I've really needed this. I had such an intense experience with OCD as a teen that it's scarred me in untold ways even to today. I've been reluctant to start the journey toward a fuller recovery because I didn't want to revisit old pain, while being unwilling to acknowledge that I'm still suffering. To those of us struggling with this, I pray our Father's love comforts and heals us in Jesus name.
@stacyjeanne1 Жыл бұрын
Well here I am 50 and alone! I have some bad patterns, I have tried fixing them and I need help. I don't feel loved ,safe or nurtured. My upbringing was volatile and lonely full of the basics, but zero guidance and love. I have unhealed pain. I didn't grow up in church, but came to God at 30. I struggle learning to let God love me. I just moved to a new state south by my paranoid anxious angry parents to care for them, but they just push me away w rage. Im open to help and reading and listening to your books …
@matthewgray6592 жыл бұрын
Your information on OCD is probably the best I have ever heard. Harm OCD is probably the most difficult one to deal with besides pedophilia OCD but you are absolutely right, I need to change everything about how I think.
@marktdejesus Жыл бұрын
Your words are so kind, thank you. I pray I can continue to be an encouragement.
@rachaelbeaulieu21522 жыл бұрын
I love how you address the part about starving the compulsion and how you encourage us to just be loved.....even when we don't feel it! When I push through the doubts and battles and look to Jesus and remind myself that my Father loves me ...it can be so hard because when you're starving that compulsion, it can feel scary. But if we keep spinning and checking, we'll never get to the healing. Praise the Lord that even when it's difficult, He still loves me, even when I don't "feel" it! He is faithful!
@jhenfresh4 жыл бұрын
God bless you and your ministry Bro. Dejesus. I have been watching many OCD videos and I can say, I’ve learnt much from all yours. It’s a very crippling thing. Terrible. Sick to my stomach. But when I try and think of the love of the Father it helps. Thanks, continue the good work.
@daniart39093 жыл бұрын
I cried and laughed because you have helped me so much. I feel like you read my mind in a ton of ways and I felt relieved because for a long time I believed the lie that I was alone in my fear and ocd struggles. I didn’t even know I had ocd tendencies for a while.
@natalieable84633 ай бұрын
This has to be one of Mark's best videos and I've watched many of them. Thank you Lord for bringing me to this video and thanks brother from another mother!
@anjo16103 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos! It's hard to find good Christian content about OCD. I went to a Christian counselor and she was great but she really didn't understand OCD. Then, I went to a therapist who knew alot about OCD, but she didn't seem to understand/teach the spiritual side. It's so great to hear from someone who understands both!! Please know that your videos are making a difference! God bless :0)
@vagirlf.45133 жыл бұрын
Truth
@simeonpawling26138 ай бұрын
44:31. Sat here tying flies and listening to mark. Love it!
@lynnv85014 жыл бұрын
How don't you have hundreds more views? This is perfect for hurting people. I guess people travel this road less often.
@marcusbuckner55823 жыл бұрын
...probably because the stereotypical Christian won’t admit to having mental, emotional problems. Mark has been there: most Pastors won’t show fragility.
@tf8019 Жыл бұрын
I have contamination OCD but not getting better .Im.struggling every day I cry out to God for help.
@eugenvustar9258 Жыл бұрын
Don't give up don't fight the toughts say "they're not my thoughts" which is true and then remember that God loves you memorize scripture about God's love for us and think on good things just igniore they'll lose power overtime If you feel down go to God talk to him he'll understand don't ask too much what if- just know you're loved by God in Christ Jesus don't give up!!!!
@justapseudonym7 Жыл бұрын
A recent event has opened my eyes to my OCD tendencies. I didn't know that was what I had or that it was even a problem, even though it makes me miserable. I fixate on an issue, ruminate, endlessly Google "answers" and waste mental energy on trying to find a perfect answer. I can't go on living like this, I need to change
@Grace80197 ай бұрын
Brother Mark, I'm blessed with your teachings
@ladydonna374 жыл бұрын
This is valuable! One to listen to over & again until finally it SINKS in enough to actually remember/hear it when I'm in the midst of the battle w/the loud noise of the fears/emotions!! Thank you!
@marktdejesus4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!
@lookatyoustrawberrybrunette11 ай бұрын
I've been committing on your videos for awhile and I hope this isn't going to drive anyone crazy seeing my icon pop up everywhere but so far I've had a lot of these issues in my life and pushed myself into a burnout at the moment I wish a saw your videos a year ago but maybe this is what I need to know right now.
@BryanLChess3 жыл бұрын
My issue is I have Generalized Anxiety and OCD and i keep getting ear worms. One song would get stuck in my head for days, and it was really starting to bother me. I'm taking anti-depressants and it helps with the depression part but not the ear worms. I also started taking NAC which seems to be helping. My pastor said we don't need pills for mental issues, just praying and reading the bible is enough. I did that but it didn't help and i had to reach out for help.
@Psalm_27.43 жыл бұрын
@chesschamp1000 There is NOTHING wrong with taking meds. I, too used to think that all I needed was the Bible and being a more diligent Christian. Well, of course, the Bible is great and diligence is good, but I still had issues that I’ve come to see as OCD. Just as prayer and Bible reading won’t heal a broken leg, and you have to go to the Emergency Room, you will need more than the Bible and prayer to deal with mental health matters. Sadly, pastors give incomplete information like yours did. I recommend that you keep doing research on OCD, so that you can learn about it. May the Lord lead you to great resources and freedom.
@mcquacks2 Жыл бұрын
I've listened to a lot of Mark's messages, and this one is amazing! They're all amazing, but for some reason, this one I think I need on repeat 24/7. So encouraging!
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I am praying for a better relationship with my father as a Christian and a person both.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I am praying for all uc employees as a believer among non believers and all undergraduates I meet today as a former chemistry ta.
@jazzmiinnnaagracie48054 жыл бұрын
Thank you! God bless you!
@Aliliaable3 жыл бұрын
You r a God-send! God bless u brother.
@whywearehere75174 жыл бұрын
answered prayer!!
@vagirlf.45133 жыл бұрын
This is GOLD ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ THANK YOU MARK! Spot on. Wow !
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I am praying for a nurse who I talked to over the phone in my north oaks home in Minnesota as I vaped in front of my computer. She held my hand Here through christ amen.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
The gospel says be not unevenly yoked as non believers so i am praying for my parents as a believer praying for a non believers. 20 chapters this morning was a sign from god!
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Benjamin Hackel I thought I saw you at Armstrong chapel last Sunday praying for me. I think Jesus heard you!
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Thanks for praying for me at pickleball today back the blue jack!
@kevinwhite5773 жыл бұрын
This is the second video of yours that I’m watching. Thanks this is helping God Bless you.
@Sunnyanne283 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! After quite some time of being much improved, I found myself relapsing into ROCD. I did a you tube search and found your program prior to this one. You have no idea how right you are about the journey and how much you have helped.
@confidentmama83284 жыл бұрын
Wonderful information, Mark! Great points - thanks for sharing. I’m realizing how the points can help me in my own life. For example, the point about being reachable, and letting others give feedback. Also, even #1, to recognize this struggle for what it is. OCD will also try to come in and make me think this obsessive doubt/what if thought is real and needs to be focused on. Need to stand above that and still recognize the tactics, so I can get free!
@patricknolin29362 жыл бұрын
You are so true to me and my journey. Thank you so much. God has led me to your awareness so that I can increase my own
@steph93072 жыл бұрын
God bless you & your family
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Whatever brings my parents closer to christ first and Armstrong chapel second is my prayer during the meeting for them.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Doctor aakeroys highest ideal for me today is that I ride the chariot along side my father sober mindedly studying the scriptures.
@dwanal4904 жыл бұрын
Incredible advice!
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Logan Casper was my good friend in about the same personality ratio.
@CP-jv6sc4 жыл бұрын
Can't wait for a show on scrupulosity
@naomilepage17184 жыл бұрын
Sooo helpful! Thank you so much!
@marktdejesus4 жыл бұрын
So glad!
@Trumpet2223 жыл бұрын
This is so great!
@andrewcerrone4096 Жыл бұрын
Amazing 🙏
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Unlike Paul Smith, I am thinking more about what comes after the meeting than the meeting itself!
@widlyneadassa10414 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SM🥺🥺
@amrithaajith7263 жыл бұрын
Dear brother I'm from india.i sadly say here in churches any mental disorder consider as oppression and bondage of enemy.They don't know anything about scrupulosity..They consider it as unbelief so here I have no one to share with😕😒😢.I'm living with an unbelieving spouse and my two sons are now away from God..All these things adding fuel to my OCD..I can't pray and believe effectively for their salvation since I myself struggle🙁😢😢
@gdnbastia3 жыл бұрын
Hey bro I am from India as well. My life was a mess and had OCD tendencies. I started to listen to Pastor Joseph Prince and his online resources and blog on the internet everyday and reading testimonies from his website. I did it everyday and I am so much better than before. Please start listening to him
@guillermovelez33103 жыл бұрын
Hang in there
@ChildofGod775003 жыл бұрын
Are you better now?
@chriscantrell4113 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and your family.
@amrithaajith7263 жыл бұрын
@@ChildofGod77500 still struggling 🙁
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
My street name is big purple level one.
@loriclyburn71792 жыл бұрын
Mark I love your content here.. my 23 year old has ocd but is convinced her “problem “ is something else.. can you discuss how urges and feelings / lack of feeling are also ocd
@adiraFEARSHEAVENLYFATHER4EVER4 жыл бұрын
Yes so true ugh I am crying 😭😭😭😭this is too much. Dealing with suicide
@richardulmer92344 жыл бұрын
Seek help all this are forgiven by Jesus Christ. Through christ we have Peace with god call mental health in your area
@jhenfresh4 жыл бұрын
Keep the faith dear one. Im having intrusive thoughts and anxiety also. It’s very crippling. This has been one of the worst things that ever happened in my life. But the only thing that has been assisting is what Mr. DeJesus is saying. Know that God loves you so much. He knows each of us, he knows our hearts. He will never forsake you. Our brain needs physical rewiring. It will take some time, we can’t hold on to these unwanted thoughts. Just let them fly pass and pay them no mine. Then they will have nothing to hold on to. The enemy wants to deceive you that God doesn’t love you. No matter who you are, what you think, God loves you. He cares for you.Lets walk with our ABBA through this journey to healing. Many blessings
@jhenfresh4 жыл бұрын
Also, if you can get some Christian counseling please do so. Nothing is wrong with that. We are here for each other. Don’t give up
@adiraFEARSHEAVENLYFATHER4EVER4 жыл бұрын
@@jhenfresh I did sis it was ended :(((
@jhenfresh4 жыл бұрын
@@adiraFEARSHEAVENLYFATHER4EVER your thoughts was ended sis?
@Emanuelagrioruta8 ай бұрын
Hi Mark, when you say gently refocus or reshift your thoughts towards something else what would you shift it back to?
@kristenmarie69004 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing. I've struggled with OCD since I was 7 years old. I'm just now looking into all of your material. Is there a support group or Christian community?
@sorangenova50893 жыл бұрын
Check alive and free its coaching not about ocd its on the healing of theheart which is what he speaks on being part of the healing journey. I just started so cant say much.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
So God help me at your service uc system. Whatever helps my relationship with my parents best is my request
@thegopers82462 жыл бұрын
I need help with my scrupulosity, please...
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Back the blue jack my dad is a lost sheep to Armstrong chapel pickleball celebrate him extra when he comes.
@KelilaMurdock2 жыл бұрын
27:30
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
To 5th precinct cop who endorsed me for potus my priorities are 1. Relationship with parents 2. God 3. Chemical engineering
@megancasper35253 жыл бұрын
Look up gene Kim and Robert breaker for them to explain the gospel
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I believe my runescape childhood was a gift from the word of Jesus christ.
@Thankful3054 жыл бұрын
Love your videos. Can you clarify the "lack of nurturing" Is it only the mother or can it be the father along with all caretakers/other family adults/daycare/school teachers esp in the younger years. I have seen shame turn into pride as a sheild and it reveals itself as narcissism. Would you agree??
@marktdejesus4 жыл бұрын
Lack of nurture can be from both parents for sure. And yes, shame often manifests with pride, to keep the cover.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Men's Bible study James is about half street James half school james.
@Taxiclip6 ай бұрын
Is it me or does Mark seem.to be "riffing" most of the time? Lol I guess by the titles I was thinking of something right to the point and clear.
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
Men and women are just different. Street James is a convicted criminal whose half way out of the pocket at men's Bible study. This would not be acceptable in a Co ed Bible study!
@JamesVestal-dz5qm Жыл бұрын
I want Ben Shapiro to stop educating people about anti Semitic people and do more education about Judaism! Invite more Christians on the Ben Shapiro show! Mike pence was great!