Boyfriend Angry I Dropped Off His Drunk Rude Female Friends At A Bus Stop r/Relationships

[@mbyerly9680]

"Avoiding drama" in OP's BF's case means, "These crazy cows can do anything they want to OP as long as I'm not in the line of fire." What a winner.

[@starbird3939]

Story 1 - NTA “I don’t want drama”, and yet he is bffs with a girl who trash talks other women and tries to pick fights. OP is a classy dame. She didn’t tolerate abuse, but made sure the girls were dropped at a safe place. She will get far once she cuts that dude off for good.

[@Swnsasy]

Oh hell no! If my boyfriend sobered up and then is mad at me for NOT allowing myself to be disrespected and degraded would be the next one on a curb!! There is no freaking way on earth I would allow ANY friend of mine to ever treat my husband as less than his worth!! Boyfriend would be kicked out if he really thought she was in the wrong! Edit: Hell yea we I love NIRVANA!!!

[@brigidtheirish]

No shit? She shouldn't take to heart what a couple of drunk girls say? What if it's the exact same crap they spew when *sober?* Did the boyfriend ever stand up for OP when she was attacked? Honestly, if a passenger in my car treated me like that, I wouldn't care about their level of sobriety or if they'd ever said a mean word to me before. I'd pull over first chance I got and order them out. Not a bus stop in sight? Not my problem.

[@Original_Tenshi_Chan]

@@brigidtheirish Exactly, but I think I would take it a few steps further. I wouldn't even let my soon to be ex into my car until he can sufficiently explain, to my satisfaction, why he thought I should be responsible for driving him and his side piece home from their double date with another couple. The tickets were all bought in advance, from the sound of it, the soon to be ex and his best friend bought those tickets,... So why did soon to be ex choose to take the side piece instead of his GF? They wouldn't need to worry about where I dropped them off, because they likely would never have seen the interior of my car. Or, if I was feeling extra petty and spicy, I would drive for half an hour or so in the wrong direction, away from the city center and assistance for festival goers, into a residential or industrial area for maximum "FUCK YOU!" energy, and then kick out all 3 of them, soon to be ex included. He wants to protect his side piece and her best friend so much, to 'avoid drama', then he can protect them allllllll the way to their homes. Also, OP absolutely should hook up with his best friend, he seems like a slightly more decent guy, and they could perhaps swap leases. (OP gets off the lease at their place, and side piece can move in with her new prize.)

[@brigidtheirish]

@@Original_Tenshi_Chan Most definitely. It's *possible* the girls bought their own tickets, but it seems unlikely. Now, getting all of them out of the car could be a problem, which is where my general recommendation that women carry mace comes into play.

[@zachf748]

Who defends the people that are verbally abusing their partner?… Not only that, but it’s the girl that wants him… Huge red flags.

[@aurea.]

As a Polish person, we don't claim the boyfriend and two petty friends in Story #1 😒

[@carolroberts4614]

I don't blame you!

[@Mx-rr3qm]

🤣🤣... Understandable

[@fleurpouvior2967]

But definitly claim the public transport system, because it is seriously amazing, especially in Krakow

[@yomommah6866]

Story 1: OP's practically ex-boyfriend is a coward.

[@aurea.]

Yep. Thinks inquiring about someone planning to hurt you is "drama." Total coward.

[@shadewolfe1231]

Story 3- Keep the Cake. Dump the fiancé.

[@musicallydisneyamvs6731]

Story 1.) OBVIOUSLY NTA. I’d split despite living together, just be roommates. Tell the girls “Have fun with a cheater.” Just to plant a seed of insecurity. Knowing she’d probably let it warp herself into ruining it for herself if she did go after the dude. 😈

[@kitarrah1422]

Well, technically, he WAS on a double date at that festival, so a case could be made that he IS cheating. Also, why would he be mad that OP contacted his friend for information? Unless there's something he doesn't want his friend to tell her. Maybe that he was cheating on OP with the other girl? Or that he knew she would be coming along and was flirting with her? 🤔

[@musicallydisneyamvs6731]

@@kitarrah1422 Right but knowing I’d be living with him as a roommate, topped with that direct approach makes it all the more easier to mess with her head. 😈 At least get something out of it to teach a lesson or two.

[@notiddymothbirlfriend]

Calm down satan xD

[@musicallydisneyamvs6731]

@@notiddymothbirlfriend 🤫😇

[@owl7072]

Story 3: I am so sick and tired of the "this is just who they are" and "learn to have thick skin" sentiment in terms of people being treated like shit and/or getting upset by things. Just because that's "how they are" doesn't mean they have a free pass to treat others horribly. Are you gonna try and use that line in court if she kills someone? You'll get laughed out as she's thrown in jail like a ragdoll. And the "learn to grow thick skin" shit, some people are just sensitive and while that doesn't mean you should coddle them all day every day, it does mean that you should be more aware of what's happening and be able to help them calm down, not tell them to just suck it up. And even _then_ that's not what's happening here. Op doesn't have thin skin, your mommy is just a massive _bitch._

[@Kimberly_Sparkles]

Women like this you look at for a long time, nod sagely, and ask, "Is that what you did? It looks like the botox is wearing off a bit."

[@ceeshnia]

@@Kimberly_Sparkles Love it!

[@fytrndm]

I hate the thick skin crap as well. It's so stupid because it supports the idea that the one on the receiving end should just endure everything because they can so far. That's not healthy and no one should put up with crappy behaviour from anyone.

[@Kimberly_Sparkles]

@@ceeshnia I am the nearing age of the FMIL and I’m sure she gets checked by women her own age when she tries this kind of bullying I honestly think the real reason these women bully the fdil is jealousy over the youth and they know that younger women won’t push back directly. Sometimes there’s some enmeshment with the son but a lot of time it’s so focused on the FDIL that it’s really about being old and bitter more than anything else.

[@pelgervampireduck]

it's infurating that it's always the jerks that get defended, the bad people get others on their side, they always get justified, and it's always the victim that has to suck it up, are asked to apologize, "that's how they are", "don't be dramatic", and blamed.

[@tomfoolery342]

Story 2: I got a friend request from a girl I worked with about 15yrs ago. The FB picture was of a couple. I kept staring at the girl in the pic but didn't remember her face. I was thoroughly confused, every few days I would look at the pic again to see if it jogged my memory. Then one day I looked at the guy in the pic and Voila'.....it was my coworker after his transition to a male. I friended him after that. We keep in touch.👍

[@damien678]

that's so great, can't wait to be a little mystery like this in the future

[@masumi1990x]

"Transition to male" Male is a one of two biological sexes and you can't change it even if you want.

[@damien678]

@@masumi1990x there's many different sex traits that go into the groupings of 'male' and 'female'. many, many of these can be changed, and enough so to be considered male. my chromosomes may be female, but my hormone levels are male. so is the secondary sex traits of my voice, body hair, muscle growth and fat distribution, etc. those are all male for me, and hormones are responsible for a significant amount of sex traits. getting surgery is also a way to change significant sex traits, like breasts, and private parts. they are classified as 'sex change operations' _for a reason._ so, no, sex itself isn't immutable. very specific sex traits currently are, but most can and are changed for many of us trans people.

[@masumi1990x]

@@damien678 I thought that the strongest trans argument is sex (biology) vs gender (social construct), but if you want it blow up, be my guest.

[@idamay4590]

@@damien678 aww I’m so happy for you❤️

[@agroteraaaa]

love that story 2 is just a fun little discovery. it's a nice refresher amid all the fun-but-exhausting aita/relationship drama.

[@damien678]

I seriously thought I was just being biased by thinking "she's trans now" bc I'm FtM but LOL

[@goreslashdow3813]

That didn't cross my mind, but was a nice surprise. First post made me think a mental condition, but I supposed that's me being biased, lol. But then in the update his constant use of she/her pronouns rubbed me the wrong way. I understand not being used to it, but over text it's so much easier to catch yourself and all.

[@JudeDragon158]

@@goreslashdow3813 the op used he near the end, so I think it was a deliberate writing choice to preserve the ‘surprise’ but yeah it’s definitely a choice. As a fellow ftm guy it’s a little- eh.

[@thedestroyasystem]

@@goreslashdow3813 I agree, you switch pronouns the second you mention the person being trans. I get using the pronouns to preserve the surprise/remain cohesive but like, once it’s been revealed he’s a dude in the story please consistently refer to him that way.

[@VidWatcher01]

Ikr! These reddit stories either has someone with a narcissistic s.o. or narcissistic parent. I'm so glad he started putting mood boosters because man

[@Russman67]

Story 1: OP's the asshole? Da fuq? If someone starts the ride off with "Are you the b---- who stole my man" there's a good chance I'm not stopping at a bus stop. After the update: Yeah boyfriend was on a double date and had his girlfriend pick them up. Again, da fuq?

[@ladycobra3]

I am 67 yrs old and have had a lot of experience with a MIL like the one in story 3. If a boyfriend always takes the side of the mother, run and run as fast as you can. Trust me, once you marry him it will get worse. I should have seen the red flags when I was dating my husband and not had so much hope that things would be different once we married. When I dated my husband MIL would say things when boyfriend was not around that would sting to my core. She would make comments about how I was so lucky to have a man to take care of me. It was beside the point that I made more than boyfriend and owned my own house and had it almost paid off. I drove a better car than boyfriend, had a savings etc. MIL would always say she was sick when we were checking out at a store and tell me to pay for things and she would pay me back later. Neither MIL or boyfriend ever paid me back. I nipped the action in the bud when I finally said she could put the items back because I wasn't paying for them. The snide remarks continued after we were married except she got worse. She would tell family that their presents were only from hubby even tho I did the shopping and purchasing of the gifts. She never thanked me or acknowledged any gift as being from me. When I would try to talk to hubby about things he always said the same thing " I don't know why you create issues with my mother. DO NOT PUT UP WITH CRAP FROM A MIL AND IF HUSBAND DOES NOT HAVE YOUR BACK, RUN FAR AWAY FROM BOTH OF THEM.

[@penelopelane5753]

Janice L yeah, I want to know that, too. Hope she’s taken out the trash by now.

[@floridasam4587]

Story 1: NTA!! Good for you for defending yourself, your bf had it right when he was drunk but sober him is outta line for not having your back and defending girls who were trying to belittle you and even worse, steal your man too!!

[@frazzledhaloz3184]

I am pretty petty. I would make this guys life pretty miserable……WEG

[@666leonore]

Just dump him

[@muppetsrule1143]

Oh no. I'd drop off everyone on the side of the road wherever we were and tell everyone to get out. Tell the friend that if she wants him she can have him and leave. She was kind enough to give them a bus stop.

[@maurer3d]

Story 3: NTA, DO NOT marry this man, he is a mama's boy and will never support you over his mother no matter how wrong or evil she is.

[@brigidtheirish]

Most definitely and *obviously.* Don't know why she's still with him, honestly. People need to stop letting others bully them just to "avoid drama" or whatever bullshit.

[@D123-f9k]

Why was this story repeated without any updates? I don't get it

[@jerriewyatt905]

Story 3… Actually I think OP acted mature by not dumping the cake on his and mommy’s head! Dump the whole load of AH’s!

[@Mewse1203]

Story 3: NTA the only childish one us MIL and the boyfriend. Go along to get along doesn't work when one person is ALWAYS the one being disrespected. He is a massive jerk for calling her childish for being upset by hos mom's shitty actions.

[@robertx8020]

Yes ..I would leave him so he can go back to his mamma and lie at her feet

[@damien678]

As a FtM I thought I was being a bit silly when I thought "she's a dude with a dude's name, now" BUT BRUUUHHH

[@33gatinhos]

omg i love ur pfp :3 !!

[@solmas2111]

??

[@DraidensDen]

It didn't even occur to me lol. I will say though that I don't like how OP kept referring to him as her when he's clearly transitioned and whatnot, but ah well.

[@DraidensDen]

edit: To be fair, he did update partway through, so eh it makes sense.

[@damien678]

@@DraidensDen yeah same, but it seemed like he was trying, and unfortunately you gotta learn patience with some folk

[@owl7072]

Story 1: What I want to know is why did bf only step in after they were told to get out 🤨 he was clearly capable of understanding what was happening and yet when they called Op a bunch of names, insulted her for "stealing" the girl's "love" (I'm saying "girl" because what I actually want to call them is too rude for youtube) he did absolutely nothing, just sat there and let Op put up with their shit _by herself_ while doing them a _favor,_ only stepped in to yell at them to get out, then got mad at Op the next morning for kicking them out _as if he didn't help do it._ Throw the whole boyfriend away, this one's defective.

[@valh889]

I'll say it for you ^^ bitch's 'love'. Honestly op really should just go out with the best friend since he's clearly more sensible than hers.

[@ophilianecr]

No, the words they meant to say are: _rancid *unt,_ because that's exactly the kind of energy and personality you need to behave so gross and classless 🤢🤢🤮🤮. Good on OP setting her boundaries and sticking to them. I'd send that bf a link to the comments on Reddit so he knows the world thinks he's a moron too.🙄😒

[@ACAB.forcutie]

Being drunk excuses you from embarrassing things, not asshole things 🤣

[@joeschmo622]

I would've dropped off the hos in the seediest part of town and repeatedly yelled as loud as I could, "They have money and jewelry!", before driving off.

[@toysruskid5074]

Police Station and suggest to the cops you are kicking them from your car because they offered you pills.

[@GiordanDiodato]

@@toysruskid5074 or that they were trying to drive drunk

[@itsjustme7487]

@@toysruskid5074 Ooooh. Good one.

[@slick8086]

Story Three: I wonder why when every time some one's SO tells them that they are over reacting to "nothing" they don't respond with, "So you're saying my feelings mean nothing? Don't fucking tell me I'm over reacting to the abusive actions of your horrible [relative] FUCK YOU GET OUT! WE'RE DONE"

[@robertx8020]

I agree And the 'she doesn't mean it" BS she does! She is a petty hateful person! And she can have her son back ,.,he can stay with her till she dies!

[@simac8396]

Story 3: Op is a lot kinder than I would be. if the mother kept insulting me and my appearance I would start insulting her back, people like this tend to dish it out but can't take it.

[@mindyschocolate]

I’m amazed boyfriend let them bash his girlfriend in the car before she dumped them at the bus stop. He’s not worth it.

[@FoxValley123]

The second story is just amazing and so sweet, I'm happy op found his old partner and is respectful of him. That made my day.

[@lunahix4815]

Story 1) A wise man once said, *Drunk words are the thoughts we dare not speak when sober* Also he's probably-100%-hooking up with the friend.

[@markiusgalfordii9248]

The 1st story OP trust trust me you did the right thing. I've had to do it myself and I had to do it to my own brother. And it does not excuse the way they were treat you regardless drunk or not drunk or not

[@jessicawolfe5861]

Cool transition story. I hope he has a wonderful life. Glad you found him.

[@SwirlyPinwheel]

Story 2: I had a feeling that the ex was trans. It's pretty common for trans people to wipe their old online presence to avoid social media outing them.

[@AngelaMastrodonato]

In this story the transition might have happened before social media. I think the person transitioned at around 18, shorty after getting a short haircut back in the ‘90s. Sounds like this could have been pre-My Space.

[@thebigmystery7841]

I really hope the guy who was finding his old fling got back in touch to be best buds. That would be the most wholesome ending. 😭 they have all the qualities of a good friendship. So they should see about rekindling that.

[@BritInvLvr]

Story 1: Egads! OP was right to toss those people out of her car. I'd toss the bf as well.

[@ddjohnson3961]

Yay another video. Story one as soon as I would of saw those girls I would of said non I them are getting in my car. They didn’t even ask OP did a ride.OP boyfriend definitely had a double date. His response to OP asking WH he kept victimizing the rude girl made me believe that he was for sure cheating on OP with her.

[@octo448]

I'm glad my instincts on Story 2 were spot on. I was like "Could it be they transitioned...?" And sure enough! And kudos to OP for swapping out for the correct pronouns and name letter right off the bat. Good on him, what a neat little story.

[@stoneman8387]

Story 1: NTA. Under the influence of alcohol, you quickly get to see the true side of a person. You just have to believe him

[@dataweiss3756]

Don't stir drama. Go with the flow. Keep the peace. Me: I think you're confusing peace with quiet.

[@corlenajames1381]

Story 1: NTA. And break completely up with him & even start dating despite the lease. May as well date whomever she wants, since Ex was dating idiots during the relationship already, smh.

[@jemase7931]

"this is who she is" translation: she's an AH, but none of us have ever had the guts to confront her about it.

[@OZARKMOON1960]

#2 - Just glad it was not some tragic ending like a cancer death, or accident or something. At least OP knows he did not imagine it, got to meet M and has a location if he is so inclined - although his old friend may not be. But live and let live; at least OP can rest assured all is well with Z

[@helenlewis2510]

For some reason I thought it was going to turn out his friends were gaslighting him

[@iamalbertwesker2]

@@helenlewis2510 I thought it might have been Ghosting him and the friends were in on it.

[@JohnSmith-xq1pz]

A wild checky so and so appares and takes the WAFFLES

[@VidWatcher01]

Story 2 What a twist!😲

[@Sknotty]

I'm a trans man myself and for story 2, I immediately thought that he couldn't find his ex because he had transitioned. I guess I was right lol

[@Snowshowslow]

That thought never crossed my mind but I am so happy for this resolution. I was afraid for an early grave or psychosis.

[@CaptWeeThaBarrrmy]

Second story: Now THATS an Epic Synchronicity!! Lol love it!

[@nukerwolf7788]

Story 2) sounds like a glitch in the matrix story

[@laurameier7069]

Story 3: Run away from the mama's boy!

[@TheFlamingPotato]

Not me crying over story two’s update

[@Tammohawk1]

1. NTA Good for her! No one needs to put up with that nonsense. Doesn't matter if they were drunk or not . But I'm afraid all of them would have been taking a bus as soon as I saw them when I pulled up. That was a double date. I would have pulled off right in front of them. 3. Who acted immaturely and entitled? Oh, the mom did. She knew that OP was going to make that cake and bought one out of spite. Someone needs to stand up to that woman. If he doesn't come around soon, OP needs to walk because it will never change. edit: I'll take a homemade cake over a bought one every day. Unless it comes from this one place we have. They have cakes to die for.

[@DePhoegonIsle]

That's when you drop them off at a gas station or some manned business. not leave drunk idiots alone without help.. even if they are complete nitwits.

[@astronautviolet153]

Story 1 NTA I would rethink the relationship, that was a double date, and you should just let that man go if he's not gonna stick up for you.

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

2) I'm so glad these types of memories don't just happen to me that other people just don't remember anything at all.

[@fleurpouvior2967]

Story 1: NTA, especially in poland. Safest country I ever lived in, and those trams are amazing! Would (and have) 100% ride them home intoxicated and alone. Polish public transport is legit

[@stephaniestreeter7407]

Dump him he's a mommas boy she will be on your case and he will always take her side leave now before you get married run fast and far he will take her side

[@MsUnamusedNerd]

STORY 3: walking out was being mature. OP could’ve stayed and been passive aggressive/constantly pick arguments with his mom. Even if OP stayed and just stayed quiet I’m pretty sure his mom would’ve been picking at OP about “sucking like a child“ and kept stirring up more drama that OP is expected to “go with the flow“ Either fiancé needs to change his ways and stop worshiping mother dearest and realize his mom is acting out of line or the engagement is to be called off. I 100% believe that they do get married Opie is always going to be second-best to mother-in-law.

[@kittenswithbows]

Story 1 - love OPs comment about "sorry about whats happening in the US, but we live in Poland". Like, same! It's so crazy being on the internet with Americans these days, their reactions are so over the top because they effectively live in a constant state of domestic terrorism and never know when they could randomly get shot by a stranger in the street. Imagine how that must shape your world view?!

[@yourneighborhooddeadpool488]

Just finished frosting 121 sugar cookies for my sister’s fiancé’s surprise birthday party c:

[@yourneighborhooddeadpool488]

@@thecrowuknow thank you :)

[@necilya]

1st story: when OP said "I’m sorry for what’s happening in the USA, but we are living in Poland, Europe ". Nothing else to explain here.

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

Ditch the Mumma's Boy in story 3!

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

Title story; NTA. They decided to bite the hand that was feeding them, & received the natural justice that if they had 3 brain cells between them they should have anticipated. You're not required to tolerate egregious disrespect just because the person giving it has gotten themselves into a physically vulnerable state. That was their own problem.

[@CensorshipVictim]

Story 3: I'd have smashed the cake into BF's face and left. 🤣😂

[@AngelaMastrodonato]

But that’s a waste of cake!

[@destinedtogame]

Small world indeed, I live in VT.

[@Natalie66796]

Wow, I wasn't expecting that twist for story 2 ^^

[@Bubonic4U]

I love when a bluff gets called.

[@Mewse1203]

Be kind, be safe and take care of yourself. Have a great day

[@definitelyarealperson248]

I understand being worried about them if they were drunk and dropped off at the bus station. But I’ll wait to see why she was rude before I make a judgment. Nevermind. They had a warning. They knew the consequences. Still not ideal, but not really OP’s problem. 3 of them were together and sober enough to actively crap talk OP. Bus stops are at least in civilisation. But the boyfriend sounds super dumb. At a double date with another woman and he didn’t even figure that out. Even when they explicitly say she’s interested in him. No one is that dumb. Well. Some people are. At least that other guy realised she’s psycho. The boyfriend is even worse than I though. Story 2: just what.

[@Davtwan]

BF knew how those girls were like when sober. What made him think that letting OP pick them up while they’re drunk was a good idea?

[@markiusgalfordii9248]

2nd story a few years ago I decided to look up some of my exes. Well one of them completely different um completely disappeared from from everything. I have pictures of her in the yearbook But everything online says she does not exist. So I kept Prying trying to figure out what was going on. Then about 6 months to year later after or at least about a month or 2 of searching. I did knock on the door and and it was a police officer and a cover 1 and he told me told me to stop looking. And there was a reason why there was no paper trail. That's all I found out

[@damien678]

bruh... wtaf...

[@lindsey683]

when someone asked what if the friend was shot and OP said “im sorry about what’s happening in the USA but we’re living in Poland” 💀💀💀 yeehaw 🤠 get me out of here

[@gelibeanzcantrell7192]

story 3 sounds almost just like the cake pop story

[@jazzyg7202]

Story one: op is better than me I would have drove them to the police station and told police these drunk women just got in my car and started to verbally assaulting me.would have turned on crocodile tears when telling the story. 😭😭😂😂

[@paulagoeringer9466]

Good to know you weren't crazy and somebody remembered your old gf. That sort of thing could make you question your sanity.😸

[@CrowleyFledge]

I'm only half listening to the stories, but in story 2 (update) after hearing that someone transitioned from ftm I started cringing everytime I heard "she/her" in reference to the person

[@civivva4501]

1) MIL makes cake for son's birthday and suggests plastic surgery. 2) Husband Secretly invites MIL on holiday 3) MIL insists on being there in the delivery room = RUN GIRL!!!

[@dizzysdoings]

Seen all those stories. 🤣

[@civivva4501]

@@dizzysdoings Exactly.

[@caid404]

I hope story 1 op and story 3 op either get things sorted out or leave, somebody that doesn't interfere when the people in their life says nasty things to you or mistreat you just does not care about you

[@loendsti]

story 2 - she could be similar to me, i don't use any socials, deleted the farcebook like 9 years ago.

[@paden1865able]

I never did put up with rude drunks and put several to the curb back in the day.

[@KBAILEYinMS]

Story 3. NTA He would have been wearing the damn cake.

[@LoveableNiki]

Story 3: NTA. When a partner's friends/family disrespect you and your partner excuses it way, RUN. Partner will never have your back. (Partner could with work, but is it worth it?) Ben and his mother are TAs. OP needs to YEET Ben out of her life.

[@hibiscusrose6074]

Drunk people always say what's on their minds.

[@michellecole1720]

Story 1. I'll kick someone out of my car in a heartbeat if you rude or nasty to me

[@kristinecollier8113]

HMMMMMM. My recollection of being drunk, you tell the truth. At the time, her boyfriend stuck up for her, wether it was because he just wanted to get home or not, they didn't know that. NTA. I have kicked people out of my car for less.

[@ellorasg4525]

Story 1: Dump the bf. It sounds like he is cheating on OP! Let the other girl have him and tell her, she can have the back stabbing cheater and hope he does not cheat on her. lol Story 2 was so wholesome. I love it. I absolutely love it. Story 3: I just read it on reddit lol

[@justinecorrington4106]

Story 3: op needs to tell her fiancé: FMIL needs thicker skin; this is the way op is; she doesn’t mean to be malicious.

[@clairebear-96]

Watching this as a “rerun” lol and damn “what if your bf’s friend got shot at the bus stop? Sorry for what’s happening in the US, but we’re in Poland” as an american, that still makes me laugh so hard yet simultaneously…. ouch 💀

[@VixenIcaza]

Story 2: "can't find the unsusal name. Bet they were trans"............ "called it"

[@NikolaiTheJester]

Lol frr

[@KCCAT5]

1. NTA, AND TO HELL WITH THE BF! Why is he with that girl that wants to hook up with him anyway? Being drunk is no excuse for being rude

[@damien678]

We still need a cake story compilation 😛

[@jadedflames2809]

Drunk bf seems more reasonable than sober bf in the first story-

[@FoxgloveWanderer]

Op 'ruined the party', yet it went on until nearly midnight? Wanna bet the whole thing turned into a 'trash OP' party once she left and they had so much fun with it that no one wanted to leave?

[@winterkind1772]

Story 1: Guys saying they "don't want drama" is such a huuuuge trigger for me. My Ex used to say this. Later I found out that by drama he meant that he didn't want to talk about it because he was already looking for a new girlfriend and didn't have the courage to break up like a normal human.... darn. So I guess I'm a little biased but at the same time.... giiiirrrlll I hope you get out of this apartment soon. Edit: Also. People forget that alcohol just "opens you up" (sorry, english is not my first language and I don't know how to say this otherwise). So these girls weren't just stupid drunk girls, they just said exactly what they thought about op the whole time.... gosh I'm still angry at the boyfriend.

[@DgShadowChocolate]

👏Self-respect👏is 👏worth 👏more 👏than 👏any 👏relationship. Period.

[@stepgamerdad]

"From the mouth of babes and drunkards", "a drunk mind speaks a sober heart", "in vino veritas"... You get the picture. OP is NTA.

[@MizTameRumors]

3rd OP should take more than a cake out of this relationship. This man is about to be your husband, a spouse doesn't tell their partner to 'have a thick skin' they are meant to defend and support you. I know my MIL wasn't a fan of all my tattoo's when we met, but she never said a word because she knows she raised her son right and he wouldn't stand for it.

[@stoopingfalcon891]

The drunk rude girls. Did anyone else notice that she picked them up at 3AM?

[@dawnwagoner8307]

Get rid of him!

[@margaretlowe5220]

" That's just the way they are" means they are entitled bullies who insult anyone they deem less than and we let them get away with being a fucking nightmare.

[@GMAMEC]

Lol, Mark gave me some “angry dad vibes” @3:37 .

[@Vallyrah]

Bus stops in the US are very dangerous at night.

[@jennstewart3003]

Story 1: Hell, I don't think I would have driven them. Like legit, the car wouldn't have even left the parking lot of the festival. Bitches don't get rides. If I am coming to pick up my boyfriend and his friend, then that's all I'm picking up.

[@laurenramsey60619]

story 1 dump him for going on the double date

[@dawnstone4424]

Thank Mark for your consistently awesome uploads! Love waffles and you!

[@pelgervampireduck]

why do people always take the side of the assholes and justify them "oh, that's how they are" "you are being dramatic" "but it's faaamily!" and all kinds of justifications??. why is it always the victims that have to suck it up and the inconsiderate people, jerks or even abusers get defended and people on their side?!!! it's infuriating!!.