Mariam Musa Talks Girls Trips, Jealous Friends And Strict Parents!

[@whatsthemotive]

As a Christian woman I have to say this is the best episode yet 😂😂😂😂

[@amyafrakomah]

Literally! I loved it!

[@adebisiadenola3129]

Loving the vulnerability of Mariam

[@AdelaideAnn]

Joyce this all brown look is giving 😍😍😍

[@rebeccaasare7021]

we actually need Joyce's pastor for a CT sitdown

[@kemiesther2971]

Yesssss it would be so lit

[@Roon12368]

Agreed

[@remm4321]

Yes bring him on

[@SB-dz3bt]

I love the tangents, it’s a more natural flow of the convo. I actually dislike when you cut the convo to get back on track sometimes lol

[@MyHonest123]

Same here

[@Kosiso-by1mc]

Same

[@Seblirose]

Well done Maz on your journey to Christianity ✝️ love this ❤️

[@TheeTage]

"This is cocktails and takeaways. This is not mountain of fire ministries." 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

[@whatsthemotive]

Lmaoooooooooooo

[@davidsimmons654]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Vera-z8d5y]

Finished me😂😂😂😂😂

[@RachaelSalami]

MJ you're definitely a comedian 😂😂😂 it's how you used davidos Song to describe her breast for me💔😂😂

[@RachelEye]

Mountain on fire 😅

[@abbeydimba116]

You can see Mariam asking God to answer the questions / for guidance before she says anything and I love it

[@bangibabs]

Totally agree with leaving people’s messages on read but not responding. It gives “I don’t have time for you” which is hurtful especially to people you consider dear to you. It’s different if you have not seen the message but it’s rude to just ignore someone’s text, busy or not. Even a short text saying “cannot talk now but will get back to you soon” is better than being ignored.

[@itsmariammusa]

Love you sis 😭❤️❤️

[@yolishi7090]

You’re just so sweet girl i wanna be your friend so bad😭

[@Naijandoll]

I’m loving this journey you’re on with God! It’s really helping me on mine🫶🏽❤️🥰

[@SukieDevereux]

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[@funnybear00]

I related sooooooo much to Miriam's friendship breakup story and that being what led her to get closer to God. Like word for word, bar for bar happened to me!!! I wish her all the best. It gets better and it gets easier!!! And your discernment of people gets stronger!

[@amyafrakomah]

Me too! I was sitting here like is she reading my life like a book

[@jampelmk9044]

Joyce!!! And Mariam! Hands down another amazing episode! As baby Christian who’s now trying to be mindful of the type of content I consume on a daily basis, I’m so grateful that this was such a tasteful and vulnerable episode filled with so much laughter and great energy! And loving Mariam on this new journey of her life as she begins to get closer to the Lord, she just radiates with this amazing peaceful, loving aura as per usual but you can definitely see the transformation and it’s so beautiful to see🤍🤍

[@uglypurpleshiit]

God bless you and lead you trough your journey to Him, much love ❤️

[@constancesdiary]

Mariam is amazing 🤍 Genuinely such a sweetheart & I pray the years ahead of her a full of blessings 🙏🏾

[@whatsthemotive]

"me that’s shaking my bum where will I go" I’m crying real tears 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@moyoetta7722]

Same gurl 😭

[@loisoseyeme]

I just love Mariam, she is such a sweet soul, bless her ❤

[@christabellatoao]

I love tangents, it encourages the convo to flow naturally, plus the best parts are derived from them.

[@damillionallure]

The Tangents are so important we love it..... and I have fallen in love with Maz more ....I am so happy about your Christainity journey. I pray we all finish well❤❤❤❤

[@journeywithmari6852]

I’ve been watching your shows for the past week. You are so amazing. I love how you share your relationship with God. Those segments really hit home because I’m currently trying to know God for myself 🥲. This is your calling! I will be here watching you FLOURISH 💕

[@aminazebra]

Woww the accountability piece was SUCH a good conversation I definitely needed to hear that 🙌🏽

[@sukainakey]

Im crying Joyce is so cheeky for making Mariam think she was right

[@gugulethukunene8266]

Glad you’re realising this now Miriam .Im a big auntie who still struggles with reacting to situations

[@hisirihwyd]

One thing Mariam has to understand, sex is not created solely for reproduction, it’s created for two people in union to thoroughly enjoy. However they like, as long as it’s between them two.

[@sh_00412]

Word

[@olap408]

That part had me 🤔 cause there's a whole book in the Bible that celebrates sexual longing 😂 procreation is important but God created pleasure too.

[@AlisonDilaurentiss]

Exactly! However, I agree with her on the no Anal thing. As sodomy is mentioned in the bible as being a bad thing

[@Feefs18]

Exactly. The other thing is the misunderstanding on anal/sodomy. A lot of Christian culture has mischaracterized the story of sodom & gomorrah.

[@missNCW]

Yes to TANGENTS!!! That’s how real conversations happen! Real convos don’t stick to the topic

[@V3nus.1n.L3O]

This was such a surprisingly healing episode. Friendship break-ups aren’t discussed that much. You gals showed such beautiful vulnerability discussing your experiences and it’s so inspiring to see how you have elevated and have genuine sisterhood. Thank you for calling out toxicity women friendships, its powerful in changing what is considered acceptable.

[@cat.oii23]

Love the tangents, makes the conversation more organic

[@OyindaAkinyanju]

This is going into my top 5 favourite episodes of Cocktails and Takeaways.

[@mayadaramy7704]

Joyce please bring your pastor on C&T please 🙏🏾

[@Michelle-fr1fw]

I like the tangents. That’s the best convo because ppl open up n share personal experiences!!!

[@MimiMoments]

Wow Joyce PHEW. I relate to you much it’s shocking. Me to a T when it comes to friendships. Loyal to a fault but I’ve learned to adjust the energy for those who are deserving of it.

[@throughjasmineslens]

i love healthy friendships and if i spot one bad person i’m outttttt i no dey waste time

[@poeticwalrus5405]

"It's a pride thing" I'm right there with you. Seriously having to work on asking for help

[@destinye]

Please bring your pastor oo

[@elley_inc4848]

this was sooooo refreshing! Thank you Mariam for having the courage to still speak about God even though you consider yourself a baby Christian, in this upside down culture and I wish you so much peace in your salvation journey ♥

[@constancesdiary]

Joyces explanation of friendships 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@itssesie]

I loveee the tangents it makes the convo go so smoothly

[@lfb7365]

Particularly loved this episode, big up to you and Mariam

[@Pamee9732]

One of the biggest challenges i face is to be a girls girl. This topic of conversation on the demented mindset that most women have against other women validates everything i have been saying for the last 10+ years. 😅

[@faithlove2278]

I really felt this episode and it made me laugh & reflect on my life & God at the same time ❤

[@ifebrown5565]

Honestly you make my day every time you post❣️

[@Shannellestyles]

on the topic of sex and God. I feel like christians forget that sex was God's idea! we're so tied up in performatively being morally upstanding. Your love and union has been blessed by God he has given and created the safe space for your guys to be intimate and manifest that love through the act of creation or sex if you like. God want's your pleasure, God wants your desires fulfilled and the freedom to do these things in God's love comes from sanctifying the relationship through Gods word. Standing before him and saying we are one. At that phase to me anything we do in our initmate moments is God centred! He is always there even when you laid on your back sisters! God doesn't know shame, humans do and I think that keeps us trapped in these ways of thinking. I promise you all God wants your pleasure, he just wants it in his glory! that is it.

[@kaykay6314]

bring the pastor!! PLEASE

[@domgee6014]

I really love madame joyce and her episodes. I just thought I'd binge and get into her properly because she is unmatched honestly 💅🏽✨️

[@jojofilippa]

Joyce is honestly such a joyyy to watch. I love this podcast 🥳

[@alwayssmiling2010]

From what I've learned about biblical sex, the guardrails is that its not something that defiles your spouse, that they don't want to do and is unnatural. Pastor Kingsley and Mildred have a channel that's about biblical sexuality and they answer questions there. God created sex and the pleasure that people have to bring children and to also help couples be more intimate so he definitely wants enjoyment in it (in marriage)

[@alwayssmiling2010]

@maamesbooks I think that’s where the whole dignity of your spouse has to be taken into account, like if your sexual acts are defiling someone and about your partner being an object of some fantasy that’s demeaning, that’s a no.

[@Wadzizoe]

@maamesbooksBDSM doesn’t come from God I honestly think it stems from trauma or porn which both of those things aren’t of love or goodness.

[@sithandinkosi1242]

Please we want the pastor on the show

[@Pappiah]

we love the tangents. as long ad you come back- we goodie

[@itsmimifaith]

i know having a conversation with Mariam is such an experience i hope to experience that one day❤

[@zee6252]

Deffo about Nella. She seems toxic and has a victim mentality. You deserve the world Maz, pure soul xx

[@KA-iw9rf]

What happened with her and nella?

[@Uh2909x]

They don’t follow each other as well

[@user-yz1lb3cm7z]

We all saw a Nella’s behaviour on ima celeb….zero self awareness

[@_ngisha]

I don't believe Nella has victim mentally

[@cleabric3706]

This was a great episode ❤ I love the tangents during Win or Bin

[@sefakorbinah2224]

I’m with Musa…I interpreted the mum the same way she did😂

[@Q................]

Tangets are good MJ.. don't want to miss out on ish like "we jus ordinary peopled"😩😂😂😂❤

[@Criii.art_]

I wanna know who created the animated intro , it’s so cool ❤

[@praisejoseph...6502]

Loving the Christian content ❤

[@Torivy]

OGs already knew Mariam’s holiday story with the unhinged add on friend 😂😂 and adeola & nella

[@christschild3096]

This is such a good show. I don’t usually give shows a like but this definitely gets a like! I’m a fan!

[@jazzykayonbroadway]

I just love a black woman in a constellation of browns! Gorgeous. Great convo!

[@faithmakyao9672]

Please bring your Pastor on the show Joyce

[@melissaaleonaaxx]

We want your Pastor on the show!

[@Kosiso-by1mc]

I think I was that friend that wanted to be replied immediately, like always. But when I saw people actually ignored you till they were ready to reply, I just joined the crowd, I’m sorry, Like I have things to do too. And I stopped being the first to reach out🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ibukunodujoko5245]

please bring your pastor on .. please .. we need him to answer these questions ..

[@abbeydimba116]

I just love Mariam mannn, you two make me wheeze !!

[@alishiabreland3305]

Joyce we love the tangents!!

[@lifewithlushomo6010]

We need the pastor…. Sooon!

[@traceysutherland1055]

Yes it would be good to have your Pastor on. It just gives an interesting and different dynamic. I Love your shows Joyce, my daughter got me onto you 😂😂😂😂

[@EarthbornNaturals-eb5tg]

Love the tangents.. i feel like it makes the show 😅

[@ceoofhenjoyment]

Loving Christian Mariam😂😂 Your relationship with God will be your biggest saviour! Let me tell you! There is nobody that will be there for you like God will!! Honestly, I had 2 major friendship heart breaks and my goodness prayer and my other Christian friends helped me heal!

[@VictorO-w3m]

YOU MUST BRING THAT PASTOR ON!!!!

[@aliciakayipu9935]

Not the fluffy handcuffs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kristageorge5811]

So enjoyed this convo :)!

[@JulszTymmReviews]

Friendship heart breaks are the absolute worst!!! Especially when your pregnant and they begin to move sideways 😞😞😞😞😞😞

[@feliciaojo1452]

I love Mariam soo much, she's such a girl.. Watched her episode with ash where she was like "she is a yellow" read the book and I can really see it.

[@MariyumKay]

Loved this episode! Mariam is so funny talking about fluffy handcuffs being okay and not titanium 😭😂

[@Nicolelovesdonuts]

the fluffy hand cuffs floored me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ivana5648]

joyce please bring your pastorrrr

[@ruthiiee.__3390]

We love Mariam❤❤❤

[@Pappiah]

please bring pastor on!❤

[@aminabouba9730]

The strict parent's raising liars is too true. I have strict parents and boy the way you gotta lie to get your freedom isn't funny. It took friends calling me out to understand that i couldn't go into adulthood as a pathological liar. Thank god i was g checked early like in secondary school so, it was something i could begin unlearning. It's something i'm still working on till this day but, for the love of god strict parenting to the point where it's suffocating and restricting your kids needs to stop!

[@vee99981]

Out here looking for “holy pink fluffy cuffs” 😂Another amazing episode with a Badt Girlie 👏👏👏

[@joyhilary1664]

I love the new animated intro’s

[@happinessezekiel6880]

Truly the best episode !!!

[@Tillyah]

In are you smart when Mariam said 40 states and she said the Holy Spirit helped her - I had to pause to laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Naijandoll]

I love the tangents!

[@khanyisachauke7466]

Mariam, I agree with you love. Home is always the best ☺️

[@ReeMatthias]

Wow this oneeeeee is the one loved every second of this episode

[@GoldenestLady]

Keep the tangents! & u should consider bringing your pastor

[@steph03_]

We want your pastor! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@rabianaabba]

I’m so curious if they’re still friends w nella

[@doubleo2720]

Who did she fall out with? Anyone we know?

[@faithmakyao9672]

That mother situation, i thought the exact same thing as Mariam

[@kassbrown7199]

“He’s sitting there single watching the fresh and fit podcast” 🤣🤣

[@evelynnnabuife3907]

I love tangents. Very organic ❤

[@DarkSuSue]

Keep doing the tangents!!!

[@remm4321]

BRING YOUR PASTOR ON!!

[@zara_2403]

LOVED this episode

[@mandytatenda]

Congratulations Mariam on your Christian journey🤗

[@jackiee6204]

"who was your favourite artist before this phase" can christianity not be a phase?? can it be taken serious for once??

[@mammanuelladubin7111]

Bring the pastor!!

[@sanelisolupahla]

that question is straightforward when we say highest we talking up babes so its obviously a mountain😂😂

[@pamelan5408]

We love the tangents Joyce 🤣🤣💖

[@olwethunomvete4353]

Lolll “don’t forget to subscribe” is back 😆 love it