MARRIAGE OR CAREER at 25?! + Future Plans & Mid-twenties CRISIS

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Hey loves, I’m back with another video, I hope you enjoy some health girl chat! Also, right now what’s top priority for you?😊

[@SuccessCosmas]

These things are relative though. I turned 25 this year, but got married 2 years ago. I'm sure Marriage helped me discover myself, get serious with my life and avoid distractions. I've achieved in 2 years a lot of things that enrich my existence as a Lady and Wife. Let's say, God used Marriage to save me from confusions, distractions, and laziness😂. We'd all be fine. God's timing is always the best.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

awwww this is so beautiful to hear, I'm glad you found a path that works for you. 🤍

[@nachinwa9187]

I am 25, still an undergraduate. Sometimes, I look at people my age and see them doing well. Some of has thriving careers. I always feel frustrated and sad. Sometimes, I just want to go into this box and never come out. I just began to find myself and I pray that 2023 will bring light, and smiles to me.

[@emmanuellepaul]

I understand how you feel because many of us feel that way too sometimes but trust me you’re doing better than you know

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

I pray that 2023 brings you everything good that you wish for. Rooting for you as always!!

[@hellodaniesblog]

I’m 25 too but married, have a child, doing the mom & wife thing so I enjoy hearing your perspectives because marriage & motherhood were totally unplanned for me. And I feel like I’m failing my younger self sometimes. If there are any others like me, remember that you’re not late whether it’s passion, corporate career , skilling up etc. it can be harder to juggle both but it can be done. Currently on the path myself.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

it's never too late to chase the life of your dreams. I'll also recommend looking up to women who are doing things that you'd like to achieve as a form of inspiration. All in all, I pray that you dreams come to fruition. 🤍

[@PreciousDiri]

My darling I understand you perfectly . I’m in my late 20s, I have a daughter, business, career and social life lol ... I can relate to what you said

[@habeshasister11]

You can also have a career at any time in life you can’t always be sure to find love or be able to have kids so you’ve def did the right thing 💞

[@EJIMANnenaNgozi]

I started gaining self awareness at 25. Im 30 now and looking back my 20s was really a time of growth and foundation building. It fun, painful, and eye opening and I learned so much about myself and life overall. Im so impressed with how mature and self aware you both are! I would highly recommend you both read Defining Decade Why Your Twenties Matter & How To Make The Most of Them by Dr Meg Jay. I read it at 20 and a few times more in my 20s and it changed alot for me!

[@simiogungbemi5215]

Turning 25 soon, and OMO the way I constantly begin asked when I’m getting married..they don’t even ask about my career

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

It’s so scary but we’ll prevail and make the best decisions for us. 🤍

[@jane-noelabraimah9021]

Ask them when their celebration of life is. Rubbish. People need to stay in their lanes

[@chisomikenna]

I will be 27 coming January!!!! .. and I still feel I haven’t accomplished anything.. I’m a very passionate person and the ONLY reason I feel that I have been held back is finances $$$.. I can’t wait to grow and glow.. elevate myself to the person I envisioned 🤞🤞

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

As long as you have that picture and you’re working towards it. 🤍 Rooting for you!

[@chisomikenna]

Thank you so much Valerie ♥️

[@joisissyumeh-enike8725]

25 is young, and trust me you ladies are doing amazing at 25, I see young ladies at that age now already have an idea what path they will like take, and are pursuing those goals unapologetically. Me at 25 I had no idea what to do with my life😅, started my very first job after youth service, trying to figure left from right😂😂. Marriage will happen at the right time. No one is a late comer in it❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

yesss! We all have different timelines so always walk with God in figuring the best path for you.

[@_missteelda]

This is the video I didn't even know I needed,thank you guys,I am 25 too but then Ive told myself that I will take my time to choose who I marry,I'm currently waiting on my bar results and I hope to pursue an LLM after that,I believe there's a time for everything

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

You are so welcome! I'm rooting for you and I pray your LLM all goes well.

[@maryuna]

I have always been scared of turning 25, although I'll be 25 by March. I feel like I've not accomplished anything 😔 I have alot of things I need to do which I have not started due to some reasons, but seeing you guys has given me hope that One day I'll accomplish those things that are giving me sleepless nights 💯. I'm so proud of you guys, each time I feel down I always watch Kamsi and Val and I always draw inspiration. P.S this is my longest comments ever on KZbin 😊

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

awww Mary, thank you for sharing your story with us. One thing I've learned is that every experience you've gone through always matters or adds up in the end. If there's one thing you should know, it's that I'm rooting for you and I can't wait to see all the amazing things you go on to achieve.

[@thetruthsayer8347]

Lol don’t be scared of turning a new age. There’s joy in aging. You just want to do it as gracefully as you can. If there’s anything you want to achieve and you haven’t started working towards it, start now. One of the things that destroys adulthood is feeling like you should be somewhere or doing something other than what you are doing at that age. If you start working hard on your dream, the universe will conspire in your favor.

[@maryuna]

@@ValerieEgbuniwe1 thank you so much Valerie, this means alot to me, I'm going to screenshot this so that when I get there I'll remind you😁

[@maryuna]

@@thetruthsayer8347 thank you so much 🤗

[@hellodaniesblog]

I feel Val on that first daughter thing 😩, the pressure 🥺

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

the pressure is getting wesser

[@CeeCee113]

Valerie you seem like a sweet decent young lady and I love the fact you’re GOD fearing ❤ that’s the ultimate goal in life. I pray 🙏 GOD blesses you with the right man, a man that’s deserving of you and most importantly one GOD has destined for you to spend the rest of your life with.. keep winning 🏆 stay blessed 💕

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

awww Cynthia amen and amen. God bless you!!

[@mirabelwali]

I just turned 25 myself.. and my mantra is do it afraid.. so when you said it resonated with me a lot I started my KZbin channel afraid and I plan to continue to do a lot of things.. I’m definitely grown now 🎉

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Wonderful! I couldn’t agree more ive let fear hold me back from so many things, I’m choosing not to do that anymore

[@dearomonso]

I really enjoyed watching this! I'm 22 and honestly I think I grew up too fast which I'm very grateful for every day cause it has helped me gain so much clarity both career wise and relationship wise. I'm at the phase where I know exactly what to do but don't have enough money to do it but I believe God will see me through all that.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Glad you enjoyed it! The great thing is that God is ever merciful and he’ll keep guiding you 🤍

[@Thelma_duku]

I’m 25 too 😳, turned 25 September 8th😁... I feel so old and so young at the same time 🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Growing up is always bitter sweet, happy belated birthday!

[@Thelma_duku]

@@ValerieEgbuniwe1 true 🥰🥰🥰 happy belated birthday to you too.. thank you so much

[@NusrahMagaji]

Delay is not denial felt it

[@izkeelzahrah]

We september babes rock!

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Ofc!!!! 🤍

[@okonkwojudith410]

I'll be 25 on Saturday!!!! I'm really praying for clarity

[@victory__chy1]

not the engagement police

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

it was such a funny thing tbh 😂

[@nimislifestyle]

This is so rich. I'm loving the level up vibess

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

glad you love it!

[@Thebolddebi]

I turned 26, October I have been intentional about my growth Going out of my comfort zone for a better life, I also learnt progress over perfection.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

ohhhh love to see it!!

[@ogomsseries]

You both look alike though ❣️❣️❣️. Delay is not denial,be patient with yourself and live your best life while at it👌👌👌

[@jobjemima9736]

The God factor,thank you,you guys look beautiful,a video of yours on how you started selling Jean in school encouraged me to start a bussiness in uni and as well my KZbin channel,I celebrate you miss

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

awww this is so beautiful to hear. I'm so grateful that my stories can inspire you. Rooting for you as always.

[@jobjemima9736]

@@ValerieEgbuniwe1 thank you so much miss

[@afispov]

Clean Girl Aesthetic Queens 👸 ❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

hahhaha thank you!!

[@JudithNwaigwe]

My favorite duo 🤍

[@tanugoziebitrus]

Our age and age expectations dynamic in this country is very interesting to me 😂. Really enjoyed the chat ❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@Toriabelle]

Society needs to stop giving paranoia vibes to people so we can live life to its fullest instead of worrying because no one is getting out alive. So let’s just enjoy the moment instead of caring too much about things that don’t necessarily matter. How well is better than how far ❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

absolutely love the last line and couldn't agree more with you!!

[@Nazfash8]

I so much like the part of 3 advice for younger self and thanks for the video

[@tonia_star8988]

I'm so happy watching you two😊, I'm 23 and so scared,felt I'm growing up too fast and many life expectations from myself as the first daughter 🙆🏽‍♀️ and all I can say for now is Omo😂😢

[@Lizbethefe]

I can relate 😂

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

awww thank you!! Baby steps. 🤍

[@heyyitsjoshie]

Our favesss ❤️🥹

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

🤍

[@muniraalialfa8966]

I'm also the oldest child too!

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

so much work tbh but God is our strength

[@ANIESINSIGHT]

This was really needed...You both are already doing well at 25❤️💥

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

I'm so glad you found it helpful 🤍

[@Lizbethefe]

I'm glad I found this video. Growth is my watch word at this point in my life. Thank you guys

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Our pleasure!

[@Toriabelle]

I needed to hear the last point😂 I am currently doing content creation afraid, this new phase of my life is “do it afraid” but I’m hoping it works out❤️

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Rooting for you!! 🤍🤍

[@alheri_ebenezer]

Happy Birthday to you both, Wish you the best in life and all that your heart desires ❤ Cheers Lovely video

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

You are so kind

[@christabelaluko3310]

You guys are so beautiful ❤

[@MelodyMatthew.]

Kamsi's reactions are top notch 🔥

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

This 😂😂

[@sedemejersonvlogs]

Kamsi is so excited about the birthday. Am 21st June and my older brother is 22nd June and we have a sister in the middle so it's a nice feeling though.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

hahhaah it's actually so cool and it's one of the first things that drew us to each other. Didn't have a lot of birthday mates growing up.

[@sedemejersonvlogs]

@@ValerieEgbuniwe1 Awwww .you guys should have a joint birthday party sometime soon 🙂

[@valsandravlogs]

Love this duo 🤩😍

[@beautyonyekachi-b2o]

My faves❤❤

[@joychisomtv]

So apt Thanks for sharing dear New subbie here 🎉

[@adeola_soge]

Do it anyways You are never perfect, you have to keep working on yourself to grow

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Yasss!! So important

[@chidinmaeokpara]

This is an all round video. Very interesting and beautiful❤💯

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

thank you!!

[@Ovokeroh]

Aawn twinnie🥰

[@Barnabas_Akinrinola]

Oh my! This was so nice to watch. Thank you for sharing those thoughtful thoughts and lessons. Well done, guys!💪🏾

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@sophiejackmay]

I saw Kamsi N. on the thumbnail and clicked the video right away!!❤️❤️

[@viviansdiary]

Soul Sisters 💋💋

[@chifueverything]

Loved watching this! And y’all are so beautiful!😍😍

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Thank you so much!!

[@TiffanyO7]

This was such a wholesome video. I learned so much and this helped me remember so many other important values I’m supposed to live by.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

I'm so glad it helped you Tiffany.

[@Maaro_Muraro]

Really enjoyed this conversation and I think it’s a really important one I have seen many people put themselves under pressure as a result of age but what I have learnt is “Everyone is constantly figuring it out” so “Do it Afraid” Welldone Valerie and Kamsi ❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

thank you Maro!!

[@NneomaOdidiTV]

🔥🔥🔥

[@verajude]

I enjoyed this video! Such a beautiful combo!

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Yay, thank you!

[@nellyjoseph2857]

2 favs

[@Judith.Maduabibi]

Loved every bit of this conversation! 🫶🏼

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

glad you enjoyed it!!

[@perryrand876]

I thought you and kamsi were very close , how come she was shocked about many thing you said about yourself, you being the older sibling, she asking I thought you were engaged etc

[@saraholaleye]

Ladies! This was timely!! Thank you for this!! Two powerful evolving women🤍🤍

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

so glad you enjoyed it!

[@Bella_28]

❤❤❤

[@ekenancy5817]

That “we don’t have crisis in Jesus name “😂😂

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

but it's true, there's so much power in the tongue, so we're not playing games. 😂

[@Nonyebenjamin26]

Honestly I think quarter life crisis is a lot hung now 😂 we’re all going through it

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

we're not going through it in Jesus name 😂

[@Racheal_orezimena]

❤❤

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

🤍

[@giftpatricks3944]

❤️💕🤍💕❤️🥰🤍💕❤️

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

🤍

[@kingface867]

Prayers does not work...when will africans understand

[@LifeWithLocc]

At 29 now, I can truly say I thought I knew a lot about life at 25 and I’ve learned and matured even more since then! Never ever stop learning and growing. & like Val said, as long as God is first, everything else will literally fall into place seamlessly. 🫶🏾🤍

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

Can't wait to get older so I can look back and see how much I've grown as a person.

[@chiagoziemonyema7566]

I really loved this conversation. You guys just gave us free advice we didn’t know we needed. There’s a lot to take away from this esp for us females. Thank you 🤍

[@chiagoziemonyema7566]

Also something I’m focusing on is being gentle with myself as I navigate and learn about myself and to stop overthinking everything. I’m also learning to love freely and enjoy every aspect of my life in any way I can and never be afraid to move on from things that don’t serve me because of a preconceived idea I’ve had of that thing or field. The thing about your community is very true and something I’m also trying my best to work on because you truly are rich when you’re rich in your connection.

[@ValerieEgbuniwe1]

this is so apt! I'm so glad that us genuinely sharing could teach a thing or two. What you said about being kind to yourself is so important. There's a quote that I live by and it's give yourself the love you so freely give to others.

[@Chilotamm]

Thanks for this video🫶🏾. I didn’t know I needed it lol.