Married Men and Single Men - The Difference

Bill Maher's take on the difference between married and single men!

[@steamer161]

Married and happy...great Single and happy...equally great rather be single and miserable than married and miserable tho.

[@CheckYourPremises]

That's right! Because when you're married and miserable you are, basically, not only taking all the sh*t that comes your way, because of your own failures, but you are supposed to take all your stinky wife's sh*t loads. So, you become overloaded with sh*t and no sex!

[@horatioredgreenblue2130]

Correct, and it's far, far easier and more possible to change at any moment when your single - you are in charge of your ship. When you're married, you're probably stuck or have limited room for manouvre.

[@sophiashcherbakova2867]

Appreciate video content! Excuse me for butting in, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you researched - Lammywalness His Happiness Guide (just google it)? It is a good one off guide for understanding what men really want without the hard work. Ive heard some great things about it and my cooworker got excellent success with it.

[@eleveneleven572]

And its a fact that beauty fades... .........but nagging lasts forever.

[@TheScotchaholic]

Men, NEVER, EVER, GET MARRIED! It will be the most expensive mistake you'll ever make in your life - in more ways than one.

[@TheScotchaholic]

***** In this day and age of changing co-habitation laws, it is riskier for men to do so. Avoidance and abandonment is the best solution to minimize risks.

[@taqiyasir8086]

amen to that

[@marcushennings9513]

I agree but isnt it sad that it's come to this.

[@andrewheffel3565]

Not me. I had nothing to lose. I was lonely and she was wonderful. I said what the hell and we got married. We figgured out life together, got jobs, made careers, had kids, bought houses, got rich. Rich with money, with kids, with memories, with love. You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.

[@hangukhiphop]

@@andrewheffel3565 lol the irony of comparing it to the lottery

[@vention4wh]

He's right on target! I'm a diesel mechanic and work around a lot of guys. It looks like when men are first married, they're happy, then when they hit their 30's they're so so, and in their 40's their miserable. There are exceptions of course but that's the trend. I chose to stay single about 15 years back and it's working out very well. Debt free, home is paid off, and without being too careful I generally only spend about 30% of my take home pay. The remaining 70% is totally extra. & I'm free

[@Kauffman578]

Do you have kids?

[@sonnysebasstian7504]

23 years now

[@Kauffman578]

Do you have kids?

[@anhbayar11]

Well done.

[@heroldjaras9909]

Vention migtow isnt alive anymore because of cancer. Rip

[@theinventor5719]

My divorced and remarried brother hates that I have no responsibilities so much he's trying to report me as mentally ill just to watch me suffer married dudes hate single dudes..

[@Firebolthustle76]

China passed one recently which also served as an eye opener. Basically, it states that whoever paid for the house GETS the house...which is by far mostly men. Due to this..their marriage rates are falling... Really shows their women's intentions.

[@incorectulpolitic]

is this law still in existence ?

[@Telluwide]

As a life-long Single Man, Maher is spot on with this bit....I'm so glad I've never married...Marriage, kids all over-rated and not worth the "Bang" for buck...

[@Rockovissi]

This is me. The unmarried guy, just to be clear.

[@Kauffman578]

How old are ypu?

[@Getreal247]

Same

[@Rockovissi]

@Thanos Doing pretty good.

[@truthteller4442]

He's absolutely spot on. It's not that I'm anti-everything that goes along with marriage. HOWEVER, marriage literally doesn't benefit a man at all. Not even a little. In fact, it only adds a HUGE amount of pressure and stress. The wife now has no-fault divorce to back her up, and a personal stasi of the courts, police, divorce attorneys, etc. Also, once married, she knows she has you legally by the balls, so most of them let themselves go, stop doing the little things, stop being affectionate, and then it feels like you married a stranger. I like dating, hanging out, having sex, and even a family. However, as long as these laws are the way they are, they (women) just have too much leverage.

marriage was made for men. you’re a feminist if you’re against marriage

@@tommyboy5494 found the feminazi

[@largerooster2059]

No wife happy life !

[@serenityinside1]

For some , not true. Some males become a scruffy fat clueless mess without a wife looking after them. We can’t all be good at being independent- some NEED dependency/ interdependency!

[@stevet6665]

A man needs a wife like a bank needs a robber.

[@Busybee65]

“Marriage is not a process for prolonging the life of love, sir. It merely mummifies its corpse.” P.G. Wodehouse.

[@alphacentauri8083]

The problem with marriage is when people begin idealizing the institution and expect it to be an extension of courtship. If you're not willing to accept that it's a full time job with sex being relegated to the backburner, don't even think about getting married. Moreover, we're not emotionally static creatures, and this is more so the case than ever before - the odds of people growing apart are greater than people growing together....

[@jasonmazzulla5893]

Well said. Or written at least you have to wonder because for emotional needs and changes physical as well, that marriage in my opinion is almost counter-evolutionary... don't get me wrong I've been with a woman for over 10 years but as I have gotten older it's been easier to endure and I expect it's the same way with her

[@serenityinside1]

Very well said sir 👍

[@liarliarliar6495]

I honestly don't think you have to be a woman hater to see that marriage is bad for men. It's not just that they own you once you sign that contract, it's simply unnatural for a man to be controlled and limited in this way, and we know it! Hence phrases like "ball and chain". Yet many men still consider marriage right, and even natural. This has to be the greatest piece of mind control in human history. The idea that a young cap, with all possibilities at his feet should shackle himself to a creature with utterly different priorities and objectives, who will work tirelessly and with innate cunning to bend him to her will, It defies all logic!

[@truthteller4442]

liar liarliar Marriage is a good thing, in theory, but the reality of today's fast-paced and connected world is that it really isn't very feasible. I mean, if you want to truly be happy, that is. I understand it does work in some instances, but look at the failure rate. Is it really worth the risk, when men have everything to lose? No.

[@nocturnalrecluse1216]

liar liarliar+ It's either freedom or sex... eventually you have to make a choice.

[@k2datrack]

Hear hear

[@k2datrack]

Nocturnal Recluse You can have freedom *AND* sex though 😑

[@nocturnalrecluse1216]

k2datrack+ In your 20's sure...but after a while, your options thin out. You understand I said EVENTUALLY...

[@TheHiddenPrincess88]

alot of my late 20 and early thirty friends i party with inspire me to stay single whats the rush now adays

[@nonchalantd]

You have a point. Men are the ones who propose. In the beginning, the nagging is minimal and is considered a form of attention. But the longer people are married, the more nagging there is and, at a certain point, the nagging is the worst part of being married. I'm a guy, btw.

[@serenityinside1]

I was married seven years. No nagging. Pick the right chick ; did her mother nag ? No - then she probably won’t either. Also grow a pair - make it very clear you won’t stand for it.from the start

[@TheElementAce]

@@serenityinside1 from the start of the marriage or from the first instance of "nagging" while you're dating?

[@IAMtheNewWorldOrder]

I think the real problem with marriage is that it shouldn't be seen as something you HAVE to do in life. Women see it that way, and then certain men, out of fear of losing the woman, marry them. People shouldn't get married for those reasons. People shouldn't be afraid of being single their whole lives. Then they can make the marriage decision rationally. Because basically for me, there are very few women I would want to marry, and I don't know if I'll ever meet the ones I would want to marry.

[@beastmaster1858]

It's a furball with a broken spirit that can only look out on a world it will never enjoy

[@LiberatedMind1]

You nailed it Bill.

[@Firebolthustle76]

Whats even funnier is that no one calls them out on it. Yet in the states they bash men who refuse marriage...hypocrites.

[@jrudymorganclark2072]

Being single is way more superior to be married and castrated.

[@serenityinside1]

Amen to that brother.

[@georgepaddia5690]

single is better no problem's no worries building welth

[@jesussotelo4775]

Never sign a business deal based on emotion.

[@serenityinside1]

True that ! 👍

[@edgar22452]

Exactly!

[@Renowriter77]

Right on! Not to mention Bill is famous for banging quality quim: "I hate to say it, but if you wanna see a hot chick at an awards show, find Bill Maher and look to his right."--Artie Lange

[@acphenom]

Right on, Bill. Marriage isn't a commitment or a maturing; it's an insurance policy.

[@NeverAloneForever]

I have this DVD and I love it. Comparing strict wives to slave drivers. Truly, not the common liberal.

[@Renowriter77]

Story of my life, Bill! It's a sad thing when you can't talk to your closest friend on the phone for more than 10 min at a time because of some meddling woman, or have to arrange to hang out with your brothers while their wives/girlfriends/owners are at work or out of town. Or have to put up with the famous "Disappearing Friend" trick where your buddy hooks up with a chick and you don't hear from them anymore. None of my friends/brothers can say they've had to deal with that on my end, though.

[@RAZASHARP]

Shout out to all The SINGLE guys!!!! Letsgoooo!!!!!!

[@vention4wh]

@TheLordmep LOL! Yep. I used to get that a lot. These days when that whole marriage thing comes up I just inform the person I'm talking to that even if I wanted one, Men can't have families anymore. We can start them but since they can be taken away from us so easily and it happens so often, the families we start aren't really ours. Families are women and their children these days. Men are just occasional visitors and wallets.

[@Firebolthustle76]

They already did..and its also that way in the U.K. They have laws that make it so if you and your partner lived together past a certain amount of time and split, that you can actually go to court just as if you were getting divorced.

[@OniNoFro]

@TheConnorian That's why if a woman wants to move in with you, make sure they have their own room to respect their privacy and establish yours and also have them sign a leasing agreement so as far as the legal system is concerned, she is a tenant and you are the landlord.

[@ericcartman321]

Bill Maher is the best !!!

[@teslawolverine7009]

My feelings about marriage perfectly articulated...Thank you Bill

[@TheQueenChill]

@BigBaldheadedBaby as a product of divorced parents your kind of right. my mom makes twice as much as my dad and he still has to pay child support and take care of our med expenses. not to mention as soon as the divorce was final and my mother got custody of us, her job stationed her in germany and me and my sister had to live with our grandmother for two years.

[@157tty]

''I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.''

[@LindaDooWop]

I like Bill. He tells the truth, and some people won't it.

[@The_Tortoise_and_the_Hare]

Lol, this is cracking me up, the part about the housecat also living longer!

[@LindaDooWop]

Thank God for Bill! He tells it like it is!

[@MrDeviousdom]

There is no reason to become married. If you want to live together, great. If you want kids, great. Do whatever you want, just don't get married!

[@serenityinside1]

No , wrong. If you want children then marry. As Jordan Peterson says , the stats are cLear on that re the child’s health and future prospects. It’s it about you when you’ procreate anymore.

[@acntryboyatheart]

Thanks Bill for calling it like it is. There's a song ' the cake she ate' on you tube that tells of the plight. Your tape should be mandatory viewing before marriage.

[@MichaelSmith-jw8qw]

I love this Bill---thanks for doing this!

[@alizamzam11]

awsome

[@Rayman77792]

Bill Maher could read from the phone book and i'd still laugh.

[@CW4RUNNER]

No. Eventually you see that there is more to relationships than just sex.

[@serenityinside1]

Absolutely.

[@stu3705]

The only way the stats CAN show married men living longer is if we PRETEND that divorced and widowed men were never married.

[@richardcasey7521]

Thus totally explains me!

[@hzvkj]

Are you the one in the picture/background on your channel ? I don't see any hot guys or chicks there lol

[@TheConnorian]

@MrRandomlyrandom123 In Britain they've expanded it to being if you live in the same house for 6 months then you are (somehow?!?) in a relationship that has the same laws applied to it as marriage.

[@SpikedYum]

Nope, he has it right.

[@CW4RUNNER]

Really? Why do you see so many MGTOW channels on youtube? Search it up.

[@lilgodfather32]

Marriage has definitely become a woman's benefit. There are so many rightful reasons that men do not support women's rights, and honestly women, you are the only ones to blame.

[@DumbDumb855]

When bill was still a man

[@incorectulpolitic]

he is not anymore?

[@alizamzam11]

Bill rocks , if any chick does not like him , hell with them , Romans did not like Spartacus either

[@Alireza_farhoudi]

allah is fictional and it's muhammad's invention. YHWH is the god of the bible. allah doesn't know that. Elijah means my god is YHWH. Elijah is in the quran. allah doesn't know the meaning of his name. quran is also made up, contradictory, inconsistent, unscientific and immoral. Islam is made up and false.

[@Alireza_farhoudi]

Allah is arabs creation. Fake pagan polytheist moon idol. Kaaba with black stone is a pagan cube you 5 times a day talking that arabic bs you don't understand and you praying to dead muhammad.

[@Alireza_farhoudi]

Allah doesn't exist and muhammad rxped aisha

[@RayRai8262]

@akmrmike Yes... You agreeing depends on so much.

[@oldtymer9106]

Not a fan of Maher's, but this is funny and true!

[@MsSimplyComplicated1]

@TheCashistrash anyway, i get where you are coming from. all i am trying to show you is that there are two sides to the story. and while all men are not distant from their children and families, all women are not unhappy no matter what the man does or just seek drama. But I understand where you are coming from and it seems as though these are the only types of women you have met. In any case, I wish you luck in finding someone that can be satisfied and not a drama-mama.

[@dhineshaujayeb5142]

No woman no cry.

[@ChrisMac]

which stand up special is this from?

[@hzvkj]

Doesn't at all, more like she's spot on/realistic.

[@ElectricityTaster]

@nevawrong How?

[@ElectricityTaster]

@Leo240sx Yeah right...

[@sapphire60s]

Absolutely agree. Detest any kind of ridiculing of either male or female for the sake of comedy, the kind that stems to me of hate, not comedy and not funny in the least. There is a very fine line that only a true comic understands and does not cross over. I find Bill Maher insulting to women and real men. There are many who do this type of 'comedy' routines, women comics included and I don't find them funny. I love men but true men, not those who spread hate in disguise. Cheers.

[@Krueger303]

@MadameDeJaVu watch that movie Revolutionary Road

[@chadfranklin47]

ahh, women

[@fixt100]

this has alot going on if you read into it 1)they knew what law to change and how it would affect marriage 2)they left the law as was for how long knowing this? 3)how bad it really has to be for men(who wont marry because of financial rape) before they do something substantial to change it

[@RayRai8262]

@bweazel LOL. I love your logic.

[@hzvkj]

He doesn't seem like the type that does, to be honest

[@reznet2]

Why would they disable the comments? lol You are so confused on this XD

[@nocturnalrecluse1216]

Funny cuz it's so damn true.

[@CW4RUNNER]

@kmg4 Truth!

[@TheLordmep]

@vention4wh Since you're not miserable and giving away your money to a woman, that technically makes you a misogynist. lol Of course I'm kidding, but you know that someone out there is gonna make the claim for real.

[@sadigov]

Western marriages described astutely 😂

[@CW4RUNNER]

@rainbowbrainhead word

[@ZoidburgIsGreat]

Um... I'm a woman and I like his comedy just fine. Interestingly enough in this clip you can just switch the gender of husband to wife and it's just as funny.

[@dhineshaujayeb5142]

:)

[@adwarakanath]

@Nateb123 Ooh snap! :D

[@eveedwards3080]

No I don't have a rage Women look on my face your entitled to your views and I just feel sad the you haven't connected to your emotions and really fallen in love with one women and then treasured her for being emotional as this is a females natural state how ele's are we suppose to bond with babies and care for our families?

[@CW4RUNNER]

Sorry, 25 and above....

[@davidalexander422]

MGTOW4Life

[@regelemihai]

Are you married?

[@cpufightclub]

@rainbowbrainhead heh. everything you wrote in response to Bill Maher's video sounds like a regurgitated feminist one liner.

[@MsSimplyComplicated1]

@TheCashistrash I dont think the reason married men are happy is because they have children because if we are talking about the stereotypical male (as we are speaking about stereotypical women) then such a man wouldnt be nurturing/spending time with his kids. While men are out all day, working and going out having a blast with their buddies, women are at home taking care of kids, cooking, taking care of their husbands and the home. Without a wife he does all these things himself.

[@panoply13]

Wrong. Without a wife, there should be no kids.

[@rwandrall1]

@IAMtheNewWorldOrder i'm pretty sure i cannot agree more with what you said :D

[@ImranAli-tm3rq]

Depends if you want to be a somebody or a nobody who just wants to live life feeding his desires until the dust takes him..

[@panoply13]

So... feeding the desires of someone else (woman) is superior?

[@ImranAli-tm3rq]

@@panoply13 You have no concept of honour, you won't understand. You are an example of devolution of man, you function on lower frequencies.

[@hzvkj]

Do whiners get hot chicks ?

[@Nateb123]

@bweazel Then your argument makes you equally as clueless as Maher. And no man crush, I just like picking on people who get defensive over youtube videos. :P

[@dontgetmarried999]

Saving money with women: never buy anything on a first time meet up/meet at bookstores, parks during the day/cafes/avoid movies & dinner, never mix finances or co-sign with her, learn to pass the check, use coupons when eating out, don't get married ever, don't live together and never mix anything legal, watch out for illegal immigrants that only want you for the green card, avoid traditional women that want expensive gifts, rent at redbox/netflix, avoid women with no car or job, go dutch.

[@eveedwards3080]

No I'm not boiling and whatever ele's you assume married women do. Myself I love men in general and understand what men truly desire and never worry if a man leaves for someone ele's it's no reflection of the women he's with and more about him and his journey and I will easily find another so it's not worth holding onto your husband like he's the last man alive who can be bothered with that. Watching your video I couldn't help wondering if you ever researched your friends deeply maybe they love being under the thumb and like the security of marriage or are just emotionally mature and ready for being dedicated to one women.

[@nocturnalrecluse1216]

That's just one way of looking at it. The destitute and meek succubming to their biological mechanics like clockwork ... that's why women have longer life spans. Nobody does it better than you.

[@endthefed1448]

Hahaha, typical female shaming tactics. Look brothers, this woman over here is blatantly shaming us while looking very innocent. Notice the passive aggression. Once you take the Red pill, it becomes easy to spot the manipulative female nature.

[@MsSimplyComplicated1]

@TheCashistrash so for sure his life is happier with a woman, someones is taking care of him, even if she does complain or is unsatisfied (and look at this set-up, where is her chance to enjoy her life?). And after all the work she does, you expect her to be energetic enough for sex every night? Its not that sex ends once you have kids, its that there are so many other tiring responsibilities that deplete a woman.

[@hzvkj]

I'm sure there are plenty of happy married couples. It's not all dreary. And "nightmare" in the sense that it's a bit wishy-washy bland.

[@ImranAli-tm3rq]

well what happened to my right to express my opinion? Freedom of expression, have I offended anyone at all? Liberal hypocrisy at its best. Villify those that hold popular beliefs and opinions that oppose yours, people aint dumb they know what is going on.

[@ametora1231]

Bill Maher is no libertarian.

[@davidalexander422]

What's that got to do with what he said?

[@TmoneyRuhla]

im pretty unimpressed with guy comedians making fun of marriage and lack of sex...this is coming from a guy -_-

[@sapphire60s]

MARRIED!!!!!!??????...LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE.

[@eveedwards3080]

someone has hidden mummy issues!!!!!!!!!

[@endthefed1448]

Hahaha, typical shaming tactics. Men have woken up to this trickery, try harder next time. Hahahaha

[@sapphire60s]

Am an atheist thanks, not into imaginary friends.

[@MsSimplyComplicated1]

funny enough research has consistently shown that married men are much happier then married women :)

[@etphonehome4511]

Bs my married friends are miserable!!!

[@thersten]

whiners do not get hot chicks. they do however get to hang out with them, much like a gay friend.

[@sapphire60s]

Woman hater is all I have to describe the clip, seems it's catchy after reading all comments. Didn't find anything humourous and I am no prude or stuck up bitch. Sad when someone has to use hate crap type material to try and get a laugh, surely that's not a sign of a great comedian. Now Billy Connolly, there's a comedian with the most flowery language and I end up in tears of laughter.

[@FlameltaSK0]

lol I don't think the act of marriage has anything to do with what Bill's talking about. Seriously most guys aren't stupid, they don't do what their wife tells them cuz they have to listen to their wife, they do it cuz they know it's good anyways, the wife usually just remind them and nag. It's like parents telling you to study, you wait till they nag about it but will do it eventually anyways cuz it's good for you. People with families usually have different priorities than those who don't.

[@Fynniann]

HIDE YO HUSBANDS.