My Flat Mate CONFESSED Her Love For My Boyfriend Behind My Back r/Relationships

[@MarkNarrations]

Me: Having a sunday roast with lovely yorkshire puddings suddenly remembers that a video should be live now! OOOOOOOF! Much love all!

[@catandrobbyflores]

That sounds really good!

[@carolroberts4614]

I love Sunday roast! But I thought it would be too hot, so we had salad With new potatoes dug up from a neighbour's allotment!

[@annaorbanes5070]

Yorkshire Pudding! Yum! Must be a very special occasion.

[@PunkyHorrors]

A roast in this heat!!!

[@alicewilloughby4318]

Yorkshire pudding? Thanks, now I'm drooling all over my keyboard!

[@JSainte17]

"She can't be touching up on him when he's in a relationship." You don't get to touch up on people just because you like them, relationship or not.

[@JennRighter]

And anyone being touched up on should say “hey stop”.

[@AndyyWithAY]

Confessing your love to someone else's BF makes you a garbage person, especially when you barely know the guy and you met him after he was already with his SO. Same goes for a GF

[@MarkNarrations]

Hey andy, how are you doing my friend?!

[@ginathecookie]

Gotta agree Unless its to go "hey, can you reject me so I can move on?" I've done that before with a friend, except they were single (and they did reject me which I was sad and happy about, as the I could finally move on, I wanted to be their friend, not with them fr and my feelings annoyed me). for most part I recommend pepple keep it to themselves or find a healthier outlet for when they can't. Even then/that said; confessing when someone is in a relationship is like stating your intentions to steal which is what she did without actually saying it

[@TsukiKageTora]

And touching them without their consent.

[@robertx8020]

@@ginathecookie good point And if she had stopped after this you might be right, in that this is what she wanted to do

[@akl2k7]

@@ginathecookie Or saying "Hey, I think I may be developing feelings for you. I think we should avoid being in the same space as one another as much as possible out of respect for your relationship and your SO. In the meantime, can you reject me so I can move on?"

[@TsukiKageTora]

How disgusting do you have to be to touch another person in a relationship without their consent cause you “love them”?

[@robertx8020]

So what should she have done? Kill the roommate herself?

[@AwkwrdPrtMskrt]

That's just SA.

[@RJLiams]

Can we just take a minute to appreciate the boyfriend? That's a good partner.

[@kingofmiami2749]

Spoilers

[@pansprayers]

Can we take a second to question why the hell it is that the base level of human decency should require a ticker tape parade? I find it utterly bizarre that his actions (that I consider to be baseline for normality) need a moment of appreciation these days. I don't know, I guess my 'don't make it weird, and I won't call you out for being weird, nor will I tell someone else to stop calling you out for being weird' policy elevates my husband and I to sainthood status any more.

[@slippyquack7672]

@@pansprayers good for you.

[@zahraa4149]

@@pansprayers because humans are flawed. One person will not have have ALL the traits of "base level humans decency". Many people do not have good communication skills and people make mistakes. It's Okay to appreciate people being good

[@brigidtheirish]

@@zahraa4149 *This.* People are good and bad. The good should be *encouraged.*

[@fleurpouvior2967]

I feel like this channel has prepared me well. A former coworker sent me a very inaproperate text, the other night. I didn't get past the first sentence before I blocked him on everything, and sent a text to my bf about it, letting him know drunk text was sent, and former coworker blocked. I recently moved to the other side of the country, so zero chance of running into him. I also checked with my bf the next day, to see how he was feeling about it, and he is fine, and not worried. Mark narrations, teaching healthy relationship navigation, every single day!

[@WobblesandBean]

11:30 Classic manipulation tactic. The whole "I'm such a bad person" spiel is designed to make you feel bad for them and make you reassure THEM even though YOU'RE the one who was wronged. I'd bet good money on HPD or BPD.

[@darlingccs2799]

Story 1: The point of the roommate confessing was to cause chaos. Hopefully by creating a secret with the OP boyfriend if he tried to keep it to himself. That's some super snake ish. OP has to talk to her about it cause yeah....she tried to steal her BF and isn't even sorry. Like FR??????

[@pansprayers]

Chaos status requires planning, and she doesn't possess that depth of self awareness.

[@k.l.6129]

Doja Cat; is that you? 😸

[@dreampiper]

Honestly, I was ticked that OP didn’t confront the roommate earlier. If this was about a girlfriend being harassed by a boyfriend’s flatmate then ppl would have called OP the butthole and said to act before it happens again.

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

I agree. It was a case of sexual harassment.

[@EveryDayALittleDeath]

The fact that she stole OPs meds makes me wonder if there's some kleptomania going on. Antidepressants aren't really in high demand on the black market because they don't get you high, so I doubt she stole them for herself or to make money. I suppose she could have stolen them just to hurt OP but I try to give people the benefit of the doubt when possible, and sadly, kleptomania is the less damning option here.

[@Khellyyyyyy]

That's a good point! I thought she took the prescription sheet/bottle just so she could take a picture or two for social media attention😂 But your point makes much more sense and is also more consistent since she took many, many things from OP and BF

[@ChaoticMushy]

That would explain why she also took things like a charm bracelet from OPs childhood. Charm bracelets aren't really worth much, especially one made for a kid. The only value in it is sentiments and you can't really price something off of sentiment

[@simonO712]

Yeah, something like kleptomania was my first thought too. The things she stole just felt too "random".

[@tabortoothtiger7580]

It honestly felt kind of like she was trying to become or be OP or has an obsession with her because she has "the guy she's in love with." Idk. Something is deeply wrong with her, either way.

[@MisterNightfish]

That escalated from somewhat inappropriate housemate to "nuttier than squirrel poo" real quick. Main reason I'm not really on board with giving housemate too much leeway is that she knows full well to conceal her behavior. She's knows how wrong it is and just does not give a shit.

[@khaleesireyna731]

Agreed. My mother has bipolar disorder and she can do some very weird and abnormal stuff, but she can also be super manipulative/calculating.

[@delilahbelle2125]

Your trauma, mental health struggles, etc. aren't your fault, but they are your responsibility to manage and navigate. It is not a blanket excuse to dismiss abhorrent words/behavior, act out, terrorize/harm others, or move through the world leaving damage in your wake. Regardless of trauma or mental health struggles, you are still accountable.

[@Cel3ere5]

Yeah, that's not how that works...

[@thedestroyasystem]

Agreed 100%

[@nineblackgoats]

Provided that you are self-aware enough to be accountable. Some mental health issues do abolish that level of judgement.

[@Mewse1203]

Story 1: thoughts on the update. So a few days ago, Mark did a story from his subreddit about a lady and her boyfriend who called out "sick" but was lying. What I said there goes double for this story... When OP confronted her, what was her first reaction? Shebplayed the "poor me, pity party" card. Thisbisnwhere someome who has done something wrong will do and say whatever she could to stop OP's righteous anger. So when she Said "Oh I'm such a horrible person" she wanted OP to stop being mad at her and to start comforting/sympathizing with her. And that's EXACTLY what happened. This is a shitty manipulation tool some people use to get out of trouble. The roommate is no different

[@brianaschmidt910]

Ok... But I just want to point out that sometimes it's not manipulation on their part, but rather something their brain repeats ad nauseam (over and over again) source: my brain calls me a pathetic loser everytime I mess up. And questions wether or not I'm meant to be alive at all if all I'm gonna do is mess up. (I've struggled with suicidal thoughts for most of the almost 3decades I've been alive. And it's taken forever and a bunch of training for me to finally stop telling myself that I should kill myself.) But those thoughts do crop up as well, it's like my brain loves to abuse me by keeping me down with little innocuous statements and pretty soon I'm agreeing with everything negative said about me. It gets defensive when it's behavior is called into question. 0.o I just realized that I'm technically in an abusive relationship with myself. How do I escape from self abuse?

[@ninirossau2304]

@@brianaschmidt910 I am so sorry for you. the only advice I can give is to focus on all your good qualities and love yourself.

[@khaleesireyna731]

Oh lord, my mother is the queen of this tactic. You can imagine how annoyed she was when I started calling her out on it.

[@khaleesireyna731]

@@brianaschmidt910 I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. Definitely seek therapy and/medical help if that is an option for you. You're not alone and I just want to say that you are worth being here and there are people who are happy you're here. Also, this may be a small thing but it changed a lot for me: try creating some daily affirmations. Something simple like "I am a good person. I am worth knowing. I deserve the things I work for". Write them down, post em on a wall on a mirror, somewhere you can see them regularly. Say them to yourself (out loud if you can) every day. It may not fix everything but it can do a lot for your mental outlook.

[@Mewse1203]

@@khaleesireyna731 Mine too!

[@maggpiprime954]

I totally missed OP's housemate's age until she called the mum. Ngl, I yelled "27???" This is only naïvite in a 19/20yo. This is someone who's been a legal adult for nearly a _DECADE,_ ffs! Inexcusable. She's nearly 30. I had a spouse and a newborn at 27. Wtaf. *Fred Flintstone swear words Edit: Ok, possible mental health issues could definitely be a factor, but it's not the 90s anymore when ppl were only beginning to learn about mental health issues beyond depression and PPD. Idk. I hope she gets whatever help she needs.

[@ginathecookie]

Er at 19/20 most know better so its only half a excuse for naivety.. speaking as someone who was that age over half a decade ago and knew people that age and remember the mindset. Still only half an excuse and most know better, you have to be really... not smart to do this at any age

[@maggpiprime954]

@@ginathecookie Agreed! I arbitrarily put that age as an outset benefit of doubt. In point of fact, ppl have been kicked out of my _highschool_ friend group for that sort of behaviour. Mental health challenges and cognitive disabilities have never been an excuse for shitty behaviour, as I was taught from childhood. My family would never let me do that, and I would be mortified. Like many others (w/without cog. disabilities), I have known to distance myself from inappropriate crushes. I... I just can't with this woman.

[@damien678]

OP has shown a significant amount of grace with how she's talking about her roommate and her mental health

[@Enderslegend]

Maybe she should have some “compassion” for her boyfriend instead of making excuses for the person harassing him. I doubt she’d be making this many excuses if she was the one being subjected to unwanted touching.

[@simonO712]

She's not making excuses though. She's calling her out while also sympathizing with her situation.

[@alymay6849]

I feel like she was stealing her clother to also "be her"

[@VeggieMama722]

Single White Female

[@SilverstreamPJ28]

OP is wise beyond her years. Very compassionate and understanding, without being a pushover. Truly inspiring.

[@madcrazyanimallover]

The op is very compassionate. You can fully understand how someone's mental illness causes inappropriate behaviour, accept that, and put up needed boundaries. That's the kind response, not calling names or raging out. Being calm actually helps the situation- the roommate would have a harder time villainising op. Just moving on works better for everyone...

[@patricklasseter9915]

No day is complete without your stories

[@MarkNarrations]

Aww Patrick, you are a legend of the highest order!

[@askreddit3021]

I would just go ahead and take your stuff back, especially your medication and bracelet. She already stole from you so if you give her the chance surely she will try and lie to cover it up. Maybe it’s going to far but if it were me I would look through her things to retrieve anything else of yours that may be in there.

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

1) I remember this story, I just want updates on everything else, like getting all the stuff back and everything. Edit: and getting cameras in her room, a lock, etc... I would go through everything in that room for the stuff too. Block her on everything and refuse to let her come back. Also never leave any clothing in the wash alone, never leave my stuff out alone, I'd get a fridge and everything in my room. But honestly the better idea is to get an apartment with the boyfriend and block her on everything.

[@eladiaz4323]

I laughed when the roommate stopped ‘crying’ at the sight of her mom. XD

[@TheMimiSard]

I agree, OP in this is a very understanding person who is willing to see the problem from a potential mental health perspective.

[@briansmaller7443]

Sounds like a flatmate I had. She had kleptomania. She used to squirrel away random shit of every other person in the flat. We never knew until her mother called and asked us to just go in her room and check for things that are ours. Things like one sock, a plate, food - lots of food - under the bed, in the closet. I wonder if this woman in the story is similar.

[@FanFicnic]

God it kills me. Every guy I know who’s been sexually harassed never tells anyone until hours later. And that fear! “I thought you’d be mad.”

[@judithhansford4629]

Story one: wow what a ride. And she needs help as well but it looks like her mom knows all about it. So seems like she needs to return to therapy. The pandemic interrupted a lot of peoples mental health care.

[@Passions5555]

I know it did for me. Only two years later, (this month) did manage to get back into therapy.

[@riley6740]

Roommate should now be told she’ll have to be making her own food from now on. This is probably where it all started. Her fantasizing what a perfect boyfriend/husband he’ll be.

[@wplains]

OP is not compassionate, she’s well in her way to being a doormat and one day finding herself facing her crazy roommate trying to knife her.

[@BruceWayne-ys4iq]

pretty sad how she was willing to sympathize with a sexual assaulter

[@wplains]

@@BruceWayne-ys4iq I have no patience with idiots like this. They deserve everything they get!

[@immortalsofar5314]

As an extra complication, one of the most guttural reactions to getting caught is to shift the blame so if BF complains about sexual harassment... well, he'd better make sure he has evidence and an alibi.

[@devchekhov7512]

Take your things back. They're yours. Don't be so afraid.

[@clairebear-96]

Yoooo i thought we weren’t getting a video today, then got out the shower to see this posted 5 minutes ago…. much love y’all!

[@MarkNarrations]

Was too busy stuffing my face!

[@clairebear-96]

@@MarkNarrations LMFAOO now that’s understandable tho 😂

[@jasonrustmann7535]

They should have just shared him lol

[@Tammohawk1]

I'd ransack that bedroom after finding an item of mine in it. Once you steal something, all bets are off in my opinion. If she throws a fit, I'd tell her that's what she gets for being a thief. I don't like thieves or liars.

[@dancing0nthe3dge]

Your videos make my days 🙂

[@faithturk2746]

I LITERALLY HAD THIS EXACT SAME PROBLEM WITH A FRIEND OF MY BOYFRIEND! Okay so this chick lived across the hall from my bf in uni and lived with some of my good friends from high school. We got along well at first but I started noticing weird stuff. She always had to walk next to him or sit next to him when we went out as a group. When bf and I would hangout in my room (a single) to snuggle and such he’d open his phone so we could watch tv together and he’d have like 40 messages from her on different platforms. I told him it made me uncomfortable and he said she was just super ADHD and he had absolutely 0 interest in her. My friends themselves also started telling me to be careful because she was talking to/ about him all the time and only cared to go out with them when he’d be there. My final straws however were when she asked what his favorite hairstyle on girls where to which he said “I love when my girlfriend wears space buns” with pictures of me to which she sent him pictures of herself with the same hairstyle AND when the group was racing up the stairs of their dorm later he cut his arm on an untrimmed stair rail and she literally started crying and insisted on “patching him up” herself. After this he agreed it was weird and that even his friends thought so. Well after a week of not answering texting, and not going to group settings she’d be in she came to his room in the middle of the night, a shared dorm mind you, and tearfully confessed her feelings for him and said I treated him badly and he deserved better and that she loved him. He said “are you fucking crazy? Never speak to me again” and she went ballistic and started screaming and crying that he was manipulative and a horrible person to the point that and RA came out as well as other sleeping students. she move into a different dorm building a week later. And we haven’t seen or heard from her since. Shit was crazy.

[@ellorasg4525]

Thank you for the stories Mark. I really enjoy it. :)

[@Silence-1170]

Have a happy Sunday waffles wishing you all well! Going to be celebrating grandpa's birthday here soon stay safe!

[@MarkNarrations]

Happy birthday Grandpa!

[@simac8396]

I am an advocate for mental illness, mental illness is real and should be taken seriously. HOWEVER, BPD may explain your roommates behavior it does not excuse it. She has stolen from you she has harrased you boyfriend. You are enabling her behavior by making excuses and not holding her accountable.

[@thedestroyasystem]

That did come to mind- the behaviors described didn’t sound characteristic of HPD (which was what OP mentioned) to me, but BPD I could definitely see. Sounds like BF could be her FP. Doesn’t explain the stealing, but that could be an additional issue, idk. Whatever she has/doesn’t have, it does not excuse her actions; still, I hope she gets the help she needs. Having a personality disorder doesn’t make someone a bad person, but one’s actions certainly may.

[@simonO712]

I didn't really see her making excuses though. She called her out and made her mom pick her up, how is that enabling?

[@simac8396]

@@simonO712 it was all the other stuff, she didn't want to invade her roommates space to retrieve her stolen property. She made excuses for her unreasonable behavior, she ignored her boyfriends complaints. It wasn't untill she had the confrontation at the end that she did anything. Even then she feels bad that the roommate will loose her circle of friends.

[@toothless3835]

story 1: Don't cook for her. He can clean around the house if he wants, pay a portion of the rent, I'd stop cooking for her immediately. You can totally expect the paying roommate to not eat your food or eat with you.

[@angelowalker8855]

I actually want to know if she’s also obsessed with op too? Because she does act like she could be either into both of them or she wants to become op out of jealousy. But she definitely needs help. I hope she doesn’t turn even more crazy.

[@PeacheIIe]

Omg it sounds like one of those movies where the psycho tries to become the object of their obsession (in this case OP) and tries to become them and take everything in their life

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

I do hope that housemate gets help. Mental health in any degree sucks to the high heavens. HOWEVER! Does NOT excuse what housemate was doing and OP had every right to do what she needed to do.

[@browniewin4121]

What a desperate and trash person, intruding herself into your relationship and professing love to someone she doesn't even really know, your boyfriend who has shown no interest in her but is for now stuck there. She needs to know your boyfriend immediately told you and that her attention is unwanted by and she is to stop touching him. He should be the one to state this. It is already uncomfortable there, and could get much worse. After update: I'm glad it came out in the open. It's good you talked to her, and called her mother so she got taken away. Do just reclaim you items that she took. Best wishes going forward for all involved.

[@eileenhathaway1674]

I would not leave my stuff there. I would get it ALL out and put on the coffee table. I would ask her Mom to come with her when she comes back so there is no doubt in anyone's mind why she would be allowed back. She can't tell a lie to her Mom that way either. I think even she will be shocked by how much she has stolen.

[@DaiLusional]

Im impressed with both the BF and OP in this story. The fact that the moment she touched him at the fridge he admonished her when he wasn't even aware that OP was there shows him to be one of the good ones. The story doesn't mention if the flatmate was hot or not but resisting a pretty woman that is coming onto you is not as easy as it may sound. He shot her down hard and fast. Nice work.

[@CouncilEstateRach]

We have to admit not all people have mental health problems some are just not nice.

[@1911odisea]

Story 1: If OP's flatmate was male, everyone would be way, way more harsh.

[@selbarton]

He has the ability to tell her to keep her hands off if it was unwelcome. Instead, he hasn't set any boundaries for her. He even gave her the impression he agreed with keeping it secret. Question why he is not making it clear to her he isn't interested in her single or taken. Not setting those boundaries is giving her his consent. He has never said no. He's not moving away, not removing himself from easy access. He waited for events OP might see and question before telling her, so kept the secret until he might get caught out. Why was the only time he told her to stop when OP was right in the next room to catch them? Why nothing more until he knew she was watching? It feels odd that he made zero effort unless it was going to be in front of OP where it could cause him to lose his home. Every step to de-escalate the situation was ignored. "I thought she was joking" was bs. The way she says he described the conversation says he believed it the entire time to be serious. So there's something else going on OP ignored just like the feeling guilty for saying anything instead of allowing it to continue. Seems like OP is easily manipulated into falling for whatever bs she is told, and the situation sounds like boyfriend was playing a bit of both sides until roommate couldn't keep it hidden.

[@angelahoffman119]

I worked with a girl that had Histrionic Personality Disorder. It was exhausting

[@mysterylovescompany2657]

Wow, after that update of the contents of housemate's room, it really sounds like she was trying to full-on Single White Female the OP (presumably - _hopefully_ - sans the murder). That's intense.

[@bangeryun94]

Did the roommate think that taking OP's meds would cause a mental break and bf would leave her? Regardless of her mental health issues, the roommate doesn't seem to be a very nice person and masked who she really was quite well.

[@OriginalAsherella]

I can already tell from the title this one is gonna be infuriating. Jeez… 🤦‍♀️

[@fyoutube9410]

Ooof, bf is in trouble if she has bp as well.

[@lisaedwards2542]

Separate your eating ry not to stay in clos proximity and eat in your room. Confront her immediately don't worry about her feelings as she doesn't care about yours.

[@eldinovm8077]

DISCOMBOBULATE. DISCOMBOBULATE. DISCOMBOBULATE.

[@Sushi_Cat2793]

Hi, random idea for anyone wanting to make a Reddit post about their sister in law! If shortening it to SIL, put (window) in brackets. (Window) SIL Hehehe, windowsill I’m sorry, it’s a stupid joke. edit: AY AY WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON WITH THAT FLATMATE. WHAT THE FUYUUUUU

[@persephoneszeliga]

Holy freaky flat mate!!!

[@cm06c]

My excitement when I refreshed my KZbin page and saw a new video was posted. 😊 will listen while making carrot cake cupcakes 😁

[@carolroberts4614]

I raise you my cherry muffins!

[@noydb-1]

Just stop with trying to make everything into a syndrome or disorder. Sometimes people are just spoiled, entitled pieces of sh*t. Take pictures of the stolen items, as you found them. Call her at her mom's place, and let her know if she doesn't move out immediately, and return everything she has taken, you will go to the police with the evidence of her theft. She is just a spoiled little princess who never got told NO, so she thinks she is allowed to take anything she wants. Time to give her a taste of consequences for her actions.

[@pansprayers]

Stop pretending that you understand the baseline of psychological insight. A person who is unable/unwilling to maintain the baseline of social norms is on the spectrum of some kind of social/psychological disorder. But, your language and name hurling in lieu of knowledge of what hyper-mania looks like (ie THIS) tells us everything we need to know, especially if there's an existing diagnosis. She needs treatment for self destructive behaviour, and a new place to live. You need an education, perspective and a knock down a few rungs.

[@thedestroyasystem]

I do agree, all too often Reddit uses terms like “narcissist” to mean “shitty person,” which is inaccurate, stigmatizing, and unhelpful. I do like that there is further empathy for where people are coming from with their actions, but really it’s not your job to diagnose or treat somebody. Labeling them, accurate or not, doesn’t change their actions; the only way forward is to create boundaries and barriers for your own health. Their health and behavior is their own problem.

[@lisaedwards2542]

Omg your flatmate is disgusting get her in-line or get her out. Confront her as in that action he's displaying loyalty and setting the boundary off limits. If she touches your boyfriend again slap her hand away. Op get your stuff back. There's nothing wrong she's full of it as she shut up when her mum turned up.

[@brigidtheirish]

Previous housemate didn't notice anything weird but the mom acted as if this wasn't anything new *and* OP found some of her *medication* in the housemate's room. OP better check if any more of her medication is missing than that one sheet, I'm betting the housemate's a druggy. Still, maybe it's me, but having a mental illness *is* being crazy by definition. I've got a laundry list of mental health problems as does my dad. We both freely admit that we're crazy "and have the medication to prove it."

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

Story 1: Flat mate has some serious issues. I would move away from her.

[@paden1865able]

Just in time to listen to your soothing voice as I prepare supper in the Dutch oven. Swiss steak tonight because my husband says I perfected it and he won't get tired of it. 😊

[@jaymevosburgh3660]

😂 I am a diagnosed "maniac" and I never try to touch other people 😂 WTF?! That girl needs therapy because she obviously has some issues with male relationships and probably with intimacy if she thinks she fell in love with a person she doesn't even know. And she is a liar and a kleptomaniac? Yeah, hell no 😂

[@draconisdragonheart4248]

I really thought OP didn't work on this faster. The flat mate committed sexual harassment several times.

[@josephinejoseph8922]

I respect the boyfriend for telling op ,now I will waite until they all sitting down for meal and tell her where toget off

[@Qabim]

It is very hard for me to empathize with someone who sexually harasses anybody. Illness or not. The thing is though, with mental illnesses that make you very impulse heavy, there's always at least one thought before you do the action where you think yourself if you should do it. I'm not going to say anything else cuz I don't want people to go down my throat but you can read between the lines to what I'm implying here

[@dawnstone4424]

Love me some Mark and waffles, in that order!

[@jadedflames2809]

If the gender roles were reversed, this would be beyond not okay. Never wait for a loved one to be sexually harassed because you wanna "keep the peace". seriously, fuck that noise I am very sympathetic with mentally struggling people and I am also mentally struggling but if you're more sympathetic towards the person in the wrong than the wrong, then you're an a**hole. Boyfriend needed to feel safe, not wait until op sees Bf gets s-xually harassed

[@jadedflames2809]

Sorry for weird censoring and wording, YT wasn't letting me post the comment

[@heatherdickau5335]

Mental health might explain your behavior but it doesn't excuse you from consequences. The fact she instantly stopped crying when her mother showed up makes her whole behavior even more questionable.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗

[@egalitarian2207]

Hey mark! I’ve heard you confuse the pronunciation of “empathize” as in empathy, with “emphasize” as in putting emphasis on something, in a few videos! It doesn’t change the quality of the videos, I still understand what you’re saying, but just letting you know! Really appreciate your uploads. Hope you and the family are having lovely times together

[@TheArmyOfGoats]

Perfect timing as usual

[@telinhajp]

Hi Mark! Hugs from Tokyo! ❤️

[@MarkNarrations]

Hey Telinha hope all is well mate!

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Sorry I'm late I'm practicing skate boarding

[@agnesblack1974]

Flatmate OP: I would contact the flatmate's mom, let her know that you saw some of your stuff openly displayed in her daughter's room. Ask if she could come over (without the flatmate) and go through her closet/drawers to see if she has taken anything else. Thank mom for being there to help and that you so very much appreciate her involvement. Let her know about your childhood charm bracelet and that it was taken from the depths of your jewelry box and that's why you are highly concerned that more items could be involved. If mom gets defensive, tell her that you were concerned for your flatmate and don't want to get the police involved, but if she won't help you, ultimately you'll have to speak to them. That is NOT blackmail. You are being upfront about what your options are to get your property back.

[@SiFireHasSpeed]

Dude. Why does OP care about this person’s mental condition. It’s the dipshits problem to manage not OP. It has zero weight on anything and I don’t get it.

[@simonO712]

Because she has a high degree of empathy.

[@shikuthetempest]

Today I'm listening while looking after my niblings. They slept over last night and now they're watching Shrek.

[@MarkNarrations]

A classic!

[@SheenaReine]

I’d be going through the drawers and closets etc. you lost the right to privacy when you looted my stuff. She clearly needs help.

[@kateemma22]

That witch needed her hair pulled out from second 1. The poor boyfriend was talking like a classic SA victim (because he was a victim of SA) - 'I'm sorry I didn't tell you' 'this is my fault' etc - and the flatmate went full manipulation playing the victim the moment she got a chance to. Well done to mom, obviously this is a personality flaw not bad parenting, but I still think OP should have taken some clumps of hair before mom took her away.

[@lucydean4028]

This story sounds like Single White Female movie. Roommate seems to be "in love" with OP and wants her life.

[@Josku2411]

Ooh early and just started the isle of the mists quest in Witcher 3

[@MarkNarrations]

I've started witcher 3 multiple times, I really need to do a proper playthrough!

[@mztweety1374]

Hpd is fascinating

[@Mkay999]

Story 1: I’d have the bf sit her down and tell her, he told OP bc that is his partner, he doesn’t keep secrets. Next, he should tell her he feels uncomfortable about the touching and doesn’t want that to happen again. Then, he draws some separation boundaries that maybe they shouldn’t all eat together. Idk why everyone is acting like OP needs to be the one to lay things out.

[@SueTainsh]

What’s the breakfast real you always play in the outro?

[@FriedaMMartin]

Good afternoon!

[@MarkNarrations]

Freidaaaaaaaa, how's things?!

[@FriedaMMartin]

@@MarkNarrations they are well. I made soaps with mystery pearls in them

[@FriedaMMartin]

@@MarkNarrations they are well. I made soaps with mystery pearls in them

[@listenquitely2888]

Ever seen the movie roomate???

[@cynthiaejiogu8442]

First up! Hi from Sacramento!

[@MarkNarrations]

Hi Cynthia, how's Sacramento treating you?!

[@carolroberts4614]

Hi Cynthia!

[@cynthiaejiogu8442]

@@MarkNarrations ok it’s hot 100 but no humidity!

[@catandrobbyflores]

Playing Monster hunter Sunbreak while listening today.

[@ajzephyros7454]

Same here buddy

[@catandrobbyflores]

@@ajzephyros7454 what's your target hunt today? I've got Teostra farming to do.

[@ajzephyros7454]

@@catandrobbyflores Shagaru Magala

[@catandrobbyflores]

@@ajzephyros7454 nice!

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Any adult has a tantrum in front of me it’s getting recorded and put on social media. “This is my adult roommate is angry I told her not to hit on my Bf” tag her and she will never bother ur Bf again. Borderlines are monsters especially the ones who steal partners and clothing

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@elsemiekeanna]

Nice, early gang whilst baking cookies

[@user-fg4tn8ot6b]

Discombobulated... :'D I don't like the roommate. This is inappropriate, and it feels like she's saying "sorry" because she got caught being a f*cking creep towards your boyfriend. I don't buy that act of remorse. Until you save enough to move out or find somewhere to stay temporarily, the boyfriend should avoid being alone with her (if she's so bad at self-control and/or so unashamed of pursuing a taken man.) And she's a thief at that. Finally, she sounds like the kind of person who fishes for sympathy. I would not be surprised if she stopped the tantrum once she heard *her* *mom* because the woman already knows about her daughter's behavior and doesn't buy into it. ಠ_ಠ

[@carolsimpson4422]

I'm sure ops bf is cute, but I think roommate's obsession with him had more to do with taking op's things, then about him. She obviously saw him as an object, a possession.

[@justjenny5437]

Hey hey!!💜💜💜💜

[@MarkNarrations]

JEEENNNNYYY! Feels like ages since I've said hello. Hope all is well mate! :)

[@justjenny5437]

@@MarkNarrations I’m good…I’m always around…eventually!

[@CouncilEstateRach]

She needs attention

[@vampire9545]

Lulz in story 1

[@GIChiyo]

I find it really annoying that some women think it's ok to sexually harass men, but then most likely hate it when they are sexually harassed

[@Imthesoulofthes]

Ahh, Young Love. Nothing like it in the World. Also I’m the 69th comment! 😏😏😏😏