Married to Black Tax | ON THE COUCH WITH THE NUBONS

[@yolisalisanqari]

The part of the person Blaque is referring to who looked and viewed black tax as a blessing... From my side it would be a blessing I can say. Because I long to be financially capable of providing for my mom and this desire just grew more and more after my dad's passing. To a point with the little I have I show up to my mom. On the other hand my mom inlaw used to be extra on our early years of marriage... Yhooo she would call my husband every pay day to ask for grocery money and throw comments like.. In hungry here and expected like a 10% of my husband's salary 😂. And at the time we were just starting off our lives but I thank Jesus because I prayed about it that may it be because she does not have any food NYANI and not because" it's my son so he must give me", though it felt like that. I prayed about it that may it not irritate me and may mom inlaw understand on other months that we don't have it due to our responsibilities and budget. 10 years later in our marriage, mama understand that we help her financially where and when we can and plan accordingly for such expenses. Still listening guys wanted to share my view and experience thus far. Love you guys🤗❤️❤️

[@The_Dream_Space]

Love that you got to a good place with your mother in law! so many people don't get the happy resolve but this is beautiful man.

[@mabotsechoshane]

Black tax has been a huge component of our marriage. Blessed to have found harmony (with a bit of turbulence) in how we support our families, though things may change if kids enter the picture. The biggest lesson is communication with eachother and unity and how we communicate to families. Thanks for the chat guys 🫶🏽

[@yolisalisanqari]

Before I watch I like❤️❤️then I can watch and listen🤗 love you guyssss😅

[@The_Dream_Space]

You are real one Yolisa! Thank you 🩷

[@yolisalisanqari]

I needed to hear this mna ❤️ A Zulu name.. 😂😂It's emhlabeni ezulwini for me🤣🤣 It's a conversation we need to have as couples Haysana yhoo💗 IT MUST BE A BLESSING NOT A BURDEN 🙌🙌

[@The_Dream_Space]

`Definitely it has to be an honest open conversation with couples so no one gets left behind or feels bull-dozed

[@yolisalisanqari]

Definitely Xhosas do that in fact the communities used to do that a lot it's m the now generation that's moving away from that but just a bit drifting away from that culture. Overall we Xhosas have that community togetherness 😜

[@yolisalisanqari]

The unspoken rule.. You greet brooo, I literally greet with a smile.. Some says in xhosa"eweke""molweni" Xhosa 2k "molweni guysss" 😂

[@eugenephasha6750]

It's a song about the Judgment Day queue at the Pearly Gates, perhaps?

[@The_Dream_Space]

You could be on to something!!

[@BetterHusbands]

You waiting for your name to be called back home. You have your briefcase going to the city. Your body is shaking in disbelief coz you Never! Never! Worked before 🤣🤣🤣You guys are funny,