I Discovered My Husband SECRET MESSAGES To His Ex Wife r/Relationships

[@SkyEcho751]

Ya that guy doesn't understand OP is 100% done with him. He didn't feel guilty about the actions, only about getting caught. OP has a nice and shiny spine and she will get past this with a wonderful partner.

[@thehoogard]

Of course he felt guilty, otherwise he wouldn't have told his parents.

[@ACAB.forcutie]

Lmao this comment applies to both stories

[@jaymel4691]

His "reasons" were all bullshit. Being stressed, scared, etc are all things that will happen many times in life, and during their marriage if they were married. He cheated because he wanted to, plain and simple. My response to stress is to suspend reality for a bit with a good book/movie/video game, playing with my cat, and or going for a walk or bike ride if I need to move. Maybe cleaning up the house a bit or go window shopping. Lots of other things that DON'T involve being naked with anyone who isn't my partner.That advice about not asking "why" is fantastic, much better than I could've said it, lol. Those of us who are not cheaters will never understand the mindset of those who are. OP, you are a good person, and your ex is not. The only "satisfactory" answer you will ever have, is that he is just a horrible person who never deserved you. I know this situation is painful, but you will be grateful you found this out before the wedding instead of after, and before you had kids together.

[@jaymel4691]

I'd be pissed as hell if everyone, including my own parents, still expected me to get back together with a cheating scumbag!

[@Sami19837]

I really hope his parents pay her parents back for wedding costs. She should sell the ring to help pay them back. He won’t take her to court if he’s trying to win her back.

[@kaykay8855]

Story 1: so after op had 2 miscarriages, lost their mother, and battling depression her husband thought it would be a good idea to make fun of his wife with his ex wife. Op make copies, one to leave on the table with divorce papers and send some to his friends and family.

[@robertx8020]

Yes! shows you what a POS het ex is/was

[@MaryTheresa1986]

She should also put him on blast on social media. I wonder how much a billboard would cost? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@jefflittle8913]

@@MaryTheresa1986 Why? Once you are out you need to bathe in positive energy. Feeling hatred for someone is like trying to hurt someone else by drinking poison.

[@sonialinsey8083]

I agree. I would tell his family tho.

[@kaykay8855]

@@sonialinsey8083 me too. Send one to his parents and another to his friends/work.

[@addicted2mako]

Story One: I looked up the definition of a white whale, and it comes up as something that someone pursues obsessively and with little chance of success. How ironic is it that the husband kept insulting OP and referring to her as a white whale (in regards to weight) behind her back to the point where she leaves and becomes a white whale in regards to him obsessively calling her with little chance of successfully getting her back.

[@보모]

someone else whom caught the literary reference thus parallels

[@mbyerly9680]

MOBY DICK. Read it, or watch one of the movie versions.

[@noxiouschocolate9644]

Is that a moby dick thing?

[@Sami19837]

Oh this is beautiful! You should message OP on Reddit.

[@PrincessAfrica3]

Wow 😮

[@shadowkissed2370]

Story 1- "he did everything like previous times I had dips. ... came home with takeout from my favorite restaurants... ... baked fresh bread in the mornings ... ... brought me chocolates ..." this man contributed to your weight gain and he is trying to get you to gain weight again so he can keep the flirting and name-calling going.

[@nyxx5357]

I noticed that, too. What a slimeball.

[@pippo17173]

At this point, he might as well end her life while he is at it. The fact that her husband was given an out so many time but didn't should tell you how much of a butthole he is.

[@zzzzzzzzz2278]

Oh, eew what a loser. It keeps getting harder for me not to just go asexual and be done with it. 😞 poor lady.

[@addicted2mako]

Wow, amazing how his mom in story two found a way to apologize while still blaming OP for “taking advantage”. I hope she stays as far away from him, his family, and anyone else who tries to convince her to take him back.

[@nl3266]

The “taking advantage” line pissed me off so much. It’s not like OP had suspicions about her fiancé cheating and decided to corner MIL about it while she was stressed about her son dying, MIL confessed herself without any prompting for her own selfish reasons. Imo MIL was the one taking advantage by hoping OP’s fear and grief would make her forgive him.

[@skylarfulton1314]

@@nl3266 ME TOO I AM SO HEATED BY THAT

[@pippo17173]

@@nl3266 OP should of went all hell on her and say *ITS YOUR FAULT YOU RAISE HIM TO BE THIS MUCH OF A BAD PERSON YOU COW!*

[@chelseamadisetty350]

How do you cheat because of wedding stress? Was his ex’s cooch made of Xanax?

[@cindykq8086]

"He cheated on you and we helped him to lie about it. You're taking advantage of our suckiness!"

[@despinasgarden.4100]

Story 1: NTA Imagine being so pathetic that you blow up your marriage just to make your cheating ex wife laugh. I can't believe someone can be this cruel and deceitful.

[@mekaplush2148]

I can believe it😔😔

[@pippo17173]

Its more screwed up when the husband had a out every time op mention it. To me he is showing to be a narcissist.

[@616Regis]

I don't know if, as you put it, he was pathetic, cruel and deceitful, or if he was simply suffering from caregiver fatigue and resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Anyhow, it is likely best for both of them to be separated.

[@subhabaskaran1849]

@@616Regis If u are extremely tired and burnt out from taking care of your spouse. You need to communicate.Take steps to cool down.Ask for help. Things like this will happen.Death of parents,tragic circumstances and terrible situations,if spouses can't handle that ,then the marriage won't last cus life isn't easy and also the wife suffered the loss of two babies,if they both couldn't move past this ,they should have divorced It is so pathetic to see that the husband in this made fun of his wife to his EX who cheated on him like what did he think he was gonna gain .

[@616Regis]

@@subhabaskaran1849 I understand that as every human being on this planet, you have your own failings and that it is tempting to project them onto others as a coping mechanism, but I'm afraid that it won't help you... Anyhow, caregiver fatigue is a real thing and needs to be taken into account.

[@luvondarox]

"Wins you back." What, is OP a carnival prize?

[@KE-hr4sb]

S1: Best revenge is to let him go back to the ex that cheated on him! They deserve each other! S2: This is how bad religious people give good religious people a bad rap: Picking and choosing when the rules apply to them. Mom was religious enough to worry about his soul and his sins when he was on death's door, but not religious enough to worry about him trapping his fiance in marriage with a cheater? Nah, fam. I get feeling guilty, but these are the consequences of his own actions. The accident is just an unfortunate situation that has nothing to do with why he cheated or why you are leaving him. Don't let his mom guilt-trip you. He has his family for support and to help him heal. He knew cheating would be a deal-breaker for you, that's why he didn't tell you. ETA after update: "He still wants another chance." Filed under, "How nice for him." "He says I should give him a chance to prove himself and his loyalty." /record scratch I'm sorry, what? You *did,* it's called your engagement; and you know what? He *failed* the loyalty test by not only cheating on you, but then choosing not to tell you. He doesn't get a third strike.

[@magnarcreed3801]

I think it’s funny how the new wave religious people preach love and entirely ignore the bad and crazy shit their religious books talk about.

[@pippo17173]

@@magnarcreed3801 Its more how people take advantage of it to excuse the bad shit they do really. Some for monitary gain on that front.

[@Sami19837]

Yes and I just want to scream, “They aren’t living the Bible!” They turn more people from faith. 💔

[@taurus3alexis]

@@magnarcreed3801 yea that’s always been the thing with some religious ppl. Religious hypocrisy has been around forever, it’s not a new age thing.

[@TheLilyMustang]

I love when Markee pulls away from the mic and emphasis a WTF part. His voice overs has always been entertaining & just keep getting better with the inflection, tone and just over all acting.

[@BootyCrusader]

Something I really appreciate about Markee is that with these juicy stories he pretty much always puts updates when it gets satisfying :)

[@phantom-pr6op]

The mom in story 2 saying she "took advantage of her moment of panic" really pisses me off. I'm glad the comments see through her actions but that line in particular really stood out to me.

[@jeancoppin6353]

Yeah, that's some fine advantage op got there...

[@Emily-ck9ji]

"Look at me! I've got a basket right here. It's the basket full of assholes - every single one of you get inside." -- I'M STEALING THIS. Oh my god. Lmao. / As awful as her ex's family is for lying and trying to manipulate her, I'm getting mad at OPs family, too. They need to support her leaving this man and stop doubting her resolve. They're only going to convince her she's wrong if they continue like that and she's NOT. Her ex fiance's mother did her a huge favor by telling OP the truth. They would have hid this secret from her for as long as possible, but what would have happened when it eventually came out? They'd be married, probably have kids, and it would make everything so much harder.

[@zzzzzzzzz2278]

I know, right?! Like the time he said, "Well, well, well if it isn't my old friends--the consequences of my actions!" Freaking hysterical.

[@LadyCeag840]

1st Story: I'm glad OP left her two-faced ex. I'm even more glad that she told his side of the family! When I read that his own parents turned him away at the door, I laughed out loud!

[@Ospyro3em]

Markee I love how passionate you were getting in the second story- I thought you were going to march over there and slap them yourself! 🤣

[@justanothergalaxy8379]

literally, he’s only been this emotive in like 1 other story and i love it so much

[@thesewinggeekmiri9029]

17:44 "Look at me, I've got a basket right here--it's the basket of assholes, every one of you get inside!!" Thanks Markee, I almost laughed out loud at work! 😂🤣🤣

[@WildKat25]

For the cheating fiance, she just needs to tell the family that the fact that they ALL knew of his sin and they didn't convince him to confess makes them ALL CULPABLE IN HIS SIN! Tell the religious mother that she won't marry into a family of manipulating sinners. The fact that the mom says that she regrets telling her makes her even more the sinner than her son. Committing a sin is bad, being part of hiding the sin makes them a "breeder of evil."

[@kmaguire7161]

First few sentences of story 1 I was like "Why is this woman telling us about this instead of setting fire to his bed while he sleeps?" Glad she left him on her own without asking the forum what she should do.

[@cianap.281]

Well, I can see why Fiance in Story 2 told his parents instead of his Fiancee: he knew Mommy would tell him whatever he wanted to hear. And now Mommy is going after that big bad woman who "took advantage" of her moment of panic and broke his poor little hospitalized heart. Good grief, don't marry into that.

[@mayurakshimukherjee7948]

Yeah, just don't

[@tagh4055]

So stress is an excuse for cheating, huh? I guess that means that when the fiance got in his horrible accident, it would have been completely understandable if SHE had gone out and cheated on him, right? After all, she was under tons of stress from worrying about him, so he and his family would surely have forgiven her "mistake". Smh.

[@cynicalminion]

Mommy doesn't want her little boy going away...

[@omnipossum92]

Story 2: I wonder if the MIL would be so insistent on forgiveness if it was the OP who cheated 🤔

[@rubymeaddle]

They never are

[@astronautviolet153]

Story 1 She deserves a much loving better husband and divorce him start a new life fresh. Who makes fun of a person with two miscarriages and lost her mother just heartless.

[@kanelovec4315]

Story 2. You know they told about the cheating when the guy was hurt. This was guilt trip them in a way under the disguise of getting rid of guilt. It the same how a cancer patient will tell a person they cheated before their diagnose. They will use them getting hurt to shame them. As you left them for getting hurt to the public. Leave him before you marry.

[@teslagirl1]

Simple human dignity is a greater comfort to a cheater's victim than most people realize...and simple human dignity requires that OP kick this jerk 99 ways to Sunday.

[@pippo17173]

What is it with christians and supporting the worst sin you can do!? Like if there is any reason to hate this goddamn religion, this is it.

[@jazzyg7202]

Story one: divorce the husband. I would send the messages to family and friends to show why we are divorcing. If I was op I would tell him it is amazing how excited you and your ex get for disrespecting me. I would ask him for divorce and state "good luck with the office bicycle and hope you catch crabs from your ex." Probably be petty enough to send a picture of myself with date it was taken included to husband's first ex wife.

[@bridgetsmith6733]

If either of these 2 amazing, strong women see this: you are both heroes. Or I guess, Heroines! I hope you both get to see how many people are in your guys' corner. You both sound so positive, intelligent and beautiful, inside and out! And on the days you don't feel that strong, please remember that your stories really touched us, and sparked in all of us, big big love and positive energy we are sending your way! God bless you both. (The good God who loves you and always wants the best for you, not the one hypocrites use as an excuse to act like nut jobs and toss guilt around to make themselves feel better) 😊 ❤🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤

[@ryandabian2982]

I won't lie, your random tone shift at 22:12 had me laughing. I know I shouldn't because it's a serious and dramatic moment, but that outburst is the campy aspect that a lot of these narration channels are missing. Thanks.

[@chanisirften4600]

the way you've started being so much more expressive when reading these stories is giving me LIFE! truly, i love it!! i usually don't comment often but i just had to say this lol

[@marlieshilgersom]

Loved your narration and energy on this one. Love your character. Keep it up Markee!

[@kateemma22]

Markee, mate, you need to take a breath before you fight ALL of OP2's family. Here, have a Snickers, you're not yourself when you're hungry.

[@Al-bs5lj]

“I got a bucket right here, it’s the bucket of asshole’s” That’s true poetry right there

[@mistydawn2717]

Thank you and Have a great week guys!! ❤️

[@heathermiller5765]

Loved that "basket of assholes" quip lmao 😄

[@anarchist.online3784]

The highlight of my day has arrived

[@marecort3697]

You had too much fun with this one, especially the last story. Thanks for brightening my Monday!

[@corlenajames1381]

Story 1: That husband is CREEPY. I'm so glad OP left him. I'd be mortified if my husband took photos of my body as I slept without my permission, & then distributed them to someone else without my knowledge. What if his Ex would've been even more devious & posted OP's photo on social media? He's not only a creep, but also a stupid creep, smh.

[@charlieknight3323]

I am LIVING for the subtle savagery hidden in the stock footage, holy SHIT

[@catte.]

I really, really enjoyed todays video! Usually, I listen rather than watch so I don't know how long you've had the hilarious stock footage clips in there but a few of them really made me chuckle. Thank you for your hard work

[@ruddiko]

I enjoyed that intense reading in the end Marker, well done

[@Nope148]

I love when Markee gets all fired up, the theatrics are very entertaining and lovely

[@manxiefeathermoon9888]

Story one: I'm so glad OP dropped that 200lbs

[@VidGirl88]

Story 1 : my petty ass would have left the d-bag husband a copy of Moby Dick on the pile of divorce papers.

[@JB-bl6qo]

lol I like that

[@reinventingmelissa2061]

"This is the basket of assholes. Every one of you get inside." LOLOLOL!!!

[@OuchingTigerLimpingDragon]

I love your commentary, Markee, especially when you get all lively and worked up 😊

[@cade5782]

Alright!! I’ve been waiting for this!!!

[@TheIronwil]

Story 1: My wife went through a bad time and gained almost 100 pounds. It wasn’t good for either of us. Eventually she passed through it and lost all the weight over the course of a year. I was both astonished and proud. When it first started I offered to work out with her and help with nutrition, but she responded without much enthusiasm, so I just supported her as best I could and encouraged her when it wouldn’t come off as nagging. It is difficult when a spouse gains a massive amount of weight. It’s not something that should just be ignored. But it should NEVER be mocked or treated with malice. If anyone spoke about my wife the way OP’s husband did about her, I’d eat their soul. We just had our 22nd anniversary, and they’ve been very good years.

[@shellchenonceau6987]

Story #1 illustrates how our favorite actors/actresses/singers can have an extremely dark side. And they are even PROUD of their darkness that hurts young people.(R Kelly, T.Hanks, K.Spacey, C.Tiegen, etc)

[@tiryaclearsong421]

@@Azulakayes Every time people bring up Tom Hanks in these I look it up and I still haven't found anything aside from some weird insta pics of gloves and general odd behavior. Everyone else on that list has huge scandals associated with covering up crimes and Tom Hanks has a picture of a glove and reddit/twitter "detectives" looking for evidence he's a pedophile because of the glove pics? He also may or may not have visited Epstein island, but why associate Hanks with that with somewhat loose evidence and not Prince Andrew or someone with a lot more evidence and accusations? Maybe he has done something and I don't know about it. I just find it odd that there don't even seem to be accusations against him beyond the online "detectives".

[@ingloriousbetch4302]

@MrsAzlChang the Q-anon freaks like to pretend he's a child predator. That's one good way to spot the q nuts. Same for C. Tiegen. She rode on an epstein plane when she was a literal kid and now they claim that proves she is also a predator...as a lil kid.

[@champslim]

@@Azulakayes he likes taking pictures of gloves and weird crap he finds on the street when he travels. He puts everything on IG.Someone said that was a code that he wanted a child to abuse.

[@user-fg4tn8ot6b]

Story one: Yet another partner who disrespects their spouse behind their back. Yeah, lose him. :/

[@brandi5126]

Just want to say you are one of my fave reddit channels. You always make my day with your uploads 💕

[@rhiannonhamilton4427]

Story 2: if he's gonna cheat because of 'stress' then he absolutely cannot be trusted. Life isn't a picnic and you're gonna find ants sooner or later. Plus he cheated with his EX! That wasn't a spur of the moment thing! 'OH we just happen to meet up...' BS shouldn't fly with anyone. You don't 'just happen' to casually meet up with an EX and 'just happen' to sleep together. That was a conscious decision on his part. And worst part is he didn't confess to you, he confessed to his family, making them his conspirators into keeping his dirty little secret. AND THEY WERE GONNA KEEP IT! The only reason why his mom told you was because she was worried for her poor baby boy's immortal soul. (Also a side note not related, it's not a genuine apology if someone has to apologize on someone's behalf!) And keep note, she didn't tell him that she told you either. This tells you this family only cares about image and not rocking the boat in order to maintain peace. And if you did decide to stay with him, and he cheated AGAIN, the family will know and you won't, because they're on their boy's side. I wouldn't be surprised if they even cover for him on these little rendezvous. Sadly there is no 'good reason' anyone has for cheating. And whatever answer or excuse they give is gonna hurt you even more. They just cheated, they just showed how little they cared about you and respect you, and you have to accept that and cut that person out of your life. And you need to tell people, who think that there's still a chance of reconciliation, to butt out and tell them no, there is not chance. In fact turn that around them and ask 'will you give (spouse/girl/boyfriend) a chance if they cheated on you?'.

[@MaryJane-zw5pv]

17:43 - 17:49 LMFAO!!!!!! You are hilarious and brilliant, Markee. I really hate my life lately and needed that good laugh.

[@acatnamedm4529]

Basket of AHs is now my favorite phrase

[@tazhienunurbusinezz1703]

I always kinda thought that "it meant nothing" made it worse. If "it meant nothing", why would you torpedo your relationship over it? It obviously meant something to your ego at the very least.

[@sylviahartman3760]

I truly love the way you read these stories!! You really do a great job!! ❤🌟❤🌟❤🌟❤🌟❤🌟

[@renaeodonnell4558]

Me, 12.15am in Australia- hrmmmm, I should get to sleep Also me, opens KZbin- ooooohhhhh!!! A markee video!!

[@Avrysatos]

I wonder if the ex-husband in the first story has actually has a fat f*tish along with humiliation or something like that. No excuses, though. He wasn't honest if he does have those feelings. You don't treat people you love with lies.

[@paulahowlett1043]

If there's an update on last story would love to hear it

[@VeggieMama722]

S2. Imagine throwing away a good relationship by hooking up with someone who didnt want you and dumped you. Him and his family is trash and good for her for leaving

[@dawnstone4424]

❤️Markee Thank you Aussie husband ! Much love from America!

[@trueword-1]

Excellent reading. Really enjoyed listening.

[@UchuKejiMovan]

1st OP should just wait until she's with her husband and just passive aggressively mention white whales to let him know you know Car crash OP owes him nothing. Let the ex come be by his side. I'm listening to OP"s edit saying why hasn't she blocked them yet

[@rorimorgant.williams6647]

I really love your comments that you yell in the “background.”

[@honeypot8524]

Story 1: I'm so happy for OP she can now have the wonderful life she deserves, the ex is stupid and deserves everything he gets, his ex just wanted the attention of a taken man

[@littlestrawberryfaery]

Y'all notice how he was making her dependent on food while going through depression? Take out Breads Sweets He was making her gain weight and codepent on food when she was depressed.

[@angelajaime5155]

I LOVE your narration and the voices you made

[@terintiaflavius3349]

I want more updates on first story

[@ZonkRulz666]

I have a basket of arseholes, get inside is my favourite sentence ever

[@tishjanuary7379]

Markee rants are the best😂

[@margaretkowalkowski5653]

I'm so happy for the girl in story 1 you go girl!!! GOOD LUCK TO YOU !! Story 2 don't get back with that jerk!!!! DROP THAT ZERO AND FIND YOURSELF A REAL HERO 💯 👌 ❤️ ✨️ he is out there somewhere waiting for you good luck to you that family is toxic stay away from them and stay strong 💪 ❤️ 💙 💜 👍 🙏 💪 an internet stranger sending you lots of blessings love and hugs ❤️ 🫂 🤗 💙

[@debc6260]

"A Basket of Assholes" is my new band name.

[@SvetloPravdy]

I love your acting skills markee

[@singingwordwright148]

Story 1: Honestly, if I'd been OP, I would have exposed the husband. I would have taken screenshots of those messages, sent them to every in-law and friend of the husband I could contact, with just a short note: "If you soon find yourself in the position of wondering why I'm divorcing Husband, maybe this will help." Maybe this is just me having had too much of people who leave their spouse without trying to explain to their family/social circle, so that they all turn on the person leaving.

[@justabunneh6490]

17:40 LMAO The basket of buttholes....

[@DisneyChar]

S2. Ask all the parents involved how many times they cheated on eachother.

[@topazcoyote5482]

We need to draw Markee with his basket.

[@o0BlackSand0o]

Story 1: I've had weight issues all my life. When I met my husband I was underweight. Now, after having had our second child, I'm on the heavier side. After our first I was almost the perfect weight for my body and felt great about myself. After our second I felt ugly and fat. My husband told me that he loves the way I look no matter what. Under or over weight I'm the woman he loves and finds me sexy as hell. He actually loves me, unlike OP's husband

[@nabzisi3928]

Story 1 :good for you Op.

[@dmikewilcox]

Cheating Fiance: Is there a point to having a religious code of ethics, if you are going to break that code and then lie about it?

[@whitneybennett5076]

Call me petty, but if I were OP, I would've had a passionate night with the husband and as soon as we were finished, I would get dressed and say, "Oh, and by the way, did I mention I'm leaving you?"

[@jenniferkay9789]

See my comment, above!😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@MsMookalate]

Why isn’t this pinned already 📌📍

[@ketsyamota]

I have missed snarky Markee. I enjoyed this video a lot.

[@taylorslade961]

Story 1: The misunderstanding of the term "white whale" is grounds enough for divorce.

[@toshi9742]

Story 2: Imagine if someone threatened the ex fiance’s life- the first thing he’d do is strip

[@eileenhathaway1674]

2nd story. I am glad she is not going back. The whole family have proven to be liars, and this was a onetime thing that the Mom to told the truth. She would never do it again!

[@gechen85]

First story: I'd print the e-mails, lay them to the divorcepapers on the table, send some sensored copies of the e-mails to his family, block them momentarily and leave. Let nature take its corse.

[@ashleymarie6585]

Story 1….. WOW. That’s all

[@tishym.3820]

Story 1, 22:50-23:00 damn that was good

[@smh4960]

I love the off mic moments lmao

[@eclipsysc55z9]

My favorite quote: 17:38

[@ya5hita]

"Basket of a-holes"😂😂😂😂

[@avonleamontague2469]

What a sweetheart 😑

[@alicewilloughby4318]

Story 1 - Update - 12:34 - What happened to this idea of leaving a copy of his nasty texts along with the divorce papers?

[@mikilacunningham6259]

25:00 NTA Relocate ASAP

[@kristinewatson3702]

The MIL is ridiculous. She cannot confess FOR her son. I'm not Catholic but I'm pretty sure that's not how that works. 🤣

[@marwaabdulbaqi8053]

Story 4: bet the MIL is also staying with a cheater , thats the only reason that came to my head on why she's okay with that cuz she was okay staying and all women should do the same

[@riverjbleu]

These Reddit posts make me so excited and prepared to never get married or even speak to men again

[@couchpotato1185]

Okay but 40 pounds isn't even a lot if she was very athletic before. Thats maybe 1 or 2 sizes up for her. The fact he said he was disgusted by her..I just cant even imagine how those people get old with each other? Like is that all that matters for his relationship?

[@diamcole]

Even if it was a lot, it's a disgusting thing to do to someone you claim to love and it says far more about him than it does about her.

[@MsMookalate]

40 lbs is a lot especially its changes woman’s body. I gained 20 lbs and it’s changed my appearance.

[@ALunarLight]

I think this is a height discussion. taller people can hide weight more then shorter people. 5,3 vs 5,10. 10 to 20 pounds on me is nothing but 40 is fluffy, I'm 5,9 people put my weight at 160-180(I wish) I'm 215, I was 225 am and working on getting down to 160 to look healthy.

[@JasperCatProductions]

Story one, ick trash talking you to his ex…….bye trash bucket. Good luck OP I hope you find happiness. Story 2 I would just walk away, his family covered his lies. He is a cheater , oh the stress made him bang his ex? Ick get out let his mommy help him recover.

[@cynicalminion]

Lutheran here: aren't the last rites sometimes performed posthumously, in the burial rites?

[@Tamara-ju3lh]

Story 2: Gotta love Christians like that. I was raised with good ones and bad ones. This mother is a bad one.

[@Bijecarli]

I hope I NEVER have sex with anyone who was horrid enough to cheat on me with someone who cheated on him. To sleep with someone that insecure, someone who called me a white whale...I wouldn't be able to wash the filth off. Hell my life is filled with enough "regrets" lmfao. All the power to her though.

[@potatoempress5731]

YASSS asshole basket's back alright! -1997 music plays-

[@kristinewatson3702]

He's lying to BOTH of you. Shame on him. What he has said and taking pictures is unforgivable. OP is doing the right thing. Run!

[@Neithie]

I was kinda hoping from the title that by 'white whale' he meant some stupid moby dick 'I can't stop chasing you' thing. But clearly not. It doesn't matter if she was so heavy she couldn't even get out of bed... everyone deserves respect and love from their SO. Or at least compassion in the form of honesty and support.