking for a sugar momma. Unfortunately too many ladies fall prey to deceit and manipulation. Stay safe all and always trust your gut instinct,god bless❤

[@tashahall1855]

Hey Walter, there are plenty of nice assisted living facilities out here. Don’t have kids out of fear of being alone. A child can still grow up and do their own thing but best of luck.

[@mamat1213]

So true!! I saw it firsthand with my friend who’s son abandoned her when he got married and moved away… we spent every holiday and bday together, I was there thru her illness and when she passed. He showed up (didn’t help or plan) to the funeral and left early

[@tashahall1855]

@@mamat1213 its crazy having kids now a days is like russian roulette, you dont know what youre gonna get

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

Most children will not abandon their parents. Those assisted living places are Russian Roulette! In my own opinion and experience, I have never seen a good one. And the kids are the ones that called those places on their bullshyt. Parents also need to make sure they are GOOD parents and NOT their kids friends (or neglectful enemy) they want their kids to be respectful and care about them once they are old.

[@KT-pw1cq]

@@mamat1213 they say that girls are the ones who normally keep up with their older parents

[@sassyclassy40]

I think they have alot of kids to prove they are not down low 🙄🙄

[@htownqueen663]

The car key story took me out. The puppies are hilarious and so is Walter!😂😂

[@Cornbread-gi6kt]

8-10 kids! That’s all? I heard of a couple of guys who both have over 27 kids each. They just prowl around from state to state pretending to be professional athletes or lawyers or something highly significant and the young women go for the schemes. There’s a guy who has 13 kids and he doesn’t pay a penny in ‘child support.’ We tax payers pay for them.

[@zenafaye7183]

Wow! The generational curses of it all!

[@jmath1978]

​@@zenafaye7183 Yeap a whole lot of inbreeding.

[@robertleobrown5656]

@@zenafaye7183 👉🏾Yup! 👈🏾

[@niaelbryant2336]

It's sad for the children. Never know their brother or sister until they meet them at a party and have to put the puzzle of information together.

[@WalterLeeHamptonII]

So true.

[@plutostarr8605]

This sounds like my father 😢

[@aiviewsandnews]

A guy standing on the corner selling oils shot his game to me and in the first conversation he told me he had about eight children and I blocked him with no explanation. It's probably because I figured that's crazy and you can't support eight kids selling oils so what do you want with me but my money to help you support your kids and baby mamas. No thanks block next

[@awashhyzo]

😂

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

Lol. Oil kids.

[@Purplecolors88]

Does he live in the bay area In California selling oils ?

[@thetravelgoods2760]

Yooo I’ve been a gym rat before and I started paying attention to the men after this one guy was flirting with me and helping me with weights..later the gym attendant ( a lady) told me she saw the guy tongue kissing a Spanish dude in the massage room😂

[@SpiritDonkey]

So many of these men are passing along HIV as well. I feel for these women.

[@MotheRuckerlove]

Those dogs be cutting up! Lol

[@htownqueen663]

They sure do. Lol

[@mzznewyork5406]

they won't their own show ATTENTION SEEKERS 🐶 🐶

[@MrLdevelle]

The ignorance of people will say “he ain’t gay he got kids”… that means absolutely nothing

[@awckid3]

Black men as a whole get a pass on any kind of immoral or illegal behavior (and we die early , too). Black women do not.

[@zenafaye7183]

My brother is a real gifted seer and he has been said that the main reason why prostate cancer is the number one killer of black men is due to all of this reckless procreation and lack of sexual discipline. When you think about it, it makes perfect sense.

[@Cahluvca]

How? Where in America do mothers get called deadbeat or just being called a bad parent? Or to be blamed for dysfunctional behavior?

[@TASconfidential]

Children make better “beards” than wives or girlfriends do. The moment a man reveals that he has kids, he has better leverage of convincing people he’s not a homosexual. I remember I had a friend who worked for a company and the boss was a staunch homophobe. He knew that “coming out” would ruin his opportunities in this company. I told him to get pictures of his niece and nephew, frame them and place them on his desk and claim them as his own. Every few years update the pics to show that they are getting older. This man has been with this company for about 12 years now and he’s been promoted three times. The boss thinks he’s a divorced dad…. To add the icing on the cake, I told him to take the boss to a straight strip club on one of their business trips and now the boss thinks he’s one of his “boys”.

[@TASconfidential]

@SMB Girly Girl here’s the sad reality. People are naturally biased. And in many areas of business ran by White Anglo Saxon Protestant Heterosexual Men, anyone who isn’t of that ilk will reach a ceiling. Integrity only works when the environment is filled with integrity. You believe my advice was bad based on your ideals of honesty. Here’s the hard truth… Honesty doesn’t always work in a dishonest world. Now… should a man lie about his sexuality to people he is sexually intimate with? Absolutely not!! But in cases of business, should man or woman code switch to succeed in business? HELL YEAH!!!

[@TASconfidential]

@SMB Girly Girl I respect you because you truly mean well with your interpretation of how life works. Life (and people) doesn’t operate above board all the time. This is why black people passed for white in America, post-slavery, and pre-civil rights act. This is also why many homosexuals passed for straight during many of the early years as well. This country has a history where discrimination was written into the laws, literally. So telling people just to “be who they are, and everything will work out in their favor” is a bit naive. Bless your heart baby. Bless your little heart.

[@kimberlywilliams1014]

What’s he gonna do without you?😮

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

I have 5 sons and it's the BEST decision I ever made. I thank God for them everyday. They've already saved my life more times than I can count! Right before my grandmother died, the ONLY thing she was Most Proud of was her CHILDREN who blessed her with Us, the grandchildren and we all were with her to the very end, protecting her and taking care of her. I will never forget that. My grandmother played such a LARGE role in my life that I pass down to the next generations.🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️ Nothing will EVER replace family. I will hire a nurse but I still plan for my sons to oversee whomever I choose to hire to help me in my old age. And I can't wait to meet my grands, even tho I have many years before that happens.😅😅 I've seen adult children do SO MUCH to help their elderly parents, like making sure they aren't signing their life savings away in some contract to ensuring the family gets justice if something bad were to happen. It's sad to see the state of the Black community be so anti-children. Black ppl just continue to fall into the Failure Abyss and we wonder why so many of us are miserable. Bc you're living an unrealistic life and listening to everyone except your Souo, hence all the Depression and mental illness that manifests. I pray the Black Community heals. Children will NEVER be the issue. It will always be the culture of the people who came before them. God Speed!🙏🏾❤️

[@pebbles341]

Best wishes for you and your family ❤

[@made432]

5 kids. I am sure you was struggling and could not give all of them the attention they needed. poor babies

[@mojoe3012]

Gotta be hard to give enough quality time to each child. Decisions people make 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Mysteryqueen86]

Having soo many kids is not a good thing because every kid need lots of attention these days. Some gay people have kids because they don't want there family to know that they like guys so it more than a cover up. Kids are more confuse then anything these days.

[@robertcohen8554]

They're not gay, they're bisexual.

[@LMan-by6mb]

Children and women are used to mask their homosexuality. I have a buddy like that he thinks I don’t know but that’s ok.

[@truelife974]

OAN: You have the breed of women that seeks this kind of man knowing who and what he is only to have kids by him. They intentionally have children by these men because it's easier to obtain government benefits and housing without a custody battle with the father. I know a few women like this and it was definitely something I had to see to believe. It's a means of survival for them.

[@MichaelShipner]

Basically they both have their objectives met the dl man has society fooled and the mom has the benefits and we the taxpayers gets fucked 😂 your spot on 💯

[@williamchappell9858]

I'm a dad, father or Pop but I ain't no Baby Daddy I don't have kids all over the damn country

[@robind.phillips2129]

So very sad. Theas guys are non stop with what they are doing. Plus there's a possibility that those children will end up making the mistake of marrying their siblings in the future. Anyway, thanks again for sharing.

[@lovelysosweet8386]

Facts, Nick Cannon is one of them 12 children! You are soooo right!

[@e.richardson4374]

You’re too old to wrestle with a new born Walter… you can adopt me. 😂

[@mariethompson49]

As a woman, where do we place the blame on the women having these kids for these losers?

[@robperry1745]

Bankrupt them. Never let them escape their responsibilities.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

Exactly

[@Ma1nguy]

Grayson taking your car keys and putting them in his cage, that is so funny. I've had people trying to rope me into marriage, but then I've always had a mind of my own. I liked being single and didn't want the drama that often comes with marriage.

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

Drama comes whether you are single or married or just a couple. It's up to you to create an environment and surround yourself with people who are drama-free.

[@CreativePower.]

​@@truetwinflameandspirituala8211 she's talking about marriage drama

[@gabrielmoody1708]

And these feral children of these guys are why there is so much turmoil in the Black Community!

[@prettyqueendiva]

Oh you know it!

[@prettyqueendiva]

@@apollomayaimi6816 Right!

[@NycBeauty]

Nick Cann0n comes to mind. 🤔

[@starseedladybug7621]

You remind me so much of my uncle I missed him so much love your content! We are from Atl also ! Have a great day!

[@TiffanyNCompani]

Happy early Birthday Unc. Walter!🎉 Thank you for always sharing content that keeps us updated and informed about our community. Some are not ready to have this topic, but I appreciate your transparency.

[@tedbundy2268]

You mean untee

[@jerryhawthornejr.4261]

Mr.Hampton YOU ARE THE GREATEST ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zoraidita2022]

Slave days are in the past. These men are narcisstist. Poppa was a Rolling Stone, wherever he laid his head was his home..... You'd be a great Dad.

[@breezluize3282]

Eddie Murphy.

[@mzznewyork5406]

I had to come back to say I do love your channel and you are beautiful people with a solid foundation built a real man with morals and integrity; God bless🙏

[@tohneesanchez2049]

OMGosh this is so true. I’ve gotten approached by many DL men and happen to be at the gym as well. It’s scary. Being a TS it does concern me and won’t knowingly go with a DL man. His being DL is his problem not mine and I don’t wish to be part of it no matter how fine or fit he his. Btw that share is so comfy. Got the same from Costco!

[@pinkishdiamondz]

So are they approaching you believing you're a woman or knowing you're trans? I guess I'm trying to figure out if you instinctually know they're dl or are they open to you. Idk, the whole thing is so messy and for sure scary. It's hard to think about the likelihood of having dated a man that was actually gay😫

[@StephGoKrazy]

I knew a guy who had 22 kids by about 10 different women no exaggeration. And he liked men on the side

[@everretchancellor2243]

Gay people be tryin to tell women but yet we are the enemy. Cause we don't want to sleep with them. No we love u enough not to lie to you and be in yo face like we not looking at yo brother. Hell I'm very protective over my female family. And they know that.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

And I can only respect and appreciate that. That's why I watch his videos. He doesn't disrespect women and he's actually putting us on game. There's nothing like a person who is secure in themselves. They don't have to bash others to feel better.

[@claudiar1041]

Sounds like the curse of the “Nick Cannon mentality” w/o the money and fame? Some people believe in the saying, “Be Fruity- I mean, Fruitful and Multiply!” It can be a sad case because several children may suffer as a result of the decisions of these adults.

[@mahoganiel6702]

Hitting the nail on the head..... I'm paying attention because I know this is a really happening

[@tyardovdabulldht2340]

Hi, Black women should be glued to your channel.

[@larrysmith4071]

One of my friends who grew up next door to me has 12 kids by 8 or 9 different women. I don't know if it was on purpose or not.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

I mean, I believe after two.... It's definitely on purpose. I say two because, a woman can easily get pregnant if sex is too soon after the first birth. So after that, it's intentional.

[@larrysmith4071]

@@pinkishdiamondz I think it's intentional as well, but I haven't spoken to him since the 1990s (I think he had 8 kids at that time). I asked him why he kept getting women/girls pregnant and he just laughed and changed the subject. He never gave me a straight answer. I just think he didn't care and never used protection. Maybe he thought it made him more of a man or some twisted thinking like that?

[@larrysmith4071]

BTW, my friend wasn't dl or gay anything like that. He just couldn't wrap it up or keep it in his pants.

[@pinkishdiamondz]

@@larrysmith4071 As far as YOU know he wasn't l lol

[@larrysmith4071]

@@pinkishdiamondz I suppose one can't be 100% certain. Out of a group of 12 close guy friends growing up, we had 1 friend who was gay. The rest of us didn't care. There was no reason for this guy to hide it if he was.

[@TheBlackWomanosphere]

Makes me wonder about nick cannon and p diddy

[@cindychristian1700]

A former coworker of mines who's son, not on the DL as far as I knew, had a child by two different women told me she sometimes got their similar names mixed up! One didn't get offended, but the other one always got really mad about it! I asked her if he still with either one of them! She said no, he has a new girlfriend now! Why do future women keep giving him a chance to turn them into a single mother?! I'm thinking I see a pattern. Why can't they see it!😒

[@ursulatroxler7428]

I truly believe that my children’s father is bisexual .

[@Texas_Made_]

I need details 😂👀👀,why did you say that

[@Tonytonytonyyy]

What’s the 411? What have you seen?

[@Str8TalkNoCh8r]

😮😮😮what gives you the feeling? This is a safe space

[@bandit4true]

Do tell

[@adrijackson9429]

All these nosey people asking about your children's father. Chances are if you believe he's bisexual then he is. If you know the signs, and they display them it's difficult to deny.😮😮😮

[@horizontoday7874]

Oldest trick in the book. When ppl suspect your gay, a lot of guys would throw in that monkey wrench and have a kid or multiple kids! I know someone personally who had done this 💯💯💯💯💯

[@Muybonitacoco22]

I love Grayson and Ginger😂 they are so cute!

[@marvinjenkins4901]

They are his children.

[@carolyndaniels386]

You have a beautiful spirit Walter. You’ve been careful and wise overall with your life. Of course you haven’t been (perfect,whatever that means🤷🏾‍♀️😂). You still have some good Millage on you so add new things on your Bucket 🪣 List and don’t settle for mediocre in the areas of your life that you consider special. I’m 53 and will turn 54 in May 19th,2023 🎈🎊. Remember the messenger gets the message first🙏🏾. I appreciate you, the dogs 🐶 🐶and what you bring to KZbin.

[@truetwinflameandspirituala8211]

Your birthday is 1 day before my eldest son's birthday.

[@yourstruly3423]

That is so frightening I really am scared for my granddaughter living and going to school in Atlanta she’s 15 these same women these do men impregnated may have been hiv positive and infected these women and now the child is born with it grow up and go to school with my grandchild or even worse she may end up dating them when she’s older. My point is hiv is contagious and a lot of children are born with it . I watched a guy that went from sick and frail to healthy and built he has hiv/aids no one would ever know u less they know know. It’s scary I’m moving to Atlanta next year I don’t want no man none I’m straight I don’t want no woman either I just wanna live and grow older gracefully that’s it .

[@yourstruly3423]

Typo dL*

[@zenafaye7183]

I feel you but I cannot lie, this dl thing is a global problem, especially among men of color. The root of the problem is cultural homophobia that's causing these diseases mentally and eventually physically. What a lot of people fail to see is the bigger picture and that is us women will eventually pay the price because in many of these countries and cultures, gay men are literally forced to hide their sexuality, by marrying and getting with women that they really have any desire or attraction to. Those men end up resenting those women and will beat them, abuse them and like you said, go out there and hide their sexuality and engage in unprotected sex and will bring their diseases to us. Uganda criminalizing homosexuality is a perfect example of this. They already have a high rate of alcoholism and men beating and abusing women and a high HIV rate. This latest law will just create even more homophobia and sickness and broken homes. If only, they just learn to create a safe space where these men can just be free, we wouldn't have this disharmony and sickness.

[@SometimeAgo65]

Atlanta is Sodom & Gomorrah

[@xmoreno3366]

SAME here

[@7DMEDIA1]

I recall a 7th grade substitute teacher, blackman, very feminine.. I recently learned that a woman that had a grocery store front on other side of town, was his wife, and they had 7 kids together!! They were probably in there 40s.. Shocking! Was he gay, well my friend who knew their family says he was DL... One of the male children was gay, too.

[@robertcohen8554]

Guess what? Some of the other kids could be gay or bi too, but masculine if they're boys. Most gay and bi men are masculine and normal.

[@myriamwilliams]

😮

[@nothankyou1732]

It’s not just men it’s straight black women doing this to. And trust me the children suffer in these circumstances unless you can afford to be present in all the children’s life’s. Which most can not. due to having to work long hours, addiction or just don’t care. After 20 yrs of researching why yes this is a form of mental illness.

[@everretchancellor2243]

This could be true too. It can go both ways, Lesbian women just won't be honest if they feel that way. The problem on both sides is honesty and secrecy. Both engaging in this behavior causes more problems than good. But when society respects a lie more so than the truth. That's y we have these issues.

[@Hugs4you500]

I had a cocker spaniel he lived for 18 years, and he was very smart. He did not like me leaving him at home and he knew the car keys meant you were going out without him!😂

[@Ma1nguy]

Why are these women so stupid knowing the man has baggage yet they lie with him and have all these babies like alley cats and then he leaves them holding the bag. Nothing more dangerous than a desperate woman who wants a man any man...The Bible calls them "silly women" ll Timothy 3:6

[@Cahluvca]

Because they don't care either......

[@1DreaJ]

Uncle Walt you are living in your truth! Nothing comes good out of living outside of your truth. Dude is lost.

[@robertcohen8554]

He's too fem to pass as straight. His voice and mannerisms are effeminate

[@pinkishdiamondz]

That's what I can honestly respect about him. And living in his truth didn't come with bashing women. He's actually helping us.

[@SalomeBMedia]

It could be ADHD or ADD a study done in 2018 men who were diagnosed with ADD or ADD have multiple sexual partners, and have a propensity to cheat they can't keep close relationship their attention span is short in every aspect of life . Men are diagnosed more then women.

[@breemartin7014]

😂😂😂the way i just hollered! "Just want to stare at it, i love you muuuuah" 😂😂😂

[@othomile]

i have realised this , and also a lot of DL like to drink a lot and stay out partying a lot, i think these 2 have the same answer, commitment to one woman and staying with her for long durations of time is too much too long for faking, so they find an alternative that doesnt make it obvious they are not into women like that, unfortunately in the DL industry a lot of them because its a hiding thing tend to be so promiscuous

[@pinkishdiamondz]

I actually totally agree with you. Getting drunk is just an excuse to do things that they don't want to accept themselves doing while sober. I knew someone who went out 2-3 nights a week, got black out drunk, and bragged about how dudes always complimented him on his clothes. And also, somehow he seemed to always have a story about running into a trans. I honestly felt like that was his real preference SMH. But that's all from childhood trauma. Just sickening.

[@shawnhill946]

I love those marble floors. Nice

[@nyyt854tufc]

Blackmen acts like its ok to be irresponsible 😡

[@HisaLight2mypath]

I could understand it because even if you're gay I guess you can sleep with a woman ,but that may not be your heart's desire ,so you will still be gay also. Whatever's in your heart is what you always go for. . But you can do other things on the side, So knowing this everybody just protect your sexual health.

[@tamekawhitaker8459]

Ewwww

[@robertcohen8554]

It's being bisexual, but primarily gay.

[@marvinjenkins4901]

Walter, some of these guys have all these kids with the plan of the mom getting aid from the state/Feds. That is the mindset of some of these people. Some of women/girls are no different. Some of these women/girls will lay with the first person who tells them they are cute, fine, nice hair do, etc. In the South and rural towns, it is terrible. Perhaps due to the low numbers of men or the quality of men, they will lay with just about anyone including distance relatives. Terrible but true.

[@vaylen20]

You’re so right Walter. My friend from high schools dad is dl. He and I have ran into each other at the club so many times and even slept together multiple times (I was young and dumb). He’s still married to her mom and they have 6 kids all are grown now. So he could divorce her but he hasn’t and he still messages me.

[@alicia_nicole]

Whoa! 😮😮🤨

[@imo.124]

Wow😳👀

[@taliayou4775]

I had to come back to comment because 😮 But did you ever say anything to the friend about her Dad?

[@vaylen20]

@@taliayou4775 No, I never said anything to her. I kept his secret, and to this day even after she started getting suspicious, I deny it.

[@imo.124]

@@vaylen20 why deny? Why not tell her? Why the secrets? I'm so curious. She probably has a gut instinct.

[@nicholettematelyan1596]

I always stayed away from men who had kids. I didn't want the drama. I tried it twice. And nope not for me. But my luck meet a bi guy. Who lies like crazy. He said he's not bi. But had a trans boyfriend. Would been nice to know he was bi. I'm not into bimen transsexual or what ever. But his brother has 9 kids from different woman. The brother is sick. Don't even have a clue it costs mentally emotionally financially on everyone. There are condoms birth control. People like him should not been able have kids period. And men if your gay,bi,trans. I'm not for you.

[@cthompson8509]

The other day you was talking about renewing yo car registration. That hit home since I gotta do that now ✌ 😂😂😂😂

[@Trendolyn78]

Me too I forgot 😅😅😅