“If you free yourself financially, you can be fully present to your purpose on the planet”! 🙌🏼 precisely!
@archananathuk2 жыл бұрын
What is holding me back is. the belief that I am not smart enough to take care of my money issues
@jakepark12553 жыл бұрын
Money beliefs that have been holding me back: "Money is scarce." "That's expensive." When I spend money, I will start to look at it as a transaction of value. I am giving money in order to receive something that I value. I will remind myself every day that I am valuable and abundant. I attract money into my life because I add an abundance of value to the world and the people around me! Thank you for sharing this knowledge and encouragement!
@Shanepaullifecoaching8 жыл бұрын
"No one will value you more, than you value yourself." Powerful quote. Great information Marie and Kate. Thanks.
@nanu19808 жыл бұрын
It is a powerful quote, however, it is not correct. Fortunately, there are people who see value in others and their contributions. And there CAN be people who value someone more than they value themselves. And I'm sure if you think about it, you've heard or whitnessed those stories, too. Yes, there might not be man of them. And most of the time its our close friends and relatives. But even "out in the world" there can be strangers, who value what you have to offer. It's just that you shouldn't rely on these few people to show up. But in my opinion, it's not good to cement the believe that those people can't or won't exist at all. When you meet one of these, be open and grateful.
@stevo7288228 жыл бұрын
Just sounds like a load of crap to me.
@rockyp39174 жыл бұрын
It's not their original quote either
@adhdunshackled Жыл бұрын
You posted this 9 years ago and it’s the message and actionable items I needed today in 2023. Thank you Marie and Kate!
@TeamForleo Жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it Erin! :) May this start and continue a journey of financial abundance. 💗 - Monauar, Team Forleo
@adalibmadrina7 жыл бұрын
I love this!!!! I'm going to 1. start checking my bank account balance every day and practice gratitude for three things of value in my life, and 2. think of myself as having worth and adding value to others' lives.
@AnneHeaton11 жыл бұрын
The bad money belief is this: If you are a good person, money will just come to you and you don't actually have to be responsible about it or pursue it in any way. The change I could make: Stop believing that because it's obviously not true because there are so many good, beautiful, wonderful people who don't have money.
@N1mro86 жыл бұрын
What kind of person are you, if you don't take any responsibility. Does not sound like a good person... but what is good ;)?
@fayepatrice16726 жыл бұрын
N1mro8 There are many kind people who do a lot for others that are struggling financially. And many mean, selfish people that are wealthy. Money doesn’t make you a better person.
@N1mro86 жыл бұрын
@@fayepatrice1672 I was not talking about money at all ;).
@fayepatrice16726 жыл бұрын
Not taking responsibility about trying to make more money is not about money?
@N1mro86 жыл бұрын
@@fayepatrice1672 Not taking responsibility in any sense, not only money.
@JoeKawano10 жыл бұрын
“I will become more prosperous to the degree that I add value to someone's life.”
@ralfphilipp23964 жыл бұрын
Right! Living is giving
@alaiaadam57676 жыл бұрын
First time watching, tremendous personality and voice Marie ✨💋🌹✨ 07:25mins onwards 1) having the mentality that someone will save you financially... 😒 2) "I'm not good with money" 08:40 Solution: check ur balance, pay attention, make a budget, give gratitude. 3) I'm not _____ enough 😑 You are more than enough Solution: journal 📓3 things you value about urself and how u added value in someone's life that particular day 💥
@phyliciajoykloes5 жыл бұрын
"Seeing money as a means of value exchange" is a sentence that stuck with me. Good talk.
@danishsiddiq9413 жыл бұрын
Thats what it is baby.
@phyliciajoykloes3 жыл бұрын
@@danishsiddiq941 True!
@sarajubati Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! This was a powerful interview. For me, a money limiting belief I have is related to how life is supposed to be: "life is about survival", so I am noticing that I end up having just enough to keep moving, but honestly, it is not enough. I am starting to change my habits now :)
@TeamForleo Жыл бұрын
We're so proud of you, Saraj! We know you've got this, and we're sending you all the love and support as you "keep moving" - you've got the secret sauce right there. 💪💖
@fliutrustee942310 жыл бұрын
Wow..."3 things you value yourself and 3 things you add value to somebody that day"...write them in your journal...that is such a revelation. i started writing Daily Journal because of my Dad's passing last months when he wrote on 12/17/2015 in his journal "i thank my son (me) whom took me to happy birthday breakfast this morning". i wrote only about whatz up what's happenning but never about others or people i add value to...
@amberts1804 жыл бұрын
hiding my "financial chaos" resonates 11:37 changed my life years ago. I've seriously drastically changed the way I look at money and I just bought a house with a 794 credit score. Thanks!
@TheM0desta7 жыл бұрын
My negative money belief is that I don't think I have enough money to grow a successful business. The way I've been tackling it is writing a list of every single thing I can do to improve my money with the finances that I do have. Thanks for this video, it gave me a new perspective!
@beautyqueen11511 жыл бұрын
Something that's been holding me back is the belief that money is hard to get and there isn't much of it. Thanks to these videos I'm opening up my mind and realizing money is only as hard to get as I make it. I'm reminding myself that it actually ISNT hard to get and there is PLENTY to go around. Thanks guys!
@Pixsyl9 жыл бұрын
I always have this fear deep inside of me when it comes to looking at my bank account or looking at the amount of debt I owe due to school. When I look at my bank account I right away compare it to the amount of debt I owe crumbling inside I start to think 'I will never get through this debt' or 'I need more money to even make a dent in my debt and still be happy doing things I love to do in life'. This video has changed the way I think and I have made my first financial budget planning out how I can control my debt and still be who I am and do what I love!!! Thank you for your guidance and amazing conversations!!!!!!
@rowanwoolsey31844 жыл бұрын
I'm going to watch this every morning this week. So many truths and golden nuggets.
@kateosborn99049 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOSH, THIS VIDEO COMPLETELY SPOKE LIFE RIGHT INTO ME!!!!! It is literally one of those videos where my eyes and ears completely perked up, even though I do not share the same money beliefs discussed on this video, what Kate Northrup was saying was COMPLETLEY what I needed to hear today, so thank you for creating this video and interviewing her!!!!
@nat_ollivier6 жыл бұрын
The money belief I had that was holding me back, was to think that working in something other than my passion was a detriment to my freedom. And then I realised that only working in my passion didn’t give me any freedom, because I had no money to enjoy my life and being free... For many of us, make money from our talents take many years, and now I’m finally manifesting that abundance, but also I had to get a normal job a few days a week. I feel happy to receive money from multiple areas!! I had to change the perception freedom/work to be able to start receiving money and abundance to my life... It was such an amazing shift!!
@lenayoung14976 жыл бұрын
Greetings Marie, just discovered your channel 18 minute ago, heartfelt topic that needed to be spoken about. This discussion definitely pierced through some stone-wall ideals I've somehow carried with me without awareness. The disguised for me was that those I'v deemed as financial stable had someone to help them along the way! My resolve to the matter is, I desire a better story then suffering without a cause. We all go through challenges BECAUSE we are advancing to a better version of ourselves. You BOTH have been enlightening the process. Thanks
@ML-yr9nr10 жыл бұрын
And I loved how Kate talked about spending $ on workshops. Buying "spiritual" growth products is basically the same as buying designer clothes, just camouflaging it
@LizSloanTV11 жыл бұрын
My limiting money belief is that someone else has to qualify you (or you have to have another degree etc) before you can ask for more money or increase your abundance. I think Kate's last tip about recording how you add value will be an awesome way to smash that belief on its ass!
@Ladystardragon6 жыл бұрын
I have been working on changing this thing I say all the time... "I'm not a lucky person." Though I have always held that I make my own luck... Just saying out loud that I'm not a lucky person seems to be a terrible thing that stands in my way. I feel this is part of the "Not being enough" concept that I do know plagues me. So there it is I AM A LUCKY PERSON, because I am enough, I am smart enough, I am strong enough,I am committed enough, and I really deserve good things... AND I DO make my own LUCK!!
@susanlerner31129 жыл бұрын
I just went through my debts and totalled them up, also my monthly expenses. One of my negative feelings about having money is my dad was stressed and sick all the time because of his business, and ended up retiring early. I love the idea of writing down 3 things I value in myself and I can't remember the other part.
@JaKamps11 жыл бұрын
One belief that's holding me back, "One can't make a living doing what one likes to do, unless you're extremely lucky" I could try (& look into it)
@christinereganlake76444 жыл бұрын
Jake I have a free test you can take if you'd like it will give you a glimpse into some of your top money blocks. Let me know ifyou want me to send it to you.
@angelahutchinson96182 жыл бұрын
My belief is always "its not enough!" "This amount won't cover everything I want" It's time to change this. I thank every cent that comes my way because it ALL adds up!
@boutmyfathersbizness46122 жыл бұрын
I love how these are small & doable tasks that can really make a huge difference other than BIG tasks that can feel way too overwhelming to start off with.
@Integra376 жыл бұрын
If we're not seeing our worth, we're not going to get the value and exchange for that- very true quote.
@Yay_be6 жыл бұрын
Lillie Thomas II 😍😍😍😍😍😍💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑👑
@thejster6 жыл бұрын
Kate Northrup Is Officially My Spirit Animal. That Is Why I Chose Financial Advising.
@PatriciaBright11 жыл бұрын
Love this channel Marie!
@phaedrabrotherton85646 жыл бұрын
Patricia Bright xifzz
@remysanil20036 жыл бұрын
I truly loved watching your video Marie with your guest Kate.I am quite good at earning money but poor in saving.From today I am going to change this belief and start making affirmations that I am a saver.I will start looking at my bank account everyday ,to spend less than I save.Thank you so much Marie.Lots of love and prayers. (Remy from Mumbai India)
@ArtbyNa11 жыл бұрын
"Wanting money is a shame. Wanting money is shallow." That's been holding me back. Thank you for your videos. I'm learning to building a good relationship with money. And learning to respect money.
@Madi432111 жыл бұрын
we don't turn on our full potential because we think someone else will take care of it...good stuff.
@artforartssake11815 жыл бұрын
I'd been avoiding checking my business account....I watched this and checked it....extra unexpected money had gone in....now I check it every day thanks!
@Yay_be6 жыл бұрын
What holds me back is the belief that I am not wanted not supported not safe not free... So journal out 21 days Freedom here I come 💔💜💖💟
@stephaniebelenets26663 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this into words that brought a tear to my eyes when I felt it also. The first thing to fix a problem is to know what the problem is. May we all realize how very valuable we are.
@melj.404 жыл бұрын
Before listening, I wasn't sure I had any of these counter-productive beliefs but I do. I identified with several of them. Great tips. Thank you! Already shared with BFFs.
@marymartin826111 жыл бұрын
Checking my bank balance daily and taking responsibility were 2 great tips. I have handed over my money power, but it is not a safe place to be as I once thought. Thanks guys, will start the diary
@theMusicFairy18 жыл бұрын
Amazing, I grew up a coptic orthodox christian and they keep on saying "the love of money is the root of all evil" now I understand it doesn't literally mean that way, and that it means loving money for selfish unhealthy reasons is the root of all evil. As for money and spirituality was still kind of a limiting belief to me because again I grew up in an environment that denies anything materialistic and life joys and in the same time says it's okay to go after getting better financially and it caused me confusion to be honest, but as Kate said I'm going to start seeing money as a way of adding value now. Thanks Marie and Kate :)
@thegratefulpantry11 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Profoundly grateful for this episode. One money belief holding me back is my past. I am from a small town of poverty, welfare, and breeding like wild fire. Although I haven't lived there for almost 18 years and have found my purpose I am still holding myself back from earning income. Logically I know that I am not my past, I have cut chords in meditations, yet still when it comes to connecting to receiving money I my throat chakra swells and feel like I'm swallowing a rock. You are giving me tools to begin healing a painful money past and began living in the value of my potential and values. Just by watching you two do it!
@BellaSpasia11 жыл бұрын
First off, I've stumbled across your site by accident. I cannot express how lucky I am to do so! Your videos and blogs are helping me to look at myself honestly. Though uncomfortable most of the time, it is a task I must do to not only recognize issues I face or don't face, but to also make the necessary steps to change myself and my future. Thank you Marie! In response to your video, "Change Your Money Beliefs", I feel that I am not smart enough to do anything. I appreciate the suggestions made by Kate Northrup in keeping a value journal and writing three things that I value about myself, or the value I add to others' lives. With this, I look forward to gaining the confidence to move forward and making bigger steps towards my goals. A side note, I'll be watching your videos and reading your blogs daily. It really helps me to face my fears and to discredit the lies I tell myself. Once again, thank you, thank you, thank you!
@Funkbrenna11 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing not just on the money side of it but in valuing and empowering yourself to think better. Next semester I am eligible for internships but I keep looking at companies and think I am not good enough to apply or they'll shoot me down. This has been another big eye opener for me! Thanks again Marie!
@amyski475 жыл бұрын
My belief that holds me back is that I will never know enough about money to start doing the smart things with it, paying off debt, investing. I have started to read financial books and listen to Marie's videos and trying to not be so afraid of educating myself about money.
@tikavitalia2 жыл бұрын
A belief that keep holding me back is "you're going to have a huge unhappiness feeling and mental pressure when you have a lot of money" coz I saw many ppl around me was unhappy even when they have a load of money. And I'm trying to relearn about living in abundance including watching this. Coz actually I have a lot to feel abundance for, but lately, i seems forget about it. And I really think that I'm not living my life and not being myself because I was trapped with my financial situation right now. Thanks for this topic that you brought up, this really help me to understand better of respecting the value of myself
@stephcre88 жыл бұрын
My re-occurring thought is- "There's not enough. I don't have enough. It's going to run out, its not going to last."
@temporarythoughts8 жыл бұрын
Steph Gallo ask yourself, how much would be enough? then work on it. eveything is transient - the bad thoughts as well. good luck ;)
@stephcre88 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@AMarie_Mooch7 жыл бұрын
yeah, those are the thoughts to let go of...let just pass through your mind and then counter with the complete opposite thoughts until the opposite thoughts are the ones that pop up more in your mind. If you worry about those things and think those thoughts, you can only continually attract the same things you think. Hope in the past 10 mos. you've found a way to think different and attract differently. If not, employ the method above immediately and change your life. Lack is a lie. the energy of life is abundance until we are born into a life where people have poverty mentality and/or we have a poverty mentality. We can have an abundant mentality and find that things flow into our life that have less to do with money and more to do with 'having everything we need and want in abundance'.
@mmag11804 жыл бұрын
Me!! This and the fear/belief that I can't make money
@bettysheppard2747 жыл бұрын
speaking of loving yourself....I have a great story. My nephew asked his 6 year old son why he is so happy ALL the time. His response: "Because I love myself" At 6 years old, he's got it figured out already!
@lauvaber56297 жыл бұрын
Betty Sheppard It is great how kids offer more wisdom than what we give them credit for, thanks for sharing this, you made me smile (:
@marieforleo7 жыл бұрын
This is gold! That little boy has a lot to teach us all. - Jillian, Team Forleo
@euginaoliberty6 жыл бұрын
I have had 2 beliefs: Who's got the money is the one to blame and the other one is that I was scared of money: what to do about it- keep shining and offering the value to my people!!
@debdo196010 жыл бұрын
Watching videos like these have made me aware of where I have come up with my beliefs and how to banish them. I've made strides in this past year and everything you have discussed here is changing EVERYTHING in my life for the better. I am well on my way to MORE success. I am healthier which is on the top of my list of abundance. My relationships are getting fine tuned in a better way. I am already a business woman and the wealth and good business decisions are rising......the sky is the limit :) I love your videos....thanx for such wonderful tools and insight....I am truly grateful :)
@paulan85457 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of looking at my accounts and feeling abundance! And telling myself I AM GOOD with money, especially my retirement accounts.
@johanna13856 жыл бұрын
There used to be this belief of not being enough, of being worthless. I've become a long way with that but that beautiful practice Kate was talking about (writing down three things that one has done well that day) is something I'm totally going to try out. I can already feel how powerful that's going to be. Thank you for this video, it was really helpful to me. Love and greetings from Finland
@agametedua8 жыл бұрын
1: That I am not good, skilled, or at the same level as the people that make enough money ("enough") according to my own standards. Like money was somehow out of my reach. But this value exchange just shifted my perspective. I feel like a click was made in my heart and head. 2: Well the first action would be to sign up on a platform to put my art-work out there and basically offer value to the world. I will also continue with some classes to increase my value.
@dianadahanovi86114 жыл бұрын
Love you both. Thank you for these points. I know my ‘mantra’ is I need ($20,000) to do what I need to do to become successful. Whatever amount of money I determine I NEED to have to (1) become successful, (2) start the road to success (3) extract myself from an abusive environment is ALWAYS 100x more than I have... If I BELIEVE the universe will support me in my steps toward my goals, that could be the action I could take... Move forward (somehow) as if ..
@darlenesheppard198611 жыл бұрын
I think this is my absolute fave MarieTV video! I'm pretty sure what's holding me back from fulfilling my best potential is the fact that I'm afraid of not having money and thinking I'm not good with money at the same time. Money is always a topic I swerve around or try to think about indirectly. I've never been in a place of financial freedom (mentally or otherwise) so a constant fear and apprehension lurks around.
@reginasheu8411 Жыл бұрын
My limiting belief: I am not smart/clever enough to make a lot of money or enjoy wealth. (one of the limiting phrases that Kate mentioned in the video!) And the most ironic part of this is that I have held jobs where my sales record is the highest in the company! But my upbringing and going back to my family business and falling back into our old family roles and dynamics has been killing my self-esteem. I am taking action now from Marie's videos to own my self-worth, to believe that I can make good money and eventually have wealth, and to say bye bye to my family business and be bold enough to pursue my own business.
@clashofthetitans0311 жыл бұрын
One belief that has held me back is a scarcity mentality e.g there's not enough money/everything is expensive. One way I can improve my money beliefs is being grateful for what I do have and realizing the value of my non monetary goods such as my talents and my resources
@fayepatrice16726 жыл бұрын
My negative belief is that pursuing more money will take away the little bit of peace I have managed to find exactly where I am. More money means more stress, more responsibility, less family time and less happiness at this point in time. I am dealing with it by thinking of the ways that money will add to my life and recognizing that I will still have free time when I am earning more.
@elizabethlafontant42636 жыл бұрын
I really love the breakdown of transaction. Money is just an exchange of value. It is a very obvious point but I believe I'm speaking for many when I say that is easy to forget. I vow to try to always remember to recognize my worth and check my bank account balance everyday and give gratitude for ways my life is abundant. Thank you!
@MarjjorieDawes3 жыл бұрын
My mindset has never kept me "broke" - but I'm 100% sure I have an artificial ceiling on me. I grew up middle class and I subconsciously have been told from birth that money is shameful, and you're evil if you have it.
@laliday7 жыл бұрын
'saving' and being cheap is the belief that was holding me back. When I was younger I didn't invest in outings with my friends enough and travels. Because of that I didn't have friends to help when I needed it. Money is just a tool. experience and social network is just as valuable.
@NorjaVanderelst11 жыл бұрын
Great interview. It's true that money flows where you pay attention...so pay attention to your money, be grateful and it gives room to attract it... THANK YOU for the reminder! I am working on this...
@SuperDubess5 жыл бұрын
Wasn't my belief to begin with but one I've been told by my family (as recent as a year ago & I'm over 50 - damn, give it a rest already!) is that I am bad with money, always have been, always will be. Brings up such sadness. I am trying to move past it but honestly, have no idea. I tap, meditate & try to think positively.
@KHIRALine11 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I will try the gratitude technique. One of the beliefs I have is that I'm not meant to have the wealth and success I desire. I just feel like I keep trying and nothing pans out. But I will work on changing that. I'm not sure what action I can take but I'll start with being grateful for what I have every day.
@JouelletteFrenchCoaching5 жыл бұрын
I love this; every time I pay attention to finances regularly, my income increases. But I thought that I have to look at my full balance sheet and it is a bit overwhelming. But looking in my checking and savings accounts as well as my credit card, it's so much easier to do, and I will set a daily alarm to do so. A huge thank you!! xoxo
@streamoflifemassage9 жыл бұрын
Be real and truthful and learn to be better with money, wow! love this!
@mariancrole7 жыл бұрын
my money belief is: to receive money i have to pay money first. One tion i can take, that demonstrate i am ready for a new level of abundance.... mh write a bill i have to send to a client and add a new offer :-) Thank you for your video, loved it!
@ThuLe-eh1xe4 жыл бұрын
I love these women. Not only they talk about money, they akso talk about virtues. They are classy, polite, relaxed. I like that. What is inside manifests outside. That is the fruit of right spirit. Money without love, humility, forgiveness, peace, generosity, kindness, respect etc...cannot bring happiness.
@kgwyneth11 жыл бұрын
One belief I have gotten better at but is STILL holding me back it that I believe I am not worthy of spending money on myself OR I always sort of minimize the value I provide with my business. My main employer is my older sister so it makes things mushy. BUT the ONE thing I will do is keep the journal that was talked about. It is really hard for me to do anything consistently for longer than about 12 days but I am going to try REALLY hard because I truly believe this will help me tremendously. Thank you so much!!!
@Sarahwakingup8 жыл бұрын
Looking at my bank account with an abundance and gratitude mindset is going to be my new daily ritual. I hope to apply this to my monthly small biz book-keeping as well, making it a ritual of love and apprecation! Thank you for this intervew!
@dressbybecca11 жыл бұрын
I believe that I wasn't taught to know how to deal with money management. I know that I am ready to make a change because i'm taking steps to learn, instead of relying on the belief that I don't know. I made the action of signing up on mint.com. This was super helpful because I am now able to see all my assets (and debt at once). I am ready to take control, because I have the ability to learn instead of staying in the dark!
@MakkiNjeri7 жыл бұрын
I have many money beliefs holding me back. 1. I can't start a business because I don't have a unique product to sell and also I'm not a good marketer. 2. What I studied in university has no job openings 3. This you already mentioned it; my mum will take care of it.
@lauvaber56297 жыл бұрын
MakkiNjeri I am guilty of numbers 2 and 3 :(
@MidnightRemedy8 жыл бұрын
I found your show a few days again. You've added so much value to my life in just a few days. Thank You!
@coneytoadfoot6 жыл бұрын
Great video! There's this thing people can do to help get rid of their CCs faster: Debt Snowball. You start with the smallest balance card first, add a set amount of extra you're paying on it every month. When it's paid off, move that amount of payment over to the next credit card. The amount of money you're paying on each goes up exponentially as the smaller one is paid off.
@iaracaitano94736 жыл бұрын
Great episode!!! Thank you I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I always doubting myself 😰
@Cre8tvlyYrs9 жыл бұрын
Wow...this really opened my eyes in so many ways...too many to comment here but the main part for me was my self value...I realized just in this video (which is my new favorite and that I wrote notes on pretty much word for word) is how important it is for me to value myself and the talents, life skills, wisdom I do have to offer others!! I will definately will be creating a 'Self Value' Art Journal and also be checking my account every day!! Thanks to both Marie and Kate for this (for me) life changing teaching!! God bless you both!
@valerievandenbroeck66516 жыл бұрын
the spiritual way to think about money was for me a real eyeopener !! Thanks Marie and Kate !! Both real amazing souls i guess
@colleenrocca84225 жыл бұрын
Really like the comment made about judgment will never allow us to have the prosperity we want. Good thing to keep in mind.
@Just..K11 жыл бұрын
I love talking about money. I agree it is a tool to get things done. And I agree that $$ is neither negative nor positive. It's a vehicle to show up more fully in our purpose. Excellent interview & insight.
@muhlissuh__6 жыл бұрын
My husband and i spent the first 6 years of marriage in huge financial need. Anytime something extra came up such as a car repair or buying a car or kids clothes etc we needed help from his parents. My grandma helped as well and was more understanding. My grandma also gave us the opportunity to work for the money which felt more like an even exchange, although she was very generous in her payment for our work. My inlaws however would not let us work for their gift which I understand and am thankful for. Its just that their gifts always cane with strings attached. I didnt work because we got pregnant right away and also had health problems. Inlaws would scoff at my health issues and gossip with other family asking “why doesnt she get a job??” There was never good communication. It really hurt to need their help yet hate excepting it. I was just earlier talking about this with my husband. A big fear surrounding wealth is what it will do to our relationship with his parents. Even apart from money it is not a good relationship. We feel limited and misunderstood by them. Again their is very poor communication. We try but they wont open up or seek to understand. They want peace without doing the work. We cant just pretend because nothing will change. We will still “say the wrong thing” and it be taken the wrong way and vice versa. Anyway we have gone back and forth for the past 3 years on whether or not to cut ties. Financial freedom would allow and much cleaner cut from them but i dont want them to think our reason for no longer communicating with them is because of money and us not needing theirs. Thats not what the relationship is about. Many other things are wrong. But they would believe money was the only reason we kept talking if money is what allows us to leave.
@katiefair34048 жыл бұрын
The self love/ self value thing was absolutely priceless! love it! Totally using it
@BlackKettleRanch8 жыл бұрын
My holding back belief is that if I charge for all of the time that I'm putting in, the customer will leave because they are spending too much money, so I don't charge for all of my time.
@emilyverrecchia46438 жыл бұрын
Ive done that as well!
@calikatsai11 жыл бұрын
Great episode. I think my greatest limiting money belief is that I have to do things I don't like doing (usually boring things) in order to make money.
@ShannonChamberlain10 жыл бұрын
Katrina, this is a good one.
@milomazli6 жыл бұрын
Uh! Thats a really good one! I will remind myself to this, thank you!
@khalarnirivers70305 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed every minute of this. What’s been holding me back is because I’ve been so caught up in trying to focus on the “positive” aspects of life, I’ve been avoiding things like my credit score or the amount of money in my bank account. I’ll make it a habit to look at my account every morning and link that visual and feeling to 3 things that I’m grateful for. Thanks!
@hnrey1011 жыл бұрын
just had an epiphany while watching this, sometimes the reason why we want to let someone else take care of things for us (point #1) is a feeling of being not enough...that really resonated, finally shed light on some long standing behavior...can't thank you enough for discussing this topic!
@AprilSingsalot8 жыл бұрын
I watched this video last night and knew it needed a second viewing so I had breakfast with you two this morning! I definitely struggle with believing that I am enough and love the actionable advice to write down three ways I added value every day. I have a day planner on my nightstand now specifically for that purpose...giving attention to the positive actions I'm already taking so that more will come!
@marsvsvenus62568 жыл бұрын
The one thing that held me back is that I felt like I could not be successful and be alone (no family I could trust, love or fall back on). I felt like everyone who had a family had an edge over me. Time to work seemed to be overwhelming because "I had to do everything by myself". The one action I can take to demonstrate that I am ready for a new belief is to not be afraid. :) Aww gee . . . What a revealing 20 awesome minutes this was.
@colleenstudio5 жыл бұрын
I just saw this. I have started implementing the looking at your finances and I don't do it every day but I have noticed more freelance jobs coming in. No money yet but it may have a lot to do with that. I didn't even think of that. I'll bump it to every day and see what happens. Thanks - and I'm in Bschool class of 2019
@judepriya3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies.. I am really grateful for those 4 guidelines to improve relationship
@missmagicfairy211 жыл бұрын
I love the comment about exchanging value for value. One of the beliefs I want to shake is you can have money and be spiritual. But this really puts that in perspective and makes me want to challenge my beliefs. So, thank you! :)
@hapxz75626 жыл бұрын
Paying attention pays off!!!! Loved that, i'm going to look at my bank account daily, i've realized i'm constantly avoiding looking at it
@deedeerichardson43416 жыл бұрын
This video come on my feed for a reason and at the right time.
@riwyatt67511 жыл бұрын
Awesome discussion. I am definitely going to purchase this book. People often tell you what you should do but seldom ever share their ideas on how to help create that mind shift. Thank you for sharing your insight and wisdom...
@alynagel84586 жыл бұрын
Loved this episode! My limiting belief is that my student loan debt will hold me back from getting things that I want.
@sonjarupnik389911 жыл бұрын
in time all shall heal ... patience is a virtue & gratitude is gracious!
@nancyg33749 жыл бұрын
Hello Marie ok well here is my limiting belief thats been holding me back. That like you mentioned I feel like I should not focus on material possessions or acumulating wealth instead I should focus on my spirituality. How I will change this: By realizing that without money I can not be spiritual because I am too worried and stressed about my financial situation. I also can not help others who are in need and I can not reach my full potential. Hard work is spiritual being honest and working towards my goals is spiritual and it is what I need to do to make a real difference in the world. Thank you for this video I loved it and I loved Kate Northrup please have her on regularly. This helped me so much you dont even know. Hugs :)
@1pinchoforegano11 жыл бұрын
Money is hard to earn and you'll never have financial freedom. I think nipping those thoughts right when they come up is important. I need to be more aware of the thoughts I allow my mind to entertain and focus on. Love the video!
@joycy11 жыл бұрын
Hi Maria I have the same limiting beliefs! In fact when I started earning money more 'easily' I felt guilty and unconsciously sabotaged myself. I'm the one holding myself back and until I can let go of what doesn't serve my higher purpose I will not achieve the next level
@susanmasonmanning9 жыл бұрын
I Love watching strong, intelligent, Empowering women!!! You ladies are Fabulous! I can't believe I found you Marie. I am a hairstylist who Loves empowering women and promoting the power of thought. My major issue is not believing I can make a lot of money. My father always told me I would end up working a fast food restaurant. I am really working on myself and my fears when it comes to financial success. Thank you so much for putting yourself out there and helping people learn how to get their thoughts together...and your too funny....lol xo
@yournextfifty4 жыл бұрын
Such an IMPORTANT topic - especially for women! Thank you for talking about this! So many people think that by the time they are in their 40's they'll be at a certain 'level' and they often aren't. Let's start with small steps!
@MorganVeryMuch6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling the truth lady.
@JoannaJadeToday6 жыл бұрын
I’ve been debt free a couple times and STILL didn’t find my purpose when I was completely debt free...soooo I ended up getting into debt once again...and again!😩 I’m in the process of paying it off again..for the LAST TIME! I’m older and wiser and finally ok with living within my means!
@celinecrotty14786 жыл бұрын
Loved this Video. Thanks for all the advice.
@Salriaraj206 жыл бұрын
Like the 4th concept, it's extremely critical. Because one always have this, he has got a backup, or ancestral property or wealth.
@yesiwill10011 жыл бұрын
this was so awesome! loved finally seeing Kate on your show Marie! you guys have so much light and this inspired me so much just to hear you guys REALTALK about money!